The absolute obsession of being admired on Instagram is a social contagion
@katjay31252 ай бұрын
Yup
@deealex14022 ай бұрын
and ofcourse these things come with warnings and risks , they are mentioned everywhere and people are singing a paper accepting these risks. instead of working out and eating right ,people do this , knowing the risks and then they play victims.
@Obez452 ай бұрын
Influenzas
@nameundefinedname53072 ай бұрын
it's wild
@francinejones25242 ай бұрын
Right?! I never go on social media. I don’t care about it.
@anjaxtv2 ай бұрын
"Ending my own life".... the chick needs theraphy, not plastic surgery
@fionaentrepr1012Ай бұрын
Agreed
@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ijАй бұрын
Absolutely Low self esteem
@amo2464Ай бұрын
And thats why this surgeon is so reprehensible. He should have had a duty of care to assess her mental wellbeing.
@lioness05Ай бұрын
well said
@Porch.monkey.slayerАй бұрын
Pathetic
@beautyconsultant72282 ай бұрын
She should’ve run when the doctor told her she needs a mommy makeover. She doesn’t even have kids! Major red flag!🚩
@FF-by6ci2 ай бұрын
No one actually needs a plastic surgery called mummy makeover.
@suzannehill21112 ай бұрын
@@beautyconsultant7228 Mummy makeover alright! Wrapped up in bandages with necrosis flesh underneath.
@LucieneCurtis2 ай бұрын
She put herself there
@susiex66692 ай бұрын
@@LucieneCurtisExactly. She should have just gone to the gym. Always looking for the easy way out.
@snsn72512 ай бұрын
Shows how mentally vulnerable she is. Needs serious help
@Solofemaletravelexplorer2 ай бұрын
I contacted a Turkish surgeon for an upper eye lift, he got back to me saying I need a total facial rejuvenation costing £20 000, including a rhinoplasty, face lift, and other procedures. I immediately deleted his number and have not thought about surgery since.
@EagerElectricCar-de1ss2 ай бұрын
Hahahhaaa good decision!
@missqt482 ай бұрын
That’s actually scary! Talk about prey on the vulnerable 😔 I’m glad you didn’t go through with it!
@rebeccamezzich3102 ай бұрын
That's scary - imagine if you did all of it :(
@Solofemaletravelexplorer2 ай бұрын
@@rebeccamezzich310 Frankenstein comes to mind 😂
@beautybliss71272 ай бұрын
Why not contact a board certified plastic surgeon where you live? Why is Turkey your only option? Here’s my situation: I will eventually need to do an upper eyelid surgery, but it has nothing to do with cosmetic reasons but purely functional. As I am aging my hooded lid is drooping and will eventually obstruct my vision. This is a hereditary from my dad who is 88 year old and already has so much excess skin over his eyelids that it is severely obstructing his field of vision. However, due to his age and health, eyelid surgery is no longer an option for him. I on the other hand still have that option available to me. If I do go forward, I am willing to pay top dollar for a top rated surgeon. I will cheap out on my clothes, makeup, other aspects of my lifestyle, but never risk my health and life to some unknown butcher in a foreign country to save some money. Plastic surgery does have it’s place, but it is still SURGERY and should not ever be taken lightly. Plastic surgery has helped so many people reclaim their lives after a mastectomy, burns, accidents, skin cancer, etc. Do your due diligence, consult a board certified professional, get a second opinion and ask questions. Stay well, stay healthy. ❤
@AndrewJohnWard2 ай бұрын
These surgeons are feeding off people's insecurities
@Giantfloatingballoonhead2 ай бұрын
Yes, they are.
@peaceofmindofpeace16502 ай бұрын
Yes. I walked into a beauty center when I was 45. I look younger and hardly any wrinkles. I walked in to ask if they had a laser procedure to erase a scar line in my neck ( from a trauma) The ' doctor' said: we don't do that bit you need botox ( my forehead, chin etc, I don't have any lines there) he was saying this in an a disrespectful way. Demeaning. In the hall way not even ijln private room I told him I look very good for 45 and I am not 25 anymore. Byeeee
@mualeoarani245Ай бұрын
👍@@peaceofmindofpeace1650
@karinamaissin7890Ай бұрын
victim mentality blaming them. She has a brain(maybe) her bad choice led to this
@NaturallyGifted77Ай бұрын
Yup!
@ABS-oh8jt2 ай бұрын
A mummy makeover for a 20 year old with no kids? Omg are people crazy, what 20 yr old needs their boobs lifted ? ! Im 35 with 3 kids and i wouldnt even do this ... then again im not on SM either, if its brain washing girls like this then advertising for plastic surgery needs to be banned.
@irinaeirene52Ай бұрын
20 years old in some countries look like 40,50 years old in other countries.. because of lifestyle.
@yuzon0224Ай бұрын
Shes insecure like most women these days who do surgeries . Me my face n body not perfect n those r expensive im 40 plus mom
@yuzon0224Ай бұрын
@@irinaeirene52coz they smoke, drink do drugs eat junk n genes
@kiiikaaaaaaaaaa7099Ай бұрын
@@irinaeirene52there is no way a 20 year old can look 40 or 50 unless they have some kind of aging disorder
@NYCSubwayWorkerАй бұрын
They do it cos they want attention from men, and they want to feel superior to other women
@marymutyaba63222 ай бұрын
I was petrified having a c section. No way could I go for cosmetic surgery. Love yourself girls
@sammym92592 ай бұрын
Same here. Was my first time as a patient too. I waited till last minute. And opted to be awake. I can NEVER put my LIFE in man
@NaturallyGifted77Ай бұрын
Right
@RobertaFierro-mc1ubАй бұрын
If a girl has a loving relationship with her own Mom, she'll probably thrive as a young lady. She needs to focus on other traits instead of how her rear looks from behind! Real self esteem comes from within.
@deidradahl2802Ай бұрын
I could do with a little more bum, I just wear a tight-fitting pair of shorts, under my jeans.
@goodasgoingАй бұрын
I just got two additional ear piercings. I haven't pierced anything since my original childhood earlobes over decades ago. They are so sore and anything touching them hurts. I will never pierce anything again. I don't know how people have so many piercings. I don't want any sharp objects near my body at all!
@m.haslam84952 ай бұрын
She doesn't need any cosmetic surgery like a ' mummy makeover '. She needed a mental makeover. She's got very low self esteem. She's quite pretty and doesn't need to please the world on social media. 20 years old !!!. I think the people around her never told her she's pretty. Indirectly, social media is a killer. She's not the first one to go to Turkey and have botched procedures, she certainly won't be the last either. This is sad it could easily be avoided.
@list2832 ай бұрын
When being pretty is all you are there is never going to be enough. She doesn't need to be said she is pretty, she needs to find her value in other parts of herself. What you can do, what you can achieve is a better thing to pursue than looks.
@maryc41522 ай бұрын
@@list283yes! You are so right!
@fritzdeucesАй бұрын
@@list283 It's true. But she suffers from low self esteem. 1 person telling her she's pretty isn't enough.. she needed to hear it from the entire universe.
@tjr-007tt2 ай бұрын
She needed a therapist a lot more than a surgeon.
@user-st6nt4ou6fАй бұрын
Ok ? Something is wrong with these people😮😮
@tetehl4731Ай бұрын
Yep 😏
@tigerlily57992 ай бұрын
Wrinkles have never been sooo beautiful these days!!! These pumped up lips, fake lashes with a frozen botoxed up faces etc etc scare me... We are all different and why do we all want to look the same?! It's a wake up call
@nikkimclay54742 ай бұрын
Yes & she’s still doing all that to herself despite her experience & promoting this look to other young girls, is she truly sorry ?
@Lisalisag20232 ай бұрын
Agreed saw an article about Keane Reeves wife today she’s absolutely stunning but I think part of that is she’s one of the only real people you see in Hollywood don’t get me wrong without all these fake faces and bodies she’s still be a beautiful woman but it’s like you can’t stop staring at
@tigerlily57992 ай бұрын
@@Lisalisag2023 I used to love Sandra Bullock. Omg, she has totally messed up her face 😓...
@rosydantecox7582 ай бұрын
@@nikkimclay5474 She has a double chin and looks around 35, my son is 19 yrs old and looks like a kid lol
@sandisteko90672 ай бұрын
Sorry ,but not sorry.
@aldorado1232 ай бұрын
"There's more to life than being pretty" - Isabella. I'm so glad she's sharing her wisdom and seeking help for her body dysmorphia.
@uknowamsayingАй бұрын
She had to almost get herself killed to learn that simple wisdom!
@happyhermit3141Ай бұрын
There's also more to being beautiful than just looks.
@aldorado123Ай бұрын
@@happyhermit3141 yes!!
@inerit51752 ай бұрын
same old story : "I was naive" , " I was NOT told of risks" "It's the social media's fault" They are NOT taking responsibility! As LOADS more pack their bags and OFF they go!!!
@samdasilva19142 ай бұрын
I agree "it´s social media´s fault", would they set themselves on fire if social media told them to do it?
@Moiratiki2 ай бұрын
Remember how everyone and their little dog joined the " ice bucket challenge" most people will do anything to belong. At least that one started out for charity
@GrimReaper19712 ай бұрын
in a Foreign country...what could go wrong lol
@time4advancement244Ай бұрын
She's a Brit, she can also blame Da Immegwantz
@criticRNАй бұрын
Those “bags of blood” are drains ! Normal after having a ton of procedures. “I was all bruised” - Uhm yes that often happens after liposuction and surgery. And then she got an infection… sucks.
@m.s98192 ай бұрын
How does a 20-year-old have so much money to spend on this? I'm 34 and I don't even have enough for a 1-week trip to my country
@ChimpingBulldog2 ай бұрын
Mummy and daddy, usually.
@sahmedt92 ай бұрын
Don't drink, don't party, eat at home,
@sarahalbers55552 ай бұрын
Good question.
@ClassyGyal2 ай бұрын
These clinics do payment plans now.
@sunnydelight52552 ай бұрын
Payment plan likely
@salmak5862 ай бұрын
Instagram should be banned
@KhanKhan-v4d2e2 ай бұрын
Instagram is huge lie... everyone use filters, people become addicted on wrong perception of body, everyone did some operation...is better that they make someting for brain 🧠
@agegracefully79062 ай бұрын
Why should it be banned not everyone uses it to compare and obsess over beauty. Mental health has been an issue before instagram ever existed and it will be an issue after.
@rania-mr6ki2 ай бұрын
Indeed, lots of sex trafficking in there by instagram models and the law enforcement being behind it
@3tst2 ай бұрын
More like ALL filters from all apps
@ClassyGyal2 ай бұрын
@@agegracefully7906 *mental illness*
@Swansong3212 ай бұрын
Get a hobby..volunteer..STOP looking in the mirror and obsessing over yourselves
@user-ch7hp2oc7w2 ай бұрын
I agree
@jasonglidden19662 ай бұрын
That's very true, but easier said than done for some, she is only human and these type of scumbags will take advantage for money no matter what!
@catherine36842 ай бұрын
She has a mental health issue called Body Dysmorphia, that causes a person to look at themselves and see themselves as too fat, too thin, too unattractive. She is not at fault.
@shirleywong94282 ай бұрын
Amen
@shirleywong94282 ай бұрын
Idle hands are the work of the devil
@chrysalis41262 ай бұрын
She followed influencers on Instagram...says it all plus how many selfies she took. 12 months volunteering in a hospital or hospice and seeing people with real problems might have reset her priorities.
@rabbitsonjupiter68242 ай бұрын
You're absolutely right.
@terriesmith26162 ай бұрын
Bingo!! And now she wants the play the victim, blaming everyone and everything but never herself for the decision sge made. No one forced her to get plastic surgery. It was her own choice. Zero self accountability.
@h.neubert87702 ай бұрын
Its essentially brainwashing.
@Wonderwoman79G2 ай бұрын
💯
@marleyhill342 ай бұрын
They don't know any better. all they have ever known is the internet. I grew up running outside climbing trees watching old westerns and black and white movies and digging in mud and sand and dressing up our dog in baby doll clothes. I got Instagram during the pandemic out of pure boredom and it started to make me feel strange......I just stopped using it and just watched fictional streaming. I don't know how they designed it but I'm certain it does weird things to your brain.I was in therapy at 40 meeting 20 year olds addicted to Instagram....when I get up the first thing I want to do is drink some caffeine...not scroll Instagram or TikTok. I check WhatsApp because my overseas family are on there in case they sent a message in the night...everything else can wait. I'm late diagnosed autistic so I don't know if that makes a difference as to why I'm not severely affected by the images.
@jakkuwolfinsomnia80582 ай бұрын
She’s gorgeous, she didn’t need physical health she needs mental health. She can’t see how beautiful she is 🥺❤ That must’ve been terrifying for her
@xana56492 ай бұрын
Check her without makeup
@michaelaghmalone-hansen56562 ай бұрын
@@xana5649 She's beautiful, inside & out.
@katjay31252 ай бұрын
All fake filter face
@d.t122 ай бұрын
@xana5649 there are photos for her in the video without make up and she is a very beautiful young lady. How can you be so horrible!!
@robertat36502 ай бұрын
@adamsowa5927 what is wrong with you, it's people like you who push girls to go and do surgeries like this. What was the need for your comment, so rude
@PrincessDajanna942 ай бұрын
I’m medical advisor in one of prestigious Turkish clinics . I’m getting requests from patients for this combination of surgeries DAILY especially from girls from England . When I explain that we can’t do all of it together , they still insist and find a place who will accept it and go there . Sometimes they are just shopping around and checking cheapest options for maximum treatments . I’m sorry for this all what is happening , but you also need to understand that there is a mistake in people as well. If you just google about doing bbl tummy tuck 360 lipo and breast lift together, google will tell you is not acceptable . The risk is length of the surgery ( sooo many hours for all of this ) plus how they gonna recover ? After bbl you’re recovering on your stomach and after breast you’re recovering on your back . The fact is that there are bad clinics , but the fact is also that people are not understanding what they are doing and being just budget oriented , trying to save every penny Surgeries are cheaper in Turkey than in UK , so if you’re already going to cheap place , no need to go to the cheapest of the cheapest
@sugarsnap1000Ай бұрын
Excellent comment.
@tulasimainieri975117 күн бұрын
Absolutely. You can't go for cheap surgery as it is extremely unsafe.
@ChosenDeeDee2 ай бұрын
So glad that she made it out alive to tell her story ❤ I pray she heals mentally and emotionally.
@JalikaTunkara2 ай бұрын
Can we go back to shaming 'VANITY' please... this type of shame will literally save lives !!!!
@h.neubert87702 ай бұрын
Or we talk about these things with love. We can heal the shame that causes such things in the first place by practicing self acceptance. More shame, more risk. Less shame, less risk
@tanyarenaissance88292 ай бұрын
The bible does tell us that people will become lovers of thyselves in the last days
@cheetavontiebolt99712 ай бұрын
No i am proud of my vanity go to a good pkastic surgeon
@tanyarenaissance88292 ай бұрын
@@cheetavontiebolt9971 and that's a sin that will cause you to go to hell for
@regularity25562 ай бұрын
We don't need to shame anybody, just encourage love of self no matter how you look
@Снежана-ц2б2 ай бұрын
Girls stop to be obsessed with instagram looks! You are beautiful! I deleted insta for 6 months and I feel happy! I do my life and I enjoy!
@robertcrawford78062 ай бұрын
She’s only 20 years old! Her body still has many years to change and evolve. What she needs is mental and emotional support.
@criticRNАй бұрын
@@robertcrawford7806 she needs to be kept busy so she can stop obsessing over her looks.
@Bing-k8j5 күн бұрын
She looks 40 though needs Botox and weight loss
@SineadMaria2112 ай бұрын
I'm in shock to learn that she had those procedures at the age of 20!!! When I was 20 I was oblivious to all of that shite, it's just blatantly obvious that social media is the root cause of this self hating, self obsession 🤦🏼♀️. The world is a dark place these days
@rabbitsonjupiter68242 ай бұрын
I agree. SM preys on the vulnerable and easily-manipulated. This girl had a very unhealthy obsession with herself. So glad I grew up in a time where people weren't being bombarded with laughably fake photos via social media.
@samdasilva19142 ай бұрын
So no personal responsibility then? Everything is social media´s fault?
@estellecindysackey1682 ай бұрын
Madness
@Bing-k8j5 күн бұрын
She looks 40 😂
@LondonChat2 ай бұрын
If anyone goes abroad for cosmetic surgery and things go wrong and they come home to have botched surgery repaired by the NHS they should be made to pay for the whole cost of the treatment to the NHS 😡
@carolwood99302 ай бұрын
👍👍
@mrsroyle11682 ай бұрын
Agreed!
@clairebeever3038Ай бұрын
Definitely
@kezzokav5905Ай бұрын
Disagree... and for the record I've never had cosmetic surgery. It's a person's prerogative to choose what they want to do with their bodies, and if they have been paying their taxes which funds the NHS, they deserve the care the same way anyone else does.
@LondonChatАй бұрын
@@kezzokav5905 not if they pay to go to another country! Why should the nhs fund it.. different matter if done in the uk.why should the nhs have to pay because people take a risk to get cheaper surgery..if you pay cheap and it’s bodged you should pay to have it fixed it’s not the nhs responsibility!!
@maddie51312 ай бұрын
She’s literally gorgeous I wish surgery at such a young age wasn’t so easily accessible without multiple doctors approval of the procedure and the person’s mental health
@anglophils6452 ай бұрын
It's in another country, what makes you think you can set rules in Turkey? You make no sense.
@maddie51312 ай бұрын
@@anglophils645 it should be the case everywhere for there to be an ethical standard in the industry it’s a medical procedure for which there’s a lot of misinformation at the end of the day
@criticRNАй бұрын
@@maddie5131 another broad brush approach to deal with another’s poor choice and lack of accountability. She’s a competent adult and doesn’t need “approval” for surgeries she is paying for.
@maddie5131Ай бұрын
@@criticRN you are the kind of people who blames people for their psychological issues the issue is people get exploited for their body dysmorphia that pushes them to do extreme things to battle their self worth issues she was very clearly taken advantage of and manipulated here if you can’t see that you’re dumb and yes accountability means to gather all the facts before making a decision which approval from doctors would provide including a mental health evaluation that’s accountability to so the research before making a decision with dangerous consequences accountability doesn’t mean you’re magically going to know all the medical information that professionals can hide if not obligated to disclose like in this situation if someone doesn’t have have the knowledge because its being kept from them or it’s not as acceptable as it should be they are going to make a mistake and overlook a lot of factors because of their mental health
@maddie5131Ай бұрын
@@criticRN you’re the kind of person to blame people for their psychological issue’s accountability means to gather all the facts before making a decision with dangerous consequences which doctors would provide including a mental health evaluation because if information is kept hidden on purpose to exploit people after their body dysmorphia has pushed them to an extreme people are going to make a decision under so much pressure that they are going to overlook a lot of risks accountability doesn’t mean you’re going to magically know all the medical information that is kept from you and is not as accessible as it should be
@BaDazai2 ай бұрын
Why would a 20 year old need a Mummy makeover? Young adult's these days, ditch the makeup and plastic surgery, 1:34, you can see how she's aged herself with those things. 😢
@philosopherlady4342 ай бұрын
People need to stop taking selfies and spending more than 2 mins looking in the mirror and all of this can be avoided. She would be happy with her old body back. So be happy with your body people! You have your health thats more important than what you look like in a photo.
@EthanLomas2 ай бұрын
As terrible as the experience was, she needs to take responsibility for her own decision. How much did it cost the NHS to “fix” her? Did she refund them from her lawsuit?
@h.neubert87702 ай бұрын
People make mistakes. Would you have preferred she died because of hers? She could have. She serves as an example. I feel very warned indeed…
@beewa88402 ай бұрын
What lawsuit?
@clairebeever3038Ай бұрын
@@h.neubert8770😂really
@user-st6nt4ou6fАй бұрын
I have 0 sympathy for her , 0 !
@TradesbyNao2 ай бұрын
She's 20, looks like a 40yr old 😢. Mental health is a big problem these days. Take care of yourselves young ones. 😢. She is also lucky, she returned with her organs. 😢.
@caramelbilquees2 ай бұрын
Yes she looks 40 now same as celebs like Kylie Jenner it's the face filler
@VW777Ай бұрын
I agree. She has aged herself.
@3112isabelАй бұрын
That’s the makeup….
@suziemorgan-stewart91822 күн бұрын
She was 20 when she had the surgery. Obviously a bit older here on this interview.
@mh8162Ай бұрын
People are being so critical of a young person going through a severe mental health crisis where they felt so bad about themselves they underwent major surgery and put their life at risk. But to them that was the answer to feeling better based on the constant stream of social media. It’s so brave of her to come forward and if more was done for young people’s mental health this would happen less. It is a growing problem and young people need support, activities for their age group and education on these growing issues. Thank you to all those who come forward with your stories and raising awareness of these dangers, you are helping more people than you realise.
@shibba24Ай бұрын
Stop making excuses for her. This was her decision, and now she has to deal with the consequences.
@mscrunchy68Ай бұрын
I agree. No-one knows better than her how foolish the surgery was. She has stuck her head above the parapet to try to discourage others from making the same mistake. At twenty she is still a kid in so many ways. I can't imagine what it must be like to have grown up when social media was already entrenched. She deserves compassion in her pain, emotional and physical.
@IssiaDehaney-zy3bh2 ай бұрын
I can’t understand it’s everybody’s fault except yours take responsibility. Make better decisions. This is ridiculous. There has been so many things that have happened at this place and it’s on the news all the time it’s nothing new you listen to the influencers, but you didn’t listen to the news.
@sfernando63522 ай бұрын
Wasting NHS resources for stupid reasons.
@JESUSLOVESYOU2192 ай бұрын
I don’t get it, what about exercise? At 20, your metabolism is still at its top form. I wish cosmetic surgery wasn’t allowed but for burn victims or someone who has suffered some sort of deformity, that way people would have no choice but to accept themselves.
@samdasilva19142 ай бұрын
Yes it amazing isn´t it, there are thousands of fitness and health influencers on social media, why don´t they follow them?
@sarahalbers55552 ай бұрын
@samdasilva191because it's a commitment that doesn't happen overnight.4
@ClassyGyal2 ай бұрын
Surgery for deformities etc is plastic surgery not cosmetic surgery.
@JESUSLOVESYOU2192 ай бұрын
@@ClassyGyal you get my point.
@englishrose67902 ай бұрын
What a vacuous generation we have raised. Volunteer, help at a food bank stop looking in your navel!
@darkhorse746015 күн бұрын
And along with that, perhaps the older generation is a bit self righteous, yes?
@englishrose679015 күн бұрын
@@darkhorse7460 helping others is the kindest thing. Be kind is a much used phrase but if you don’t know what that is how can you be kind. Thanks for judging me btw.
@dorothyhewitt262 ай бұрын
I don’t believe in going abroad for cosmetic surgery then returning back to The UK & expecting the NHS to put things right at the cost of the tax payer, I’m very sad that this young lady had a horrific experience, in my eyes she is beautiful & didn’t need to go under the surgeons knife, I wish her well in her recovery & for sharing her story, hope this will be a lesson to others
@user-st6nt4ou6fАй бұрын
I hope this is a lesson FOR HER! She seems absolutely clueless😮
@tetehl4731Ай бұрын
I couldnt agree more.
@ameliafatface79952 ай бұрын
Let me guess - the NHS had to fix the mess at the cost of the tax payer !
@bunnylover2164Ай бұрын
Yeah, you’re right but she is only a young girl and it’s like they are brainwashed by all the media promoting unrealistic beauty and using filters. It’s beyond disturbing.
@adajeannie2 ай бұрын
She looks much older than 20. Wow
@h.neubert87702 ай бұрын
I took away that she could have died
@user-ui2hw5os3d2 ай бұрын
@@h.neubert8770 she could have but clearly she is still doing shyte to her face. She can barely move it.
@eugeneferguson84802 ай бұрын
Look like 40s
@aiden9716Ай бұрын
@@h.neubert8770exactly - these ‘what she looks like’ comments are the very root of this problem
@Bing-k8j5 күн бұрын
Looks like 45 damn at 20 too
@nobody-uc9yr2 ай бұрын
As a Turkish person unfortunately these incidents happen every day
@Laci-e9q2 ай бұрын
So why you giving permission to scamm foreign women's?What law enforcement doing in Turkey?
@Qurann21Ай бұрын
@@Laci-e9q'mommy makeovers' are dangerous procedures all over the globe dont be naive
@KneelBeforeZod.2 ай бұрын
"Vanity. It's my favourite sin."
@lvi89572 ай бұрын
@@KneelBeforeZod. Jezibells spirit. All over
@moulaye75342 ай бұрын
Charmed?
@jacquelinemartin91242 ай бұрын
The devil’s advocate 😂😂😂
@user-um7tw6kx4r62 ай бұрын
They never accept responsibility for their own thoughts. They always blame social media "images".
@jamiecash69852 ай бұрын
Wow she is beautiful , they need more money into mental health to sort these problems disgraceful
@freddymercury22592 ай бұрын
Mental Health? Maybe the government should stop supporting single mothers and destroying the family unit... then children, women as well as young fatherless men, wouldn't grow up confused...
@cheryl59942 ай бұрын
EACH TO THEIR OWN I GUESS, ALTHOUGH BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER. BUT, TAKE OF ALL THE MAKE-UP AND FALSIES & YOU MIGHT SEE SOMEONE TOTALLY DIFFERENT. . . JUST SAYIN'
@biggerthanhiphop7641Ай бұрын
She had her face done
@jamiecash6985Ай бұрын
@@cheryl5994 it’s people like you is why these girls seek out plastic surgery so sad
@sharonaird47482 ай бұрын
dont feel sorry for these people...! 20yrs old & doing this to yourself ...!! if they have money for surgery abroad then they should be made too pay for having it corrected here..!!!!
@lollybooth70082 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@donnarolfe350Ай бұрын
💯 agree with you
@Liz-sq9pf2 ай бұрын
How sad to be so young and natural and have their body’s change to look old and ugly. How many stories of young people with bad plastic surgery have we seen and they still go ?
@topo71302 ай бұрын
She looks early 30s.. all this desperate quest for the perfect image and the results are the opposite
@h.neubert87702 ай бұрын
It’s really not the point is it though. She could have died and is not the only one, this is a trend
@user-ui2hw5os3d2 ай бұрын
@@h.neubert8770 may not be but she now also cannot move her face so clearly she has done more than just this.
@artsyhyd2 ай бұрын
She looks early 40 sorry 😆 Even my friend who is in her late 30s looks so much younger! 😄
@dianawest80852 ай бұрын
@@artsyhyd oh shut up. she's a beautiful lady and has gorgeous blue eyes. you're just a jealous turd. she's clearly in a bad place for her to have felt the need to get surgery and your comments are the reason why people try to ruin their own lives even though often times there's nothing wrong with how they look.
@Alyciamarie3452 ай бұрын
@@h.neubert8770they need to stop getting surgery. She was not even healthy enough for surgery!!!!
@donnab792 ай бұрын
I cannot understand why a 20 year old wants plastic surgery. At that age, you should be looking the best, especially if she didn't have kids. It's a shame what has happened but I hope this taught her a massive lesson. Unless it's an emergency, please be happy with what you have.
@nikkimclay54742 ай бұрын
Did it teach her ? Notice her frozen, filler, & modified face
@NigelJackson2 ай бұрын
I'm baffled by why a 20 yr old woman needs a 'breast uplift'.
@selinabrooks36292 ай бұрын
I'd rather work my butt off in the gym than get surgery.
@esthellakomerl80842 ай бұрын
People need to focus on the word - SURGERY.. Cutting parts of the body.. 😢
@rabbitsonjupiter68242 ай бұрын
Exactly! Major surgery, at that.
@criticRNАй бұрын
@@esthellakomerl8084 agree 💯 - as an RN, post ops are always bruised up and often have drains. What did she think was going to happen?
@margaretmukasa29982 ай бұрын
I'm getting tired of these horror stories from turkey. You can not hand over your life to overseas doctors you meet on the internet. You can not have surgery in the UK. This means accepting yourself and risking your life for cheap surgeries not worth it. Social media is not reality.
@ilyasVa2 ай бұрын
Mental problems ✌🏼❤️
@freddymercury22592 ай бұрын
More like fatherless problem
@BotanicalAngel2 ай бұрын
Brain 🧠 washed because she has money 💰/ nice jobs
@broncosbest64412 ай бұрын
Definitely.
@ui82492 ай бұрын
Now NHS has to fix it 💪🏻
@ifeyhome2 ай бұрын
All these poor women are getting lured in by Turkish chop shops. All very sad.
@farriee34452 ай бұрын
They go there themselves
@MAC061412 ай бұрын
They not lured…they are vain …
@SultanSully972 ай бұрын
What do you mean lured, she chose to board that flight, she chose to stay at that hotel, she chose to go to that hospital, she chose to see that consultant and finally she chose to get that surgery done. Nothing in that was not chosen. You feel bad for someone who has bad choices!!! It's like telling a kid not to touch a hot stove ffs!!!
@susiex66692 ай бұрын
@@SultanSully97100%. In life you have to take responsibility for your bad choices. The Turkish surgeon didnt kidnap her off the street.
@marchionessamoretto73262 ай бұрын
llured??? I don't think so
@gillstreeter90952 ай бұрын
At 44 years old and three children later all teens i would never do this. These women need mental health assessments before even having aurgery. Social media is to blame. Be the perfect look....... i am ME and I'm happy to be different i would not mutilate my body EVER - for ANYONE.
@cala.5572Ай бұрын
❤❤
@LucyWright-hc9fl17 күн бұрын
Same 44 and 4 kids later I have learnt to love my body I would never risk my life for vanity
@tescoprimark12992 ай бұрын
The ‘me, me, me’ culture
@sueb5702 ай бұрын
I’m sorry this happened to her, but seriously, this is what’s wrong with the word today. When are we going to start being accountable for our own actions and decisions? How dumb must you be to just trustingly take the word of someone online? You’re twenty years old, you can do and be whatever you like yet you choose to be a superficial social media junkie who thinks she needs a “mommy makeover” . I hope your story opens up someone else’s eyes.
@Bobsbud1002 ай бұрын
Not everything is Mental Health. Im sick of young people who are bored and have no direction say they are Mentally ill.
@h.neubert87702 ай бұрын
By the time someone says I will take my life or surgery, those two choices, mental illness is a high probability
@guitarman8132 ай бұрын
It's now used as an excuse too much I think. Without some actually understanding the definition of mental health.
@shekar222Ай бұрын
There are hundreds of such clinics in Turkey. It would’ve been very helpful to provide the name of the clinic/surgeon.
@AbigailBrown-wk7xl2 ай бұрын
It's sad that women dont feel good enough . Social media has a part to play . Its important to practice body positivity. We are all beautiful and unique. I am so sorry what this lady has gone through
@joannaroche23562 ай бұрын
Adults are responsible for their actions. No sympathy. She is saying IG models should take responsibility but has taken no responsibility that she made the choice, as an adult… & blames everybody for her stupidity & tax payer to pick up the bill. This is surgery is common place supported by the NHS. She gets her 5 mins of fame.
@TelmasPodcast2 ай бұрын
It pains me to see a beautiful person lacking confidence 😢she was beautiful as it was and now baring scars for life
@jennapitts83732 ай бұрын
She is a nut. When he said mommy makeover and she has no kids, that should have been a red flag.
@LuzDoSol-yr5bv2 ай бұрын
It's a childhood trauma. We must say to our kids how beautiful they are to validate their emotions. She is a stunning woman before anyway.
@RA-wp6th2 ай бұрын
True, although I also think that going on about looks could make them feel even more self conscious, and concerned with looks.
@LuzDoSol-yr5bv2 ай бұрын
@RA-wp6th True Again !! It's a fine line there. Only recently I learned about attachment theory and the benefits of knowing how our parents raised us. So good to rebuild self steam.
@FF-by6ci2 ай бұрын
That's not the answer, you should tell your kids that what really counts is their character and achievements, everybody gets old and anything can happen to your looks, you need inner strength so you don't focus on external validation and end up putting your life at risk inorder to achieve the beauty standard of society.
@LuzDoSol-yr5bv2 ай бұрын
@FF-by6ci True!!! It's the validation I am trying to express. Beauty is subjective, but for a child and late adults, surely that comes from parenting. She looks amazing this and her mom on that picture. Also, it's a deep root cause, plus social media as well.
@Christopher_J2 ай бұрын
I totally agree. Our primary responsibility to our children is nurturing. Guiding their moral framework and encouraging them to find beauty and fulfilment in altruism as opposed to obsessing over distorted notions of beauty will cut alot of the unnecessary angst they develop. The young lady here is healthy with great potential to achieve the things in life that really matter. The human aesthetic loses its youthfulness other time but good character goes from strength to strength. I hope she finds the peace she needs. @@FF-by6ci
@janepearson58022 ай бұрын
All the work she has had done to her face has aged her .
@jillmo32862 ай бұрын
So brave put out what happened to her , sending u lots of ❤it's something I would've done if possible back in my day , she's so humble could be any if us or family,👍 spoke out that's beautiful
@smokejaguar672 ай бұрын
Shallow like a puddle.
@FF-by6ci2 ай бұрын
She is perfect, this is so sad, she is so young to be all alone getting surgery. Young people need to delete their sm accounts if their mental health is being affected.
@bekind9132 ай бұрын
Yes. I deleted my instagram. Only thing i have is youtube. It helps a lot. I dont know the latest trends and I feel free.
@themalawiandiner1802 ай бұрын
It's who they choose to follow, there many good pages on Instagram.
@destinationwaleswithskylar95752 ай бұрын
She’s needs to sort out her mental health not her physical appearance.
@DawnSolomon-t1f2 ай бұрын
Parents please teach and encourage your children to exercise, eat healthy, go out for walks. It helped me a lot that my father worked out, and it encouraged me to be like him. He was very strong, I grew up getting jobs in fitness at gyms where they allow you to use the gym for free as an employee, Also get a nutritionist if you can. As a woman our body will go through many changes throughout life, and exercise and a healthy habit of eating is very helpful.
@daniellealeksieva832Ай бұрын
🙏she's beautiful on the outside and the inside, so glad she got saved!
@HelyBel2 ай бұрын
Some surgeons make you more insecure when u send them a picture they point things out that u never thought about, but I do genuinely hope she truly recovers from any body dysmorphia, social media is just bee hives of insecurities with extreme filters, photoshop and many celebrities with a lot of surgeries but claim they never had any work done, so so so sad 💔💔. This surgeons take advantage of vulnerable women/men very very heart breaking.
@ChristCM88432 ай бұрын
So sorry, heartbreaking that you had to go through this, physical and emotional pain. Thank you for sharing and inspiring and encourage others. 🤗💕🌸🌸🌸 You looked beautiful as you are wonderfully made …
@Webzterr2 ай бұрын
Brave young lady to share this horrible ordeal. Wish you the best and you are saving others through your bravery ❤
@BokoyoАй бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience, I’ll have to share this my loved ones who are blind by the social media trends!
@AA-hu9pc2 ай бұрын
I work so hard so you guys can use my tax money to fix yourself when there is no need, I can't feel sorry for you guys. There are people who really need the NHS for real emergency
@txbre87582 ай бұрын
They have also paid into the system their adult lives. I wouldn’t look at it this way.
@Godsmustbecrazi32 ай бұрын
@@txbre8758true but doesn’t change the fact we ain’t gonna feel sorry for people or such. It’s a mental disorder that the media keeps celebrating like u can you even see from this story
@ui82492 ай бұрын
To fix her is not cheap. She is only 20. She has not paid enough to the system.
@Poisonivy28Ай бұрын
PLEASE MENTION IN THE HOSPITAL!!! What’s the point of reporting and not calling them out and letting other girls be exposed to these culprits!
@Scocia2 ай бұрын
I wouldn’t go to Turkey not even for a vacation, much less for a 10 hr procedure where you are in the hands of “doctors” you don’t even know, for a procedure you don’t need!
@Hanna950002 ай бұрын
Turkey is a beautiful country and they do take their health care very seriously. I have a very close friend, who was on holiday in Turkey, collapsed went to hospital got tests done and turns out she had a rare type of blood cancer. She has previously been complaining about fatigue to NHS for over 6 months. When she returned all was confirmed by NHS and she received chemo and still in recovery. God knows if they would've ever taken her seriously in UK until it was too late.
@MissPepperss2 ай бұрын
The people responsible for this need to be held accountable.
@susiex66692 ай бұрын
She's the person responsible for this. No one forced her to go to Turkey so she can look like a filter.
@jennyjay73022 ай бұрын
😊@@susiex6669yesss
@dee2022uk2 ай бұрын
@susiex6669 the people promoting and involved in the services should also take some accountability and duty of care.
@mol5882 ай бұрын
She will have signed a disclaimer, which she probably didn't read in full, relinquishing liability, so she cannot sue the surgeon / clinic . Tragic 💔
@heatherhigson3422 ай бұрын
No , people should have common sense since and stop trying to to look like clones of each other
@gudrungarzon7083Ай бұрын
Young lady you do not need plastic surgery but a physiatrist, badly!
@katizz988Ай бұрын
This woman wants social media to be responsible, but she wasn't responsible enough to do research about the surgeon. I dont know about most people, but with all of the high prices, expenses, and low paying jobs she really didn't know what to do with her money.
@RecklessInspirerАй бұрын
I agree. So much lack of accountability. And what are the social media influencers supposed to do? Hide their beauty? That's not fair.
@deidre92002 ай бұрын
She didn’t need all that she’s Beautiful!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽for her healing inside and out❤self love!!
@lisad67052 ай бұрын
Women have to stop taking these risks. Our society needs to go back to accountability
@h.neubert87702 ай бұрын
Men take these risks too, and die of complications too. What is the point? Whaf accountability are you speaking of? She made a mistake and is warning others not to go there, that’s pretty hard to do
@lisad67052 ай бұрын
@@h.neubert8770 Society, individuals need to get out of victim mode. You know accountability for the choices one makes. I'm generalizing that people don't have to go out and change everything that was already made perfect. Happy?
@elainech63872 ай бұрын
Society? It’s individual’s choices that are causing this. People like her have obviously got no real problems in their lives
@h.neubert8770Ай бұрын
@@lisad6705 Yes and no. Accountability would be. to go to theraphy and or share their experience so others can learn. She is doing the later maybe also the former. Body Dysmoprhia is real. I knew someone who had it, handsome dude, hated his guts for no reason. At the time nobody knew what it was.
@elizabethmillar18292 ай бұрын
Brave, Courageous young woman! You have saved so many, don’t blame yourself. Hold your head high. Sending you love & hugs ❤
@carolmooney8222 ай бұрын
Vanity working on a weak mind plays havoc.
@adrianavargovaАй бұрын
Poor beautiful girl! Thanks God that she survived and thanks God that she is brave, determined and eloquent enough. She wanted to be someone on social media - now she became THE VOICE 🎉 Isabella, you are important!
@kodijones52242 ай бұрын
I don't feel sorry at all. No one forced her to be on social media 90%of her day instead of engaging with the real world. Then we have to feel sorry for her because at 20 she wants to go into surgery and be changed.....When is the social media generation going to open their eyes, get off their phones and realise real life is passing them by. She says There is more to life than just being pretty. .. What she should be saying is there is more to life than being on your phone on social media. Making real connections with people , enjoying her family, focusing on herself inside more than the outside. If she had only done that first before she flew to turkey maybe she would have loved all of herself the way she should do. But I guess that all takes time and its much easier to go get it sucked out and cut off. No sympathy
@terriesmith26162 ай бұрын
Agreed with you 💯💯 I don't feel sorry at all for people like this. My sympathy meter ran out.
@jaylenandraelynnshowmcmurt57812 ай бұрын
Are I don't feel sorry
@chickenandchips88028 күн бұрын
ppl will always bash on others who go for cosmetic surgeries, but can you actually blame them? Attractive people always get treated so much more better than unattractive/average people. There’s a lot of perks of being attractive
@sew_gal73405 күн бұрын
correct, not to mention a path to an extremely rich spouse which will then set u up for life. it matters to be attractive
@ohkboomer9088Ай бұрын
Wait a minute. She’s a professional makeup artist. You are silly to agree to all that surgery at once. You were 20! Why the hell would a young girl need all that.
@charmainetrautwein3018Ай бұрын
This is absolutely heartbreaking, I feel such compassion for her and all the other beautiful girls like her going through such a horrific experience and the misguided belief that they are not enough, I send you so much love 💖
@MessiahJesuSaviouroftheWorld2 ай бұрын
VANITY, vanity....all things are vanity - wise King Solomon . Eccl 1;1 Saving? Even the love of money; the love is idolatry, root of all evil. Mummy, proud proud mum.
@PinkPanther7025 күн бұрын
Young lady, you are beautiful and also very brave, to tell your story. I hope you find happiness in your life.
@jennapitts83732 ай бұрын
She had her face done too? She needs a therapist.
@ccthefibro_freak972 ай бұрын
Poor girl🥹Wish I could give her a big hug❤
@MrOrangeonion22 күн бұрын
Ive got zero sympathy for her, shes literally one of the reasons things are messed up now, and now oh look at me woe is me.
@mudokonslig92052 ай бұрын
Don't feel sorry for her. If her surgeries had turned out well, she would be flaunting her body all over social media making other women feel bad about their body.
@Tranquility322 ай бұрын
Hello. I understand your comment. Yet I do feel badly for anyone, guy or girl, who sets the standards of beauty outside of themselves. I look at young ladies with the silly looking eyelashes glued to their lids and wonder, don’t they know how much more beautiful they are without all that? It is fake, and looks fake. I wish they loved themselves more than they love a filtered image of someone they don’t even know.
@williamwelbourne2029Ай бұрын
BINGO !!!🤣🤣 RIGHT YOU ARE..she would have been strutting her stuff
@riri47414 күн бұрын
God bless her for warning young women of this danger! I hope she is doing great and has fully recovered ❤
@user-jz5bj8gz2h2 ай бұрын
At 20 years old your body is not fully developed. This is a terrible, poor girl.
@semeona.k28392 ай бұрын
Grown up people blaming social media is just hilarious. Take accountability. Smh
@crystalaustraliaАй бұрын
They are taking accountability by taking steps to remove platforms that exacerbate the issue.
@semeona.k2839Ай бұрын
@@crystalaustralia "I'm alcoholic so I want all the bars closed" what a logic
@crystalaustraliaАй бұрын
@semeona.k2839 good job that isn't my logic. Not asking for the to remove platforms, just regulate them in the same way licenced venues are regulated
@biggerthanhiphop7641Ай бұрын
@crystalaustralia take accountability for your own actions ..Grown people shouldn't need social media to be regulated .. Tv and magazine influences were before social media .. Grown people did not need them regulated
@crystalaustraliaАй бұрын
@biggerthanhiphop7641 that's a lovely theory, but while we might be responsible, many people are impressionable. Social media is different to previous forms of media (hence our conversation now), and we need to protect the vulnerable by taking accountability of the platforms, not just our own little worlds.
@hanafatimah65772 ай бұрын
The most story that It has touched me and left me in tears.
@sienna34662 ай бұрын
I cannot feel sorry for these people
@Lisa-Marie-s3bАй бұрын
So so sad. You are beautiful inside and out. I blame social media for the need to look ‘perfect’ in reality they don’t look that either. All airbrushed filtered etc. sending all the love and compassion your way.
@tofurakhanom26442 ай бұрын
Don't feel sorry for wannabe fake people be happy the way God has made you and stop wasting your time on social media
@justlikehoney18592 ай бұрын
God wouldn’t be too happy that you’re doing the judging
@MAC061412 ай бұрын
It’s called commenting….on a comment page…..
@rabbitsonjupiter68242 ай бұрын
@justlikehoney If you put yourself up for judgement, you get judged.
@h.neubert87702 ай бұрын
She is warning others. People make mistakes, it’s what we do with them
@mercybanda4142Ай бұрын
Telling people to be happy with the way they are, I don't think it's judging, that's lovel , though people hate tho hear the truth nowadays, and also that's encouraging them to have confidence