I wish I knew this was ruining my relationships

[@ta0304]

There is a proverb: being alone is better than being badly accompanied.

[@burnttcaramel]

So true!

[@ta0304]

@@burnttcaramel I think it's a French proverb 😉.

[@ItsSimplyAless]

Super underrated video! Thank you Melody, God Bless! Just a quick question though, how can we tell between relationship anxiety vs being with the wrong person/our gut telling us something is off.

[@burnttcaramel]

Thanks for your kind words! I learned from my past experiences how important it is to trust your gut. For me, one big indicator is how my partner responds to me opening up about my struggles/anxiety. One was defensive and made me feel even more anxious/like there was something wrong with me while the other was patient, understanding and tried his best to reassure me.

[@ItsSimplyAless]

@@burnttcaramel what if it’s the second (tries to change or not get mad) but you don’t feel like things are changing or feel like it’s not really in their capability ? If that makes sense sorry

[@burnttcaramel]

Hmm I think that's when you have to ask yourself whether you're truly happy and if this is really what you want in a relationship! Sometimes, your partner might be truly trying their best but it might just be that your values and priorities do not align. I made a video on this, feel free to check it out! kzbin.info/www/bejne/p6bNaH2vnJylZposi=X-PFLzkS44Q6ezv-@@ItsSimplyAless

[@tedhazlett]

Very helpful, thank you

[@burnttcaramel]

You're most welcome, glad it helped ❤

[@eurekadocumentary]

i see anxiety girl. i subscribed

[@burnttcaramel]

😭❤