if grindr conversations happened in real life

What would happen if the creepers and eager beavers of Grindr came out from behind their screens and had the balls to say to your face what they say online? What would happen if grindr conversations happened in real life?
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[@ConorODwyer]

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[@reuterromain1054]

Actually i did like your video. All the best for your future career.

[@ConorODwyer]

@@reuterromain1054 thank you!

[@marcoals4893]

Nice😅

[@garrythesnail1900]

The conversations on that app is like “ what’s ur preference “, “ u top or bottom” , “ send your hole”, “ do u have room “ and that’s it. That’s literally it .

[@ConorODwyer]

legit 😂

[@musical_hola7703]

Yeah

[@romeostonem6798]

i actually get conversations there maybe its because im from europe , maybe america is diferent

[@andrewreviewschannel883]

Sure is

[@cristoferchanimak]

Yes. And “host or travel?” And “sorry no asians.”

[@marcosv.5113]

The fact that both guys always looks identical just adds a layer more of reality for me

[@nunyabiznes33]

Heard the Mexicans call them "mariclones"

[@philzmusic8098]

They're both played by the same actor.

[@crazy_noisy_bizzare_t0wn396]

When he said they both had 2 sisters and 1 brother I was fully expecting him to be like "Aww, I have a dog to-. . . wait BROTHER IS THAT YOU??"

[@ConorODwyer]

Oh god hahaha plot twist

[@EdneiMonteiroO]

I was expecting a fake person...

[@Maeniel83]

@@EdneiMonteiroO me too, was expecting something like: aww... that's actually _my_ dog. :D

[@catchatt]

SAME ME TOO

[@rickfromhell]

The faceless guy was way too real, and I lost it. Every anonymous dude on Grindr should watch this and see how they actually come across.

[@Ken15643]

Well, I mean it's Grindr. What did you expect, romance?

[@ConorODwyer]

A boy can dream! x)

[@iuriena]

yes

[@guntherstewart8941]

Exactly

[@SaiIorman]

Well, the problem is ... it's not only on grindr... but on every gay meeting app actually ^^° Same for Romeo The video miss one case... the one who has so many thing in common, like and enjoy you and next day disappear cause he found a better guy lol... Or they blocked you without any reasons... Oh and the fake profile too...

[@rickfromhell]

Have you heard most girl’s complaints about Tinder? It’s on every dating app regardless of the sexual preference they cater to. It shouldn’t be unreasonable to expect that people play by normal societal rules, even when looking for casual sex. The problem with Grindr is the assumption that everyone is looking for sex, and with the only requirement being willing participation. It also normalizes literal harassment when we learn to simply expect and accept this behavior.

[@aciec777]

Them: “Hey” “Hi” “Hello???” “It looks small anyways, blocked” *3 minutes later* “what’s up”

[@ThatJay283]

3:14 I thought he would go "wait that's my dog..."

[@ConorODwyer]

Imagine 😂

[@robertbeining141]

Brilliant! So glad you gave us the opportunity to see the massive humor in what is the app Grindr. Explains why I deleted that waste of time app a long time ago. Stay Strong, Be Well, Keep The Humor Rolling! Great work!

[@ConorODwyer]

This is such a lovely comment to read, thank you! :)

[@siddharthsid1540]

I am gay too and I wanna know do you have a partner ? If not then how do you meet people then ???

[@jonathandominico7420]

If your looking for a serious long term relationship, don't trust people in grindr. I should know. I have been ghosted so many times here.

[@andrewlittle4488]

On point, so on point......🙈.....I can’t even.. would not think to....just pissing myself laughing at how ‘on point’ this is! The Internet murdered romance, and from this GRNDR was born 😅😅😅

[@christopherpericolosi-king4979]

Well done lad! This is why I refuse to do grindr! I can pick up perfectly good creeps at the bar! 😂😂

[@ConorODwyer]

😂

[@bluestrife28]

This is so chillingly disturbingly accurate, wow 😂❤

[@gotzsiedler4217]

The second guy seems nice

[@ConorODwyer]

😂

[@jordans.v.5850]

Missed the “masc x masc” and turns out the zestiest person you’ve ever seen

[@unigenius]

THE OLDER GUY!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAAH

[@aworysse]

Really accurate! :D I guess it still proves to be the best decision to delete all those profiles permanently. I have to bump into someone at the library, then. 🤷‍♂

[@ConorODwyer]

The dream!

[@kevinnguyen5042]

Omg so true! Lol the awkward of those conversations 😂😂😂 exactly what I got and how I felt on Grindr

[@annafilou]

This was all so uncomfortable haha

[@Haferkoko]

I thought the last one would lead to randomly being ghosted/blocked in the morning

[@Nikos777Music]

When someone blocks me for absolutely no reasons, i will keep thinking of it for one hour and be totally obsessed and crazy about it and also feel sad and i hate that i can't get over it lol.

[@jasperquinnzelblack3488]

As someone who just reinstalled grinder this speaks to my soul

[@TexadaIslandRocks]

Blocked (& reported) 😂😂

[@MicaRayan]

This is entirely correct..

[@Dingeman_]

I was like: the last one is to wholesome never happened to me. But then the twist came 😂

[@Artorikus]

OMG are they the same in every country then? In Italy they are pretty much the same.

[@jasona8608]

This is spot on !

[@Corvid8317]

I legit checked my notifications a few times lol

[@ConorODwyer]

hahaha

[@Occaecare]

Am I only one having normal conversations and meeting sane people on Grindr (or any other app)? 🤣🤣

[@ConorODwyer]

Yes! 😂

[@Occaecare]

@@ConorODwyer woohoo 🎉🥳

[@petehoffs8804]

Please I'm still waiting for my sustained conversation

[@ConorODwyer]

😂

[@onepiecethinktank788]

This is too real 😂😃

[@roninsans2436]

I can't have any conversations on that app it feels illegal to even do so

[@mj28inpa]

BAHAHHAHA 100% accurate!

[@mj28inpa]

ROFL THE END!!!! 😂

[@psyque89]

Don't forget that basic users only own 10 blockings every 24 hours!!

[@ConorODwyer]

Really?!?! 😂😂

[@psyque89]

@@ConorODwyer 😜

[@SzivesNaplo]

I think other apps are the same 🤣 It doesn't matter if it's straight or gay

[@Badalamenti]

Wow, I am so early here. Congratulation to you for your acting skills.

[@alivingtree]

and then theres those wholesome unicorn profiles of actually wanting to find friends and real dates, showing that there are indeed SOME people on there with a personality and a brain at least

[@ericgrant12]

Any conversation with “loads” in it….

[@ranjitsreeram]

I don't think you block them😝

[@carlfairbanks3337]

Damn it was deadly hahahahaha

[@ConorODwyer]

Thanks!

[@mostafas792]

If we just choose bottom option whole world want to use us that's disgusting.

[@joshgutierrez7380]

I got scared instantly

[@AntJoseph_]

so true lol

[@Dime9764]

Honestly first time I used Grindr the only person I texted ended up being my husband I know it’s hard to believe but it’s true 😂

[@Keeganstromm]

0:50 is literally every interaction i have ever had on that app 😭 ppl are SOOOO persistent lol

[@filipevieira7165]

You forgot to add “Sugar daddy here, want to be my sugar baby?”

[@ConorODwyer]

That’s the idea of the slicked back hair man! ☺️

[@guardianjuan]

you forgot the, "you're too short bye".... oh that's only me :(

[@rickfromhell]

You sir have a very nice body. Those guys are crazy to pass you up.

[@madmaxjor94]

To accurate

[@ceemikew]

lol I've had these conversations

[@criticalvibes6375]

Yes, there are creeps, but it takes a certain level of narcissism to make a show of it. Grindr sucks, everyone knows it.

[@pokeaholic123]

Really, from my experience they usually just show half naked pics or pics of their junk

[@musical_hola7703]

I love this 😂♥️

[@ConorODwyer]

thank you!

[@marciothesinger]

omg i knew what it is going to be...and I hated every minute of it. in a good way, cause its really like this irl.

[@rolandherbert7105]

I hate massage ones💀

[@Dastormcoming]

Sad but true

[@prashanttiwari752]

Hahahah really the universal truth

[@tasosdouros3393]

Grindr: The Movie 🍿🎥

[@ConorODwyer]

🎬

[@dayswithoutcrying3033]

I hope lesbian dating apps aren't gonna be too much like that 😭

[@FemboyKaiSaku]

probably way better, its usually men that are weird like this in dms

[@dayswithoutcrying3033]

@@FemboyKaiSaku That's good to hear

[@AxelNyden]

Deletes app 😂😂😂 Why I still have it is a mystery.

[@nikaswords17]

I’m a straight girl and still know that wherever you are in the world, most grindr conversations start with ‘t,b,v?’ 😅

[@brumman100]

So so true , worst app in the world , glad they banned me for no reason

[@ConorODwyer]

😂

[@khalidhaniff2106]

So good! lmao

[@chulee1992]

I just love how these types of creeps are all over the world no matter where you open grindr.

[@mauidon]

True

[@SuperExtrovert]

🥵🥵🥵🥵

[@juliomaster5215]

Do you really love that?

[@harisfadlipasaribu2477]

lol so true. i live in Indonesia and had encountered them all (on Grindr, of course).

[@eliwoodnguyen1505]

Yes Yes it is

[@cristoferchanimak]

I was expecting the last scene to be a ghosting scene lol

[@myingsama6970]

same

[@Mr26muel]

Same, it was my experience I fell in love with the guy after 4 dates and then nothing.

[@t_sizzler_2032]

@@Mr26muel SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME OMGGG

[@Poscarable]

I thought he was himself because he stole his pics

[@darksev.6468]

I got so scared when he mentioned the dog 💀

[@willoux_]

dont forget the ones that spill all their life problems after 3 messages and definitely just need to see a therapist

[@ConorODwyer]

Hahahaha

[@Jack-zc9ml]

I feel so called out lol💀

[@The_Black_Caps]

😂​@@Jack-zc9ml

[@magnarcreed3801]

Honestly as a bisexual woman I prefer that. Like let me know if you got trauma so I can not set it off or if it’s something where I know we won’t work.

[@mannygecko9596]

@@magnarcreed3801Thnk you for saying that 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I am gay male and in my experience of living on this hellhole we call earth for 44 years I will say it’s a very toxic community whether on an app or in real life. Especially for those with trauma and mental health issues. If I could open my brain and remove my attraction to men I would. Jaded yes, misanthropic yes, untrustworthy yes. I am all those things but not because I woke up one day and said oh I want to be these things. After years and years of the same behaviors the same outcomes the same disappointment, the same mistreatment, who’s to blame. Me? Or the humans who created this way of being? I have given up all hope in finding anyone even just a friend that can hold space for me in any capacity. I’m sure if I were half naked and showing my body and privates off then they’ll be interested. But I’m aware I’m the problem. Hi, it’s me.

[@CT7845]

The fact that you changed outfits, appeared naked, changed scenery, all for this skit. I appreciate that you took the time for the production of it all. 😊 On a different note, I guess I will be definitely staying away from Grindr. 😌

[@augustking9007]

It's the same person through out the video?

[@Muv54]

Playing these characters a little too well😉

[@ConorODwyer]

Far too many experiences to draw from 😜

[@robinlagelius]

Sometimes I just scream at the phone: "why aren't you normal!?"

[@martine.l.9415]

Haha exactly

[@badgermcbadgerson3230]

I was speaking to one guy a few months back and we were both keen. But this was during UK lockdown and we had no idea when that would end, so it fizzled out. Shame because I had really good vibes about him.

[@robinlagelius]

@@badgermcbadgerson3230 at least we're starting to open up again, hang in there! ♥️

[@moamoaoz]

You are using Grindr. A gay hook up app. What would you expect?

[@marcososa1986]

don’t lie, you don’t block them 😂

[@rickyc.7695]

LMFAOOO😭💀🤚🏽

[@shawsays3258]

Height of accuracy lol

[@crispri3919]

Hey sometimes even you got to give it up and drop it down for a creep

[@BaNNDoG25]

I actually do 😝

[@beyond12021]

Bwahaha XD

[@kitcobb6046]

You missed the “Sugar Daddy looking” one, but overall pretty accurate from what I’ve seen XD

[@mooniemuk]

There’s more looking for sugar daddy tbh

[@zombies4evadude24]

@@mooniemuk but all you get is scammed out of your time or wallet lmao

[@WilliamHaist]

I've been approached by like 6 "sugar daddies" but when I reply they all try to get me to go off app and then I know its just a scam.

[@tjs-_goated7449]

@0:30 It was so funny how you put the emphasis on “fuck me” sounded freaky and aggressive. I know that’s the point but still funny. Lmaoo. 🤣

[@dwellyn]

There are worse things than being alone. And this is one of them.

[@bazzkrycek7982]

I honestly thought i was the only one who enjoyed an actual conversation on grdr lol, thank you :)

[@ConorODwyer]

Hahaha I know! It's always such a pleasant shock when it happens

[@Dan-gi6tf]

Well you're using the wrong app. Grindr is a hookup app

[@HyperWubTV]

3:50 haha I thought he was going to disappear

[@ConorODwyer]

Hahaha ooft that can be even more traumatising!

[@m4al]

I kept waiting for exactly that to happen, lol, nice conversation, loads of things in comm... pfff! Gone

[@OjaZackaris]

Yeah I was expecting that too!

[@DVZM.]

Thats pretty much what happened to me. Really nice and good conversations with one guy for several month! Suddenly he just disappeared. Still wonder to this day what happened. Deleted the app about two years ago.

[@pasii4real]

Same here omg... The nice ones always just block you all of a sudden 😂😂

[@keithrogers4170]

The worst thing about Grindr is that there is rarely much conversation with the guy when he comes around, and often won’t kiss…..extremely cold and unsatisfying ….

[@divinesoul1987]

You do understand this app main goal is for discreet and quick sex without having to socialize much? It is a hooking up app, not a dating app

[@magnarcreed3801]

Sounds horrible. I’m a bi woman and don’t have that issue with other women so I feel bad for you. Hope ya find better fish!

[@keithrogers4170]

@@magnarcreed3801 Thanks

[@majot511]

The old man one is so true!! They don’t leave you alone and then they make alt accounts when you block them so you have to report! Saying things like “you’re cute, don’t be shy” Creepy people

[@jasonbolding3481]

Maybe 25th time is the charm

[@extravaganza1000]

I am an old man! I never do that. Anyway I got off grindr really fast

[@badgermcbadgerson3230]

I don't know what it is with gays and huge age gaps. I've never understood it and still prefer to stick to guys sort of my age (within a few years give or take). Stephen Fry is 30 years older than his husband. They look like father and son.

[@DeoxysDNA]

When I ignored 2 older guys they found my facebook and tried to add me lol

[@majot511]

@@DeoxysDNA I had that too 😅

[@caterinadelgalles8783]

MY GAY HUSBAND SENT ME THIS. This bloke is a nutter, and I mean that in the nicest Welsh way :)

[@ConorODwyer]

hahaha that's sweet! Thank you!

[@thereality3398]

What u mean gay husband ? U a woman or a man coz your name seems alarming

[@colinriddell3776]

Laughing at how true this actually is... and not just on grindr... generally the whole gay dating scene 😜

[@astrofabio68]

absolutely.....

[@erisjusteris]

I was really rooting for him at the end there

[@laoisewalsh7336]

Wow! Such a multifaceted actor and so handsome 😍

[@karabogafane4402]

So this is a problem all over the world🤣🤣🤣🤣 love this from 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

[@Phoenixesper1]

0:46 "Hey there son..." You look like christian bale in American Psycho.... terrifying and totally relatable to what hits me up from time to time. LOL

[@Phoenixesper1]

On the other hand...you look like christian bale.... hit me up from time to time. ;)

[@Su_Myth01]

I like how we gay people, especially mens doesn't even hesitate to tell others how they feel about them.

[@RayRayOfficial_]

The amount of commitment and honesty in this video😂😂👏👏

[@ConorODwyer]

Aw thank you!

[@peter_bazinet]

So THAT'S what Grindr is all about?

[@ConorODwyer]

You learn something new! 😜

[@peter_bazinet]

@@ConorODwyer Makes me happy I never tried Christian Mingle.

[@face-diaper]

@@peter_bazinet Christian Mingle makes Grindr look good.

[@badgermcbadgerson3230]

Grindr is marketed as an LGBT social, dating and lifestyle app. That is quality banter and a real case of "there was an attempt". Before you get into the really seedy stuff, the L part is non-existent because there are no girls on there.

[@Alienx520]

Omg i thought it was like that only on Brazil, i'm glad i don't have to use that anymore

[@jesgrecor]

Sad thing is that we can say "thanks but I'm not interested" but instead we keep silent or we block, which doesn't help anyone.

[@rickfromhell]

It doesn't really matter how you let a stranger down, it's the same baseline reality they'll need to come to terms with, that the stranger is not an opportunity for a connection, and obviously not the person you were looking for. If a stranger doesn't respond to your random message, or they block you, they're clearly not interested, and there's just no mystery there to unravel. And no matter what, you never had anything to lose anyways. People don't owe each other an explanation for everything, and some things are self explanatory.

[@_ch1pset]

Saying anything back validates that person's advances. It tells them that it's okay to send unsolicited dic pics and whatnot. It really is best to block them or just not respond so as to not encourage them to keep on with the same behavior. Negative feedback doesn't work the way you think it does. It's still feedback, and it means that regardless of what was said, that person has your attention and they have your permission to continue with the questions, pics, etc. IMO, it's better when people ask, "looking?" rather than assuming you want to see their poorly lit genitals in a dark motel room. If they ask "looking?", that's a courtesy to you in case you are not interested in sex. Just my take though. I'm sure some people don't even want to be asked "looking?" at all, but I'm trying to meet in the middle here.

[@technikkeks4932]

I tried this a couple of times but it was exhausting. They usually want to know why, try to argue, defend themselves or get rude. Went back to not answering, if not interested.

[@matiasalejandroortiz1112]

When you say "thanks but im not interested" they end up calling you fat and ugly

[@johnnystephens259]

I was expecting the last guy to be secretly married. Every time I hit it off so well with someone, they are either married or already dating someone.

[@Paul2377]

Haha. And the scary thing is this is the 'nicer' variety of messages you get on there. I deleted it ages ago.

[@akinyiomer4589]

That's ... the NICER variety?! I just. Wow. I'm female so I get some stunners but to all my non-straight men & NBs ... wow. I'll pray for you.

[@BrandonNaatz]

This was the truest, funniest, and most accurate representation of Grindr! Thank you for this 🤣🤣🤣

[@ConorODwyer]

Thank you so much!! How lovely 😊

[@seanluzdeluna8153]

The one at the end, lmfao!😂🤣🤣🤣Of course it's too good to be true, of course!

[@andryg6221]

Yep, relate to almost all of them, starting with the unwanted +18 pics, do people actually think that's a way to flirt?

[@ConorODwyer]

I had a guy recently text with just a picture of his thigh... Like what!? 😆

[@DrCuriensapprentice]

I once had a guy send me a picture of him in nappies wanting “Daddy to change him”, ironically he was 20 years older than me, blocked.

[@ConorODwyer]

omg no

[@fulanitx]

OMG the last one is the best of them all LOL! The grinding is REAL.

[@limbdarkening]

So gay men go through a very similar dating app experience to straight women. Not surprised really. 😂

[@ConorODwyer]

We are one in the same ;')

[@rouser301]

Why the heII did you post this if you blocked the best parts? THUMBS DOWN and a click of 'don't recommend this channel"

[@hottingz2611]

If only the camera was lower

[@billd3356]

The 0:38 mark. And I thought you looked good WITH a shirt! It's no different here in the US, or any other country. I have an online friend in Turkey who goes through the same thing as this video. I dropped Grindr a long time ago. This sad, but REALLY funny and well done. Cheers mate!

[@ConorODwyer]

Thanks!

[@igormatheus8698]

if you hover over the time bar in youtube, you'll see like a histogram of most paused moments in a video... y'all are just too thisrty omg (me too lol)

[@ConorODwyer]

LOL Don't know whether to be shocked or flattered. Both together x

[@aegontheusurpaah]

The wife situation happened yesterday!! 😭😭 I was SHOCKED like, dude, your…marriage? What about *that*?

[@PoeticDream]

I can't use Grindr because it blocked me. They think I'm underage but I'm literally 19...😂 I'm blocked for half a year already. But oh well, whatever.