If I had to get girls ASAP in my 20s here's what I'd do

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Denmo

Denmo

Күн бұрын

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@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 2 ай бұрын
Work with us 1-on-1 to solve this problem here: www.socializer.school
@szekamate
@szekamate 2 ай бұрын
I watch a lot of self-improvement content on KZbin but of all the people I watch, you are the most relatable, honest and genuine. Keep up the good work Denmo and thank you!
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 2 ай бұрын
appreciate that man, glad it helps
@TBatu
@TBatu 2 ай бұрын
valóban
@ModernDatingMastery
@ModernDatingMastery 2 ай бұрын
*What stood out the most is how attraction often starts with the way you carry yourself - body language, posture, and the way you speak. When you project self-assurance and value, it creates a magnetic energy that women can't help but be drawn to!*
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 2 ай бұрын
well said
@shuten2904
@shuten2904 2 ай бұрын
That’s why they get manipulated so easily by guys that know that.
@prostohodim
@prostohodim 2 ай бұрын
The trickiest thing about being in shape is that at some point body dysmorphia hits you like a train
@Firelegs101
@Firelegs101 2 ай бұрын
what finally broke me was going on a cruise. I was constantly outside, worked out in the gym every day on the cruise, super tan from greece's crazy UV's, became the life of the party and i actually didnt have to talk to anyone. I was just being nice and being out there and dressing well. And dressing well doesnt always have to be what every guy wears. I have piercings and fun looking button downs with white jeans and a starwars seatbelt as my belt and hair longer than Hozier. I tell you what when you develop your own style outside of the established norm you stick out in a VERY good way. and then a guy tells me i need to go talk to two girls sitting to the side who want to meet me and the BOTH flirted with me. it was unreal and ever since my confidence has been through the roof and my mood is 100% better but, Im still a gamer, i still spend most of the time inside. You dont HAVE to be an extrovert, you just have to be able to put yourself out there and be confident in yourself even with a low social battery
@vicerichter1163
@vicerichter1163 Ай бұрын
goes to show looks matter. Personality doesnt. You think they would have bothered with you if you didnt look good? Its all a fakegame. Dategame is whack these days.
@Firelegs101
@Firelegs101 14 күн бұрын
@@vicerichter1163 you say that but whats stopping you from growing your hair out and using products to make it look good? Whats stopping you from having moisturizer on? You can shave your beard or you can actually care for it with shampoo and conditioner. I wear fun clothes and nerdy accessories that make me more approachable. Wearing a t shirt and looking like you dont care for yourself gives them an impression that youre depressed and lets face it, people who are happy really dont want to talk to someone who is depressed at a party, club, bar, or convention. It ruins the mood. Look fun and be fun or be chill if thats your vibe. Practice having a smile once in a while and break down the barriers that you have to look stoic all the time for whatever reason. Hell im like 125. I may not be overweight but im far from "peak male phisique" its not like women crawl all over me the moment i step through a door it always has been and will be mostly about presentation and girls who are surface level will look at you on surface level. Being fun will attract REAL people. I had a friend who was massively overweight in HS but he was so fun to talk to and be around so when i asked my crush out she rejected me fully then later dated him. His personality beat looks and it taught me a lot about my depression ridden life driving people away
@ChristiaanvanJaarsveld-o1i
@ChristiaanvanJaarsveld-o1i Ай бұрын
Just listening to you make a person feel better already bro
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial Ай бұрын
glad to hear my brother
@ChiefsFanInSC
@ChiefsFanInSC 2 ай бұрын
I am in my fifties, and it took me decades of painful trial and error to learn what this guy just said in this 30 minute video. Tremendous advice! By the way, learning how to do public speaking is a GREAT way for men to build confidence and attract women.
@ChiefsFanInSC
@ChiefsFanInSC 2 ай бұрын
@@arnoldkanashi5546 I have taken a lot of public speaking class and they encourage you to be creative on your topics. It makes a HUGE difference in how you handle yourself in public settings. When you are composed and confident in public settings, it is incredibly attractive to women.
@ChiefsFanInSC
@ChiefsFanInSC 2 ай бұрын
@@arnoldkanashi5546 Speaking in front of a group of people is really hard. Once you develop that skill, and have that confidence, your ability to interact in small groups will improve. This will also benefit your career, which in turn will boost your confidence further. Seriously, once you are able to speak in front of a group of 20 to 30 people, confidently interacting with a woman is pretty easy.
@ishaansingh8699
@ishaansingh8699 2 ай бұрын
Really appreciate the work you're doing, keep it up bro
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 2 ай бұрын
gotchu bro
@BarChordA
@BarChordA 2 ай бұрын
I’d like to see you make an in-depth video about how to love yourself as a man, both actively and passively, internally and externally. I’d like to hear your thoughts on the dichotomy of self acceptance versus self improvement. I kind of already know a lot of the things you would say, because it would heavily overlap most of the content you already make, but I mean specifically through the lens of loving yourself for its own sake. Plus, even if it’s mostly a re-organization of ideas, I’d still like to hear you say it, you magnificent silver-tongued bastard.
@michaelpagsanhan9376
@michaelpagsanhan9376 2 ай бұрын
Love this illustration Denmo! Keep up the good work!
@brahma8973
@brahma8973 2 ай бұрын
Thank you brother. God bless you❤. I just turned 20 and I will try to improve my life.
@Firelegs101
@Firelegs101 2 ай бұрын
Side note: for those of you turbo nerds who dont like bars/clubs, Conventions are also an environment to meet people! Edit: or tournaments
@radfoo72
@radfoo72 2 ай бұрын
Struggling with body dismorphia. It's tough working out with full time employment and an hr commute every day. I'm not complaining, just venting.
@KalebJester-e2t
@KalebJester-e2t 2 ай бұрын
I put myself out there, have made some friends. But we don’t consistently hang out. And some of them are just gym friends who when I try to invite them outside the gym never wanna hang. So I’m confused. I’m trying, but feel like it isn’t working haha. I also live in a small city with like 90k people. I’m moving to Austin Texas in March though. Looking to meet new people there.
@ianmartinez3986
@ianmartinez3986 2 ай бұрын
I found you at the right time and like how relatable you are, most likely will buy the paid program, soon just had a few questions about it and to be hyped about it, wish I could have someone to talk about it, like someone who took the course and implemented it
@kulik03
@kulik03 2 ай бұрын
It's time to start loving ourselves bros!!
@onionsurgeon7463
@onionsurgeon7463 2 ай бұрын
Hey Denmo, Idk if you get many comments like this, but this video is genuinely helpful, thank you very much for delivering value like this, not only insightful, but it helps me and hopefully many other young men to focus and execute! Thank you very much man
@mishasamorodin9150
@mishasamorodin9150 2 ай бұрын
Ive got value, but marketing it is a challenge occasionally
@Just_Nathan_G
@Just_Nathan_G 2 ай бұрын
Great video bro
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 2 ай бұрын
hope it helped brother
@BobbyDunlap87
@BobbyDunlap87 2 ай бұрын
Denmo is back!
@danb5944
@danb5944 2 ай бұрын
All you can do is improve your body in the gym girls do notice and work on your confidence but for a lot of guys there's nothing you can do too make yourself attractive too women but there's always a back up and that's paying for it sad but true
@maticz5658
@maticz5658 23 күн бұрын
not be yourself, be best version of yourself
@suganyanagaraj1059
@suganyanagaraj1059 2 ай бұрын
perfect timing
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 2 ай бұрын
youtube algorithm be helping
@JamesWilson-X
@JamesWilson-X 2 ай бұрын
You guys feel like “day game cold approach” doesn’t work as well as it used to years ago? Or am I crazy? Not having the best luck.
@savage-yp7ci
@savage-yp7ci 2 ай бұрын
What's up with all that "Books" in comments, that keep appearing again and again in such channels? Is that bots?
@usrname12
@usrname12 2 ай бұрын
Yea
@vpxr
@vpxr 2 ай бұрын
weird
@JohnM...
@JohnM... 2 ай бұрын
Scammers
@EduardoMartinez-ys6fb
@EduardoMartinez-ys6fb 2 ай бұрын
Got to be in it to win it.
@007Anukul
@007Anukul 2 ай бұрын
I don't really understand the video game hate. Not everyone is addicted to them. To me it's art.
@johndong4754
@johndong4754 2 ай бұрын
They aren't bad, it's just that a lot of guys spend too much time playing them
@giantsprod777
@giantsprod777 2 ай бұрын
The hate on them is that they are addictive but I agree video games aren’t bad not everybody is addicted to them, I play them in my free time when I’m not working out, working, socializing whatever
@elite4149
@elite4149 2 ай бұрын
U probably are addicted since u had to make this unnecessary comment. A lot of these people spend way too much time in it n those people be the main ones complaining they can’t get no females😭 if u are playing then u need to have a balance to it 1-2 hours max not 8 hours shift on a game after work and now u cant even do anything productive
@007Anukul
@007Anukul 2 ай бұрын
@@elite4149 I'm not. I'm playing maybe 2 hours a week. But was addicted in my school days, so I can understand that also. Back then games were also better haha
@raylanders-t7l
@raylanders-t7l Ай бұрын
B attracts b…mate..I’m a new fan and wow I’m in sales but you win..love to chat if you have the time .is there d merch?lol
@geoffn1530
@geoffn1530 2 ай бұрын
Well dude. I was bullied outta elementary and high school. I had to learn at home with mom. I had no knowledge, work skill or social skills. From the time I finished my last textbook til now at age 40 I been stuck as a janitor . There is no time in the gym that will make people respect me. I had my female boss make fun of me yesterday. So…yeah
@chom1303
@chom1303 Ай бұрын
You can feel sorry for yourself or you can take action to improve your life.
@Polyruidoso
@Polyruidoso Ай бұрын
Yo, just pointing out that American beauty is about a guy that leaves his Job at a big corporation to work on Mc Donalds, BY his own choice... Amazing video anyway 🎉
@Steve-n9g7i
@Steve-n9g7i 2 ай бұрын
I work so hard all week long. I'm still broke.
@sportlams
@sportlams 2 ай бұрын
Its fascinating that hardly anyone has heard of the book Unveiling Your Hidden Potential. I believe it was banned but I recently saw that it has been returned
@petrisorvalentin7421
@petrisorvalentin7421 2 ай бұрын
Bot farming?
@blackwing7966
@blackwing7966 2 ай бұрын
I like your Content and all but Socializer is a bit too expensive for my Taste
@ronartest7748
@ronartest7748 2 ай бұрын
you are the god of how to get women
@JeremyYu-r8g
@JeremyYu-r8g 2 ай бұрын
I do this bro
@thomascraig6814
@thomascraig6814 2 ай бұрын
Does the same model apply if you’re 31?
@tom23245
@tom23245 2 ай бұрын
Real answer if you just want to get sex ASAP is pros, sugar babies, or escorts. No one will know any better, and promiscuous women who you'll hook up with are effectively the same thing.
@chino436
@chino436 2 ай бұрын
Why be with somebody when its conditional
@EduardoSanchez-un2hh
@EduardoSanchez-un2hh 2 ай бұрын
The Rock and Arnold are cool in movies but a pair of soybeans IRL.
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 2 ай бұрын
haha I wish this wasnt true
@sitka49
@sitka49 2 ай бұрын
Here's the thing that women don't tell you, They'll say I want a guy that's funny, good provider, emotional intelligent - etc.... And the guy hearing this ,will say "I'm all that and then some" So how come I cant meet a girl, or get a date? Because women are only interested in those attributes, in men they're attracted to - thinking like, Jack Reacher with a sensitive side.
@hpfusion8842
@hpfusion8842 2 ай бұрын
Does this work with really short guys too?
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 2 ай бұрын
absolutely but status, personality & humor need to be focused on heavily
@hpfusion8842
@hpfusion8842 2 ай бұрын
@Denmosocial thanks, it is difficult but I'll keep trying
@Kappa647
@Kappa647 2 ай бұрын
Yea but what about Hollywood
@dark_Kaiba
@dark_Kaiba 2 ай бұрын
can u do one for how to get a stepmom for my infant lol
@DonovanDeans
@DonovanDeans 2 ай бұрын
16:53 - 17:08 😂😂😂
@kaffeekatze684
@kaffeekatze684 2 ай бұрын
Guy here is way too focused on money. Its over for bro
@joshpassow7247
@joshpassow7247 2 ай бұрын
Soo, I only make 20 per hour. Put alot into jobs and amounted to nothing cause I'm not an ass kissing pos. How could I afford your program... I've been alone my whole, abuse by mom and always the outcast, almost 40, had one of and she treated me like shit, wtf am I supposed to do.
@booradley8232
@booradley8232 2 ай бұрын
Well, stop complaining for one…I tell my 6 year old, “No one likes a crybaby.” And I mean NO ONE. It’s no one’s fault that you aren’t making what you want and you can do anything on your own, with enough effort. KZbin is literally the dad I never had. I’ve taught myself woodworking, Spanish, money management, self help, electronic music production, and all kiiinds of other things…maybe look up some videos on positive thinking hacks and actually follow through. Good luck man. You’ll find you a girl.
@SauravKumar-nb4xc
@SauravKumar-nb4xc 2 ай бұрын
thank you for this honey
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 2 ай бұрын
gotchu baby
@koze_4047
@koze_4047 2 ай бұрын
I hate the hype guy. People in a good mood getting loved. Sad people go into the trash. U happy = u get more happy U sad = u get more sad.
@justinava1675
@justinava1675 2 ай бұрын
Can get women. But hard to get the right women. A lot lie and don't take accountability for things and just shift blame in my experience..
@dark_nightwing_xl2797
@dark_nightwing_xl2797 2 ай бұрын
Go with the introverted ones
@Peter-sl6zn
@Peter-sl6zn 2 ай бұрын
​@@dark_nightwing_xl2797I'm introvert 21 yr old never had gf, there's one girl in my same class in college, I'm gonna asked her out soon
@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485
@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 2 ай бұрын
Practice semen retention, the end
@JenesaKline
@JenesaKline 2 ай бұрын
1. Go to dinner. 2. Eat. 3. ❤ that's my 3 step love plan voila
@jrdonaldson2053
@jrdonaldson2053 2 ай бұрын
Denmo
@yanyant-q1l
@yanyant-q1l 2 ай бұрын
what if your not smart enough to make lot of money
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 2 ай бұрын
go into trades lol
@yanyant-q1l
@yanyant-q1l 2 ай бұрын
@@Denmosocial i dont like construction work. it sucks. i done it before too
@rubytuesday2682
@rubytuesday2682 Ай бұрын
14:31 TITTY
@LegitScar
@LegitScar 2 ай бұрын
hey Denmo, I've heard you say you're diabetic before. I was recently diagnosed type 1 this year at age 24, and wanted to ask when you were diagnosed and how you've adapted to and live with it. I'm sure there aren't many others that can relate, but some advice would be extremely helpful to myself and others. God bless!
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial 2 ай бұрын
cut out sugars/carbs, go hard on fats & proteins. 3 meals a day, don't eat after 8pm if you can, and supplement with blood sugar lowering medication or insulin depending your doctors recommendation
@ivanbeacon5883
@ivanbeacon5883 2 ай бұрын
​@@Denmosocialdoes it cause concern with pump canulas & cgms etc when dating...if you know what I mean???
@JohnM...
@JohnM... 2 ай бұрын
I just don't have any confidence and self esteem when it cones to women. They actually DON'T like me. The longer I'm a virgin the more difficult it is, and I'm not young anymore. They make me feel uncomfortable (because there's the prospect of rejection and humiliation behind them 'allowing me' to talk to them). THERE'S a video - i challenge you to make one out of that! 😂
@jojoyayathereal
@jojoyayathereal 2 ай бұрын
Third
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