I Went Through Hell With My Pastor Husband, He Married Me A Virgin And Left Me With A Child

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Boldly Owamie

Boldly Owamie

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@keabetswemilly2626
@keabetswemilly2626 4 ай бұрын
Owamie is such a good interviewer,she allows her guests to tell their story and doesn’t interject unnecessarily..❤
@HlubiNgwane
@HlubiNgwane 4 ай бұрын
The host should interject sometimes like; we don't know if she (guest) told her husband that his mom was taking his undies and socks, and we don't know what his response was. Also, no follow up question on the threat made by her mother in law on what was hubby's reaction or whether she told him that his mom said her son would return home. A few opportunities were missed.
@theoneandonly86-o5q
@theoneandonly86-o5q 4 ай бұрын
she could do better, she let's the guests speak and speak and doesn't ask questions when needed I think.
@theoneandonly86-o5q
@theoneandonly86-o5q 4 ай бұрын
could not agree more
@lovelyfamily7712
@lovelyfamily7712 4 ай бұрын
That’s why I love listening to her channel
@hadassahfirst1478
@hadassahfirst1478 4 ай бұрын
I agree fully 🙌🏽🙌🏽
@maritawanazw
@maritawanazw 4 ай бұрын
Ladies, always remember that there's also a devil in the church.
@africanbrowny
@africanbrowny 4 ай бұрын
That's where the devil hides in plain sight. Spirit of discernment is important.
@victorioussisters3307
@victorioussisters3307 4 ай бұрын
Oh yes, the devil always creates a parallel path, he imitates what’s in the kingdom of God.
@nomalangaselenje5199
@nomalangaselenje5199 4 ай бұрын
@@africanbrowny Extremely important and unfortunately not everyone gets it.
@GodsFavourite2024
@GodsFavourite2024 4 ай бұрын
Indeed. Church is a hospital for spiritual issues 😢
@onyourcoffeebreak2476
@onyourcoffeebreak2476 4 ай бұрын
Devil is actually not in the bar, they are in churches, on the pulpit, in the choir and in the congregation
@PreciousZondi-fq9gr
@PreciousZondi-fq9gr 4 ай бұрын
The way we church ladies attract narcissists needs to be studied. What a relatable story, thank you Ninja you’re really serving the best content 🙌🏽
@harrietboateng5239
@harrietboateng5239 4 ай бұрын
its about spiritual warfare. So narcissists who represent satan go to church to steal, kill and destroy. Christian ladies are usually naive targets because we are called to love like christ.
@keepitfrankwithfentse
@keepitfrankwithfentse 4 ай бұрын
Charismatic churches SPECIFICALLY.
@gloriadenga8745
@gloriadenga8745 4 ай бұрын
Narcissistic men like the submissive and in-experienced ladies they find in church. Unfortunately for our young ladies they become easily manipulated because they do not know or they are not taught how to deal with these men. The mask then falls off in marriage, where for them it feels like they are trapped.
@CarolMathabatha
@CarolMathabatha 4 ай бұрын
@@keepitfrankwithfentseit occurs in any church, even traditional churches
@nolz9912
@nolz9912 4 ай бұрын
Sana!🙆🏼‍♀️🙆🏼‍♀️🙆🏼‍♀️
@malethaboskhosana2001
@malethaboskhosana2001 4 ай бұрын
She’s a great story teller and she doesn’t lose her train of thought ❤️ A Queen this one ❤️
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Wow,thank you so much. My son would say otherwise -thank you
@vuyomtshali
@vuyomtshali 4 ай бұрын
She is heyyyy ❤❤❤what a Lady 🥰.
@keepitfrankwithfentse
@keepitfrankwithfentse 4 ай бұрын
​@@KimberlyVilane😂 Sons are like our biggest critics. I have two..but the unconditional love is my fav thing about them.
@noziphoshongwe9523
@noziphoshongwe9523 4 ай бұрын
Right!! ❤❤❤. I loved her. Articulate and a great storyteller. Her voice is so calming as well. She was talking to Owamie like she's talking to her friend ❤.
@Mills305
@Mills305 4 ай бұрын
She is
@LeonardEarnshaw
@LeonardEarnshaw 4 ай бұрын
Nobody is perfect. Relationships are hard, But I've figured out that there's always a way to fix things when there's a problem. Five years back, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to fix them. It was hard, but we made it through.
@oglaskubuot
@oglaskubuot 4 ай бұрын
I honestly want to find happiness too. I've got a partner, and even though we're not together right now, I can't imagine life without her; my love for her is strong. I really miss her, and I'm fully committed to bringing her back. We've explored different paths, like therapy, to fix things.
@LeonardEarnshaw
@LeonardEarnshaw 4 ай бұрын
Releasing someone you love is always a daunting task, but in my situation, I had the support of a spiritual advisor who prevented the disintegration of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
@oglaskubuot
@oglaskubuot 4 ай бұрын
I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt.
@LeonardEarnshaw
@LeonardEarnshaw 4 ай бұрын
I promise you will not regret it
@obakenglekabe4003
@obakenglekabe4003 4 ай бұрын
Church folk be in pergatory which is a wide spectrum with verbally addressing sin, something like a thick personal trainer.
@_.hlengi
@_.hlengi 4 ай бұрын
"you cannot co-parent with a narcissist " I felt that❕
@jabulilenenzhelele2179
@jabulilenenzhelele2179 4 ай бұрын
you will feel like you are coparenting them and their egos
@Leboko80
@Leboko80 4 ай бұрын
TELL ME ABOUT IT!!!!!!
@Huntress_fx
@Huntress_fx 4 ай бұрын
​@@Leboko80Terrible experience..... Narcissists are completely pathetic
@RuvahBlecing
@RuvahBlecing 4 ай бұрын
Ninjas ..all the way from Zim ❤ the way she remembers dates and she truly loves God
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Sis❤
@Elizabeth-vu1tb
@Elizabeth-vu1tb 4 ай бұрын
“ God definitely knows what His protecting us from.” But we NEVER LISTEN SHAME‼️😭😭😩
@pheladitau6762
@pheladitau6762 4 ай бұрын
The reason is we are using the ear of earth, that's y it's hard to hear our Lord God talking to us
@kotima123
@kotima123 4 ай бұрын
Kim is so calm, posed and well articulated. She narrated her story so well and in detail. God bless you woman of God. 💛💚🧡. Owamie u are so blessed mama. All these beautiful, intelligent wise woman, choosing and trusting your platform with their stories. and u welcome them with so much love and Grace. 💜💙🤎.
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Wow,wow the love on this platform is amazing -thank you so much for your words of life-to GOD be the glory.
@neomalete5832
@neomalete5832 4 ай бұрын
Right ,Kim is so well articulated and Owamie is definitely so blessed to have this ladies come and tell their story 🥹
@missj910
@missj910 4 ай бұрын
I agree ,I’m happy we Ninjas are beautiful,intelligent people 🥹❤️❤️
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
@@missj910 you truly are 🙏🙏🙏
@rumbidzaichiwara7032
@rumbidzaichiwara7032 2 ай бұрын
@@KimberlyVilane
@nomndeni_nxumalo
@nomndeni_nxumalo 4 ай бұрын
My goodness the dog takes the cup so calm and disciplined 😅😅
@itsmeChun
@itsmeChun 4 ай бұрын
Just like her mom.their energy really does Match…love it
@majolicamashinini3934
@majolicamashinini3934 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@DorcasDeCelestino
@DorcasDeCelestino 4 ай бұрын
The dog behaved more than a human baby😮
@brideofchrist8295
@brideofchrist8295 4 ай бұрын
With a name like Maranatha it understood the assignment 😊
@alinahdabula5099
@alinahdabula5099 3 ай бұрын
Shes so nunus man❤😂
@Elizabeth-vu1tb
@Elizabeth-vu1tb 4 ай бұрын
LOVE isn’t intended to be THIS HARD‼️😭😭 Yhoo, bazalwane. And they always advice them to PRAY😭😭😭😭
@Leira6267
@Leira6267 4 ай бұрын
The lady is such a good story teller and I like that Owamie gave the woman space to speak. Above all that dog is well behaved.
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Leira-all GLORY goes back to God ❤
@triciakekana
@triciakekana 4 ай бұрын
The way this lady speaks about God😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ i love love this...Thank you Jesus for your Grace
@philiswashereenmkhatshwa6833
@philiswashereenmkhatshwa6833 4 ай бұрын
I would love to reach that level
@wendymakhanya178
@wendymakhanya178 4 ай бұрын
She is clear,she doesnt stutter
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Wow so much love on this platform-thank you JESUS,thank you Owami, thank you ladies [beautiful ninjas]
@RayOfLetsatsi
@RayOfLetsatsi 4 ай бұрын
A Christian perspective, I'm invested🔥
@GodsFavourite2024
@GodsFavourite2024 4 ай бұрын
Us bazalwanes are invested
@ItsMeYourfavorite7
@ItsMeYourfavorite7 4 ай бұрын
Gosh I just love your guest. Such a lady!
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🙏
@Debs567
@Debs567 4 ай бұрын
I like you so much too Kimberly. And thank you so much for seeking God and I have loved the knowledge you have attained and now sharing through your experience🙏🏿 You’re a wonderful lady and speak so well❤️
@proudlysa774
@proudlysa774 4 ай бұрын
No disrespect ninjas I'm 4 minutes in but my eyes are glued on Maranata❤❤❤ So cute Iyoh...
@mskhumalo5118
@mskhumalo5118 4 ай бұрын
I don't blame you ❤❤
@lovelyheart800
@lovelyheart800 4 ай бұрын
Lol maranata the Christian dog😂
@thedailyshare622
@thedailyshare622 4 ай бұрын
Me too😂 I need one of these in my life.
@bettymotaung7154
@bettymotaung7154 4 ай бұрын
This pastor husband was bewitched by his mom, they do that so that their sons don't marry and move around moving from one woman to another, hurting women's feelings in the process. Which means he was vele a virgin hence masturbating and it looks like his mom knew that her son released the tension that way and unfortunately Mzalwane Mamfundisi was clueless and young in protecting her young pastor's semen, by rather washing that herself hence mamazala bewitched him and used that to her advantage cos they always do those who don't want their sons to marry, they do extremely scary things. It tells that she married a good guy, unfortunately the powers of the devil defeated them both, it's so sad, but God is good all the time, mamazala will answer in heaven.
@triciakekana
@triciakekana 4 ай бұрын
Sometimes we think we are in the will on God but it is actually our will.
@GodsFavourite2024
@GodsFavourite2024 4 ай бұрын
So very true😢
@Marysmmiiith
@Marysmmiiith 4 ай бұрын
Remember the days when the word "pastor" was attaced to honour and holiness
@dorcaspaulosprojects8364
@dorcaspaulosprojects8364 3 ай бұрын
But it’s a scary word!😢
@pwincesstk3
@pwincesstk3 4 ай бұрын
I’m a married woman, this is our fifth year in marriage and struggling to conceive. I’m starting to believe there’s a third hand involved because I’m a Christian and believe in the living God and I’ve attended all scans and tests and my womb is very normal and fertile. This testimony truly touched me and gives me hope to continue trusting the convictions from the Word of God. Wow I’m so touched. God bless you always ladies ❤
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Ooh Sis'- I pray that God remembers you and answers your prayers according to HIS PERFECT will for your life-when the TIME is right GOD will make it happen-take heart❤
@mirenke2014
@mirenke2014 4 ай бұрын
Have checked with gynae, if not I can refer if you in jhb
@nonkosi8021
@nonkosi8021 4 ай бұрын
I conceived finally at age 41 via IVF at Steve Biko. Mine was PCOS, but I know people who started alkaline lifestyle and conceived, some got rid of everything that causes stress, iron deficiency is an enemy too. Pray and have hubby checked too
@leefortunate5764
@leefortunate5764 4 ай бұрын
Have you tried maca root?
@pwincesstk3
@pwincesstk3 4 ай бұрын
@@mirenke2014 I’m in Swaziland 🇸🇿, but joburg is only a 4 hour drive. I’m willing to sacrifice
@kimberlybobotha5991
@kimberlybobotha5991 4 ай бұрын
Sister Kim is so smart and can articulate herself so perfectly.Can’t wait for part 2. My names Kimberley too 🙈
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Sis' -Blessings to you ''bitso''❤❤❤
@abigailvilane
@abigailvilane 4 ай бұрын
​@KimberlyVilane Hi sis is Vilane your maiden surname?
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
@@abigailvilane maiden surname is Dladla-marital surname is Vilane 🙏
@GodsFavourite2024
@GodsFavourite2024 4 ай бұрын
​@abigailvilane it's so beautiful to see you here. I admire u so much ma'am 💗
@Snairo_1009
@Snairo_1009 3 ай бұрын
I believe you, Kimberly. You are literally speaking about my ex-husband without the ministry.
@HlengiweMathe-p2d
@HlengiweMathe-p2d 4 ай бұрын
Narcissism + Witchcraft = Disaster... The story of my life😢😢😢
@Nthabeleng507
@Nthabeleng507 4 ай бұрын
Yoh say that again. Ukukhula Kunzima. Ppl need more than just God to protect themselves from predators.
@iris1896
@iris1896 4 ай бұрын
Seem like the husband is under a spell of his mother. He is not himself at all😢
@mskhumalo5118
@mskhumalo5118 4 ай бұрын
The second guest is so chilled and relaxed (such a chilled pooch 🐕🐶). My dog would be barking like mad. Probably my dog would even try to bite Owamie's hand 😅😅
@nomsamashaba4864
@nomsamashaba4864 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@thatomohale4722
@thatomohale4722 4 ай бұрын
😂
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 dogs of Jesus must always behave because they won't be invited to places😂❤❤❤
@mskhumalo5118
@mskhumalo5118 4 ай бұрын
@@KimberlyVilane 😅😅😅😅🤞🏾🤞🏾
@maryjanekumalo6430
@maryjanekumalo6430 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@jemimahmukombo6638
@jemimahmukombo6638 4 ай бұрын
The church is hospital for people who are sick and seeking healing be careful
@dikeledidk2679
@dikeledidk2679 4 ай бұрын
U so rite
@hangwelaninemathaga8333
@hangwelaninemathaga8333 4 ай бұрын
And not of them are responding well to treatment
@marcellem
@marcellem 4 ай бұрын
@@hangwelaninemathaga8333😂😂😂😂
@nkagisangkoushu5828
@nkagisangkoushu5828 4 ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@nkagisangkoushu5828
@nkagisangkoushu5828 4 ай бұрын
Yep
@ItsMeYourfavorite7
@ItsMeYourfavorite7 4 ай бұрын
Thank you ladies for highlighting that when you think God is “not answering” your prayers He knows better and just keep praying, fasting and He will always do the best for you
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏
@BeingIsiphile
@BeingIsiphile 4 ай бұрын
🙏
@mishawilliams4319
@mishawilliams4319 4 ай бұрын
AMEN 🙏🏾
@brendangonyama
@brendangonyama 3 ай бұрын
Eish mara women are going through hell, you are such a powerhouse
@elvisndlovu1232
@elvisndlovu1232 4 ай бұрын
I'm fully invested in this story......women are going through a lot, eish
@pheladitau6762
@pheladitau6762 4 ай бұрын
Soo painful...n we don't even support each other 😢aikhona 😢😢😢it's too much maan
@trevlynbonaparte
@trevlynbonaparte 4 ай бұрын
I honestly cannot blame the husband. He is the victim of the evil spirits used by his mother to control him.
@beewest5704
@beewest5704 4 ай бұрын
Ppl love nmaking excuses for men.
@zamambhele242
@zamambhele242 4 ай бұрын
This is tricky , when u are being controlled spiritually ur mind is also gone completely ?
@Chidlhealt
@Chidlhealt 3 ай бұрын
My mother inlaw would come in whiles her son is naked!!
@briellagab
@briellagab 4 ай бұрын
From the behavior she described her husband, he is far from a narcissist; a narcissist does not go so long before you see their traist, belittling, insulting, etc. I understand that narcissist is the new word, but it is an actual disorder that you cannot just hand to someone, In this case, it is clear the mother performed witchcraft on her son, his actions were not voluntarily. A narcissist is someone who has uncontrollable high sense of self-importance.
@busisiweganga8866
@busisiweganga8866 4 ай бұрын
I was also trying to see why she says he’s a narcissist. The man was bewitched, he was under a powerful witchcraft spell and the sad thing is that the church could not help him. As for our lovely sister, do not be discouraged, prayer works. The problem is usually that we’re not praying the right prayer. For example if the person is bewitched, the one interceding must target the witchcraft powers to break their hold. If you target a narcissist demon you will miss the mark and the witchcraft spell will remain intact. May God help us all learn to ask God what prayer we should be praying in specific situations.
@nkagisangkoushu5828
@nkagisangkoushu5828 4 ай бұрын
Need to familiarize yourself with books explaining narcissist. I think both the mother and son are narcissist. One of the traits about narcissist is that they are witches 😢
@nkagisangkoushu5828
@nkagisangkoushu5828 4 ай бұрын
Narcissist are witches especially amongst blacks
@briellagab
@briellagab 4 ай бұрын
@@nkagisangkoushu5828 I’m a psychology student, thank you. Witchcraft isn’t a trait.
@kholonkoana6475
@kholonkoana6475 4 ай бұрын
I was actually thinking about this.
@buhlemguni3763
@buhlemguni3763 4 ай бұрын
It's also important to note that Narcissists deliberately seek out women in the church. Because their first inclination will be to blame themselves. Then they will want to pray and fast thier marital problems away. Doing the most, while they continue to endure abuse.
@mbalimabaso9485
@mbalimabaso9485 4 ай бұрын
Yup they seek empaths
@lovelyheart800
@lovelyheart800 4 ай бұрын
The moment he said God told me you are my wife I knew it was chiaaaas These people know that church girls are desperate for marriage
@beewest5704
@beewest5704 4 ай бұрын
And many religions blame the women for problems in marriage & tell them it's because they do not okay enough or are not submissive enough.
@carolinemofokeng748
@carolinemofokeng748 4 ай бұрын
She is so well spoken, God bless you sister Kim❤
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
God bless you more❤
@juliarabotapi527
@juliarabotapi527 4 ай бұрын
@@KimberlyVilane well spoken indeed , I could listen to you speak all day . ❤️ God bless you sister Kim ☺️
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
@@juliarabotapi527 Wow -thank you so much,GOD BLESS YOU for me💜
@MiriamKahilu-fp8dj
@MiriamKahilu-fp8dj 4 ай бұрын
They not ready for musterbation is a sin
@karaboslife5269
@karaboslife5269 4 ай бұрын
As a person who used to masturbate I can tell you it is a sin, I am now struggling with getting rid of spiritual husbands. Spirits I got while doing that. I pray everyday to get rid of them and they are stubborn. People should not masturbate
@keepitfrankwithfentse
@keepitfrankwithfentse 4 ай бұрын
Kimberely is a walking testimony. Imagine getting married so early and experiencing such trauma. Your destiny is meant to educate young women out there.
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Glory to God 🙏 thank you so much 🙏. God bless you for me ❤❤❤
@maytshifularo5415
@maytshifularo5415 4 ай бұрын
Kimberly is me, I'm Kimberly. I got married young and that marriage traumatized me. My ex husband did exactly what Kimberly's ex did. I'm still single today 7 years after the divorce. I'm scared of bazalwane men.
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
@@maytshifularo5415 oh my dearest -sending you a big-biggg ninja hug 🫂🫂. The Lord strengthen you and heal all your trauma's. ❤️❤️❤️
@GodsFavourite2024
@GodsFavourite2024 4 ай бұрын
​@@maytshifularo5415nam. Still wear the ring so men don't even think of approaching me😢
@Sinazo_N
@Sinazo_N 4 ай бұрын
What a beautiful episode! What a beautiful spiritual woman of God! Thanks Kim and Queen Ninja 🌸
@yolandangcuzana8010
@yolandangcuzana8010 4 ай бұрын
What a story, I had to pause and take it in.. kim is such a lady❤
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Yolanda -we bless GOD 🙏
@nothandotshabangu9677
@nothandotshabangu9677 4 ай бұрын
I can’t wait for part 2…please hasten it! I will be waiting
@tamaravilane
@tamaravilane 4 ай бұрын
The mother in law knows what she did to her son.😢
@aphiwemncube1550
@aphiwemncube1550 4 ай бұрын
Yesssss she knowsssss😢😢😢
@oliviajoans
@oliviajoans 4 ай бұрын
Strangely it doesn't sound like any of this is up to him. It's like he's possessed
@gazellholla
@gazellholla 4 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@GodsFavourite2024
@GodsFavourite2024 4 ай бұрын
And now she's gone I wonder how the man is now😢
@intentionalgreatness
@intentionalgreatness 3 ай бұрын
That's what i was thinking!
@pavivapapa8964
@pavivapapa8964 4 ай бұрын
Not all churches are the body of christ . Most are under spirit of religion
@Julsm4484
@Julsm4484 4 ай бұрын
What do you mean
@tebogomokobane8094
@tebogomokobane8094 4 ай бұрын
I think they loved each other problem ke mother in law. She used her forces to direct his marriage
@damarismohlabe1645
@damarismohlabe1645 4 ай бұрын
She definitely played a huge part
@MalesoleMocheku-gn7ox
@MalesoleMocheku-gn7ox 4 ай бұрын
Well spoken and her story is well detailed
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🙏
@hildadavids217
@hildadavids217 4 ай бұрын
My divorce decree was the also the best thing that could have ever happened to me. After cheating and not supporting his children, he instituted the divorce, which I accepted and signed. Thank God it happened then. I could have framed it, because 2 years down the line, he was owing so many people. My divorce decree saved me, if it wasn't for that, I would have had attachment on whatever assets I had. I just produced it and no lawyer could touch me, because he was not working.
@hildadavids217
@hildadavids217 4 ай бұрын
Never give up laddies, just remember, God looks after the innocent party. I can personally vouch for it.
@joannangwenyama
@joannangwenyama 4 ай бұрын
the dangers of a spiritually blind Christian
@edithlanga6235
@edithlanga6235 3 ай бұрын
That's the problem. The big one
@sunflawa
@sunflawa 4 ай бұрын
What a good dog! My neighbor's dog would want to speak on the mic... that dog?!
@NomsaMayo
@NomsaMayo 4 ай бұрын
What 😂😂😂😂
@lebogangkomape8778
@lebogangkomape8778 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@africanbrowny
@africanbrowny 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@tsakamhlabane9269
@tsakamhlabane9269 4 ай бұрын
You sound very traumatised xem by your neighbours dog🤭
@Sacred_Walls
@Sacred_Walls 4 ай бұрын
@@tsakamhlabane9269😂😂
@MiriamKahilu-fp8dj
@MiriamKahilu-fp8dj 4 ай бұрын
Jezebel spirit is so real both in men and women
@MiriamKahilu-fp8dj
@MiriamKahilu-fp8dj 4 ай бұрын
Owami is already losing weight look at her face ❤
@Drip3657
@Drip3657 4 ай бұрын
Sych a pure aura🥺💕..beautiful voice, beautiful soul she is.
@palesasefurutshe6832
@palesasefurutshe6832 4 ай бұрын
I just don't understand this weird obsession of boy moms. Why they feel possessive over them ?! And having to be entitled to their marriages and having access whenever they want. As for saying," uzobuya" It was just a huge red flag. I always say this that being at church doesn't necessarily mean everyone is holy and you actually meet the worst of people there. The mother inlaw knew what she was doing with his underwear.
@mercymsezeni838
@mercymsezeni838 4 ай бұрын
It doesn't make sense at all😢. It's like they start thinking the sons belong to them and they have no right to provide and love other women. One groom's mom confronted the bride's mother, telling her that the son is her husband and they had worked hard to educate him (but she was pretending to the bride - even saying the day was blessed and beautiful). I think we need to start asking God to reveal red flags in MILs prior marriage and for a special protecting. They should've never stayed with her. Also MILs must remember sons have their own lives and have a right to faithfully love their wives and be good fathers. Often sons must play the husband's role - nothing wrong with providing but boundaries must be in place. It's scary.
@keepitfrankwithfentse
@keepitfrankwithfentse 4 ай бұрын
As a mother of two sons. I believe they don't belong to me. They are borrowed and entrusted to me by God. I want them to be free the day they choose to marry because again...I may have given birth to them but they are not my possessions but rather an extension of their father and myself.
@palesasefurutshe6832
@palesasefurutshe6832 4 ай бұрын
@keepitfrankwithfentse true! It should be that way as a mother. You nurture them and care for them. However, that time is going to come when they want to fend for themselves and start a new life elsewhere. They should not hold them hostage or have this perception that they belong to them. Some women have that weird attachment that gives of incest. Yes you will forever have that bond but it should not be to that extent. Some women so badly want to popularize this thing of them being the boys first and only true love imagine??! Its disgusting waitsi
@palesasefurutshe6832
@palesasefurutshe6832 4 ай бұрын
@mercymsezeni838 bathong??! They're so possessive over them. This is so wrong man in so many levels. They have this mentality of them being the first and only true love for their boys imagine??! Hence the weird entitlement. They also need to breathe and have lives of their own. These women will go to an arms length to overprotect and remove potential mates. Ive seen so much stories on such.
@Lifethroughzinhleslense
@Lifethroughzinhleslense 4 ай бұрын
The “to hell and back” intro slaps 🙂‍↕️
@ncesh434
@ncesh434 4 ай бұрын
@KimberlyVilane is my friend❤ I know God didn't allow you to go through so much for nothing.He will use you to heal a lot of women just like Owami's divorce journey helped a lot of women to heal..
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much my friend and also for introducing me to Queen Owami❤❤❤
@GodsFavourite2024
@GodsFavourite2024 4 ай бұрын
Indeed. Marrying the same man twice abd going through so much was not in vein 😢
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
@@GodsFavourite2024 Amen and Amen 🙌
@ncisept5900
@ncisept5900 4 ай бұрын
I love the way Kim is explaining the signs of narcissism. Unfortunately most of these signs you only see retrospectively.
@lulufierce01
@lulufierce01 2 ай бұрын
Such a confident lady. Well spoken too❤👌
@chissyR
@chissyR 4 ай бұрын
She is such a good storyteller. I absolutely enjoyed this episode.
@Elizabeth-vu1tb
@Elizabeth-vu1tb 4 ай бұрын
Yhoooo Sesi Kim. I pray I had your strength, calmness, composure.
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
I pray that God grants you the strength you need-His strength is made perfect in our weakness-take heart.
@maryjanekumalo6430
@maryjanekumalo6430 4 ай бұрын
One of my friends got married when we were 18 and i think her life was never the same
@gladyfungai9824
@gladyfungai9824 4 ай бұрын
Beautiful spiritually intelligent woman ❤
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🙏
@victorioussisters3307
@victorioussisters3307 4 ай бұрын
Life is spiritual that we must keep in mind. Love bombing is also a spirit, an evil spirit which is a spell used mostly by narcissists!
@nthabisengnkabinde2518
@nthabisengnkabinde2518 4 ай бұрын
My sister your story is just like mine dear. May God strengthen you and keep your focus to God. People are going to church but they don't fear God.
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your words- I will keep my focus on GOD indeed ❤
@jacklinemueni3865
@jacklinemueni3865 3 ай бұрын
A Queen, A Diva, woman of God.. Lot's of love mummy..
@BaileBaloyi
@BaileBaloyi 4 ай бұрын
If you are a woman with a character like Kim please don't get married 😂men must hear your fotsek every now and then. Imagine gone for 6 months and you this calm noo be a Dineo Ranaka my sister
@palesasefurutshe6832
@palesasefurutshe6832 4 ай бұрын
Bathong??!😂😂😂 why is this funny. Mara you are telling the truth men just love toxicity.
@maytshifularo5415
@maytshifularo5415 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@nikiwephindilesibiya1400
@nikiwephindilesibiya1400 3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Peighter
@Peighter 4 ай бұрын
One of the best episodes What a crazy story😭😭 I want to hear the next story 😂😂
@TebohoMonyamane
@TebohoMonyamane 4 ай бұрын
Atleast u had 7yrs of beautiful marriage its a blessing some marriages dont last even for 5yrs ,,,❤
@tshegofalosiele340
@tshegofalosiele340 3 ай бұрын
They don't last a year
@nosiphomatwa858
@nosiphomatwa858 4 ай бұрын
Owami I must say you look gorgeous my darling ❤
@neshmatshiambwa8562
@neshmatshiambwa8562 4 ай бұрын
Owamie is always makes her guest comfortable the reason i love her so much❤
@GoitseonaOratileMosito
@GoitseonaOratileMosito 4 ай бұрын
I agree to that knowing the background of the other party is very important even when your in a relationship check everything before you fall Sana
@zamambhele242
@zamambhele242 4 ай бұрын
She’s such a good story teller ❤
@elvisndlovu1232
@elvisndlovu1232 4 ай бұрын
Yes we are here... Ninja signing in, how are you all
@tembelazwane9923
@tembelazwane9923 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Ninja for such a beautiful interview
@chumilesimelane6192
@chumilesimelane6192 4 ай бұрын
Thank God I am not the only one who pound the wedding ring. I did the same and I was with my friend , we went to out for lunch. My friend evn today she still reminds me... Sisoba stongo sisterz. We soldered it!
@memorykasanga8780
@memorykasanga8780 4 ай бұрын
Stand by your convictions
@damarismohlabe1645
@damarismohlabe1645 4 ай бұрын
It hit me😢
@TshavhungweT
@TshavhungweT 4 ай бұрын
kim is so well spoken and classy
@Kayb193
@Kayb193 4 ай бұрын
Very classy be boo😍😊
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🙏
@norahmaleka-lt8uv
@norahmaleka-lt8uv 4 ай бұрын
Very classy
@amymccarthy9731
@amymccarthy9731 4 ай бұрын
I loved listening to her so much
@shalomakintola8463
@shalomakintola8463 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. You are truly a child of God. You deserve peace in your life. #ITHAPPENEDTOMETOO. ❤
@Chidlhealt
@Chidlhealt 3 ай бұрын
The power of a praying wife. Fascinating womanhood!! My goodness!!!
@Nona_Naki
@Nona_Naki 4 ай бұрын
Interview 💯camera quality 💯. Ninja your listening skill ❤️
@memorykasanga8780
@memorykasanga8780 4 ай бұрын
A wrong spouse can send you to hell
@mskhumalo5118
@mskhumalo5118 4 ай бұрын
Wrong spouse can literally made your life hell forever. They can even change your destiny 😔😔
@ms_zt1st
@ms_zt1st 4 ай бұрын
She's smart, she finished college at 18.
@christanom7484
@christanom7484 3 ай бұрын
This lady is narrating my life story😭
@quinndee8822
@quinndee8822 4 ай бұрын
No communication but meet in church seating next to each other n pretend to be a happy couple......tyoooooooooo tyoooo I cnt imagine myself in that situation I swear I would scream the hell out of my heart as he preaches haiibooo ngeke
@lindiweandmom
@lindiweandmom 4 ай бұрын
Ninja from Kenya signing in
@lorebay2593
@lorebay2593 4 ай бұрын
Exactly, the Spirit of GOD tried to warn, but I wanted so much to be married and have family. We do not expect the devil’s children to be in church, being young and naive until they have us in their grip. I went thru similar but not as this. That’s why we need more conversation to call them out into the light so our girls can be aware of these wolves in sheep’s clothing in the church. It was many many years, I just did not understand the behavior, hoping and praying. Then I saw an article on narcissistic personality disorder, I read it and most every symptom fit. I finally knew what the problem had been all along. Expose, no longer hide this topic, people in families and churches need to know bout narcs in the church, they have hurt/harmed so many of us.
@simcelilethikazi6157
@simcelilethikazi6157 4 ай бұрын
Eish...what a painful story.Im glad uphume usaphila cc...Nkulunkulu unemacebo lamahle ngatsi,hhayi ekusibulala kodvwa ekusiphumelelisa❤.Chin up ntfombi,there's still life ahead of you
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Ngiyabonga kakhulu Sisi. Angibusisele Wena UNkulunkulu.
@simcelilethikazi6157
@simcelilethikazi6157 4 ай бұрын
@@KimberlyVilane ngiyabonga Sisi❤️
@madialemotsiri586
@madialemotsiri586 4 ай бұрын
Everything about narcissism she is mentioning it says "the Nigerians guys the ladies were talking about in previous videos"😮
@MmapiElizabeth
@MmapiElizabeth 4 ай бұрын
I cant wait for part what a lovely story of waiting so long and have a child and finally got the child that mamazala was very evil😮😮😮😢
@Beingkat
@Beingkat 4 ай бұрын
What a well spoken queen.❤ she's so calm i love it😊
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ Thank you so much
@elizabethnovak4088
@elizabethnovak4088 4 ай бұрын
You are such strong woman...Adorable doggy 🤗
@langelihleK
@langelihleK 4 ай бұрын
The way Owami is so self aware, ath "I was going to get arrested, I was gonna refuse with the child".😂😂😂
@morongwesekopo2623
@morongwesekopo2623 4 ай бұрын
What a Lady! Such beautiful Energy.. Im not done with the episode but i absolutely love her
@veronicakesebelwang
@veronicakesebelwang 4 ай бұрын
I love her❤
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Wow you guys- thank you so much. I am in awe of what God is doing ❤❤❤
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
​@@veronicakesebelwangI love you,GOD INDEED bless you for me ❤❤❤
@pulanetheo7826
@pulanetheo7826 4 ай бұрын
Narcissists dont want to be parents 🤞
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
💯 Correct ❤❤❤
@beejjjj4106
@beejjjj4106 4 ай бұрын
I've been on a journey trying to understand what type of person my dad is. I just realized that he's a narcissist. A whole church leader and a wanna be pastor
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
@@beejjjj4106 May GOD grant you all the answers you are seeking in this journey 🙏💖💖💖
@chokiemashiya8103
@chokiemashiya8103 4 ай бұрын
Beautifully told 🤞ladies careful if he comes with Bible to propose Ruun😂
@silindilenxumalo9541
@silindilenxumalo9541 4 ай бұрын
True sis. They don't want responsibilities. They do whatever when they want to.
@DorcasDeCelestino
@DorcasDeCelestino 4 ай бұрын
Kimberly is such a lady😍her story telling is captivating 🎉
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much ❤❤❤
@mrs9265
@mrs9265 4 ай бұрын
I was involved with a narcissist. I know exactly what she is talking about. If I relay my story to anyone. Only a few will understand. They are serial manipulators, gaslighters, they thrive in toxicity, their public image is a different human being, they will isolate you, will ghost you for nothing, abusive and hide the abuse so well, the list go on and on. I get her. I fought.
@elizabethnovak4088
@elizabethnovak4088 4 ай бұрын
I know..
@uznamalunga
@uznamalunga 3 ай бұрын
I am so happy she grabbed both of them buy the things!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
@oliviajoans
@oliviajoans 4 ай бұрын
That wasn't narcissism. Sounds like a cult
@mrs9265
@mrs9265 4 ай бұрын
Narcissism sounds like a cult. True. I have been through it. Every characteristic is soooo similar. Narcissism is evil spirit... .
@NonhlanhlaVundhla
@NonhlanhlaVundhla 4 ай бұрын
Beautiful mummy, this story will help loads and loads of women❤❤🎉🎉
@mildredmaile2748
@mildredmaile2748 4 ай бұрын
Don't compromise👌 I heard you Kimberly.......You are so smart, beautiful and God fearing woman.......May God Keep You
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Oh thank you Sis' -DON'T COMPROMISE. God bless you for me❤❤❤
@learnwithme322
@learnwithme322 4 ай бұрын
Great interview. Well balanced story.
@cindyshongwe5974
@cindyshongwe5974 4 ай бұрын
Yooo I agree with the above comment why do we church girls end up falling for narcissistic men😢 I also relate completely and now understand why my divorce had to happen.
@cindyshongwe5974
@cindyshongwe5974 4 ай бұрын
Yoo I have just been silent thinking that people will say I'm just a heartbroken ex wife. I divorced my husband in absentia in 2011 it took 4 full years for me to granted divorce decree my life was stuck coz he was no where to be found now I understand narcissistic character. 🤔
@DorcasDeCelestino
@DorcasDeCelestino 4 ай бұрын
I’m that sister❤love the way she says it
@elvisndlovu1232
@elvisndlovu1232 4 ай бұрын
Kim is beautiful and smart
@KimberlyVilane
@KimberlyVilane 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🙏
@Beans-06
@Beans-06 4 ай бұрын
I hear the Mother in law this,my husband did this, sisters in the church this, but this days I'm like, but God where are U in this. I mean u prayed, u fasted, u declared the word of God. Why is God allowing the devil to win, whyyyyyy
@BaileBaloyi
@BaileBaloyi 4 ай бұрын
I cannot answer for God but what I've noticed is our pain births our ministry. We experience this things(while God is in it with us) for His glory. If for eg I was a Ps in a successful marriage because I was a proverbs 31 woman I would not relate to other women going through these things because I would tell them things like pray harder, fast etc. Whereas more women (non-believers included) will be able to identify with Kim because she has walked that journey and after all these she is praising God for carrying her through.
@mercymsezeni838
@mercymsezeni838 4 ай бұрын
There's power of choice too. God has given all of us free will.
@triciakekana
@triciakekana 4 ай бұрын
God was there all the time, just because God doesn't act when u want Him to it doesn't mean He's not there but trust and believe when u are down and out and ready to throw in the towel God shows up you even forget the why because He does it in ways we can not even understand or explain but God shows up for sure.
@triciakekana
@triciakekana 4 ай бұрын
The devil didn't win because she's still breathing, God defeated everything and everyone for her she was just with the wrong man, maybe she chose Him and didn't let God do the choosing for her hey.
@dricirusuzan
@dricirusuzan 4 ай бұрын
What if that was not the man God ordained for her, remember she said the man showed him she was her husband, but she didn't say God showed her also he was her husband.
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