I was laid off at 56 and what I did next

[@lr50plus54]

I LOVE that you dismissed your boss. No need to listen to hollow excuses, etc. You really retained your dignity in a very difficult situation.

[@smallretiredlife]

L O L yes. It was like the only thing I could control in my life at that particular point in time. Honestly, I just didn’t want to hear how it was them not me, blah blah blah. As I mentioned in the video living in Calgary, we get laid off a lot because the oil and gas industry is like the biggest employer here and those companies get sold a lot so we get laid off a lot. So I’ve been laid off several times, I know the spiel and I wasn’t particularly wanting to hear it again. All I wanted to know was what my payout was going to be.

[@oleandra3759]

@@smallretiredlife- that’s right- “SHOW ME THE MONEY” What movie was that? I think that was a really impressive move. I would not have thought of that. Good for you!

[@recherche4528]

@@smallretiredlifeI am curious how your boss reacted. Typically in the United States,the boss or management would remain with the HR person.

[@smallretiredlife]

@@recherche4528the HR person asked the boss to leave.

[@margaretellul4556]

​@@oleandra3759the movie is Jerry Maguire

[@erikacalvert9481]

Thanks for sharing your story! I was laid off at 58 after 15 years as a HR Manager with my company. No prior warnings and glowing reviews, so I was shocked, embarrassed, hurt, angry, etc….but thanks to the severance package plus 2+ months of unused PTO, I was able to pause, heal and take a few months to figure things out. I knew I needed to keep busy, so I started seeing a therapist, saw friends, took long walks, traveled and kept a gratitude list. Thankfully my hubby and I had both saved a lot of money, which definitely helped. I never ever imagined I would reinvent myself at 58, but I gleefully left the corporate world and became a Voice Over Artist and pet sitter. I make significantly less money now, but I’m soooooo much happier! The animals fill my heart with joy, and the Voice Over work is creative and challenging! And hey, I’m pretty stoked that I have narrated 30 audiobooks! As devastating as this experience was, it was ultimately one of the best things that ever happened to me!

[@smallretiredlife]

Good for you! Wow! Sounds to me like you are in a much better place.

[@lizad5772]

Thank you for sharing. Can i ask how you got into voice over work? I would love to do audiobook readings! 😊

[@whisper2284]

This is a great story! Thanks for sharing.

[@pendulumdistinction2494]

Incredible. Thank you for sharing.

[@Dr.DorisTorres]

This is so inspiring! I wish you well. ❤

[@kristymoore7052]

Same thing happened to me though I was in my early fifties. Did not get anything but unemployment, but I took my six months, bought cheap camping gear (at first) and lived frugally traveling by car and visiting 19 national parks that season, mostly alone which was new to me. The job loss also forced leaving my home, friends and community behind, so the “processing” took awhile. Fast forward, I am now working for an organization that is flexible and means something, I am now an avid camper, hiker, skier and backpacker. I just completed the John Muir Trail at age 60 and though devastated at first, it changed my life trajectory for the better.

[@manuelastefan1187]

That is fantastic ! May I ask what organization you work? Good to hear the more flexible and meaningful ones are out there!

[@Myspirit904]

At 56 I had been working for a breast cancer surgeon for 12 years. In early 2018, she called me in the office and announced she would be permanently closing her practice in 30 days. I was not angry nor did I grieve. I had not been happy there - it was a job that left me feeling very depleted. For some reason I suddenly thought, “I’ll try waitressing!” Fast forward, I secured a job with no experience and now nearing 63 and have been successfully waitressing for the last 5 years working half the hours I was previously working and making more. The job loss was a blessing. As a single woman, I plan to continue working like this for as long as I can, I love it.

[@smallretiredlife]

I’m so happy that things worked out for you in your favour. I think the fact that you went out there and just moved on and got a different gig is what made you succeed.

[@Myspirit904]

@@smallretiredlife thank you!!

[@helenready1310]

wow. i waitressed for 35+ years, my job ended (business sold) and nobody has so much as given me a callback (correction: two interviews, no job offer). i was 57-58(? i can't specifically recall, i just turned 60 this week), and as far as the market in my area is concerned: *aaaaahh! next!!* if you're my age. anyway, i'm so stoked that this avenue worked out for you. i'm making pretty good money as an event security monkey so i'm not complaining, but like i said, if you're 50+ and trying to get (back, in my case) into 'the biz' where i'm at???? psssh...

[@Myspirit904]

@@helenready1310 Happy Birthday! You might be better off with the job you have since, especially as we get older, serving is hard on the ol’ bod! Where are you located?

[@helenready1310]

@@Myspirit904 seattle, ageist capital of the universe. my new job is actually harder on my body than the 4 days/$700/week/20 million steps that my waitressing job entailed. standing [for 14 hours on end]: it's what's for dinner (cue aaron copland)

[@miriam626]

Thank you for sharing your story. I was laid off at 54. As I grieved, I looked for opportunities to give back by volunteering. Little did I know that 2 years later I would begin a ministry to help the homeless get off the street. I would never have had that opportunity had I been working. I am grateful for being laid off. Today, 12 years later, my life is much more meaningful. I am grateful. I have purpose 👍🙋🏻

[@Loveable03-y8r]

Hola hello beautiful world God Almighty bless all ❤️yess and blessed are those that give then receive,!! They also have done research the happiest people are the ones that give the most God Almighty bless all everything in life happens for a reason God bless all ❤️🌟✨❤️

[@robynmoxham4255]

❤

[@onebridge7231]

Never be loyal to a company. No company cares about their employees no matter what anyone says. Everyone is replaceable and disposable.

[@smallretiredlife]

So true!

[@ZZealot-y3u]

Gen y and Gen Z ....we are slowly beginning to change the work scape. Gen Z is beginning to just drop out of the workforce altogether. People are done being used and abused. At least we gen y will have a chance of a job when we get older for it. 😂😂

[@StridingForward]

Word!

[@raymondlin8728]

My philosophy back in the early 2000s. Go to work, fulfill your duties, go home. Don't make friends, don't bring family pictures, don't think this is the last place you'll ever work. Any day could be your last day, get ready to move on. It work well for me

[@kristindowner9897]

Thank you for sharing so fully from your heart. Very helpful, even though my story is very different. I’ve been a Sta at home mom & home educator, with 13 children & 38+ cumulative home education years under my belt. I presumed that “Shifting Gears” from mamma to Grandmum; from “in-demand” to at my leisure would be quite welcome & come very naturally! Au contraire! I have had a hard time finding my forward; of choosing to be available to a few as opposed to being “needed” by many. Change does CB not come easily to us humans! But your story, tips & principles apply to my situation just the same & are very helpful in my present exploration…

[@lynnfaulkner2706]

My pov is very controversial, but it has worked for me. I had many well paying jobs in sales and marketing, but when i became bored. I quit and did something else. I even went back to grad school at the age of 49 to become a Clinical Social Worker. In all those decades, i never saved a penny. I traveled whenever i could and supported people and causes i believed in, with never a thought to the future. I have had the most exciting, adventurous life. I have watched my old friends toil for endless decades at jobs that they mostly disliked, saving for their old age and are now comfortably retired. Unfortunately, many developed health problems and were unable to enjoy it. At 84, i live on SS, in a tiny but lovely apt in a low cost senior community. I shop at thrift stores and find beautiful things to wear, and i love to cook and share with neighbors. I am nearly 84, and while i wouldn't suggest anyone following in my path, I wouldn't change a thing. I see so many people who work all their lives to be comfortable in old age, which sometimes never comes.

[@smallretiredlife]

Wow, sounds like you have an amazing and experienced many exciting adventures. Good for you. That’s how life should be.

[@Ladyblogtest]

I think the way you do. I believe in enjoying life. I have never lacked or wanted for anything. Thanks for sharing.❤❤❤

[@agak61]

It is a great life however I regret not buying a small place to live vs renting ;( I’m in my 40’s and it will not be easy to buy and pay it off now - however I will try 😢

[@msbrendasnow]

@@silentnot4812 at 84 she deserves a break . I am 74 and was fired because I was out with covid-19. I found it difficult to get another job, so I reached out for assistance with food and utilities. I do not feel ashamed either. I worked for it and paid taxes all that long time so it's my taxes.

[@sbmart5929]

@silent - @Lynn wrote that she had well-paying jobs, but when she got bored, she switched to a different job/career, but didn’t save any money. Not saving money doesn’t change the fact that she paid into social security with every job she worked. So whatever social security she’s getting, she earned, as is the case with most people. You may want to more carefully read posts and not malign people who don’t deserve your derision.

[@elmobolan4274]

57 yrs old and laid off at the beginning of 2024 after 5 yrs. I was actually elated, happy but a little scared but I qualified for a severance pay and unemployment. I literally was so happy, I made my boss a little nervous. I was able to land a job 3 months later with full benefits effective immediately . Grateful. FYI no matter what you say or how much you cry in front of your employer, your fired and it's not going to change a thing, so go out with dignity.

[@smallretiredlife]

I love, love, love hearing your story. I’m so happy that everything worked out well for you. Thank you for watching and thank you for leaving a comment.

[@shanaboles4887]

This is encouraging....getting laid off in your 50s is crazy...but be positive..its a pivot to a new beginning

[@deboraholiver3716]

That's what I did. I had top seniority and made as much as I was going to ever make. The 4 days I was suspended, I looked into my retirement plan. I knew about the cut back on hours for the next School year. I'd make more retiring, paying less taxes. I quite the end of the school year. I did a few other part time jobs until I realized I had more than enough to live. I'm very glad I retired. I retired at 57

[@timcoady7095]

I'm 59 and turning 60 soon. I got laid off with a bunch of other people at my firm. I was a little down (for about a day) because I was one of those people who did the right thing over the last 30 years. I'm now retired and love it. my assets being supervised for 8years plus has impacted a lot of exposure in nest egg (in excess of 2.8m), I say that because over those 30 years I was a personal finance junkie and listened to all my mentors (John Bogle, Warren Buffett, David Bach, sometimes Dave Ramsey) haven't spent any of my 401k, Roth IRA, or brokerage cash account. My pension is so far adequate to meet my expenses. I don't want for anything, anyway. My kids will get my swag.

[@smallretiredlife]

Good for you! This story just really pleases me. Absolutely love, love your attitude!

[@kenderdine7886]

Cheers tim I love your viewpoint, I need a way to get ahead of my expenses and create more revenue exposure, I know for a fact that there's a lot of people that simply don't make enough, I make roughly hundred plus a year and in California, rent inflation alone eat up almost all of what I make, with dependents and other obligations included, it's easy to end up with zero. however it’s a good time to add to existing asset holdings as follow -on opportunities how did you go about touching base with yours, kudos on your growth so far.

[@timcoady7095]

you only have to put in the simplest terms to help you understanding tax, mortgage, emergency funds for cashflow interest. If you're looking for nest egg options or if you have any questions about financing your next property or assets building.

[@timcoady7095]

Then feel free to write Suzana markasevic her incredible earning interest will support you in making your home buying and benefits journey as smooth and stress-free as possible. Good luck staying debt free as much as possible in the future.

[@Paulreal-s2w]

I like the reward tip! My wife and I are working on paying off our mortgage fast, and I think that will help motivate us. I can't wait to be mortgage free! We have a plan, and should be able to get there in 5 years or so, with extra effort.

[@MagarethWoods]

Every family has that one person who will break the family financial struggle, I hope you become the one

[@ningyen1444]

Cryptocurrency/stock investment, but you will need a professional guide on that.

[@ningyen1444]

Facebook 👇

[@ningyen1444]

Evelyn C. Sanders

[@MeaganGood-yn9wp]

Am glad seeing this here today, your recommendation earlier this year was a blessing to my life and that of my family, am so grateful.

[@UdehChigozie]

Is she really that good? I have seen lots of videos about her.

[@Gurkha9]

Laid off at 56 after almost 19 years, a bit before the pandemic. A blessing in disguise that ultimately lead to early retirement. Initially it was a shock to my lifestyle, friends, etc but adjustment happened over several months and now 5 years later looking back i just smile. Luckily i was always a saver and lived below my means without debt. This year sold my house, car and other possessions and will be doing some long term traveling in a matter of weeks.

[@oscar17891]

you're my dream come true🤩I'm 51 and also a saver, but in Italy I won't have access to any kind of pension until I'm at least 67-69 (for now, things are looking even worse in the foreseeable future). And I've been working 9 to 5 non stop since I was 20😭

[@vickyb9918]

@@oscar17891 sounds similar to the US. I’m 57 and can access social security at 62 but full retirement benefit won’t be until 67 and I can’t get Medicare (government healthcare) until 65.

[@aathompson19]

This happened to my hubby years ago at 55 years of age and 6 months before his 25th year of working for that company. He was blindsided and never got over it. I tried everything I could to get him out of his depression, but to no avail. Like you said, how you successfully rebound from this is to take the proverbial bull by the horn and flip the script. Thank you for bringing your story to us. This will help a lot of people. 🙏🏼

[@mikefigures5075]

I got laid off 3 years ago at the age of 53 after 18 years on the job. Best thing that ever happened. I turned that into early retirement.😁

[@smallretiredlife]

Oh my goodness good for you. I’m so happy for you - that you’re OK with it and that it was actually a good thing. Thank you for watching and thank you for taking time and leaving a comment.

[@mikefigures5075]

I love that you asked your boss to leave. Wish I had done the same. I didn’t need to hear about how I was below par . 😁

[@madelinekimbro2440]

​@@mikefigures5075 if you were with the company for 18 years I hardly think you were below par. You were probably a great employee! Good for you that you are able to retire! Enjoy your time!

[@velvetindigonight]

Brill! Enjoy/Injoy too!

[@johnsonshieh50]

I like your attitude!

[@deborahdawes6975]

I got laid off at 62. The signs of coming layoffs were there, just not when, how many and who. My HQ boss made an appointment to call me, so I knew. I wrote the words "I see" with fat black marker on a piece of paper and put it in front of me on my desk. Unfortunately I had to hide it under a file when the local HR VP walked into my office, closed the door and sat down a minute before my boss called. But I remembered my lines ... Boss: Your talents are no longer needed. Me: I see. Boss: If you agree to work six weeks longer, you'll get a generous severence package after that. Or you can leave today and get no package. Me: I see. Boss: Do you have any questions? Me: Just one. Do I work out the details and complete the paperwork with [HR VP] ? Boss: Yes. Me: I see. Boss: Just so you know, these layoffs have been very difficult for me and [his boss]. Me: I see. Gosh, I hope you're okay. Goodbye. That was 9 years ago. I patched some benefits and work together (Thank you Affordable Care Act) to make it to Medicare age. Been retired 6 years. Love it. Enjoying the hell out of it. Still say "I see" quite a bit. It's great for getting control of many situations, believe it or not.

[@smallretiredlife]

😂😂😂 oh my goodness this is absolutely precious. I think I will pass that on to some of my older friends who are still working in case this happens to them.

[@carolegable4017]

The power of those two words. I used them in a different situation and they kept me calm and level-headed. But until I read your story, I didn't realize just how useful those words are for a variety of unpleasant situations.

[@tigerlily1034]

I see!😂

[@ZZealot-y3u]

I'm so glad you people have made it through these troubles. It's time the younger workers withdraw their loyalty to corporate and it's happening now we see WHY. NOBODY wants to appreciate the loyalty and devotion from their workers. Simpletons running corporate today.

[@carolynrains-es7kx]

I'm just imagining your ex boss's face as you're saying "I see"😅😅😅😅 luv it!

[@benhehe4818]

I was recently laid of at 60. Yesterday, I received an unexpected check of $691 from a rehab place I visited years ago for overpayment refund. It was the most meaningful check I have ever received.

[@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473]

A sign God is telling you that you will always be blessed 🙏🏿❤️

[@larahporter8123]

I was laid off at 50 and it hurt so much I never recovered. I still hate my ex company and ex bosses and ex co workers, it was too much to handle, after I almost gave my life for the company, I even battle with kidney cancer while I was always on time with my work and taking more work to help others and "the team". I still feel like crying when I remember, so I prefer not to remember. I was never the same person after that, no more working with passion and over time... no more going the extra mile, no more honoring the company's mission and vision... I just died inside. Yep, that' how much I loved that company. I will never ever love another company like that again, I learned my lesson the hard way.

[@TLA123y6f]

This makes my heart hurt for you and also angry at this kind of betrayal. How can people sleep at night - do they just have no conscience? I understand being changed by life situations. I'm there too.

[@Happybidr]

I’m sorry that happened in a way that affected you that way. I’ve also been let go, but honestly it pretty much turned out for the best. Got much better jobs and moved into the career I was meant to be in, that I loved. I never grieved any lost job, because I always want to move around rather than stay in one company. Fortunately that is the nature of the field I was in; you rarely stay anywhere beyond 4 years. You gave a lot of yourself, so just take it back and get so busy that you just don’t think about them with any feeling at all. Best of luck.

[@kazbah1217]

Me too, same experience. I have nothing left in my tank anymore now.

[@Dentos19]

Sorry to hear this I lost my job due to stress I also loved the job and the company fir16 years,not even a phone call from my manager,took me a long time to recover but I’ve done it,lost my wife last year with a brain tumour after 52 years can’t tell you how devastated I was,but I’m celebrating my 52 years with her,I’m playing bowls,cooking and with the love of my family and great friends I’m really happy,so go forward and enjoy every day I’m. 75 this year👍

[@daynasafranek7807]

I did something similar, but didn’t experience cancer (I’m so sorry you did), and I still can’t stand any of the people or the company I worked for. I prefer not to think of them. I quit… but waited until the busy season and they were short staffed. That felt great. About a year later, I sent a beautiful note card to the HR director and told her that my life had improved since I quit. I was in the hospital for six weeks and I was never told to re-enroll for insurance and was offered COBRA (as a full time employee still). It was then that I decided to work there until the right time to quit. I told her I didn’t want COBRA insurance… what an a-hole company. It felt great to quit a company that was petty to all of its employees. I was 35 at the time, but now I’m 50. It’s hard to be older in any job field and yet they expect us all to retire at 67. I learned to avoid any family or small businesses because they were the most toxic, always!

[@Lamarche1959]

Do not listen to anyone telling you to work on beyond 56. I hit my 35 years of national insurance contributions when I was 55. I'd prepared my path ten years earlier. I invested (95k with the help of my Fa). We sold up in the UK at 55 and have lived on the proceeds since then. I have a private pension which started aged 60. My full State Pension finally starts in 3 weeks (I plan on investing it all for my grandkids secret nest egg) Every day is absolutely amazing. Don't work a day longer than you have to. The clock is ticking. We are not slaves to the system. No Government can tell you when to stop. Go find your own freedom.

[@phyllisburtonhearsawho]

Wow this is really impressive...congrats on your success

[@KathHarnell]

Please can i get your consultants info? or should i drop mine for privacy sake ?

[@smallretiredlife]

What an empowering statement. Thank you!

[@Lamarche1959]

@@smallretiredlife You're very welcome! Her name is Susan Kay Mack

[@PODBlueprint]

Definitely. Am glad you found your own freedom ❤❤❤

[@arcadia1081]

I am 57 and raised my kids so never had a career sadly, but i am proud of being a stay at home Dad when 15 years ago I was exotic, alone with my kids, really alone as no mother would connect with me. Now that my kids are out of school I found something new to do - delivering newspapers! At first I was feeling too proud but I asked about it and was told you choose when to work, wait till the good weather etc. You get an area and maybe 300 papers to deliver per area. Also an area of "forbidden" houses who hate circulars. Well I get my papers Wednesdays and Fridays. I now have a trailer on my bike and am quite fast in each area. I get to work outside in fresh air and often sun and love chatting to people - today I got free apples from a lady plucking her fruit! So if you have absolutely nothing, go and do that!

[@NewStart1971]

@@arcadia1081 That's incredible 👏

[@anaheffington578]

Hi!!!! so glad your channel came on my feed. I also got laid off in 2018 at 56 years old. I also knew 3 days in advance I was getting laid off because my employer's payroll department stupidly posted my severance pay on ADP payroll system which I had access to. (so stupid right!!!) I did not dismiss my boss, but hearing that you did makes me wish I would have thought of that!!!! I did not dismiss my boss, but because I had 3 days of insight I was able to maintain my dignity, remain stoic, I had cleared out my desk and all personal belongings, etc. Thank you for your story!!!! I am excited to hear more.

[@smallretiredlife]

Oh my goodness what a story. There is something nice about knowing ahead of time because it does give you time to prepare yourself. You can kind of think about how you will handle things. Thank you for tuning in and thank you for taking time to leave such a nice comment.

[@davidliuis]

I hope to see more videos of how handling life right now. I was just laid off a couple ago and the package is running out, The employment market and that good either😅😂

[@kristinesanta6971]

I worked for ADP for 31 years. They laid me off @ 50 years old. It was devastating.

[@rickazca774]

I do relate to your video and everything you said. . I was laid off at 31, 44, and 55 and 60. Lessons learned - 1. No such thing as job security, college degree or not. 2. Put aside money just in case. 3. Keep your skills marketable. 4. There are a ton of other jobs out there. 5. Keep your bills to a minimum. I've had 3 cars my whole life and had no kids. That was a HUGE savings. I'm 64 now, still no retirement in sight, work 60 hours/week to keep ahead of inflation. You do what you can to keep things moving forward.

[@Lady_Ra]

Why no retirement in sight?

[@rickazca774]

@@Lady_Ra The unpredictable nature of inflation. I don’t want to end up a Walmart Greeter. I know folks who retired, savings sunk pretty fast and they scramble to find work again. I’ll keep working as long as I can. Will reevaluate in two years.

[@hsoderberg6505]

One can panic, cry & then take control. There is nothing weak in expressing emotions.

[@patrickwilliams1801]

There is nothing wrong in expressing positive emotions and going forward. Not to get angered though. No emotions is like being a machine. We are not machines. We do grieve loss whether a funeral, loss of job, or a friend.

[@aiai-j7i]

Exactly my thoughts! Living in the USA where there is no safety net, it is normal to freaking panic!!

[@kayfujio8349]

English is not my first language and I was single mom and was laid off at 50. After that I decided what I always wanted to do. Go back to school and get the degree. It took for two years to prepare and enter 52 and that year my daughter graduated college, too and graduate 56. Now I am 71 and look it back, it was the best thing I did my life. I lost all my 401K but no regrets now I met a wonderful guy at 60 and happy ever after.

[@pendulumdistinction2494]

Magnificent! I'm glad you took a bet on yourself. You deserve it.

[@janeminty6947]

Nice video! I left my job at 62. I really liked my job but the stress from poor management (my opinion) was making me feel awful ! It’s been a year. I feel great! The best advice I could give to the generation behind us, is to save when you are young ! If you put away a little for a long time, you will have a lot of money ! Compounding is amazing! Your future self will thank you 😆

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you for watching my video and leaving a comment. Welcome here. I so totally agree with absolutely everything you’ve written. And having worked at corporate gigs pretty much my whole career, I totally understand how stressful it can be if you have poor management. I’m happy that things are working out or at least it sounds like things are working out!

[@relaxlabmusic1815]

It’s so weird that companies think if you are older you won’t be there that long. In reality it’s younger workers who job hop to get more pay, bigger titles, opportunities. I think so many times, it’s 2 years and they are out. Maybe less than 2 years.

[@smallretiredlife]

Yes I totally agree.

[@cardinal8268]

I just hired 3 people in their 50s. Why? Because I need people with work history and staying power. Sure I can hire and train a 27 year old but I'll be training another in 18 months. The folks in their 50s stay for 15 years.

[@sherizuech6562]

I agree! The young ones are so unreliable and only want to work when they feel like getting out of bed. Us older ones are responsible and understand that we have bills to pay

[@cchoi108]

​@@cardinal8268thank you wise one.

[@championfortheunderdog]

I agree. We have so much more experience just by the fact that we are over a certain age. We have wisdom, we can see errors and issues coming our way with better perspective which in itself is like a super power. We do things better because we’ve been doing them longer correcting as we go along. Instead of being dismissed,disregarded, and disrespected, we should be celebrated that we’ve made it this far on planet earth without ruining ourselves 😅 being older is a low key super power. Fact

[@ChristianJacquet-my3rl]

I got laid off after 29 years in an electric utility in the end of 2009. It was tough - I had to sell my home, go through a divorce, and take on debt. But I didn't give up. I got expert help to fix my finances. Saved smart, maximized my 401(k), and invested wisely. Now, at 65.5, I comfortably live on Social Security and my savings, with growing investments. My retirement income exceeds my former $135,000 salary! Expert advice made this possible. You don't need a million dollars to retire happy. Seeking help was the best decision I ever made.

[@brianmurphy-j4h]

Thanks for sharing! I'm nearing retirement, still recovering from my layoff. Your story inspires me to explore new purposes. How did you navigate the emotional and financial transition? What advice would you give to someone seeking a meaningful retirement?

[@ChristianJacquet-my3rl]

Thank you for your kind words! I'm glad my story resonated with you. Navigating the emotional transition after my 29-year layoff was toughest, but I found success by allowing myself to grieve, focusing on self-care through exercise and meditation, and reconnecting with loved ones. Financially, seeking expert guide from a seasoned financial expert, creating a budget, and maximizing my 401(k) and investments were crucial. For a meaningful retirement, I advise defining your purpose through volunteering, hobbies, or passions, building multiple income streams, and staying flexible and open-minded. Remember, retirement is a new chapter - embrace the unknown and explore opportunities to grow and contribute.

[@brianmurphy-j4h]

Who are you working with please?

[@johnketh-n9v]

Being laid off at 57 was a blessing in disguise. After initial shock, I adjusted and now cherish freedom and simplicity. Living frugally and saving enabled a smooth transition. Now, I'm excited for long-term travel and a new chapter.

[@gvon6358]

Another stupid advertising bot!! Don't fall for this people!

[@dianesgardeninspiration]

I was just laid off 😔 I appreciate your tips. I believe that God is good and when one door closes, another one opens. I haven’t had time to grieve yet…..I need to reflect on what I want to do with my life. Thank you for sharing… wishing you and everyone that finds themselves in a similar situation well. 🌻🌻🌻

[@Joysart360]

Thank you for sharing. I was laid off in March of 2023, which is around the same time I turned 60. I went through the grieving process as you mentioned and I also tried finding another job right away, however after applying for hundreds of jobs over the last year and a half with no luck. So I'm now coming to the realization that I am retired and starting the next phase of the process of acceptance and figuring out next steps.

[@smallretiredlife]

Firstly, thank you for watching my video and leaving a comment. Welcome here. I am so sorry to hear you got laid off the age of 60. It’s really hard! But I have to say being retired is absolutely lovely. Finally an opportunity to do things that give you pleasure, joy, and make you happy. I hope everything goes well for you.

[@MsHeidiHello]

I'm glad I'm not alone in this! Getting laid off is SO humiliating. However, Reina (sp?) makes a good point below: it's a chance to make a better life for ourselves. :)

[@firefeethok_tui2355]

Keep the faith ladies. Think anout something you do well or enjoy, and seek that. It might be different but we live a long while now. Be healthy, sell yourself and seek someyhing you can be good at❤. Its tough getting the interview. Be real, authentic and let them see you.

[@charlenecundy1690]

My company sold and I was laid off at 60; I worked there for 28 years, it was hard on me as I’ve always worked. Thanks for your story and great attitude ❤

[@thechangingtimes]

Once you hit the age of 50. Most bosses don’t really know what to do with you. You know more than just about everybody around, and you can also see you right through the BS that so many superiors want to try to sell everybody. Insecure employers want to get rid of workers like that. The goal should be for everybody in life to retire by the age of 50, but of course since we live in the society we do, most of us do have to work into our 60s. Great advice for this video and good luck in all your future endeavors. By the way I love that you dismissed your boss, when they were sitting there like some kind gawking hollow suit. Cheers.

[@KSF2010]

I'm happy I found this video. I'm 62 and was laid off some months ago. I found your video very inspiring.

[@smallretiredlife]

Oh my goodness! Welcome here and I’m so sorry to hear you got laid off. It really is so much harder when you’re older. But I know you can do it. I know you’ll be just fine. Take care of yourself first.

[@ACCOMPLISHEDSHEIS]

Luckily at 62 and not younger. At least you can get SSI Retirement.

[@sfstucco]

@@ACCOMPLISHEDSHEIS- Hi. I’m curious: How will you be handling your healthcare coverage until 65? I turned 63 recently and just got laid off. My severance will cover 3 months of my health insurance (well, the previous coverage rate), but I have yet to look at coverage on the open market. I assume finding out COBRA costs will give me a seizure! Sorry to hear you’re in this situation, too. ✊

[@christophermiranda8126]

It happened to me at 62. Called to HR and walked out of the office. It happened to a few others. It was shocking. Thanks for your video. It’s very encouraging.

[@globalfamily8172]

I'm so sorry. Best of luck.

[@Prariegirl2023]

I was forced to retire from my 35 year career due to health reasons. It’s good to hear how you processed your lay off. It has been very sad for me. I wasn’t ready, lost some great relationships and didn’t realize my identity was wrapped up into it. I chose another occupation that isn’t a fit and feel a bit lost. Trying not to panic but trying to take it one day at a time. Thanks for sharing! All the best to you! Great suggestions too!

[@smallretiredlife]

So sorry to hear you’re having a tough time. Definitely read the book by Ryan Holiday “the obstacle is the way”. That book just really helped me. Thank you for watching and commenting.

[@sw6118]

Exactly, I was laid off at 50, way too early, from a well paying job in an industry I had come to hate. I went back to school and got another degree that would enable me to do a job that I would like. I could do this because I had gone out of my way to save over the years. I’m now enjoying the work that I do.

[@smallretiredlife]

Welcome here and thank you for leaving a comment. I’m so happy to read that things have worked out for you. Life is too short to be in a job you absolutely despise!

[@NazASMRSA]

back to school at age of 50? wow

[@MyEverydayGarden]

What did you study?

[@drivethrupoet]

I would also like to know what you studied because I was laid off at 47 over a year ago and it's bleak. Looked at some licensing programs in healthcare and other stuff, it's still like 2 to 3 years and I just don't believe anyone will hire a 53 yr old to do anything they just started doing.

[@bjaneharding584]

I’ve been hired in my fifties, 60’s , be positive and forget the age. I’m an RN. I WILL find another job. My company was bought out. Think outside the Box You can find something if you want to work. I always take my age out of the equation. Dress professional and look as young as possible. Less make up but a little. Best wishes!

[@carrie668]

I just came across your lay off story. Thanks for such a good sharing. I was laid off this June right after my 60 birthday. I wasn’t shocked and panic when they told me that morning because I have been feeling it’s coming one day from the pattern of this company and the worst management I have ever encountered. I am glad that this happened instead of walking away by myself. The package they have me was small but helpful for me to enjoy a couple months without worrying about the living. You are right that this is the time for self to rethink and recharge. I am very happy that I finally have time to sit at my garden every morning to enjoy coffee and my garden❤

[@Laura-eb8uz]

Great response from you. I got laid off in England in 2020 at 50 years old due to impact of Covid. Best thing ever. I realised my worth and changed sectors to secure a salary twice what I was on previously. Some employers do value experience and commitment.

[@SusanThomas-o7l]

This popped up in my youtube videos - I just lost my job 3 weeks ago, and am 59. I'm enjoying hearing your journey, and what you have learned. Thanks for sharing.

[@lisaviviano1568]

I retired at 68 having worked full or part time for 50 years. Waking up every day in control of my own life and decisions, is a blessing beyond imaginable!

[@smallretiredlife]

Absolutely agree with you having control over your own life and your day-to-day is such a blessing. Welcome here and thank you for leaving a comment.

[@rebeccaoliver7977]

Yes, it is!

[@candyhotlips1338]

Agree 100%.

[@cjay233]

Thank you. That is what I am hoping for.

[@Jacquelyndorindachic]

ABSOLUTELY ❤

[@Genniece2719]

I am so glad I have come across your channel. I have recently been laid off at 58 and it is no joke . Look forward to your future videos.

[@smallretiredlife]

Ugh, I know exactly what you’re talking about. It’s hard. It’s kind of sad because when you’re older, and if you’re still wanting to work, you actually have so much experience and knowledge to offer an employer!

[@ianthomson3718]

I was laid off at 61, looked at all the positives (there were many) and found an ideal job 2 weeks later, even though I was only having a peek to see what was out there. I worked for another 18 months, which gave me time to take stock, and retired 15 months ago at 63. It took me a year to keep reminding myself that the cage door was now open. Now, there is no cage :-). New subscriber. Love the channel

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you and welcome here. So happy things worked out.

[@melindacurfman8259]

I was laid off at 60- not what I had planned but you are right - it is what it is. Take a breath and one day at a time. I am looking for work- with no high expectations and just enjoying the little things I never had time for before. A long cup of coffee and a good book!

[@PurpleSoulMKE]

I am so happy I stumbled upon your channel. I was laid off 10 years ago at the age of 40 and a few months shy of 20 years of service. I was going through a divorce, I had a troubled teenage son, a daughter in college who became a single mom, I lost my home, it was a HUGE adjustment for my kids and I was just lost. I had enough strength to start a small business to support myself financially, and I just kept going. Next month I hope to turn 50 years old and it occurred to me, recently, that I never gave myself a chance to grieve. I’ve made a lot of mistakes over the last 10 years so I’m still working things out. But I’ve never felt more hopeful, confident and inspired than I do now. All the things and validation I thought I needed and wanted 20 years ago, isn’t important anymore. If I’m blessed to live another 20 years I think it’s a good chance the things I worry about today will no longer be an issue then.

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. For sure life is a journey and often times we look at things that happened 10 years ago and realize that they were pivotal in making us who we are today for the better.

[@lyndacarter8508]

Wow! Thank you for this! What an empowering and much-needed video/message!❤ I spontaneously retired after a series of happenings, I lost my mom in Jan. 2024. a month after returning to work (brought mom home on hospice), I was notified I would be laid-off or reassigned. I worked for a school system, so the new position entailed summers off, when school began in Sept. I knew immediately immediately the position wasn't right for me, so I retired, gave them 2-days notice. I am the most content and happiest that I've been in a long time. I am 59 yrs. old and enjoying retirement, while simultaneously still grieving the loss of my mom. Life requires us to continually pivot and make the most of situstions and circumstances.❤

[@lindagrimmett6564]

Yes, COVID put me into early retirement at 59 in February 2020. But later that year I found out I was going to be a Grandma! What a wonderful surprise. And I was able to come and go as needed to help out this new family of mine. 😊

[@smallretiredlife]

Oh, that is so exciting. I have five grandchildren so I can tell you they are such a blessing.

[@Mary-tj5qx]

So glad i found this. I am 58 and work in tech. I’m confident that next year, likely around May when the next round of mass layoffs come, that i will be let go. In my late 30’s I went through an extremely difficult time after losing 2 people very close to me. This time included a job loss, which really piled on the pressure because i was not at all financially stable. That experience was a time of extreme stress, all of it amplified by my financial situation. This prompted me to make achieving financial independence priority 1, 2 and 3. I achieved FI. So… next year when they lay me off, I’m ready.

[@smallretiredlife]

Firstly, thank you for watching and welcome here. I am so glad to hear that financially you’re ready if you get laid off. There is an amazing feeling about being able to take control. If a bad situation happens I think the tech industry, like oil and gas, is really prone to a lot of layoffs. Good for you for being organized and being ready. I think we’ve had the past and experienced an extreme level of stress due to finances in some cases it’s spurs us to take control.

[@TLA123y6f]

I think it's horrible that corporate mentality just 'throws people away' on a regular basis. How can anyone make plans for the future when there's no stability?

[@tobigee3479]

So happy to run across you. I’m in Lethbridge I’m 60 and retired during Covid at 57. I’m loving it! Nice to see a Canadian speaking on this. Good luck to you. I’m subscribed now. 👍

[@smallretiredlife]

Welcome here fellow Albertan! Thank you for watching!

[@lizadams7662]

I really admire your dignity and how you handled a tough day, and after.

[@koksangoh]

I really enjoyed your candid convo about what happened and I do admire your courage and boldness in life! I'm 47 but felt I have to start preparing for a 'small retired life'

[@michellewaters1246]

I was 58 when I was laid off and it turned out to be a blessing. I spent a year grieving, resting and traveling. When I decided to look for a job, I was able to get my dream job. I stayed at this job until I retired this April. I am enjoying my retirement and I receive a retirement check each month. I am grateful every day for everything that came before this, life could have ended up differently if I stayed in self pity. I try to look at obstacles as a learning opportunity and that makes life more interesting. Thank you for your video it was helpful.

[@smallretiredlife]

Great story and I’m so happy that things have worked out for you. Thank you for watching my video and leaving a comment.

[@Summergirl65]

that is so great! what was your dream job?

[@michellewaters1246]

@@Summergirl65 my dream job was with our county mental agency as a social worker. The best part was my supervisor, she was supportive and allowed us autonomy. And I was able to build up enough time so I qualified to get a retirement check each month in retirement. Working for the county is about the only job in our town that offers retirement benefits.

[@Summergirl65]

@@michellewaters1246 that's great!

[@TLA123y6f]

Obviously you had the funds, or another source of support, to spend a year off grieving, traveling. Not everyone is as fortunate I can assure you.

[@daisyfieldparrks9320]

I believe God sends devine intervention, this morning it was you via KZbin. I wish I had this video 11 years ago when it all happened to me here in America. It’s been downhill since that time in terms of securing a full time job, but the “TAKING CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE SITUATIONS” is so key!!! I am at the point of no income, living with family and only a few years from 60, but this is NOT how my story is going to end! This video was extremely insightful. Thank you so much for putting it out into the universe to help others. Looking forward to more, I definitely subscribed! Keep going.

[@patty4709]

I retired at 58 while company was on top. We were bought out by foreign business. Many changes after first year. I was VP and could see the handwriting on the wall. I gave a 30 day notice on Dec 31 st. Best decision I ever made. I had travelled all over the world, attended many corporate meetings, worked on US acquisition. I was tired and wanted to spend quality time with my little grandkids. I am now 85 and have not worked a day since. I was prepared financially to retire early. Now, it’s been the best of times. I did volunteer work one year, play golf, travel, read a book a week, play mind games on my iPad etc. Life is good.

[@deboraholiver3716]

I retired early. I would like to travel. No one to travel with. I'm content. I have two granddaughters now. They are my world. I can do with them what I couldn't do when raising my own two daughters. That is buy them stuff. My parents couldn't afford anything. It was easy to accept not having extra cash when raising my daughters. Now I retired with more income than I had before. I can buy stuff when we go anywhere. I don't go wild on spending. It's nice to afford the things I couldn't in my youth.

[@heidiespinosa1419]

OMG I can so relate. At 57 I was squeezed out of 17 years of running multiple businesses under one roof and the last 8 years of it doing it as a single employee office. My original boss died of cancer and the last 6 years I kept things going while his sons were in charge, but they both had full time careers. I made things very smooth for the transition after their father’s death and made it easy for them to sit back and I kept the profits rolling in so they could just focus on their regular jobs. The last year I was employed I could sense something was changing and then I got very sick with Covid and they pressured me to still come in, because they claimed being a one person office there was no reason I couldn’t be at work. I tried to go in and just got worse and ended up home in bed for a full week and upon my return they had decided that I no longer had sick or vacation pay which was owed to me and they refused to pay me and just said they were going to restructure the way forward but would never answer me how no matter how much I asked. They just ignored the question on the phone or when I would text. Next they ignored any major issues that happened and after awhile I couldn’t take it anymore and I just had taken the last straw and up and quit. I knew they would keep on pushing by ignoring me so I would quit knowing full well in the state of TX if you quit you do not get unemployment. 17 years of hard work down the drain. I drained all I had and started a small business and it’s floated me through, but hard at times. Bottom line you can either sink or swim is all I could think of. I’m semi retired, I have my small business but also a part time job. What I have learned is that I will have to work until I die, but also that chasing careers and chasing money is not so important and that time with family is more important than trying to build a fortune that you may not live long enough to enjoy regardless. Yes I might be on a much smaller budget with little savings, but I’m happier now.

[@smallretiredlife]

Oh my goodness this is such a sad story. I am so sorry this happened to you.. I’m glad that you’re in a really good place now

[@missbiggs9437]

KZbin’s algorithm brought me to this channel and by coincidence, to your comment. It was so sad reading your story, how hard and devoted you worked for that family business and in the end how shabbily the successors (sons) chose to treat you. Loyalty and appreciation sure died at their hands! However, I’m encouraged that you are bouncing back and enjoying your new semi-retired life. I wish you every success, happiness and great health for the years ahead! 👍🏻✋🏻🙏🏻

[@TLA123y6f]

I just responded to a poster in a similar position a few minute ago. I just do not understand how people can be so heartless and calous. I've had very bad experiences happen to me, too, and it left it's mark. I'm so sorry you had to go through that.

[@sct4040]

How ungrateful of those sons, if they have any foresight, they would have predicted a 1-employee business has no backup and not a good model. Really Dumb of them.

[@doel2083]

I love the calmness in your voice.

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you for that! 🙏

[@denisejo10462]

I don’t know how you ended up in my suggestion list, but 49 year old me would like to say thank you. Since I have seen people in their 50’s over the years get laid off, I am thinking about my next chapter and how to keep income coming in. I look forward to hearing more of your story.

[@karlinebohne789]

Thank you for your story. My company has just laid off 3500 people and in a sales role, there is fear of being next. I love the mindset of being in control.

[@smallretiredlife]

Wow! 3500 people! That is just so sad. I hate the fact that people are just commodities to employers. Getting laid off has just such a profound effect on you even if you know that it’s not your fault and it’s just a company doing what is best for themselves. I hope everything works out well for you

[@song8777]

I don't want to grieve, but I totally love the "take control" part. That's for me! It's so simple, even fun. Those 2 words just snapped something into me. Thx!

[@tabous2]

Thank you for sharing! It was wonderful to listen to you. The decision to get your boss out the room was golden. I did not have the maturity to do that back then. It is something I regretted for a long time.

[@LivingRichlyonaBudget]

Thank you for showing us that you can be your authentic self and make a meaningful video that connects with a lot of people. Sometimes we just want a simple video with great advice and insights. No fancy editing needed.

[@Alecmcq]

I was a little more fortunate than you… I was laid off at age 60. For me, that was perfect! They paid me lots of money to go away, and I also decided to retire. Great decision, I love retired life.

[@smallretiredlife]

Ugh! I am so jealous. If that had happened to me at 60, I would’ve been cheering and running down the street in complete joy. As it was, I had to wrap my head around it a little bit more but it still worked out. I definitely do not miss working….ever.

[@Rdz2012]

I appreciate how transparent you're being. Your experience and advice goes a long way. ❤ Thank you

[@ntiriwa]

I love that you were baking as you narrated your story 😊it just shows how calm and well you processed the whole situation-I also love that you were so empowered to tell you boss to be absent for the rest of the meeting -exactly right -you don’t need to hear what a “treasure” you were but blah blah blah we can’t afford your valuable service ! Just a number is what I say but life has to be lived ! Thank you for sharing and I’m gonna try your Apple bread yummy 😋

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you for that kind comment. I had a couple of comments that criticized the fact that I was talking and cooking at the same time lol. So your comment makes me feel better; thank you.

[@cleigh113]

I started a new career at 61 after retraining due to a workplace accident - it's pretty scary and being at the bottom of the office barrel so to speak was a big change for me and something I'm still working through. Thanks for sharing your story!

[@HojuHana]

I’m listening to your story while I am doing the housework in the kitchen just like you. Thanks for sharing your story.

[@joyblevins8712]

I was not laid off I retired at 60 and it was the best decision I've made. Work was brutal

[@ashleybanksss]

I’m young in my 30s but still subscribed because you have a great testimony and mindset in face of adversary. Love your story. Keep it up! ❤

[@smallretiredlife]

Wow, thank you. I love watching much younger KZbinrs…if the channel interests me, I don’t even see the age. Plus …there are not a ton of female KZbinrs in my age group lol…though there seems to be more now.

[@rajchoudhary4221]

i got laid off at 57 again....now re-hunting for same roles that I have done for 30 years . Its hard but I feel am not ready to retire yet, there is more firepower in me ,so I dusted off the past to create a plan , which is under execution. 4 key things I do different now, - to get back into employment 1) own my lay off story -authentic and proud 2) planning to demand more salary 3) putting together my value prop than a resume 4) putting together 2 page of not only why me but also why they benefit. Of course I will compete with people in their 30s and 40s but someone will pay for experience and pay well. keeping my fingers crossed .

[@MsHeidiHello]

Your story is so inspiring! This exact same thing happened to me at age 61 in 2023. At first I found my new time off so therapeutic - I took some trips and enjoyed the summertime here in Wisconsin. However, a year later, I am beginning to wonder what I am really doing with my life to bring me satisfaction and joy. After working since I was 16, I am ready to do what I want to do now with the remaining time I have left on this Earth. Thanks for making the effort to share your story with everyone.

[@smallretiredlife]

Aww, thank you so much for the lovely comment and welcome here. I hope you find your next passion. The awesome thing is that it will be something that you really really want to do and will enjoy. This is what I love about being retired - I love being retired but doing KZbin keeps me really busy and it’s fun. I don’t really care if it doesn’t bring me any money. I’m just enjoying learning new things.

[@jamieopulence]

You are so gracious. Very well handled. Riding the waves as they go up and down - ebbs and flows.

[@fedupbin]

I actually left my job 10 years ago just to sell on ebay/amazon and it worked out fine. I was 52. Now years later, aged almost 63 I have had to go back to work part time as my online selling has gone bad. It can be hard on the body working fulltime, so decided to work part time. Good luck to you in your life from the UK

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you so much for watching. You’re brave for going back to work. I think that would be really hard after being your own boss. Best of luck to you.

[@fedupbin]

@@smallretiredlife It was at first, but my colleagues are great. Like a family

[@LilyGazou]

What happened with online selling?

[@JCizzleSoCal]

@@LilyGazouNobody wants to buy lawn gnomes anymore

[@christianmeza4941]

@@JCizzleSoCal maybe its the economy, it will pass 👍

[@pawlieblog7967]

Hah! I’m in Houston and worked in oil and gas so I’ve been laid off many times! Age 53, 54, and then I freelanced and contracted until I was 59, got another fulltime job for a year and went thru another layoff at 60 in 2020 (Covid times). Been contracting since. I turn 65 next year and I’ve had a great contract job since 2021. May retire but planning ahead and moving to France for my whole new life!! Buying a house there, very exciting.

[@smallretiredlife]

Wow, awesome story. Yes the oil and gas world is nuts! You have to be hard-core to handle the layoffs that come with an oil and gas life.

[@rachaelnuchols764]

When I got laid off I couldn't take time to process, I was single mom, 3 kids, I had to take the first job I could while still looking for better job. It would have been nice to take some time. Glad it's worked out for you ❤. Great video

[@smallretiredlife]

Yes, I agree. That’s very stressful when that happens. I have two children and I’ve been laid off when I was younger and they were still little. Same thing here, I had to go straight back to work. find a job right away. I was super lucky in that I was always able to find work almost immediately after I got laid off because of the field of work that I was doing. At that time there were not that many people doing what I was doing so I was in a good position. Not everyone is in that kind of a situation. I think it’s that situation that really spurred me on to take as much control of my money as I possibly could. My savings mentality was definitely caused by trauma.

[@firefeethok_tui2355]

I cant imagine the stress that would bring. But Keep at it. Plan far in advance with baby steps for yourself to fet to where you see yourself. Time will pass by. Good luck amd hope youre doing well.

[@70sMixTapes]

I so appreciate finding your content. I had a similar situation about 4 years ago and am still in the process of redefining what work looks like for me in retirement.

[@mikesawyer4707]

I retired early, yet after the reception and all the cards and letters of well wishing I had an issue with separating myself from my former career that I spent over 35 years doing. Everytime I visited, the small college campus that was so much of my adult life I felt just a little guilty. I could not put my finger on why. Even through I was always welcomed warmly by my former staff and co workwrs I cound not help but feel that guilt. In the end I just decided to just hook up with a few people who had retired a few years earlier than myself and we would do lunch or just do a coffee and that did the trick I got to a place where I did not miss the campus any longer. It has been seven years now and I continue to keep in touch with friends from my campus life I am very satified now. Thank yiu for taking the time to read my story. God bless. 😊

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you so much for watching and for commenting. I agree with you. It’s really hard to kind of figure out who you are after you retire. So much of our personality is enveloped around our careers!

[@cartoonheart1111]

The same thing happened to my husband 6 months ago after 22 years as a senior manager at a company. His age is 52. He said he knew it was coming when the HR manager showed up first thing on Friday morning. Thank you for sharing. Wishing you all the best ❤

[@DeathByFashion1]

I was laid off once when I was 19-21 and I was devastated. I remember having nightmares for a while about that day 😅 this manager always praised me and this day at 430 called me to her office and told me I was not a good fit and handed me my check and said I was paid till 5. Little me had no idea how the real world was 😅 I’m glad everything aligned for you to come out on top❤ and now I’m a believer that everything does happen for a reason so even when I’m afraid I trust❤

[@josephinebrevig8748]

My husband is in a new job he started 1 year ago at 56 here in the UK…it’s a big global company. They have a strong belief in Neuro divergent workplaces. He’s really loving working there. I wish all the best in the future…thanks for the story.

[@OceanFrontVilla3]

Excellent, very forward thinking of them as there's going to be a higher percentage of people who are neurodivergent due to the current generations being mandated to take an insane number of... we all know what.

[@dschultz6981]

This was me, too. I wish I had asked my boss to leave when I got the news. She is a nice person, but I didn't need the excuses. I grieved, probably for longer than I should have. But it was a shock, especially since our team was replaced with much younger people. I'm in a good place now. Our savings have allowed me to work PT, so I spend the remainder of the week doing things I love - playing with our grandkids, working on my writing, going to yoga. It's not the way I thought my retirement would happen, but we're making it work and I'm thankful for it.

[@sandydremmel1506]

You are courageous to share your challenging experience, and you embrace it to share it with the public. Thank you for the strategy implemented.

[@ayeshas.3727]

Before you said I knew you were going to ask your Manager to leave and it was a BOSS move.

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you I really appreciate this comment lol! Honestly, it was like the only thing I could control in that situation!

[@ayeshas.3727]

@@smallretiredlife no problem. I work in HR so thoroughly appreciate and respect that move.

[@jimi94u]

I love the way you handled your boss like a boss. You sound very much at peace now. Happy for you. New sub here.

[@eddaly4160]

Thanks for sharing...my store is similar...I was laid off at 62...I found out in an email...no package...it was a small company that just had issues getting contracts....stay strong, things will get better.

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you for sharing and thank you for watching and also leaving a comment. Much appreciated. Hope things go well for you.

[@exit.h.dreams]

Great video. It showed up on my feed just now. It’s nice you had severance, but it helps to have something saved even when you are employed as you did. The best advice I ever got was to not make decisions based on keeping your job. You will make the wrong decision for yourself, your coworkers and the company. Having something set aside makes it easier to make the right decision.

[@smallretiredlife]

One hundred percent 💯

[@4thorder]

A similar thing happened to me. Engineer at a company for almost 30 years. Poured my soul into it and then out of nowhere I get a call and that was that. 57 years old and to be honest I was burnt out after that. So I decided that I was done. Took my pension and the buyout and invested it. But then comes the "what the heck do I do now?" Took that bull by the horns and started working with another retired engineer on a futures trading company. I admire your attitude about taking advantage of your opportunity by learning and now sharing with the rest of us. Very refreshing! Oh and great now I am hungry!!

[@sandragrasdock6377]

Thank you for sharing I actually chose to retire 2 1/2 months ago at age 58 1/2. I was beyond burned out and decided it was not worth the toll it was taking on me. I want to get a little job at some point but don’t want to be a high level manager anymore. I am blessed to have no debt and a supportive husband ❤

[@jacobrocks7]

I’m a self employed consultant and began to lose work in 2020 ..I was 50 ..I have since lost over 60% of my work but instead of looking for more work,I decided to work on my personal development while working part time ..I have never been happier ..the loss of funds hurts but you cannot BUY TIME!

[@smallretiredlife]

Yes, you are absolutely spot on!

[@newwomandouglas2959]

I just subscribed. So far, I'm loving your channel. I was laid off at 55 from a job that I had been with for 10 years. I was devastated. Not so much the department, but the company. I'm working now but I'm not being fulfilled. I'm looking for something else but happy to be working now. Keep sharing your journey. Thanks.

[@xploradora8099]

Wow this makes me so sad for women in their 50’s and beyond. I’m late 40’s and work for myself and am thinking to go back to working for someone but I realise now, it’s not going to be as easy as finding employment when I was in my easily 40’s. BUT I’m hopeful.. and will stay working in my business until I find a job job. Good for you to tell your boss to leave the room. I’ve been made redundant twice and it was tough. The first one nearly broke me at 38 years of age. I did what you did, take some time off, I went to life in Mexico for a working holiday. The 2nd one I handled like a boss and started being self employed straight after that redundancy.

[@smallretiredlife]

I guess I saw your other note 1st. So it sounds like you don’t live in Mexico, but you just went there for a vacation. That’s funny because I went to Mexico for vacation when I got laid off in one of my jobs. I went to Cabo. I’ve never been self-employed. I guess KZbin is kind of my version of that although I am looking at it as more of a hobby than anything else. If it ever gets monetized, it’s a bonus in life and more just to prove to myself that I can do it.

[@jliu78]

Such good information, and your story and the way you presented it really hit home. Well done, Raina! Looking forward to more and I’m glad you’re doing well!

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you so much for watching and taking time to leave a lovely comment 😀🙏

[@RedVelvetLines]

Laid off at 39 after a 15 year career in project and program management. After 2 years being unemployed and only landing ONE interview, I'm getting a second masters to become a teacher. Ultimately, the security and fulfillment will mean far more to me than a higher salary (that comes with so much uncertainty and no guarantees). I'm still grieving the layoff because I made the mistake of tying my identity too strongly to my title and salary.

[@marthaespitia514]

Love your calmed collected reaction to a situation so uncomfortable, I admired that on a person, always not allowing your emotions overpowering your intelligence!

[@andysdestination8671]

All my jobs over 35 years I never got fired or layed off. I’m turning 57 in four weeks from now and this is my last job. I will retire early from this job at any time when ever I’m ready. Then after that I will have a full time artist with painting and drawing plus video shooting. I feel I should not worry about the rest of my future. I’m glad you’re doing well. Cheers 😎😎😎🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️

[@Christine_Everywhen]

So serendipitous that the algorithm sent me to your video! I have not been laid off myself (not that common in my sector, unlike oil and gas) but am very interested your “small” retirement content. Plus you seem like a very cool person.

[@LifeStories93]

To all who are overwhelmed or hurting-I pray that you find comfort and insight. May peace fill your life, and may your anxieties and fears give way to positivity and belief. Amen.

[@fatmagul4878]

Thank you!

[@LifeStories93]

@@fatmagul4878 Thank you

[@smilekapoor]

Liked the zeal and vigor with which you have dealt with the situation. Thanks for sharing, it is helpful to me.

[@AlGrant-bh9or]

Your outlook is an inspiration to many, during their time of trials. In '88 I was about 30yr old and faced similar job loss, albeit with a wife and 1yr old son to provide for. Staying positive and proactive are key to staving off depression. At 67yr, I thank the Almighty for the strength to get thru all of the speedbumps. Thanks for the memories!

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you so much for that lovely comment. Glad things have worked out for you. Life truly is a journey.

[@morningmona]

My mom works in the tech sector and she got laid off last week. It was a shock because she had been there 1 year and was stellar. Her boss, is a man who did little work and gave her everything to do. She raised a complaint to him that the work amongst the team wasn’t evenly distributed. Then he set up an early meeting in person at 8 am to tell her she was being let go and that they’d provide a severance package. How ridiculous. Just have the meeting online. Why call a person into the office after a 1 hr commute at 8 am to tell them? What a horrible man. Luckily, my mother is in a financially stable position having saved.

[@April-jf9ev]

He doesn’t like her. He liked to make her miserable the last time. Karma will get him. Don’t worry.

[@totorishop]

Haha literally just happened to me last Friday! I complained and showed proof that the work was unevenly distributed (I was carrying the brunt of it). 3 weeks later, laid off. But with nice severance. Huge blessing! Boss was a methodical evil witch! And now I’m free!!

[@sct4040]

It was power play.

[@straitjacketstudios]

Thanks for the video. I was in a mass layoff in July of this year. Age 56 with 30 years tenure. Still trying to get all my ducks in a row. Interesting that I had a pre-scheduled 1:1 conference call with my boss that morning, which I thought was scheduled for something else (pretty routine), but when I woke that morning, I somehow predicted this was actually what the call was going to be about (job cut). In retrospect I found it really interesting the level of intuitiveness I had that morning. Can't explain it. Anyhow, I am on my journey as we speak. I am also pretty astounded how close your story is to mine.

[@LeslieChacon-y8f]

Nothing happens by chance. Came across this video and it couldn't have happened at a better time. I think big changes are coming my way in terms of work and this video has really inspired me to look for other ways to earn income, reinvent my life, myself, etc. Thank you.

[@scottoreilly4785]

The best thing ever was covid. For the last 30 years I worked for myself as a sub contractor always working 6 or 7 days for about 30 years. Then covid. I was forced to take time off and I loved it. I started spending quality time with my grown up children and my younger grandchildren. The wife and I went on a cruise and that was it, something I hadn't ever thought of, retirement. Thank you covid. I love retirement, I'm going to Australia next year for the F1 grand Prix, then Egypt for the pyramids.

[@meomeomeomeow]

Had this happen to me at 36, looking back I'm grateful for that experience, helped me to learn so much about humility, life, and how little a job really mattered in the span of our lives. Always be prepared, take care of your self, take care of your loved ones, everything else will fall into place.

[@betsyr4724]

I had a similar experience and low and behold I am working my passion now. I am tutoring learning support kids at a middle school. It’s part time, gets me out and is meaningful to me. Of course I didn’t know this was going to happen and I had to sit and grieve, but I had a good friend who encouraged me. Thank you.

[@smallretiredlife]

That is absolutely awesome. Good for you! What a meaningful job to have working with kids who received so much value from the time you spend with them.

[@betsyr4724]

@@smallretiredlife Thank you. I’m looking forward to more vids

[@NicoleNikNY]

I work in HR and have been on both sides of the fence. It's tough and sometimes hard to navigate your way through it. For some it takes a long time while others can shake it off rather quickly. I think you give such sound and applicable advice to those who find themselves without a job. You remained present and thought about your next step and made a plan instead of succumbing to anxiety and why me. Again that's tough to do so kudos to you! It's nice to think we all have the luxury to retire when we want however that's not always the way it works out. You handled it really well and took charge in a way that we all can. BTW, thanks for sharing what you were making. I enjoyed your talk but kept wondering what is it? 🙂

[@smallretiredlife]

Thank you for your nice comment. Yes the apple loaf was amazing. I got the recipe through the KZbin channel called preppy kitchen.