I WOULD NEVER NORMALLY VLOG THIS | VLOGMAS DAY 14 | Lydia Elise Millen

[@nanivet3891]

I love when Ali is on the videos he’s so funny, such a gentleman and so handsome

INTJ can't be too rare, apparently everyone in the comments is one. 🤣 Take these tests with a grain of salt.

[@solyogabysophie]

It won’t be a coincidence that the people that like Lydia will have similar personality types. That’s probably why you find such a high concentration of them here

[@laurasi3523]

How do you take the test? Or is it the intention that you choose which preference you have and then put together the type?

[@clairepaquette5676]

I'm also an INFJ and it is nice to finally understand myself. Have always felt different than others but never felt bad about it cause I knew I had a big heart . It's true though we are often misunderstood.

[@katerinamitanoska6207]

Hi Lidija, Could you please do a video on how you style your hair. It is looking so lovely! X

[@sunkissed104]

And how you care for it! It’s so thick and well behaved 😂

[@georgiadavies8693]

Why don't you donate the Christmas Dinner to a family in need. It would be the best Christmas present to someone.

[@caoimhenimhuireadhaigh1303]

INTJ here, doing that quiz helped me understand why other people don't often make sense to me, and thus have more patience for others

[@sssedaa]

I would like to do but cannot see the link 😞

[@paijhamilton3683]

@@sssedaa it’s the Myers Briggs link in the description box

[@rizkyabigail9661]

Same here i cannot see the link, would you please copy the link here so we can take the test.. really appreciate it..

[@kyrad8579]

A fellow INFJ!!!! Also it is veeeerrry common for INFJs to go for our “opposite” in a partner so the ENFPs and other similar types. And while it’s true that you don’t find a lot of INFJs in person go to any Myers Briggs video online and there’s loads of us in the comments, I think we just like to feel seen.

[@lindalee7184]

I am an INFJ too.....probably the reason that I enjoy your sensibilities and perspective. It was administered by a professional, a psychologist; I really did not want to take the test, but once I did, I too found it both shocking and reassuring as it supports or helps me understand my career and life choices. Good for you, Lydia; happy new year!

[@RebeccaNeffati]

I'm a INFJ and I agree, when I did the test last year I suddenly felt understood and I was no longer at odds with myself feeling like I was the oddball. It is really comforting and also freeing to feel understood.

[@ausramorkunaite8158]

Where is this personality test, l can’t find any link..

[@inesgregorek4036]

Omg same 😞

[@hannaamy6653]

It's the first link under the product heading in the description box

[@kimmienelson2152]

Tap the link Myers Briggs ...

[@carlywelsh7919]

@@hannaamy6653 there’s no test on there tho only the descriptions of the types?

[@cin-dmarie]

I did this years ago, but stopped to do it again. I also got the rarest personality type (Advocate) this is why I can relate to you so well! 😘

[@annazolotova7834]

Same 😊

[@kimmienelson2152]

Can I ask where is the test ? I looked where all the links are ...but didn’t see it ...I really am curious to take it ! Lol.. thanks hope you can point me in the right direction.

[@cin-dmarie]

@@kimmienelson2152 It’s easier to just google Myers-Briggs and there you will find the test. Good luck!

[@MirlindaGaniu]

Sameeee

[@lovemeregardless]

Where did she link the personality test? I don’t see it in her info box.

[@rosealexander4671]

Porter is going to love sharing that heated blanket wit Lumi. Don't forget to get him Dachshund approved bed stairs, or better yet, a ramp.

[@VelvetWellies]

I’m an INFJ - just spent the past 15 mins reading it and I cannot believe how understood I feel!!!!!! ❤️

[@margaritabotero2787]

Let's be friends?! I am INFJ, too. And for so long, I have tried to find similar soul to mine. Other personality types are good friends, but they don't understand INFJs completely. (Note: This is totally outside my introvert shell.I normally would not do this.) What do You say?

[@jolientjuh34]

I’m an INFJ as well:-)

[@ljss123]

I’m an INFJ as well.

[@VelvetWellies]

@@margaritabotero2787 of course!!! ❤️❤️ xxx

[@wizbitz82]

Tried the link for Myers Briggs test but can't find it free on that site, can anyone help please? It takes me to a page where I have to pay.

[@lauracoppard2229]

Same here! :( I don’t know how to do it?!

[@lindaw.5836]

Type into google; Myers Briggs Personality Test. It’s the 1st on the list and is free. I’m in UK. Hope that helps!

[@wizbitz82]

@@lindaw.5836 Thanks hun, that's what I had to do in the end. Couldn't for the life of me find the free version through Lydia's link lol.

[@DrenchedInPink013]

@@wizbitz82 because it’s not free, try 16 personalities. It’s about the same and free

[@TwinkleX0]

Am I just overlooking it... but where on the website is the personality test?

[@fatimabegum1149]

Put the kids to bed, lit a candle and grabbed myself a hot coco and a blanket. Watching Lydias vlogmas is the best part of my day. 🌨🎅🎄😍🥰❤

[@onlychimerically]

lydia--even when the H&M bits are sold out can you please still list/link for your U.S. followers?! they are usually still available for us! thank you :)

[@Foxandfizz]

INFJ here. So surprised you are too Lydia as wouldn’t have you down as that personality type at all! Blenheim looked gorgeous 🎄

[@margaritabotero2787]

Let's be friends?! I am INFJ, too. And for so long, I have tried to find similar soul to mine. Other personality types are good friends, but they don't understand INFJs completely. (Note: This is totally outside my introvert shell.I normally would not do this.) What do You say?

[@thequeensmother]

So much splendor in this video! That dress, that light walk...that porch...that flooring...And you, of course , are beautiful as usual.

[@ItsmeImalot]

Yes!!! I enjoyed it. In fact there hasn't been a single vlog from you that I did not enjoy, ever. You are the best vloger out there for me.

[@elyjane5103]

I'm INTJ - I need to schedule my down time - it's the only way I cope with the world.

[@heltc9594]

Me too - very rare type for women :-) Stay strong and organise! 😃

[@StephanieHeathNash]

@@heltc9594 agreed! Organizing everything is my love language 😄 (another female INTJ).

[@melgrayco]

I'm an INFJ too! it felt amazing when I learned this esp being a rare type we're often misunderstood x

[@margaritabotero2787]

Me, too. 😊 We should be friends. I know that for our personality type, we don't make friends easily and very rarely. But ... I am getting out of my introvert shell and - I really want to connect to INFJs, because other types are good friends but never understand us completely.

[@melgrayco]

@@margaritabotero2787 I agree! We need a society 🥰

[@anigeorgieva2630]

Me too ❣

[@demetrakos77]

I’m an INFJ too!

[@meganmoniz7133]

INFJ here too!!

[@maisophie]

Where is the link to the website you mentioned to be linked down bellow?

[@emilyfoster3583]

Whenever it’s been tough - I know that for next 30-45mins I can go onto KZbin & you’d have a positive joyful video! Just your whole persona is joyful even when you’re not fully feeling it! So thank you for getting us through this year 👏🏻🥰

[@patsystewart254]

I totally second that! COMPLETE STRESS BUSTER‼️

[@nataliewinzer6802]

I cant find how to take the test on the link ? All I can see is something you have to pay for?

[@tattvamasi3138]

www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

[@dideedi7351]

Blenheim Palace is to die for. I remember seeing Sir Winston Churhill's little bed. How special your evening must have been!!

[@mckennaflanary7298]

I'm an INFJ-T! I know it says INFJ's are the rarest personality type but I feel like there are actually so many of us that are INFJ's

[@paknofficial2056]

INFP here too! The personality test literally changed my life, because I finally felt understood!

[@lz_vie]

I just did the test again because it’s been so long and I got this too :o Might be why I find Lydia’s videos so calming!

[@thenewtonfamily3703]

Where abouts on the link do I find to do it? I can only find where it takes me to another page to pay and register x

[@paknofficial2056]

@@thenewtonfamily3703 I just do the Myers-Brigg one, you can find it if you Google it! I think it's called 16 personalities.

[@PriHL]

INFJ

[@zenaiko33]

INFP here as well! When I first did this test years ago, it changed everything. I didn’t feel so odd anymore :)

[@PaleLady]

Being a INFJ it was amazingly personal and find that it's very accurate. I've also found the ennegrame to be helpful when combined with the Myers brigs for growth and personal understanding

[@tattvamasi3138]

Same here! Myers Briggs + the Enneagram, compounded by the "rabbit hole" that is astrology, makes for a powerful catalyst of self-growth & true self-awareness!

[@Beefkite]

I'm an INFJ too! No wonder I love watching your videos so much!! Thank you for sharing, I've just started uni to be a counsellor and this type is described as the counsellor - mind blown!!! Feels nice to be understood!

[@genevabell4679]

lumi was like MOM WHY ARE YOU RECORDING ME at the end haha that made me laugh

[@ashleygorrie4698]

I'm probably being really dumb but I cant see where I do the test on that link you've added....

[@DrenchedInPink013]

She didn’t link it, and it’s not free.

[@miamaya4620]

How do you get your ends look so full? What kind of haircut would you need to get it that way?

[@sallybasheer4740]

I did a similar personality test called enneagram test. And it’s just amazing that feeling when I started to understand myself better. It truly helped me embrace both my strengths and weaknesses and have more confidence of myself.

[@NicolaNooP84]

That Green H&M dress is everything! You both look simply stunning 💚

[@jebblles]

ah would have been nice to have seen a team Christmas dinner with your team....hopefully all that food didn't go to waste

[@nadim2746]

something about bringing up so many times that you are "such a good person" in regards of the test results, felt really off :/

[@solyogabysophie]

She read the test results which are obviously written not to upset people doing the test. That’ll be why

[@DS-os1ck]

This made me cry so hard! Ali’ personality test matched my youngest brother’s personality to a “T” My youngest brother passed away suddenly the day before Thanksgiving 🙏🏼💔😭 it was thee worst Thanksgiving and will be the worst Christmas I will ever have!! It was almost like my brother was letting me know he was with me.

[@mirellarazloga7600]

Aww I'm so sorry!! Such a loveable personality type for sure. I hope this new year brings you new joy you didn't know you could have 😗

[@Evelynstorms]

I think you are an INFJ like I am. Sometimes, even though I don't know you, I feel this connection of thoughts you have in doing things?! This is really weird but would explain why. The feeling of never being fully understood and thinking 'Am I really the only one that thinks that way?!'. Also how you handle certain things, the feelings you have with it, it's all really recognisable for me!

[@Hannah28995]

I love Myres Briggs and I’ve taught it for a while, interestingly though the introvert/ extrovert isn’t what it means in a normal way it’s where you get your energy from and I would totally agree you get your energy from yourself and thrive on your own... which is perfect for what you to 😊

[@adriene02]

Thanks for commenting this! I also have a degree that trained me to administer these inventories. Someone trained in administering personality inventories can be so important in helping with the breakdown of these results. It’s akin to reading your monthly horoscope versus having your astrological chart drawn up and analyzed. The problem with “personality tests” is that people think they’re fixed and the end all be all. So just a heads up to Lydia and others interested in personality INVENTORIES (the correct terminology): 1) they measure preference. Which means your Myers-Briggs results can often tell you a lot about how you behave, but also tell you a lot about how you would PREFER to behave. That is, you may not behave in ways that you’d prefer to. Not understanding that can cause some confusion or distrust of this inventory if people don’t feel the results are an accurate reflection of “who they are” since a lot of times we measure our concept of identity by how we act. 2) things like behavior and identity aren’t fixed; they can change over time and/or due to circumstances we encounter in our lives. Thus, your Myers-Briggs personality type can change from year to year, or depending on what mood you’re in when you take it, etc. it tends to not shift drastically though. We all do have some core elements that make up our identities and our behaviors that we’ve been socialized with since birth. And if you’re ever wanting some insight on being a “j” (judging), lordt I got some! 😂 people love to harp on the fact that my personality type says I’m judgmental!

[@PrincessSunshyne65]

It's a beautiful thing to see how other parts of the world celebrate the birth of Jesus, the lights were stunning. Thanks for sharing that with us Lydia. Merry Christmas from my family to yours be safe

[@laylaa6857]

Your intro is so soothing!

[@Annabelle_A]

I’m dying to take the test but can’t find the free version please help! Thank you!!

[@beckyking]

Me too!

[@MayaClaire92]

Me and my fiance are the same! We take the MB personality test as our company likes us to work with people that match us and yes my partner is the jock! I was so relieved and finding out I was the rarest helped my social anxiety struggles. I have the same small friendship group and at work they put me on more complicated projects as I thrive where more of the more common types struggle. I think this has just confirmed what we all thought. You and Ali are a match made in heaven! Im getting married in the summer fingers crossed so I have hope that we will be as happy as you both xx

[@danadkin2810]

What is the floor in the study? looks great!

[@nicst3373]

Guys I need your help Lydia has mentioned before this website whereby you can find the species of the plant and the care instructions for the plants I just cannot recall which website it is? Pls do advise me Thx much

[@bergenna9226]

It may be the app, picture this? Where you take a photo and the correct species pops up. Not sure if this is what you mean.

[@nicst3373]

@@bergenna9226 I suppose that could be the one Or could be this?? www.gardenworld.co.uk/search_results/Frittonia

[@KiaraPotel]

The Crown yes but also a chic facet of Liz Hurley in The Royals. A compliment ⭐️

[@sunrise0391]

Hello my lovely INFJ-sister!💐❤️ I truly know all of our the struggles, respect for you love for putting yourself out in the internet. Did this test some years ago and it was such a relief. I never felt so understood bevor and now I know why I am like I am. Hubby is an ENFP and I swear he literally can make friends in the supermarket.😂

[@margaritabotero2787]

Let's be friends?! I am INFJ, too. And for so long, I have tried to find similar soul to mine. Other personality types are good friends, but they don't understand INFJs completely. (Note: This is totally outside my introvert shell.I normally would not do this.) What do You say?

[@kristaselene]

INFJ with an ENFP husband. They say it’s the strongest match possible :)

[@delightfullydotty7130]

Infj/HSP/aspie here. I think that in your older videos you seem more infj but you’ve gained so much confidence that you don’t come across that way now x

[@anitapandya1155]

Palace of Versailles in France also a must see... Stunning and historic..💎💯

[@shari-lyn7757]

Its amazing to me that for being an INFJ myself and the rarest personality type, how many of us there are. :)

[@ashleykirby8246]

I did the full Myers Briggs test and I’m INFJ too. Helped me to understand how to better deal with arguments with my husband because I understood how he sees the world.

[@scarlettzy2663]

where is the link??

[@debbie9654]

Goodness so enjoyed the video. The Christmas Scene at the Castle was such an experience via your VLOG. Thank you for taking us there through this extraordinary time we are all going through. The Moss Green Gown was absolutely perfect for the moment. 🎄🤗❣

[@leannerose541]

I cannot tell you the level of joy your videos bring me! Absolutely loving your vlogmas xx

[@mandicruz912]

“Having A Good 😌 Bath 🛁 By The 🍲 Food... Fabulous!” 😂

[@themelissachavz]

ENTJ and my husband is an ENFP. Some of my favorite people are INFJ and ESFJ, no wonder I enjoy watching you guys.

[@ellenrobinson3297]

I love hearing Lumi in the background 😂 Blenheim palace looks amazing! 😍

[@Anastasia-jz8cu]

Hei guys. You should all learn about the cognitive functions. Mbti doesnt really help you unless you understand the cognitive functions. That way you understand why you react the way you do in certain situations (positive or negative). And that way you can improve the way you react and make an impact on your life. It's really helpful. 💕

[@sarahbrownworld]

How is everyone doing the test for free? I’m dying to know mine. I can only find a page where you have to pay $50 😩

[@Koherents]

maybe they did it before. I can not find the free option as well 🥺

[@zivadobnik5095]

16personalities :)

[@loveisallyouneedd]

I'm also an INFJ! I think there are so many of us in the comments because we relate to the same type of content and content creators!

[@jac_marie]

Lydia!!! I’ve been a subscriber for yeeeaars and never comment, but I have always known you were an INFJ. I’m an INFJ too. This explains your impeccable taste and why we all feel like you’re a close friend. This platform feels like a one on one connection. Happy holidays and lots of love from San Diego, CA.

[@margaritabotero2787]

Let's be friends?! I am INFJ, too. And for so long, I have tried to find similar soul to mine. Other personality types are good friends, but they don't understand INFJs completely. (Note: This is totally outside my introvert shell.I normally would not do this.) What do You say?

[@LydiaFamilyVids]

So happy to hear you're an introvert Lydia, found out recently I'm an introvert too (INFJ to be precise) this is probably why I feel so connected. Thanks for sharing xxx

[@margaritabotero2787]

Let's be friends?! I am INFJ, too. And for so long, I have tried to find similar soul to mine. Other personality types are good friends, but they don't understand INFJs completely. (Note: This is totally outside my introvert shell.I normally would not do this.) What do You say?

[@LydiaFamilyVids]

@@margaritabotero2787 Absolutely I would love to be your friend!!! Are you on Instagram? Please DM me on IG @lydia.bolaji (not sure if KZbin has dms yet?) also I know what you mean about this being out of your comfort zone 🤣 can totally relate ❤️

[@laurasi3523]

Where can I find the strengths and weaknesses?

[@stefaniesombaty8980]

In the US the Meyers-Briggs test is something that we take several times through our time in school. I don't remember what my "type" is anymore but I do remember that the tests were always spot on. Wish I had taken the advice early on in my work life because it would have saved me from many years of being miserable sitting behind a desk. My results always showed that I liked working with my hands and nothing is more true.

[@EEN63]

Blenheim Palace was just glorious! That tablescape! Those serving pieces! Those candelabras! The damask walls! The tapestries! The applied moldings/mill work! Basically all the architectural details! Heaven! The extra sparkle of Christmas decor everywhere! It was all absolutely stunning! I guess those things are quite the usual when it’s a palace... I should really look into getting a palace of my own! 😉😂🤣😂😉 Ali’s fragrance campaign will be a huge success! Sooo fabulous! You looked beautiful in your gown in such a grand setting! And Ali in a tux is always a treat! Gorgeous couple! The floors in the study are wonderful! I love all the visual texture! I can’t wait to see the walls transformed to further the cozy vibe! This room is going to be amazing! Always appreciate some loving on Lumi time and always get a kick out of how verbal she is! She’s quite the chatty Kathy and it’s incredibly adorable! 🥰🥰🥰 Very enjoyable vlog! 😁😘😍

[@canuckbeauty297]

I've taken the long version and they are so spot on. I think you have the most amazing personality . Very surprised your on the cusp of being introverted Your doing an amazing job with vlogmas and I thank you. It has been such a treat to watch your videos Mon-Fri xx

[@thatsupercargirl2833]

I am soo tickled by this Lydia! I literally just bought that coat last month. I absolutely love it! So classy and elegant ❤️ I’m also more of an INFJ personality type Happy Holidays and all the love ❤️

[@gemmabright4625]

On an INFJ too!!! I discovered Myers-Briggs at the start of the year and it has been life changing! The more I learn the more I realise how much more there is to know with Myers-Briggs. Love it xxx

[@rhibuckler9690]

You looked like royalty, truly beautiful 👑. Merry Christmas M-G’s ♥️

[@annazolotova7834]

Thank you for your vlogs Lydia and I’m so happy to see your design ideas come true and your excitement about the puppy! Oh and I had to pause the video and head to the test and now stuck reading about my daydreaming self: These personality types see magical beauty where others see the humdrum of daily life. Love this 🥰

[@VondaSims]

So right you shouldn't ever step on anyone! We should all think of eachother. Too many don't anymore. Am an INFJ just like when I took it in high school lol. Have a beautiful Christmas, to two wonderful people! 💕

[@sarahsp1336]

It sounds like you’re an INFJ, as I’m the same, and my husband is also the most common personality! Everyone (apart from L&D professionals which is the industry I work in) always assume I’m an extrovert - so interesting to see how people assume you are based on how you outwardly project yourself but you know how you truly are, especially being an introvert who loves people because actually you need a good, long rest after you’ve spent some time with people who aren’t your immediate bubble who you can be your true self with. Love that you’ve done MBTI, but also remember - it’s almost like horoscopes but for personality types, so you can always be a different “type” in differing circumstances.

[@KupCaKeDelight]

Where are the earmuffs from?

[@bookishfairygodmother]

I’m an Infj too!!! It’s funny because a lot of bookish people are infj! Love that you have a life coach. Would LOVE to know more about the journey and what you’re learning!

[@missvelvetorchid1047]

I cabt find the test, but everyone seems to take it..

[@elenacloud2000]

it's the link called Myers briggs in the description box :)

[@carlywelsh7919]

I clicked on that but it only describes the type there’s no test? There is a link to take it but it’s $50?

[@lisamarie5918]

@@carlywelsh7919 You can Google "Free Myers Briggs Test" and take it for free. I tried it...you read your results, and you can also get a copy e-mailed to you.

[@rizkyabigail9661]

Im sorry but i cant find the link of the personality test.. may i have it? Thnks

[@MissPirate29]

I'm an INFJ as well and I can relate! :D I tend to get on with more extroverted personalities. I saw a meme saying 'introverts don't make friends, an extrovert found them and adopted them'

[@taniyasingh6976]

I cannot find the link...can someone guide me to it

[@anoukwerder6924]

How truly beautifully natural and spontaneous you look just out of of bed no makeup 🥰😍 You look like a QUEEN in that Blenheim Palace, omg what a stunning dreamy place 🤩🙌🏼🥰

[@amandam3339]

The porch is gorgeous!!

[@KateAshworth]

I clicked the personality test link, and eventually found how to take the test, but it says i have to purchase it for $19.95 and it says i have to have a 1 hour phone or skype call.. it also says that it takes 20-30 mins.. that doesn't sound like the free 10 minute one that you guys did 🤔 x

[@Parianparlay]

Dear Lydia ...I could recognised you straightaway. Because you are so like me when I was younger. I did the Myers-Briggs a few years ago, I too found it ‘spot on’ for myself. I must have another go over Christmas, thanks so much for the link, it will be enlightening to see if anything has changed now I’m 71!. That sounds so like Ali, he’s such a lovely man! I stopped the video to write this and the film stopped at such a lovely frame of you eating up at Ali there is SUCH a look of pure love in your eyes.... wonderful! Bless you two. X

[@Parianparlay]

‘Gazing!!’ Noooo- not ‘eating!,’ 😂

[@carolmorgan3875]

Sadly I can't find the Link to do the personality test. Did you forget?? It sounded so interesting.

[@evamosch]

Am I blind I can’t find the link for the personality test...

[@audrawinters4013]

Where it says Featured Products- Myers Briggs. As you read a caption it gives you two choices, choose and remember your letter....then match all 4 letters to the screen with a whole slew of letter combos, tap it and it tells you what you are. 🙂

[@kimmienelson2152]

Eva me neither ! Lol...

[@kimmienelson2152]

@@audrawinters4013 thank you for pointing me in the right direction !

[@asweeni8517]

@@audrawinters4013 do you have to pay to do the test?

[@audrawinters4013]

@@kimmienelson2152 Ali said it was free

[@mandicruz912]

The Porch Looks Wonderful!!!

[@erikalouwrens3992]

I have enjoyed your vlogmas videos so much this year...more so than ever before!

[@valentinamelania1916]

where is the link for the test?..

[@marynikolopoulou5680]

Where is the next vlogmas? It's been days.. Are you all ok?

[@AnnasStyleDictionary]

Loved the video! Thank you for providing such uplifting content in difficult times like these! Sending lots of love from a small KZbinr ❤️❤️

[@mlc2028]

Where's the link to the test?

[@admori-adriana-morena]

Oh nice. Where can I find the personality test please? ❤️

[@momcation9786]

Hi Lydia that palace is marvelous! It's similar to the Versailles palace I've visited in France. You looked beautiful in the green dress! Merry Christmas to you and Ali!🎄🎄🎄

[@rizkyabigail9661]

I cannot see the link of the personality test :( can someone copy it here, really appreciate it :)

[@kateeaton3880]

I just took the test and I’m the same INFJ! Awful at making friends because I always rub people the wrong way and I always feel misunderstood. This made so much sense 😂

[@CaseyWiggin]

I have taken the Myers Briggs and 3 of the same questions came up? I know i have taken this test on just 1 website but are they all accurate?! Great vlog

[@nicst3373]

Dear Lydia, Yeah agree It’s better to stay away from crowded departmental stores. Please do stay safe and happy for Xmas. Take care Nic

[@fridaleiding]

I’m INFJ-A (Assertive Advocate) Like your saying, feels so good to pin point your personality traits!