#RealTalk #SwitchTV #InstaLife There's so much pressure to keep up with the Instalife. Tamima & Life Coach Robert Burale get real with an audience full of youth.
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@SwitchTVKenya5 жыл бұрын
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@Architivist_4 жыл бұрын
THIS IS SHOW NEEDS TO BE IN SOUTH AFRICA. THIS IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN KENYA AND SA. This show is amazing.
@tincecilliabakery41083 жыл бұрын
Please speakEnglish please for us who can't hear your language
@marymungai63973 жыл бұрын
i would like to be part of these conversations.
@tigresspowerful2185 жыл бұрын
Waaaa! This video has made me see myself as abnormal. I am the same age as these girls, I am 21 but I have a different view of life. Sex is for marriage, I am keeping for myself for my husband. I have felt the pressure on IG until I quit social media coz all my friends had this lavish lives but I went back to laugh at them once I learnt what they were doing for the holidays. Nimeparara na matuta kwa kichwa na sijawai skia pressure ya kutafuta a man anipee pesa. Lemmie just struggle najuwa one day ntaishi the life i deserve
@Mosh-p5f5 жыл бұрын
kudos girl! you are on the right track.
@cutieone90345 жыл бұрын
I am proud of you...am in my late 30s n hv never felt the pressure these girls r talking about. I have learnt to live my own life out of hard work. I don't understand why they have to feel the pressure..i tooo never had parents that had money but ve leant to respect my values-no one can undermine me.
@mickal33115 жыл бұрын
wait, what's abnormal about that?? edit : im sure there are tones of people out there who are the same. the fact that you think being yourself is abnormal appaling
@jackielynn76865 жыл бұрын
My dear don't envy this life...keep your purity.your virginity is your dignity...mtu asikudanganye.be simple
@trishwere1415 жыл бұрын
Lakini usiparare just try to look your best with what you have keep on working hard as you have said one day it will pay off😉.
@dorothyntinyari41875 жыл бұрын
When in campus, I worked in a hotel and made sure I eat there before going home. The salary paid my rent and the small shopping i needed. I used to skip lunch to save a little and would stay with one hairstyle even two months or more. Finished campus, got a job, got married and I thank God that now am living a better life. It's all calls for patience
@linetaleyo50144 жыл бұрын
You are amazing
@winnyjerioth8694 жыл бұрын
Wowz
@Herhealingtouch66833 жыл бұрын
Tell this generation that. I used to work in the Salon when am off campus to make ends meet ... Which I have zero regrets ... hearing this girl's talk like this breaks my heart ...
@lilianakeya98687 ай бұрын
Yes 🎉🎉
@Ombwori_115 жыл бұрын
Who else is here because of that girl in red in that short video 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
@Q_POULTRY5 жыл бұрын
👋👋👋👋👋👋
@her_man15 жыл бұрын
hahaha Aye aye captain
@Eks_Sinoveta5 жыл бұрын
m nategea bombshell y 'at 16 u should be watching cartoon network'
@jelagattoroitich67375 жыл бұрын
Me😂
@djgoelamoste98325 жыл бұрын
😀😀
@willywilson34425 жыл бұрын
This dude Burale always spitting wisdom🤝💯
@chelseygithinji36745 жыл бұрын
Sure
@jingowilliamsbuyinza31035 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@jepletingmagut79855 жыл бұрын
I think a separate session is needed for these sponsors who spoil the girls and parents to provide basics for the girl child
@asiimwemichael78985 жыл бұрын
Am a Ugandan working hea in kenya. BIG UP TO MISTER ROBERT BUHARE
@thandizochiphwanya6 ай бұрын
So much wisdom
@kanjaedwin5 жыл бұрын
Burale is giving the realest talk. He is full of wisdom.
@maggiequeen33665 жыл бұрын
Who else can see future in Tamima ?, changing lives and inspiring 🤩
@derrickwaswa86316 жыл бұрын
Did anyone notice that Tamima is such a great host.
@missessy4976 жыл бұрын
She is spot on
@ruthpaul19205 жыл бұрын
She is our Wendy.. soo cool
@nancysamuel60425 жыл бұрын
Perfect host
@denismwiti5 жыл бұрын
sana bana...shes very good !
@clairevett57665 жыл бұрын
Not only a great host but a very gorgeous lady with golden heart I admire her personality very spectacular 👌
@ceejay25495 жыл бұрын
Waaah ROBERT BURALE your comments are just direct and powerful big up man i love that
@carolinemanyonge66975 жыл бұрын
Robert Burale you never disappoint! Thank you for the candid advice to those children
@FeedTheSoul2545 жыл бұрын
Exactly am glad his driving the point home
@betterthanevver5 жыл бұрын
Those children hehe I like that 😄
@ivychic22065 жыл бұрын
Listening to the talk just added more wisdom and value to my life
@mwanamwende36515 жыл бұрын
A man's money 'll never excite an independent woman.
@natashawekesa25345 жыл бұрын
True
@kathleenmureithi5 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@jennywinter30255 жыл бұрын
Yeah for weak bitches
@irenekinyanjui87895 жыл бұрын
Yaas
@Thespttedland5 жыл бұрын
No independent women in Kenya.. Just single mothers who can't find a man to marry them.
@sylviamuchai20465 жыл бұрын
😂😂ati don’t assume I’m humble, I’m broke!😂😂aaaai Robert though 🔥🔥😂
@janetmunyirich94295 жыл бұрын
11:08 just wanted to point out that people can have money and not be "stable." stability is indeed crucial to life, but be specific what kind of stability you're referring to. financial stability is not worth you putting your health stability at great risk for harm. mental stability and ability to *utilize critical thinking skills* to both enjoy life and solve life problems is the best kind of stability to have...as it begets all others... 1) You'll be creative; finding ways and/or seeing opportunities to make money. 2) You'll be more health conscious about what you put in your body. 3) With the money you do have, you'll utilize it wisely and find ways to multiply it not deplete it. 4) You'll have better relationships because you take time to understand yourself, which gives you a basis for understanding another and from this, you can love them correctly. financial stability is a *facet* of life. i think we all tend to blow it out of proportion. this skewed perception of finances being the end all, be all makes life harder than it really is. that mindset that money is the end all be all is the antithesis for stability. it knocks other aspects of life out of balance. Mind you, these other aspects are just as important, if not more. Being a well rounded person is my goal, and for that, my priorities have to be in check. It takes work, but money is not allowed take over my life or mind like that. I totally understand where they're coming from though. being at that age, money feels like the one facet of life that is lacking. BUT try not to blow it's importance out of proportion so much that it risks your health. practice gratefulness instead. ie shift your focus to being grateful for what is not lacking in your life.
@michaelheery74275 жыл бұрын
No much in the corruption chaos of kenya with its POVERTY..
@janetmunyirich94295 жыл бұрын
@@michaelheery7427 someone once abbreviated "POOR" for me: Passing Over Opportunity Repeatedly there's opportunities in Kenya. It's about having mental clarity and FOCUS, knowing what you want and cultivating a level of awareness and you'll start noticing opportunities. opportunity is everywhere and Kenya is no exception. as for corruption, it's a matter of guarding one's heart. because everything in this life flows from there, including my ability to spot opportunities. the wisdom in Ecclesiastes 7:7 has a lesson on this. "the practice of extortion turns a wise person into a fool, and a bribe destroys the mind. (corrupts the heart)" it does take self control, but i try not to make it a habit to participate in activities that jeopardize my mind or heart. why? because I highly value the health and well-being of my mind and heart. "poverty in kenya, corruption in kenya" do not let those thoughts make you hopeless. Be the best you, and trust me, it makes a difference.
@darkwayoung38013 жыл бұрын
I'm Ghana and I loved this particular episode and I personally believe conversations like these can serve as an antidote for our many problems down here in Africa. 👌 Best conversation I've had so far this year. God bless this channel, God bless Africa.
@steezyizzy15846 жыл бұрын
What we need among us today are young Burale's.. Guy!!! I like your insights.
@Msapere5 жыл бұрын
they exist...one of them is Mwenesi Musalia. They should have invited him since the youth would have related to him better in my opinion. No offense to Burale.
@donr45785 жыл бұрын
I wish these girls knew, some got HIV just coz of iPhone 4, now we are at iPhone X. I also wish they talked to those older men, they would tell them of those high school and campus girls they used to drool over and now can’t look at twice!
@mildredochieng63035 жыл бұрын
Tamima you are such a great host.I am using this to teach my fellow students in class in college
@veronicahwahu51065 жыл бұрын
mildred ochieng woow lec you here too
@mildredochieng63035 жыл бұрын
@@veronicahwahu5106 yes I am
@judithmwangi61925 жыл бұрын
I'm shocked. At 19 I was busy with studies. Misplaced priorities.....
@ceceblooms86665 жыл бұрын
And where did that get you 😂😂
@judithmwangi61925 жыл бұрын
@@ceceblooms8666 what do you mean! I don't regret what I've achieved so far; no unplanned for babies, no heartbreaks, no diseases, a stable income, a r/ship with my creator, just to mention a few...... I believe there's a time for everything.
@ceceblooms86665 жыл бұрын
@@judithmwangi6192 congrats ! You go girl 👏
@morganmorgan38005 жыл бұрын
Tell them
@Herhealingtouch66833 жыл бұрын
And living your age this girl's are beyond at 19 it's sad
@shanyzanjoga77325 жыл бұрын
Wapi team Burale from busia
@brulimotradesbsa82995 жыл бұрын
lyn-reloaded bsa ndani
@FeedTheSoul2545 жыл бұрын
Mimi aki woooow this guy is great
@rjayrose26245 жыл бұрын
He rubbed the truth in their faces Well said Burale we ni hero wa young generation🔥🔥
@ninalarson94533 жыл бұрын
Rubbing anything in anyone's face means you are weak and need to step on someone to feel good about yourself
@gigi.akinyii5 жыл бұрын
These young girls lack positive female role models. It's not even funny watching them..it is painful because we have failed them. They lack a sense of true identity and self love
@gracetharao56835 жыл бұрын
Woi I'm screaming as I watch this and almost in tears because this is saaaad....
@reine9245 жыл бұрын
Really sad. A 19 year old is not embarrassed to make it known that she's sexually active......
@deeohenga67325 жыл бұрын
I feel mad already.they are so ignorant i wish they knew what awaits them
@sharonmashar65545 жыл бұрын
Yes girl i scrolled through the comments and this is the only sensible comment i came across..All others are either judgemental are dumb no offense.
@joywambui93305 жыл бұрын
Let’s not shy away from discussing sexuality to our children from an early age. When growing up no one told me about anything to do with sexuality and it’s so much worse to learn from your peers. Mothers, fathers sisters and older friends please guide guide or there will be no generation in the years to come
@missnabiswa3385 жыл бұрын
Robert the sense you are instilling in this girls for free is just so amazing but they cant see it..
@gladwellmwendwa28075 жыл бұрын
Tamima you are going places. Keep up. Good job
@Dinkleburg75 жыл бұрын
OMG these girls at 19 and are looking for older men 😤😣....me at 20 am still watching cartoons 😂😂
@chefabby38003 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@mars66163 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha lol。
@ianospartamgaza66513 жыл бұрын
Keep it up
@dreenmersher39163 жыл бұрын
Same here😂😂
@bintimalu5 жыл бұрын
I am shocked that these many ladies or girls would actually still have the mentality that they need someone else to take care of them. I have thought that millennials are more about women rights and equality and independence. This just woke me up! I can’t understand why but I’ll definitely keep searching for the reasons and not be judgmental
@lilianlee97755 жыл бұрын
I like Burare I wish my Dad was like him...the advice part he is so wise. The generation right now needs alot of prayers.
@samiaogola83935 жыл бұрын
I love every moment of this, Burale has so much wisdom
@sue27095 жыл бұрын
It's really sad when a 19 year old girl thinks he is using a man for money(ksh.2000) what this kids don't understand is that most of this men are giving you pocket change..this man will go and make a deal worth hundreds of thousands then give you 2 or even say 5 thousand and on the other end you give your body in return..looking at it from this perspective who is using who???
@shakurnerea35435 жыл бұрын
Susan , they failed to understand that the man given out that 2000 can equally transferred deadly diseases into her which no amounts of money can healed her!!.
@georgeabala5 жыл бұрын
She thinks at 19 she is old enough and mature. So her childishness makes her think she is smart and using the man.
@balqisaweis5104 жыл бұрын
"be significant fame will come"that point hits differently 🔥
@official_jannetkenya6875 жыл бұрын
Burale told them the truth,so sad they are thinking like that,I wish I could advice them through experience 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
@ivymichal2665 жыл бұрын
you should have more of mr.Burale in your shows ms.Tamima.
@bramwelmwololo63474 жыл бұрын
THIS was my u-turn to focus on my safe side of my life ....thanks TAMIMA
@sherryshazala71235 жыл бұрын
Very sad our young beautiful grls are rotten. Great wisdom Robert one day thy will rem ur advice .
@MyBea19845 жыл бұрын
These is a serious issue 🙆🏾♀️I wish the government would rule out that all the teens should be given a part time jobs hata kama ni MacDonald. Value your self pls ... i know rich people who are very simple and still they drive Bentley .Money is not everything. Live long
@twistl.is.t8173 жыл бұрын
Mac hawawezi compete na Mutura😅 watakuwa bankrupt first month
@mariaklaudia47105 жыл бұрын
Wow Robert is speaking nothing but Facts
@francinemulumba58934 жыл бұрын
True he only spoke facts truth hurts
@FireScorpion2543 жыл бұрын
"and let me tell you... dont get it twisted" and by the way... hehehe i like this guy
@stephenochieng38465 жыл бұрын
Robert the best adviser I have ever heard.bring him again Tamima
@jelagatvictorine9735 жыл бұрын
Thank you Robert Burale...no sugar coating
@talagarments88355 жыл бұрын
I think you should take these shows to every college in kenya,let girls and young men participate and get advised asap
@SwitchTVKenya5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the feedback Tala! We will surely make sure it reaches them. Meanwhile they can still watch online here www.switchtv.ke/showdetails/3-Real-Talk
@whitneysang31185 жыл бұрын
When Robert was talking, I felt that in my soul!!!!
@ndutahgrace86975 жыл бұрын
I was watching this and i am so dissappointed at the little thinking capacity that this my fellow ladies are talking of.Am 20 yrs and i won' t deny the fact that very old men have approached me and at times am almost to the point of giving in to them but what holds me back is the fact that i want to reap fruits of my labour without giving in to men.Be your own driver dont let untrained conductors try to drive you car which is your life
@christinenakiryowa32445 жыл бұрын
young girls push you're self no one is going to do lt 4 u focuse on your career please leave those sugar dad's alone me l'm just l9 years but when l finished my year 12 l decided to move out of my country to serve as ahouse maid in Asian country am really proud of my job because l earn smthing without sleeping with old mens and this year am planning to build my own house without someone's support so young girls always be your self in whatever your doing and always wake up with determination and go to bed with satisfaction lknow lt's going to be hard but hard doesn't mean that lt's impossible
@shiikatheka25415 жыл бұрын
I love it girl keep it up 💕bt Kenyan girls love money
@christinenakiryowa32445 жыл бұрын
@@shiikatheka2541 wooow thanks diva
@shiikatheka25415 жыл бұрын
@@christinenakiryowa3244 welcome boo l just Read your story my sister we are the same
@morryann51945 жыл бұрын
Correct
@hihoware72975 жыл бұрын
I support u @ Christine nakiryowa me tew I worked in Asian countries 4 some yrs den wat I made 4 my lyf make me happy
@kimutaivictor70115 жыл бұрын
May God bless you Burale. You have open the minds of ladies and gentlemen in general. Nice inspiration. I have gained so much as a mentor. Life is a process, success is a process not instance. So great words.
@monicahjames73085 жыл бұрын
Am enjoying the show wooow I like your points Mr. Robert woow Congratulations miss Temima for being Host
@honeydol35435 жыл бұрын
That somali lady sitting next to that girl is super gourcious 😂😂😍😍😍
@abdirizaqmohamed55575 жыл бұрын
Somali❣
@husseina.sattar14344 жыл бұрын
she used to be my girlfriend back in 2015 2016 ,,,amina was her name but I don't think if she remembers me.wallah is swear
@tonys_sportseye4 жыл бұрын
Amina. She acts in Sweet Moyo by Sammy Kioko
@lickman4134 жыл бұрын
HUSSEIN Dima I don’t think a girl will forget her ex boyfriend 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
@shiikatheka25415 жыл бұрын
I just love this man he is talking nothing but the truth 👏👏👏👏
@mary_patricia29235 жыл бұрын
I wish I had parents who could be able to put me through college ningekua far aki But at 19 years I was already working earning my little cash am now 24 years still hustling
@lindabitwayiki24745 жыл бұрын
Don't worry my dear, God will provide leave everything to God your not alone. Am aslo still struggling myself.
@lizzie37245 жыл бұрын
Gurl. One. Proud of you. Two. You will be a success.
@mary_patricia29235 жыл бұрын
Thanks alot 🙏
@deepdive2545 жыл бұрын
@Patty_patricia. Hang on to your dreams and don't give up on your dignity and integrity. I was a housegirl at 19 after being chased away by the aunt I was living with. I knew what I wanted and I knew how far I could go and how far I couldn't go in order to achieve those dreams. I kept the hope, trusted in God and kept pushing. I eventually got to campus when I was 23 years when my highschool classmates were graduating from campus and getting jobs and even starting their families. I believe am in my own timeline and am not competing with anybody. Am now 26 and in my final year in Daystar University almost finishing my degree in communications. My dreams are still alive and I hope to achieve them. I have never had to bribe anybody or sleep with anybody to get money to get me through. God is good. He is watching you and your glorious time is coming. Just keep on keeping on. All the best in all your endeavours and be Blessed❤
@KaramjitKB5 жыл бұрын
It's never too late love.. You can put yourself through college.. Keep hustling keep going 💕💕💕
@lionsdota19895 жыл бұрын
You should be watching cartoon network,Mr Burale you made her feel 😭😭
@anitamukhwana25095 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂at 16 you should be watching cartoon network
@elizabethokyere64865 жыл бұрын
😀😀
@faithsivan49415 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@khadram54635 жыл бұрын
Anita Mukhwana 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@yudelleanlisatajirikenyana45195 жыл бұрын
Anita Mukhwana 🤣🤣🤣 best answer of the day
@misskemunto91625 жыл бұрын
😂He is right by then i was watching ben 10
@florencelalic54695 жыл бұрын
Knowing young people are curious. Instead of abstaining till Marriage. We should encourage healthy sexual lifes with protection. We have to be real. We were all once young n we know how curious we all were
@Avijokaspa65 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! we've been hiding for too long in our bubble
@marywamaitha76035 жыл бұрын
Acc;
@michaelheery74275 жыл бұрын
Not LIKE THIS IN EUROPE..GUESS OUR PARENTS . ...
@sallywaridi7435 жыл бұрын
Somehow true, more mentorship and guidance is needed,some people on the comment section want to look like saints.
@SophieEbrahim5 жыл бұрын
Omg why are they talking about good hair while everyone of them has a bad hair day 🥴😂😂😂
@bridgetkinoti22995 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂true
@maryonis49615 жыл бұрын
I know hahaha!
@mariannechemu28605 жыл бұрын
Damn straight😂😂😂😂
@angelagicharu7215 жыл бұрын
hairline refusing to cooperate with the money they are given😂😂😂
@paulwanjie62035 жыл бұрын
pewa soda sophia
@ImmaculateMMutua6 жыл бұрын
Ooh my God,Coach you are so wise.i love your sincerity to these young generation
@gaeldowo5 жыл бұрын
Tamima this is quite a good show n I applaud you, keep doing this to help our future leaders.🎉🎉
@cmahdababemadlala91995 жыл бұрын
You can date an older guy and find out that he is serious about the relationship and one day make you his wife and BTW being married doesn't mean you can't get HIV
@shempaulmboya5 жыл бұрын
Meaning they are not always serious or what do u mean?
@caireenmaurine90395 жыл бұрын
Date someone for love not money. Thats the point.
@chipperonyango8274 жыл бұрын
Thought you had something important to say kumbe wewe pia nikama hawa 19 years we see here
@jaywekz24163 жыл бұрын
I agree with u
@deehs20233 жыл бұрын
Yes true
@janenyamburamwangi5615 жыл бұрын
My heart bleeds for the young girls.If the same programme is held in 5years time,would their comments remain the same.Trust me no!!Life will teach them the things they are being told but don't want to listen.Thankyou Burale..
@deelove61382 жыл бұрын
Wait untill there husbands start been sponsors to girls...I swear at there age I was hustling to get my own money to survive..I never wanted to call everyday at home to ask for money..I worked for my money...I couldn't see myself sleeping around with older men to get money..no way...I made sure I stayed in my own lane...
@carolinenjeri29195 жыл бұрын
You should have Nancie on the show and this other guys to talk about their journey to where they are and how they got there I remember been this age and even younger and guys 7 to 10 years, sometimes 15 older approaching me and when i was 23 I realized this men are actually really cheap guys, I thank God I overcame that phase Ladies you dont need to do all this and to be honest i think guys all have a child in them that they show when they are comfortable with you, if they dont show it its because they know you are a child
@LeAnnWatson13785 жыл бұрын
I just happened upon this channel about 2wks now and am hooked... Great host.. Excellent topics.... 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@viviantaabu51895 жыл бұрын
I love the transparency... Better have a rich guy flatter you plus other women, than have a broke one flatter you with poverty. 😂😂😂😂😂
@dtwach68204 жыл бұрын
Here is a tissue,you have some bullshit on your lip???
@veemtshali25403 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@damsymbithi23955 жыл бұрын
im 21 few months ago dated a 30year old guy...treated me so well in the name of love n money n act which almost blinded me..but later came back to my senses...dropped him n now av decided to be single for a while to think about relationships
@marthabomet63335 жыл бұрын
Exactly the same life story
@SmartVictor5 жыл бұрын
Great show Tamima...These are the type of content we need on our TV. Thank you Robert for the excellent words.
@Sunshine_Amy5 жыл бұрын
Ooh my, our young ladies, never think of men's pockets... Let your parents provide kwa Hali na Mali,,, until you secure a job opportunity... and be independent..... . Work harder... I wish I had someone to guide me
@diananjerivictorious22125 жыл бұрын
I'm loving this Burale guy
@violetrayworshipministry5 жыл бұрын
He's such a gem.
@lizammbone23345 жыл бұрын
I saw this video on someone's status... And rushed here to watch Just because of Burale.... This Guy is wise... Full of wisdom... Honest... Straight shooter.... Indeed a Life coach....
@osorocarlsen5 жыл бұрын
Me too💯😁
@evanskipngetich2435 жыл бұрын
Here I am too coz I saw it in someone's status
@onlythebrave46555 жыл бұрын
I'm a make up artist "what do you expect"🙄🙄🙄girl sit down and be HUMBLE
@michaelheery74275 жыл бұрын
@@joycemulinda6946 will some one TELL HER..
@Ichbinthee_dali5 жыл бұрын
Very true
@trumalebo5 жыл бұрын
doesnt even look that nice mxm
@michaelheery74275 жыл бұрын
Men SPEAK AGAINST SLEEPING AROUND.. ha ha
@yudelleanlisatajirikenyana45195 жыл бұрын
babygal baby 😂😂😂😂 right
@eunicekaruri31055 жыл бұрын
Thanks Robert Burale those are powerful words. I always love listening to you. God bless you.
@rourinishein6 жыл бұрын
The problem is people have grown to be very superficial. Only care about how they look, what they have, where they live, what they drive etc and get caught up in problems which they try to make them seem like they're normal. You trying to bag a sugar daddy or someone who is very established just so you can enjoy a lavish lifestyle and later on getting killed or acquiring an STD is not normal. You having an older man who has so much money and drives a range but you will endure his cheating behaviour because he gives you money... is not normal. This little girl is 19 but has her priorities all wrong. Instead of focusing on graduating, getting a job and establishing herself she's thinking about dating older men and getting instant money. That is not the time for that. You want an STD so bad? Lord have mercy! And little girl, age and maturity are mutually exclusive. I have met older guys that were very immature and younger guys that were very mature...and vise versa. It all boils down to the person's character and attitude. If they know their purpose in life; have a sense of direction in life. Having money is not maturity. Being older is not maturity. So please avoid generalising a group of people. Dating one immature person doesn't mean everybody else is immature. You have to learn to know what maturity looks like in a person. That way you will avoid making the same mistake. Also stop with the instant gratification mentality. You want things very fast you're not ready to work for it. If you're so concerned about having great hair kindly get a job and buy your own stuff. Stop going after older or wrinkled men who are capable of giving you diseases other than money. But ofcourse you don't want to be seen waiting tables or selling mangoes because it will compromise your popularity or that it's too much work. Guys these established men and women worked hard too to be where they are. So how about you do the same. Have some dignity and work hard for your own things. You want your kids to go to banda school(not that it makes a big difference), then get your priorities straight, work smart, earn and save up. It's that straightforward. Stay focused. Keep your eyes on the real prize. For the people that you look up to on social media, those guys have their own private lives and you never know what they have to go through everyday. Like Burale said most are broke ass people trying to keep up a fake show. Some are depressed. Some are abused at home. Some are going through things and putting pictures or content makes them feel happy. Posting great pictures comforts them. Don't ever wish to have someone else's life. Just be yourself and focus on building your life the right way. Social media is a double edged sword don't be too engrossed in it. Protect yourself. Over and out x
@michaelheery74275 жыл бұрын
Says very LITTLE ABOUT QUALITY OF PARENTS..
@mercymbithe33344 жыл бұрын
This is very educative...by too long to be read in details....
@storiesoftriumph5 жыл бұрын
Great show. We need to start addressing the underlying issues behind this whole scenario. Happens every day, all the time but the reasons behind it are different just as much.
@mebogirl64375 жыл бұрын
Nimeona wasichana wengi Kenya haza wale wako college wanauliwa juu ya sponsors. Please girls. Fanya business na hiyo pocket money yako. Nenda kigomba or toi .nunua vitu huko .kuja uzia wenzako. Utapata your on money. Utaishi maisha bora kuliko kutafuta sponsor.
@loya.ls.45525 жыл бұрын
Thank youuuu
@cocobetter21135 жыл бұрын
They should use that popularity to do business but they want quick money may God open their eyes it's very sad
@BerylSeer14 жыл бұрын
Alafu nikigongwa na Gari? 🤔Heri nikule za msee.
@presentfatherhood62165 жыл бұрын
i am so glad i came across this conversation, as a young father, and who is passionate about fatherhood, I am more encouraged to keep going with my conversation on present fatherhood.
@marionwanjiku42266 жыл бұрын
Robert saying it as it suppose to be said
@idafaith73005 жыл бұрын
Robert Burale always on point, heard you for years and you're the best. Love your ideas and calling things as they are 😍 ☺... Young ladies be content in who you are, the emptiness you feel can only find your identity in Christ
@mebogirl64375 жыл бұрын
Brother Burale good advice to the young ones .
@oswagocalvins23445 жыл бұрын
The kind of shows we really need...drop the 10/10 Shit...This is just very educative
@anitarayner19525 жыл бұрын
She's 19 & she already dated more than 3 guys by the time she's 25 atakuwa swimming pool.
@mirembejoanna82245 жыл бұрын
😀😀😀😀😀
@doreenfavour6225 жыл бұрын
Ati swimming pool sio bahari
@saraamri82645 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@mariaklaudia47105 жыл бұрын
@@doreenfavour622 lmao
@beeb44665 жыл бұрын
Why would one woman want to say that to another? So people only date one boy and get married😄😄😄😄. Staaaaaph sis. Just Staaaaaph. If a baby goes through, and it contracts, please don't judge .
@priscillarkarani65815 жыл бұрын
Tamima u r a great Host. Burale Guy, u r just wonderful. For the young people who are open, thanks and get ready to learn!
@joykimani3894 жыл бұрын
I really love Robert Burale he really gives people advice that will assist you in your present life and future life
@nyantikafranklin90693 жыл бұрын
.. i love this, keep these kind of talks coming more often Tamima💕💕💕
@amadadee5 жыл бұрын
Even Andrew Kibe said he goes for the young ones, because you buy her a couple of guaranas, getting her is a sure thing. The older ones you have to impress with life goals. 2k is kidogo maintenance per week per current standards. Work hard for what you desire. He who pays the Piper, calls the tune. The sponsor calls the tune. Just saying
@Aziza_Too5 жыл бұрын
The production of this show is fire😍😍😍video quality,lighting and editing is bomb....
@EssenceLinkPhotography5 жыл бұрын
#Tamima##RealTalk #SwitchTV #InstaLife This is a great Real show and Tamima you deserve much Blessings. Great Inspirations****
@joshuanyantika85215 жыл бұрын
It hurts me to see that they are just a representation of a very large section of our society. We have lost self-worth, and social media has just worsened the situation. Thanks for bringing up this conversation, but let us not fail this generation by not doing anything.
@angelaouya37675 жыл бұрын
This guy Robert He needs to be a mentor seriously 🙂
@pearlmwangi5825 жыл бұрын
This soo surprising....Tamima your eyes seems to express a certain pain when the girls are challenging burale
@brendaotin5 жыл бұрын
I get no social media pressure, I am barely even on any platform, I am just 26, maybe I am old 😂😂😂
@Mr.George.N5 жыл бұрын
Very old😂
@brendaotin5 жыл бұрын
@@Mr.George.N lol I want to say mature but I will wait for others to do that.
@georgeabala5 жыл бұрын
You are not old. It is just that you are mature enough to know that there are very little benefits that come with social media and you know when to go there, what to do and what not to do.
@shalimasaid79835 жыл бұрын
Am now turning 25 years old, I joined gulf country (Qatar) when i was 23 as a cleaner and now am supervisors in the same company. No mum no dad no any relative and we are here struggling, ladies that's very stupidity and very shameful depending on older men.
@annahkate22155 жыл бұрын
Keep it up dear
@samndungukiarie5 жыл бұрын
💯
@fraciahnjeri86505 жыл бұрын
Gladys mi God give you wisdom 😭😭😭😭MI heart is bleeding for this generation
@ngangajanewdella41455 жыл бұрын
My Goodness what is 2K......... A lady who is doing promotion in supermarkets or inbar is earning More in one day ........ Thanks be to God I was born a hustler......... I will one day speak how far I have come one of this days
@musunguwilson69355 жыл бұрын
Say it again baibe
@treazerdaizy58234 жыл бұрын
True
@ilhanabshir16905 жыл бұрын
That's a lame excuse ,am 21 years but don't agree if he is older than me probably I need big things,but I don't think any man can give me what I want,coz I need to make my own cash ,at least i have my own salon that I started with my own money, 1500 for the rent small things I borrowed from my parents like chair etc not big but am making my own money
@abdirahmanaden37365 жыл бұрын
Keep it up... thats the way to go... nothing comes easy and free in this life....
@shirowdestinys57755 жыл бұрын
Ilhan Abshir good girl keep it up!
@michaelheery74275 жыл бұрын
@@abdirahmanaden3736 very brainey Ya clown
@abdirahmanaden37365 жыл бұрын
Michael Heery .👍
@FeedTheSoul2545 жыл бұрын
Good woow
@denniswambua35995 жыл бұрын
Sex is more of soul ties,some of soul/spirits will destroy you or delay your blessings,And no amount of condom can protect your soul thanks burale
@josatinooking3885 жыл бұрын
These kids are just not mature..after 10yrs or so they will watch this and hear what burale is pointing out... they will regret leaving these lives....
@aishakuen83324 жыл бұрын
I agree 💯 with you
@winniemwanzia92525 жыл бұрын
This man burale has a lot of wisdom.... It's so sad to see young girls talk like this
@JayJay-mv7qh5 жыл бұрын
For sure it hurts..😭 Just money,why can't we work our our asses and have our own money?😭
@itsanitasoina5 жыл бұрын
So heartbreaking
@susanshatoria12185 жыл бұрын
Jesus Christ this girls!!!! At 19 was soo innocent till I got married at 24 while virgin n that was 2014 sasa utu by the time they are married watakua aje aki. Hod have mercy on us.
@susanshatoria12185 жыл бұрын
*God
@josephinekimani48985 жыл бұрын
Watakua swimming pool
@bentanbizzar7373 жыл бұрын
@@josephinekimani4898 daam
@justlily53295 жыл бұрын
Where do they get the courage to ask for money from men I can't even ask my mum for 100 Bob tf!!!......m
@plaqemalik81295 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂damn you are unique girl ,keep up the good spirit
@dianaingato30675 жыл бұрын
Same same..
@justlily53295 жыл бұрын
@@dianaingato3067 hii generation yetu tho
@justlily53295 жыл бұрын
@@plaqemalik8129 ikr😂😂
@plaqemalik81295 жыл бұрын
@@justlily5329 kumbe you are a blogger
@Yaskaonfleekofficial5 жыл бұрын
Robert straight up points🔥🔥big up👍👍
@makhatha47235 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏 Burale 🙏🙏 God bless you
@citizenreports5 жыл бұрын
Very educative, si kama hii kitu inaitwa 10/10
@breecagz60475 жыл бұрын
Very true uncle
@cellyfavoured97795 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂10/10 is for crazy people
@overtaxedtodeath89765 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂hii nayo imenimaliza
@maryannebaibe65014 жыл бұрын
We're did get that code 10/10?
@maryannebaibe65014 жыл бұрын
10/10 mean animal in the park that code is for park
@emmahmokeira52335 жыл бұрын
Selling their bodies in an educated manner😂😂
@findinglela4 жыл бұрын
e-prostitution
@calidlamini78233 жыл бұрын
Young people!! Success is not sexually transmitted stop sleeping around with successful man and work hard for your future.
@skemunto76495 жыл бұрын
I hope the lady in the pinktop dating Mr someone matures soon!!! Goodness
@matildajoy10925 жыл бұрын
Tell me about it. Hope she matures soon
@alicenyabera63384 жыл бұрын
Anajibeba African Kim K
@2topaz4 жыл бұрын
Yeah! She's the immature one, not the boys who she's talking about
@igbopeterlast5 ай бұрын
We hope so. she is not even comfortable being told the way it is.
@sumbasupeter5975 жыл бұрын
You people forget one thing...giving advice to young people in love is a waste of time. they never listen.
@marylynnmutheu90835 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂unakuangaa ady huku
@sumbasupeter5975 жыл бұрын
@@marylynnmutheu9083 yees..
@judithmwangi61925 жыл бұрын
....in love with other people's money. Shoka zitatembea⛏⛏⛏⛏
@sumbasupeter5975 жыл бұрын
@@judithmwangi6192 hehe.. Kabisa
@ogolathemcdalmas50415 жыл бұрын
At least not all help one
@DrDaisy-fp2ro5 жыл бұрын
Which world i’m I going to raise my future children in?!🤦🏾♀️
@maryktalesandtells69315 жыл бұрын
My worry
@ZIGZAGAnimationsKenya5 жыл бұрын
I know. Scary
@God.sDaughter4 жыл бұрын
Are you married or you’re raising them single handedly?