I WOULD NEVER NORMALLY VLOG THIS | VLOGMAS DAY 14 | Lydia Elise Millen

I WOULD NEVER NORMALLY VLOG THIS | VLOGMAS DAY 14
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INTJ can't be too rare, apparently everyone in the comments is one. 🤣 Take these tests with a grain of salt.

[@solyogabysophie]

It won’t be a coincidence that the people that like Lydia will have similar personality types. That’s probably why you find such a high concentration of them here

[@nanivet3891]

I love when Ali is on the videos he’s so funny, such a gentleman and so handsome

[@clairepaquette5676]

I'm also an INFJ and it is nice to finally understand myself. Have always felt different than others but never felt bad about it cause I knew I had a big heart . It's true though we are often misunderstood.

[@lovemeregardless]

Where did she link the personality test? I don’t see it in her info box.

[@rosealexander4671]

Porter is going to love sharing that heated blanket wit Lumi. Don't forget to get him Dachshund approved bed stairs, or better yet, a ramp.

[@cin-dmarie]

I did this years ago, but stopped to do it again. I also got the rarest personality type (Advocate) this is why I can relate to you so well! 😘

[@annazolotova7834]

Same 😊

[@kimmienelson2152]

Can I ask where is the test ? I looked where all the links are ...but didn’t see it ...I really am curious to take it ! Lol.. thanks hope you can point me in the right direction.

[@cin-dmarie]

@@kimmienelson2152 It’s easier to just google Myers-Briggs and there you will find the test. Good luck!

[@MirlindaGaniu]

Sameeee

[@erikalouwrens3992]

I have enjoyed your vlogmas videos so much this year...more so than ever before!

[@laurasi3523]

How do you take the test? Or is it the intention that you choose which preference you have and then put together the type?

[@leannerose541]

I cannot tell you the level of joy your videos bring me! Absolutely loving your vlogmas xx

[@kathleenswenning9915]

What an amazing journey you have taken us on, that was so dreamy!!!!! Thank you so much, this has been so fun and something I so look forward to!!!!

[@ItsmeImalot]

Yes!!! I enjoyed it. In fact there hasn't been a single vlog from you that I did not enjoy, ever. You are the best vloger out there for me.

[@kyrad8579]

A fellow INFJ!!!! Also it is veeeerrry common for INFJs to go for our “opposite” in a partner so the ENFPs and other similar types. And while it’s true that you don’t find a lot of INFJs in person go to any Myers Briggs video online and there’s loads of us in the comments, I think we just like to feel seen.

[@paknofficial2056]

INFP here too! The personality test literally changed my life, because I finally felt understood!

[@lz_vie]

I just did the test again because it’s been so long and I got this too :o Might be why I find Lydia’s videos so calming!

[@thenewtonfamily3703]

Where abouts on the link do I find to do it? I can only find where it takes me to another page to pay and register x

[@paknofficial2056]

@@thenewtonfamily3703 I just do the Myers-Brigg one, you can find it if you Google it! I think it's called 16 personalities.

[@PriHL]

INFJ

[@zenaiko33]

INFP here as well! When I first did this test years ago, it changed everything. I didn’t feel so odd anymore :)

[@wizbitz82]

Tried the link for Myers Briggs test but can't find it free on that site, can anyone help please? It takes me to a page where I have to pay.

[@lauracoppard2229]

Same here! :( I don’t know how to do it?!

[@lindaw.5836]

Type into google; Myers Briggs Personality Test. It’s the 1st on the list and is free. I’m in UK. Hope that helps!

[@wizbitz82]

@@lindaw.5836 Thanks hun, that's what I had to do in the end. Couldn't for the life of me find the free version through Lydia's link lol.

[@DrenchedInPink013]

@@wizbitz82 because it’s not free, try 16 personalities. It’s about the same and free

[@AnnasStyleDictionary]

Loved the video! Thank you for providing such uplifting content in difficult times like these! Sending lots of love from a small KZbinr ❤️❤️

[@canuckbeauty297]

I've taken the long version and they are so spot on. I think you have the most amazing personality . Very surprised your on the cusp of being introverted Your doing an amazing job with vlogmas and I thank you. It has been such a treat to watch your videos Mon-Fri xx

[@genevabell4679]

lumi was like MOM WHY ARE YOU RECORDING ME at the end haha that made me laugh

[@miamaya4620]

How do you get your ends look so full? What kind of haircut would you need to get it that way?

[@nataliewinzer6802]

I cant find how to take the test on the link ? All I can see is something you have to pay for?

[@tattvamasi3138]

www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

[@annazolotova7834]

Thank you for your vlogs Lydia and I’m so happy to see your design ideas come true and your excitement about the puppy! Oh and I had to pause the video and head to the test and now stuck reading about my daydreaming self: These personality types see magical beauty where others see the humdrum of daily life. Love this 🥰

[@ausramorkunaite8158]

Where is this personality test, l can’t find any link..

[@inesgregorek4036]

Omg same 😞

[@hannaamy6653]

It's the first link under the product heading in the description box

[@kimmienelson2152]

Tap the link Myers Briggs ...

[@carlywelsh7919]

@@hannaamy6653 there’s no test on there tho only the descriptions of the types?

[@KateAshworth]

I clicked the personality test link, and eventually found how to take the test, but it says i have to purchase it for $19.95 and it says i have to have a 1 hour phone or skype call.. it also says that it takes 20-30 mins.. that doesn't sound like the free 10 minute one that you guys did 🤔 x

[@biebie1]

I got the Christmas feels during the light walk, thank you Lydia💜

[@NicolaNooP84]

That Green H&M dress is everything! You both look simply stunning 💚

[@caoimhenimhuireadhaigh1303]

INTJ here, doing that quiz helped me understand why other people don't often make sense to me, and thus have more patience for others

[@sedayusuf2222]

I would like to do but cannot see the link 😞

[@paijhamilton3683]

@@sedayusuf2222 it’s the Myers Briggs link in the description box

[@rizkyabigail9661]

Same here i cannot see the link, would you please copy the link here so we can take the test.. really appreciate it..

[@favoree]

I love all your vlogs! I watch them every week, all in one go}. Today's vlog was really festive. I also admire your taste and creativity.

[@Hannah28995]

I love Myres Briggs and I’ve taught it for a while, interestingly though the introvert/ extrovert isn’t what it means in a normal way it’s where you get your energy from and I would totally agree you get your energy from yourself and thrive on your own... which is perfect for what you to 😊

[@adriene02]

Thanks for commenting this! I also have a degree that trained me to administer these inventories. Someone trained in administering personality inventories can be so important in helping with the breakdown of these results. It’s akin to reading your monthly horoscope versus having your astrological chart drawn up and analyzed. The problem with “personality tests” is that people think they’re fixed and the end all be all. So just a heads up to Lydia and others interested in personality INVENTORIES (the correct terminology): 1) they measure preference. Which means your Myers-Briggs results can often tell you a lot about how you behave, but also tell you a lot about how you would PREFER to behave. That is, you may not behave in ways that you’d prefer to. Not understanding that can cause some confusion or distrust of this inventory if people don’t feel the results are an accurate reflection of “who they are” since a lot of times we measure our concept of identity by how we act. 2) things like behavior and identity aren’t fixed; they can change over time and/or due to circumstances we encounter in our lives. Thus, your Myers-Briggs personality type can change from year to year, or depending on what mood you’re in when you take it, etc. it tends to not shift drastically though. We all do have some core elements that make up our identities and our behaviors that we’ve been socialized with since birth. And if you’re ever wanting some insight on being a “j” (judging), lordt I got some! 😂 people love to harp on the fact that my personality type says I’m judgmental!

[@elizabeth91482]

I lol forward to your daily videos! Love your vlogmas!

[@teeteeiren9748]

Lydia, the footage in this vlog was extraordinary!!! Thanks so much for sharing!!!

[@laylaa6857]

Your intro is so soothing!

[@rizkyabigail9661]

I cannot see the link of the personality test :( can someone copy it here, really appreciate it :)

[@mrsnailpolishfreak]

Can’t wait to see everything finished!🤩👏🏻

[@sallybasheer4740]

I did a similar personality test called enneagram test. And it’s just amazing that feeling when I started to understand myself better. It truly helped me embrace both my strengths and weaknesses and have more confidence of myself.

[@fatimabegum1149]

Put the kids to bed, lit a candle and grabbed myself a hot coco and a blanket. Watching Lydias vlogmas is the best part of my day. 🌨🎅🎄😍🥰❤

[@thenewtonfamily3703]

Ahh can’t wait to do the personality test! Blenheim looked amazing, we wanted to do the light walk too but the tickets had gone I believe 😫 xxx

[@dorothysliben777]

That palace was stunning 🤩 and that dress perfect 😍 going to miss vlogmas.

[@rizkyabigail9661]

Im sorry but i cant find the link of the personality test.. may i have it? Thnks

[@emilyfoster3583]

Whenever it’s been tough - I know that for next 30-45mins I can go onto KZbin & you’d have a positive joyful video! Just your whole persona is joyful even when you’re not fully feeling it! So thank you for getting us through this year 👏🏻🥰

[@patsystewart254]

I totally second that! COMPLETE STRESS BUSTER‼️

[@PrettiteLife]

What a lovely vlog dear! Once again enjoyed watching! Thanks for taking us on board. I barely do 2 videos a week and i know how time consuming it is, i can only imagine it must be tiring to do this every single day. Yet you rock it

[@amandam3339]

The porch is gorgeous!!

[@taniyasingh6976]

I cannot find the link...can someone guide me to it

[@ellenrobinson3297]

I love hearing Lumi in the background 😂 Blenheim palace looks amazing! 😍

[@Sbs349]

Aww you and Ali are both so great in your unique ways.❤️

[@kehnaturalista8959]

I was waiting for footage from the Palace since viewing the reel on IG, it was truly breathtaking!

[@LydiaFamilyVids]

So happy to hear you're an introvert Lydia, found out recently I'm an introvert too (INFJ to be precise) this is probably why I feel so connected. Thanks for sharing xxx

[@margaritabotero2787]

Let's be friends?! I am INFJ, too. And for so long, I have tried to find similar soul to mine. Other personality types are good friends, but they don't understand INFJs completely. (Note: This is totally outside my introvert shell.I normally would not do this.) What do You say?

[@LydiaFamilyVids]

@@margaritabotero2787 Absolutely I would love to be your friend!!! Are you on Instagram? Please DM me on IG @lydia.bolaji (not sure if KZbin has dms yet?) also I know what you mean about this being out of your comfort zone 🤣 can totally relate ❤️

[@EEN63]

Blenheim Palace was just glorious! That tablescape! Those serving pieces! Those candelabras! The damask walls! The tapestries! The applied moldings/mill work! Basically all the architectural details! Heaven! The extra sparkle of Christmas decor everywhere! It was all absolutely stunning! I guess those things are quite the usual when it’s a palace... I should really look into getting a palace of my own! 😉😂🤣😂😉 Ali’s fragrance campaign will be a huge success! Sooo fabulous! You looked beautiful in your gown in such a grand setting! And Ali in a tux is always a treat! Gorgeous couple! The floors in the study are wonderful! I love all the visual texture! I can’t wait to see the walls transformed to further the cozy vibe! This room is going to be amazing! Always appreciate some loving on Lumi time and always get a kick out of how verbal she is! She’s quite the chatty Kathy and it’s incredibly adorable! 🥰🥰🥰 Very enjoyable vlog! 😁😘😍

[@hannahschwab7643]

your friends are really pretty and kind and I always enjoy to see them on the vlog, so lovely!!

[@lucylaylakelly2100]

One of my favourite vlogs. Lydia you look so stunning my goodness! 😍

[@RebeccaNeffati]

I'm a INFJ and I agree, when I did the test last year I suddenly felt understood and I was no longer at odds with myself feeling like I was the oddball. It is really comforting and also freeing to feel understood.

[@VelvetWellies]

I’m an INFJ - just spent the past 15 mins reading it and I cannot believe how understood I feel!!!!!! ❤️

[@margaritabotero2787]

Let's be friends?! I am INFJ, too. And for so long, I have tried to find similar soul to mine. Other personality types are good friends, but they don't understand INFJs completely. (Note: This is totally outside my introvert shell.I normally would not do this.) What do You say?

[@jolien201]

I’m an INFJ as well:-)

[@ljss123]

I’m an INFJ as well.

[@VelvetWellies]

@@margaritabotero2787 of course!!! ❤️❤️ xxx

[@traceythomas1089]

The dinning area at the palace was beautiful x

[@HollyBluee]

Lydia your teeth look amazing already! Invisalign is amazing! I’ve been wanted to get it for a while now! Need. Money 😂

[@Laught3rGirl]

Thank you for showing the palace it was beautiful to see, your gown was lovely too :)

[@meaganmartin6502]

Oh my goosh! 😂 Honestly, after the horrible summer you had emotinally/mentally, it's really great to see you laughing and feeling so positive. Bravo!

[@danadkin2810]

What is the floor in the study? looks great!

[@rhibuckler9690]

You looked like royalty, truly beautiful 👑. Merry Christmas M-G’s ♥️

[@ashleygorrie4698]

I'm probably being really dumb but I cant see where I do the test on that link you've added....

[@DrenchedInPink013]

She didn’t link it, and it’s not free.

[@susan99malilla]

I just love your coat ( the Audrey Hepburn one) I’ve seen Freddy my love wear it and I’ve been thinking to buy it for sooooo long !!! I’m in love with it

[@mandicruz912]

“Having A Good 😌 Bath 🛁 By The 🍲 Food... Fabulous!” 😂

[@momcation9786]

Hi Lydia that palace is marvelous! It's similar to the Versailles palace I've visited in France. You looked beautiful in the green dress! Merry Christmas to you and Ali!🎄🎄🎄

[@nicst3373]

Guys I need your help Lydia has mentioned before this website whereby you can find the species of the plant and the care instructions for the plants I just cannot recall which website it is? Pls do advise me Thx much

[@bergenna9226]

It may be the app, picture this? Where you take a photo and the correct species pops up. Not sure if this is what you mean.

[@nicst3373]

@@bergenna9226 I suppose that could be the one Or could be this?? www.gardenworld.co.uk/search_results/Frittonia

[@onlychimerically]

lydia--even when the H&M bits are sold out can you please still list/link for your U.S. followers?! they are usually still available for us! thank you :)

[@jebblles]

ah would have been nice to have seen a team Christmas dinner with your team....hopefully all that food didn't go to waste

[@fumberperes8299]

I cant find the free test!! Someone help?

[@maisophie]

Where is the link to the website you mentioned to be linked down bellow?

[@vivaglam17]

The second you said you were the rarest type, I knew exactly which personality type you are because that’s mine too! If you know, you know 😉 I completely agree that it’s so interesting how telling it is - same with one’s astrological birth chart!

[@thequeensmother]

So much splendor in this video! That dress, that light walk...that porch...that flooring...And you, of course , are beautiful as usual.

[@jacinda6012]

Such a pretty intro :) merry christmas❤️

[@thatsupercargirl2833]

I am soo tickled by this Lydia! I literally just bought that coat last month. I absolutely love it! So classy and elegant ❤️ I’m also more of an INFJ personality type Happy Holidays and all the love ❤️

[@mysonruns]

What a gorgeous castle & light walk!

[@TwinkleX0]

Am I just overlooking it... but where on the website is the personality test?

[@Beefkite]

I'm an INFJ too! No wonder I love watching your videos so much!! Thank you for sharing, I've just started uni to be a counsellor and this type is described as the counsellor - mind blown!!! Feels nice to be understood!

[@GettingHyggeWithIt]

I’m an Infj too!!! It’s funny because a lot of bookish people are infj! Love that you have a life coach. Would LOVE to know more about the journey and what you’re learning!

[@finlear3320]

Your personality is just perfect Lydia you are who your are, genuine, kind, caring and funny as hec!! Xxx

[@georgiadavies8693]

Why don't you donate the Christmas Dinner to a family in need. It would be the best Christmas present to someone.

[@Annabelle_A]

I’m dying to take the test but can’t find the free version please help! Thank you!!

[@beckyking]

Me too!

[@katerinamitanoska6207]

Hi Lidija, Could you please do a video on how you style your hair. It is looking so lovely! X

[@sunkissed104]

And how you care for it! It’s so thick and well behaved 😂

[@PujaGohil]

Oh I love this test! I found mine so so interesting!

[@valentinamelania1916]

where is the link for the test?..

[@melissaganger]

I had a work Christmas party in 2014 at Blenheim palace and it was such a dream! Your coat is just magnificent!

[@elyjane5103]

I'm INTJ - I need to schedule my down time - it's the only way I cope with the world.

[@heltc9594]

Me too - very rare type for women :-) Stay strong and organise! 😃

[@StephanieHeathNash]

@@heltc9594 agreed! Organizing everything is my love language 😄 (another female INTJ).

[@Foxandfizz]

INFJ here. So surprised you are too Lydia as wouldn’t have you down as that personality type at all! Blenheim looked gorgeous 🎄

[@margaritabotero2787]

Let's be friends?! I am INFJ, too. And for so long, I have tried to find similar soul to mine. Other personality types are good friends, but they don't understand INFJs completely. (Note: This is totally outside my introvert shell.I normally would not do this.) What do You say?

[@anoukwerder6924]

How truly beautifully natural and spontaneous you look just out of of bed no makeup 🥰😍 You look like a QUEEN in that Blenheim Palace, omg what a stunning dreamy place 🤩🙌🏼🥰

[@ginatees3262]

Loved your visit to Blenheim. That green dress was absolutely beautiful on you and you should get that for yourself.

[@deewishez]

I love that green gown on you! So gorge!

[@sarahbrownworld]

How is everyone doing the test for free? I’m dying to know mine. I can only find a page where you have to pay $50 😩

[@Koherents]

maybe they did it before. I can not find the free option as well 🥺

[@zivadobnik5095]

16personalities :)

[@anitapandya1155]

Palace of Versailles in France also a must see... Stunning and historic..💎💯

[@aleaholm9928]

Love your videos, the longer the better ♡ It's so nice to hang with you and your family, and to just forget about my own life for that moment of time for as long as the video plays ♡ Thank you for a safe place to think about beautiful and light stuff ♡ Sending lots of love from Norway ♡

[@joanberry2143]

I am so happy to see your videos everyday.

[@mrstiberius3674]

INTJ here! I also felt so seen when I read about it...my husband is the same as me, actually lol

[@PaleLady]

Being a INFJ it was amazingly personal and find that it's very accurate. I've also found the ennegrame to be helpful when combined with the Myers brigs for growth and personal understanding

[@tattvamasi3138]

Same here! Myers Briggs + the Enneagram, compounded by the "rabbit hole" that is astrology, makes for a powerful catalyst of self-growth & true self-awareness!

[@kamalacaila6561]

I really enjoyed this vlog !!!!

[@PrincessSunshyne65]

It's a beautiful thing to see how other parts of the world celebrate the birth of Jesus, the lights were stunning. Thanks for sharing that with us Lydia. Merry Christmas from my family to yours be safe

[@kamalashila3549]

I wish the Blenheim Palace would be longer... It's such a beautiful and grand place!

[@sarahsp1336]

It sounds like you’re an INFJ, as I’m the same, and my husband is also the most common personality! Everyone (apart from L&D professionals which is the industry I work in) always assume I’m an extrovert - so interesting to see how people assume you are based on how you outwardly project yourself but you know how you truly are, especially being an introvert who loves people because actually you need a good, long rest after you’ve spent some time with people who aren’t your immediate bubble who you can be your true self with. Love that you’ve done MBTI, but also remember - it’s almost like horoscopes but for personality types, so you can always be a different “type” in differing circumstances.

[@melgrayco]

I'm an INFJ too! it felt amazing when I learned this esp being a rare type we're often misunderstood x

[@margaritabotero2787]

Me, too. 😊 We should be friends. I know that for our personality type, we don't make friends easily and very rarely. But ... I am getting out of my introvert shell and - I really want to connect to INFJs, because other types are good friends but never understand us completely.

[@melgrayco]

@@margaritabotero2787 I agree! We need a society 🥰

[@anigeorgieva2630]

Me too ❣

[@demetrakos77]

I’m an INFJ too!

[@meganmoniz7133]

INFJ here too!!

[@dideedi7351]

Blenheim Palace is to die for. I remember seeing Sir Winston Churhill's little bed. How special your evening must have been!!

[@laurasi3523]

Where can I find the strengths and weaknesses?

[@elodiegrenier968]

I looooove the personality theories! You should also try the big 5 and the enneagram! I would be curious to see what type you are in those 😁

[@stefaniesombaty8980]

In the US the Meyers-Briggs test is something that we take several times through our time in school. I don't remember what my "type" is anymore but I do remember that the tests were always spot on. Wish I had taken the advice early on in my work life because it would have saved me from many years of being miserable sitting behind a desk. My results always showed that I liked working with my hands and nothing is more true.