I was laid off at 56 and what I did next

[@lr50plus54]

I LOVE that you dismissed your boss. No need to listen to hollow excuses, etc. You really retained your dignity in a very difficult situation.

[@smallretiredlife]

L O L yes. It was like the only thing I could control in my life at that particular point in time. Honestly, I just didn’t want to hear how it was them not me, blah blah blah. As I mentioned in the video living in Calgary, we get laid off a lot because the oil and gas industry is like the biggest employer here and those companies get sold a lot so we get laid off a lot. So I’ve been laid off several times, I know the spiel and I wasn’t particularly wanting to hear it again. All I wanted to know was what my payout was going to be.

[@oleandra3759]

@@smallretiredlife- that’s right- “SHOW ME THE MONEY” What movie was that? I think that was a really impressive move. I would not have thought of that. Good for you!

[@recherche4528]

@@smallretiredlifeI am curious how your boss reacted. Typically in the United States,the boss or management would remain with the HR person.

[@smallretiredlife]

@@recherche4528the HR person asked the boss to leave.

[@margaretellul4556]

​@@oleandra3759the movie is Jerry Maguire

[@larahporter8123]

I was laid off at 50 and it hurt so much I never recovered. I still hate my ex company and ex bosses and ex co workers, it was too much to handle, after I almost gave my life for the company, I even battle with kidney cancer while I was always on time with my work and taking more work to help others and "the team". I still feel like crying when I remember, so I prefer not to remember. I was never the same person after that, no more working with passion and over time... no more going the extra mile, no more honoring the company's mission and vision... I just died inside. Yep, that' how much I loved that company. I will never ever love another company like that again, I learned my lesson the hard way.

[@TLA123y6f]

This makes my heart hurt for you and also angry at this kind of betrayal. How can people sleep at night - do they just have no conscience? I understand being changed by life situations. I'm there too.

[@Happybidr]

I’m sorry that happened in a way that affected you that way. I’ve also been let go, but honestly it pretty much turned out for the best. Got much better jobs and moved into the career I was meant to be in, that I loved. I never grieved any lost job, because I always want to move around rather than stay in one company. Fortunately that is the nature of the field I was in; you rarely stay anywhere beyond 4 years. You gave a lot of yourself, so just take it back and get so busy that you just don’t think about them with any feeling at all. Best of luck.

[@kazbah1217]

Me too, same experience. I have nothing left in my tank anymore now.

[@Dentos19]

Sorry to hear this I lost my job due to stress I also loved the job and the company fir16 years,not even a phone call from my manager,took me a long time to recover but I’ve done it,lost my wife last year with a brain tumour after 52 years can’t tell you how devastated I was,but I’m celebrating my 52 years with her,I’m playing bowls,cooking and with the love of my family and great friends I’m really happy,so go forward and enjoy every day I’m. 75 this year👍

[@daynasafranek7807]

I did something similar, but didn’t experience cancer (I’m so sorry you did), and I still can’t stand any of the people or the company I worked for. I prefer not to think of them. I quit… but waited until the busy season and they were short staffed. That felt great. About a year later, I sent a beautiful note card to the HR director and told her that my life had improved since I quit. I was in the hospital for six weeks and I was never told to re-enroll for insurance and was offered COBRA (as a full time employee still). It was then that I decided to work there until the right time to quit. I told her I didn’t want COBRA insurance… what an a-hole company. It felt great to quit a company that was petty to all of its employees. I was 35 at the time, but now I’m 50. It’s hard to be older in any job field and yet they expect us all to retire at 67. I learned to avoid any family or small businesses because they were the most toxic, always!

[@mikefigures5075]

I got laid off 3 years ago at the age of 53 after 18 years on the job. Best thing that ever happened. I turned that into early retirement.😁

[@smallretiredlife]

Oh my goodness good for you. I’m so happy for you - that you’re OK with it and that it was actually a good thing. Thank you for watching and thank you for taking time and leaving a comment.

[@mikefigures5075]

I love that you asked your boss to leave. Wish I had done the same. I didn’t need to hear about how I was below par . 😁

[@madelinekimbro2440]

​@@mikefigures5075 if you were with the company for 18 years I hardly think you were below par. You were probably a great employee! Good for you that you are able to retire! Enjoy your time!

[@velvetindigonight]

Brill! Enjoy/Injoy too!

[@johnsonshieh50]

I like your attitude!

[@lynnfaulkner2706]

My pov is very controversial, but it has worked for me. I had many well paying jobs in sales and marketing, but when i became bored. I quit and did something else. I even went back to grad school at the age of 49 to become a Clinical Social Worker. In all those decades, i never saved a penny. I traveled whenever i could and supported people and causes i believed in, with never a thought to the future. I have had the most exciting, adventurous life. I have watched my old friends toil for endless decades at jobs that they mostly disliked, saving for their old age and are now comfortably retired. Unfortunately, many developed health problems and were unable to enjoy it. At 84, i live on SS, in a tiny but lovely apt in a low cost senior community. I shop at thrift stores and find beautiful things to wear, and i love to cook and share with neighbors. I am nearly 84, and while i wouldn't suggest anyone following in my path, I wouldn't change a thing. I see so many people who work all their lives to be comfortable in old age, which sometimes never comes.

[@smallretiredlife]

Wow, sounds like you have an amazing and experienced many exciting adventures. Good for you. That’s how life should be.

[@Ladyblogtest]

I think the way you do. I believe in enjoying life. I have never lacked or wanted for anything. Thanks for sharing.❤❤❤

[@agak61]

It is a great life however I regret not buying a small place to live vs renting ;( I’m in my 40’s and it will not be easy to buy and pay it off now - however I will try 😢

[@silentnot4812]

It sounds like you are receiving taxpayer help. All those people sacrificed to pay their taxes so you could live the life you wanted. It sounds like you took advantage of their sacrifices. Sorry to be so blunt. We cannot sustain this trend of everyone not taking responsibility for themselves and demanding others care for them through continued high rates of taxation.

[@msbrendasnow]

@@silentnot4812 at 84 she deserves a break . I am 74 and was fired because I was out with covid-19. I found it difficult to get another job, so I reached out for assistance with food and utilities. I do not feel ashamed either. I worked for it and paid taxes all that long time so it's my taxes.

[@miriam626]

Thank you for sharing your story. I was laid off at 54. As I grieved, I looked for opportunities to give back by volunteering. Little did I know that 2 years later I would begin a ministry to help the homeless get off the street. I would never have had that opportunity had I been working. I am grateful for being laid off. Today, 12 years later, my life is much more meaningful. I am grateful. I have purpose 👍🙋🏻

[@Gurkha9]

Laid off at 56 after almost 19 years, a bit before the pandemic. A blessing in disguise that ultimately lead to early retirement. Initially it was a shock to my lifestyle, friends, etc but adjustment happened over several months and now 5 years later looking back i just smile. Luckily i was always a saver and lived below my means without debt. This year sold my house, car and other possessions and will be doing some long term traveling in a matter of weeks.

[@ChristianJacquet-my3rl]

I got laid off after 29 years in an electric utility in the end of 2009. It was tough - I had to sell my home, go through a divorce, and take on debt. But I didn't give up. I got expert help to fix my finances. Saved smart, maximized my 401(k), and invested wisely. Now, at 65.5, I comfortably live on Social Security and my savings, with growing investments. My retirement income exceeds my former $135,000 salary! Expert advice made this possible. You don't need a million dollars to retire happy. Seeking help was the best decision I ever made.

[@brianmurphy-j4h]

Thanks for sharing! I'm nearing retirement, still recovering from my layoff. Your story inspires me to explore new purposes. How did you navigate the emotional and financial transition? What advice would you give to someone seeking a meaningful retirement?

[@ChristianJacquet-my3rl]

Thank you for your kind words! I'm glad my story resonated with you. Navigating the emotional transition after my 29-year layoff was toughest, but I found success by allowing myself to grieve, focusing on self-care through exercise and meditation, and reconnecting with loved ones. Financially, seeking expert guide from a seasoned financial expert, creating a budget, and maximizing my 401(k) and investments were crucial. For a meaningful retirement, I advise defining your purpose through volunteering, hobbies, or passions, building multiple income streams, and staying flexible and open-minded. Remember, retirement is a new chapter - embrace the unknown and explore opportunities to grow and contribute.

[@brianmurphy-j4h]

Who are you working with please?

[@ChristianJacquet-my3rl]

Glen Howard Chester is the licensed fiduciary I use. we've been working together for years and he's fantastic. You could check him if he meets your requirements. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with a correspondence to set up an appointment.

[@brianmurphy-j4h]

Very much appreciated, just copied and pasted Glen Howard Chester on the web, easily spotted his consulting page and was able to schedule a call session.

[@elmobolan4274]

57 yrs old and laid off at the beginning of 2024 after 5 yrs. I was actually elated, happy but a little scared but I qualified for a severance pay and unemployment. I literally was so happy, I made my boss a little nervous. I was able to land a job 3 months later with full benefits effective immediately . Grateful. FYI no matter what you say or how much you cry in front of your employer, your fired and it's not going to change a thing, so go out with dignity.

[@smallretiredlife]

I love, love, love hearing your story. I’m so happy that everything worked out well for you. Thank you for watching and thank you for leaving a comment.

[@shanaboles4887]

This is encouraging....getting laid off in your 50s is crazy...but be positive..its a pivot to a new beginning

[@anaheffington578]

Hi!!!! so glad your channel came on my feed. I also got laid off in 2018 at 56 years old. I also knew 3 days in advance I was getting laid off because my employer's payroll department stupidly posted my severance pay on ADP payroll system which I had access to. (so stupid right!!!) I did not dismiss my boss, but hearing that you did makes me wish I would have thought of that!!!! I did not dismiss my boss, but because I had 3 days of insight I was able to maintain my dignity, remain stoic, I had cleared out my desk and all personal belongings, etc. Thank you for your story!!!! I am excited to hear more.

[@smallretiredlife]

Oh my goodness what a story. There is something nice about knowing ahead of time because it does give you time to prepare yourself. You can kind of think about how you will handle things. Thank you for tuning in and thank you for taking time to leave such a nice comment.

[@davidliuis]

I hope to see more videos of how handling life right now. I was just laid off a couple ago and the package is running out, The employment market and that good either😅😂

[@sw6118]

Exactly, I was laid off at 50, way too early, from a well paying job in an industry I had come to hate. I went back to school and got another degree that would enable me to do a job that I would like. I could do this because I had gone out of my way to save over the years. I’m now enjoying the work that I do.

[@smallretiredlife]

Welcome here and thank you for leaving a comment. I’m so happy to read that things have worked out for you. Life is too short to be in a job you absolutely despise!

[@NazASMRSA]

back to school at age of 50? wow

[@MyEverydayGarden]

What did you study?

[@drivethrupoet]

I would also like to know what you studied because I was laid off at 47 over a year ago and it's bleak. Looked at some licensing programs in healthcare and other stuff, it's still like 2 to 3 years and I just don't believe anyone will hire a 53 yr old to do anything they just started doing.

[@bjaneharding584]

I’ve been hired in my fifties, 60’s , be positive and forget the age. I’m an RN. I WILL find another job. My company was bought out. Think outside the Box You can find something if you want to work. I always take my age out of the equation. Dress professional and look as young as possible. Less make up but a little. Best wishes!

[@Prariegirl2023]

I was forced to retire from my 35 year career due to health reasons. It’s good to hear how you processed your lay off. It has been very sad for me. I wasn’t ready, lost some great relationships and didn’t realize my identity was wrapped up into it. I chose another occupation that isn’t a fit and feel a bit lost. Trying not to panic but trying to take it one day at a time. Thanks for sharing! All the best to you! Great suggestions too!

[@smallretiredlife]

So sorry to hear you’re having a tough time. Definitely read the book by Ryan Holiday “the obstacle is the way”. That book just really helped me. Thank you for watching and commenting.

[@lisaviviano1568]

I retired at 68 having worked full or part time for 50 years. Waking up every day in control of my own life and decisions, is a blessing beyond imaginable!

[@smallretiredlife]

Absolutely agree with you having control over your own life and your day-to-day is such a blessing. Welcome here and thank you for leaving a comment.

[@rebeccaoliver7977]

Yes, it is!

[@candyhotlips1338]

Agree 100%.

[@cjay233]

Thank you. That is what I am hoping for.

[@KSF2010]

I'm happy I found this video. I'm 62 and was laid off some months ago. I found your video very inspiring.

[@smallretiredlife]

Oh my goodness! Welcome here and I’m so sorry to hear you got laid off. It really is so much harder when you’re older. But I know you can do it. I know you’ll be just fine. Take care of yourself first.

[@ACCOMPLISHEDSHEIS]

Luckily at 62 and not younger. At least you can get SSI Retirement.

[@sfstucco]

@@ACCOMPLISHEDSHEIS- Hi. I’m curious: How will you be handling your healthcare coverage until 65? I turned 63 recently and just got laid off. My severance will cover 3 months of my health insurance (well, the previous coverage rate), but I have yet to look at coverage on the open market. I assume finding out COBRA costs will give me a seizure! Sorry to hear you’re in this situation, too. ✊

[@Myspirit904]

At 56 I had been working for a breast cancer surgeon for 12 years. In early 2018, she called me in the office and announced she would be permanently closing her practice in 30 days. I was not angry nor did I grieve. I had not been happy there - it was a job that left me feeling very depleted. For some reason I suddenly thought, “I’ll try waitressing!” Fast forward, I secured a job with no experience and now nearing 63 and have been successfully waitressing for the last 5 years working half the hours I was previously working and making more. The job loss was a blessing. As a single woman, I plan to continue working like this for as long as I can, I love it.

[@smallretiredlife]

I’m so happy that things worked out for you in your favour. I think the fact that you went out there and just moved on and got a different gig is what made you succeed.

[@Myspirit904]

@@smallretiredlife thank you!!

[@stellagirl4552]

Allot of what you mention about grieving and taking time to accept what has happened applies not just to being laid off but to retirement. I could really relate to this. I retired in July and I’m still trying to accept the change. I was with the company for almost 37 years.

[@smallretiredlife]

Yes, totally agree with that. It’s a loss of a life you knew. Very few people in my city work that long for one company. I can’t even imagine how hard it would be to all of a sudden not having to get up to go to work when you’ve been going there for 37 years.

[@jehouse61]

"A lot"

[@felipeyanez7786]

37 years is a lot

[@velvetindigonight]

Time to create anew worthwhile way of life, work and service that you do not get paid fot with money but with satisfaction? Thats what I did. Tip. What did you love to do at fifteen before ‘responsibility/responsibilities got in the way? Get that guitar out, box of paints or rescue a dog? Go well x

[@patl.4170]

I retired 4 years from a company I worked for for 32 years. I am still adjusting. I have my moments where I say “ is that all there is?”… but I love that my time is my own. I love that I no longer feel the stress of that job. So even on days that I might feel a little bored, I have no regrets on retiring.

[@rickazca774]

I do relate to your video and everything you said. . I was laid off at 31, 44, and 55 and 60. Lessons learned - 1. No such thing as job security, college degree or not. 2. Put aside money just in case. 3. Keep your skills marketable. 4. There are a ton of other jobs out there. 5. Keep your bills to a minimum. I've had 3 cars my whole life and had no kids. That was a HUGE savings. I'm 64 now, still no retirement in sight, work 60 hours/week to keep ahead of inflation. You do what you can to keep things moving forward.

[@hsoderberg6505]

One can panic, cry & then take control. There is nothing weak in expressing emotions.

[@Joysart360]

Thank you for sharing. I was laid off in March of 2023, which is around the same time I turned 60. I went through the grieving process as you mentioned and I also tried finding another job right away, however after applying for hundreds of jobs over the last year and a half with no luck. So I'm now coming to the realization that I am retired and starting the next phase of the process of acceptance and figuring out next steps.

[@smallretiredlife]

Firstly, thank you for watching my video and leaving a comment. Welcome here. I am so sorry to hear you got laid off the age of 60. It’s really hard! But I have to say being retired is absolutely lovely. Finally an opportunity to do things that give you pleasure, joy, and make you happy. I hope everything goes well for you.

[@MsHeidiHello]

I'm glad I'm not alone in this! Getting laid off is SO humiliating. However, Reina (sp?) makes a good point below: it's a chance to make a better life for ourselves. :)

[@firefeethok_tui2355]

Keep the faith ladies. Think anout something you do well or enjoy, and seek that. It might be different but we live a long while now. Be healthy, sell yourself and seek someyhing you can be good at❤. Its tough getting the interview. Be real, authentic and let them see you.

[@Poreckylife]

My mom retired at 55 years old after 35 years working for a soap and detergent factory. She couldn't take the disrespect anymore. Luckily she was qualified to retire early with monthly payments and is also very grateful that my dad still works. So they are okay.

[@janeminty6947]

Nice video! I left my job at 62. I really liked my job but the stress from poor management (my opinion) was making me feel awful ! It’s been a year. I feel great! The best advice I could give to the generation behind us, is to save when you are young ! If you put away a little for a long time, you will have a lot of money ! Compounding is amazing! Your future self will thank you 😆

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you for watching my video and leaving a comment. Welcome here. I so totally agree with absolutely everything you’ve written. And having worked at corporate gigs pretty much my whole career, I totally understand how stressful it can be if you have poor management. I’m happy that things are working out or at least it sounds like things are working out!

[@rachelkelly7117]

I’m 55 and quit in March this year… get out and enjoy life now before it’s all over. I’m now converting a 2023 Mercedes sprinter, renting out my home next year and am going to slow down and travel and start enjoying my life. 😊

[@smallretiredlife]

Wow, sounds like you have some awesome plans. Yes definitely life is too short so do what gives you joy.

[@griffinshortclipschannel1914]

Just advice from a landlord. Be super careful who you rent your home to. Sometimes because of their life circumstances, it will make that income unreliable. I've gotten better at screening potential tenants in the last 15 years. Really scope out who they are, and if they can afford it. Create a great lease agreement that is not missing any important legal verbage.

[@rachelkelly7117]

@@griffinshortclipschannel1914 oh god bless and thank you for the great advice! Really appreciate it ☺️

[@patty4709]

I retired at 58 while company was on top. We were bought out by foreign business. Many changes after first year. I was VP and could see the handwriting on the wall. I gave a 30 day notice on Dec 31 st. Best decision I ever made. I had travelled all over the world, attended many corporate meetings, worked on US acquisition. I was tired and wanted to spend quality time with my little grandkids. I am now 85 and have not worked a day since. I was prepared financially to retire early. Now, it’s been the best of times. I did volunteer work one year, play golf, travel, read a book a week, play mind games on my iPad etc. Life is good.

[@heidiespinosa1419]

OMG I can so relate. At 57 I was squeezed out of 17 years of running multiple businesses under one roof and the last 8 years of it doing it as a single employee office. My original boss died of cancer and the last 6 years I kept things going while his sons were in charge, but they both had full time careers. I made things very smooth for the transition after their father’s death and made it easy for them to sit back and I kept the profits rolling in so they could just focus on their regular jobs. The last year I was employed I could sense something was changing and then I got very sick with Covid and they pressured me to still come in, because they claimed being a one person office there was no reason I couldn’t be at work. I tried to go in and just got worse and ended up home in bed for a full week and upon my return they had decided that I no longer had sick or vacation pay which was owed to me and they refused to pay me and just said they were going to restructure the way forward but would never answer me how no matter how much I asked. They just ignored the question on the phone or when I would text. Next they ignored any major issues that happened and after awhile I couldn’t take it anymore and I just had taken the last straw and up and quit. I knew they would keep on pushing by ignoring me so I would quit knowing full well in the state of TX if you quit you do not get unemployment. 17 years of hard work down the drain. I drained all I had and started a small business and it’s floated me through, but hard at times. Bottom line you can either sink or swim is all I could think of. I’m semi retired, I have my small business but also a part time job. What I have learned is that I will have to work until I die, but also that chasing careers and chasing money is not so important and that time with family is more important than trying to build a fortune that you may not live long enough to enjoy regardless. Yes I might be on a much smaller budget with little savings, but I’m happier now.

[@smallretiredlife]

Oh my goodness this is such a sad story. I am so sorry this happened to you.. I’m glad that you’re in a really good place now

[@missbiggs9437]

KZbin’s algorithm brought me to this channel and by coincidence, to your comment. It was so sad reading your story, how hard and devoted you worked for that family business and in the end how shabbily the successors (sons) chose to treat you. Loyalty and appreciation sure died at their hands! However, I’m encouraged that you are bouncing back and enjoying your new semi-retired life. I wish you every success, happiness and great health for the years ahead! 👍🏻✋🏻🙏🏻

[@TLA123y6f]

I just responded to a poster in a similar position a few minute ago. I just do not understand how people can be so heartless and calous. I've had very bad experiences happen to me, too, and it left it's mark. I'm so sorry you had to go through that.

[@NicoleNikNY]

I work in HR and have been on both sides of the fence. It's tough and sometimes hard to navigate your way through it. For some it takes a long time while others can shake it off rather quickly. I think you give such sound and applicable advice to those who find themselves without a job. You remained present and thought about your next step and made a plan instead of succumbing to anxiety and why me. Again that's tough to do so kudos to you! It's nice to think we all have the luxury to retire when we want however that's not always the way it works out. You handled it really well and took charge in a way that we all can. BTW, thanks for sharing what you were making. I enjoyed your talk but kept wondering what is it? 🙂

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you for your nice comment. Yes the apple loaf was amazing. I got the recipe through the KZbin channel called preppy kitchen.

[@Mary-tj5qx]

So glad i found this. I am 58 and work in tech. I’m confident that next year, likely around May when the next round of mass layoffs come, that i will be let go. In my late 30’s I went through an extremely difficult time after losing 2 people very close to me. This time included a job loss, which really piled on the pressure because i was not at all financially stable. That experience was a time of extreme stress, all of it amplified by my financial situation. This prompted me to make achieving financial independence priority 1, 2 and 3. I achieved FI. So… next year when they lay me off, I’m ready.

[@smallretiredlife]

Firstly, thank you for watching and welcome here. I am so glad to hear that financially you’re ready if you get laid off. There is an amazing feeling about being able to take control. If a bad situation happens I think the tech industry, like oil and gas, is really prone to a lot of layoffs. Good for you for being organized and being ready. I think we’ve had the past and experienced an extreme level of stress due to finances in some cases it’s spurs us to take control.

[@TLA123y6f]

I think it's horrible that corporate mentality just 'throws people away' on a regular basis. How can anyone make plans for the future when there's no stability?

[@lindagrimmett6564]

Yes, COVID put me into early retirement at 59 in February 2020. But later that year I found out I was going to be a Grandma! What a wonderful surprise. And I was able to come and go as needed to help out this new family of mine. 😊

[@smallretiredlife]

Oh, that is so exciting. I have five grandchildren so I can tell you they are such a blessing.

[@fedupbin]

I actually left my job 10 years ago just to sell on ebay/amazon and it worked out fine. I was 52. Now years later, aged almost 63 I have had to go back to work part time as my online selling has gone bad. It can be hard on the body working fulltime, so decided to work part time. Good luck to you in your life from the UK

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you so much for watching. You’re brave for going back to work. I think that would be really hard after being your own boss. Best of luck to you.

[@fedupbin]

@@smallretiredlife It was at first, but my colleagues are great. Like a family

[@LilyGazou]

What happened with online selling?

[@JCizzleSoCal]

@@LilyGazouNobody wants to buy lawn gnomes anymore

[@michellewaters1246]

I was 58 when I was laid off and it turned out to be a blessing. I spent a year grieving, resting and traveling. When I decided to look for a job, I was able to get my dream job. I stayed at this job until I retired this April. I am enjoying my retirement and I receive a retirement check each month. I am grateful every day for everything that came before this, life could have ended up differently if I stayed in self pity. I try to look at obstacles as a learning opportunity and that makes life more interesting. Thank you for your video it was helpful.

[@smallretiredlife]

Great story and I’m so happy that things have worked out for you. Thank you for watching my video and leaving a comment.

[@Summergirl65]

that is so great! what was your dream job?

[@michellewaters1246]

@@Summergirl65 my dream job was with our county mental agency as a social worker. The best part was my supervisor, she was supportive and allowed us autonomy. And I was able to build up enough time so I qualified to get a retirement check each month in retirement. Working for the county is about the only job in our town that offers retirement benefits.

[@Summergirl65]

@@michellewaters1246 that's great!

[@TLA123y6f]

Obviously you had the funds, or another source of support, to spend a year off grieving, traveling. Not everyone is as fortunate I can assure you.

[@relaxlabmusic1815]

It’s so weird that companies think if you are older you won’t be there that long. In reality it’s younger workers who job hop to get more pay, bigger titles, opportunities. I think so many times, it’s 2 years and they are out. Maybe less than 2 years.

[@smallretiredlife]

Yes I totally agree.

[@cardinal8268]

I just hired 3 people in their 50s. Why? Because I need people with work history and staying power. Sure I can hire and train a 27 year old but I'll be training another in 18 months. The folks in their 50s stay for 15 years.

[@tobigee3479]

So happy to run across you. I’m in Lethbridge I’m 60 and retired during Covid at 57. I’m loving it! Nice to see a Canadian speaking on this. Good luck to you. I’m subscribed now. 👍

[@smallretiredlife]

Welcome here fellow Albertan! Thank you for watching!

[@ianthomson3718]

I was laid off at 61, looked at all the positives (there were many) and found an ideal job 2 weeks later, even though I was only having a peek to see what was out there. I worked for another 18 months, which gave me time to take stock, and retired 15 months ago at 63. It took me a year to keep reminding myself that the cage door was now open. Now, there is no cage :-). New subscriber. Love the channel

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you and welcome here. So happy things worked out.

[@morningmona]

My mom works in the tech sector and she got laid off last week. It was a shock because she had been there 1 year and was stellar. Her boss, is a man who did little work and gave her everything to do. She raised a complaint to him that the work amongst the team wasn’t evenly distributed. Then he set up an early meeting meeting in person at 8 am to tell her she was being let go and that they’d provide a severance package. How ridiculous. Just have the meeting online. Why call a person into the office after a 1 hr commute at 8 am to tell them? What a horrible man. Luckily, my mother is in a financially stable position having saved.

[@Alecmcq]

I was a little more fortunate than you… I was laid off at age 60. For me, that was perfect! They paid me lots of money to go away, and I also decided to retire. Great decision, I love retired life.

[@smallretiredlife]

Ugh! I am so jealous. If that had happened to me at 60, I would’ve been cheering and running down the street in complete joy. As it was, I had to wrap my head around it a little bit more but it still worked out. I definitely do not miss working….ever.

[@debweissler7808]

I lost my job in September 2001, an infamous date in American history. I was 53. I tried a number of things before deciding that this “retirement” was the best thing that ever happened to me!

[@smallretiredlife]

Oof, no kidding that’s an infamous state in history! Glad it worked out well for you.

[@janroach1852]

Fifty-six, employers should not discriminate because retirement is 66 years which is ten years' time you can contribute to the company. Here in the U.S. you cannot get health insurance through Medicare until you are 65. At 59, we would still have to work but you can always start something new.

[@karlinebohne789]

Thank you for your story. My company has just laid off 3500 people and in a sales role, there is fear of being next. I love the mindset of being in control.

[@smallretiredlife]

Wow! 3500 people! That is just so sad. I hate the fact that people are just commodities to employers. Getting laid off has just such a profound effect on you even if you know that it’s not your fault and it’s just a company doing what is best for themselves. I hope everything works out well for you

[@Glenniecenicole2719]

I am so glad I have come across your channel. I have recently been laid off at 58 and it is no joke . Look forward to your future videos.

[@smallretiredlife]

Ugh, I know exactly what you’re talking about. It’s hard. It’s kind of sad because when you’re older, and if you’re still wanting to work, you actually have so much experience and knowledge to offer an employer!

[@melindacurfman8259]

I was laid off at 60- not what I had planned but you are right - it is what it is. Take a breath and one day at a time. I am looking for work- with no high expectations and just enjoying the little things I never had time for before. A long cup of coffee and a good book!

[@cartoonheart1111]

The same thing happened to my husband 6 months ago after 22 years as a senior manager at a company. His age is 52. He said he knew it was coming when the HR manager showed up first thing on Friday morning. Thank you for sharing. Wishing you all the best ❤

[@kgyapper]

I’m a new subscriber‼️ I totally agree with you about NOT hearing the BLAH BLAH BLAH …. Walk out PROUDLY 👍🏻

[@mikesawyer4707]

I retired early, yet after the reception and all the cards and letters of well wishing I had an issue with separating myself from my former career that I spent over 35 years doing. Everytime I visited, the small college campus that was so much of my adult life I felt just a little guilty. I could not put my finger on why. Even through I was always welcomed warmly by my former staff and co workwrs I cound not help but feel that guilt. In the end I just decided to just hook up with a few people who had retired a few years earlier than myself and we would do lunch or just do a coffee and that did the trick I got to a place where I did not miss the campus any longer. It has been seven years now and I continue to keep in touch with friends from my campus life I am very satified now. Thank yiu for taking the time to read my story. God bless. 😊

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you so much for watching and for commenting. I agree with you. It’s really hard to kind of figure out who you are after you retire. So much of our personality is enveloped around our careers!

[@MsHeidiHello]

Your story is so inspiring! This exact same thing happened to me at age 61 in 2023. At first I found my new time off so therapeutic - I took some trips and enjoyed the summertime here in Wisconsin. However, a year later, I am beginning to wonder what I am really doing with my life to bring me satisfaction and joy. After working since I was 16, I am ready to do what I want to do now with the remaining time I have left on this Earth. Thanks for making the effort to share your story with everyone.

[@smallretiredlife]

Aww, thank you so much for the lovely comment and welcome here. I hope you find your next passion. The awesome thing is that it will be something that you really really want to do and will enjoy. This is what I love about being retired - I love being retired but doing KZbin keeps me really busy and it’s fun. I don’t really care if it doesn’t bring me any money. I’m just enjoying learning new things.

[@eddaly4160]

Thanks for sharing...my store is similar...I was laid off at 62...I found out in an email...no package...it was a small company that just had issues getting contracts....stay strong, things will get better.

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you for sharing and thank you for watching and also leaving a comment. Much appreciated. Hope things go well for you.

[@chrisw9399]

Beware the ever so casual but vague request for a ‘quick chat’

[@emiliabolsas]

Sent with only a few minutes’ notice.

[@mariavineyard1981]

I was forced to retire at the age of 58 from my job after 32 year career due to my former company purchased a company that used all the capital and the positions where duplicate employees position’s. Therefore the company offered severance packages to employees who were 55 and up of age. Unfortunately they didn’t give you any choice either you take the early retirement or you didn’t have a secure position. It happened just few months before the pandemic started. I founded myself grieving and it took me over two years to recover. Now I am feeling much better but my advice is to ensure that you save money for your retirement and don’t count on with your social security benefits because you will not have enough to survive.

[@judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654]

You’re not alone, there’s a lot of age discrimination in this country. My husband got let go/downsized at age 60. Just when he was going to start earning pension! University of Southern California. I’m pretty sure that this is not the first time they’ve done this.

[@pawlieblog7967]

Hah! I’m in Houston and worked in oil and gas so I’ve been laid off many times! Age 53, 54, and then I freelanced and contracted until I was 59, got another fulltime job for a year and went thru another layoff at 60 in 2020 (Covid times). Been contracting since. I turn 65 next year and I’ve had a great contract job since 2021. May retire but planning ahead and moving to France for my whole new life!! Buying a house there, very exciting.

[@smallretiredlife]

Wow, awesome story. Yes the oil and gas world is nuts! You have to be hard-core to handle the layoffs that come with an oil and gas life.

[@josephinebrevig8748]

My husband is in a new job he started 1 year ago at 56 here in the UK…it’s a big global company. They have a strong belief in Neuro divergent workplaces. He’s really loving working there. I wish all the best in the future…thanks for the story.

[@OceanFrontVilla3]

Excellent, very forward thinking of them as there's going to be a higher percentage of people who are neurodivergent due to the current generations being mandated to take an insane number of... we all know what.

[@stephtraveler7378]

LOL. I did the same. I interrupted my boss and told him to stop w/ the canned layoff speech. I had actually been hoping for a layoff for quite a while. Had I retired, I get nothing except a stupid party from people I'll never see again. But, a layoff got me severance, 401k matching, and healthcare for a few years. So, I welcomed the news, thanked the boss, and split. Its been a few months at 59 and I think its going well. My CFP says I have enough money.

[@rachaelnuchols764]

When I got laid off I couldn't take time to process, I was single mom, 3 kids, I had to take the first job I could while still looking for better job. It would have been nice to take some time. Glad it's worked out for you ❤. Great video

[@smallretiredlife]

Yes, I agree. That’s very stressful when that happens. I have two children and I’ve been laid off when I was younger and they were still little. Same thing here, I had to go straight back to work. find a job right away. I was super lucky in that I was always able to find work almost immediately after I got laid off because of the field of work that I was doing. At that time there were not that many people doing what I was doing so I was in a good position. Not everyone is in that kind of a situation. I think it’s that situation that really spurred me on to take as much control of my money as I possibly could. My savings mentality was definitely caused by trauma.

[@firefeethok_tui2355]

I cant imagine the stress that would bring. But Keep at it. Plan far in advance with baby steps for yourself to fet to where you see yourself. Time will pass by. Good luck amd hope youre doing well.

[@DeathByFashion1]

I was laid off once when I was 19-21 and I was devastated. I remember having nightmares for a while about that day 😅 this manager always praised me and this day at 430 called me to her office and told me I was not a good fit and handed me my check and said I was paid till 5. Little me had no idea how the real world was 😅 I’m glad everything aligned for you to come out on top❤ and now I’m a believer that everything does happen for a reason so even when I’m afraid I trust❤

[@ayeshas.3727]

Before you said I knew you were going to ask your Manager to leave and it was a BOSS move.

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you I really appreciate this comment lol! Honestly, it was like the only thing I could control in that situation!

[@ayeshas.3727]

@@smallretiredlife no problem. I work in HR so thoroughly appreciate and respect that move.

[@4thorder]

A similar thing happened to me. Engineer at a company for almost 30 years. Poured my soul into it and then out of nowhere I get a call and that was that. 57 years old and to be honest I was burnt out after that. So I decided that I was done. Took my pension and the buyout and invested it. But then comes the "what the heck do I do now?" Took that bull by the horns and started working with another retired engineer on a futures trading company. I admire your attitude about taking advantage of your opportunity by learning and now sharing with the rest of us. Very refreshing! Oh and great now I am hungry!!

[@lorisimon2338]

I was fired at 58 for cussing out the supervisor--not sorry and it all worked out--happily retired and enough $$!

[@smallretiredlife]

Glad that all worked out for you. And yes, I agree. Retirement is great. Thank you for watching and thank you for leaving a comment.

[@ashleybanksss]

I’m young in my 30s but still subscribed because you have a great testimony and mindset in face of adversary. Love your story. Keep it up! ❤

[@smallretiredlife]

Wow, thank you. I love watching much younger KZbinrs…if the channel interests me, I don’t even see the age. Plus …there are not a ton of female KZbinrs in my age group lol…though there seems to be more now.

[@joemartnz]

Thanks for sharing. My wife just got laid off 5 months ago, but fortunately, she finished her studies last year and started a new job 3 months ago in the field she studied and in her mid-50s. She wishes she had left earlier now, especially with the dedication she wasted on her prior company and their empty promises/fake caring, when she was being let go. Love how you didn’t want the Boss there, too, because that wouldn't improve anything. Such a timely reminder to keep improving ourselves and be positive and work on things we can change.

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you for your comment. I’m so excited for your wife that she finally found something that she enjoys doing. I think we just leave our jobs and do new things when we’re ready so not worth looking back thinking we wasted time. She’s doing awesome now and that’s what counts.

[@tabous2]

Thank you for sharing! It was wonderful to listen to you. The decision to get your boss out the room was golden. I did not have the maturity to do that back then. It is something I regretted for a long time.

[@dschultz6981]

This was me, too. I wish I had asked my boss to leave when I got the news. She is a nice person, but I didn't need the excuses. I grieved, probably for longer than I should have. But it was a shock, especially since our team was replaced with much younger people. I'm in a good place now. Our savings have allowed me to work PT, so I spend the remainder of the week doing things I love - playing with our grandkids, working on my writing, going to yoga. It's not the way I thought my retirement would happen, but we're making it work and I'm thankful for it.

[@deborahdawes6975]

I got laid off at 62. The signs of coming layoffs were there, just not when, how many and who. My HQ boss made an appointment to call me, so I knew. I wrote the words "I see" with fat black marker on a piece of paper and put it in front of me on my desk. Unfortunately I had to hide it under a file when the local HR VP walked into my office, closed the door and sat down a minute before my boss called. But I remembered my lines ... Boss: Your talents are no longer needed. Me: I see. Boss: If you agree to work six weeks longer, you'll get a generous severence package after that. Or you can leave today and get no package. Me: I see. Boss: Do you have any questions? Me: Just one. Do I work out the details and complete the paperwork with [HR VP] ? Boss: Yes. Me: I see. Boss: Just so you know, these layoffs have been very difficult for me and [his boss]. Me: I see. Gosh, I hope you're okay. Goodbye. That was 9 years ago. I patched some benefits and work together (Thank you Affordable Care Act) to make it to Medicare age. Been retired 6 years. Love it. Enjoying the hell out of it. Still say "I see" quite a bit. It's great for getting control of many situations, believe it or not.

[@smallretiredlife]

😂😂😂 oh my goodness this is absolutely precious. I think I will pass that on to some of my older friends who are still working in case this happens to them.

[@thechangingtimes]

Once you hit the age of 50. Most bosses don’t really know what to do with you. You know more than just about everybody around, and you can also see you right through the BS that so many superiors want to try to sell everybody. Insecure employers want to get rid of workers like that. The goal should be for everybody in life to retire by the age of 50, but of course since we live in the society we do, most of us do have to work into our 60s. Great advice for this video and good luck in all your future endeavors. By the way I love that you dismissed your boss, when they were sitting there like some kind gawking hollow suit. Cheers.

[@dttttt]

I don't understand employers not hiring employees at a later age because they think you won't stay long. Because employers will lay you off after only a few years. So what's the difference?!

[@smallretiredlife]

lol, yes, totally true!

[@lynettejwhite]

I think that a lot of managers can't cope with a team member who is older and more experienced than they are. It shatters their egos and so they refuse to hire.

[@nygrl6102]

They don't want to pay for an older person's experience. They'd rather hire a cheaper young person, even though they'll have to invest in training them.

[@dttttt]

@@nygrl6102 Yes I was that cheaper young person once upon a time. Then it happened to me. The cycle continues!

[@mettamorph4523]

Young people often quit after a few months or years. So bs on knowing whether a person is going to stay for the long haul. I think the older employee is more likely to stay planted.

[@pishi1990]

Keep talking people are listening. ❤ So helpful

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you so much!

[@paulinebryant1549]

You are lovely. Thankyou. It's their loss.

[@smallretiredlife]

Aww, thank you.

[@kemaramsey724]

I was "let go" after 31 years at the same family business. I was 52 at the time. The owner of the business brought in an " operating partner " and he's the one who fired me. Needless to say after 31 years of service the family didn't stand behind me.

[@smallretiredlife]

Oof! That is harsh. But a story I am seeing multiple times here in the comments.

[@tracey1099]

I am experiencing that now and it’s my family. Huge wake up and transforming journey. I am opening up now to creating other streams of income that I love.

[@wendipearson5583]

Thank you for sharing your experience. I dream of getting laid off at my company. At 53, I'm the perfect candidate! It would be scary $$$, but I know I could make it work and be very happy. Your apple bread and your voice over are both very lovely.

[@smallretiredlife]

Awww, thank you for liking my apple bread recipe and I hope you get laid off if you really want to get laid off! Getting a package is really awesome, and in the end contributed to me being able to eventually retire much sooner. It’s amazing what you can make work when you have to.

[@christinap7287]

Start saving your money. Be conservative with your spendings. This way you'll be more financially prepared when you get laid off. You can never have too much money when you're unemployed. I hope everything works out for you.

[@xploradora8099]

Wow this makes me so sad for women in their 50’s and beyond. I’m late 40’s and work for myself and am thinking to go back to working for someone but I realise now, it’s not going to be as easy as finding employment when I was in my easily 40’s. BUT I’m hopeful.. and will stay working in my business until I find a job job. Good for you to tell your boss to leave the room. I’ve been made redundant twice and it was tough. The first one nearly broke me at 38 years of age. I did what you did, take some time off, I went to life in Mexico for a working holiday. The 2nd one I handled like a boss and started being self employed straight after that redundancy.

[@smallretiredlife]

I guess I saw your other note 1st. So it sounds like you don’t live in Mexico, but you just went there for a vacation. That’s funny because I went to Mexico for vacation when I got laid off in one of my jobs. I went to Cabo. I’ve never been self-employed. I guess KZbin is kind of my version of that although I am looking at it as more of a hobby than anything else. If it ever gets monetized, it’s a bonus in life and more just to prove to myself that I can do it.

[@ZaweehTV]

I really love the way you handled the job dismissal. Learning from you, I would handle one exactly the same way. Preemptively, to help feel better about it. The good thing is I am retired too. Live your life

[@AdahPAHtatah]

At 54 I found myself unemployed. I had three different careers, hospitality and tourism, retail, and the graphic arts, I was a union member.GCIU Local 14M. I could not find a job anywhere. I ended up taking a position as a live in Nanny, since I also had experience with children. The Nanny job brought me right to 62 so I could collect my social security and I retired to upstate PA in a HUD assisted housing facility. My rent is $282 a month. A very small retirement life for me!

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you for watching and commenting. That is amazing. Rent certainly doesn’t exist in my city. Happy that things really worked out for you.

[@lavieestduresansconfiture3912]

I quit the rat race in 2015 at the age of 51 knowing that I had to live on 700€ with my husband. Fortunately we had a home paid cash for and are creative people, both artists. All went well and next year I get my own pension which makes us rich people with the double amount of money. 🤣 10 years full of joy , creativity and a full abondant life. I would do it again.

[@jliu78]

Such good information, and your story and the way you presented it really hit home. Well done, Raina! Looking forward to more and I’m glad you’re doing well!

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you so much for watching and taking time to leave a lovely comment 😀🙏

[@guruamit]

youre brave and giving rest of us a wake up call

[@scotlandredd6134]

I’m happy it worked out for you. God is great!

[@way_truth_life_of_love]

Think outside of the box and consider and pray!❤

[@bindilove3899]

I can’t believe your channel came across my feed. Im 60 and am lucky that I work from home. However, I think of retirement all the time. Medical insurance would cost me about $1200 per month if I was laid off - I’m in California. That’s the scary part for me.

[@smallretiredlife]

Yes, I think Americans have it more difficult with the whole issue of medical insurance. We are lucky in that we have universal healthcare in Canada…. However, it comes with its own problems…. Like many people not being able to find a doctor.

[@catea2551]

@@smallretiredlife that's happening in California with medicare. i waited 6 months for a new primary care physician. the week before the appointment my 90 year old mother fell and was in hospital. i had to reschedule the appointment with the PCP. oh sorry nothing available for another 6 months!!!! waiting 1 year to see a PCP? also waiting 6 months for a dermatologist for a weird mole. they don't rush you in that's for sure.

[@GailBeitelman]

Why haven't you applied for government subsidy healthcare? They only ask about your projected income for the next year. I went to a large hospital in my area and met with a representative and she never asked about my savings. Your qualifications are based on you projected income. Only answer the questions they ask.

[@Gilly-gx8rt]

I was made redundant 3 months before my 54th birthday. It came out of the blue. Now 18 months later, I’ve decided not to return to my career, it’s such a relief. I hated Working from home during covid & things weren’t back to normal. Now I have time to do what I want, courses, travel, look after my elderly folks, plus my health & fitness. I feel very lucky.

[@ashnashaleen1938]

I resigned at 44. I grieved and now doing things which i never could. Healed too

[@smallretiredlife]

Glad to hear that things are going better for you now.

[@joannegibson-lucas3791]

Laid off during Covid. Probably saved my life. Thank goodness we had good pension and retirement accounts. I work 2 hours a month doing training for the county. We travel lots now. Really love my life.

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you for your comment. I’m glad that things worked out well for you.

[@livinginthealgarveportugal3357]

We decided to move to the Algarve in Portugal 🇵🇹 to semi retire 🌞 best move we made 🌴

[@kathylipp8127]

You are an inspiration, my story is similar. Something that seemed so devastating opened so many doors, it was like a gift my previously employer gave me. 😜

[@smallretiredlife]

That’s awesome. Isn’t it great when that happens?

[@shellystone3211]

I’m not trying to be rude. This is a good story for a job fair, but I was hoping to see the downside. Did you lose your house your furniture? What budget did you have? How were you living? How were you eating? These are things that most people experience when they lose their job.

[@dawnwalus6587]

Yes you’re right no one wants to be that truthful! lol

[@plantbasedsenior4240]

She got a severance package, then she worked a one-year contract and then she was paid Unemployment Insurance for a year. That gave her 3 years to figure out her finances.

[@AlGrant-bh9or]

Your outlook is an inspiration to many, during their time of trials. In '88 I was about 30yr old and faced similar job loss, albeit with a wife and 1yr old son to provide for. Staying positive and proactive are key to staving off depression. At 67yr, I thank the Almighty for the strength to get thru all of the speedbumps. Thanks for the memories!

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you so much for that lovely comment. Glad things have worked out for you. Life truly is a journey.

[@charllottelarsen7412]

It is just tat we put so much identity in our job - or i did. I love that you give this attention.❤

[@tammyjohnson7401]

Great tips but many people get laid off from essential jobs and basically have nothing to work with, so you can’t spend time grieving you have to get another job fast. It’s more reality than jobs with a package of money attached.

[@Ladythyme]

What is important in Life is not about what happens to you…it’s how you handle it when it does.

[@smallretiredlife]

100% agree with this.

[@RedVelvetLines]

Laid off at 39 after a 15 year career in project and program management. After 2 years being unemployed and only landing ONE interview, I'm getting a second masters to become a teacher. Ultimately, the security and fulfillment will mean far more to me than a higher salary (that comes with so much uncertainty and no guarantees). I'm still grieving the layoff because I made the mistake of tying my identity too strongly to my title and salary.

[@mtnshelby7059]

Please consider yourself fortunate. Your decision was made for you. Those of us still employed for decades often feel like we can't step back yet as it could cost us, especially if you're solo and rely on work for healthcare. That is its own version of hell.

[@smallretiredlife]

Oh my goodness I totally understand what you’re saying. I think if I had not been laid off in late life, I would’ve never retired that early. I probably would’ve worked another three or four years for sure and would have been unhappy. Thank you for watching and thank you for leaving a comment.

[@betsyr4724]

I had a similar experience and low and behold I am working my passion now. I am tutoring learning support kids at a middle school. It’s part time, gets me out and is meaningful to me. Of course I didn’t know this was going to happen and I had to sit and grieve, but I had a good friend who encouraged me. Thank you.

[@smallretiredlife]

That is absolutely awesome. Good for you! What a meaningful job to have working with kids who received so much value from the time you spend with them.

[@betsyr4724]

@@smallretiredlife Thank you. I’m looking forward to more vids

[@tonymanos363]

I left my company after 18 years and went to a company a long way away. The commute was 3 hours total. Lots of late nights and weekends and it wasn’t a good fit. I got let go after 7 months. I was 54. With two kids at home I scrambled and got my part time job back at Home Depot then got a contract job in my field 30 days after my layoff. That lasted a year. I was very lucky. Then I got my current job and I’ve been here almost 11 years! I feel very fortunate! I’ll retire in a year from now.

[@smallretiredlife]

Wow, you really worked hard to make things work out for you. Good for you. I’m glad to see you did not give up. Thank you for watching and for commenting.

[@stevenc6705]

I’m 54 and lost 3 jobs in my career. I’m still going. Build resilience by accepting that everyone is replaceable. It’s not life. It’s just a job. Get another one Also, live within your means and you’ll never need to worry

[@smallretiredlife]

100% agree. Thank you for watching and for commenting.

[@sw6118]

Getting a job at is rough because at 56 their young managers are too intimidated to manage people older than themselves.

[@smallretiredlife]

Yes, I think you make a good point there. It is much harder getting a new job as you get older or at least as you hit your late 50s or early 60s.

[@baroque9983]

My wife was laid off at 55 and I was force “retired”few years later at 59 1/2. An old dusty dirty door closes and a new one opens. I ended up becoming self-employed as an independent consultant for five years, which turned out to be a great off ramp and paid for a lot of things we needed to do to set up retirement. She started a small business to keep busy as well. We are now working on a slow ramp down to full retirement, but I am older so it is staggered. On our terms. Completely agree on the job and life loss and self identity loss. After a few years though I really don’t give a D**n anymore and ready to do things on my terms or in another field. There is a wave of freedom that hits at some point.

[@smallretiredlife]

Nice to hear your story and happy that things worked out for you! Thank you for watching and taking the time to share. Totally agree about the freedom. What a great feeling.

[@computer-training-for-seniors]

Never take a job for granted. There is no security on this earth, there is only opportunity.

[@smallretiredlife]

So true!

[@dorinatudisco1308]

What an interesting story. How wonderful that things worked out so well for you.

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you for watching and thank you for commenting. I was very blessed to have things work out in my favour or at least to have been able to make them work out for me. That’s for sure.

[@tonymanos363]

@@smallretiredlife I agree this is an interesting story and making apple bread while you tell the story is even better. Also, when you talk about your time off it is very relaxing and gives me hope!

[@nataliemesbah1639]

I’m really glad that things happened for you the way that it did!🌷

[@smallretiredlife]

Me as well, and thank you for watching and for your comment.

[@lorelleriley9282]

Good on you For a new KZbinr I think you’re doing a great job I love your voiceover 😊

[@smallretiredlife]

Aww. Thank you. I appreciate the comment.

[@ExploringUmbria]

Thank you so much! Your video gave me so much validation and reconnect with terra firma. I was working as Realtor for a top luxury brand, and at 52, in response to a divorce moved to Europe and dropped all of my pennies to set up a home base only to end up having to give up my role at that brokerage. I went from hero to zero in 3 months after frantically trying to finish my bachelors's degree and get licensed in a new country in a foreign language as a native English speaker. I have spent the last 4 months now battling the grieving mode, trying to hold my head up and be optimistic that I can find work in a coffee shop or grocery maybe. It is so great that hear other's stories and what worked for them. Thank you again.

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you so much for watching and for commenting. I hope things come together for you. Sometimes life is so stressful isn’t it?

[@cherylcarlson3315]

I was released at 58 as was being crushed by myasthenia gravis,was a crappy job in nursing profession that I had to give up because of growing disability. Loss of job wasn't as bad as loss of ability and ageism in US kicks in at 50 though a bunch of nurses work to 70 because pay )/pension is crap after 15 years experience.

[@smallretiredlife]

Sorry to hear you have health issues. That is so hard!

[@jackiebennett3762]

New subscriber. I am 57 and retiring in 5 weeks❤

[@smallretiredlife]

Welcome here and thank you for leaving a comment. Oh my goodness that is so exciting. I hope you have some great plans for your retirement. I absolutely love being retired. Would not change a thing.

[@sakshiparanjpe9427]

M sure life has better plans for u .. I know it’s easy to say but I really appreciate how u took everything in ur stride !

[@glendahill9845]

Thank you for sharing your story. Like you, I had planned to retire at 61 yo. However I was in a serious car accident while working out of province in 2018. This left me with some deficits that took away from my ability to focus, multitask, etc. My boss at the time was very supportive. However, as he prepared for retirement a new VP was hired. She had no knowledge of my abilities and work ethic prior to the accident and had zero empathy. After a long and poorly managed return to work, I was demoted and in May 2023, my employment was terminated. Although it was hurtful and a sad ending to my career that I was widely respected in, it has been best for me. I still suffer from the effects of the accident, so being more in control of my time is best for me, and I try to make the most of every day, although many days I spend recovering from doing too much the day before. That’s okay. I still have lots I want to do in this short lifetime.

[@kathleenjohnson3645]

I too was in a serious car accident and forced to return to work before I was healed. Because I had physical problems with pain I wasn’t sharp so they fired me. It forced me to sell my home and move in with my mom until I got a settlement. Life has a way of changing things I was lucky to have a place to go. I went to school and worked temporary jobs until I got a new career. Keep thinking of the future and be open to change.