I Will Never Be With A Violent Man Ever Again | Barry 2x02

A scene from The Power of No
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[@TmanTheTdog]

Gene embodying the “*stay silent*” dialogue option here.

[@martinpitt8976]

“Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and to remove all doubt.” - Lisa Simpson

[@calmexit6483]

@@martinpitt8976 its a dope scripture

[@charleshammer7984]

Sally will remember that

[@alwaysahiccupandastrid]

Sally: I will never ever be with a violent man again Barry: 👁👄👁

[@coryboy345]

Class & Gene: Anyone who kills people is a "psycho". Barry: 👁👄👁

[@biostar4]

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[@apseudonym]

I like how after 0:37 she takes Gene's silence as judgement of her and immediately begins to project her own fears and beliefs about herself onto him. "You think I'm booking all these weak parts because I was weak in my marriage?" Sally needs to be told she wasn't weak, because that's the trait she fears and despises most about herself, just like Barry needs to be told he isn't inherently violent because he knows it's always there waiting to come out. I love how this season is all about the things we tell ourselves to cope, and the constant internal struggle between our own story and the "truth".

[@erikgonzalez1306]

I love scenes like this where one actor has a monologue that's really a dialogue with themselves. I think the way her voice changes with her emotions is the part that stood out to me. Its almost a 3 person scene between Gene, Sally, and past Sally.

[@eileensnow6153]

It’s a common tactic for therapists (and one terrible boss I once had) to keep the other person talking. We as humans don’t enjoy long pauses in conversation, so we tend to babble to fill the silence and end up exploring things more deeply.

[@cairosilver2932]

@@eileensnow6153 Not terribly good therapists IMO. Many people who go to therapy had silences as part of their past abuse.

[@lilianadelcaribe]

Barry must have felt so guilty in this scene

[@TonyTylerDraws]

The series could literally be called Barry’s Guilt

[@coryboy345]

@@TonyTylerDraws The scene where the entire class is calling someone who kills people a "psycho" had me in stitches, while Barry was looking around trying to act normal.

[@cell4r]

I also want the clip where Barry says “the first time I killed someone was the best day of my life”!

[@samfanhellyeah]

I love how Bill's response to fans who tell him they hate Sally, is just well I based her on myself. XD Not saying you have to love Sally but no character on the show is perfect and it's funny how everyone gives the hired killer a free pass cause its Bill playing him but Sally is just a bitch and that's it I guess

[@jasontodd7450]

The character herself is a little bit of a bitch (understandably because of the abuse she went through. She doesn't want to be weak anymore or have to rely on someone because she doesn't want it to happen and she doesn't want to face the reality of what happened, so I get why she's rude sometimes), but the actor that plays her is phenomenal

[@izzytonixHD]

Amazing actor , but what a f up character ... like I don’t understand the point , is she the only thing that makes Barry happy ? Cuz am not so sure about that ... how can an intelligent man like Barry not see that she uses everyone around her for her own interest before throwing them away ? Barry , even if he’s a maniac and a phsyco realize how twisted he became ... and he’s trying so hard to change that , where sally on the other hand just don’t give a F bout anyone or anything , and almost never think of the consequences of what she does , or when she does she need others to make her realize it , that’s why she’s not much liked , she’s just a teenager not fitting in an adult world and sometimes it can get really annoying

[@LordSesshaku]

@@izzytonixHD You do realize that Sally's faults are normal. While this is the same Barry that ends this very season killing without remorse everyone in the building (including his own trainees) just to get his hands on Fuches? Barry isn't trying to change himself, he's trying to escape his past life, without facing the consequences. He killed his friend, an innocent father, to avoid jail, he killed a cop, the girlfriend of his teacher, to avoid jail. He's not willing to face the consequences of what he is and what he's done. He's also using Sally, he never tells her his reality. He never gives her a REAL CHOICE about their relationship. Therefore, he's using her.

[@StylistFia127]

They hate Sally cuz they ain't Sally ✌️🖕

[@radityapoerwanto7018]

@@StylistFia127 Yeah, I prefer not to be a struggling actress, who were in an abusive relation, whose boyfriend is a hitman/mass murderer, and a member of a cult disguised as a theater class. I thanks everything that is Holy that I am not Sally.

[@Frikcha]

Sally's actress is insane, best on the show hands down

[@FlashakaViolet]

Sally’s arc this season was freaking heartbreaking

[@masterzombie161]

It’s only heartbreaking when you realize she was the violent one and actually lied about the whole story. There’s a lot of evidence that shows that not only did she lie, but she’s using it to further her career.

[@libbybollinger5901]

@@masterzombie161 she lied about what happened because she felt ashamed for being weak. Also how tf was she the violent one?

[@izzytonixHD]

@@masterzombie161 honestly I think am one of the few who don’t really like her ... just the way she speak and think almost always about herself is sooo upsetting ... like she always wanna be the main focus almost every time , not a fan of ppls who f*ck everything up around them and then get surprised and play victim and innocent ... like ea she got in a toxic relationship , but she actually used that and lied adding fked up details just for her career ... let’s not even talk about the producing agents moments where she think and act as if she was upper than her group and forgot because of who she had those opportunities ... honestly the hotel scene is really funny in that sense cuz in a way she would of deserved it but again ... she create the problem but don’t take responsibility for it and expect ppls to solve them for her ... nahhh not a fan (am talking about the character not the actual actress)

[@daftbanna7202]

@@izzytonixHD I hate people hating on characters just because they are deeply flawed, like Barry is literally a murderer but ok

[@izzytonixHD]

@@daftbanna7202 He is as much a murder as his superiors or his boss is , Killing does not make you be the bad guy in here , it is the absence of regret or remorse who make a men ... take two steps back next time you have an opinion on something that simple and stupid

[@ShiddyKong]

Gene‘a style of teaching completely molded her mind in such a way that all Sally needs to feel backed into a wall is for him to stare at her

[@g.Raider]

I'm disappointed with how the other actors reacted to her marriage story throughout this season. She's narcissistic and bratty, but she's hurt too. Avoiding and gawking at a trauma victim after they disclose their experience to you is just as bad as saying that they deserved it. I'm very happy that Barry gave her some consolation and encouragement, but nobody else, not even Gene, reassured her that she was doing the right thing or commended her for her bravery. She had no evidence that people were going to accept her for who she is, and that's profoundly scary and heartbreaking.

[@Garium87]

What you fail to understand is that Sally does not accept herself as what she is. That is why she feels it is necessary to lie about her abuse story. And that is why she doesn't want to play those "weak women". Gene knows its an act. One that she plays for many years. So he lets her talk until she admits to herself that she is not as invulnerable as she pretends. She is just a human being with weaknesses and she had to suffer in order to grow. That is a relatable story and far more interesting than the lie about herself she holds on to.

[@g.Raider]

Alex She did need to swallow her pride and admit this part of her life. But if you recall, the closer it got to showtime, the more uncertain she was about how good of a decision it was because of how everybody had taken it. Her classmates avoided her like the plague, her agent thought it was going to ruin her image, and one the people who compliments Sarah afterwards said that she was relieved that it wasn’t “another abuse story” Sarah might have been more willing to tell the truth if the people in her life had reassured her more that she was doing the right thing. Barry was the only one who did.

[@filmfangirls9163]

I think its very realistic. So many people who endure abuse endure for a long time and it pisses people off to hear the story. I agree Barry was so sympathetic and encouraging!!

[@Garium87]

​@@g.Raider If acknowledging your weaknesses and failures would bring you standing ovations, wouldn't we all do it? The challenge is to accept parts of yourself others might don't like.

[@chocolatecharley99]

@@Garium87 But you just said her character sucks?

[@hannahkaylene7617]

there are many times where i get really annoyed with Sally, but i do have some empathy for her, she’s been through shit too and i think most people overlook that

[@SixDrums]

She’s such an interesting character. She assumes she knows a lot more than she really does, she puts others down often without realizing it, she’s irritable and selfish at time, yet you can’t help but feel bad for her and want her to succeed.

[@SixDrums]

@Andrew Johnson listen to me closely… you do not understand the show.

[@floh2959]

Her performance is so damn good

[@Garium87]

I can't stand her character but the woman who plays her is fantastic.

[@vanessajohn560]

Alex yes her name is Sarah Goldberg

[@fenrir9879]

Yeah she's great.

[@D1rt3nthu51ast]

she's a good actor, but sally is a lackluster character, especially when you compare her to the rest of the characters in Barry

[@noahsalvio9649]

@@D1rt3nthu51ast sally is a fantastic character, what show are you even watching

[@853Nynn]

@@D1rt3nthu51ast there real people like sally. No matter how much you hate it she is a well written unlike character.

[@retrorom265]

I always found this scene really intriguing because Gene, being the amazing teacher that he is, managed to only say one thing to Sally and she basically had an entire conversation with herself using Gene as just a placeholder person in that moment while exploring her deepest darkest secrets/fears. That was such a power play on Gene's part, it's not even funny. It was just scary at how well he brought out the dark side of Sally without really doing much at all, except asking a question that was somewhat leading.

[@davethehostage]

I can't help but feel that people who "hate" Sally aren't being very empathetic. She's as flawed as any regular human being.

[@fatima_hussein]

Yep, that's what I love about her character. Shes very realistic and isn't their regular "manic pixie dream girl".

[@Garium87]

Nobody is perfect but not everybody is as narcissistic and immature as she is, either. Her character sucks. The only reason why Barry cares for her is the way she looks and that makes it even more annoying. Not to mention her feminist bullshit, all the time. "you have this toxic masculinity going on." Jesus, Barry, just shoot her already!

[@rg80083]

Alex you sound like a rational well-rounded person

[@fijiwater6030]

it’s hard to empathize with a narcissistic character.

[@FlashakaViolet]

Indeed

[@Zak6959]

“I will never be with a violent man again. “, Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha.

[@Rodrasroom]

Sarah/Sally is fantastic. Love how she shed her layers here.

[@Someguyy867]

Thanks to you I actually watched the show. I liked Bill Hader and saw the adds for the show I just didn’t care for it. But after getting recommended your video for some reason I watched how Chris died and it was amazing. So amazing that I had to read tons of comments that felt the same way I felt. So within 2 days I finished the beautiful show. It’s one of my favorite shows so far and I love Bill Hader, so thank you!

[@waynehoxit5566]

Sally is my favorite one on Barry

[@Garium87]

I don't think anyone has ever said that before.

[@waynehoxit5566]

@@Garium87 there is a first Time for everything and is there a main reason Sally is extreme abuse Barry just asking

[@djmustard2591]

Wayne Hoxit because shes full of herself

[@georgia9736]

Yeah, I'd say she's one of my favourites, too.

[@archiveeverything3000]

thank you for posting. is one of those great scenes that got buried among all the other clips you uploaded. the scene perfectly describe her character & why many viewers dislike her

[@HighSpeedNoDrag]

Because people want someone to hate. The sheeple must generate some hate upon a person because if not, they could not as individuals.

[@santiagopulido6516]

When she said "I Will Never Be With A Violent Man Ever Again" it hurt a lot because barry is a good man that can't escape from his past even if he try, but sally just dont know it and i feel bad for him

[@geordiejones5618]

Sally's gonna find out about Barry isnt she 😭😭😭

[@iKnowAllo]

He absolutely not a good man?? Wtf

[@santiagopulido6516]

@@iKnowAllo Yeah, I changed my mind

[@tite93]

Yeah chief, I don't know if Barry is a good man, dude's literally done war crimes

[@santiagopulido6516]

@@tite93 Yeah, I'm not sure of the definition of "a good man" anymore. Anyway i don't care, this was written a long time ago

[@KillerMouse]

Say what you want about her, Sally is incredibly human.

[@cell4r]

Could you post the clip where Barry was on his way to go kill Fuches? Specifically, the part where Barry is in his apartment and he walks right by his roommates that are playing a VR game. And Barry just cocks the gun without a care in the world 😂 lmao I neeed it!!

[@paulg903]

He was going to kill Sam in that scene. It's already uploaded

[@aingeav497]

i totally feel for her. women don’t have it easy in acting. when barry got an audition just because of his height or a FEATURE FILM, i was as pissed as sally. she worked super hard to get representation and still, she was booking work that wasn’t good.

[@Garium87]

because women never get auditions just for the way they look? Are you kidding me? And who has it easy, making a living as an actor? Every year, 20.000 people are moving to LA to become movie stars. How many make it? One in a thousand, if even that. It is an insane goal to pursue.

[@aingeav497]

Alex we do certainly get auditions for the way we look! but that’s not all of it. there’s type, and then there’s literally everything else. sally is probably average height and has blonde hair, so that’s what she looks like. she gets called in for roles that fit that physical description, but she still needed an agent to get those calls. otherwise she would sit in open calls for hours and not be seen. she also had to take roles that involved little to no lines, she had to be a day player or an extra to fill up her resume to begin to work her way up. she worked hard for all of these things, but barry didn’t have an agent and was literally just in the waiting room and got an audition for a lead role in a feature because he was a tall white guy. i can tell that hader and berg as writers are commenting on lots of different issues in the acting industry with this, and it really just hit home. i act, and i really do have to work hard to be where i am at any given point in time, but men in acting all around me are booking like crazy. and they’re booking good stuff!

[@Garium87]

​@@aingeav497 You still didn't explain at all why that would be allegedly a gender issue. If you look like everyone else does, well maybe it is harder but what has this to do with being a man? How often do you think men are 6.2 feet? It's the exact damn thing. You either are very good looking or there is something special about you that they want in their movie or there is simply no reason for anyone to chose you over the million of other actors who look just like you. Why would men have it easier? I think hader and berg are commenting on how much of a selfish bitch Sally is.

[@Garium87]

@@aingeav497 Oh, and no offense, but maybe the guys get more auditions than you do because they didn't color their hair pink.

[@aingeav497]

Alex this is a gender issue because: there are statistically more women going for jobs in acting. if you go in for a role, they usually bring in 200 girls. For men, it’s a lot easier, mainly because of the negative stigma around theater and film acting being “gay”, stuff like that. i’ll say that sally has it easier than other women in the industry, as she is really pretty, blonde, probably average height, and has a typical body size. And yet she still has a hard time breaking in, but she fights for her work and this is what she wants. She is succeeding, in a way, even though her reel is shit. she hasn’t been given the choice to turn down roles yet, she needs to fill her resume and reel to show her agent that she can be reliable, but also to have things to showcase to other directors if needed. She’s done all of this work just to get an agent, and she’s really dedicated to her work. barry was waiting for sally at an audition and an agent had him put in a slot to audition for a director. now, that is so unrealistic. that happens NEVER! and that’s why it’s funny as a concept, but it DOES reflect on how much easier it is for a man to land auditions. also, thanks for reminding me to change my profile picture, i haven’t had pink hair for about a year and a half

[@lily_astral]

I see Gene has gone to the Teal'c School of Interrogation as well.

[@iansmith4924]

We can only know what strength truly is after we recover from being weak.

[@finnsbitch4897]

lol barry said “nah bitch”

[@mofomoco]

That acting class is the cheapest therapy in L.A.

[@HighSpeedNoDrag]

I look at Gene and cannot stop thinking of the Fonz. How he looks now is kind of freaky but he fits the part.

[@MattKismet]

Thank god this channel helped me find this show. I’ve been bored since I finished House M.D...

[@word1013]

a great atonement... the old guy is really good!

[@Co_Dekko]

Can you do the one where moss calls fuches and he pretends to be the two guys please :D

[@waynehoxit5566]

Sally rage can be extreme at times

[@Quartermaster1463]

0 dislikes. Perfect.

[@gewishworm4724]

I think the reason everyone hates sally's character is because they see that entitled and selfish part of themselves in her and she personifies it so well you just despise her for it.

[@gabyanahisoto]

She’s such a good character, y’all are annoying. She’s no more flawed than any regular person.

[@heru7182]

Skylar hate 2.0

[@Drupee]

Will you upload the scene from the first episode where Barry and Ryan do a scene together (Barry's first time on stage)?

[@payden0_086]

I wish acting classes were more like this. Instead the acting coaches are soft and dont work hard enough to make good actors.

[@chainsaw1016]

Well there is a reason why Gene charges so much for his lessons (We can assume as much, even though the exact amount has never been said). Its because he knows he's good, and that he isn't like other teachers.

[@lemorelgambino9882]

Sally’s arc is the the reason why I’m now 25 and have no girlfriend. .🥲

[@CWBush73]

She can’t even convince herself she is not weak let alone Gene.

[@beautifulassassin7962]

People justify the Sally character by saying she's flawed like every other person. We are all flawed, and it's good to accept that reality. But we should all be trying desperately hard to evolve and become better than what we were yesterday. What other purpose could there possibly be to this life. That's why people like Barry and not Sally. The way the Sally character is written makes me think that she would be very content as a murderer, as opposed to Barry, who is not.

[@anonymousaccordionist3326]

I haven't even watched this show and I still hate Sally's character. Kudos to her actress for portraying her so well that I hate her.

[@razofdead]

Barry is not violent man, its just... good at killing. Best example for my theory is Barry try talks with Ronny, he could it be abussive and make him leave the city or whatever, like point gun to his head like in movies do or Punisher style. At second time he meet him he talk nice and told him that his baby girl was fine, like showing empathy... violent man dosent show empathy

[@jdm1066]

She suffers from arrested development refusing to grow up out of her childish ways and has tantrums when she gets a whiff of reality. She has had youth and beauty keeping others from pointing these facts out to her, but those are now fading...Before anyone says "she's not old!" she was in her early 30's at the beginning of the show and she acts like a petulant child in her mid teens.

[@crashtestdhimmi5469]

Sounds like the writers are portraying Borderline Personality Disorder fairly well

[@yehboi6646]

This is the most accurate conversation with a woman though. You just have to look at whe

[@jackstealo7518]

This whole clip shows the problem with college girls now days. They all think because bad thing happened to them. Somehow the are better than others for it. Anyone can be a victim. You shouldn't be celebrating it. You should be getting over it.