If I Married At 25, I Would Have Married Wrong(I Was a Feminist)

[@StaceyHarrison]

I love the fact that Arike kept differentiating the modern day feminism and the original idea. Feminism is not a satanic word, if you believe that everyone deserves equal opportunities, then you are a feminist. Just because a particular sect has demonized the idea doesn't make feminism a wrong idea.

[@ogooachu]

It's actually a good cause; fighting for women's right. I wonder why people are trying to drift from the idea of inventing it in the first place

[@seismicvertigo345]

The whole thing is just western confusion. They were experimenting with an ideology and failed. Do men love women, it's a resounding yes. Do women like men, it's a resounding yes. I'm pretty sure it was some single women who started this stuff because they didn't know that

[@goodnessekele7679]

How can I like this comment more than a billion times!

[@achigodspower6755]

You're so discerning and matured in knowledge! Thanks for this. Nothing is wrong with feminism. Because a group of people impose their personal agenda and misconceptions on the idea doesn't make it fundamentally wrong. They're talking about "modern day feminist" or maybe "Nigerian Twitter Feminist" because there's absolutely nothing wrong with feminism as a concept. Just as Christianity is skewed because of the fallible human nature but doesn't inherently annul the original concept, same with feminism. You can't just wake up and demonise Christianity because your neighbour who is a pastor beats his wife, same way with feminism.

[@obitutu4765]

I believe everyone deserves equal opportunity. That's not feminism, it's just being a good decent person.

[@Gracietv349]

Your wife is very calculative with her words/ speech which l really love ,and that would help Buchi because he is someone that likes to just say it out the way he feels but sometimes you have have to hold back some words when addressing the public

[@lawrenceharry7543]

This post brings to mind a book my wife and I read called "Understanding the Purpose and Power of A Woman" by Myles Munroe before we tied the knot. I highly recommend it as essential reading for any couple considering marriage.

[@rerelovesGod]

The way SB talks just justifies that you're not determined by your past. Real picture of "old things have passed away and have become new". You wouldn't even know he once spoke like that.

[@S.u.c.c.e.s.s]

I could listen to Arike speak all day ❤️ Her voice and accent is so soothing 😍

[@blessedaudu]

💯💯

[@s0fire_]

Honestly

[@Nursenkvibes]

“I am secure in my identity in Christ and even outside of you!!!!!! “ Hits differently ❤

[@s0fire_]

❤️

[@thejesusgistgirl]

Thank you, Adeola!!! "I respect the women who choose to be house wives." 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@murna_u]

7:53 “you can do the right thing in the wrong way” Period! I love the transparency and honesty. We’re not here to sugarcoat factsss

[@Stehfahni_Homes]

This woman sweeps me off my feet Everytime she speaks.. she's Just too intelligent.. Adeola well done please 😘😘😘

[@follabee.x]

Mr. and Mrs. Solomon-Buchi😍

[@ADERINSOLAADENIRAN]

Your relationship typifies the type of love that comes from a lot of vulnerability & purity of intentions. You both look so good & I love what you share. It’s so good to see young, godly relationships because the world needs examples that God gives good things ❤

[@_peculiarj]

I love Arike’s eloquence

[@Journeytoablessedmarriage]

The sweetest part is that anybody that wants to come for wifey will get it from hubby. E sweet me😁

[@covenantpaschal9863]

I'll watch this over and over, because it's different when you watch again.

[@faithdafang2913]

All I see in this podcast is love and honesty 😢 thank you for blessing us Mr and Mrs Buchi ❤

[@seunfunmi2410]

Literally managing the home is hard work. I can't do it but I respect women who do it.

[@doyinosobukola9853]

The truth is to we can only achieve equality through equity. With equity our needs may not be the same.

[@The_Worded_Doctor]

I really just want to commend the “Strings & Locs”, such a good pick.❤ It’s how my friends teased me throughout this their wedding just because I’m Àríké too.😂❤️

[@johnqueen6831]

Its so beautiful to see how much Solomon has grown❤️❤️ .

[@rosemaryikechukwu3869]

When u say grown it sounds as though he was a child growing up😂😂😂lols

[@chinuadozie9550]

Arike compliments Solomon Buchi so well.. such a smart and eloquent woman❤

[@priscillaasen3746]

Wow!!,, thank you for sharing. You're a power couple. And Yes Mr Buchi I was excited to see you for the first time. (I showed you the way to a pharmacy) I hope you sent my regards to your beautiful wife.🙏🙏🙏🎉

[@thejesusgistgirl]

Solomon Buchi is so eloquent and knowledgeable!!! Go guys!!! I Stan and restan. May the Lord keep strengthening you!

[@barnabasnnaemeka4320]

Congratulations to you Buchi and Arike once more. I'm glad you two are beginning this love together as married and I like the fact that you guys are beginning to share these opinions. I'm a silent follower of you on Facebook but never commented on any of your posts, reason? I Never saw the need to do so because I don't have strength to take vile words from Facebook women who were gbaming all you ever said. I'm not judging you anyway because of your past decisions and posts. I know all of us at certain point in our lives can see reason to make a shift and adjustment, but I'm just trying to pass this message across because there lots of people who are like me on your wall on Facebook and who will be following you here too on KZbin. It will take a while for all of us on this category to come around to love what you and Arike share now which is beautiful. Very beautiful. Kudos to you guys. Then let's talk about the topic "Feminism". We must know that Feminism from time immemorial remains the same till date. The meaning of Feminism has never changed and will never change for anyone. Feminism is a movement and not a fight. I'm sure what you call "modern" Feminism is what I call "Nigerian Facebook Feminism Women". Feminism can never change in its true sense, just that Nigerian Facebook women have a wrong perception of Feminism. Majority of them have never read any article or documentry on Feminism. The only thing they know is coming to Facebook to fight any man that makes a statement that doesn't favour them. Coming to Facebook to teach the young girls the wrong notion of Feminism and these girls grow to digest, hate and fight men. I'm an ardent believer of equal right and I've read lots of stuffs on Feminism and never did I see what Nigerian ladies are doing on Facebook and that's why the only Feminist I know in Nigeria is Ngozi Chimamanda Adichie, others on Facebook are noise makers. Unfortunately you can't go to these people's wall to hold a conversation on the comment section without these young girls coming to insult you and that's why I don't comment when they raise topics like this on Facebook. I rather hold my peace and continue scrolling than to comment. Feminism is a beautiful thing and people will appreciate it more when they realize the true sense and meaning of Feminism. People will appreciate it more when they know that Feminism holds the position that the society gives the men full priority, without them getting any attention and the movement was established to discuss how women are treated unjustly and in an unfair way in the society. The movement is to bring enlightenment on the interdisciplinary way of approach on the issue of equality and right of women in the society, in politics and in many aspects of our everyday lives. When this movement started, it wasn't so easy but they are making waves. They have actually done great work on this aspect because all of us both male and female deserve to live and live purposefully. For Nigerian women on Facebook, Feminism means a wife cooks on Monday and the husband cooks on Tuesday. A wife cooks on Wednesday and the husband cooks on Thursday and it continues that way which is a wrong notion of the movement Feminism. I wish alot of people will go deeper to study and know the real excence of Feminism. Buchi I must commend you for taking the bold step of making this shift and it sounds so mature now. Unlike when you make a biased statement on Facebook which ends up making two confused groups on Facebook to fight. (Confused groups are Alpha men and Nigerian Facebook Feminist women) It's a lovely thing you guys are bringing this topics up at this innitial stages to clear some earlier impressions. I wish you two Love and understanding in your marriage and I hope to see more videos in future. Goodluck to you too. Barnabas Nnaemeka Chimeodo.

[@tobibonike]

your explanation is Insightful 👍👏

[@teethart9865]

Yup! people are reactive and conflating social media trolling with a course.

[@giftpeter4742]

"If they come for you, I will come for them" 😍🥺💞💞

[@edithmpamah117]

Freedom should rest upon responsibility 👏

[@princessyoryor]

I already know this is going to be my favorite podcast 💜 I’m excited!

[@faithdafang2913]

First to comment 😂 we love you two

[@remsy89]

I could listen to you guys all day. So much wisdom and context. Arike you're so beautiful, intelligent and sweet. God bless you two

[@rerelovesGod]

SB always giving Arike the "word"🤣❤️

[@soetanolajuwon]

I am already in love with this podcast. 💝

[@olaidefolorunsho7615]

You guys are doing well, God will continue to strengthen your home. Love you ♥️

[@OLUCHI_okonkwo]

I am just here for the love you guys share... From Facebook to KZbin... Lovin' it

[@obitutu4765]

I believe everyone deserves equal opportunity. That's not feminism, it's just being a good decent person.

[@faithbello371]

I can’t agree any less with what has being said here, I’m grateful to God for this union🙏🏼❤️ so much insight right here and I love it

[@Yuceebaby]

Solomon Buchi and wifey hosting a podcast. Wawu lovely to watch 😘😘😍

[@fadayiroomotayo2346]

Arike’s accent is really blowing me away❤

[@luccichiemelie]

Wisdom, knowledge and intelligence at its peak. I was literally smiling while watching the podcast. God is the Ultimate!! Godly marriage is key!! I love 💕💕💕💕

[@tabi_lu]

Listening to two intelligent people speak 🤩

[@alexanderfasanya9158]

I love how real you are, this was very lovely to watch. Thank you.

[@melodyraymond3016]

You guys are full of Wisdom. Permit me to call you POWER COUPLE. ❤️

[@nelsonukor]

You both touched on crucial points. Especially on the autonomy of women to choose what they want. Especially those women that do not conform to what "modern-day feminism" calls for. This conversation might have also benefitted from a bit more balance. The "modern-day feminist" perspective could have been more constructively explored than just the CNA example and a lot of generalisation. Looking forward to your trans convo.

[@deborahukeje169]

I love the part that portrait Christ as our focus for our live.

[@viviadjei]

The level of wisdom articulated in this session! Wow!

[@faithdafang2913]

I’m with you Wifey modern feminism is so so intense and hostile 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@sarahsam3603]

I think house wives and what it entailed are really understated and this conversation about it is great. But problem is, most women who are housewives advise otherwise and say it's better to have a source of income no matter how small so I don't know what to believe🤷🏿‍♀️. My take, RESPECT is paramount in marriage, whether as a house wife or a career woman and being a house wife is alot of work which need to be appreciated and respected.

[@Omowumzy]

That is because humans are imperfect and finances is an important source of power.

[@sarahsam3603]

@@Omowumzy Thank you😊

[@zeebaby1997]

I love the way Adeola speaks🥰🥰 so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️😩

[@Itohan_gospel]

I love your wife She speaks so well

[@Nitsadonna]

You both are glowing. Arike’s voice is soothing. Happy married life again

[@preciousmmesoma9365]

Thank you so much for yielding to Christ❤️😍 The word is always a go to and the final. Mrs Buchi I must say,you have a very nice accent and OMG I loveeeee ittt. Mr Buchi I love how you help her out in words and all. Finally, I love you both, your composure, the mutual understanding, eloquence in speech and communication etc God bless your family.

[@orchuwa3656]

We want a “how we met” video 🥹

[@nessanelson4130]

This session was really impactful . And I totally agree with arike, modern day feminism is hostile and sometimes I wanna classify these feminists as misandrist because the amount of hatred tho

[@julietemelike7667]

Power coupe 🔥❤❤❤

[@Girl_like.b]

Omo, an educative podcast Can't wait for more episodes... Congratulations you guys on your marriage ❤️🎉🥳

[@salamatujummai]

I’m here for all the knowledge and words I need. Love you both❤️🤗

[@_talkwithtee]

I'm listening few minutes in and u love the both of you already😊🙈❤️.. God bless your union. (amen).

[@rebeccaayomide4657]

Y’all passed huge messages,thank you,I can’t wait for the next episode.

[@christabeldan-okine1707]

This was wholesome to watch and listen to😊

[@feyikemioyeleye9170]

two intelligent people talking 😍😍🤭

[@Grachivlogs]

I’m learning a lot from you guys . This channel will definitely help me grow more spiritually thank you 🙏

[@ceokoye01]

My people❤️🤗 This is beautiful content!

[@obicynthia488]

Wow! you both are so intelligent.

[@joynsien21]

I really enjoyed this. This kind of topic needs more volume in today's world🔊.. Thanks guys. God bless your home❤

[@ChillieCakes]

I enjoyed every Bit of it🤗🥰♥️ Thanks Arike & Solomon 🙏♥️

[@lolablackofficial]

This was a really good conversation. You both are amazing and I love how you feel comfortable having hard conversations. You have many conversations for another day so please bring them on😀 Congratulations on your marriage. May God bless your new home in Jesus name🙏🏾

[@jackyenanga1458]

25:19😅🥰🥰🥰

[@christabelsimamba1553]

The speed at which I clicked🥺😍. Yay! So excited for this and upcoming episodes!

[@enitanmercy3174]

I Love this.❤️ GOD BLESS.🙏🏾

[@s0fire_]

Adeola's plix😂

[@helenolanrewaju]

I absolutely love this video

[@julietemelike7667]

I laughed at the end 😅 love love you guys

[@Loveablemabelspace]

Solomon: If they come for you, I come for them Me: yeahhhh

Great topic and great conversation between you guys 👏 👌. One of the takeaways for me is "many feminist need therapy not feminism...needs Jesus Christ "🙏. This is true for many if they are honest with themselves.

[@talktimewithfifi]

This is such an intelligent conversation. Thank you!

[@IreOluwafunmike]

I had to pause this video to make a comment. Thank you for sharing this video, this conversation. I know how bold y’all have to be to share this. Thank God for the Holy Spirit in you two and your community.

[@saliuhauwa497]

I just thought this is a good couple to subscribe to their channel.I like this start.I love this.I am loving you guys already.more Greese and more Grace

[@factsandopinions577]

I'm not yet 25 I am a feminist and a christian And i will forever be whether 10 years or 100 years from now.

[@FolahKabiti]

This is beautiful, thanks for sharing. 🤗🤗 You both are amazing 🥰

[@obitutu4765]

This was good! 👍

[@faithonuh1859]

Reflect the gospel!

[@womenpalavanetwork]

Oh my goodness, what an intelligent conversation. Thanks strings and locks. 👏 I enjoyed this episode. 💪💪

[@Xthfollow]

Great podcast. Just don't let it be a reactionary pod to social media fights. There's a lot of (other and better) contents we look forward to from you guys and we'll support all the way.

[@thykingdomcome5825]

This was so beautiful to watch. ❤

[@edithmpamah117]

I’m here for it❤

[@moonlightscare7097]

Bauchi you were a radical feminist, not a liberal feminist. There’s a huge difference. Every movement has their extreme side. At the end of the day, feminism is about women and men having access to equal opportunities not men and women being the same people. The meaning of feminism is still the same. Let’s look at the core meaning of feminism. If not for feminism, Arike, your wife, wouldn’t even be able to choose to be a house wife or not.

[@davinauche3195]

Thank you

[@cynthiamicheal5738]

Thank you for this

[@seunfunmi2410]

I'm already in love with this podcast😊😊😊.

[@TIJESUNIOLAYIWOLA]

It's not even about who did what firsts but who put in their all they could to be the best they can be to impact their environment.

[@adelleefeoma927]

You guys ❤good content ,Arike is beautiful

[@divinetestimony3538]

Finally 🥺👏❤️

[@fehintiibraheem9337]

I enjoyed everybit of this podcast. You guys spoke everything in my mind and head,I stand for gender equality and i do not associate myself with modern day feminism because it's quite toxic,too intense,and they exalt women's rights more than that of men. I personally think modern day feminism started from where men in the olden days would say only their Male children will go to school and Female are just subjected to be housewives without having to make their own choices.which was totally evil,now modern day feminism has stood up to say no to that but however they do it the wrong way,putting women above,which when we look back it becomes vice versa.I believe everyone as equal right on this earth 50/50,but modern day feminism portrays 60/40 exalting the Female gender,which I do not stand for. It's funny when people hear me say I'm not a feminist they look at me like oh here comes the devil.lol,I repeat i do not stand for what modern day feminism represents, the hostility, the intense hatred etc,I do not stand for that.Thank you

[@shaibuaisha8076]

You just won a subscriber!

[@sunmolaa]

Well done guys, this is perfect 👏👏

[@Bangwafinest]

I so love arike wifey is very smart

[@yourenergygirl]

I really learnt a lot…love you guys❤❤❤

[@funmio4892]

I'm in guys. Love love love you guys.

[@dammiesspace7447]

I love this so much!

[@sarahorede]

This is amazing and I learnt a lot! 💓💓

[@OluchiSpeaksOn]

God bless this couple

[@godswillsamson5073]

You are both very smart. Enjoyed listening to this!

[@ruthmubwangolo1302]

I really loved this episode! Kuddos

[@dharmykinky7169]

Love everything said😍😍