I want to Compete in BJJ But I’m Overweight and Ashamed

Does your physical appearance bother you at all when you're doing Brazilian Jiu-jitsu, either in the gym or in competition?
Our friend, who wished to remain nameless, is having this issue. He isn't comfortable with his physical appearance right now and it's getting in his way with competing.
He says that he's lost over 50lbs since starting BJJ. But he still isn't comfortable. And he's wanting to compete in bigger BJJ tournaments. But the big tournaments don't allow people to wear rash guards or t shirts under their gi.
In this video I share experiences from my childhood when I was a fat chubby kid who had man boobs. And I had little to no confidence. My insecurity was so bad at one point that I developed a stutter.
I was in the same boat as Bob in regards to being overweight abd ashamed of my physical appearance.
Then I started wrestling, eating better food and lifting more effectively. By the time I got into BJJ. I was a successful wrestler and even had abdominal muscles showing. But. . . I still felt awkward with my shirt off in front of people.
So in the video I try to share how I overcame my awkward, insecure feelings with my clothing off and hopefully it will help Bob on his desire to compete at bigger BJJ competitions and BJJ tournaments.
Thanks!
-Chewy
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[@papabear328]

many of you will never know how much this video means to some of us. a genuine thank you Chewy.

[@LucasKingPiano]

Hope he goes and wins gold and overcomes this all in the same day. I'm rooting for him.

[@bpjvideo]

Didn't expect to see you here haha. Love your music!

[@faisal1814]

you are seriously one of my favorite youtubers

[@Chewjitsu]

Glad to hear it! Thanks. :)

[@the_real_ch3]

"I used to run laps for fun" Dude what is wrong with you

[@Lazerbeam323ci]

Chewjitsu your students are lucky to have you as a coach. And thank you for being an awesome contributor on KZbin

[@Chewjitsu]

And I'm lucky to have them. They're super cool students!

[@TWRX_Chuck]

I legit used to hate playing shirts vs. skins as a kid. Coaches always made it a thing and I desperately pleaded to be put on the shirts team. Still scarred from that experience.

[@TheDrewManGroup]

I feel you on that brother

[@joshc007]

I know the feels.... Soccer ruined that for me

[@prometheusprometheus3747]

I’m feeling it at this moment. Lucky though, my coach realized my issue always crossing my arms. From them he made me shirts.

[@JChamps211]

My high school gym teach was sus, he always had the chubby kids skins, I think he has a fetish 😂

[@joeschmoe9154]

It's really crazy that someone who has the guts to train BJJ AND compete has to go through this type of inner struggle because of his body type. Thanks for sharing your story Chewy, it was amazing.

[@ethanspencer1691]

'Some serious hooters' Chewie 2017

[@Chewjitsu]

Haha.

[@nathanr5629]

When I started BJJ, I weighed 270 pounds. I was 6 feet tall at 16, so I was pretty big. I was very embarrassed when my shirt would come up for anything, so no one saw me without a shirt for months. I started training BJJ, and fell in love. I started doing the workouts with some of the other teenagers who were in great shape, and was insanely sore. But I kept at it. And now, at 245 pounds while training for 10 months, I changed shirts in the middle of the living room with family around for the first time in over a year. It was awesome. My goal for 2019, get down to 225 pounds. I've started working out on my own, and now I have very noticeable triceps and deltoids. But, I'm just warming up. With all the support that I have been getting from my coach and teammates, it really pushes me to train harder. And guess what? I'm testing for my second white belt stripe tomorrow! I'm so scared.

[@Ivanofkoshinkaisokanryu]

am a big guy I use to way 400 but now am at 300 I wanted to be good at martial arts so yeah that's what made me lose weight training is more important then how you look

[@kestermyronsoldmcmanager1273]

the new phat dragon how’s your progress?

[@juulfiend2103]

Chuck Jones he stopped

[@timblizzard4226]

Chewy you are a legitimately rad dude man, I dont think guys talk about body issues enough. I'm 6'1 and 105kgs (230lbs), pretty muscular but a bit chubby (I surf 3 to 5 times a week so im in decent shape). I get shit from family members, especially growing up, about being fat, especially when I used to be 30 pounds heavier. I don't think they know how much it can fuck with you. I NEVER show my body to other people, even though I know its not that bad. Worse thing is, some of those family members are not exactly skinny. Hearing this means a lot coming from someone most of us want to be - your a bad motherfucker, Black belt and MMA fighter, with an awesome body, and even you have issues with body image. Thanks for the honesty, its appreciated.

[@ToolFan68]

I have watched and downloaded at least 100 of your videos and this one was one of the most important and beautiful of them all. This one was about empathy and vision along with acceptance. Thank you for this amazing video and for all you do man.

[@Chewjitsu]

I appreciate your kind comments as well, and I'm glad the videos have been useful or at least entertaining to you in some way. Thanks again for your kind words.

[@michaelm8138]

I hope you feel beautiful because all women are.

[@huh4963]

As someone who is overweight (woman) in jiu jitsu, it is very overwhelming at first but once you do it more; it’s amazing. Don’t let your weight hold you back, instead, you it to your advantage 😊

[@coleharless2018]

Have experienced the same situation except being "skinny" but I started taking jiu jitsu and mma and feel more confident every single day. Love the vids chewy your students are lucky to have you!

[@jamesmcgrath849]

Chewy, man, you just made my day. Thanks for the inspiring and informative videos. I was sharing Bob's feelings at the beginning and feel much better remembering that I'm a different, better and more healthy person. Thanks so much for every small detail I've picked up, they've all helped me improve myself or my game. -Jay

[@brianbouchard1899]

Can you tell me this story again, but slower and in a more sultry voice?

[@Chewjitsu]

Haha. You're avatar made me read this in the voice of Quagmire.

[@michaelcarey396]

gigity

[@errcoche]

One of the things I have enjoyed about jiu-jitsu is the non judgement and acceptance of whoever shows up at the dojo. I wouldn't stay at a place where it wasn't that way. It doesn't matter and we all know that whatever shape you are in, if you keep coming it's going to improve. It feels good to work with guys and help them get into shape. As for competition, looking a little soft is likely to make opponents underestimate you.

[@HotrunVideo]

Just wanted to say thanks for posting this video buddy. I started mma training exactly a year ago now and it took real balls to step in there with all those healthy people when I was in real bad shape myself. They've all been great about it - those people respect the effort we put in, our attitude to training, and they've all seen the transformation I've gone through over the past 12 months. It's truly the best thing I ever did, and even when I could barely walk down the stairs in the morning full of bruises, I don't regret a second of it. If you're still thinking about it, don't. Just do it. Step through the door. Someday you'll wonder why u waited for so long. Thanks again buddy, you're an inspirational dude.

[@MichaelShulski]

I started bjj 3 years ago and I'm a blue belt now. I lost a ton of weight, but gained much of it back as a result of some time off and quitting smoking. For me, the big thing is just showing up. I'll get back down in time. I have faith, and it's based on experience now.

[@tye3ow]

I love your videos, you're always so confident in talking about the things that make you uncomfortable. this is one of those areas where jits principles apply to life: make yourself uncomfortable to get comfortable. like learning a new position, or new escape, or simply unlearning old bad habits.

[@matthewspencer1077]

You're the man chew, keep it up. You have no idea who you're helping.

[@michaelm8138]

I hope you feel beautiful because all women are.

[@derekcraig525]

I am now a subscriber after this one chewy.

[@wishing1513]

Wow. I've gone through similar pain. Except I was extremely unlucky and got assaulted by groups 5 times in my youth. I was a good kid and it destroyed me. I'm 35 now and still get flashbacks of the glee in their eyes as they stamped on my face. One time it was in the middle of a busy road and the cars drove around us on the pavement while I lay bloodied for about 10 min. Only once did someone stop to help. I was 13, there were 7 of them and ages 16+. I didn't have a cigarette for them.

[@jtpowerlifting8452]

Happy to see this video. I’m currently 331lbs and started BJJ three weeks ago. It’s definitely a workout but I enjoy it. So far I suck at rolling but happy that I’m getting side control, mount, and 1 time so far an Americana. Little by little I’m getting there.

[@JBrooksNYS]

I had man boobs from the time I was 13. Taking my shirt off in front of people was the worst thing that could possibly happen to me. I lost a ton of weight and they were still there. It was glandular tissue, not fat. It was on my mind every second of the day. So when I was 25, I got surgery and had them removed. BEST $8000 I EVER SPENT... but there still get a hint of that feeling taking my shirt off around people.

[@james1311na]

Surgery? That's sad. Painful.

[@damien3959]

@@james1311na it's surgery to remove something tissue in your chest that can't be lost any other way. U have a anime pfp don't talk weirdo.

[@gregjennings9442]

I’m a slim framed guy, but during child raising years, I’d gained quite a bit of weight. When the kids graduated, I started BJJ. I looked like a snake that had swallowed a beach ball. And I didn’t have the strength or endurance that I’d always taken for granted. So, I got on My Fitness Pal. I ate better. I hit the elliptical at the Y in addition to BJJ. Yadda. But, my point here is that I *kept* at it. For many months. Brother, it takes time! As long as you are on a good trajectory, you are doing great and have *every* right to feel great about yourself. Go compete and have fun.

[@french.pineapple.express3871]

I love my 40 yo pudge when squashing a littler player that is doing the quick spin stuff...lol...All kidding aside, it's BJJ, we don't care who rolls as long as the mindset is right....Great vid Chewy!!!

[@richardlancelot3829]

This is so relatable to me. I'm not in bad shape or even slightly fat, but rather pretty skinny... But I have the exact same fear, of people judging me, looking at me funny or thinking about my appearance. It's all mental, I want to have a better body than I do, but for the longest time I've been super-insecure about it. Especially my small arms, to the point where I almost NEVER ever wear a T-shirt or go to the beach/pool or anywhere where people can see and judge my body. Whenever I'm in the changing room, I change super-fast. This had probably helped make me a more insecure person as a whole, and I hate that.

[@pegasusofdark3768]

As always great topic and great video. I am also not where I want to be with my physical looks but the last tournament when I was told I can't wear rash guard I just took of my gi, my rash guard in front of everyone and I put gi back on. I wasn't ashamed doing it but I wasn't comfortable either. I just wanted to do the tournament and I didn't want to have that obstacle jeopardize that. Now, I only role without rash guard or a shirt. Gi only. F*uck looks, get the hooks ;)

[@UnAppropriately]

Wow, thank, I really need this. I went from weighing 400 lbs in January 2018 to 305 lbs present day 2019. I started doing Krav Maga two months ago and have now been doing Jiu-Jitsu for 3 weeks now. Though I don't have a problem with my self image in classes, I do have that fat brain mind set out in the world. And hearing this made me realize that and I am going to do something out of my comfort zone this week.

[@nolanorvold4442]

I personally train in judo just started recently was a choice between bjj and judo went with judo because I love the throws and quick pace but there is not a lot of content on judo vs bjj on KZbin. That being said I love your channel I love your outlook and just love listening to you talk. I've always had weight and confidence issues self doubts and I can honestly say you make me personally feel at ease and just happy to be in the dojo. People don't judge on the mat it's a community i am glad there are people out there like you Chewie willing to share their stories to the world.

[@NotAJoke-op4ye]

Lost 35 + pounds from doing wrestling and now weigh 180.

[@TomPark1986]

I started today(after a past attempt a couple years ago) and I weigh 260....about 80 pounds overweight. I was seeing stars by the middle of the warmup and had zero strength when it came to resistance drilling. Any advice for mitigating the "I think I might just die in a bit" feeling peppered throughout the duration of the class?

[@justinl6057]

Amen! That was a great video. I have had the same concerns myself. You get over it once you realize no one else cares.

[@midlifebeast9541]

Jesus that story about getting shamed as a teenager. That... hits home.

[@Muipha]

hahaha Bob... classic reference.

[@Chewjitsu]

It's becoming a thing for the people who don't want to release their name. I suppose I need to come up with a female counter part to Bob. Any suggestions?

[@Muipha]

meh you can't assume gender anymore without hurting someones feelings... call everyone who has boobs "Bob" from now on. The fight club reference knows no gender lol.

[@DocLeon77]

Chewjitsu You can go with "Bobbi" 🤔

[@ch0rkie]

Bobalina works

[@TFWS6]

"His name is Robert Paulson."

[@damien3959]

Very true, just do it!

[@lmjr0419]

great video, brotha....this is going to help a lot of people...respect!

[@austink4596]

i've been bodybuilding for about 5 years now, and from personal experience, as a fit person if I see an overweight person working out in the gym I have more respect for that person than for another already fit person. There's no shame in being overweight and trying to better yourself, in fact it's the opposite. Most people who are in great shape know what it takes to get there and respect anyone walking down that road. The only people who would criticize you for your weight are assholes who's opinions shouldn't even matter to well adjusted adults. Keep getting it man, fitness is a journey and we all start somewhere.

[@bjjjudo7415]

This was a great video on so many levels. Thanks for posting it.

[@rastakind3]

Chewie, just had my first training in bjj after YEARS away from wrestling (wrestled from the time I was 8 years old until high school and also did freestyle and Greco Roman), have ALWAYS been a heavyweight (still am), am 42, 320 lbs., and can't BELIEVE I waited so long to get back on the mats (because of my insecurities). Thank you coach for giving me the courage to get back out there and learn an art I've been wanting to for a long time (but was afraid too because of my weight and serious man boobs...). Your KZbin channel is amazing....thanks again, sir...!

[@kaboomcanuck2]

Very good advice... I have a port wine stain on my right arm (right arm all the way up to chest is dark red\purple). I was very self conscious about this due to bullying and what not throughout school. In my adulthood it took a lot of effort but I said f*** it, don't care what people think, wont affect my life. Used to also wear long sleeve shirts and similar things this video is saying about chubby people. Now life is much more enjoyable to just wear what I want, and do what I want - knowing that I can't do anything about it and that it doesn't matter what others think.

[@eggr1ce374]

Chewy you’re the best! I swear all of these videos are made just for me. Thanks for all the awesome advice.

[@TheThomEmpire]

@Chewjitsu absolutely feel this one... As a 40+ year old and overweight, I can't bring myself to do NoGi on how I look in a rash guard. I have a massive spare tyre around my gut and moobs (Man Boobs) and zero cardio. As a zero stripe white belt, I know it's going to take time and I'm trying to get there, but it'll take time

[@tribunation]

"Some serious hooters" lol

[@ronhali3164]

I'm a skinny guy, been skinny all my life, been made self conscious from all the heavy set ppl in my young life , always thought I didn't weigh enough. Went to prison at 17, scared to take my shirt off because "I'm too skinny" well guess what nobody cared. Why, because right off the bat, you'll find yourself getting told by a guard to strip down , and squat and cough, 😳 at some point you have to shower with 100 ppl and at some point you'll realize that I'm skinny, he's 300 lbs, he's chubby, he's buff, and so on and so forth, I realize that it's all in my head. I when I got out I didn't have that bird chest anymore , and nobody cared lol spent a lot of time not being skinny and nobody cared lol it didn't make me any more money than being skinny did. I got my wife and she never married me because of my "size" or "weight" it was my confidence. So bro I'm still skinny, but will take my shirt faster than someone more muscles. I've got buddies who of 300 plus pounds and will easy take their shirt like there Mr. Olympic lol. So go win your tournament, and when you do, peel that shirt off and flex on em, cause they have no idea how far you came 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿

[@ronhali3164]

@chewy bro your "rambles" are philosophical medicine keep the rambles and continue to break chains off ppl 💪🏿💪🏿

[@daltondavis6481]

I’m obviously late to the party. But I was on the other end of the spectrum. I remember asking a family member what was wrong with my chest and they replied, “ It’s called fuckin skinny syndrome. You need to eat more.” I didn’t take my shirt off EVER after that. Now I have a nice little belly forming. Lol. Never thought I’d see the day.

[@chrisadmaley]

Shouldn't the answer be to lose weight? If you are ashamed of being fat...lose some weight! Get in shape you will grow plenty of confidence.

[@Th3tank79]

Its extremely frustrating going through body transformation. I am just getting back into training and getting back into shape after a long hiatus. When I was training and competing/fighting was a heavyweight (always been a bigger guy). But going from working 10hrs a day then training at night to a desk job and no longer training i blew up fast, and its such a long journey getting it back off, I had to order a whole new gi because my old one no longer fit to well. It is a bit embarrassing showing up fat and out of shape and getting overwhelmed by younger lower belts because you wind out or dont move as fast as you once did. But hopefully this individual stuck with it, went to tournaments and got past their thoughts of self doubt. First day back i was tired, worn out and had to ring out my shirt but I hadn't smiled like that in a long time, felt like coming back home after a long time away.

[@kurtmschmitz]

This was so real. Hell yeah. This is why bjj is the best. No one cares your weight, your belt, nothing. Everyone is accepted.

[@Epilepticchefproductions]

My man boobs os connected to the way my chest grew. No matter what cant get rid of them. I wouldn't even go swimming. But... I had to realise that the criticism was in my head. I jad no idea what others really thought. You're right, its a shift in mind set.

[@businessmanph]

I was 170 and gained freshman 15. My bros said you are fat look at your stomach. I told him I just ate. He said no. You are fat. Started eating less and working out

[@edstrickland8148]

Man, thanks so much for this. I've been really self conscious about doing no-gi but F that and I'm gonna do it.

[@matthewbennett1972]

Man you are speaking to my soul. I have a question I have an umbilical hernia should I start BJJ I need to do something but I feel limited by this injury

[@valizeth4073]

When I was a teenager, just gone through puberty, i developed gynocomestia (man-boobs) that u can get even if you're not fat. I started to wear hoodies all the time, these tight "rashguard" shirts underneeth and so on. I developed a hate for summers cause then I couldn't go outside with a hoodie on me, never went to swimming or anything. Luckily the visibilty of it decreased alot when my cheast muscles started to grow cause of martial arts and exercising at the gym. It took me 6 whole years to get ridd of gynocomestia, man it was a hell. Even though it's gone, I still have a fear deep down of taking of my shirts and shit infront of people, the human mind is weird.

[@Coldkill2001]

Man, thanks for this. I needed to hear this shit. I've been considering martial arts training for years, but I've never been confident with my weight

[@Tyius420]

do you think there is a weight limit to learning bjj im about 380 pounds and 6'1

[@BlackNoobie420]

Thanks this video truly helped me not care what people think of me.

[@j0hncast33l]

i wish i could like this video 100 times....i've lost over 100lbs and still dealing with the mental hurdles.

[@kar3n35]

Maybe his goal should be to get in shape before he competes. Right? Walk before u run.

[@ar12.]

I’m skinny with man boobs (not big) but martial arts is we’re it’s at keeps you fit and you gotta be more confident with it no ones judging trust me.

[@Bryanpeacock33]

Hated taking my shirt off even when I'd go swimming and wearing a shirt in the pool isn't much better

[@cerebraldatajack4994]

Cardio hardio, jujitsu is not enough exercise alone for a body transformation.

[@antischocken4735]

Fluffiest 😂

[@shaddynogames9675]

Hi if any of you are experienced in martial arts could you give me tips on my sparring sessions on my channel I'm in the black top thanks

[@darylfields]

Hey chewjiujitsu I'm a big guy who had to do intense cancer treatment what martial art should I try

[@JeffreyDavisChristianAuthor]

You seem like such a chill guy. It blows my mind that anyone would even want to hurt you.

[@fabianrudde1331]

i mean i think a lot of people have this even i have cuz im 5 foot 11 and 167 lbs and even i dont really like my body especially my middle section

[@kestermyronsoldmcmanager1273]

6 dislikes over what???

[@kar3n35]

Yeah you have to overcome that shame cuz others won't care. Its a mental thing just doit.

[@ghostrot]

Im looking to start i'm very fat how about nogi cant wear the tight rash guard

[@newgamer85]

That's like my early life story and to this day when ever I sit on a couch I hug a cushion to cover up. How shit messes with even a bad ass like you.

[@Chewjitsu]

I remember hugging the cushions too!

[@spardog1555]

I wonder if there was a guy named bob that asked a bob question

[@MaharlikaAWA]

Remember guys. Martial arts are not about being a model or looking sexy. It is about being healthy, long life, and effective in combat or competition. Now having perfect abs. Abs don't win a fight. Skills do.

[@ProjeKtWEREWOLF]

Thanks for this Chewy. I think I needed to hear this too.

[@arifreyr2677]

Thank you so much for this Chewie.

[@oscarmendozaiii6769]

why tf did you call them hooters?!?!

[@fgregso2]

Thank you sir. I needed to hear this.

[@benjiboi6669]

dang i didnt know your life story of getting into bjj

[@christopherhernandez3909]

Didn't Elliot Hulse just make a video about man boobs?

[@Chewjitsu]

He might have. I just received the question and figured it would be worth sharing my experiences as a former fat guy who struggle with releasing the fat guy identity in my mind.

[@prybarknives]

Use it as a weapon, dude. When chunkier guys who are better than me (which is most of them) get on top of me, they crush! It can be seriously hard to breathe, when they use their weight and pressure right. Just go for it!

[@PeartSkirtAndSpunky]

Straight up - overweight (lost a ton but still more to loose) short white belt at 5.4 227 # … No Gi is my internal battle- Super self-conscious! It can be distracting for me - but I suck it up and put on the rash guard and spats - Every day I’m in there I have anxiety over my stupid appearance- but the plan is to keep showing up till I don’t care anymore- Piece by piece it gets easier 🤷‍♀️ But I’m a baby white belt 3 weeks in… Honest first day in spats was the hardest day yet- almost walked out and drove home - almost… But when I’m rolling I don’t even think about it- Looking forward to that moment when I no longer have anxiety over my appearance… until then I’m gonna keep showing up👊 Thanks for this video 🙌

[@PeartSkirtAndSpunky]

This among other things is why I decided to get into jiu jitsu -

[@sueetennant4038]

Have you seen the bullies recently?

[@ryanmartin4143]

I love this guy.

[@androthsatyr]

I have the same issue. Even though I started dropping weight a lot I'm still pretty fat (about 27-28% bfat @ 220-230 pounds) and even in training I wear rashguard under my gi, I just feel very awkward without it... Thanks for the video Chewy, great mindset and things to consider.

[@LeeJCander]

I went from 294lbs to 196lbs. I’m probably up to 220lbs at the moment as I’m a bit older. I was overweight for most of my life up until I was 20. The long term effects take ages to shake off as Chewie says here. But embrace it. Because by the time it takes you to get out of that shroud of anxiety you will be somebody that other people want to be, other people look up to. I started with kickboxing and now I typically train Muay Thai and my body still isn’t where I want it but, it works! I’m new into my BJJ journey and in my experience the guys are some of the most nurturing people I’ve met. Just. Keep. Going.

[@slax4884]

Thanks for thisb

[@Jo-ym6id]

Kindness. Thanks

[@unclejunobodylikesju422]

Hey chew they call me JU anyways thanks for letting us into your life via KZbin THANKS FOR ALL THE KNOWLEDGE

[@treefitty6612]

I’ve been going through this since I stopped soccer in my freshman year, I graduated in 21 and am 19 I went from 260 down to 225 and hit a plateau and the bad thoughts came in, I still have those thoughts constantly and it’s hard, I’m addicted to food and I’m trying my best. thank you for all the advice my goal is 190 after 7 months slowly but surely. Wish me luck and again thank you

[@nickbarrera3918]

Thank you for this. I dealt with man boobs when I was younger....shit sucks. Great video!

[@adrianaperezz3351]

Dude it sucks because for girls especially in middle school you gain weight and stuff (especially around your stomach and thighs) and it’s suuupperrr uncomfortable at nogi😂😂

[@ygnir1]

I had a competition 3 weeks ago and I was getting ready with my rashguard under my gi. I then got told that I had to lose the rashguard.... I started panicking because of my weight and moobs and nearly didn't compete. I was really anxious until the match started but when it did all the thoughts about how I looked went out of my head! But then after it I covered up again 😂

[@fnotlive5322]

Moobs 😂😂😂😂😂

[@bakedbeard4203]

Love this channel

[@trxscreed]

My Austin Powers hairy chest..... I learned to own it like Mike Meyers. Yeah baaby!

[@benclay4623]

Very awesome advice chewy.

[@TheMilford]

Bigger guy that has lost almost 60lbs here. Firstly, you are not alone. Secondly, I started intermittent fasting which triggers autophagy, which helps tighten the flab while losing weight. between Keto or Low Carb and intermittent fasting you will slim down and lose flab... not to mention it helps with energy while training.

[@vaterpolistzg]

We have in a our gym chubby 295 pounds heavy badass black belt. Trust me, nobody is making fun of him.

[@isiwiw8169]

4:20 most relatable thing I’ve heard I’ve lost over 45+lbs now around 182lbs and I’ve been bullied for my appearance for a long time and cause of that I’ve been still insecure and probably will still be for a long time hopefully I will be able overcome I’m currently 16 and want to gain that confidence