If He Doesn't Want a Relationship Do THIS! | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.
As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs? dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.
Mat?s Mission: To increase love in the world, one heart at a time.
As a dating coach for women, Mat believes that your history does not determine your destiny, and that you are more powerful than any circumstance you are facing. The relationship dream in your heart really can become the life you love living!
Mat Boggs highly acclaimed relationship programs have served women around the world in all age groups from 20yrs old to over 70yrs old.
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[@audreychou5498]

"You can't scare off the right guy. If you say to him "my boat is leaving", and he's not willing to fight for that relationship, then he's not the right guy to begin with." Thank you, Mathew!

[@lolawho8676]

Isn’t it humiliating to stay with someone who doesn’t want you? Just go...

[@11cesarrenato]

sometimes is just fear of being hurt

[@diaddison970]

Lola Who exactly waste of time!!!

[@annacoolmum5961]

Yes i was back with me as for 7 weeks and i walked into hes house and he was drinking with a girl all night said nothing happened and i said why u with me and he said im not with u o only ask u over for our son..And yet he rings me ask me over for dinner i was so humiliated and so hurt and i stupidly had sex with him.buut my boundaries are up and i dont know why he behaved like that as im st ill confused.

[@cherisew]

Lola Who right, exactly. I just walked away.

[@cherisew]

cesar I think he has fear of me hurting him...but I would never. I just wanna be loved consistently by one person who only wants me. And I was consistent sex dammit! I deserve it! Ok sorry lol

[@sicast916]

If he doesn’t want a relationship leave the dude alone, there’s someone for everyone no need to play mind games.

[@jenclayton8844]

Pochely: yes pochely I agree with you!

[@tomaradoss3420]

That part

[@DiazSis]

Pochely: I’m saying!!!

[@KJR-vh3rh]

This isnt mind games, this is pure honesty this isnt a guide on how to force a man to be with you, its to judge whether this person or not wants what you want or whether its a waste of time

[@brivious]

Hes the one playing mind games he said he just wanted to be friends and then he said he also likes me alot so I respected him I just flirted a little I've stopped caring for alot of things lately and now he's just flirting with me and hinting and its annoying

[@desbrow3339]

I really like your comment Matt: "Know this, you can't scare off the right guy."

[@06misnisha]

I love that comment and it’s so true‼️

[@clintselby1614]

This comment is total bullshit lol

[@desbrow3339]

@@clintselby1614 OK, move on.

[@sisselmarie1841]

Iiuu

[@bmrjma2144]

If he doesn’t want a relationship, or if he’s leaving you hanging, ditch him. I just did this literally an hour ago with someone who was giving extreme mixed signals. Sucks. But I couldn’t deal with and wondering anymore.

[@Kellyyy44]

Very true!

[@maryamali3347]

smart woman

[@boplop5406]

If he tells you that he doesn't want a relationship and you continue speaking with him he may believe that you were warned and you still want to continue with him with the situation that there is

[@PortoBelo511]

I love when someone teach or says something important in simple words straight to the point. You are that man.

[@shanonjestis167]

I agree

[@Milliejones0003]

Is He doesn't want a relationship, move on to someone that does! Simple

[@i.s4005]

Millie Glez0003 not simple at all, cannot imagine kissing somebody else

[@pinat6166]

It seems very simply but so hard to do

[@faiscamutiara]

Well reality check it isn't as simple as that

[@preciouspayne723]

Right that's why I don't want a relationship some boys are nasty by showing their dicks and touching theirselves gross

[@savvychathylton8059]

I learnt that the hard way stuck around for 2yrs, him telling me his sorting out his life. I couldn't do it anymore it's been 3months since I walked away I feel good😁

[@lenoretalon9958]

Put the man back in the friendship list and start dating other men. I wouldn’t explain anything to him I would just start dating men with the same as I want. Don’t shed a tear. I don’t have time for men like this. Move on.

[@mecca115able]

Lenore your so right I'm not saying nothing guys knows.. girl I'm seeing two guys. My options are open. I'm having fun. But I see what I see not what I want to see. Action speak louder than words

[@hannahscott6604]

Yeah I have reserved this dude to be friends with me and he knows that. He knows I’m dating other guys. or trying to. But last night I took a pic of myself and he said “my arms should be wrapped around you” I was like “if you’re dating me they could be” 😂😆

[@tomaradoss3420]

Lenore talon exactly ! Because he just may be a great friend

[@angelsandocean2853]

@@mecca115able I am dating two guys as well. And I am 53. I was thinking to talk to one of them, the one I am dating for four years, but decided that this is none of his business. I did put him into friend zone though and he got upset but no major decision of his part yet. Now I want to keep them both 😂 because the new guy is wonderful but on a different level. Time will tell who is the right one.. I decided to play waiting game for now and not to force anyone..

[@nevmcc3884]

Keep playing the "co@#k carousel" until no guy wants you. Great advice

[@lavayuki]

The best thing to do is believe them and move on. You can never change their mind in a million years

[@NewYorkNadia]

'Mind'? What 'mind'? LOL... ;)

[@lulukhaled9215]

Nadia Asencio 😂

[@NewYorkNadia]

@@HolyRollerTV It was a joke luv, relax

[@anaguerrerosholisticwellbe2788]

I don't want anyone to choose me because of their fear of me being with someone else. I want someone to choose me because they are sure about their love for me. Otherwise, the relationship could be an unhealthy jealousy/possession/codependency game.

[@lauralou1115]

Amazing point!!!!

[@krittazapata5076]

You’re literally a genius. This is what we all feel deep inside but can’t explain it but you just did! Wow

[@anaguerrerosholisticwellbe2788]

@@krittazapata5076 🥰

[@hayleestone957]

Time is what heals. Idc what anybody says

[@giselserrano9595]

You are thinking like a woman, he is not a woman. Men see and think different, may not make sense to you, but does to him. Women of today get way too frustrated because they dont got the fact men think completely in a different direction than them, and they are expecting he treated you like your girl friends and guy friends do

[@fifiabdullah8276]

2 months ago.. I declared ny love to him.. He said not ready for a relationship.. I disappeared without even explaining myself. I think he got the message.. I know i will find the right one soon ❤️

[@arnzgel]

Any updates ? Did he come back ?

[@fifiabdullah8276]

@@arnzgel nope.. I don't even remember who he was😅🤣🤣🤣

[@martija2599]

@@fifiabdullah8276 hahahahahahahah

[@aalyyy.]

wow. im sorry baby ur gonna find someone great. hope ur doing well 💖

[@shadyritaB]

I did the same, they will continue to waste your time if you let them. Have to make the best decision for yourself.

[@jwanviars]

Playing games is not the answer. Find someone that wants what you want. Just breakup, do not try to change anyone.

[@monicapalma]

zumzy u is this real? And works? I live in the Uk by the way

[@meli3128]

Just went through this. We were only dating about 7/8 weeks but He was being hot and cold and I started to feel confused and his effort fell off, so I said “ I enjoy spending time with you but before this goes any further I want to make sure we’re on the same page. At this moment what is it that your looking for?” He said he don’t know. ( scared etc) I told him “ It’s ok, take your time, when you decide what you want let me know and if I’m not seeing someone by then maybe we can try again” ... Mic drop 🎤 I am a little disappointed because he’s a great guy and I do like him. But I know it’s not fair to stick around. Will he come back? Who knows, but willing to walk away is better than devaluing yourself.

[@surtisa1210]

Did he come back ?

[@starannulysse6977]

Update?

[@MelodyNicoleSibley]

...?

[@kayjjoy5885]

How did it go?? I hope Things are better

[@Kellyyy44]

So proud of you bossing up and choosing not to put up and ACCEPT that, you won!

[@joyfullove1430]

I did exactly what you said BEFORE this video - I was pretty proud of myself! It didn’t hurt and the sky didn’t fall and he didn’t choose me. But all that is ok because I am so worthy of the best possible relationship! Good to know I’m making some better choices all on my own - but I do so love your tips!!! Thank you!

[@irisclemons5627]

Joyful Love I am building my strength to tell him my boat is leaving Wish me luck because I can’t keep going like I am

[@joyfullove1430]

Iris Clemons sending strength, bravery and courage... it’s not an easy thing but you can do this and you will heal and look back grateful!

[@blueroselily0415]

I’m going though something like this rn my bf for a year dumped me last night he wants to stay friends for rn after I used this on him so idk if it worked or not 100% he knows I support him and will always be hear for him

[@03081416]

@@irisclemons5627 how did it work out?

[@irisclemons5627]

@@03081416 I finally said to him that I wanted the best for him and I will be just his friend but that I needed to move on . I looked at him differently someone that had a fear of Vulnerability limited in having a relationship . I said to myself God I can’t fix this you deal with it I’m not going to anymore and it’s quite strange when I finally let go of it and forgave I was able to move on myself

[@mindsetwithsally4556]

"You can't scare off the right guy. If you say to him "my boat is leaving", and he's not willing to fight for that relationship, then he's not the right guy to begin with." Love love love this

[@jojkavargova6704]

Me too, beautifully said 😍

[@kimasp7482]

"You can't scare off the right guy"...needed to hear these words..thank you Matthew!

[@tanyat3254]

Live by If u love something let it go. If it loves you it will come back. If it doesnt it was never yours. U go into a relatipnship, friendship, or business with thos attitude. U r neither needy or pushy. Those vibes r felt and fpr some reason u only attract love. Its worked all my life. Hard to let go But this filtering is a machine.

[@MsLovication]

And if the two people think like this, it will never happen. Because both will let go. I think it's best to be assertive and express yourself. But let go when feelings are not mutual.

[@shabnamtaleghani6831]

@@MsLovication I agree with you. my boyfriend and I were in our relationship for 1year and 8 month. he told me at first he can not get married because poor girl who bear his behavior . recently I told him If his decision about getting married has not changed yet I think our relationship is over because I would like to get married and if he stays in my life I can not consider other boys. and he told me He can not get married totally.

[@arleenvilla6446]

Amazing advice Matt! I told the guy I’m dating this, I didn’t use these amazing words though, but along the same lines and I haven’t heard from him in 2 weeks. I was freaking out but now thanks to your advice, I realize what I did was right. I feel so empowered and a relationship should flow and come easy. Wow! Thank you! Blessings to you and your wife.

[@BrazilianGirl777]

I love how assertive your advice is, with confidence yet still not aggressive. It makes the conversation firm but classy! ❤️❤️🙏

[@EmmainthePNW]

This is basically an ultimatum phrased nicely. Unfortunately I've seen a third scenario the most. The guy agrees to move forward but deep down he's resentful and the woman never feels secure with him because she knows she forced him to choose and it creates a bad unhappy energy, and the woman is usually chasing him because he's not committed 100%.

[@Optimystik]

That is a good point..about it essentially being an ultimatum. I know that a lot of men (and people in general) will immediately be put off by that and it won't work in your favor.. but there has to be a way around that.

[@carlel121]

Hahahaha you never can force a man to do anything! Again a women thinking does not translate to a men thinking, I pressured my husband to married me otherwise I left and go to look for what I want, he committed and married me, he said it was the best decision he ever made! Nobody resents anything, if the man finally decided to married you deep down he really loves you and don’t want to loose you, but his insecurities to move forward paralízale him.

[@diaddison970]

U can’t force man to love you! If he doesn’t want you just leave “ don’t waste time!!

[@ozpilotgirl]

This is almost identical advice to what Matthew Hussey says you should say..."Seems like you need to go away and figure out what you want and be on your own for a while...and I want your happiness more than anything in the world. I just want you to be happy...So I feel like you need to go and be alone, in order to figure out what you want. And I hope that I'm here, or I'm still here, when you're ready....but until then, I need I know someone who is completely "in" because I wouldn't want to be with someone who isn't 100% about wanting to be with me. "

[@carmencarmenatti]

That's exactly what i did! We have known each other forever.We we're friends/lovers years ago and after all this time of drifting apart he came back all by himself.Finally we are moving in together and are engaged to be married next year.

[@Mimimarlin122]

how long did it take to come back?

[@giavannamom87]

This gives me hope!

[@Tina-by5xx]

my boyfriend started seeing me as a friend, and i did exactly this. Its about a week ago we parted ways, and i honestly do not care if we will ever get back together again or if we dont. I know my worth and I know I will find someone just as amazing as him:)) know your worth!!

[@roshenamorgan1827]

Or even someone better than him. Btw are you guys back together?

[@arnzgel]

Any updates ?

[@healedinambiance8905]

Clear and cut. You said it. I enjoyed this video. I just had the same situation happen to me and I needed to be sure that I did and said the right thing. I respect myself and love myself enough to let him go. It's for the best. I'm not going to allow for a man to make me look desperate, needy, or clingy.

[@TheSarvenazable]

Nothing, if he doesn’t want a relationship then I move forward! I let him know what i want and if he doesn’t catch up I’m gone! Very straight forward!

[@iluvcb93]

Wow, thank you Matt. This video really spoke to me and helped me know that I made the right decision in standing up for myself and knowing my self worth. This video came at the perfect time.

[@babylicioustrisha]

You Are One of the Most Amazing Love Coach in the Internet Matthew... I've heard a lot here in KZbin and read a lot of Books too but YOU are Unselfishly, AUTHENTIC, and Realistic with your approach THANK YOU IN A MILLION WAYS... So If I find my Guy soon I will come back and recommend YOU to EVERYONE!

[@healthroads]

After my divorce, I took time to heal and realized I "attract what I reflect". I found my joy and happiness are found within me, not in someone else. A man does not define me or complete me. Boundaries and self love are taught in this video and it resonates with me. I am a hopeful romantic and look forward to meeting that amazing man whose core values are similar to mine. Bought the "Cracking the Man Code" and it has been an AMAZING journey of higher self awareness and insightful relationship wisdom! Bless you and yours Mat!

[@Mia-rb5lj]

healthroads Nicely said. TRUTH Thank You...Many Blessings on your journey...self Love.

[@talairaki]

Or in other words... dont give in to HIS wants and HIS desires by giving up on urs!!!

[@talairaki]

And I'll tell u y not... Becuz the second u do that... they (the guys) lose the feeling or the need for a challenge leaving u feeling used up and drained out and they lose the urge to fight for ur approval... U, ladies, are princesses and queens... U have the power to rule them all... in ways u can't even begin to fathom... U r more powerful than u know!

[@racheln.davies1838]

So profound. Blessings, Mat.

[@jacquelynjaide9047]

I’m so happy this video showed up. I was recently seeing a guy and I asked him about where we were going. He was honest that he can’t be in a relationship right now due to him constantly working and leaving for the navy soon. At first I was devastated because we had a great connection but I respected his choice and moved forward. We hooked up one last time and I asked it’s ok to see other people and he said fine. I’m happy I finally ended it with him to give myself a real chance to find the love of my life❤️

[@jacquelynjaide9047]

Solid Mercer ummmm I never said I was. We had a mutual agreement and I wanted make sure we were on the same page in the end. No one is making no one jealous soo I don’t know where you’re getting that from😁

[@l.ferrer7923]

Wait after boot camp and he gets to his billet or new duty station IF he contacts you again.That gives him enough time to think about you seriously and gives him an idea about his financial situation being more stable by that time. 😆 True ❤️ love knows no bounds. ~My hubby is a Navy veteran. 😊

[@BigRigPullUp]

@@nathanbeales8900 if so it was nothing wrong with that! It's called testing the water lol. Seeing if he was confused or mean what he said lol! Which led her to choosing the best decision of moving on because she was for sure she wanted his love but he couldn't give it back to her

[@Dan-Martin]

Lol no offence but you did him a favour. Young man has his whole life ahead of him, even joined the Navy. He doesn’t need some desperate needy woman to hold him back. You’ll regret your decision lmao.

[@jacquelynjaide9047]

@@Dan-Martin lmao 🤣 🤣🤣🤣 you responded over a fling that happened over 2 years ago & I moved on to a happier relationship where they navy guy stalked for a year. I’m great! I’m the one whose laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 & it’s *offense haha

[@mickeyt3654]

Hey you're like a god sent. Every time I watch your videos it's like I have all these experiences in my relationships and u just put it in words so I can understand clearly what's going on. Thank you so much..

[@AmyElizabethBehnke]

What works for me is doing my own thing. And seeing people after the spirit ❤ One heart at a time👍

[@JetPearl100]

You're really good at this relationship advise thing, Mat! Thank you! 😃

[@jcapellan20]

Wow! You answered a question I've been wanting to know how to express that for a while. Thank you!

[@RAG571]

I appreciate the visuals and the main ideas presented on your videos!!

[@ChauNguyen-qv2yb]

If he doesn't wanna have a relationship the best thing u can do is to leave him. He doesn't want a committed deep relationship move on and find someone does

[@claudeleto5444]

Wow! Loved this, pretty insightful. Thanks Mat.

[@kerriemills1310]

Thankyou Matt again good timing.👍

[@ritaosaretin6017]

I'm so grateful I found your channel, it's amazing

[@cindychampion7836]

This happened to me. I was with someone who didn’t want a relationship and I thought the “more time” thing would work. After 2 and a half years I finally told him he’s with me or he’s not and I was ready to get up and leave for good. He decided he was with me. We have been together ever since.

[@tjaspire]

Girl that sounds like a deadend relationship. He didn't really change anything, he just did enough to placate you.

[@cindychampion7836]

Yes and we have been together 13 years. He totally turned things around after I was ready to leave however I don’t think that’s the norm.

[@mandylohof7512]

Mine after 4 years just left me today and it came as such a shock as he told me he loved me the night before

[@lovelyxskinny]

This video couldn't have come at the more perfect time. Thank you for this

[@mamtarana7304]

i really needed this... thankyou so much 🙂 i m all clear now.. thankyou for the advice.

[@sophiastuart4357]

Hi Matt, this is exactly the message I need. I had that conversation & separated myself from my ex but he keeps initiating contact & holding on. I will not get back with him until he can confirm he wants a relationship with me. I have to show I’m serious or he will work his way back in. I hope he steps up to the plate, if not I’m off in the boat to my destiny and he knows it.

[@xzochilltovar2038]

Thank you for making this video. I've been fighting myself over my morals or getting the guy I want to know how great of a person I am and he'll miss out.

[@tamerakennedy6893]

Walked away and he moved on. Now I’m even more miserable and lonely through the holidays it’s been 6 months. I am going through the worst pain 🥺

[@adenikeabati]

Thank you so much Matt!!! I LOVE this advice!!! You just made life easier for me! God bless you!

[@jennypinkies111pinkies7]

You're the best!!!🙌🙌🙌👌👌👌 just got new words impacted in me. I know what to do next now thank you!

[@moxiejones7582]

Great message! Thank you.

[@jtgunnergurl85]

Great tips! I’m okay ... I’m awesome. I won’t be with someone who doesn’t want to be with me. Why would anyone want that? Anxiety definitely is the male motivator 😂🤣!! Be respectful, wish him well, be a friend, most of all respect yourself.

[@hollykins9844]

Wow. This was something I needed to hear. I just need to work up the courage and tell him and be willing to lose him. Ugh.

[@curiousmercurius3562]

This is exactly what I needeed! Thank you very much Mathew!

[@vhayashi7369]

Thank you so much for this!!!! This is exactly what I needed help with!!!

[@Anonymous11Jj]

This video was the best relationship advice I have ever heard. I watched alot but this takes the price. You answered all my questions in 8 minutes. Love it.

[@kibuladesire8019]

*Who else needed this video? ?? Thanks for your knowledge. Simple and best advice* 😊

[@aramayberoy697]

Hands up to you! This video made me realize what would my move should be! Thanks! 😊

[@user-ti1xn9kt4e]

Keep up the good work, Matt! You are sooo freaking good!

[@Fayvic3]

I appreciate your guidance because I had no idea what to say or how to expeess my feelings. I have been in a "relationship" over 5 years and I need to move on. I have wasted tooo much time and I am guilty for allowing it to happen. Thank you Matt; I will be using the tool you presented in this video.

[@clarissetan]

This is exactly what happen to me now. We have been dating for almost 8 months, but we have not progressed to a committed relationship. Seems like i will need to have this conversation very soon... Thanks! This comes to me just the right time!!! Wish me the best!

[@80sprincess52]

Ooh girl, I know this comment is 2 years old but you have the patience of a Saint, my last experience I have the guy 3 months of my time and I realised I had had enough of the limbo so started dating other people and told him I wanted to give him his space to find what he wanted without me in the way because I wasn't going to continue the way we were going without any commitment and it's been 3 days since he won't speak or text me. Any updates on what happened with you?

[@sukiarts]

​@@80sprincess52any updates?

[@rhondabaldwin7529]

Hey Matt! Excellent content. Thanks for giving/sharing...

[@KMMSRP]

Mat, you are phenomenal! I have learned so much from you, sir! Thank you so much! I was fixin' to see what's new on your channel before I head to work and ... SHAZAM! This video popped up and it really resonates with me. By the way, Irene is a very fortunate woman and your kids have an amazing father! God bless all y'all.

[@marleneparker8702]

The timing of this video is perfect.

[@analisaruiz8120]

Yess!!! You can't scare the off the RIGHT guy ❤️❤️❤️

[@leopardlily3398]

You’re so great Matt! And so is this video 👍🏼

[@melisanchez7635]

I really enjoy your talks!!!!! Thanks for share your experience.

[@Anna-vp1zd]

I’m a Military widow now for 4 years, was married for 29 years when he passed away. When We married I was 18, now I’m 51. I feel I want to start dating again. Just here to re- learn and gain some tips. I’m very assure of my self worth. Just needing some tips. Thank you for these videos.

[@pinkk312]

One of the best videos I’ve seen in a while. Very coherent, easy to understand, and very relatable. 👍🏽

[@melaniereid7958]

Thank you, I needed this.

[@kaysmrt24]

Thank you. This has been so helpful🤗

[@cherrylyndaigo4930]

Either case its a blessing for me.thank u for this video. Sometimes u already know the answer and what ur attitude should be but there a times that u need to directly hear these words to remind u.

[@alaura3739]

Love, "you can't scare off the right guy". 😄 Not only is it so ridiculously obvious, but just the cold, hard, bare bones truth lol. The way you deliver your instruction is so chill that it causes me to be perfectly cool with the idea! Lol. Subscribed :) thank you!!

[@aemanahil6712]

True...thanks for sharing.. Really appreciate..

[@lesliebright2977]

Thank you so much for this video! I just use everything you discussed and I’m so happy I finally taking care of me for a change! Again, thank you so much and I love love love your channel!

[@SaystheTruth3]

If you don't choose me some other guy will... You hit the nail on the head I'm going through this right now... I will get my answer tomorrow ❤️ thank you so much Matt!

[@eleseclarke6038]

This video has helped me so much thank you i got into a fwb with a male friend of 12years i didn't realize i liked him in an romantic way and i realised that i have fallen for him he has said he doesn't want a relationship and he still loves his ex but still wants to be in this fwb but was giving me mixed signals i have just text him that phrase and his response was just ok this has give me the push i needed because now i can make room for the right person to come along

[@vicky2glam366]

Truly direct and awesome way to explain the message, I need to move on.

[@myratv7603]

Very nice advice Matt. Thank you for this. :)

[@lesleygonzalez6663]

Thank you I really needed to hear this. I’ve been in a 12 year friendship and it’s time to pick up the anchor and go.

[@kiselapavlak]

I'm a guy and wanted to see whats your advices for girls,women etc. This is what people need to do, either being a guy or a girl, respect their path but you NEED to follow your own, dont let people to controll your life, awesome video, Mat!

[@tzinalvere7919]

You' ve just Clear muy mind, thank you so much!!

[@almaquallikb]

Perfect ! Thank you

[@cheesetee3420]

Wow I recently experience this hahahahaha chills! I kinda do the same thing that you mention. I told him, the way he treated me was not the kind of relationship that I want. But the different is, I clearly told him I don't want ro be with him anymore. I told him what made me hurt so much (after he persuade me 3 times to talk things out. I am stubborn that way) And now we end things. And I know that I will and still hope that I will have the relationship that I want. But also the way that my guy wants. So we can make each other happy. It might be soon, it might not. But hey, at least I learnt something new

[@agnetamosica6392]

I had an experience with a guy I met in Greece. We had our first date and he told me that he is not made for relationships, that he cannot decide on which woman to stay with. I understood his belief and I told him about mine:"What I want is to get married and to have my home and family around, to take care of my husband and our house, to have lovely kids and a beautiful family life. This is what I want and what would make me really happy and I am going to have this." The same day, he asked me out again in the evening and he asked me to marry him. It was without a ring, but he was really serious. I refused him as we met just few days before and I was going out with him to meet new people because I was in vacation in Greece, I did not see him as a potential husband. This experince was interesting and I will never forget it. A high value woman has much power. 😊

[@ninoskabermudez3247]

I have to say that your videos, and your advices are awesome, it's been really helpful for me! Thank you.

[@roxanekeeley-monet9352]

Probably the BEST video I've ever seen of yours Matt. Thank you.

[@sabric.9104]

Tested this with my man, gave him a warning and things changed for the better from there. I still feel I don't have his full commitment, but perhaps he needs a reminder.

[@vee6505]

I was seeing this guy for a month or two and I really like him, we have great chemistry but he is away all the time. I message him and told him that " I really like him and I wanna get to know him better and that I wanna know if he feels the same or there is a hope of us moving forward? If not then I wanna know as I don't want to expect anything". He then respond saying he had a great time with me, that he will be busy for the next few months and he can't give me what I want right now. So I responded " thank you for being so honest, I had great time being with you . I wish you well. He has a follow message but I did not respond as I am hurt. Did I do the right thing? I am moving on but there is still a little hope that he will come back in the future.

[@11cesarrenato]

i think he is going back one day but right now you have to move on...

[@ParisTNT]

Great advice, Mat. Thank you.

[@zarinameykhori9773]

Mat always gives valuable advice! I’m so grateful for what you do, Mat!

[@danayap]

This video released 2 months ago and i watched these before a month ago i decided to clear my relationship status to a guy, in the end of the video right after Matt released this, i cried and felt emotional if i follow this advise but this video give so much courage to me to face the reality of moving forward and this is a blessing in disguise or i might rather say a sign to be free from the questions back in my head on our casual relationship. Thank you Matt for creating a videos that is straight forward into reality of relationship and i might say that this makes you unique from others, the authenticity of videos into the serious and depth relationship gives us viewers a great opportunities to understand how does a relationship should be while valuing our own self as woman.

[@smariamyumiko6809]

You are right about the scenario giving him more time. (I had proven that myth already in my previous relationship. It broke us apart.

[@asmakhan-zr1dp]

Thankyou. Just what I needed to hear

[@nenethtampz9340]

I love this video..thanks Matt😌

[@melissaslade9652]

This has helped me soooo much. Exactly what I needed. Thank you so much Mat.

[@yourskincaresimplified2779]

I said I deserve to be in a relationship with someone who wants to be in a relationship with me and that’s not you, that’s ok.

[@Kellyyy44]

Love!!!

[@michellemcfarland80]

Ur encouragements R awesome! Thank U Dude!! 👍👍👍

[@bitsywillmott6881]

Each presentation is well delivered - thanks. Your background setting is creative and organized...must be kin to you.