Owamie is such a good interviewer,she allows her guests to tell their story and doesn’t interject unnecessarily..❤
@HlubiNgwane4 ай бұрын
The host should interject sometimes like; we don't know if she (guest) told her husband that his mom was taking his undies and socks, and we don't know what his response was. Also, no follow up question on the threat made by her mother in law on what was hubby's reaction or whether she told him that his mom said her son would return home. A few opportunities were missed.
@theoneandonly86-o5q4 ай бұрын
she could do better, she let's the guests speak and speak and doesn't ask questions when needed I think.
@theoneandonly86-o5q4 ай бұрын
could not agree more
@lovelyfamily77124 ай бұрын
That’s why I love listening to her channel
@hadassahfirst14784 ай бұрын
I agree fully 🙌🏽🙌🏽
@maritawanazw4 ай бұрын
Ladies, always remember that there's also a devil in the church.
@africanbrowny4 ай бұрын
That's where the devil hides in plain sight. Spirit of discernment is important.
@victorioussisters33074 ай бұрын
Oh yes, the devil always creates a parallel path, he imitates what’s in the kingdom of God.
@nomalangaselenje51994 ай бұрын
@@africanbrowny Extremely important and unfortunately not everyone gets it.
@GodsFavourite20244 ай бұрын
Indeed. Church is a hospital for spiritual issues 😢
@onyourcoffeebreak24764 ай бұрын
Devil is actually not in the bar, they are in churches, on the pulpit, in the choir and in the congregation
@PreciousZondi-fq9gr4 ай бұрын
The way we church ladies attract narcissists needs to be studied. What a relatable story, thank you Ninja you’re really serving the best content 🙌🏽
@harrietboateng52394 ай бұрын
its about spiritual warfare. So narcissists who represent satan go to church to steal, kill and destroy. Christian ladies are usually naive targets because we are called to love like christ.
@keepitfrankwithfentse4 ай бұрын
Charismatic churches SPECIFICALLY.
@gloriadenga87454 ай бұрын
Narcissistic men like the submissive and in-experienced ladies they find in church. Unfortunately for our young ladies they become easily manipulated because they do not know or they are not taught how to deal with these men. The mask then falls off in marriage, where for them it feels like they are trapped.
@CarolMathabatha4 ай бұрын
@@keepitfrankwithfentseit occurs in any church, even traditional churches
@nolz99124 ай бұрын
Sana!🙆🏼♀️🙆🏼♀️🙆🏼♀️
@malethaboskhosana20014 ай бұрын
She’s a great story teller and she doesn’t lose her train of thought ❤️ A Queen this one ❤️
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Wow,thank you so much. My son would say otherwise -thank you
@vuyomtshali4 ай бұрын
She is heyyyy ❤❤❤what a Lady 🥰.
@keepitfrankwithfentse4 ай бұрын
@@KimberlyVilane😂 Sons are like our biggest critics. I have two..but the unconditional love is my fav thing about them.
@noziphoshongwe95234 ай бұрын
Right!! ❤❤❤. I loved her. Articulate and a great storyteller. Her voice is so calming as well. She was talking to Owamie like she's talking to her friend ❤.
@Mills3054 ай бұрын
She is
@LeonardEarnshaw4 ай бұрын
Nobody is perfect. Relationships are hard, But I've figured out that there's always a way to fix things when there's a problem. Five years back, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to fix them. It was hard, but we made it through.
@oglaskubuot4 ай бұрын
I honestly want to find happiness too. I've got a partner, and even though we're not together right now, I can't imagine life without her; my love for her is strong. I really miss her, and I'm fully committed to bringing her back. We've explored different paths, like therapy, to fix things.
@LeonardEarnshaw4 ай бұрын
Releasing someone you love is always a daunting task, but in my situation, I had the support of a spiritual advisor who prevented the disintegration of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
@oglaskubuot4 ай бұрын
I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt.
@LeonardEarnshaw4 ай бұрын
I promise you will not regret it
@obakenglekabe40034 ай бұрын
Church folk be in pergatory which is a wide spectrum with verbally addressing sin, something like a thick personal trainer.
@_.hlengi4 ай бұрын
"you cannot co-parent with a narcissist " I felt that❕
@jabulilenenzhelele21794 ай бұрын
you will feel like you are coparenting them and their egos
@Leboko804 ай бұрын
TELL ME ABOUT IT!!!!!!
@Huntress_fx4 ай бұрын
@@Leboko80Terrible experience..... Narcissists are completely pathetic
@RuvahBlecing4 ай бұрын
Ninjas ..all the way from Zim ❤ the way she remembers dates and she truly loves God
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Thank you Sis❤
@Elizabeth-vu1tb4 ай бұрын
“ God definitely knows what His protecting us from.” But we NEVER LISTEN SHAME‼️😭😭😩
@pheladitau67624 ай бұрын
The reason is we are using the ear of earth, that's y it's hard to hear our Lord God talking to us
@kotima1234 ай бұрын
Kim is so calm, posed and well articulated. She narrated her story so well and in detail. God bless you woman of God. 💛💚🧡. Owamie u are so blessed mama. All these beautiful, intelligent wise woman, choosing and trusting your platform with their stories. and u welcome them with so much love and Grace. 💜💙🤎.
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Wow,wow the love on this platform is amazing -thank you so much for your words of life-to GOD be the glory.
@neomalete58324 ай бұрын
Right ,Kim is so well articulated and Owamie is definitely so blessed to have this ladies come and tell their story 🥹
@missj9104 ай бұрын
I agree ,I’m happy we Ninjas are beautiful,intelligent people 🥹❤️❤️
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
@@missj910 you truly are 🙏🙏🙏
@rumbidzaichiwara70322 ай бұрын
@@KimberlyVilane
@nomndeni_nxumalo4 ай бұрын
My goodness the dog takes the cup so calm and disciplined 😅😅
@itsmeChun4 ай бұрын
Just like her mom.their energy really does Match…love it
@majolicamashinini39344 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@DorcasDeCelestino4 ай бұрын
The dog behaved more than a human baby😮
@brideofchrist82954 ай бұрын
With a name like Maranatha it understood the assignment 😊
@alinahdabula50993 ай бұрын
Shes so nunus man❤😂
@Elizabeth-vu1tb4 ай бұрын
LOVE isn’t intended to be THIS HARD‼️😭😭 Yhoo, bazalwane. And they always advice them to PRAY😭😭😭😭
@Leira62674 ай бұрын
The lady is such a good story teller and I like that Owamie gave the woman space to speak. Above all that dog is well behaved.
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Thank you Leira-all GLORY goes back to God ❤
@triciakekana4 ай бұрын
The way this lady speaks about God😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ i love love this...Thank you Jesus for your Grace
@philiswashereenmkhatshwa68334 ай бұрын
I would love to reach that level
@wendymakhanya1784 ай бұрын
She is clear,she doesnt stutter
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Wow so much love on this platform-thank you JESUS,thank you Owami, thank you ladies [beautiful ninjas]
@RayOfLetsatsi4 ай бұрын
A Christian perspective, I'm invested🔥
@GodsFavourite20244 ай бұрын
Us bazalwanes are invested
@ItsMeYourfavorite74 ай бұрын
Gosh I just love your guest. Such a lady!
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🙏
@Debs5674 ай бұрын
I like you so much too Kimberly. And thank you so much for seeking God and I have loved the knowledge you have attained and now sharing through your experience🙏🏿 You’re a wonderful lady and speak so well❤️
@proudlysa7744 ай бұрын
No disrespect ninjas I'm 4 minutes in but my eyes are glued on Maranata❤❤❤ So cute Iyoh...
@mskhumalo51184 ай бұрын
I don't blame you ❤❤
@lovelyheart8004 ай бұрын
Lol maranata the Christian dog😂
@thedailyshare6224 ай бұрын
Me too😂 I need one of these in my life.
@bettymotaung71544 ай бұрын
This pastor husband was bewitched by his mom, they do that so that their sons don't marry and move around moving from one woman to another, hurting women's feelings in the process. Which means he was vele a virgin hence masturbating and it looks like his mom knew that her son released the tension that way and unfortunately Mzalwane Mamfundisi was clueless and young in protecting her young pastor's semen, by rather washing that herself hence mamazala bewitched him and used that to her advantage cos they always do those who don't want their sons to marry, they do extremely scary things. It tells that she married a good guy, unfortunately the powers of the devil defeated them both, it's so sad, but God is good all the time, mamazala will answer in heaven.
@triciakekana4 ай бұрын
Sometimes we think we are in the will on God but it is actually our will.
@GodsFavourite20244 ай бұрын
So very true😢
@Marysmmiiith4 ай бұрын
Remember the days when the word "pastor" was attaced to honour and holiness
@dorcaspaulosprojects83643 ай бұрын
But it’s a scary word!😢
@pwincesstk34 ай бұрын
I’m a married woman, this is our fifth year in marriage and struggling to conceive. I’m starting to believe there’s a third hand involved because I’m a Christian and believe in the living God and I’ve attended all scans and tests and my womb is very normal and fertile. This testimony truly touched me and gives me hope to continue trusting the convictions from the Word of God. Wow I’m so touched. God bless you always ladies ❤
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Ooh Sis'- I pray that God remembers you and answers your prayers according to HIS PERFECT will for your life-when the TIME is right GOD will make it happen-take heart❤
@mirenke20144 ай бұрын
Have checked with gynae, if not I can refer if you in jhb
@nonkosi80214 ай бұрын
I conceived finally at age 41 via IVF at Steve Biko. Mine was PCOS, but I know people who started alkaline lifestyle and conceived, some got rid of everything that causes stress, iron deficiency is an enemy too. Pray and have hubby checked too
@leefortunate57644 ай бұрын
Have you tried maca root?
@pwincesstk34 ай бұрын
@@mirenke2014 I’m in Swaziland 🇸🇿, but joburg is only a 4 hour drive. I’m willing to sacrifice
@kimberlybobotha59914 ай бұрын
Sister Kim is so smart and can articulate herself so perfectly.Can’t wait for part 2. My names Kimberley too 🙈
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Thank you Sis' -Blessings to you ''bitso''❤❤❤
@abigailvilane4 ай бұрын
@KimberlyVilane Hi sis is Vilane your maiden surname?
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
@@abigailvilane maiden surname is Dladla-marital surname is Vilane 🙏
@GodsFavourite20244 ай бұрын
@abigailvilane it's so beautiful to see you here. I admire u so much ma'am 💗
@Snairo_10093 ай бұрын
I believe you, Kimberly. You are literally speaking about my ex-husband without the ministry.
@HlengiweMathe-p2d4 ай бұрын
Narcissism + Witchcraft = Disaster... The story of my life😢😢😢
@Nthabeleng5074 ай бұрын
Yoh say that again. Ukukhula Kunzima. Ppl need more than just God to protect themselves from predators.
@iris18964 ай бұрын
Seem like the husband is under a spell of his mother. He is not himself at all😢
@mskhumalo51184 ай бұрын
The second guest is so chilled and relaxed (such a chilled pooch 🐕🐶). My dog would be barking like mad. Probably my dog would even try to bite Owamie's hand 😅😅
@nomsamashaba48644 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@thatomohale47224 ай бұрын
😂
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 dogs of Jesus must always behave because they won't be invited to places😂❤❤❤
@mskhumalo51184 ай бұрын
@@KimberlyVilane 😅😅😅😅🤞🏾🤞🏾
@maryjanekumalo64304 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@jemimahmukombo66384 ай бұрын
The church is hospital for people who are sick and seeking healing be careful
@dikeledidk26794 ай бұрын
U so rite
@hangwelaninemathaga83334 ай бұрын
And not of them are responding well to treatment
@marcellem4 ай бұрын
@@hangwelaninemathaga8333😂😂😂😂
@nkagisangkoushu58284 ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@nkagisangkoushu58284 ай бұрын
Yep
@ItsMeYourfavorite74 ай бұрын
Thank you ladies for highlighting that when you think God is “not answering” your prayers He knows better and just keep praying, fasting and He will always do the best for you
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏
@BeingIsiphile4 ай бұрын
🙏
@mishawilliams43194 ай бұрын
AMEN 🙏🏾
@brendangonyama3 ай бұрын
Eish mara women are going through hell, you are such a powerhouse
@elvisndlovu12324 ай бұрын
I'm fully invested in this story......women are going through a lot, eish
@pheladitau67624 ай бұрын
Soo painful...n we don't even support each other 😢aikhona 😢😢😢it's too much maan
@trevlynbonaparte4 ай бұрын
I honestly cannot blame the husband. He is the victim of the evil spirits used by his mother to control him.
@beewest57044 ай бұрын
Ppl love nmaking excuses for men.
@zamambhele2424 ай бұрын
This is tricky , when u are being controlled spiritually ur mind is also gone completely ?
@Chidlhealt3 ай бұрын
My mother inlaw would come in whiles her son is naked!!
@briellagab4 ай бұрын
From the behavior she described her husband, he is far from a narcissist; a narcissist does not go so long before you see their traist, belittling, insulting, etc. I understand that narcissist is the new word, but it is an actual disorder that you cannot just hand to someone, In this case, it is clear the mother performed witchcraft on her son, his actions were not voluntarily. A narcissist is someone who has uncontrollable high sense of self-importance.
@busisiweganga88664 ай бұрын
I was also trying to see why she says he’s a narcissist. The man was bewitched, he was under a powerful witchcraft spell and the sad thing is that the church could not help him. As for our lovely sister, do not be discouraged, prayer works. The problem is usually that we’re not praying the right prayer. For example if the person is bewitched, the one interceding must target the witchcraft powers to break their hold. If you target a narcissist demon you will miss the mark and the witchcraft spell will remain intact. May God help us all learn to ask God what prayer we should be praying in specific situations.
@nkagisangkoushu58284 ай бұрын
Need to familiarize yourself with books explaining narcissist. I think both the mother and son are narcissist. One of the traits about narcissist is that they are witches 😢
@nkagisangkoushu58284 ай бұрын
Narcissist are witches especially amongst blacks
@briellagab4 ай бұрын
@@nkagisangkoushu5828 I’m a psychology student, thank you. Witchcraft isn’t a trait.
@kholonkoana64754 ай бұрын
I was actually thinking about this.
@buhlemguni37634 ай бұрын
It's also important to note that Narcissists deliberately seek out women in the church. Because their first inclination will be to blame themselves. Then they will want to pray and fast thier marital problems away. Doing the most, while they continue to endure abuse.
@mbalimabaso94854 ай бұрын
Yup they seek empaths
@lovelyheart8004 ай бұрын
The moment he said God told me you are my wife I knew it was chiaaaas These people know that church girls are desperate for marriage
@beewest57044 ай бұрын
And many religions blame the women for problems in marriage & tell them it's because they do not okay enough or are not submissive enough.
@carolinemofokeng7484 ай бұрын
She is so well spoken, God bless you sister Kim❤
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
God bless you more❤
@juliarabotapi5274 ай бұрын
@@KimberlyVilane well spoken indeed , I could listen to you speak all day . ❤️ God bless you sister Kim ☺️
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
@@juliarabotapi527 Wow -thank you so much,GOD BLESS YOU for me💜
@MiriamKahilu-fp8dj4 ай бұрын
They not ready for musterbation is a sin
@karaboslife52694 ай бұрын
As a person who used to masturbate I can tell you it is a sin, I am now struggling with getting rid of spiritual husbands. Spirits I got while doing that. I pray everyday to get rid of them and they are stubborn. People should not masturbate
@keepitfrankwithfentse4 ай бұрын
Kimberely is a walking testimony. Imagine getting married so early and experiencing such trauma. Your destiny is meant to educate young women out there.
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Glory to God 🙏 thank you so much 🙏. God bless you for me ❤❤❤
@maytshifularo54154 ай бұрын
Kimberly is me, I'm Kimberly. I got married young and that marriage traumatized me. My ex husband did exactly what Kimberly's ex did. I'm still single today 7 years after the divorce. I'm scared of bazalwane men.
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
@@maytshifularo5415 oh my dearest -sending you a big-biggg ninja hug 🫂🫂. The Lord strengthen you and heal all your trauma's. ❤️❤️❤️
@GodsFavourite20244 ай бұрын
@@maytshifularo5415nam. Still wear the ring so men don't even think of approaching me😢
@Sinazo_N4 ай бұрын
What a beautiful episode! What a beautiful spiritual woman of God! Thanks Kim and Queen Ninja 🌸
@yolandangcuzana80104 ай бұрын
What a story, I had to pause and take it in.. kim is such a lady❤
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Yolanda -we bless GOD 🙏
@nothandotshabangu96774 ай бұрын
I can’t wait for part 2…please hasten it! I will be waiting
@tamaravilane4 ай бұрын
The mother in law knows what she did to her son.😢
@aphiwemncube15504 ай бұрын
Yesssss she knowsssss😢😢😢
@oliviajoans4 ай бұрын
Strangely it doesn't sound like any of this is up to him. It's like he's possessed
@gazellholla4 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@GodsFavourite20244 ай бұрын
And now she's gone I wonder how the man is now😢
@intentionalgreatness3 ай бұрын
That's what i was thinking!
@pavivapapa89644 ай бұрын
Not all churches are the body of christ . Most are under spirit of religion
@Julsm44844 ай бұрын
What do you mean
@tebogomokobane80944 ай бұрын
I think they loved each other problem ke mother in law. She used her forces to direct his marriage
@damarismohlabe16454 ай бұрын
She definitely played a huge part
@MalesoleMocheku-gn7ox4 ай бұрын
Well spoken and her story is well detailed
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🙏
@hildadavids2174 ай бұрын
My divorce decree was the also the best thing that could have ever happened to me. After cheating and not supporting his children, he instituted the divorce, which I accepted and signed. Thank God it happened then. I could have framed it, because 2 years down the line, he was owing so many people. My divorce decree saved me, if it wasn't for that, I would have had attachment on whatever assets I had. I just produced it and no lawyer could touch me, because he was not working.
@hildadavids2174 ай бұрын
Never give up laddies, just remember, God looks after the innocent party. I can personally vouch for it.
@joannangwenyama4 ай бұрын
the dangers of a spiritually blind Christian
@edithlanga62353 ай бұрын
That's the problem. The big one
@sunflawa4 ай бұрын
What a good dog! My neighbor's dog would want to speak on the mic... that dog?!
@NomsaMayo4 ай бұрын
What 😂😂😂😂
@lebogangkomape87784 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@africanbrowny4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@tsakamhlabane92694 ай бұрын
You sound very traumatised xem by your neighbours dog🤭
@Sacred_Walls4 ай бұрын
@@tsakamhlabane9269😂😂
@MiriamKahilu-fp8dj4 ай бұрын
Jezebel spirit is so real both in men and women
@MiriamKahilu-fp8dj4 ай бұрын
Owami is already losing weight look at her face ❤
@Drip36574 ай бұрын
Sych a pure aura🥺💕..beautiful voice, beautiful soul she is.
@palesasefurutshe68324 ай бұрын
I just don't understand this weird obsession of boy moms. Why they feel possessive over them ?! And having to be entitled to their marriages and having access whenever they want. As for saying," uzobuya" It was just a huge red flag. I always say this that being at church doesn't necessarily mean everyone is holy and you actually meet the worst of people there. The mother inlaw knew what she was doing with his underwear.
@mercymsezeni8384 ай бұрын
It doesn't make sense at all😢. It's like they start thinking the sons belong to them and they have no right to provide and love other women. One groom's mom confronted the bride's mother, telling her that the son is her husband and they had worked hard to educate him (but she was pretending to the bride - even saying the day was blessed and beautiful). I think we need to start asking God to reveal red flags in MILs prior marriage and for a special protecting. They should've never stayed with her. Also MILs must remember sons have their own lives and have a right to faithfully love their wives and be good fathers. Often sons must play the husband's role - nothing wrong with providing but boundaries must be in place. It's scary.
@keepitfrankwithfentse4 ай бұрын
As a mother of two sons. I believe they don't belong to me. They are borrowed and entrusted to me by God. I want them to be free the day they choose to marry because again...I may have given birth to them but they are not my possessions but rather an extension of their father and myself.
@palesasefurutshe68324 ай бұрын
@keepitfrankwithfentse true! It should be that way as a mother. You nurture them and care for them. However, that time is going to come when they want to fend for themselves and start a new life elsewhere. They should not hold them hostage or have this perception that they belong to them. Some women have that weird attachment that gives of incest. Yes you will forever have that bond but it should not be to that extent. Some women so badly want to popularize this thing of them being the boys first and only true love imagine??! Its disgusting waitsi
@palesasefurutshe68324 ай бұрын
@mercymsezeni838 bathong??! They're so possessive over them. This is so wrong man in so many levels. They have this mentality of them being the first and only true love for their boys imagine??! Hence the weird entitlement. They also need to breathe and have lives of their own. These women will go to an arms length to overprotect and remove potential mates. Ive seen so much stories on such.
@Lifethroughzinhleslense4 ай бұрын
The “to hell and back” intro slaps 🙂↕️
@ncesh4344 ай бұрын
@KimberlyVilane is my friend❤ I know God didn't allow you to go through so much for nothing.He will use you to heal a lot of women just like Owami's divorce journey helped a lot of women to heal..
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much my friend and also for introducing me to Queen Owami❤❤❤
@GodsFavourite20244 ай бұрын
Indeed. Marrying the same man twice abd going through so much was not in vein 😢
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
@@GodsFavourite2024 Amen and Amen 🙌
@ncisept59004 ай бұрын
I love the way Kim is explaining the signs of narcissism. Unfortunately most of these signs you only see retrospectively.
@lulufierce012 ай бұрын
Such a confident lady. Well spoken too❤👌
@chissyR4 ай бұрын
She is such a good storyteller. I absolutely enjoyed this episode.
@Elizabeth-vu1tb4 ай бұрын
Yhoooo Sesi Kim. I pray I had your strength, calmness, composure.
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
I pray that God grants you the strength you need-His strength is made perfect in our weakness-take heart.
@maryjanekumalo64304 ай бұрын
One of my friends got married when we were 18 and i think her life was never the same
@gladyfungai98244 ай бұрын
Beautiful spiritually intelligent woman ❤
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🙏
@victorioussisters33074 ай бұрын
Life is spiritual that we must keep in mind. Love bombing is also a spirit, an evil spirit which is a spell used mostly by narcissists!
@nthabisengnkabinde25184 ай бұрын
My sister your story is just like mine dear. May God strengthen you and keep your focus to God. People are going to church but they don't fear God.
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your words- I will keep my focus on GOD indeed ❤
@jacklinemueni38653 ай бұрын
A Queen, A Diva, woman of God.. Lot's of love mummy..
@BaileBaloyi4 ай бұрын
If you are a woman with a character like Kim please don't get married 😂men must hear your fotsek every now and then. Imagine gone for 6 months and you this calm noo be a Dineo Ranaka my sister
@palesasefurutshe68324 ай бұрын
Bathong??!😂😂😂 why is this funny. Mara you are telling the truth men just love toxicity.
@maytshifularo54154 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@nikiwephindilesibiya14003 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Peighter4 ай бұрын
One of the best episodes What a crazy story😭😭 I want to hear the next story 😂😂
@TebohoMonyamane4 ай бұрын
Atleast u had 7yrs of beautiful marriage its a blessing some marriages dont last even for 5yrs ,,,❤
@tshegofalosiele3403 ай бұрын
They don't last a year
@nosiphomatwa8584 ай бұрын
Owami I must say you look gorgeous my darling ❤
@neshmatshiambwa85624 ай бұрын
Owamie is always makes her guest comfortable the reason i love her so much❤
@GoitseonaOratileMosito4 ай бұрын
I agree to that knowing the background of the other party is very important even when your in a relationship check everything before you fall Sana
@zamambhele2424 ай бұрын
She’s such a good story teller ❤
@elvisndlovu12324 ай бұрын
Yes we are here... Ninja signing in, how are you all
@tembelazwane99234 ай бұрын
Thank you Ninja for such a beautiful interview
@chumilesimelane61924 ай бұрын
Thank God I am not the only one who pound the wedding ring. I did the same and I was with my friend , we went to out for lunch. My friend evn today she still reminds me... Sisoba stongo sisterz. We soldered it!
@memorykasanga87804 ай бұрын
Stand by your convictions
@damarismohlabe16454 ай бұрын
It hit me😢
@TshavhungweT4 ай бұрын
kim is so well spoken and classy
@Kayb1934 ай бұрын
Very classy be boo😍😊
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🙏
@norahmaleka-lt8uv4 ай бұрын
Very classy
@amymccarthy97314 ай бұрын
I loved listening to her so much
@shalomakintola84634 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. You are truly a child of God. You deserve peace in your life. #ITHAPPENEDTOMETOO. ❤
@Chidlhealt3 ай бұрын
The power of a praying wife. Fascinating womanhood!! My goodness!!!
@Nona_Naki4 ай бұрын
Interview 💯camera quality 💯. Ninja your listening skill ❤️
@memorykasanga87804 ай бұрын
A wrong spouse can send you to hell
@mskhumalo51184 ай бұрын
Wrong spouse can literally made your life hell forever. They can even change your destiny 😔😔
@ms_zt1st4 ай бұрын
She's smart, she finished college at 18.
@christanom74843 ай бұрын
This lady is narrating my life story😭
@quinndee88224 ай бұрын
No communication but meet in church seating next to each other n pretend to be a happy couple......tyoooooooooo tyoooo I cnt imagine myself in that situation I swear I would scream the hell out of my heart as he preaches haiibooo ngeke
@lindiweandmom4 ай бұрын
Ninja from Kenya signing in
@lorebay25934 ай бұрын
Exactly, the Spirit of GOD tried to warn, but I wanted so much to be married and have family. We do not expect the devil’s children to be in church, being young and naive until they have us in their grip. I went thru similar but not as this. That’s why we need more conversation to call them out into the light so our girls can be aware of these wolves in sheep’s clothing in the church. It was many many years, I just did not understand the behavior, hoping and praying. Then I saw an article on narcissistic personality disorder, I read it and most every symptom fit. I finally knew what the problem had been all along. Expose, no longer hide this topic, people in families and churches need to know bout narcs in the church, they have hurt/harmed so many of us.
@simcelilethikazi61574 ай бұрын
Eish...what a painful story.Im glad uphume usaphila cc...Nkulunkulu unemacebo lamahle ngatsi,hhayi ekusibulala kodvwa ekusiphumelelisa❤.Chin up ntfombi,there's still life ahead of you
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Ngiyabonga kakhulu Sisi. Angibusisele Wena UNkulunkulu.
@simcelilethikazi61574 ай бұрын
@@KimberlyVilane ngiyabonga Sisi❤️
@madialemotsiri5864 ай бұрын
Everything about narcissism she is mentioning it says "the Nigerians guys the ladies were talking about in previous videos"😮
@MmapiElizabeth4 ай бұрын
I cant wait for part what a lovely story of waiting so long and have a child and finally got the child that mamazala was very evil😮😮😮😢
@Beingkat4 ай бұрын
What a well spoken queen.❤ she's so calm i love it😊
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ Thank you so much
@elizabethnovak40884 ай бұрын
You are such strong woman...Adorable doggy 🤗
@langelihleK4 ай бұрын
The way Owami is so self aware, ath "I was going to get arrested, I was gonna refuse with the child".😂😂😂
@morongwesekopo26234 ай бұрын
What a Lady! Such beautiful Energy.. Im not done with the episode but i absolutely love her
@veronicakesebelwang4 ай бұрын
I love her❤
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Wow you guys- thank you so much. I am in awe of what God is doing ❤❤❤
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
@@veronicakesebelwangI love you,GOD INDEED bless you for me ❤❤❤
@pulanetheo78264 ай бұрын
Narcissists dont want to be parents 🤞
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
💯 Correct ❤❤❤
@beejjjj41064 ай бұрын
I've been on a journey trying to understand what type of person my dad is. I just realized that he's a narcissist. A whole church leader and a wanna be pastor
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
@@beejjjj4106 May GOD grant you all the answers you are seeking in this journey 🙏💖💖💖
@chokiemashiya81034 ай бұрын
Beautifully told 🤞ladies careful if he comes with Bible to propose Ruun😂
@silindilenxumalo95414 ай бұрын
True sis. They don't want responsibilities. They do whatever when they want to.
@DorcasDeCelestino4 ай бұрын
Kimberly is such a lady😍her story telling is captivating 🎉
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much ❤❤❤
@mrs92654 ай бұрын
I was involved with a narcissist. I know exactly what she is talking about. If I relay my story to anyone. Only a few will understand. They are serial manipulators, gaslighters, they thrive in toxicity, their public image is a different human being, they will isolate you, will ghost you for nothing, abusive and hide the abuse so well, the list go on and on. I get her. I fought.
@elizabethnovak40884 ай бұрын
I know..
@uznamalunga3 ай бұрын
I am so happy she grabbed both of them buy the things!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
@oliviajoans4 ай бұрын
That wasn't narcissism. Sounds like a cult
@mrs92654 ай бұрын
Narcissism sounds like a cult. True. I have been through it. Every characteristic is soooo similar. Narcissism is evil spirit... .
@NonhlanhlaVundhla4 ай бұрын
Beautiful mummy, this story will help loads and loads of women❤❤🎉🎉
@mildredmaile27484 ай бұрын
Don't compromise👌 I heard you Kimberly.......You are so smart, beautiful and God fearing woman.......May God Keep You
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Oh thank you Sis' -DON'T COMPROMISE. God bless you for me❤❤❤
@learnwithme3224 ай бұрын
Great interview. Well balanced story.
@cindyshongwe59744 ай бұрын
Yooo I agree with the above comment why do we church girls end up falling for narcissistic men😢 I also relate completely and now understand why my divorce had to happen.
@cindyshongwe59744 ай бұрын
Yoo I have just been silent thinking that people will say I'm just a heartbroken ex wife. I divorced my husband in absentia in 2011 it took 4 full years for me to granted divorce decree my life was stuck coz he was no where to be found now I understand narcissistic character. 🤔
@DorcasDeCelestino4 ай бұрын
I’m that sister❤love the way she says it
@elvisndlovu12324 ай бұрын
Kim is beautiful and smart
@KimberlyVilane4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🙏
@Beans-064 ай бұрын
I hear the Mother in law this,my husband did this, sisters in the church this, but this days I'm like, but God where are U in this. I mean u prayed, u fasted, u declared the word of God. Why is God allowing the devil to win, whyyyyyy
@BaileBaloyi4 ай бұрын
I cannot answer for God but what I've noticed is our pain births our ministry. We experience this things(while God is in it with us) for His glory. If for eg I was a Ps in a successful marriage because I was a proverbs 31 woman I would not relate to other women going through these things because I would tell them things like pray harder, fast etc. Whereas more women (non-believers included) will be able to identify with Kim because she has walked that journey and after all these she is praising God for carrying her through.
@mercymsezeni8384 ай бұрын
There's power of choice too. God has given all of us free will.
@triciakekana4 ай бұрын
God was there all the time, just because God doesn't act when u want Him to it doesn't mean He's not there but trust and believe when u are down and out and ready to throw in the towel God shows up you even forget the why because He does it in ways we can not even understand or explain but God shows up for sure.
@triciakekana4 ай бұрын
The devil didn't win because she's still breathing, God defeated everything and everyone for her she was just with the wrong man, maybe she chose Him and didn't let God do the choosing for her hey.
@dricirusuzan4 ай бұрын
What if that was not the man God ordained for her, remember she said the man showed him she was her husband, but she didn't say God showed her also he was her husband.