Icky sensory issues (why i don't want kids, asexuality, autism, pelvic floor dysfunction)

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@MonaM204 17 күн бұрын

I relate to much of what you have to say. I've always felt that if I became pregnant I would no longer want to live. Sending a hug.

@Ay_e_sha 2 ай бұрын

Hey Ingrid....felt so overwhelmed for you, listening to this. Was quite relatable in some ways, listening to you express yourself. I am finding it difficult to find words. Sending you love. Thank you so much for your vulnerability.

@radishraven9 2 ай бұрын

@@Ay_e_sha thank you, I'm fine with the way i am 😊

@Ay_e_sha 2 ай бұрын

@@radishraven9 Ok 😊

@naturandmor 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing. It means a lot for me/us. Keep it up.

@taketheredpill1452 Ай бұрын

The solution for me was to get in touch with my repressed emotions. They would manifest as painful physical symptoms. Basically I had a ton of repressed rage at my mother. Definitely don't have kids, Earth is a trap...

@BipolarCourage Ай бұрын

Suppressed emotions can come out somatically

@taketheredpill1452 Ай бұрын

@@BipolarCourage 100%. If it's not that, then as an INFP it has to be neglect of the second ability (Extraverted Intuition). That would look like NOT accepting unpleasant realities based on our intuitive perceptions of the outside world. This would be about people in our day to day lives and the world in general. For instance, as an ENFP, I reject EVERYONE because they are all asleep to what's really going on. That is me accepting the reality of whom they are and responding accordingly. It's lonely but better than living a lie, with fools... Regarding the external world, as a whole, we are being exterminated by organized evil. Being in denial of that is understandable but would definitely be a cause of chronic distress. Frankly, I'm awake to it all and still massively struggling. In a world whose goal is to terrify you, they succeed, with me, all the time. At this point, the only winning move it to die for a good cause and not get tricked into agreeing to come back here...

@BipolarCourage Ай бұрын

Like you said, trauma can often go with tension in pelvic region. Something else a physiotherapist said to me is we tend to hold emotion in that region. Apparently studies have been done about this. You also mentioned anxiety & you do sound anxious. Could be a lot of contributing factors. I dissociated to go through childbirth. Also had depression before, during & after childbirth. I only had 1 child as barely coped. My primary diagnoses are PTSD & bipolar disorder. Had half a dozen psychiatric diagnoses over the years.

@gorvo31 2 ай бұрын

Hey Ingrid, Good to catch up a bit. This was quite personal indeed an a lot for you to share. A lot more than I ever could. Give you a lot of credit, and understand to a degree the sensory difficulties in the broader sense, at least as much as possible from an older and male perspective. If only more people could be more accepting of each other for who and where they are, and these societal pressures could be shelved for good...at least a few of us find each other if nothing else. ☺-Carm

@radishraven9 2 ай бұрын

@@gorvo31 thank you, yes i think infps in general are a bit more sensitive even sensory wise than other types 😊 yes the world needs to be more accepting 😊

@vondelpete 2 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing, I think there would be a lot of people who would be having similar experiences and thoughts to you even though it isn't easy to talk about it. I guess on the INFP front too, there's always a bit of a different experience with the body compared to some others, or at least that's what it seems and feels like. It will be interesting to see how the assessment goes too!

@radishraven9 2 ай бұрын

@@vondelpete thanks! 😊 hmm yes i wonder how type gives us a different bodily sensation from other types. The Se blindspot makes it impossible for an infp to walk or tie their shoes 😂

@sicparvismagna1294 2 ай бұрын

Hi Ingrid, I'm quite busy now but I will watch the video later and comment more thoroughly but from the first minutes I watched I want to wish you good luck with your autism assessment Edit: I'm back:) Relationships are not easy for some of us. For me having children can be really complicated as I don't think I will be able to take care of them as I struggle to take care of myself. Also I need to find the right person first which is a whole another story. I came from a society where people where pressured to marry and have kids, it's very awful. Although I have to admit it that for women it's much more difficult because of the biology. I do fully agree you don't to experience childbirth to feel as a complete human being. I like a quote from the Hippocratic oath: ' premium non nocere ' first do not harm. So if one does decide to have or not have children it's important to let people live with their choices as long as they are happy with them. Honestly, your testimony is really important to discover about new perspective about sexuality or asexually. Thank you so much for this vulnerable sharing. Whatever your choices, I hope you will happy with them and know there's a friend to support you. Again thank you so much for such raw and honest video. Take care friend 😊