If by Rudyard Kipling - Read by Sir Michael Caine

[@timacoata7456]

My dad, gave this poem to me for my 12th birthday . I wasn’t to thrilled being 12 getting a poem on a plaque, but it was from my dad who I looked up to. Seven months later he was killed in Vietnam on his second tour. After I was told by my mom I cried till I couldn’t cry anymore and walked to my drawer removed the poem from its box and put it on my wall . I’ve never taken it down and have tried to live up to those words . Thanks dad.

[@yesterdayitrained]

I am so sorry- your father was truly a loving man.

[@freebird7017]

More father in 12 years than others have in a lifetime. Sorry for your loss. 😔

[@lisas2538]

I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad. He sounds like a good man. What a sweet story. Thank you for sharing.

[@timacoata7456]

@@lisas2538 thank you . He was a tough guy with a good heart . I think he new his profession, at the time, was literally minute by minute. I believe he wanted leave me a guidebook in case he wouldn’t be there to finish the task of raising me . This poem covers just about all we need to know to do what’s right in life. Thanks for your post 🇺🇸

[@TheUneducatedTeacher]

My condolences. KM Hemmans The KZbinr

[@marywalker9423]

My dear mother had a copy of this poem framed for my son when he was in grammer school. Today, he is almost 60 years old and the poem is hanging in his office. My mother was a wise woman. This poem is wonderful.

[@dorothysmith7731]

My sixth grade teacher, Mr. Burke, made the whole class memorize this poem. 55 years later I can still recite it. Knowing these words has gotten me through life, even though I am a woman.

[@janndoe3718]

I think that in him having made you commit this wisdom to memory, he gave so much more of a true education, the most students receive in 12 years and most of tertiary education. A shout out to your teacher and others like him.

[@palashbhaumik42069]

No, you're a man

[@alomaalber6514]

Best human advice, ever.

[@diosadelrawk]

Poem applies of the human experience

[@nitiKT]

This about how a human should be.. not only a man..

[@benridge6570]

Words to navigate by.. I just turned 70, I am blessed to be healthy and strong., With a loving family. Remember when you fall down to get up. Never never give up..

[@Raptorsified]

Thanks old timer. We will try our best to take care of the world you have left us

[@robbiereilly]

I love how Kipling calls triumph and disaster 'impostors'. Just brilliant.

[@FlyingNinga17]

incredible poem, really inspires people

[@kjrollings]

Sus

[@nitasheehan2704]

I love that line.

[@nitasheehan2704]

I love every line of that great poem.

[@lonelydogclub]

It is through the guidance of stoicism you shall reach your full potential

[@davidwilliams6249]

Michael Caine is my favourite actor. This is my father’s favourite poem. I read it at his funeral. He is my favourite father.

[@jonathanmather3431]

Shout-out, David. My father had an old framed printing of this poem, I'm guessing from his father, and now I have it. Sir Caine is a great favorite of mine as well . Very easy for the scurry and dust of the day to deny pondering or mentioning the invisible points that comprise one"a higher character.

[@veganvocalist4782]

@@jonathanmather3431 you have a wonderful way with words and guessing you are a writer yourself 😊

[@jonathanmather3431]

Suspecting a keen intuition behind that " guessing " my friend, and yes, words have a way with me.

[@davidwilliams6249]

@@jonathanmather3431 thank you. My father had an old poetry book given to him by his father that contained this poem. I was allowed to take it to school in first grade. Unfortunately it went missing from my school bag. I think someone probably took it. I know my father would have been upset due to the sentimental value of the book, but he never showed it. A few years ago I came across a similar copy that was over 100 years old by then, and was able to give it to my father. Not the same sentimental value, but I hope it brought back some nice memories for him.

[@timlawrence5734]

favourite father? how many fathers you have? curiously asking. no hate sir.

[@STB-jh7od]

Fact he wrote this to his son who died is truly inspiring.

[@nickpeitchev7763]

If you read about it he was the reason his son died. Terrible human, but incredible poet!

[@MudlangenTango]

​@@nickpeitchev7763I pity you, for you will never know nor understand.

[@nickpeitchev7763]

@MudlangenTango do your research first then comment

[@MudlangenTango]

@@nickpeitchev7763 Research? I have a lifetime of research, this is my opinion. I know better than to try to dissuade you, we are quite different you and I, and nothing short of a major existential crisis will convince you otherwise.

[@nickpeitchev7763]

@@MudlangenTango no I mean do your research on Rudyard Kipling and his life and his relationship with his son because you don't know what you're talking about

[@johncavedo3706]

My Dad, born in 1911, told me of this poem when I was about 16. He carried it on a small piece of paper folded in his wallet. I found it when he died in 1986 and have kept it. I shared with my two sons when they were in their late teens and next week, at my only grandson’s wedding, I’ll share it with him. I’ve tried to live up to the words, but have faltered from time to time. But, it’s still my resolve to be the man described.

[@asianbandit4054]

May your grandson pass this wisdom down to his son, and his son and his son. My your line be long and good fortune to all your descendants who bear this legacy your father started.

[@margaretnenaholguin6330]

Awesome

[@johnnywalker8815]

Your words are beautiful friend.​@@asianbandit4054

[@thepixalking6589]

Well done, my sir. You carry the European heritage with you!

[@catherinew9815]

Some of the most powerful words ever penned. Encouragement, challenge and wisdom in every line. We will all face that time when the things we have fought for are broken and all we have are the worn out tools to fix them. What faith and determination is required to begin again

[@TheWizardOfTheFens]

My grandma (who raised me from age three) gave me a copy of this on August 12th 1975 - the day I joined the army. I carried it with me for seventeen years. I still have it, although it is now in eight pieces from regular opening. Listening to this has made me cry but it has also brought hundreds of memories flooding back.

[@MamaBearCarter]

Wow. Reading that your Grandmother gave this poem to you the day you joined the Army was powerful. Made my eyes tear up! That's beautiful! Isn't it wonderful how beautiful souls like your Grandmother always knew what we would need later in life, fending for ourselves in this cruel and evil world? That's why I ALWAYS try my best to listen to our Elders when they speak because they seem to know what to do and say for MOST life situations. I miss the Elders in my community...

[@suev3339]

My grandmother gave me my copy on a card for my high school graduation in 1968. I framed it and it’s like a plaque on my wall every place I’ve lived. I also had to memorize it in my 5th grade class. I hated memorizing poetry, tho three years later it became my guide to maturity as a woman.

[@Tascountrygirl]

My mother's beloved sisters ran an Australian Cub Scout pack for many years. They greatly loved Rudyard Kipling's stories and philosophies and did their best to give their cub pack members all the experiences that would help make them men including camps where they learned bushcraft and independence skills. At their funerals decades and decades later, the halls were filled with the men who had been their cubs.

[@brendamichaelides3817]

My dad lived by this poem. He taught my sisters and I to the same. I still tear up when I hear it … miss you dad 😢

[@timothydraper3687]

I only have my Dad around now, somehow there's a stillness to fathers if we're lucky, a reassuring presence. I'm sure you've absorbed a lot of your own's wisdom without realising it, if he was the kind to teach you this poem.

[@cleocatra9324]

It applies to anyone male or feminine

[@tombryan1]

If you can listen and not tear up

[@iansingsiansings2101]

​@@tombryan1 and Gunga Din

[@Donna-cc1kt]

Bless your father

[@catherinemillsart6641]

When I was in Uni, I met a lovely young man who loved this poem, and read/quoted it all the time. He was shot by his step father 2 years after I met him, in fact 5 members of his family were killed on that terrible day. Only one of his brothers survived. I think of him often, and wonder, and I keep this poem close, and read it often. I always remember Craig when I hear these words. Thank you for a beautiful reading.

[@peternorton367]

I wrote this poem out for my niece and changed the last line to read “ “you’ll be a woman , hon!””

[@catherinemillsart6641]

@@peternorton367 truer words…

[@peternicholsonu6090]

Oh Katherine how have you coped? I too met such a girl nearly 50yrs ago. We became one to my total amazement. I actually experienced what you dream of. 5 years ago next month she was given 3 months to live. Like you I have never met her equal. Not during our 44yrs together nor since. I have often been comforted by words like “oh Peter..she’s looking down on you each day”.....that is no comfort at all. For she would see my pain along with our four children. She clearly stated throughout her life that she had no wish to be an angel but preferred to just be “asleep” until the day when “the meek shall possess the earth and live forever on it.” We are tenants on this planet and have all but ruined it. Karen would say “the owner will soon clear out the bad tenants and we shall walk together again through fields “of grain covering the mountains “ where “the bear will dwell beside the lamb” “and they will build houses and dwell in them.” That was her joy in life and I share that with her.

[@janehale9725]

God bless you

[@earthangel8730]

Holy shit, what an awful story! It kinda wrecked this whole experience for me. Thanks.

[@CFLsurfr]

His rendition changed "If you can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds distance run, yours is the Earth and everything that's it it, and which is more, you'll be a man my son" to forty seconds and I like it. Because reality is you're going to fall. There will be hard times for all of us, in various ways and manners throughout our life. Just do your best.

[@rasmus5341]

English is not my mother tongue, so this specific part; "If you can fill the unforgiving minute, with sixty seconds worth of distance run" What does that mean?

[@CFLsurfr]

@@rasmus5341 I think it means to not waste your time.

[@RobShortonGooglePlus]

It means “don’t stop.” An unforgiving minute contains sixty seconds. If you were working all that time at something, then you’ve filled that minute with sixty seconds worth of distance run.

[@darrylbuckett5380]

I'm glad that Michael's dad read this poem to him, so that one day he could read it to me. Cheers

[@AlexanderMoen]

for a split second I was like, "whoa, is this actually Michael Caine's son posting?" And, then I realized he just read it to me too.

[@Praise___YaH]

Guys, HERE is The Savior HalleluYAH translates “Praise ye YaH” YaH is The Heavenly Father YaH is Who Created “Man (Adam)” YaH arrives via the TENT OF MEETING YaH was Who they Crucified for the sins OF “Man” ** NO female involved WHATSOEVER ** - Hebrew Book of Isaiah Isaiah 42:8 "I am YaH; that is my Name! I will not yield my glory to another or my praise to idols. Isaiah 43:11 I, I am YAH, and there is no other Savior but Me. Isaiah 45:5 I am YaH, and there is none else.

[@iordeebeat]

One of the greatest poems read by such a man does not need the typical images and music of countless so-called motivational videos. Just the voice and facial expressions of Sir Michael Caine reading this gem.

[@jamesewanchook2276]

yes just poem not the symphony please!

[@janeyfitzgerald8031]

Yes!

[@mykee2727]

Agree

[@tonialastere8173]

Couldn’t agree more 👏👏

[@garethm54]

Omg, YES! The music absolutely ruined the whole experience for me 😢

[@nigelcarren]

Personally, I wish this video had simply stayed with Sir Michael orating this. The cutaways to all the usual Instagramesque clipart do not serve to bolster these strong words but only serve to distract. Especially as I am sure Sir Michael was looking right down the lens! That said, whilst I see this as an opportunity missed, I thank you for reminding me of such excellent writing. 🏆🇬🇧

[@22448824]

I was thinking the same thing myself. The imagery just distracted from the words.

[@molubajo]

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[@09nob]

Agreed there's so much uneccesary cheese inserted into things these days.

[@mooshuguy5141]

I kept waiting for that woman to trip over her dress and fall over the side

[@mcbain1969]

IF only people could make videos where great voices or inspirational speeches weren't obscured by some inspirational music blaring. As if the original words weren't good enough. I always had the same problem with several versions of Charlie Chaplin's amazing speech from the end of The Great Dictator.

[@mellularphone]

When you have *Michael Caine* reading this masterpiece, you don’t cover it in crappy b-roll. Especially at the very end- the most heart-warming part! You gotta show his reaction! Like, WHAT. I love this channel, I do, so it’s hard for for me to say this and I feel really bad… but as a director myself I am truly mortified! I think you should repost this for sure with just Kaine!

[@frankstephenson8634]

Caine.

[@mattborman5780]

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[@mlb5525]

@@mattborman5780 Thanks Matt for the link to the much preferred version of Sir Michael Caine reading of this epic poem.

[@C.Abbenfield]

Very true. Its utterly inappropriate and distracting. The music also is over the top for me, like the poem couldnt move people enough on its on.

[@mattborman5780]

@@mlb5525 my pleasure - thanks for the idea. Didn’t know what I was missing until your comment. Take care

[@AK-jt7kh]

I’m a 32 year old woman who grew up hearing this poem (among others) from my mom, and now it hits me hard. I know it wasn’t designed for my sex, but I just opened a business early this year before my dad was hospitalized and my uncle was diagnosed with a terminal illness. I divide my time between my business, my father (who is back home and thriving), and my 95 yr old grandmother (who is struggling with the grief of losing her son), and listening this poem reminds me why I’m setting my own needs aside for the success of my family…people I love who did so much for me, and now need me to do as much as I can for them too. It means a lot to me. I hope I can live up to the standards of this poem.

[@akhilpremk]

I think it applies to everyone regardless of gender. Glad you found inspiration in it.

[@adolfovillanueva262]

You're wrong, it's was written for you and your sex, as much as for all us, human beings. Living to the standards of the poem is not about results, is about trying to do, you're well covering it. Kudos for you.

[@youtubeuserandchef471]

Alfred lord Tennyson William Shakespeare cool too

[@johncarroll5087]

Pray for GOD'S guidance and wisdom for the task at hand.

[@jajupa78]

You got this

[@willwillis5186]

When I was a small child, 75 years ago, my father gave me a framed copy of this poem. He read it to me until I was able to read it for myself. It has had a profound effect on my life!

[@philmccrevis4493]

Your father sounds like a great man.

[@VBni]

Ur comment made me cry my friend. The same poem is hung in a frame on a wall where my Father passed in my Mummy's house on a main road in Belfast Northern Ireland. We lost him almost 5 years ago, this poem reminds me of him so much... I feel so blessed and touched, that I share this poem with others... thank u Sir

[@ekeretteekanem]

@@VBni 👨‍❤️‍👨

[@linadimitriadou2947]

@@ekeretteekanem just is i read this ....i crying....i feeling much thinks.💓💓💓💓💓👏💐😂.im creek

[@ekeretteekanem]

@@linadimitriadou2947 find courage. Much love from here!✊🏼

[@Jen999]

So beautifully done .. this was my dear husband's favorite poem .. he had it by heart .. he recited it to me just before he died .. and three months before his own beautiful son was born ., I cannot hear this achingly beautiful poem without crying .. Jen999💙

[@lindaseel9986]

Oh my heart breaks for you. 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

[@Jen999]

@@lindaseel9986 Thank you for your kind words.. they mean so much to me .. when you lose someone you dearly love .. and do not want to live without,. Somehow the love they leave behind keeps you going .. for me .. that love was our precious son .. Jen999💙

[@glennhosick1514]

Dearest jen999 I to for a long time Have absolutely loved...&...adored this beautifully scripted poem. **if** by Mr Rudyard Kipling. As your husband also surely did. .. I'm so sorry/saddened By your loss jen. within both your husbands life..&..love. I know from your words! The son you both gifted to life is the illuminating inspiration of both your loves..&..life shared together!! .&. Will help you advance forward Through your darkest hours. On your journey with he by your side. .&. The love... memories..laughter.. Adventures shared. Locked within your ❤..&..soul!! Will gift you a Strength..&..courage from the universe jen.

[@Jen999]

@@glennhosick1514 Thank you for the comfort of your kind words.. so gratefully appreciated by me they are.. and our son.. the very picture of his father.. has been the balm of comfort you said he would be.. thank you for caring .. and for sharing your kindness with us🙏🦋 Jen999💙

[@glennhosick1514]

@@Jen999 Upon listening once more to this beautiful poem..&...reading your thoughts jen999. Your words simply🤗 hugged my ❤ My reply was to envolope within the same back to you jen999. ..

[@frankjones2225]

I am 50 years old man and i have lost more things in life than i have gained. I have dusted myself off and lifted myself from the ground when i have fallen. I have fought hard and lost a many of a fight and fought with love and vigor for those in the end who never loved me but still i tried to be the best i could be and i hold these words close to my heart. As all we have in this world in the end is our integrity and that love for those ones who love us. Be kind to others.Be understanding and dont let those fools out there divide us or take away who we are. life is hard but can be wonderful in a moment. it can change in a second..a moment ..all things strife to change so hold firm stand tall. love you all.❤

[@TioAe]

Beautiful and wise words Mr. Frank. Thank you.

[@wichitarick]

Was going to respond ,then actually re-read it and you did use the word "Integrity" :) IF You have found this or are even making efforts to live within the definition then you have found much more than many many others ever achieve . :) A lot of my own poems come from this or my own realization that life even a hard one does not have become some over bearing weight, and yes stand stall but know you have to flexible , constantly adjusting,I often make the reference of standing of walking into the wind,it increases and decreases THEN you have to return and "it" is now blowing against you trying to blow you down,do you make it home? even after being blown down many times,personally I also see this like I made it home AND with a big smile on my face:) "PEACE TAKES PRACTICE" Rick

[@frankjones2225]

@@wichitarick Thank you for your words. I cherish my bad times aswell.. it is all learning either way.🍀

[@24Mossberg]

Integrity...first and always. God bless America.

[@frankjones2225]

@@24Mossberg God bless USA 🍀👍

[@tonybolstad9514]

"If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster, And treat those two impostors just the same" Wow, what a line. Sums up life in a sentence, really 😅

[@jaomwtoptd]

My favourite line in the hole poem. I'm 70, I've learnt to achieve this most of the time.

[@Praise___YaH]

Guys, HERE is The Savior HalleluYAH translates “Praise ye YaH” YaH is The Heavenly Father YaH is Who Created “Man (Adam)” YaH arrives via the TENT OF MEETING YaH was Who they Crucified for the sins OF “Man” ** NO female involved WHATSOEVER ** - Hebrew Book of Isaiah Isaiah 42:8 "I am YaH; that is my Name! I will not yield my glory to another or my praise to idols. Isaiah 43:11 I, I am YAH, and there is no other Savior but Me. Isaiah 45:5 I am YaH, and there is none else.

[@Hocksman]

Inscribed on a wall in Wimbledon, just above their heads, before the players walk out to Centre Court.

[@piesho]

I have no idea what that means. Triumph and disaster are two different things, why would I treat them as the same?

[@jaomwtoptd]

Can you read? It says treat them in the same manner. Shit Happens but so does Magic. Accept them equally.

[@TieDef]

"Watch the things you gave your life for broken, and stoop and build them up with worn out tools." If you cry at that line, you're not alone.

[@cockeyedoptimista]

I think of my dad and cry for him.. Hang in there, though. Beautiful/sad comment.

[@pricklypear7516]

This was my dad's favorite poem. I teared up a bit when I read it, as a tribute to him, to my own teenaged son. But I really had a hard time holding it together when, having finished it, he said, "Mom, by this criteria, you're the only man I know."

[@cockeyedoptimista]

@@pricklypear7516 I love that!

[@nitasheehan2704]

Another favorite line of mine.

[@Narc_Hunter]

Been there!

[@colinmerritt7645]

When I was young and first encountered 'If,' I didn't quite know what Kipling was trying to say. I could sense a subtext, an overarching theme I couldn't quite see. Now, at 53, I get it. Thank yoy, Kipling.

[@naturalPaths]

Tears for my late son. This so describes him.

[@blastermaster7261]

May he rest in peace, my condolences.

[@PADS62]

I'm so sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace.

[@Yharam1066]

I lost my father when I was 11 and my mother shortly after. Following the next few years, other close member of my family would also pass on. By the time I turned 18, I still had no idea what it meant to be a man and to be honest with you, I still don't know. I've gone back and listen to this throughout those years and words cannot describe the wisdom, the connection this work makes me feel to my father. This reminds me of the best of him, as well as to keep trudging on. Thank you Mr. Cain, you may never read this, but from the bottom of my heart, Thank you for making me remember the best of him and to keep inventing myself.

[@cockeyedoptimista]

What a beautiful comment you have posted. You're brave and I'm glad you were able to find comfort and guidance from this poem: amazing. It's a great poem. Your parents must have raised you well in the short time that they had. I hope you are blessed with many good things; take care.

[@davidmaheengun2672]

Your comment is heartfelt and very respectful ... you do them proud.

[@onthemoney7237]

I was blessed to have my father for sixty years but its never long enough sorry for your loss at such a early age be strong and continue to share your strength . We shall all meet again though Jesus Christ our Lord !

[@joseperez1085]

God bless!

[@Russell_Rieckenberg]

I have never contemplated what it means to be a man. I spend my time contemplating what it means to be human and humane. I can't think of any masculine values that would not be useful for a woman to cultivate, nor any feminine values that would be useless for a man to cultivate.

[@AlexWilliams-qf3rp]

Sir Michael Caine's voice alone would have sufficed.

[@lukenorth2014]

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[@2handsomeforlaw]

Could not agree more!

[@meditationrelaxingpeaceful5632]

Right❤️❤️

[@borjastick]

Or Richard Burton. He would have been electrifying.

[@AlexWilliams-qf3rp]

@@borjastick oh yes most definitely...making me nostalgic for the true masters

[@christalbot9574]

This hung on the wall of my family home growing up. My parents are now gone, but it hangs on my wall still - and my two sons walk past it every day.

[@paulscousedownie]

When I was young special forces soldier doing selection I remember the poem outside the regimental office. I stood and slowly read it, it really inspired me to give life my every all and never worry about triumph or disaster. Now I’m nearly 71 and still try and live up to that wonderful poem about being a man!

[@Ahkran1980]

Courage is really needed to stand by this poem a life time. So cheers!

[@JorgeGarcia-jw4ld]

Thank you for your service.

[@Bella-gj6wc]

Thanks for your courage against great odds. You could teach young errr men a thing or two about what it means to be a MAN! ❤️

[@jonellhaney7162]

It's an honor and a privilege to read about the thoughts and perspectives of people who have endured some of the hardest undertakings life can throw at you. Thank You for your service!

[@majorhavik395]

What Jonell said above. Honor & privilege. Thank you for your service.

[@barry4140]

This poem speaks volumes.I wish every father could pass it onto their sons.

[@jasonbarnhart7382]

I will !!!!!

[@Donna-cc1kt]

Amen

[@ritacampbell1262]

Tell them

[@murrayreed2881]

Yes I agree; But give them an example to follow, show how it is done.Love has many forms, a covert wink between a man and one who wan'ts to be one, is one of lifes joys.To be found wanting in there opinion makes you think about your decisions, and to quote my Dad "pull my sock's up".They will allways love you, it's the choices you make that give them the willies.

[@Sorchia56]

My father gave me, his 17 yr old baby girl, a beautiful little book when I left to start my career with the government and military. It was this poem in his handwriting. He had the entire thing weather-proofed and as damage proof as possible done by a book binding company. I’m 52 and still carry it with me everyday.

[@dewok2706]

"career with the government and military" How pathetic. Those words clearly did not do much.

[@charlie-obrien]

That is quite a gift. He thought highly of you and your potential. When my daughter joined the Navy 10 years ago I gave her a compass inscribed with, "Cast your fates to the winds..." which is my life motto. I believe your father and myself had a similar vision in mind for our children.

[@webtoedman]

@@dewok2706 Nothing pathetic about public service, sonny.

[@Buurma]

@@dewok2706huh

[@ljeames295]

That's pretty cool❤

[@IleneTruitt]

My mother read me this poem when I was a little girl. It has always stayed with me it is my favorite. She changed the end to "you will be a woman, my daughter"

[@MiguelMedV]

Great mother. Congratulations, lady, you're very fortunate 😁💪🏼🌟...

[@IleneTruitt]

@MiguelMedV Thank you. Mama was a very wise woman. I thank God for her and Daddy.

[@huelu982]

And did she know it’s the sme child 🥲🙏

[@deifor]

"Triumph and Disaster, those two impostors". How true.

[@pilotactor777]

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[@Renukamarley]

🎯

[@stuyzf3996]

When I left primary school at age 11, my teacher gave us a copy of this poem. I still have it 45 years later. Thank you Mr Arnold.

[@janndoe3718]

Kudos Mr Arnold. Please pass it on to your children and grandchildren.

[@edsmith438]

For those that don't know this was intended, or written for, his son. A few years later an entire generation of Europe's best and brightest lay dead on her battlefields. Young Kipling was among them.

[@Chegles1]

@@acbulgin2 Sadly you may be right.

[@cockeyedoptimista]

@@acbulgin2 Wars will certainly happen again; they're going on right now. But mankind may eventually evolve. We have learned many things. South Africa made incredible strides for humanity with its Truth avd Reconciliation Commission. Etc, sorry, no time.

[@helenhucker346]

I think I am right in saying that young John Kipling was excused service due to his very poor eyesight but he enlisted anyway. He was killed in the trenches by a single shot to the jaw from a German sniper.

[@cockeyedoptimista]

@@helenhucker346 Interesting story.

[@eglin32]

It wasn't only Europe's best and brightest llying dead on battlefields. That damned European war was finished by men from overseas at huge cost. Never forget.

[@HugoHackenbush-jq7hl]

My favourite poem. My father gave this poem, handwritten by him, when I was eight years old and asked me to learn it for him. I spent all weekend memorising it, so that I could make my father proud of me. Only to be told on that Monday my dad had been killed. That was fifty-six years ago. I hadn't heard it in a good while, and upon listening to Sir Michael read it aloud [way better than I could] I felt the tears well up and then inevitably tumble down. I'm still a work in progress.

[@DanFan2042]

We're all a work in progress, no?

[@HugoHackenbush-jq7hl]

@@DanFan2042 We certainly are my friend.

[@dlsands]

My Grade 8 teacher Mr. Edwicker had the whole class memorize this poem and recite it to him. We discussed it in class and to this day I have never forgotten that lesson or poem and it's meanings. Thank you Rudyard Kipling for writing and Mr. Edwicker for believing in the power of the words to make an entire grade 8 class memorize.

[@prestonross6942]

Great teacher! Need more Mr. Edwicker's now than ever! That lesson will be more instrumental is some young man's life, than anything being taught today!

[@davidm1149]

Today he'd probably be arrested for sharing intelligent literature with students.

[@marbleman52]

@@davidm1149 And he would be branded as a "Racist" for trying to inspire ALL students to become a good and well rounded person and not be a "victim" of the Marxism ideology of destroying all identity and self worth in a person.

[@shawncarrell9101]

That’s awesome. We did the Jabberwocky. 😂

[@Retired_Gentleman]

I used this poem in my language class every year I taught the subject. It is a profound life lesson.

[@VinaySingh-tn5ct]

This poem was framed and hung in the cabin of every cadet in the National Defence Academy at Khadakvasla, in India. One still gets goosebumps hearing it. Especially the last line. You will be a man, my son.

[@avamasquerade]

Case in point.

[@darrylkoehn-ec8mk]

My father also put this poem on my bedroom wall. I've read this many times, and it always rings true. Now my father is long gone and I'm in the twilight of my life this poem is still pertinent and rings true!

[@chrishealey9303]

beautiful

[@beeblebrox82]

I'll bet you shared it with others, too. Send them a message, Darryl. People are desperate for a little word of encouragement lately, and are stressed and scared. They'd probably be thrilled to hear from you just out of the blue. Your twilight is needed and precious ❤

[@rowley1950]

such a beautiful poem. Such wise words and amazing advice. And, of course, recited by the best, Sir Michael Caine.

[@brucethomson9923]

My Dad was a frustrated poet and artist. When I was 10 he read this poem to me on my Birthday. and when I was 11, and 12, and 13... yup - right through to 17, when I left home to earn a living... I'm a Professor now. Thanks dad. Thanks, Rudyard!

[@Cyannah117]

Kipling was way ahead of his time. Words we can still live by.

[@Spur-li7ec]

He wrote down old, old wisdom, that was still more present when he was alive than it is today.

[@thethefts1741]

Most of the things said in the poem have been regurgitated for thousands of years in different forms of writings. I guess in modern times our motives have changed to get better things. Through reading literature, I believe in old times it was more common to find motives to strive to become a better person first, than to strive for better things. Times have changed. Rudyard Kipling did write a masterpiece.

[@PLegalrep]

God I needed that poem today, more than any other day in my life.

[@peternicholsonu6090]

Pocholo you said 6 months ago “ God I needed that prayer today, more than any other day in my life”... that was so touching. Have you got past that day? It is common to say “God” when we are stressed....OMG is used in Australia a lot. If we speak to Him to thank Him for a beautiful day or delicious fruit, He most likely will answer your urgent calling to Him like you did 6 moths ago.

[@RomanvonUngernSternbergnrmfvus]

You could also hear big smoke quote this poem in gta San Andreas, but from some random guy on internet who’s had everything go to shit, I hope things got better 9 months later.

[@YolandaSmith-s6d]

Beautiful! Thank you for sharing.

[@rossmeldrum3346]

When I was 12 in 1966, my 6th grade teacher required my entire class to memorize this poem. It has been something I have always remembered when times get tough.

[@michaelrobert3566]

Hi

[@0liver243]

@@michaelrobert3566 hello michael

[@jackjohnhameld6401]

I wanted to see Caine's eyes as he was reading Britain's favourite poem: When you have Sir Michael Caine reading, you don't need these distracting images. Just Caine's voice, Kipling's genius.

[@generalbarry]

Exactly! And we're not here to hear the piano, especially not so loud that we can barely hear the reader! Stop trying to be Cecil B. DeMille. You're not.

[@URAFANNY]

This was read at my Grandpa's funeral, most amazing man who touched my life without doubt. I wish I could be half the man he was, loved and adored by many, especially me. I have this poem he used to have hung up on his office wall.

[@winter1rose551]

We read it at my dad's funeral. All through my childhood, even when I was a little, little girl, my dad would randomly pull this up and read it to me.

[@zetapoetry]

"If you can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds' worth of distance run," is the original line by Kipling. This makes more sense than 40 seconds, as a minute has 60 seconds. In any case, Caine's performance is brilliant and masterful, hats off!

[@ryandolan1148]

Correct!

[@OneTheSane]

Literally staring at a painting of it and saying wait that doesn't make sense

[@silessence936]

Is a person not entitled to some rest and reflection? I like the '40 seconds' version more for this reason. Your hard work is worth something. And so is your reflection upon that work, which also takes time.

[@brianbetz7030]

No, it wasn't masterful. A great voice and a wonderful delivery do not remove a terrible mistake on the last and most important statement of a great poem.. And shame on the director for not catching it and the producer for letting it go to air.

[@lynnlavy2992]

I found this poem in my 20's. It was inspiring to me then and now. I did not think of anyone when I read the poem, not a future son, or my father. It was wisdom for me and I am female. It gave me strength.

[@ottoklarn2014]

It did not give you strength. It merely showed you the strength you already have. More power to you.

[@yashagar4443]

I read in my tenth grade boards 10 yrs later I finally get what it means

[@edis9869]

@@yashagar4443 same dude, same

[@LETTYONLY1]

Makes me cry - the most beautiful use of language in one poem!

[@tulangkerangka1599]

I am a woman and this poem is my motto word from word

[@FigaroHey]

Word for word. (Why would you take words from it?)

[@thafunktapus]

I got chills. Caine is the man.

[@briantoblerone9625]

I got emotional watching this.... Probably at the lowest part of my life I came across this poem on a poster rack. I bought it and put it on the wall of my basement apartment. It gave me clarity. Almost 35 years later, I still have that poster tucked away in the closet of my house and has been a calming notion when ever life gets me a little down.

[@sarahperkins6391]

Our 5th grade teacher had us all memorize this back around 1996. Also one by Edgar Guest called 'Somebody said that it couldn't be done.' I loved that lady. Rest well in heaven Miss Shaw.

[@chudo__yudo]

Thank you for mention Edgar Guest poem!

[@troyhartley9681]

I don't think the music added anything. I would have preferred to simply hear Sir Michael recite it. It doesn't need a backing track.

[@jeffhildreth9244]

Turn the sound off and read the captions.

[@troyhartley9681]

@@jeffhildreth9244 If you could show me how to turn off the music and leave Sir Michael's lovely voice only, that would be great.

[@jeffhildreth9244]

@@troyhartley9681 I wish I knew how. I enjoy Sir Michael's voice also.

[@mvann5]

Not only music distracting but the images. I closed my eyes trying to concentrate on the words.

[@jeffhildreth9244]

@@mvann5 Agreed.

[@jolinarcze]

it is my opinion, that there is literally no rendition better in conveying the importance of the words, than this one, by Sir Michael Caine...

[@lyndabrown811]

My father gave me, his daughter, this poem when I was 10 back in 1964. It's still framed and hanging on my wall. Love this version.

[@stirlingmoss4621]

your sister???

[@lightbringer8060]

My mother gave this to me framed on my 11th birthday. I've strived and fallen short at times.over the years I became the man worthy of it. I will never forget why she introduced me to it.

[@MusicismoreImportant]

I love Psalm of life from usa

[@harlan33401]

This poem is heard with deeper meaning now compared to when I was a boy. You have to get this into your DNA and live from it's truth.

[@sicsempertyrannisvi4107]

basically every 10 yrs you realize you didnt really know all that much

[@blahblah1438]

True.

[@Bruce15485]

So true. When I was around 12 years old I was give "If" in a photo frame which hung on my bedroom wall. I did not get it until many years later. I wished I was a more mature 12 year old.

[@davidmaheengun2672]

This was my father's favourite poem and his moral compass. He was the quintessential gentleman and could recite this from memory. I miss you, dad!

[@beverlyfleming6352]

🌹

[@littleredhairedgirlsteph3922]

My dad's, too! He loved to recite it. ❤

[@jerseygurlinmaryland]

I’m reading this at my father’s funeral. His favorite poem.

[@romiemiller7876]

My dad bought me a small booklet if "If" when I was in high school. that was over 50 years ago, and it's still my favorite also.

[@fionaphillips3458]

An enduring favourite and it speaks to me as a female, some things are borderless, boundless, genderless and eternal.

[@bdickinson6751]

I agree Fiona, the message is applicable to anyone. Words to live by.

[@SceneStealer1]

…interesting this came across my timeline at this moment. I recited this in high school. I’m struggling with a depressive episode. “ And so hold on when there is nothing in you except the will which says to them ‘Hold on!’” really hits different right now.

[@nonyab5640]

Me too. Just at that one point when all you can do is hold on, ride it out without causing damage is all you can do during the storm.

[@wallacewallace4801]

I don't mean ANY offense by this; however, I said a prayer for you - that you would ask Jesus to be your friend, your father, and your rock. I'm so sorry you are in a deeply depressed season. Years ago, I went through a hopelessly negative time, as well. It's extremely scary experiencing every day full of dread. I'm not sure how or why I survived. Anyway, I simply wanted to share that I said a prayer for you 💌

[@SceneStealer1]

@@wallacewallace4801 Thank you for the prayer, it is greatly appreciated. 💚

[@ersheri]

I’m so sorry to hear this. I trust this will soon pass but please do not ever feel ashamed to reach out for help.

[@wallacewallace4801]

@@SceneStealer1 ❤❤❤ please know my prayers for you continue. You have not been forgotten 🙂🥰

[@saintpaulsnail]

This brought a lump to my throat and tears to my eyes. Kipling and Caine, what a divine combination.

[@garyodle5663]

I first heard this in 2002 when I was 50 years old. Changed my life.

[@pilotactor777]

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[@davismarthin451]

Hello Gary hope you’re having a wonderful day?

[@nylabo]

This poem was a complete description of my father. If you could sum up a human being in words, “If” would be my father. A good, honest, kind, decent, honorable, gentle man. Growing up my Mom had my brother memorize it to recite to Dad for his birthday and I read it at his grave. I miss him every day.

[@irisespindola2868]

You are blessed to have had a father like that.

[@margarethakloots5287]

I didn't grow up here and have not heard this poem before right now. I know the writer's name, Kipling is famous world wide! Your comments motivated me to also read the transcript on my phone. I want to say I completely understand your raving reviews. The poem is wonderful, warm, and uplifting! Thanks for guiding my attention to it!

[@daisy2186]

It is my favorite poem also. I learned it in the seventh grade and at 68 still remember it. I also give a copy to my grandkids as they graduate from high school.

[@josephstevens9888]

I learned "If" by Kipling in 7th Grade as well!

[@mikesaunders4775]

Americans learning Kipling ! well I never.

[@paulharris5528]

I’m 63 and could write the same story, it’s a remarkable piece, will never age. Good day to you sir

[@thecarradioandarongtong4631]

I love how Mr Caine has changed the last part from "60 seconds" to "40 seconds" ! This poem is the north star for any man ! Respects

[@nicktorr7888]

I like it with 60 seconds

[@mikegike7273]

Dad was NEVER around when growing up...(Thank God ). As a daddy to 3 fantastic daughters and grandfather of 3 girls and a boy, I can't wait to read this poem to them. It sure could have helped knowing this poem growing up in the late 60's-early 70's....Stay safe, and please be kind.

[@fromthepeanutgallery1084]

If your dad was NEVER around you can forgive him ...

[@Porsche996driver]

Reminds me of scripture: Exalt yourself and be humbled. Humble yourself and be exalted.

[@Renukamarley]

❤

[@dawnatkinson7704]

My dad, who passed away 6 months ago, gave me several Kipling books and this poem was one of his favourites. It's touching to read other stories of people whose Dad introduced them to Kipling too 😊

[@aliholgate9442]

I'm so sorry for your loss....x

[@kelleyjones2285]

My dad loved Kipling, especially Gunga Din. He was always at one time or another quoting it.

[@GreenSushiPanda]

wow. this never spoke to me more. ty sir michael caine and mr rudyard kipling. :)

[@clownworldtimes6434]

My father who grew up in post World War II London living in the Churchill Gardens council estate, gave me a framed copy of this masterpiece. Listening to it just now brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for posting it.

[@GregWard118]

This is read out by my eldest brother at my mothers funeral, and I listen to Everytime I think of her

[@edithbannerman4]

@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?

[@heidipomeroy5605]

This poem is timeless. The virtues spoken of are not just limited to "a man", but to human kind.

[@FirstNameLastName-ug7rp]

Ooohhhh we got a feminist here that doesn't understand that MANkind , AND MAN means human. When MAN stepped on the moon. We knew what it meant and what it means. Quit being stupid.

[@maralynfarber2068]

I appreciate your comment.

[@Mach13NYC]

You will never understand the meaning and gravity of being a Man.

[@SuperGuanine]

@@FirstNameLastName-ug7rp Hi - I think you could be more aware of your language. It's unkind to call someone stupid. Also, feminism is a movement and was a hard fight for women in the U.S, and most of the women on the Earth suffer and are treated inhumanely.

[@bushwitch]

"If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools," Even in these comments. Keep speaking your truth.

[@GrowthPathways88]

"The path to greatness is paved with the stones of imperfection. Walk it boldly."

[@fernandoestebanzunigaandra8088]

My grand father, read this poem to me, when i was only 11 years old, in spanish, and i never forget it. And now, i listen it again, in english, by Sir Michael Caine, and still amazes me, how usefull has been to me, cause as a lawyer, in my proffesion i have many moments of doubt and weakness, and yet, this old poem by Rudyard Kipling, always came to my mind, in my late grandfather´s voice. This poem should be mandatory for all young males generations. It´s a gift from the XIX century england, for the centuries to come...,in every single languaje, always remember the last line : "... y entonces, hijo mío, un hombre serás". =) .

[@XhristinaMacey]

Beautiful

[@vladhorf]

He estado tratando de traducilo al español justamente INTENTANDO mantener la cadencia y las rimas entre los parrafos, si puedes escribir la version k tienes en español seria increible!

[@DexxBlue]

Fernandes...... You Are a MAN My son

[@freeroamer9146]

A wonderful piece of literature! Today's world is in dire need of strong men!

[@benjamindover7399]

No, not yet. The people are still too fat. There is still too much food on the table and everything one needs is easily obtained. When your ribs show through your shirt, and a crying child is starving in your arms, that's when the real men will stand up.

[@anne-zh2kd]

@@benjamindover7399 jeez I can just imagine you at parties. Don't eat kids! You must starve so daddy can show how much of a MAN he is. In fact let's move to the desert so I can really show you how much of a MAN I am. Suffering is not a chance to show your manhood, that is the most selfish bullshit I have ever read

[@hungrymusicwolf]

"Yours is the earth and everything that's in it, and - which is more- you'll be a man, my son!" - this last part is a lesson many people have forgotten: if given the choice between the world with everything that's in it and your spirit, choose the latter for it is worth more.

[@vjab1108]

This should be read out loud in the House of Commons everyday.

[@sharonpowell1969]

I am a woman and when I was a young child I loved this poem To me it meant growing up and trying to be a successful human being. I loved this writing.

[@beverlyfleming6352]

🌹

[@sallyweiner4180]

I’m a woman and my dad gave this poem to me to be a strong person. My favorite poem

[@blyxx7450]

My mother read this to me as a child. I read it to my boys, couldn't get through it without crying.

[@ShaneGilson-q3m]

Thank you Michael Cain. Much appreciated. I Agape you sir Very much God Bless

[@darwincabutihan7885]

I suddenly missed my father after listening to this poem. God this is so powerful

[@blue-neutrino]

Indeed... I even cried. Take care.

[@TheKhaosDemon]

I miss my father so much. He’s been gone 20 years, more than double my current age... and I haven’t gone a single day without thinking about him. God I wish I had my father.

[@SadiesOwner]

you will meet again someday, in a better place

[@jablanguado7738]

You are young. Thereby, words may fall on deaf ears. Although he isn't here by flesh and bone. Although you miss and wish he was here. Don't let the reminiscence of the past - Hold you back from becoming the person he would've wanted you to become. For if you fail to be who you are meant to be... The one you disappoint most is not yourself, but your father. He may now be on the sidelines, but he is cheering louder than any other for you, and what he wishes so desperately is that you could hear. When you've disappointed yourself, know that there's always someone not disappointed in you, who knows that growth can only come from true joy and true pain. When you feel that you've failed yourself, know that there's always someone who believes in you. Will you come to your father and tell him of your successes and failures? Or will you come to your father and tell him of your failures and successes? The choice is yours.

[@MrPGC137]

He & Sean Connery both were terrific in Kipling's story "The Man Who Would Be King." Great film, highly-recommended.

[@markharrisllb]

Weirdly the only film two of the closest friends in film history made together.

[@Army4Runner]

Excellent film!

[@MrPGC137]

@@markharrisllb Yeah, they reportedly got along just great off-camera as well as on. Probably one of the few such times in movie-history where this happened. (You compare that to nowadays, where one "star" or another on a movie throws a hissy-fit if their co-stars gets more lines than they do or if they feel they got upstaged or something. Then they immediately get on the phone with their agent...)

[@Mr-Quick-321]

A favorite film

[@09nob]

I love that film.

[@esmereldajassen4550]

Love this poem - eyes are filled with tears of joy ❤ I listen to it over and over! I'm kindly overlooking the 20 seconds 😊

[@jimsullivan2818]

I can not believe I never heard this until yesterday, my birthday. I am 53 and my father (87) and I were by ourselves sitting in the back yard listening to the birds sing, recited it from memory. It was auspicious timing!

[@christopherwelford8401]

I knew I shouldn't click on this....my fav actor reading one of my fav poems and then reading the huge amount of powerful, important, sad messages.....😢 beautiful

[@deejustdee4752]

I love hearing Michael Caine's voice. It is so soothing and calming. He is a true artist.

[@hildatyburczy8221]

I gave this poem to my grandson when he turned 21 years old! I printed it and put it in the birthday card I gave him! It was my way of telling him that everything would be okay! He had had a very difficult time making friends in HS and also not a good relationship with his father! He’s my first grandchild and we have a special relationship even now that he’s 31 years old…..❤

[@NanNan-vd4hk]

You and your grandson forever granted a tight bond of respect and trust for each other

[@albertperrin694]

I have always loved Kipling. I received his writings as a kid and have read them many times. The books are worn out but still readable. Kipling was asked to write “The Ritual of the Calling of an Engineer” in 1925. This ritual and the provision of the iron or steel rings are in one ceremony for new graduates while holding onto a steel chain. As far as I know this is only in Canada. It was a special event for me and I have the Ritual framed.

[@johneveridge3714]

I was given this poem by my father at the age of 8. I'm 57 and still trying. It's a wonderful poem and inspirational. But impossible in reality. I believe that's part of the premise of the poem. No-one can fulfill this story but it is one a beautiful piece of literature on how to be a Man.

[@pilotactor777]

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[@burtonlee22]

Remembering my Dad, Frank Freeman Lee, who also read this wonderful Kipling poem to me when I was a boy, and then asked me to memorize it. This remains one of my most intimate wonderful memories of Dad and me together. Will always catch me in my heart. Thank you Dad. I love and miss you every day.

[@georgecostopoulos2862]

Tears in my eyes from the joy of listening to this long forgotten poem....

[@mareikedregger1513]

A beautiful poem about stoicism - so beautiful and for some men or women are a worthwhile goal to strive for, but not for me: My temperament and passion about people or situations and sometimes even about things is too strong. So I observe and admire from afar with a certain longing but never a full grasp of that stoicism.

[@diegozimmerman8261]

I admire your honesty. You have majesty that is , indeed, rare. To SHARE it is courageous and to be commended. While it is my goal to achieve the poems goal (still trying) I find the journey (so far) extremely rewarding. As it is the first of the year, after so much has happened, I ask you to really try to make the goal. The rest of us need your Presence in thought, conversation, conscience. To many have been silent too long. Thank you.

[@bigpapaboomboom9735]

Smart to stay away

[@nathaneyring4858]

This statement does have a degree of stoicism to it. An acceptance of what you are as opposed to perhaps you want to be. Being willing to be who you are within your capabilities instead of wastefully driving towards a goal you'll never reach. You might never live up to a stoic ideal, but it seems you are living closer to a life stoicism would say you should have by recognizing that the life stoicism preaches is not the one you will have.

[@elizabethlinsay9193]

It will come to you one day.

[@matthewpawelski767]

Agree with you, sir. We are not all born to rule - which this poem is likely about. So much life and career advice is likewise written for those seeking apparently indeterminate advancement. Yet, we are not all like that. I wish I could be motivated by a drive for money, power and success. But alas - I just can't... I am motivated by meaning. Accepting that and allowing this to blossom has ultimately resulted in me providing well for my family. I have beautiful children and wife, but alas I cannot relate to the desire to 'risk all I have earned' or to have the whole world at my feet, and that is fine. Children today and of previous generations are relentlessly told that they must strive for improvement, advancement and financial success... there is merit in sitting, watching and thinking too.

[@aishaMa_]

I remember about 5 years back, I was in middle school, and I chose this poem to perform for the Dubai Opera that year. Brings back a lot of memories

[@joannedifrancesco4555]

This has always been one of my favorite poems, and hearing it spoken by Michael Caine just elevated it for me. Thank you!

[@FleetwoodCaddy59]

I wrote this poem in my sons baby book 21 years ago.How lovely to hear it from one of his favorite actors. I can’t wait to send it to him 💝

[@anitadingman2018]

I found, among my grandfather's things, a framed copy of this poem and loved it. There also was a framed copy of another poem with it. The name of that poem was Thinking by Walter Wintle. This poem moved me even more than If (maybe because I am a woman). I had two girls with Cystic Fibrosis and I had them memorize Thinking because I thought it might help them through life. I guess I was right because, when my youngest daughter made me a copy in her calligraphy, she wrote me a note on the back of the poem. She wrote: Dearest Mom, You taught me to memorize this poem as a child it has brought me through difficult times. It has shaped my attitude all thru my life. I love you. She fought a good fight and lived a lot longer than her sister but she still died too young.

[@kdogg2077]

It’s wonderful that you passed along such beautiful things to your daughters.

[@TheJhale2011]

I have always loved this poem and I am a woman too. The part that got to me most was the last part. From If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue...to the end. It is seared into my brain. I too have a daughter with Cystic Fibrosis. This is one of the poems I shared with her. Sorry for your loss. I know the battle. She made her father a mug that said, Thanks for reaching me to be a man, even though I'm your daughter.

[@crowdedcrow3098]

Thank you for sharing this... I've never heard of Walter Wintle or "Thinking" and I'm going to look it up directly after I leave this response. I find what you wrote here to be a tender and poignant record of the profound effect a mother can have on her daughter when she is a wise and generous teacher.

[@joycehine9957]

@@crowdedcrow3098 Walter winkle

[@squamish4244]

@@TheJhale2011 Will your daughter get the miracle drug?