3 Signs A Guy Is Getting Emotionally Attached To You (100% Accurate)

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[@j-tenn226]

I will no longer tolerate doing relationship things with a man without commitment, which includes simple things such as spending the night. I’m 29 and I realize how much time I’ve wasted throughout my 20s.

[@j-tenn226]

I won’t. I’m a virgin at 29 and while it sucks sometimes I do realize I’m making the right choices.

[@mademoiselleannarose9623]

@@j-tenn226 what type of commitment shall we wait for? Becoming his gf, or a bigger commitment?

[@mademoiselleannarose9623]

@@FM-zg5hz in order to protect ourselves, should we wait for marriage or simply wait til he asks us to be his girlfriend?

[@FM-zg5hz]

@@mademoiselleannarose9623 You’ll know when you feel emotionally, physically, mentally safe enough. With my ex, he invested in me and we slept together after 1.5 months. I felt safe with him and we ended up dating for 6 years. It’s not about when you have sex, it’s about how much he shows you he cares, his consistency, and how much his actions match his words. If he is inconsistent and isn’t putting time, energy, effort, money, into you over a long period of time then do not sleep with him.

[@mademoiselleannarose9623]

@@FM-zg5hz thank you ❤

[@dxmface]

1. Transitions into move (he wants more). He won't put himself in a position to lose you. 2. Invests heavily over time. 3. Threads lives

[@Pancakes4din]

Thank youuuu. He takes so long to get to the point with these NFL John Madden maps. Get to the point, damn.

[@irinaivanovic9792]

Thank you. This guy talked WAY too long. I got halfway through and started scrolling for a comment just like this one.

[@stephanie3506]

What he gets when he commits that he's not getting right now is.....my LOYALTY TO HIM!!! If he doesn't commit...I will date other men! PERIOD...if that happens he may loose out to another man.....🤷‍♀️

[@stephblenheim4283]

This is excellent advice!!! Feel guilty when dating other guys but if he's not stepping up to claim me then what are we doing acting exclusive to a man that's unsure

[@inside_the_waiting_room]

Sees title of video...takes a deep breath(bc I know he played me) and smashes the like button!!🤣 wish I didn’t have to watch these vids..when a man REALLY likes you..you won’t have to watch these videos

[@Vanessa257888]

I hate it here lol 😫🤣

[@zilfariza2010]

So true!

[@hillarybillary21]

You’re beautiful. Cry, punch, do whatever you have to do to stay strong.

[@4everu984]

💞💞💞 you got this! I watch to stay married....the love affair is truly with ourselves to attract and keep em! 🥰

[@tenea24]

Same 😭🤣

[@cringeproof100]

"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness and all these things will be given to you as well." -Matthew 6:33

[@ms.carnage5689]

Amen

[@northshorelight35]

The key take away is to stop wasting time with men who don't want a relationship or is unsure. I personally know this guy who loves doing the relationship stuff like meeting the family, building a business together, spending the night together, doing lots of stuff together, etc. but he's not actually interested in marriage. He did this with an ex for nearly 10 years without any plans to ever marry her because he claims that he never really loved her in that way. To be fair, she is not in his league BUT it only goes to show that men are totally capable of having this kind of long-term relationship with a woman they're not in love with.

[@neekag7244]

Women, you are giving too much power to men. You are the prize. All of this is too difficult, and it's too much thinking. Follow your intuition. Nowadays, it's almost like begging a man to want to be with you. Flip that. If he wants you he will commit. If you want him you may want to commit. Men have become the women and women the men. Women just love yourselves and stay in your femine energy, and your King will find his Queen (You). If not, take a damn vacation and love on you and your family. Blessings!!!!

[@realalldway-raw4996]

It's scary that Elliot is right... But it is what it is. Sometimes you just have to walk away from people who don't serve you well in the end. No matter how much you want them. 😞

[@raquela.3483]

yeah

[@MC-rw2bk]

Damn. Never thought I would have to take college-level classes just to find a partner. Good information, though. I just feel that so many men want to keep their options open. They are going to end up alone forever.

[@factswise-psychologicalfac84]

😂 really??? And who's gonna be the Cat ladies.

[@DallasJayCook]

They want all the girls on their FB 😆

[@MC-rw2bk]

@@factswise-psychologicalfac84 At least pets are loyal. Plus, I see alot of bachelors with cats so the cat lady stereotype is outdated. What's the point of having a relationship if there is no love, loyalty and trust?

[@MC-rw2bk]

@@DallasJayCook I've noticed the girl collectors on FB. That's why I only accept close friends and family on FB. It's all an ego boost for men.

[@factswise-psychologicalfac84]

@@MC-rw2bk Pets are not only loyal but also Easy to control.... And that's what women want to do...

[@stephblenheim4283]

This is all so true. Problem is I see a quality guy for a month, several months, then they lose interest and go back on the dating app looking for another option. It's exhausting. I wish dating apps were never invented. It's ruined dating and relationships. I wish things were as they used to be before all the dating apps because too many people are going through these problems of not getting any commitment anymore. Men say they want relationships and women are guilty of this too, but people are setting the standards too high and people are constantly looking for someone new.

[@Brandi.Nicole]

Not the apps fault! Sounds like you have a dopamine deficiency to be honest and crave that rush of chemicals. Me too. I get it. I take adderral but still love meeting new people and trying ehem new things. I look at it this way - It’s scaffolding - we see what we don’t like and then go find what we do like. It’s this or better most of the time. BUT, maybe you just need a guy who is more open, who travels, who is exciting? Have you checked out seeking? An affluent guy may be more your type to keep you on your toes. Don’t ever feel bad about leveling up!!

[@Brandi.Nicole]

Just realized I sound like an ad. 🤣 My point is level up - and keep going. Men with $$$$ can offer more possibilities and a more dynamic life - go to places they are - you’ll see what I mean. Usually more intelligent, older, confident and have the money to have actual fun!

[@SR77736]

Or they say women's standards are high bc they want easy access to her.

[@driftingofftosleep]

As a visual type learner I really appreciate these graphs! Makes it easier to understand

[@brittany8741]

@driftingofftosleep what he said

[@stellarstar9340]

💯💯💯 agree with you!! Elliot’s videos & ways of teaching is AMAZING!!! Clear, to the point, but very well explained. TY ELLIOT!!!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻👏🏻🙌🏻🔥❤️😎

[@julia3061]

Agree!

[@katharina1439]

I always thought the guy pulled away because I've shown my feelings. But it probably was context... Every guy I chose was/is emotionally unavailable 😳

[@carriewang3707]

lol women should take and keep options, until he begs to drop others and he does the same!!

[@foreveryoung1088]

He begs me to drop others and he does the same, but he still don't want to commit until he's financially stable, he asked me until this Oct. What should I do? 🤔

[@cherrylane79]

So many people lie, cheat, use, abuse, play with people's feelings, that it's hideous. The dating apps and sites have made it easier for them.

[@livinggood6876]

Perfect analysis, thank you! I just went thru this, I did not stick around. I think he was surprised I ended it. Once the context was created, I was realizing I didnt want what was being created bc it was inconsistent.

[@akuasalaam490]

THIS!!!!!

[@kimt8162]

He's so right in the consistency. Teenage version; he doesn't know what to do. Out of school, he's acting weird, staring. Okay, yes, he so was staring at you; he accidentally threw his skateboard into the pool and got in trouble for it. In school, doesn't even pay attention, checking out all the girls. Normal for the age. The girl; should she go out of her way for him? No. He knows where you live, he doesn't go out of his way for you. But, you run into him all the time. You live in the same neighborhood. I call this, just too little or too much going on. If he wants to date you, he needs to stake a claim. He's just playing games because again, he's so young. So until he makes a move, you two are just friends. or even just acquaintances.

[@rebeccajones8628]

The blackboard with red, and blue and lines all over is how he makes my brain feel with all of his game playing. NO.

[@exclusivelymade]

I’m such a visual learner so this was great. Sometimes we realize we already know most of these things but we slip up on having boundaries and following our intuition within ourselves. Thanks Elliot!

[@ElliotScottDating]

Glad it was helpful!

[@kelliritter8688]

Dating men advice all from the drivers seat on a chalk board bigger than Einsteins and yet the most accurate information on how NOT to give it up. Thanks Elliot.

[@tam_to_evolve]

I usually dont want any KZbin videos anything more than 20 minutes! But I have to say I absolutely LOVED this video! Thank you Elliot!

[@ElliotScottDating]

Wow, thank you!

[@roguelioness]

So true, love bombing at the start and lots of big gifts because he saw you might like the thing is horrible as there's no true connection, small things he sees because he thinks of you even if he's seeing other people but is consistent over time until you make it official and he drops everyone else is much much better to show he likes you most.

[@pixieazul19]

Seriously! I love the way you blackboard it!! Charts and graphs... love it!!!

[@flightforlight157]

Basically a man needs a woman with wife worthy qualities like virtue, diligence in work, honesty, kindness, etc

[@wongfrancis]

That's some excellent coaching! You may think it's crazy, I run my relationships like an airlines. My flight has a designated time to take off. The passenger (my date) reserves a seat and knows about the date. The day wheh he commits, that's like the passengers are checking in his luggage, ready for departure. (A relationship is formed). But, if he's hesitant and being very ambivalent. My flight will take off withoit him, hopefully, with another better and more willing passenger. The trick here is not to delay and hold your "Flight" for someone who's indecisive. Having high values and sticking to them is very important. It will attract the right man and drive away all the wrong ones.

[@Patachou_]

That’s a very useful video. I love the way you explain things, show us the red flags but most importantly I love your spontaneity and straightforwardness! Thanks!!

[@winniecox1129]

Great explanation! I appreciate you explaining context AND your visual chart explanations. Thank you.

[@ebbflow8002]

I love how direct u are. It makes me laugh. We women can be so complicated sometimes.

[@akuasalaam490]

"You don't want any spikes rather it's up or down. You want it to be consistent."

[@Sparksflymich]

hi you are the best dating coach out there, thank you for not only listing out 1 2 3 4 5 signs but actually explaining them - IT REALLY HELPS KEEP UP THE WORK PLEASE

[@christinagj911]

What happens when I am emotional unavailable but want to become available. And then find the same in men 🤣🚩

[@tess7798]

You are so direct and so funny! And I find your perspective and delivery great!

[@jennifernunez220]

Thank you! Finally broke things down & made it so simple, logical and it just makes sense!!! Finally! 🙏

[@shabaka6406]

I’m loving the visual models! Please do more videos like this

[@hannahkrage648]

Def my favorite dating coach! Thankful for your brain and perspective Elliot! Have yourself a good weekend!

[@ElliotScottDating]

You too!!

[@JoAnnLewisMusic]

I love this format. It is very easy to follow. I totally agree with your logic.

[@tenea24]

This was the best lecture I’ve ever had . Ever. Thank you.

[@vanessasosa4976]

This was phenomenal thank you

[@motcherniouk]

loving these visuals!!

[@pinksky8460]

Great video ! Thank you. I learned a few things I didn't know..

[@urlovelyillusion]

Thank you..awesome video..love the format

[@MySideHustleStash]

Loving this new chalkboard type background 👩🏾‍💻 taking notes 😊

[@jenniferbrowning9537]

Thank you Elliot! Once again another great video. ❤

[@marilynwells275]

Love the format!

[@tanjawicks5175]

I am always happy when I see you up by the blackboard 😆 I like that you map it out like a relationship science. I’ve been watching your videos for months and am now in a relationship that is fitting the steps you lay out so... so far so good 😊 thanks for your tips and intelligence! It’s helped big time!

[@tanjawicks5175]

Also the new format is great! It seems quicker, less messy and your able to jump around and explain things more easily through the graphs.

[@celestesmith9636]

Your my favorite coach you put it out as real as it is i relate with all you say thankyou so much just makes me value myself more

[@ElliotScottDating]

You are so welcome

[@camelianegoita4460]

This is spot on!!!! Amazing work Elliot.

[@Jess-wq4gd]

I love this format of presentation. You speak and present well. Keep it up. Love ur content.

[@sandradaeschler6620]

Thank you Elliot! Looks like my guy is the emotionally unavailable type!! You answered a doubt I always had for almost 8 years!!

[@kayanatorx3]

I LOVED this. you really answered a lot of my questions that I've been dealing with my crush. thank you elliot!!

[@angelaberry7501]

Awesome job. Great advice

[@sonjakeri4934]

Excellent video! You should do more these types of visuals videos. It explains it so much better!

[@sarab8215]

Exactly what I’d like to know right now!

[@deborahjandebeur1457]

Wow, what a great video. Such great knowledge about dating and relationships.

[@amfes]

Now everything is a hell lot easier, thank you for using the blackboard!

[@Mostdivinely]

Thank you Elliot, im learning so much from u

[@jezebellab1779]

Amazing. Thank you!

[@gloriamondragon105]

I just started dating again .. But, Damn all the signs, signals , trying to figure a man out is driving me bananas! 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@bonezbaaaby]

LOVIN this new technology you got Elliott!!!!! Steppin it up!!!!! MMMmm

[@lulag4882]

Love this kinda videos elliot it's very in depth 👌 😍 🙌 😄

[@PhanRegSop]

This is honestly the best advice on the topic. Thank you Elliot for your honesty

[@carolynm3904]

This video was great! I just found your videos.

[@Ladanii]

I love these colours! More interactive vids, please! 😍

[@ElliotScottDating]

You got it!

[@TheArtoftheWinds]

So glad I caught this Video💯%. More room to work on ourselves gals. ✌🏻 thanks for creating this video.

[@alexandrahernandez3647]

You’re so funny 😂 thank you for these pearls of wisdom Elliot 🙌🏼

[@amysho2192]

Why don't men want to be in a relationship if he doesn't "need" to be? Do women always trap a man in a relationship by manipulation or threats? What is bad for the man when he is in a relationship? Why do women want it and men don't? Please explain the peeks a woman has in a relationship and the downsides to a man being in a relationship. Thanks.

[@ElenaKomleva]

Most men want a relationship and chaise women and offer them to be in a relationship, the problem is, usually these particular women they chaise don't want these particular men lol

[@Joker-2357]

A women mostly will have a gd monthly salary without doing anything in the form of alimony, starting from any day she wants …. Even if she has gd education and job … So , this is the park women has been in a relationship. U can argue , what if she earns more. In 99% cases women always date men who earns more than them…. So thats why marriage is only beneficial to women. In past men used to provide for women , they dont have to do anything But also that don’t cost 1/2 of earning if he is a high earner …. , divorce was very rare and it was almost unthinkable that a wife will leave her husband took his money and then start living with another man… But for a man with his 1/2 salary he is not getting any new girls anymore… Thats why men are not willing to not get married easily , they r scared 😅

[@rondaallen844]

Elliott your king of the coaches

[@ElliotScottDating]

Thank you that means a lot

[@yanyperez6333]

So accurate 👌💯

[@penelopejadebeauty]

Can you make a video about how men transition to wanting a relationship after being emotionally unavailable. Specially if he's been divorce?

[@karenthomas442]

Great material, thanks

[@ElliotScottDating]

Glad it was helpful!

[@augustbrown9711]

I really like this! I am a visual leaner, this is perfect for me! And I like these videos very much. Instead you being a “teacher or a coach,” it’s more like I’m getting guy advice from one of my guy friends! Thanks again!

[@mollykam8294]

Thank you for your amazing video. Love you forever ever ❤️

[@kayw3486]

Elliot, you da best and i love you

[@asiazimnoch9991]

Amazing video

[@johelka7901]

Thank you!!

[@Melinamiu007]

I like listening to Elliot because I think he really does explain how some men think and their logic process. However I would like to see how his teachings develop as he grows in consciousness.

[@bananabagel2]

You’re the best!

[@goglolee]

I so appreciate your videos!

[@cyndyedwards1153]

You are terrfic Elliot, very wise !! 👍😊 A great coach ,with lots of wisdom!! Your humor too is Awesome!! I enjoy watching your videos, ThankYou!

[@BalladofJanine]

This is a epic way of learning

[@budgetrebelgoals]

Nice. I still havent found the one that wants and deserves me. I need both!! happy new year!!

[@ThePhoinix33]

Yes,Queen

[@factswise-psychologicalfac84]

You never will sweetie..

[@ThePhoinix33]

@@factswise-psychologicalfac84 Boys vs Men..some of us know our worth

[@ElliotScottDating]

Happy new year!!

[@belle7437]

Your handwriting is neat! The way you write letters a, e, f is so satisfying haha. 😅

[@tyna4054]

Elliott is the man 🙏

[@Nadineversluis94]

You're funny 😂 This is very clear, thank you!

[@lanierogers3315]

Thank you, your perspective and advice is very good. I laughed so hard a few times, love getting it told just straight. ♡

[@icysnow57cold64]

I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them and holding their hands and be touchy-feely towards each other, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them or holding their hands or be touchy-feely towards each other). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends. Females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why women tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than men do.

[@Ks_milf]

Damn straight, you are the one that's right🙌. Great vid Elliot❤💕

[@irennoo]

Oh my goodness.. i loveeee youuuu when u’re outta topic ((again)) 😂😂😂😂😂💋

[@funerryetim4184]

You're very correct, 👍

[@lindseyanderson3611]

The diabetes comment was the best! 😂😂😂 I love your content however found this specific video to be a bit confusing!

[@lotussellers747]

What is that board your writing on? It looks cool.

[@kaebaegotsnax1907]

This is so funny but factual af 😂😂😂😂😂

[@lotussellers747]

I like how you used different colors to write with.

[@VLoveTarot]

Are you a Virgo or any other earth sign? I love how detailed this was. Thank you 😊

[@jezebellab1779]

Cannot thank you enough!!!

[@alt5077]

You are so hilarious! Listening to you is my therapy. God send! 😂😄

[@mandarinka505]

9:41 the burp 🤣🤣🤣

[@jellymedina]

elliott your advantages are perfect. if you are available and he sees you all the time without commitment, why would he commit?

[@JoAnnLewisMusic]

Yes, I agree. But could we touch on what to do different if you are in this position?

[@andraumida6736]

I had so much fun watching your video 🤣🤣 “Congratulations you are messing with dark magic” Or “No offense but…..*insert off the wall realistic statement*

[@isabelsmith109]

When u put it this way...why do guys ever want relationship 😂

[@sheallwhimsical3738]

Thanks so much Elliot!!! Funny enough I’ve been dating a guy for a few weeks. He’s said the same thing. It doesn’t matter when we have sex. I thought he was lying but hearing you say it’s about trust. That now makes sense. I realize my comfort is super important to him. You’re right he’s an attractive man with options so he could easily go elsewhere.