I went on 30 dates in LA & here's what happened. (a halloween grwm)

[@nadineh4767]

If men get mad at women who like men with money then women should get mad at shallow men who care about looks. Goes both ways

[@cherryflavoredplaylist753]

No literally, like if men expect their gf to look like Bella hadid and have a long list of features in order to be attractive enough then women can decide not to be with someone who’s insecure and in turn will try to make you feel bad about yourself.

[@iritikasharma]

Exactly 💯

[@saniyauzumaki]

Honestly the real thing should be, who cares if these men are mad. Some are mad due to wealth and some are now mad due to criteria for looks towards men. The main point should be these bitter entitled and insecure men are going to be mad and should be blocked out tbh.Which I am believing most women are doing as we see them on internet complaining.

[@sagek7949]

No, it’s not the same. Anyone can make money but not everyone is born pretty.

[@ranakonswa2169]

Men don't get sl*t shamed

[@AyeshaKhan-nx6xj]

This girl is spitting out straight facts

[@aliciacantaro]

No matter if Anncy is in LA or Dubai, men always have the AUDACITY.

[@ranakonswa2169]

More reasons to be a feminist and teach younger girls to be feminists 💞💞💞

[@bdancestars]

Who is the common denominator between the LA and Dubai men? Ancey.

[@mimilailah5389]

@@bdancestars *men

[@sbee278]

I love this new direction anncy is taking her channel. Love these simple sit down videos where she just shares stuff she’s learnt, realised and conclusions she’s made from certain life events. Honestly, helps me out a ton as we’re the same age and I’ve been struggling with these exact issues. I feel like my feelings are being validated seeing her point out the same stuff which irks me out during dates !!

[@julybaby12]

Anncy,you should maybe talk more about friendships since i think we all struggle with it and honestly im interested on your take regarding to friendship issues. You gave a lot of good relationship advice. Love your vids btw!

[@sayantikaghosh4240]

Absolutely

[@beidoumybeloved2409]

Yes.

[@kobyin6522]

I am 20 and have 0 friends 😭🤧

[@valeking5993]

Agreeeeed

[@faryalsocials6317]

Yesss

[@umatambe]

omg my jaw dropped when you mentioned that a little kid grabbed you from behind like wtf... even kids do such disgusting things omfg.. im so sorry anncy that you had to experience that

[@Sophia-ex7fu]

Me who have never been on a date in my entire life taking down notes from anncy

[@cindyirene2001]

Honey, 29 is often still a child for men. I’m 32 and I’ve met plenty of 35+ year old men who are still childish. Accomplished women is a new concept to many men and they’ve never been held accountable at keeping up with a higher standard. So no matter the age, if you vibe with him and vice versa and it’s healthy, nourish it and go in! A good man who is compatible is hard to find no matter the age…

[@casebased8391]

So what age men do you go for, 60? lmao

[@cindyirene2001]

@@casebased8391 Weak. Here folks is exhibit A of a low energy and immature man to prove our point. Triggered much? And how old are you by chance? Whatever it is, embarrassing for you, really.

[@haventchangedmypfpsince2009]

@@casebased8391 Nah my grandpa is pushing 80 and he's still on tinder lmao it's who they are as a person. Character can build, but some people just stay the same. Emotional intelligence for men is sometimes never reached not even when they're on their death bed. Just gotta find a guy that's self aware and mature regardless of age, which in this dating economy, it's like looking for a speck of a diamond in a raging dumpster fire. GL HF w that!

[@casebased8391]

@@haventchangedmypfpsince2009 I wasn’t asking you, but ok? 😂 GL HF dating 80 yr old grandpas lmao

[@m.a.7552]

this rant is hilarious yet accurate. 100/10

[@reneediaz951]

I think its heartwarming how Anncy can afford to get ALL the Disney princess toys she desires n isn’t ashamed at her BIG age either.Really making up for her childhood in that aspect loves that 🥺❤️

[@bebebongBaebae]

I don't think 24 is a "big" age at all. But maybe it's cultural difference

[@hoseok4life615]

this was sooo💀 lowkey shady

[@naomi6608]

@@hoseok4life615 deadass🤭

[@noor_444]

this was so backhanded for no reason

[@BABXY123]

In what world is 24 old are you out of your mind

[@nainapremani1031]

When you tell a boy that you cook/clean immediate reaction is -wife material 😭🤦

[@ranakonswa2169]

They love women but hate equality , don't get married it's a trap

[@ROSIE-sp1wx]

Fr 😭😭 l

[@pamelap3115]

I love that Anncy is giving us advice about things she was able to work on

[@johnsonjo8454]

@pamele hi 💐💋😘

[@WonderGirl4444]

I think dinner dates are a bad idea for a first date with a stranger (i.e. from a dating app), you basically get locked in and can't leave if they're a weirdo/creep. Coffee/drinks is way better so you can leave quickly if necessary, and the first date with a stranger is basically just a check to make sure they're normal, you can do dinner dates after that. Also I think the older guys were worse because older guys looking for younger women could be a red flag in itself, it could be that they're immature (if they're on the same maturity level as women 5-10 years younger), think younger women are easier to manipulate, women their own age won't put up with their bullshit, etc.

[@JennJustLeft]

you need to read female dating strategy handbook. l then you'll understand why coffee dates are low effort and not an acceptable first date. the female dating strategy will also teach you how to leave a bad dinner date early so there's never a risk of getting stuck with someone you don't vibe with.

[@yq1880]

@@JennJustLeft lmao holy shit get some sun

[@mpro9446]

@@JennJustLeft no

[@SeaFlower38]

Why is it difficult to leave a restaurant? Are u being taken to restaurant that locks u inside ? Haha

[@raisaa1537]

I think coffee/drinks dates are a bad idea for a first date because it’s so low effort. A lot of men take a shotgun approach to dating and ask out a bunch of women they don’t like in the hopes that one of them will sleep with them. Dinner dates force men to be more selective because they have to invest more. You can check to make sure they’re normal via FaceTime or phone call before the date.

[@mooncakerabbithender7203]

I never tire of listening to your talks Anncy. Plus, we were getting a makeup tutorial. Hope you find your Alladin soon. xxx

[@shtupidpenguin]

i started this school year by setting boundaries and changing my attitude with people just like you because it was DRAINING before but i still find myself sometimes on the verge of being a people pleaser again, not even because i'm scared of loosing them, just out of habit (i think). girlll, how do you stay consistent?

[@amirafatehi3288]

Same thing here and I have that problem very very seriously. What helps alot is to just constantly remind yourself why you're doing what you're doing. I find it very helpful (this is super corny) to write letters to myself every week or every 2 weeks for why I'm okay without them and why I have to set those boundaries

[@om6114]

this grwm popped up on my home page and i watched out of curioisity for the LA dating scene. instantly subbed once i saw how relatable, genuine, and real you are! you will definitely find the right person in LA when the time is right and it's meant for you

[@ahsiut]

was having a crappy day and this video made me smile :') I'm so happy rn just cause of this video :')))) thankyou so much anncy🫂❤️

[@rwsaline120]

"what am i snoop dogg?" killed me im crying lmfao

[@pranjaliramteke5888]

this feels like a lesson that i was never taught in school and i'm here for it

[@413chelsz]

Exactly dont feel bad if you have to leave a bad date or if you need to stop talking to a guy you were interested in because hes being weird. Thats just wasting your time and stopping you from meeting someone whose actually good for you. I met so many good looking guys who were just creeps or pathological liars and at the first red flag id cut them off. Im currently married with a good person who has the same goals as me, that wouldnt have happened if i stayed w/ any of my previous dates but also learned what i want and dont want! So def keep being open to meeting new ppl the right one will come around

[@sakurasai781]

We need a podcast episode for those mother in law stories ☕️

[@MonicaPhoenix]

I love how open and honest you are and especially resilient and you learn fast and can make fun of yourself. I wish you did workshop 'be more like Ancy' 😅

[@rahman1314]

i wish i had a friend like you, your life is full of tea and omg im so jealous of those who are friends with you

[@rizzysenpai]

Anncy your so effortlessly funny 😭

[@TheManTag3]

The part about first impressions betting important is so true, I feel like you can tell so much from the way they show up at the first date fr

[@Skinnylandia]

First Snow Brown, now we got Beauty and the Djinn ❤️

[@hyunjinsamericano1450]

😭😭😭😭😭

[@gabbyxoxox]

LMFAOO

[@bubble313]

STOP😭😭😭

[@johnsonjo8454]

@@gabbyxoxox hi 💋

[@viktorija_6267]

I love how your mindset evolved. Finally someone making sense❤️ Also i can tell that the handbook was helpful 😂 iykyk

[@ssnhra]

"Yeah like im a waiter" "Ok so for blush we are using peach 🍑" Anncy throwin shocking drama and instantly switching back to makeup 😭😭

[@cherryflavoredplaylist753]

Yep, never settle, men know that they can do the bare minimum and still be seen as desirable, you deserve better than that. Raise your standards don’t lower them, that’s how you end up with a weirdo or a cheating ass husband.

[@tej9027]

Yeah You Should Deserves Better But Never Forget That if a guy is not that rich but he is treating you and very nice right then that's what it matters at that point .

[@likexchloe]

more dating story times and advice pleaseeeee love it!

[@moz8584]

Caring about education is a lot less shallow than caring about looks. You’re born with looks, education and money you typically need to work for and put effort in, and it says something about your character and values. Men are seriously trying to project their own shallow ways on to us

[@Nikkisowner0]

be fucking forreall, these men got the AUDACITYYYY. I would love if you started a whole series about this

[@tej9027]

Men can say the same and society is more unfair to men than women .

[@MuskiCake]

Anncy I love you more than you love your Disney Princesses book 😭🤗

[@afiab32]

I have a completely different viewpoint on what a guy should do on the first date: If he knew you prior to the date, then of course it should be a restaurant or something fancy, to show his appreciation to you accepting the date. However if you’re both getting to know each other for the first time, it should be something more casual, like a test meeting, where you’d go to a park or a local spot to do something fun or low effort. Then after that initial meeting, you both decide if that other person is worth your time, and the date after should definitely be a nice place. Example, you meet a guy down the road. He says “hi, you look beautiful”. You say thank you back, and engage in some small talk. If you both enjoy each other’s company, he asks if you’d like to “grab some coffee” at another point in time, where you exchange numbers and get to know each other a little more. Then after that date, you both decide if you’re interested in continuing to date this person. However, if the man knew you before, for example at a workplace, he expresses his interest in you, and asks if you’d be interested in getting to know each other more, on a fancy restaurant date. Also important to note: It is good manners for the man to pay for all the dates, however on the first casual date, it would be okay to pay half each, if there are costs involved.

[@JennJustLeft]

play stupid games: win stupid prizes. I used to think this way too. but girl you have to value yourself much more. you are the prize. you literally have all the power. don't accept anything less than dinner that he pays for. you'll find the quality of men increases. but also learn that you can leave dinner (learn escape tactics) so you don't waste any time on a person you're not vibing with.

[@froggywithaheart]

​​@@JennJustLeft as a girl, this is an honest, genuine ques, what have we done at the point (initial stage) to be called "prize"?

[@studyandchill8462]

Haha these girls are thinking like crazy. Like bro you ear n a lot so does the man in front of you. Does that make you or him perfect? No. They think they are princesses with no issues while every other man has.

[@tej9027]

​@@JennJustLeft why do you think you are the prize ?

[@tej9027]

​@@studyandchill8462 True

[@RealityxFairytale]

I don't look for ambitious guy because of money, but because I want them to match my level of ambition, so we can evolve together.

[@hsjn7957]

Walking dates are cool though. You can go to a park and enjoy the nature or explore the city if you are new. There will be a lot more to talk about. Just my opinion. U do u girl

[@ajmosutra7667]

No, because they show guy doesnt want to impress you

[@lototheflo9640]

Not unprepared. It’s seems like he just said “let’s meet here” instead of “let’s go to this parade” and in the first case I’m thinking that we would be walking to a destination to eat or do an activity.

[@vashposh]

dont do this…very unsafe

[@ivy6179]

This date is a cheap low effort on his side like why would you do this? Lol you can talk through chat? Lmfao

[@grimreaper7522]

@@ivy6179 it seems these days only spending money on first date is a green flag and everything else is not acceptable🤣

[@nawaz93s]

Anncy is acting up, im now in my late 20s and trying to date men in their early to mid 30s and im telling you, these men have so many issues its crazy. I feel dating in college was so much better than dating now LOL

[@sree1680]

Most of them are looking for a mommy

[@JennJustLeft]

FACTS

[@ranakonswa2169]

Alway date more than one , be smart hoe better than a pick me

[@ivy6179]

They got baggage

[@yaslynsahota]

Nancy love yr real dry sense of humour and sarcasm

[@kalyansundarharsha1584]

where were you all these days? omg i was literally checking if i missed an upload, you have have a whole bunch of us to coz your videos cure most of my head aches sis

[@iamnouny6588]

Raising our standards one minute at a time 🫡

[@princesskimme3]

My bf had all the red flags the first date. Took me hiking on the first date then brought me to his place for a home cooked meal and watching a movie. The movie part was actually really good. His backyard is set up very cute and he pulled out a projector. I thought he was so hot so I went a long with everything but omg did it pay off. He's not rich and neither am I but I've never had a man spend so much money on me plus I can't cook and he cooks!

[@JennJustLeft]

there's always exceptions to the rules. hopefully he was a good guy and if you had refused the hiking date he would have stepped it up and took you to dinner since he's shown he can invest in you now. some of us get lucky. but women need to stick together and not accept anything less than actual investment on the first date if we're to see any real change in courtship habits from men. hence why we all need to follow the rules and not accept anything less no matter how "hot" the dude is.

[@princesskimme3]

@@JennJustLeft sure yea maybe he would have taken me somewhere nice if I refused. But even though it was a hiking date, he spent soo much effort just cooking the meal and setting up the backyard for a Perfect movie date with blankets and snacks ( it literally looked like right out of Pinterest). he also didn’t try to sleep with me. I think rather than how much money someone has, maybe look at how much effort someone is doing for you cause money does not equate to a good guy. If he spends his time and effort on you, he will spend his money on you. The second date was a dinner date and now he’s buying me designer on every holiday. I still agree with her in a sense. I just say look for time and effort first and the money just goes hand in hand with that

[@sams517]

Did you mean to say he had all the green flags from the first date? Lol I was expecting a horror story after reading that he had all the red flags but this was a positive comment….

[@moz8584]

How are these red flags

[@princesskimme3]

@@moz8584 you’re not understanding

[@adamayalo]

Anncy rants are always hilarious entertaining facts 🤣

[@sushrithakolla885]

In the end when she says please avoid crypto boys like wth is that 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 sooo dead hahahahaha

[@yadu7249]

maaaan i love watching you I LOVE YOUR GRWM'S I LOVE LISTENING TO YOU 😭😭❤️❤️ the storytime's you share are so intriguing and theres always so much learn ILYY

[@winningviews4907]

“Am I snoop dogg” LMAOOOOOO

[@___9370]

y'all please don't take her advice too seriously..it fits for her situation..if you do find a decent guy and wanna have fun with say a beach date..go for it.. don't think too much..stuff she says is very specific to her..LA..and her life..not everyone else

[@linakaddour4470]

No. Always think. Always. Not thinking can get you killed. Don't listen to this person

[@bhavyaprem2446]

Am I the only 33 year old married woman on maternity leave watching aancy giving dating advices while cooking dal? 👁👄👁

[@minonasri3730]

Looool

[@bdancestars]

Yes

[@bhavyaprem2446]

@@bdancestars 🥲 you didn't have to do me like that 🥲

[@mimilailah5389]

@@bhavyaprem2446 ignore them, they're leaving nasty comments under everything

[@user-bp2fo4be6p]

Anncy is amazing❤️

[@geemorales3555]

Girl, I was born & raised in LA & I've never been on 30 dates with random people. Let alone 1 Haha. They gotta have a mutual friend with me or something

[@vashposh]

your last name says it all MORALS lol

[@Amaranthine56]

@@vashposh LOLLL

[@tej9027]

Creepy right ?

[@loleimi]

I'm still dying over that snow white look😭

[@May-o21]

There's grown men from 25-35 yrs old that love having a fun date/girlfriend especially if they have a hard work-life.

[@May-o21]

But definitely don't lower your standards for any Man lol.

[@ivy6179]

Which fun personality do they like? Lol

[@May-o21]

@@ivy6179 From experience, a care-free attitude & spontaneity. Someone they can unwind and forget about worklife.

[@AnkitaSingh-ux9qi]

going through a break up after 5 years of dating & moving in together in a whole different country and anncy starts talking about breaking up after 5 years. this is the sign i needed. i’ll be fine lol.

[@ssnhra]

James and your 59 year old boyfriend LMAOO the way i laughed at this istg

[@qbvbe]

With the 30 and roommates thing, I'd say depends on the housing rates in various places. I'm pretty sure a high paying job will get me a nice apartment for a single person. Otherwise, I'd have to do more research in finding a cheaper but a bit more run down apartment.

[@LayingInAMeadow]

Yes honey yes to the look and everything you said was spot on!

[@alisondelli-gatti8500]

I literally love you sm omg

[@CorrinaMusic]

OMFG THIS IS SO SPOT ON AHAHHAHA. And that last part . How do you come up with this gold omggggg

[@AimanIqbal]

Brooo you so fucking relatable. I watched this video thrice

[@aylingutierrez4355]

Anncy is so iconic i love her

[@souravrai881]

I was waiting for this vdo to drop after I saw her outfit in insta she posted. M excited 🤣🤣🤣🎉🐰🐰

[@pranshu8682]

This is why I'm scared of dating people 😅 Guess I'm having arranged marriage with some Prasad or Suresh😭

[@tej9027]

You Shouldn't Be Scared . Watch Others KZbin If Your Scared . This is not that scary . Hope You find your perfect partner

[@anushreeroy7591]

“This is not Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs sequel” OMG ☠️😂

[@kanishka.s7610]

You are literally my comfort youtuber 😤💗

[@yuleisymendez6586]

I swear you crack me up everytime 😂😭

[@9a2r7m6]

love u anncy I needed to hear this :(

[@green82929]

This advice helped me sm

[@mememememe9089]

pls i NEED that video about guys with mommy issues

[@DS-zr9gv]

'Please avoid crypto boys" got me hahah

[@esraa5429]

I relate so much to the obsession with Disney princesses

[@inza3107]

I love the honesty

[@mahamanwar6283]

omg i needed this

[@mageksena2002]

anncy setting boundaries, you love to see it

[@vivigabagat3676]

Ty for this video, I was a people pleaser and I had a freaking stupid toxic relationship recently.

[@aishaa8017]

This whole look🥺🥺😍😍u literally suit anything!!!

[@kisarizvi9372]

Love you so incredibly much Anncy!!

[@laibahyder7567]

Anncy : i dealt with this shit *flips sides* SO I'M USING MY INDIAN HUDA BEAUTY PALETTE

[@ireenchristopher0296]

"I've a rice in my pantry for five years... I'm not gonna marry it" Anncy🤣

[@mylittlebouquet3994]

Omg Nancy you look so pretty! 😭❤️❤️❤️

[@sayuugao5891]

This is so relatable!!

[@LisaMarieWi]

This is your best video ever 🤣 I laughed my ass off

[@3RACHASUPREMACY]

NOT THE MARATHON DATE 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@user-fh6mc8gt6f]

dying to see anncy's type -in men. :""

[@nidhinair1209]

Okay therapy I absolutely needed

[@fyza1]

Yayyyy I was waiting for this😩

[@faryalsocials6317]

Learning a lot from you girll

[@JosephineLilly]

I needed this!!!!!!

[@tanyavaishnav9559]

You are always on point.

[@xoxo8495]

psa: don't listen to a person about dating advice when they say "i don't know how to date" and "I attract losers" because wtf

[@ketovore133]

"I've had a rice bag in my pantry for 5 years, doesn't mean I'm going to marry it!"😂😂

[@brendajp]

It's the men and boys in California!!!! GET OUT OF CALIFORNIA!!!! SERIOUSLY RUN!!!!

[@saniyauzumaki]

I love this video. This is my favourite video Ancy has made and I have to say this as not the all time I find her humour to my taste. Also thank you for talking about the double standards over money. This is true in india especially ironically in arrange marriage scenes. These men or should I say Indian incels lol, cry over some women here preferring a guy of certain financial stability and call them names when they don’t meet their criteria and thus are rejected. Whilst completely ignoring how many of these men put more emphasis on women’s aesthetics/ looks and don’t seem to care about income or financial status of a woman at all and how many women are expected to give up their careers after marriage to take care of the household, kids and in-laws. No one is forcing these men especially the high earners to be with these women , they are just making those choice with above criteria or else they would have chosen someone of their level, if it was a priority. I just find it weird how in arrange marriage where criteria are suppose to be more objective to be laid out upfront is cried over for this. But alas you will just find hypocrisy from these lonely bitter men in corners of internet as they’re rejected and I am sure most of it has to do with their mindset rather than wealth or even looks. I love how you also mentioned about women walking away from abuse and bad relationship. Definitely proud of these women and it needs to be mentioned out loud.

[@saniyauzumaki]

I typed the above comment as I was half way on the video but holy fuck Ancy I gotta type again. I have been to the shitty Reddit rabbit hole where I read shit ton of incel like comments by men and on women. From I have understood, these men are just lonely and bitter as they’re rejected (not surprisingly) and they feel entitled towards that woman they found attractive. Hence, you would see this shit on women being told by these men to lower their standards or straight up insulted with their misogynistic terms and stupid comparisons of like late 1800s when women were oppressed with no rights. Any man who’s secure, fulfilled with himself and always strives to improve in his life, won’t be so hurt by a rejection and simply moves on.

[@saniyauzumaki]

On people pleaser, I am kinda split on this. I like things being balanced especially in my friendships and close relationships. If I know I can help someone out and my act of kindness can make their day better, I will do it. On contrary, I have seen people who are fucking lazy, act entitled and don’t contribute anything to help or reciprocate back. They’re takers and I definitely think boundaries need to be applied around them especially people pleasing behaviours. I do understand what Ancy means here though when it comes to date’s

[@amrapalirajput2391]

What I’m i s snoop dog 😂😂

[@abingpinkk9632]

Thanks for the advice ✨❤️

[@2beolivia]

You are so hilarious Miss Anncy❤️

[@doktor_mario]

😂i- loved this

[@Nikkisowner0]

YOURE SO BRAVEEEE.

[@ithan38]

I love just hearing you speak Anncy 😂❤🎉❤❤

[@awanjie5761]

It’s a meet and greet 💀

[@ajjax777]

I have an older bf and even though he’s a lot laid back he still finds the things I talk about interesting! It really is just the guys you meet some of them are super boring and out of touch and others are cool and fun to be around

[@maia3117]

Straight facts 👀

[@zatrat5696]

thank you for this…even tho I was clickbaited I now want to rethink my options