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@lasheaevans-smith44655 жыл бұрын
A man’s rejection is God’s protection! Don’t question God’s will.
@fungaimabuda33775 жыл бұрын
May God increase you Lashea,thank you
@lasheaevans-smith44655 жыл бұрын
Fungai Mabuda Thank you! God is preparing my table for my enemies to watch me eat and prosper. Hugs
@victoriousv73495 жыл бұрын
My ex husband cheated on me and 7 years later was sentenced to 360 months smh 🤦🏿♀️
@lasheaevans-smith44655 жыл бұрын
VictoriousV you see how God works? God knew the truth and results before you. He prepared you. Blessed
@fabfab54505 жыл бұрын
Wow.......so basically a man has to act like a child by testing your boundaries and then when you've had enough and are gone, he straightens up? Wow, that's really taking a chance because she feels like a fool if she goes back. A woman does her grieving of the relationship while she's in it trying to get him to act right. By the time she's gone, it's a wrap because she's at the stage of getting herself on the path of healing. Is a man that juvenile that 99% of the time it takes his lady's leaving to finally get it together?
@chainbreaker64495 жыл бұрын
A Man will not leave who he loves. A Man will leave who he is USING .
@user-mw6wp6ce4p5 жыл бұрын
Yes , was in denial but slowly but surely just trying to accept the hurtful truth that I was only being used.
@chainbreaker64495 жыл бұрын
Hey! DM , dont feel too bad it has taken my DUMB ass 10yrs . And the Devastation is beyond repair . But I have to take the responsibility of this .
@workinghard61845 жыл бұрын
YUP! Atleast we were WISE enough to get off of the DUMMY TRAIN! We ARE PREPARING FOR OUR KINGDOM SPOUSES!!!!!!! Amen? AMEN.
@plavnik765 жыл бұрын
As simple as possible. Thanks for the reminder.
@Dtella555 жыл бұрын
Yepp a narcissist does after he gets everything he wants after he depletes you financially...sex...free place to live...so called Christian baptized but the devil energy!
@She_So_Solo5 жыл бұрын
Don’t let a man tell you twice that he don’t want you.
@prettynatural19735 жыл бұрын
Real talk
@user-yr6xc7gg8q5 жыл бұрын
💯
@maxinec16165 жыл бұрын
1000%
@latashadestinedingodgriffi30695 жыл бұрын
Facts 😏 100% True
@danafelder56245 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@shermicemickens20854 жыл бұрын
If a man leaves you it will hurt for awhile but trust me - You ain’t seen your best days Yet!!
@cocobear44292 жыл бұрын
You really think so? 😞I keep seeing dark painful days and im so broken due to this betrayal
@cocobear44292 жыл бұрын
@@blueseptember2174 no everything triggers and I'm just too hurt
@ThePortalTheory3 ай бұрын
I hope you are right. 😢
@namuyombawinnie72075 жыл бұрын
when he leaves you don't chase stay calm & let everything into God's hands
@8adassa5 жыл бұрын
Namuyomba Winnie 🙏 Amen
@gmatinky39654 жыл бұрын
Amen🙏🙌🙏🙌🌟✔💯♠
@honeysvw4 жыл бұрын
Amen! 🙌🏽
@janayewill38834 жыл бұрын
Namuyomba Winnie I should’ve followed that
@victorianorris19163 жыл бұрын
Amen
@leahtyus39765 жыл бұрын
Also God removes people out of your life for a reason. Sometimes he will do it when you cant.
@sandria225 жыл бұрын
Truer words have never been spoken.
@kellynorvell57145 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!!!!!! I can testify to that.
@latricewright15755 жыл бұрын
Amen
@patriciaking78925 жыл бұрын
Leah, Sho' you right!
@dareenconde5 жыл бұрын
I am a living witness to this!
@venicedaley70405 жыл бұрын
When a man leaves you CELEBRATE! He has saved you years of heartache & made room for your God ordained spouse to manifest. A win-win.
@leahtyus39765 жыл бұрын
yes!
@CopperColouredQueen5 жыл бұрын
Amen
@patriciaearley41775 жыл бұрын
Yes yes yes🙏🙏🙏
@Sigma_Sage135 жыл бұрын
Indeed!
@ohmygollyahottamale58125 жыл бұрын
Not true! Some women have been or are already in married or domestic relationships from 3 - 10+ yrs. and have allowed themselves to get treated badly. Then a men leaves after all the dysfunctional tolerance she already has WASTED years on! And, you have to be a TRUE Godly woman to be worthy of and receive a GENUINE Godly man. It's NOT by default!
@jroyal22295 жыл бұрын
To be honest, I don’t want no man back if he left me. Once he leave, he need to stay gone ain’t no coming back.
@e.adriannapatterson39005 жыл бұрын
Bingo. Let his sorry behind stay Gone. Dueces!!!!!!
@anointedone51965 жыл бұрын
Right!
@MZPOETSKYLOVEBLACK5 жыл бұрын
💯✔
@Cutegirl86145 жыл бұрын
Period!
@latricewright15755 жыл бұрын
Say it again
@tlady93703 жыл бұрын
IF A MAN LEAVE. LET HIM GO. LET GOD CATCH YOUR TEARS and you face your fears with the holy spirit guidance in front of you. Surround your well-being with positive energy.. THE MINUTE HE WALK. LET HIM WALK. YOU KEEP MOVING Forward. Blessings ❤️😇
@loveandfaithfulness4479 Жыл бұрын
When you look to find a spouse, look for someone who strives to seek God in all they do. Cultural norms and traditions come and go, but the Word of the Lord endures forever. First, early in the relationship connection, express your desire to avoid premarital sex. When you express your desire to want to honor God with your sexuality before marriage, this won’t be a shock to a real Christian. That is just a basic biblical command all true Christians want to follow. Sexual intimacy is an expression of love that brings happiness and unity into a marriage. It is also the power by which married couples can “multiply, and replenish the earth” (Genesis 1:28). Intimacy is a blessing that can lead to the incomparable joy of children as part of the eternal family unit. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 "Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s." But if you say this to someone who is just pretending to obey the Bible, they will leave you quickly because they will not be willing to wait until marriage for sex. Someone can deceive you with words. But when you see their obedience to the Lord that matches their words, then you know they are trustworthy. They need to be visibly producing the fruits of the Spirit because this is a mark of a true Christian. Anyone can claim to be a Christian. And we can’t know someone’s heart. So the Bible says we are to evaluate people by their actions. Christians will not be perfect, but they will be bearing fruit that is evidence of their true salvation. Galatians 5:22-26 "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law. And those who are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another." Hebrews 13:4 "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge."
@SongSingsSoprano3 жыл бұрын
Man or woman. When you KNOW you've been good to someone, and they STILL break up with you, NEVER take them back.
@user-zp1ny3en4r3 ай бұрын
💯
@danielledanielle4220Ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏿
@Cmtjune55 жыл бұрын
If he leaves you don’t take him back. Just because the grass wasn’t greener on the other side. That’s to bad. Don’t take that fool back at all
@georgina48745 жыл бұрын
hahahaha
@Cutegirl86145 жыл бұрын
Right. You aren't his back up plan.
@sweetangel7075 жыл бұрын
Lol 😂
@e.adriannapatterson39005 жыл бұрын
You are Sooooooo right. They Never come back because they want us. They come back because WHAT they wanted didn't want them Point Blank PERIOD!!!!!! LET SORRY AZZ DOGS LAY...........somewhere else after they leave
@e.adriannapatterson39005 жыл бұрын
@@Cutegirl8614 Preach
@Iamirealla5 жыл бұрын
"He leaves you, because he doesn't want you" Real Talk!
@juanelawson97755 жыл бұрын
So true Women please listen and srop being a fool.
@jayejustj79555 жыл бұрын
👏🏾PERIOD👏🏾
@cdawnie5 жыл бұрын
For real.....for real!
@marilynritchie12035 жыл бұрын
That right 🕺💃🚵🤦
@marilynritchie12035 жыл бұрын
Something else but I am changing my life around.
@aliciasmith93415 жыл бұрын
If a man leaves you, help him politely pack his bags, walk him to the door, then smile and THANK God he's no longer wasting your TIME✌✌✌✌✌✌✌✌✌
@e.adriannapatterson39005 жыл бұрын
RealTalk
@anointedone51965 жыл бұрын
#TRUTH TOLD
@dwatson39955 жыл бұрын
I like it😂😂😂
@FSCWORKSHOP5 жыл бұрын
Alicia Smith I literally did this two weeks ago!!!!
@sonyawest25505 жыл бұрын
Lol...😂😂😂Real talk!
@kellegeez5 жыл бұрын
Ladies, remember that if a man doesn't want you DO NOT devalue yourself or think that you're less than because some man doesn't want you. Remember ladies YOU are the prize. Sometimes a so-called man leaves because he's inferior and a vacillator. Just because a man sees you as a wife doesn't mean he's up to par to be your husband. Ladies, remember you also have something to bring to the table. It's not all about the man. Men have to level up as well.
@fpitts80253 жыл бұрын
SAY THAT!!!
@ares0526Ай бұрын
ladies are the prize? what are you on 😂😂
@urbanqid96045 жыл бұрын
A man doesn't just jump ship unless he has somewhere else to sail!!
@cynthiastevens83025 жыл бұрын
to swim doggie paddle or float lol
@urbanqid96045 жыл бұрын
@@cynthiastevens8302 lol Chile. You be tripping lol
@ebonytoilesechandler76795 жыл бұрын
Wow so true....
@HamAndBeef135 жыл бұрын
Urban Qid You betta say that!!!
@ChinadollcocoCaramel4 жыл бұрын
Boom! Spot on!
@Shelleshelly94395 жыл бұрын
Be happy that he left. He made space for the right man to come into your life.
@AnointedVessel405 жыл бұрын
Wow thank you for this Mr. Gaskins My ex was emotionally abusive and he led me on for years We finally got together and 50 days before our wedding he called it off and left me.. Got another woman pregnant Now two years later... He's back... Trying to come back to me now... He homeless.. He has no job... Down on his luck But he saying he messed up... He shouldn't have left... He want us back... He realize it now I'm no fool at all.... I'm done with him I'm at peace now waiting on my Husband
@iza5955 жыл бұрын
Mona Carletta you’re a strong woman 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💗
@anointedstilettos5 жыл бұрын
You should teach other women because when stuff like this happens, all women should be like hell to the no!
@dimediamond5 жыл бұрын
Many blessings
@weareallone61485 жыл бұрын
Mona Carletta Carry on and never look back! Karma’s taking care of him! Move on and move up!
@ulricka21315 жыл бұрын
Stay strong sister. Your husband is on his way
@JS-pz3wo5 жыл бұрын
Some men leave because they know they are no good for u.
@urbanqid96045 жыл бұрын
True.
@immaculatebeauty_aoki5 жыл бұрын
Facts
@lounemo8665 жыл бұрын
NO NO men who leave have more options. That is why they can walk away. Men who stay means you are the best they can get
@patriciaking78925 жыл бұрын
J & S, Amen to that 💯.
@ohmygollyahottamale58125 жыл бұрын
@@lounemo866...💯 I agree! Having options means an abundance or quantity of NOT necessarily QUALITY. As long as ANYbody is offering him easy sex, a crash pad and gas, Xbox, rims, Jordans, happy hour and club hoppin' allowance money, those are his options! But as soon as the 420 haze clears and he gets tired of her, he realizes those women are even bigger heauxs and a RISK than him OR they too are hustlers running game and refused to accept his bullsh*t the baby mamas or shotgun wives tolerated. Months later.... "Hey or What r u Doing?...I miss u, etc" lame texts! 🤬
@lakeshawise81475 жыл бұрын
10 years ago, my fiancee called me in the middle of wedding planning to tell me he was with someone else. It broke me down in unimaginable ways, and for a long time, I couldn't see past it. 7 years later, I met the love of my life and he and I have been happily married for 5 years. I am a living testimony that God will remove people from your life for your betterment. If he doesn't want to be with you, set him free and force him to live in his choice to make you his past and not his present.
@Michellemybell739 Жыл бұрын
Oh my Lakesha Wuse so sorry to hear about the fiancé leaving you but happy you found love! That’s a huge blessing!
@lakeshawise8147 Жыл бұрын
@@Michellemybell739 I have been blessed ever since!!! THANKFUL!!!🙌
@Michellemybell739 Жыл бұрын
@@lakeshawise8147 ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@loloqueenbee6052 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. That gave me hope to do what I know I must, and.k ow TMH will carry me. 🙏🏾
@Itsacamlife5 жыл бұрын
If he walks let him....I know it hurts I know! I’m still in that pain but I know it will get better! Ladies let him go!
@AmberBrooklyn245 жыл бұрын
If my man leaves me, he better stay exactly where he’s at 🤷🏾♀️💯
@MZPOETSKYLOVEBLACK5 жыл бұрын
On everything 💯✔
@nnggss69685 жыл бұрын
Amber Brooklyn same 😒
@ghisellesimon1625 жыл бұрын
Say it louder
@latricewright15755 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@cdawnie5 жыл бұрын
He won't have to leave me... I can show him better than i can tell him. When he sees me walking away and sees the back of my head that's his memory of me for life.
@rachelj39335 жыл бұрын
If he leaves, then you were not his first choice. Therefore, don't let him abuse your love by taking him back, especially if he comes back broke, busted and disgusted!
@daniellem5785 жыл бұрын
And when he leaves tell him bye! Never beg or ask any man to stay.
@kellynorvell57145 жыл бұрын
I learned that that HARD WAY because I was deeply in love.
@doggycreek59344 жыл бұрын
Oh yes let him GOOooooooo
@gorgeousmone61514 жыл бұрын
Ann’s sadly, these women be begging them 🤦🏾♀️
@heartbeat0853 жыл бұрын
But I don't know how......💔💔💔
@PucciNYC3 жыл бұрын
I said make sure that’s what you wanna do cause there’s no 3rd chance. He left and I’m at peace!
@michelesmart47995 жыл бұрын
This made my heart hurt because I tried to convince myself otherwise but I know it’s true 😢. Someone who loves and wants you won’t take the risk of losing you.
@cocobear44292 жыл бұрын
Fuck 😞😭 its true i keep believing he does love me and that hed never do this..but he did.he played me and lied soo much..how can people be so cruel.
@adianezhernandez58774 жыл бұрын
A broken man will leave you for an easy prey when you finally stand up for yourself .
@Th3lite3 жыл бұрын
This is what happened to me last night.
@adianezhernandez58773 жыл бұрын
@@Th3lite don’t feel bad when he acts like life is amazing now because it’s all a lie.
@Th3lite3 жыл бұрын
@@adianezhernandez5877 Thank you.
@msgapeach3 жыл бұрын
Happened to me. I cud care less. He was insecure and had low self esteem. 🤷🏾♀️✌🏾
@issavibe67753 жыл бұрын
Me currently
@tunisiaruth5 жыл бұрын
"Time to weigh his options without having to answer to you." FACTS
@elizabethjones43255 жыл бұрын
So deep! So true! Men always want the easy route.
@MsJoyce312025 жыл бұрын
Okay so bye bye, dude. Free folk don't have to answer to others and since he don't like being held accountable, he can stay gone forever.
@shantalbarbot58015 жыл бұрын
Triple facts!!
@MsFree2u5 жыл бұрын
So deep! This is the absolute truth.
@charlinecharlostin31883 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@skyloveup5 жыл бұрын
Yep, he's waiting for the one he truly wants or using you to get to the one he truly wants.
@ak-47intelligence755 жыл бұрын
I am a virgin, I have good qualities, I look good and I have much more. If he doesnt want me, I dont want him either. I'm the prize.
@wellwateredwoman8975 жыл бұрын
Save yourself until marriage and keep your womb locked down
@chellestephens20985 жыл бұрын
Dont mention you're a virgin, you become prey quicker than a prize. Analyze him, don't even mention nothing about your status. You waste a lot of time that way.
@nicholehamilton58445 жыл бұрын
@@chellestephens2098 I agree. I'm learning you should ask questions and not talk to much as in give him too much information about yourself. Check out Pastor RC Blake's Jr. Video on questions to ask a man you're dating. You can ask him his view on sex before marriage, but even before that ask if he believes in God, if he goes to church, spends time in the Word, etc. Like bring up a chapter you're reading and see what he does. Best thing to is to ask God for discernment.
@ak-47intelligence755 жыл бұрын
@@chellestephens2098 Thank you for your comment but just so you know, I am 27. I've been preyed upon but never a prey. I know who I am. I tell it like it is. No pre-marital sex and flaky behaviour. Have a nice day.
@ak-47intelligence755 жыл бұрын
@RKELLYSCOCO I am not saving myself for marriage because I want to show I am a good girl. I am saving myself because this is MY choice to honor Jesus. This has nothing to do with a man. Also , I would be careful with wanting to " experience life " having sex outside of marriage because body count matters to me. I value my body and I am not sharing it with just anyone. Have a nice day.
@cleo-patra5 жыл бұрын
It also depends on the guys maturity level. You can be wifey material and he can worship the ground you walk on but he can still leave you to see what's out there "sow his oats". Men marry the woman who happens to be around when he is finally READY to settle down.
@teopistorsind98744 жыл бұрын
The most authentic comment I ever read on this issue.
@jewell23524 жыл бұрын
That’s not love watch team jaxn he said just having a women around on that subject
@melishamcelroy51124 жыл бұрын
This is 💯 truth! They will select from the best available “options” at the point and time .... when they decide to marry. Unless, they are guided by the Spirit of God.
@shekhinahtshimoloho67383 жыл бұрын
This is true sister
@jessicass5892 Жыл бұрын
It’s true, it’s all about timing. A good friend of mine married someone because he hit 40 and wanted a family and it was the right thing to do. She wasn’t his dream woman or someone he’s searching for , it was the right time and right place. Another friend who met someone he truly connects with for once , but he was divorced twice and truly scared of marriage/commitment again , he fell in love but got too much past baggage and went into self sabotage pattern ….so he lost her , it was a self fulfilling prophecy, not because he was still out there looking for his perfect woman
@lindaintexas11455 жыл бұрын
"He's just not that into you". That message has been out there for years. I've heard that if a man has been with you for two or more years and has not made a commitment like asking you to marry, then he never will. I've found that to be true. And a man will stay with you even tho he doesn't love you while he's seeing someone else...until he works up the courage to leave you, he will 'ride the fence'. When he feels confident that he doesn't need you anymore and the new lady is what he really wants, watch him go. Just watch. And men that are cheating will pick a fight every chance he can so he can go be with his new interest. Every time. And you will sit at home crying and asking yourself what you have done to run him off.
@livvybabyxo5 жыл бұрын
So true :(
@Fonzi794 жыл бұрын
your comment makes me sick.. Cause I think this is what happened to my x// we were together for 3 yrs and towards the end he was acting off and i sense something and when he left me over xmas out of the blue .. I asked him if it was another woman and he said no.. I just wished i can find out the truth thats what bothers me the most if it was for another woman. within the last yr i gave him the opportunity to leave when i brought up i wanted more attention from him and everytime he told me how much i meant to him and he didnt leave but all the sudden a month before 3 yrs he walked out on me... I hate him i was a good woman to him . Thats what hurts the most...
@carmen86854 жыл бұрын
AquariuzDiva he didn’t deserve you
@Maggie-yf7hx2 жыл бұрын
Yup I’m going through this rn . Thinking maybe I’m just too damaged
@lindaintexas11452 жыл бұрын
@@Maggie-yf7hx The trick is to get out when you start suspecting he is not what you THINK he is. We tend to hang on and wait for him to be/act like what we think he can be. Ain't gonna happen. There is better out there, just don't keep repeating your mistake by picking losers. Change it up. Expect more from the guy. Value yourself!!
@tunisiaruth5 жыл бұрын
"Don't reinforce behaviors that you don't want." I feel sooo much better now. I had to do what I had to do!
@queennkee37495 жыл бұрын
Man this is true ..if a man pulls back..you pull back and keep it pushing with no contact and watch how things change
@e.adriannapatterson39005 жыл бұрын
Yesssssss, #Pullback and 🏃 🏃 🏃
@rbd23975 жыл бұрын
Queenn KEE amen! This is how it goes. The test is real ladies. Be aware and maintain your value!
@riannekafoa80385 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@strengthwithin72565 жыл бұрын
Wow I was just thinking this that exactly what I am going to do due to it's been 3 days I haven't heard from him he is alive because I seen him online so I am going to keep living my life don't have time for games
@Niqueosaik19985 жыл бұрын
Its hard
@TurpuiTozay_health5 жыл бұрын
This is actually true. Men test you more than women 😂
@mahtazdin5 жыл бұрын
Omg!!!! Wow very true. Us women need to test men.
@tlashai99025 жыл бұрын
Time and Time again this test has been done on millions, probably billions of women. And with no AVAIL!!!! it always fails. Boys have not learned a thing.
@ChinadollcocoCaramel4 жыл бұрын
Waaaaaay more!
@Lala-th8in4 жыл бұрын
I do n i call they bluff!
@la61362 жыл бұрын
If he wants to test me he can but he’s getting cut off right after.
@marshaanis40574 жыл бұрын
You should never be a option to no man. Count your blessings when a man don't want you..He knows he is not worthy of you.
@riorio-rt1oq3 жыл бұрын
Not all the time he might not see wifey material some of us give too much too soon
@pamelagracegibb63754 жыл бұрын
"If a man sees you as his dream woman, he will never walk away from you'
@skwilson345 жыл бұрын
So men are just kids in grownup bodies. Sad day when we have to teach every man how to treat us. What is really going on?😫
@anointedone51965 жыл бұрын
Right, to much time being wasted.
@SpoofyBlonde5 жыл бұрын
That’s the stunning realization that eventually hits women in adulthood-realizing that we’re the only responsible grownups in the world...the spiritual challenge is to accept this without becoming bitter.
@schoolwork2325 жыл бұрын
Hey, no woman needs to stand up to that kind of behaviour. A man who is truly transformed in the heart like Jesus will not behave in these kind of ways! It's not worth it ladies, putting up with these kind of behaviours. Why should you marry a man who cannot lead you! The fact that he is playing games is a sign that he is not a leader and you do not want that in your life! Period!
@mahtazdin5 жыл бұрын
I had to teach my ex husbund how to treat a women. In his next relationship.
@skwilson345 жыл бұрын
@BabyLove I don't want to generalize but just notice all the relationship coaches popping up. No its not all men but seems like a really high percentage of grown boys. Correct me if I am wrong but I thought I heard Tony say that his wife had to leave him before they got married to get him to see the light. It's just a shame that most guys have to call your bluff because they know so many women are willing to stay and put up with the disrespect. IJS
@keneshawilliamson15745 жыл бұрын
A man will only do what you allow him to do. Especially, if he is already comfortable been disrespectful, and you take him back every time. He will continue to lie, cheat, be verbal and sometimes physically abusive. Who wants a man like that, not me, that's not the man God will give you. God will show you red flags so you can cut him off, and keep it moving. He might change for the next one, but a person shouldn't have to put you through all that just to see if he wants to be with you. I mean by then you don't want him because you don't trust him and you have lost all respect for him, and without those two things, you have no foundation to stand on at all. BOY KICK ROCKS AND KEEP IT MOVING!!!
@Rah10085 жыл бұрын
Yes sir!!!💙💙💙
@mindingmyownbusiness61945 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏💯😣✌️
@annetteminka15464 жыл бұрын
Preach sis!
@melishamcelroy51124 жыл бұрын
Kenesha Williamson ; Amen, I know that’s right.
@dyoung27395 жыл бұрын
Please gather enough strength to let him leave. There's somebody for everybody. Hanging onto someone who does not want you is blocking the blessing of the one who is praying for someone just like you.
@dr.kimbrough45063 жыл бұрын
This hurts to hear, but I know it’s true. I’m struggling with the rejection of it all. At my core I knew he didn’t really love me. I was convenient. Tony keep speaking the truth.
@dr.kimbrough45063 жыл бұрын
@@vivianbella3075 sis I don’t want him
@ORIGINALMEOWROYALE2 жыл бұрын
He said he’d never reject me just to turn around and leave me for good
@2020sweelew4 жыл бұрын
At 55 I've learned if he leaves you he don't love u, if he stays he'll play you, if you're married to him he'll cheat on you, if you stand your ground he'll beat you, if you submit to him he'll control you, if you love him.....you will get HURT...in some way shape or form....PUT GOD FIRST.... I've seen it all not from my own experiences but others. They are just too much work! I'm not bitter and have gain my sense of wholeness. My childbearing days are beyond me to require the purpose of man in union so what other purpose would he have I ask??? If you're young, get it right with GOD FIRST....find yourself, enjoy your singleness. The OLDER YOU GET the SLIMMER THE PICKING 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️....thankful I am complete, running my business and enjoying my grand. Do I hope for a senior life partner... sure I do....is it my focus....NOPE🤗🤗🤗...had a lotta growing to get here👌🏾👌🏾
@HD-xb9mj4 жыл бұрын
I'm a woman of a certain age as well ,and all the scenarios you said about their behaviors ,actions and the outcome is you'll be left broken and with nothing from men like that. Alot of men on finding our dont even like women and it starts from grandma to mother. Mostly in our culture, is the lack of an loving examples of how to love women.
@HD-xb9mj4 жыл бұрын
Very well said and Katrina and thank you for your wisdom.
@Lilstarshine4 жыл бұрын
Wow bless you! My man just left me pregnant due to his “covid depression” and people who died around him and how he after that started smoking and boozing. I’ve been there in all ways all the time. We’ve been trying to conceive for 4 years. And now that I’m miraculously pregnant he leaves me. I’m devastated. Wonder if I can do this alone? Never felt a greater sadness in my entire life. Please pray for me and this little baby!
@HD-xb9mj4 жыл бұрын
@@Lilstarshine find online support groups, friends family that's willing to help you along the way. He may come back because of the baby.
@barbaraalden6013 Жыл бұрын
Right there with ya sister...😊
@Hooligan.25 жыл бұрын
Throw away them on and off relationships
@tania00705 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@britt18055 жыл бұрын
Straight up, it's too much going on out here. That's a sure way to catch something...no thank you
@tckarla305 жыл бұрын
Facts
@Tammyneshia5 жыл бұрын
🗣🗣
@tanikarmccarty32755 жыл бұрын
Real talk
@RINATALKSTV5 жыл бұрын
Your right he won't leave, because I've been married 24 years in December, and my husband has never left me, I separated from him in the beginning, because we were so young, now things are great we still have are disagreements, but we never go to sleep angry, we apologise to each other, we get over it, and don't dwell on things, we don't even argue like we used to when we were younger, we had to grow up together
@millanicalo5 жыл бұрын
Happy for you guys God bless your union
@MsJoyce312025 жыл бұрын
👏👏
@ohmygollyahottamale58125 жыл бұрын
The correct way to have said or written this: '[ .... in 24 yrs. of marriage my husband hasn't ever told me he's wanted to leave. However; when we first married, a few yrs after, I had to leave him. We had some things to work through, communicate, etc. I believe we're both hoping to make 50+ yrs together, until one of us dies, till death do us part, this is our NEVER]' ❤ That's when someone can truly say never! 10 - 20 are the training wheels and warm up years.
@CiaobellaAmour5 жыл бұрын
MeTalk TV 🙏🏽
@HOPROPHETA4 жыл бұрын
I will see if my marriage EVER gets that way.
@donzellaharris7095 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU TONY!!,SO MANY WOMEN DON'T WANT TO HEAR THIS BUT IT'S THE TRUTH AND IT'S TIME WE STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR THESE GROWN BOYS.
@Cmtjune55 жыл бұрын
Donzella Craig exactly
@lynnmorris86595 жыл бұрын
Yep. We all just have to “let it burn” and move on with our lives.
@Metaphysicalmindspace7775 жыл бұрын
Soooo many women won't listen and keep their head in the clouds.
@kekemzvirgo73585 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@Metaphysicalmindspace7775 жыл бұрын
@RKELLYSCOCO I agree But the ironic thing is you won't be alone. You will be with a person better fit for you. I can't lose the faith. And it does take a while longer to meet that person.
@staceebrunetti27115 жыл бұрын
He’ll find someone that will allow him to do whatever he wants
@tamicagle17294 жыл бұрын
AMEN ! My Man was with me 20 years till death do us part , passed away 14 years ago. He was the love of my life !
@Goodwillwinoverevil198411 ай бұрын
Lucky, how'd you get so lucky??!
@marybarnfield56425 жыл бұрын
After getting engaged, he started posting things about his ex on FB. I said it was disrespectful to me, and I will not accept or allow that from him. Awwwww he went ghost 👻. Guess I wasn’t the one for him THANK GOD
@e.adriannapatterson39005 жыл бұрын
Wow, that is crazy. Sis, be glad he posted on FB. That was divine intervention for you. Once he did that, and you checked him, you discovered that "he" wasn't good enough for you; not the other way around. Keep your head up, stay Blessed and don't question it. The Lord has a great man for you. Wait. In waiting stay prayed up, praise and worship the Lord, and do you for now. Shalom hun😍
@sexyladyakb5 жыл бұрын
He was engaged to someone else ?
@Tippytoes545 жыл бұрын
@BabyLove you hit it dead on the nail been there also my ex of over 14 years we have a adult child did the same thing to attempt a engagement to someone to try and make me jealous don't know why . I told him where's your wedding registry at maybe I can send y'all a wedding gift when that didn't work he married her he called me 7or 8 times in 1 day like before the wedding and 2 months after the wedding I ignore his call I guess he wanted me to say something or bust up in the church like Suge Avery from the Color Purple to stop it.... ...not ! he still continue to call me finally I blocked him because it became sick sir call your wife .
@cdawnie5 жыл бұрын
When he started posting I would have shown he is a silent way!
@robinhockaday86215 жыл бұрын
He was a child
@ChristineSolazzo5 жыл бұрын
I agree. I had one, but we were not right for each other. The relationship was emotionally abusive and toxic. So I left him.
@Cutegirl86145 жыл бұрын
I was in an emotionally abusive relationship too. I have never been the same since. Completely broken. A man who really loves you won't do that.
@ChristineSolazzo5 жыл бұрын
@@Cutegirl8614 I agree, I don't think he even realized it. He was so unhappy with himself and a total Narcissist. Not an excuse but still. Stay strong girl!
@mamafylees33445 жыл бұрын
@@Cutegirl8614 me too! I'll never be the same. Now I tell guys i don't have any faith anymore when it comes to dating; I don't want to be bothered.
@quishia5 жыл бұрын
All the love you were pouring into the person who didn’t appreciate NOW needs to be pour back into yourself. I understand finding yourself again can be difficult but it doesn’t have to be. Start doing the things that you loved to do before, whether that was taking yourself out to eat, getting your nails and feet done, pursing a degree, hanging out with your friends, attending relationship seminars, reading books, writing, whatever the case may be start loving you again. You can become whole again but it’s going to take the strong person that you have inside of you to pick yourself up. Start pouring those positive affirmations within yourself that “ You can do this”. Don't give up on yourself and have faith that God can heal your broken heart if you truly let him (Psalm 147:3) ❤️
@ChristineSolazzo5 жыл бұрын
@@quishia great suggestions luv. I am trying! oxox. Now living my life for me!
@missioncalming71725 жыл бұрын
Amen. A MAN will NEVER leave you. Thank you sir.
@karabrooks90915 жыл бұрын
Sir, You may not realize how this message was a gift from God! Thank you!
@paula.nationalhomesre4 жыл бұрын
‘Most men don’t marry the woman they love(d) the most. They marry the woman that is around when they are ready to marry’. This quote came to mind when you mentioned changing when your wife left you. In my experience, a man will be madly in love with a woman, but not ready to change his ways, so he loses her because she wants to settle and he doesn’t. She then marries a man who was ready, and he is filled with deep regret when he sees her with someone else, knowing that could have been him. The man then settles for someone mediocre when he decides he is ready. Point is ladies, a man has to be ready for you. That’s on him. You could be the most beautiful, intelligent, perfect being he has ever seen or known, but will still lose you if he isn’t ready to commit. I’ve seen plenty of women with the mentality that they can be the one to change him, and are left disappointed when they find it isn’t so. He will see what you put up with. But if you refuse to accept his bullshit, he won’t try to change for you. He will do it momentarily to convince you to take him back, and the cycle repeats itself again. As women we’d like to think that men will open their eyes and see what is infront of them, but the majority of times they won’t. It takes losing you for them to realise, and by that point it’s too late.
@morinnkengbeza76914 жыл бұрын
Very true just fact
@Shayvideos14 жыл бұрын
Very well said!
@dimplsdimpls1224 жыл бұрын
Facts!!!
@oradaniels89425 жыл бұрын
If a man leaves you, count it a blessing, and keep it moving forward!!! Learn whatever lesson you needed to learn from that relationship, grow wiser from the experience. Some people are only meant to be in your life for a season. We Good!!! ✌❤😊
@khadijahfarakhan11455 жыл бұрын
Amen
@TheFactsofLife2375 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Tony for telling us the truth! I had one leave me and it's the best thing that ever happened to me! I've lost 55 lbs and living my best life yet! ❤
@e.adriannapatterson39005 жыл бұрын
Happy for you.
@elizabethjones43255 жыл бұрын
Go sis!!!
@patricebarrett58455 жыл бұрын
Yass!! Sis !! #levelup
@Cutegirl86145 жыл бұрын
So happy for you.
@gabrielleelliott73885 жыл бұрын
Get it girl that's right queen
@A...LA...LA...A5 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this as a reminder, I spent nearly two years trying to help him realize we both needed to grow up, the truth is I had to trust myself enough too give up. I may not ever love someone as much as him again, but at least I will never allow myself to be treated that way by anyone else again.
@ChristineSolazzo5 жыл бұрын
I did this also for 7 years too long. His priority was not the same as mine. He wanted to spend money and I wanted to save for a house and our future. Well after our 5 year plan, still no house and he was gone. I kicked him to the curb
@miss.britt_5 жыл бұрын
A L right 💯
@A...LA...LA...A5 жыл бұрын
@@ChristineSolazzo I feel ya! The fact is you tried and he was unreasonable., like where was the compromise executed. Every guy I've dated has been selfish and I was overwhelmed but this was the longest I've waited, never again! Lesson learned and good luck loves💕
@kellynorvell57145 жыл бұрын
Dear A L.......I agree with you 100%. I know that I will NEVER love a man the way that I loved "the love of my life" and I will NOT allow myself to be treated badly ever again. God bless.
@KimFert4 жыл бұрын
The fact is that a lot of us will remain single and waiting. It's just life. Sometimes it is for the best. People have become progressively more selfish and distracted.
@onyxlotus71263 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! I've already decided to remain single permanently for this reason. People have become to toxic to date.
@ColaBaby8884 жыл бұрын
I should have left when my intuition told me too, but I listened to my mom!🤦🏾♀️ Didn’t matter anyway he ended up leaving. Thank you Next!
@kafuyaiwamae5 жыл бұрын
Listening to this has made me cry...it has been a month since my broken engagement and i carried myself well pretending nothing has affected me but listening to this has made me cry heavily. Truthfully the nights are longer and harder...i have been on automatic zombie mode but I needed this message right here. This is my wakeup call
@dionice63615 жыл бұрын
Sister.... you will be well! It definitely won't feel this way now however, many of us have walked the path and are here to remind you! God is close to the broken hearted and he hears our cries; believe you me he does! He made me smile and laugh and breathe again-an entirely new creation in his love! He'll walk with you through this...find his word and let it minister to you! Much love!
@monicaivy24975 жыл бұрын
You are still a Queen!!! God Bless and stay strong meaning - cry until you can't cry anymore!
@brandypeay53505 жыл бұрын
Gets better with time! Just continue or start building yourself spiritually emotionally mentally and you will be just fine. And remember it’s ok to cry and be sad ... it’s apart of the healing process. 🙏🏽😘 I pray for the best for you.
@charchar78975 жыл бұрын
Kafuyai D Wamae Sis, sometimes your heart has to be broken so your soul can be saved. I'm not talking about religion, I'm talking about things that will hurt you on a soul level. I know it hurts, but be thankful he left before you married him. God is protecting you from something you cant see. Ask HIM to reveal it to you in a dream.
@kafuyaiwamae5 жыл бұрын
@@dionice6361 it's hard for me to pray nowadays but i am determined to draw closer to God. Thank you
@iza5955 жыл бұрын
They always come back after they’ve decided to leave. 🗣YOU SAID YOU DIDN’T WANT MEEEEE. What do you wantttttttt
@ghisellesimon1625 жыл бұрын
My best friend left me for another woman lol and he still lurking around me lol I’m close proximity but he wants sex from her so this is helpful but we weren’t together I’m celibate and that’s an issue for him he still a grown boy though
@dimediamond5 жыл бұрын
ALWAYS come back.begging. pleading.
@ulricka21315 жыл бұрын
Nobody wanted their dirty a** on the other side!😮
@e.adriannapatterson39005 жыл бұрын
@@ulricka2131 Exactly, then they want to slide back. It has happened to me. He wants me back, BUT hell to the NO!!!! Boy BYE!!!!
@ulricka21315 жыл бұрын
@@e.adriannapatterson3900 you are a queen my dear, not a garbage bin😉
@weareallone61485 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Tony! Ladies, know that a man is not Oxygen that we need to stay Alive! If they can’t be Right by us, they got to go! Period! Love Yourself and Respect Yourself and only then, you won’t accept anything less than you deserve!
@kekemzvirgo73585 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@kaiana30475 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏
@kimberly3294 жыл бұрын
Why do men test women like they are little children? Never have I tested a person to see how bad they will let me treat them. I have ZERO desire to treat anyone badly. SMH
@user-co5vf5ph8p2 жыл бұрын
i understand but women are grown children if you look at it properly
@kimberly3292 жыл бұрын
@@user-co5vf5ph8p Women are not “grown children”. What type of women have you been associating with?
@user-co5vf5ph8p2 жыл бұрын
@@kimberly329 definitely not mature women like you but it is true.
@kimberly3292 жыл бұрын
@@user-co5vf5ph8p No it is not true. You made a blanket statement about women as a whole. Then you segmented out “mature” women. Do immature people (men and women) exist? Absolutely! Are they this way as a general rule? Absolutely not!
@user-co5vf5ph8p2 жыл бұрын
@@kimberly329 you cannot tell my story. I've lived it. I am the one dealing with them. Women are grown children realize it or not
@aniawalczak1168 Жыл бұрын
Be only around people who welcome you in their lives, who respect you and value you
@LaShawn_Jeanette5 жыл бұрын
“If a man sees you as his dream woman/wife, he will NEVER leave you”😭❤️
@cocobear44292 жыл бұрын
I guess i wasnt it..nothing but his fucken fool
@Goodwillwinoverevil198411 ай бұрын
Guys (like my ex) wanted perfection sadly.
@Juju-tx3bb5 жыл бұрын
I was married but my husband left... I was everything to him but it got to his head and ego.. All the good treatment made him feel as if he could walk all over me
@lillianpitts98535 жыл бұрын
Same happen to me he thought he could do better .Now hes trying his best to come back and I've file for divorce and I'm not looking back .when your nice they think your dumb learn this the hard way never again
@urbanqid96045 жыл бұрын
@Benita Rodriguez It gets annoying trying to keep checking his behavior
@robinhockaday86215 жыл бұрын
My husband left me and died within a year of being gone. Its not a game this thing called marriage. I could go into more but know this if your dating aman and he leaves you you dodged a bullet if married and he leaves its between him and God.
@shiquettawilliams29554 жыл бұрын
@Nia Marie there are some that leave. I've seen it. It usually happens when there's another woman. I know men who left the woman they were married to for 20+ years and have kids.
@mmommo-hx4dx3 жыл бұрын
@@robinhockaday8621 yay
@Apostylicpoet5 жыл бұрын
This is so true! If he sees you as his wife, he won't leave, so you have to leave him! Why? Because you can influence him to change, but you have to know your worth, and be willing to walk away! Staying in a toxic situation is stunting growth on both parts! There are habits and behaviors we must all die to and sometimes it takes walking away for a man to WAKE UP! Be willing to sacrifice and die to your flesh, so God's Spirit can have its way in the both of you! Sometimes we make people our idols, foolishness and all! You deserve better.
@MsJoyce312025 жыл бұрын
Prayer and acceptance works in helping you get through this. Draw boundaries next time. Either you're off or you're on, cut this part-time mess.
@alyssasworld35214 жыл бұрын
Omg!!! My boyfriend left me said he needed time to grow! I told him that doesn’t make sense if you love me you will grow with me through it! And he stated he couldn’t! Look what you said he wouldn’t leave you for that dayum 💯 firmed that for me!
@girlwakeuppodcast46225 жыл бұрын
When he went back into the World the other Women wasn't willing to put up with him so he went back to you. Lord I Hollered
@moriahaddison5 жыл бұрын
Jessie Jay right 😂
@elizabethjones43255 жыл бұрын
I'm with you sis! What a word!
@curli-lettey43195 жыл бұрын
That's usually the case. The other woman know he ain't shyt, she just wanted to have fun, then send him back to the dummy.
That's so true everyone ain't putting up with the bs
@Breannaaa5 жыл бұрын
I don't know if I agree. Men r sad, they can be madly in love with you, know they wanna marry you B U T either intimidated, immature, or all the above. They will leave whether they love u and want u or dont want u. But when GOD is involved it's ORDAINED, if he is obedient and a godly man he will PURSUE you and STAY. God bless
@townsell15705 жыл бұрын
I agree with you
@shay-shaylawnmayfield9205 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@hazoefavela5 жыл бұрын
I agree with you !!!!!!
@cynthiastevens83025 жыл бұрын
Steve Harvey knew he would marry Marjorie but had to walk away n get himself together financially so that he could provide for her.
@victoriousv73495 жыл бұрын
Facts because my estranged husband cheated on me and boom 💥 Gave me the world 🌎 all I never asked for was and is an excellent father to our girls but couldn’t stay out the streets and has he left me no I had to relocate to get away from him now he is in prison and I’m submitting my divorce papers Monday ... so whalllaah lord mercy Jesus god is good because he is fighting it but if god be for me who can be against me I’m out come death 💀 hell high water 💧 or no water 💧 many blessings peace 🙇🏾♀️🙏🏿💜💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿
@Cmtjune55 жыл бұрын
A REAL man won’t leave a woman that’s see a woman being his wife.
@ghisellesimon1625 жыл бұрын
Carmen Thomas a grown boy will though hahaha because he isn’t ready to man up and reach those requirements he would say I’ll come back to that later believe me a grown boy may leave the woman he sees being his wife if he knows she wouldn’t tolerate his stuff if he knows she strong and if she gives him the vibe you can just bounce they know how to play with an not to
@kssofdeath92335 жыл бұрын
How you know what a Real man is when you’ve never been a man that’s opinion thats like me say what a “real women” should never turn their back on their man but y’all do it based off of your emotions
@ghisellesimon1625 жыл бұрын
K S I can say for this woman but I will say a man will back off if you give him the vibes he isn’t wanted I would too and go to the next because a man isn’t gonna sit there and wait for you to see his value either or convince you sime guys run around even when they found there wife because they know like she ain’t gonna take me like this her actions says she is denying me and etc so they go on to the next woman
@Cmtjune55 жыл бұрын
K S like I fuckn said a real man won’t leave a woman that he sees being his wife. Period. I don’t have to be a fuckn man to realize that
@ghisellesimon1625 жыл бұрын
Carmen Thomas ouch periodt sus
@diamondunicorn24214 жыл бұрын
Give a man the same energy he gives you.. it’s not being petty.. it’s called self preservation. He gave you crumbs you gave him crumbs.. at the end , what did you lose? ... Nathan 👏🏽
@CiaobellaAmour5 жыл бұрын
In simpler terms, he’s just NOT that into you 🤷🏽♀️💯💁🏽♀️. A man stays where he truly wants to be & if he leaves,you were an option NOT priority.
@mezmaeyez86135 жыл бұрын
Yaaaaasssssssssss 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I have always said that a man needs to know what he has in me, while he is WITH me. Ain’t no “you don’t know what you got until it’s gone Chief”!!!!!
@Prettyandblessed5 жыл бұрын
This video came right on time !!! Verbal abuse is a real thing. I’m not tolerating that behavior so since, my man can’t understand time to leave.
@ItsKendraP5 жыл бұрын
Just to respond to the title... LET 👏🏾 HIM 👏🏾 GO 👏🏾!
@peggyoneal3255 жыл бұрын
Kendra Alanna, great words of wisdom!
@ItsKendraP5 жыл бұрын
peggy ONeal ❤️
@lynnerene5 жыл бұрын
100% Sis!
@lenah79705 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@galaxyd45484 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@lolag61675 жыл бұрын
Totally broke my heart to have to face the truth of your words... but... picking myself up and moving forward and never looking back is the only way I will begin to heal... it’s hurts but I need to hear the truth in order to let go of hope... thank you
@bornagain4695 жыл бұрын
So true. A lot of times women meet men with a ex wife or baby mama, and the ex always call talking about their past relationship with him. I honestly think if he wanted to be with you, why isn’t he with you? My husband always tells me that a man knows what he wants. A man will never ever leave you if he truly loves you under no circumstances, that is the truth sister’s. Well said Brother.
@aboriginalbeauty85445 жыл бұрын
This is so true. Back in my young and dumb days I use to run behind them to prove my worth. Would jump through hoops and wear myself out so they can notice all that I had to offer. Now I disappear without notice like they do me so I can level up even more for myself and children. Now they mad like I did them dirty, wanna come round and ACT like I should give them all of everything they walked away from back without them proving they deserve it. It's all fun and games until the cat has the gun and the cheat sheet to the games that's being ran! #SuckerFree
@gabrielleelliott73885 жыл бұрын
Preach sis
@mamafylees33445 жыл бұрын
Now I UNDERSTAND why during the two yrs he would do things so I would leave him but I never would; l loved him. He would be the one to walk away then return a few months later and do it again and again. HE KNEW I WAS NOT THE WIFE HE WAS LOOKING FOR but couldn't find it in his heart to tell me. He didn't want to hurt me so he rather that I made the decision...Wow...! Now I can finally come to terms with it. The LIGHTBULB CAME for me. Thank you Mr. Gaskin
@ulricka21315 жыл бұрын
True talk Tony. It is time for us women to know we are the Prize. Our hearts are not on sale.
@Lala-th8in5 жыл бұрын
Hélène Id. I charge sorry not sorry!
@user-co5vf5ph8p2 жыл бұрын
no youre not the prize lady
@Lolita91_13 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony for always being 100 and never sugar coating shit . Also- remember ladies it’s not a reflection of you . Narcissists always think the grass is greener and love having a garage full of supply so stay woke
@jstarzz37805 жыл бұрын
From experience, when you learn to LOVE yourself 1st and you REALIZE who you are you won't put up with his BS and if he leaving I swear he NEEDS TO GO, AND I WOULDN'T DARE stand in the WAYYYY!! Real talk
@san229315 жыл бұрын
Just today I found out my ex went back to a woman who stalked him constantly 6 years or so after we broke up. He has no job, owes child support (huge amt)took me thru a bunch of crap... I got my peace!
@arkisshakey58965 жыл бұрын
Same HERE!!! I FEEL LIKE a whole NEW woman!
@TrinekaClayton5 жыл бұрын
Mr Gaskins, sometimes people are still in a space of being too hurt to truly hear truth. And we've all been there.
@ninaturn44715 жыл бұрын
This is mostly true but definitely told from a male's perspective. Some men also leave because of their own insecurities. He can see you as his wife and want you to have his children.... But if he feels strongly that he cant measure up financially, sexually or emotionally, whatever...he'll get ghost on that ass just as well. He'll leave first to avoid the pain of you potentially leaving him heartbroken.
@imanirhodes31804 жыл бұрын
This is my 2nd time watching this video and it’s still hard to hear but I needed to hear this to remind myself I can’t ever look back. Moving on for good! Thank you Tony!
@bonolosekoai18045 жыл бұрын
The part that hit me is when you said, some women will say my husband left me and he came back and now we are married. That was because you were able to put up with his mess.
@mariab74915 жыл бұрын
Might not be his choice and men don't know what they want....might leave the wrong person and realize it later....this is not cut and dry
@sweetgingerplum74685 жыл бұрын
Oooo Lawdddddddd. ..... when you said the reason a man will leave and come back, was because , another woman was not willing to put up, but you as the woman was waiting , CHILEEEEEE!!!
@iishalanae5 жыл бұрын
Amen to that... I will wait for the right one.. cuz the last one wasnt it.
@jroyal22295 жыл бұрын
carmelcode girl, same here
@tunisiaruth5 жыл бұрын
The wrong one will definitely make you want to wait for sure!
@kaiana30475 жыл бұрын
I won't wait for the right one I will just focus on my self my life and moving on cause only you can be happy alone Woman we don't! Need a Boyfriend or Husband! In order to be happy
@beckyblack34994 жыл бұрын
They usually leave you when there is someone else
@aarzoohuh9272Ай бұрын
@@beckyblack3499 Trueeeeeee!!!!
@monicacousin24945 жыл бұрын
God met for me to come across your video,,,, I've been in an on and off relationship for 23 years. Tony he has left me more times than I can count on two hands. Each time after a year of 6 months later he comes back . My god you have opened my eyes . He left me again 3 months ago without reason or notice....... All I can say is thank you for opening my eyes! 😥💔 God bless you!
@Metaphysicalmindspace7775 жыл бұрын
I love how Tony keeps things honest nd real. Women need to listen to a mans perspective and live in reality.
@kimharris19205 жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping, women need to hear this from a man. Or allow you to leave when you get fed up with the foolishness that ensues. He will straighten up if you are what he wants. Quick fast and in a hurry.
@wandagoncalves30494 жыл бұрын
You have just described my marriage of 32 years. I so thought I wasn't putting up with his nonsense, but, he had the last laugh. He left me like I was nothing, my eyes are so open to what he's been in the relationship. He's a SERIOUS conman. Be on the alert to what is being said in this video ladies, this gentleman is the REAL REAL TRUTH. Young man your so beyond your years, GOD Bless.
@appleofhiseye41125 жыл бұрын
These words from this man are TRUE!! Earlier on in my relationship with my husband, I actually tried to push him away just to see if I was really truly without a doubt the woman that he wanted, and indeed I could not push him away. He wanted me then and wants me even more now!! I love my husband and he is MY person 💙💚💜💙💚💜
@sunray4125 Жыл бұрын
I needed this word cause that Man left me like I was nothing to him! We were engaged and I thought he was my end all be all! I was hurt soooooo bad BUT GOD mended my broken heart and today I’m so grateful God removed him 🙌🏽
@MsLondy966 ай бұрын
I am so sorry. Hope you are doing better sis❤
@belindaroy7625 жыл бұрын
thank you Holy Spirit for speaking through this man
@carmenchapa1 Жыл бұрын
This is ridiculous. I've seen my brotheand male cousins leave women they love and they regret it to this day! Come on, Tony.
@Pray04you5 жыл бұрын
Amen brother! Thank you so much for this message. I was born again in January and have decided to be celibate since. This is also what Jesus was showing me.
@Chevonne84 жыл бұрын
The thing is, I’ve learned men will leave a woman who they love. Every circumstance is different.
@Classic_literature3 жыл бұрын
Why?
@Classic_literature3 жыл бұрын
For instance my boyfriend left me because of my same repetitive mistakes, is it a good excuse?
@trishtrishlee4 жыл бұрын
How refreshing it is to hear a mans perspective. Thanks for sharing your wisdom.