The Type of Men Not Ready For Marriage!

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[@trulyoptimistic3469]

One of my exes told me that he wasn't ready for a relationship, I ended it that day. That was 6 years ago, I heard he is now married. So, he wanted a real relationship, just not with me. It hurt at the time, but it was for the best.

[@thesafespace3137]

@@trulyoptimistic3469 But there’s no telling what kind of bullet you dodged. That could’ve been God’s protection. You don’t know what his wife may be settling for. Don’t take it personal. Just keep leveling up!!!

[@NewLifeJourney24]

​@thesafespace3137 This is true. She may have dodged a bullet. I'm that woman trying to escape my marriage.

[@mesha0932]

This is very true. My ex was temperamental in the beginning and ignored the red flags and thought we could work on it during our marriage. He never acknowledged his anger issues and said I was the cause of all his anger and he’s never cursed people out until he met me. Ladies if you see that your man has anger issues in the beginning, he will only get worse with time and he WILL put his hands on you one day.

[@keitalong870]

And I ended up learning my partner saw DV in the home as a child.... anger and aggression was his norm.

[@olio8226]

My ex said I was the reason why he cursed me out. I ignored the red flags first three months in. God revealed him in a dream and I ignored it all. And the verbal abuse started. Followed my constant apologies. I eventually escaped. Because we were talking marriage. But I was so scared of his anger. I could not even bring myself to visit his apartment. I escaped by the grace of God. Ladies pay attention and do not wait for them to change. It’s not your duty to change an adult.

[@mamat1213]

WOW. I loved someone who was like this, had a whole emo tantrum like Tony displayed and even one day got upset at me (for being too quiet after HE cheated) and started punching the walls, furniture, told me I’m making him crazy and ruining his life etc I was terrified and got OUTTA THERE

[@Key-Key444]

🙏🏾Thank you.

[@madelineasmr926]

I went through a similar situation… and yes, it never changes, and no, to this day when questioned he has zero accountability.

[@jifunzekiingerezanadorothy]

“A man who claims to know God at his big age yet deliberately disobeys God and keeps you in sin is a narcissist” Agreed. That man is an opp.

[@NewLifeJourney24]

That is exactly one of the reasons why I'm running. There is no way you claim to be for God, but constantly disobeying his word on purpose. Thank God for clarity. Narcs are beyond evil!

[@julieotieno5800]

My ex told me his not ready to settle down with me 2yrs in the relationship.I graciously left the relationship and never spoke to him. Fast forward I met a man who made his intentions known from the onset. Ladies be quick to keep it moving when a man tells you he is not ready for marriage/relationship.He will waste your time.

[@1moniqueceleste]

This is for me!!

[@DaintyAbby]

I know this is a serious topic but Tony Comedy hit again 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@IMAN-hc3fz]

Definitely 🤣

[@AlishaAbney-b1r]

The message is much needed , and the humor is bonus 😂😂

[@sarahlutch]

Right?! You working on you thyroid… 😂😭

[@slimfbaby20081]

It’s the subtle shade for me 😂

[@Dr.Elaine1]

“Lil Dummy” gets me every time. 😂

[@DaintyAbby]

Lord.. please protect mister Gaskins.. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@donnajeffreys8252]

In Jesus Mighty Name Amen 🙏🏾

[@n.Lenice]

I may just be old, but hair longer than mines and styled all cute with color, beads, jewels, ribbons, bows, etc, not 1 stud, BUT 2 dangling earrings, face piercings, body piercings, nail polish, man bags, body con track suits more attitude than the littlest little girl and a sassy mouth to back it all up - I can't, I won't, I never will - Thank you God. and that's just what you can see with the eye. ANY man who entertains a back and forth with a woman, quick to argue and will escalate the issue, while calling names, using foul language, etc., is a man, in my opinion, who's struggling with his s3xuality and much more.

[@ishaw9894]

Tony every man you described is my ex in one! 1.Feminine traits, planned full effort dates and family outings 2.liked to argue/ create problems, angry when asked questions about his sexuality 3.up in age, but haven’t been able to progress past engagement in any of his past relationships, serial dater, multiple female friends, wanted everything to be perfect 4. Fake Christian, asking for threesomes and other weird pleasures,made the biggest deal about my shortcomings, always worried about my finances. Ran for the hills.

[@tiaalewis_]

Praying for the safety of all families down in FL right now🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@manoniemoments]

💡”He wants to sleep with you. He wants you to cook for him. He wants you to do whatever. But he’s going to tell you directly that he doesn’t want a relationship. He may act and treat you like he wants a relationship. What that then means is he wants ‘friends with benefits.’ So he wants you to feel like a girlfriend, but technically you’re not his girlfriend. So if you catch him with another woman, or talking to another woman, or sleeping with another woman, you can’t get mad because you’re not his girlfriend. A man will lean on them technicalities and not give you a title for that very reason, so that he can cheat in peace. But it’s not really cheating cause he did not really tell you that you’re his girlfriend… Pay attention to the non-committal man and understand that. And when you understand that pack up and leave. Because you don’t have time to waste…So you can get to the next man who could possibly be your husband.” - Tony Gaskins Jr.💡

[@nzingahoney]

Dear Lord, why tell me now and not twenty years ago.

[@j-tenn226]

This is a whole sermon. I’m ready to comprehend because if you would have told me this in my 20s i would have turned a blind eye

[@GwendolynWinston-qk2ju]

Praying for everyone in the path of Hurricane Milton. May Father in Heaven keep everyone safe, protected, and provided for. In Jesus name. Amen.🙏🏽

[@talltangorgeous4287]

🗣️Tony out here spittin facts keeping us off of our backs ☺️ 2 years and 5 months abstinent

[@IMAN-hc3fz]

That bit about the dad bod is hilarious 😂. I’m talking to a man that is 61, but I was happy to see that he is tall and very built, eats well and we have lot in common. So far, so good. Time will tell… I will see how this goes🤞🏽

[@princettastovall3204]

Praying for EVERYONE in the area🙏🏽

[@marcycane1793]

“That be the gay coming out of em’!” WITNESSED IT!

[@rm5916]

Be safe Tony, God bless you and your family and protect your home from the storm!!

[@Dani_13th]

“I just know them prayers ain’t getting past the ceiling” LOLLLLLLL Tony was on a roll 😂😂😂❤

[@TOSORIO-q8h]

When I worked undercover. I was so disgusted how many supposed to be straight men were prostituting with other men. And the extra sad part was the husbands that was coming for men as well. And when we would tow their vehicles the messed up part they would be like that’s my wife vehicle or the vehicle in my wife/ baby mama/ girlfriend names. And that’s how those women would find out the men was prostituting with men because they would have to be the ones that would pick up their vehicles from impound. That totally made me look at men totally different.

[@PeaceBeStill-]

😳

[@lavernsexton7009]

I thank God that I'm old. This is all too much for me to hear and read😢​@PeaceBeStill-

[@1moniqueceleste]

Wow

[@Key-Key444]

And these men are soooo mean 😪 to NATURAL BORN women. Like why is that????

[@JoJoWhitley]

The cackling man, the over-aggressive “thug” who will be the slowest to act in a real emergency, the low emotional health… Tony really spoke truth on this one ☝🏾

[@PeaceBeStill-]

💯

[@NellyMilligan]

Seriously watching these videos has changed my mindset so much! Ugghhh I wish more people would watch they need it!

[@tarahbruno3793]

Only the wise watch these and let it pour into their soul! I binge watch and listen to these videos all the time.

[@chasidyjoy]

Just wanted to tell Tony how amazing he is. This video is speaking to me directly. We need more like Tony. All this surface stuff is not beneficial to kingdom building. We need the “REAL” men of God to speak truth. We love you Tony and I’m praying that you and your family are protected and covered by the blood.

[@SimoneWmson]

Garganzola beans 🤣🤣 I’ll never miss a video from Tony. Always get a good word and a good laugh

[@aliyahguess8967]

Praying for safety for you and your family during the storm. Thank you so much for this video. I just went through a breakup and needed to hear this reminder. I have been watching you since I was a freshman in college and I am now 27. Thank you for all the knowledge you share with us. It has helped me see so much worth in myself, and choose better quality people in my life to be around. 🙏🏽

[@marcycane1793]

Tony Gaskins is the Godly, down-to-earth, no-nonsense virtual life coach, providing real life examples we never knew we needed! May God bless you and yours always, all ways Sir.❤

[@eringay8965]

Had to run this message back twice!

[@Jazz.Ministry]

I know this isn’t a laughing matter but Tony you are hilarious 😂😂😂😂

[@deborahfranklin9370]

Tony, that laugh though 😆 🤣 😂 😹 great insight!!

[@JessicaFuller-s7r]

He’s describing every man I ever met 😮

[@andreabrown631]

I am a proud platinum subscriber. Please also tell them about the guys who cannot stay out of jail. They acquired an appetite for this when in prison.

[@mesha0932]

Please do an episode about the men who don’t believe in God, the ones who lie about it and the ones who openly admit they don’t believe. These men are the true Narcissists foreal. The worst men to date and marry.

[@andreabrown631]

I'd rather a man who is a believer but doesn't run to the church everything the door opens. Man who are very , very deep into the church usually are bisexual.

[@kia.203]

What you said at 37:28 is so true. My friend guy BM recently put hands on him. He did not hit her back. Thank God. He said to me " and she want marriage. Im not marrying her, especially after this". They live together, but i sense it put a bad taste in his mouth, and impacted him. Also , i remember Creflo said " the most dangerous man, is a man who cannot control his emotions ". That stuck with me, and even now, i think about that everytime something or someone upsets me! Learning to control your emotions, has been powerful.

[@sabrinav9379]

That laugh was crazyyyyyy 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Mya_Millie99]

The laugh took me out!!! LMAO

[@virtuousbthe1]

Tony is sooooo Funny 😂😂 I’m getting help & a laugh!! God is good ❤ tell me the truth.. it hurts but I’m healing & happy 🎉 Tony said “He clocking the blikie 19 times” 😂😂 took me out 😭

[@ketakool11]

Listen, yall..what he just about men having multiple long relationships... RUN!!!!!! I just left one ... run!!!! I began to see why they left him ,everything that shine is not gold.. that man, took me threw utterl hell!!!!😮

[@hpadams7361]

😂🤣😂🤣 Not a life vest🦺 and a jet ski!!! 😂😂😂 Tony, you got me rollin' over here. But seriously, please keep you and your family safe. I hope as many people as possible make it through the coming storm.

[@Tati4rmKali]

lol 😂Tony talking about these male podcasters got me spitting out my water 😭😭

[@IMAN-hc3fz]

@@Tati4rmKali 🤣

[@proudblackwoman4824]

Tony be speaking truth AND making us laugh at the same time! I cracked up at 23:25- LOL! This is so dope, we appreciate you brother!

[@Carolina480]

He’s so right ladies listen listen so much wisdom about men it’s all true

[@Alyssa-y2e]

I had to watch this in sections. It was ALOT….Tony is on pointtttt

[@District4LAONpointInform-tx2bv]

WE ARE WIRED FOR LOVE ❤😊

[@thesafespace3137]

I know you’re serious but this was hilarious 😂😂😂 “knocked me out the Holy Spirit flow” I’m over here screamingggg😂😂😂😂

[@alexisforteza_]

This video has some gems but the gift of laughter that Tony incorporates into these videos is truly a talent! Great words as always!

[@monicaivy2497]

Praying for you, your family and everyone in Florida.

[@Twister_numba24]

I know you are ruffling some feathers talking about "Barry!"😩🤣

[@kimhilliardwellnesscoach]

Thank you for the raw truth! Even though I have to check myself when I have been involved in some of the situations you warn us about, I know I’m in a good place when I can laugh at the message! That part about men laughing is hilarious but at the same time I will be looking out for it! 😂Appreciate your ministry ! 🙏🏽

[@thebarbieinvestor5428]

51:43 😂😂😂 Not knocked out the Holy Spirit flow 😂😂😂😂

[@HAR-HollyARandle]

Thanks Mr. Gaskins!!! This was right on time and notes 📝 have most definitely been taken!!! I pray you and your family are safe in FL 🙏🏾

[@aubreysellssofl]

Prayers for all those who will affected by Hurricane Milton. 🙏🏽

[@TreasureTeresa]

Thank you Tony! Not looking for a husband yet… but great info for future. Hope You and your family are safe from hurricane❤🙏🏽

[@donnajeffreys8252]

There is a nonfiction book by J.L. King titled,On The Down low , it's about men who sleep with other men including himself. I couldn't put that book down 👀 📚 ❗ It's WORTH buying it ladies ♀️ we need to learn as much as we can to protect ourselves ‼️

[@brie5414]

On Amazon buying it now

[@donnajeffreys8252]

@@brie5414 you won't be disappointed

[@thebarbieinvestor5428]

Just the thought makes my stomach hurt 😢😢

[@Twister_numba24]

Tony demonstrating the guy putting in the clip in 🔫95 times had me in tears😂😅

[@soblessed2176]

Good morning Tony; Praying for you and your family in the eye of the storm~🙏🏽~Thank you for the message~Stay Safe & God Bless*🙏🏽

[@cynthiadarkins4704]

Tony is correct. Seeking for the next treasure.😮

[@kimberlybarksdale1579]

TG: Nothing but the Truth💯

[@TimelesssSpacess-jw9xf]

Reminds me of the song “Bill” by Peggy Scott-Adams. “How can a woman compete with a man for another man…” 😔

[@TrishaBurris]

The man on the yellow couch and the man at the Table got that Laugh 😂😂

[@rahkiperry4647]

Thank you Tony! This is insightful, informative, and funny. I listen to this while I’m at work and sometimes my coworkers be asking me what I’m listening to when i burst out laughing (not obnoxiously).. God bless you & your family ❤

[@lilpinkbubbles6592]

Men know right away if they want to marry you.

[@JadeW1111]

In contrast to previous generations, there are more women who want to get married than ever before, or is their natural desire to have a husband/family now claimed to be desperation? (due to the lack of value in relationship in this age)

[@ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven]

There is alsp the entitlement that because theyve accomplished everything they were told to accomplish, so now they feel like its another thing off the list.

[@JadeW1111]

@@ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven Not quite...Its womens nature. We are able to obtain more financially but at our core most value family/marriage

[@yy.unlimited]

The fake man of God, "...they so perfect but they yet so flawed and so imperfect...and they want to be perfect in the areas of their strengths but they want excuses to be imperfect in the areas of their weakness" 🎯

[@nicnelson9393]

those that are new here, please listen to this man words, pay close attention to what he said about the single men, being BAD BUILT, DAD BODY single man, the reference to the guts, these men have convinced themselves that they are the GIFT, without the HEIGHT or the BODY... and run around talking about women arent Shish.... SIR maybe its because you are not attractive enough to get the women you desire with low effort. in all things you have to know what level you are at? LOL, Tony said they aught to be PAYING a female to even deal with them exclusively, if a man is not over 6 feet tall, over 6 figures salary, and has kids from any relationship, he is in the same AVERAGE boat with all the women he claims dont qualify for him.

[@AmericanDreamer]

spot on

[@sarah-janepryce821]

Yes this is so true ❤️

[@AliceWashington-wv5gz]

I am definitely not jumping of the bridge for anyone/ anything in this world. It's definitely not worth absolutely nothing..

[@Nasrumii]

Absolutely NOTHING. 😂😂

[@Carolina480]

The non commited man yuo ask him as soon as yuo start dating i ask the first date if they say they are not serious interested in serious relationship i move i run and I block because they are cry sneaky to tell yuo give time i don’t waste my time because i did before to think he was going to change his mind he never he wasted my time no more im doing that

[@angelalynn4225]

😂😂😂😂😂😂You right about that Laugh. I went on a date man laughing like this .Totally turn off😂

[@suburbanmomma9093]

Hope you guys stay safe

[@Sublimefireflyy]

Just keep your legs closed if you see all these things mentioned. Point blank PERIOD like Tony always says, gone about your business. Don’t play wifey, EVER. You will be wasting your precious time on a fruitless journey.

[@andreabrown631]

Finally , someone is saying what I have been screaming from the rooftops.

[@TrishaBurris]

Prayers for your 🙏🏾Family ,Patiently waiting on your update from the hurricane.

[@Ugandanprincessankoleprincess]

Watching from uganda and am really learning alot from you. God' bless you 🙏

[@lenebrantley221]

Cold Pursuit is the movie with Liam Neeson.

[@kingdomseeds]

I knew you were talking about that pastor before you said his name

[@Bretanaa]

The nasty movies carry the spirit of perversion. So I understand how it could pervert a man to like other men.

[@GodDogPassport]

That laugh impression sounds like that horrible laugh track over Facebook reels. I’d run from that crazy kackle too 🏃🏻‍♀️

[@OdisParkerIII]

Be Safe Out There My Brother.... My Brother Just Flew To In To Avoid The Storm....Praying For You Doc 💯💪🏽🙏🏽

[@sheilahamilton7586]

Tony, it is amazing to me how you are so on point with the information that you give about your Subjects!! About 6 months ago, I experienced a man who claimed to be a (man of God) Christian, and was trying to date me. He said that he wanted to marry a woman like me (and I am a woman of God), but I did not fall for the WOLF in SHEEP'S clothing. And he was exactly how you described a feminine man, who I believe is an undercover homosexual. The Lord gave me the wisdom to discern this man's spirit. He has very feminine ways, and the Lord literally told me to STAY AWAY from him, and I obeyed God!!! I am definitely abstinent, and also, I never kissed this man either, because I did not want him to think that he had a chance with me at all.

[@BlancaRosa79]

Walking in tombstone, something like that lol

[@ketakool11]

They're really messy..gay men smh

[@HypnotizMindZ]

Not my prayers not getting past the ceiling!😂😂😂

[@GwendolynWinston-qk2ju]

Very powerful message today; 1:01:57 min and sec long, but well worth the watch!

[@TinaP-xl8dz]

Always keepin it 💯 thank you!!!!

[@lilchance1286]

I didn’t know that you were a fellow Floridian.

[@renettaburley6620]

Prayer for the ones who affected by hurricane Milton🙏🏾

[@veneitaknight]

God bless you Tony 🙏 great teaching. Thanks for the video up here in Sanford, FL with storm Milton singing loud can't sleep. Yep those men do be feeding lust 😅 cheers and blessings 🙌

[@kay_gold]

The movie you’re referring to is “Ran all night”

[@SS_ChicagoLady]

everytime you say Nasty Movies🤣🤣 But I hear you!!

[@married2purpose]

47:00 & 58:00 My ex to a T.... dodged a bullet. So glad we didn't get married. Tony don't miss 💯

[@taliciaedmunds]

Sounds like the majority of men like men 😮

[@rodnishalinet]

Not the laugh Tony 😂😂😂

[@queenkeesh8660]

We got wait two years get to know a man don’t rush to be married check out him in all areas of life got it

[@patriciaali2532]

Hi Tony This is such a serious topic.. I mean to add this to my frist Hi Tony. I thank God i notice this Spirit on my son at a early age... While growing up my six children in the way off the Lord JESUS CHRIST.. To make a long story short...Thank God.. Today my son is delivered and set free from that Spirit..In JESUS. Name...

[@AmericanDreamer]

how was he delivered? at what age and how long time did it take?

[@ThePinkLinkPodcast]

Tony always great information and hilarious at the same time 😂

[@lorettawhite2790]

Its the laugh for me,😂😂😂😂😂

[@AshleyDixon-mw8rj]

When he talk about that yellow couch its funny because we all know who and what Tony is talking about lol

[@MsChristianr]

Prayers for the Gaskins family. Holy spirit help this prayer get pass the ceiling lol. No but seriously hope you and yours are safe

[@dannaaaaa344]

As a 23 year old who has been with her first since 19 I can confirm that “some” men at that age know better but never do better. Now since they now better the same way the Bible says is you know your sinning it’s a sin, then they know what they are doing as well. However they will proceed to run game anyway. Some men at the age are mature in a “way” to want a family and even start it young yet, want their lil fun on the sides even though they know it’s wrong

[@Mstwanii]

Listen don’t pray fo’ Me 😂😂😂😂

[@queenro3032]

The laugh 😂😂😂

[@Gdenise]

So sad saw this spirit on Pastor MT From the jump a few years ago.