If Introverts Were Honest

[@kallmekris]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/fmiVfJ-JfZ6Iqas latest video 😊❤️ THANK YOU FOR 7 MILLION!

[@evanjones-reedy8760]

Its great to see your channel rising!

[@armydude81]

Congrats kiddo!

[@wierdo9074]

✨I CANT BELIEVE YOU LIKED MY COMMENT✨

[@Junksaint]

It's too real kris

[@Wasted-Life]

7 Mill? 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳 Well deserved, congrats 😊

[@lawrenceyoung3245]

"I need 5-15 to even process the thought of people coming over!!!" What a quote

[@hollyjames.]

Isn't it though?! People get upset with me because that's literally what I need. Preparing my energy to take on your energy takes time. Folks don't respect it though. They judge and feel offended (Sigh).

[@sub4cookie-]

read my name!

[@Fizz-Pop]

My friends never understood this. I spend a weekend with you, then I need a month to recharge. I don't need you...sorry. Extroverts so needy. I could see you once or twice a year and I'd be happy. What's this every week shit?!

[@frankswarbrick7562]

Is Kris a Canadian? The way she said "process" makes me think she might be.

[@romainsavioz5466]

Plus the cleaning and tiding up

[@Outlaw3835]

"I need 5 to 15 business days to even process the thought of company coming over" I never felt more true words

[@Tom-vx5eq]

*business months

[@maryrose-gm3rh]

@@Tom-vx5eq lol

[@jacobmassey3897]

This is so f*cking true 😂

[@Vivek-io3gj]

1000th like

[@nyamate4205]

I always say 1 to 365 days😂

[@ems10824]

“I need 5-15 business days to even process the thought of company coming over” straight facts

[@BobbiGail]

But then there is major off- the- charts stress for 15 days! Super clean or lived in clean? Food- which food should I have around? Oh crap. I can't even cook. Now what?

[@cd4953]

Yep. Literally not even an exaggeration lol.

[@Squirrel-zq6oe]

For REAL

[@noahpartic7586]

🤔Sometimes even more time than that.

[@mike91mdk45]

I felt that. Gotta have prep time

[@faeriefire78]

The only thing worse is the moment of sheer panic when the doorbell rings unexpectedly.

[@chiefb2906]

Especially when you're also a nudist.

[@rickgreer7203]

Doorbell? No…locked fence and no doorbell is the way. Zero solicitors for over a decade too.

[@katschrodinger954]

@@rickgreer7203 Don't know who you are, but I love you! Locked fence and no doorbell is perfect!

[@SheeperTon-gz4et]

Ye

[@jacebrogden3490]

“Let’s go out AND meet other friends” after you just showed up out of the blue. Sounds like torture

[@thomasmitchell4128]

True friends of mine don't just "show up" . I know it varies for everyone but for my friends we all have an understanding that just appearing at one of our homes is off the table. We all love to see each other. We all love our alone time too, and we respect each other to not invade on one another's personal time. If one of us wanted to see the other, we would text and make it happen. Boggles my mind that there are people who are the complete opposite out there. To each their own!

[@Venom-sj5wc]

@@thomasmitchell4128 why did u just make a damn paragraph when it was just a joke 😑

[@KeisiLaKreisi]

It's really annoying when people say that ._.

[@oofers-cm5gk]

"hate to show up out of the blue, uninvited but i couldnt stay away, i couldn't fight it"

[@drippychoco3057]

@@Venom-sj5wc Why don’t you let people reply and comment, in a comment section

[@lovelyjuliexo]

i like how the extroverted friend wasn’t offended or anything and was just trying to roll with the introvert at the end, “so… later?”

[@jakk1hundo553]

That’s the only inaccurate thing in this video! If this were real the extroverted friend would’ve started saying the introverted friend hates them and is pushing them away, and guilt tripping the introvert into coming out…

[@OKDL]

@@jakk1hundo553 Nah homie that's just a toxic friend

[@Hope-rd7vm]

tru friend would know how much you hate going out and wouldn't unnecessarily feel offended

[@swiper48]

@@jakk1hundo553 You need new friends, hopefully you got some better ones already

[@ImaginaMoonie]

@@jakk1hundo553 not really I have an extrovert friend we just do that every time

[@KingreX32]

"I'm in front of your place right now" I'm not even in the video and that line ruined my day as well.

[@riverstein7251]

I like hanging out with friends but randomly turning up to my place with no notice is just rude. I could be in my PJs or taking a nap. Making myself not look like a human dumpster fire takes time, this is why we make plans in advance and you text me when you’re on your way! That’s just modern fucking decency

[@valentineshearter1807]

😳😳😳 Stalker much?!

[@mfaelementrites2715]

@@riverstein7251 I feel this & thankfully that my friends understand that I need time to get ready so most of my male friends will text me before coming over

[@simplyonehellofa.2854]

Same

[@etcetc6790]

Yeah. That was rude. Don't just show up.

[@Nightlight_EditZ]

I’m an introvert and this 100% percent accurate. I’m actually surprised she picked up the phone.

[@Emmanuel-mc9bd]

god mode 😂

[@Nightlight_EditZ]

@@Emmanuel-mc9bd frfr

[@yufi305]

Welp, she did say it sparked a mild panic attack in her and she did not want to answer.

[@DaniL-hr9xo]

As an introvert myself, I'm surprised she picked up the phone.

[@one_spicy_potato3961]

ikr, i would but causally set it on mute and continue while its vibrating

[@adub1300]

Yeah that’s the fakest part of the video

[@neltonslittlesibling2880]

Well, I *do* pick up when I see that a close friend is calling. If I don't know the number I will jolly well wait til they hang up. Edit: I force myself to pick up in order to socialize more.

[@broken_rebirth]

I don't. I put it on silence and say "I get bad reception, please text". then I will text people back about three days later when i can process the thought of "conversing" LOL Too much sensory overload, am I right? Introverts are like Tom Hanks on Cast Away.

[@sub4cookie-]

read my name!

[@ThorOdinson1269]

"I'm infront of your place" "Great, go home."

[@celinemorrison4721]

This🤣🤣🤣

[@abdulazizhawsah9884]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jessirarara]

I have exactly 2 friends that are allowed to come over to my house unannounced. Anyone else gets this response.

[@angrichT]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Akiku2]

@@jessirarara i only have 1.

[@SameBasicRiff]

-"Lets go do something" -"WHY DO YOU HATE ME" I felt that.

[@dehartyz]

SAME! I wish she could be a spokes person for introverts....but....then she'd have to interact with people and we dont want that 😒. Keep up these videos

[@appleengisch6767]

@@dehartyz i think she is lol 😊

[@cgamejewels]

true

[@pechaa]

It took me years to understand that some people actually like going out and “doing something.” I cannot imagine why.

[@liltay7628]

@@pechaa Uh because some people differentiate from your sad little head

[@STAND-ALONE]

The "hm hm hm hm' is what got me,.. so peaceful...... And then the phone rings😂

[@folcotook3049]

The most honest part of this video is the extrovert completely ignoring the introvert's discomfort. 😅

[@fightme5543]

Don't forget the Introvert acting like their friend should be telepathic and realize they don't want to hang out! I love non verbalized boundaries!

[@elephantgrass631]

In this video, introverts are annoying.

[@oenrn]

@@fightme5543 Which is why you call to ask BEFORE showing up unannounced at someone's house. That's what phones are for. You shouldn't need to be telepathic to understand that invading someone's personal space without permission (and in fact without warning) is rude, that's just part of basic courtesy. Just because you can't stand spending 5 minutes alone without being everyone's centre of attention doesn't mean we have an obligation to entertain you. It's like you missed the entire point of the video.

[@oenrn]

@@elephantgrass631 So the "annoying" person is the one that just wants to be left alone, not the one that wants to force themselves into somebody else's personal space with no concern for the other person's discomfort? It seems you're exactly the type of person this video is complaining about.

[@Nina21_]

I was looking for this comment and found it immediately 😂😂

[@hermionehammond8741]

The funniest thing about this video is that she answered the phone, I be out here pretending like I didn’t see the notification for 3 to 5 business days

[@milenka4782]

Yeah, I'd staring at the phone ringing, waiting for it to finish 🤣😂

[@hermionehammond8741]

@@milenka4782 Literally do the exact same thing 😂

[@milenka4782]

@@hermionehammond8741 and then I'd txt later, oh sorry I missed your call, I must have been doing something when you rang 🤣😂

[@hermionehammond8741]

@@milenka4782 I say I’ve been really busy and then start listing everything that I’ve done in the last month like I did it all on the day they called 😂😭

[@aly7475]

@@hermionehammond8741 I do that but then I don’t even list nothing. Bc I gotta be a little honest they know I ain’t done shit 😂

[@caseymuldoon7125]

Real introverts hit decline and wait for a text message and then wait about 15 minutes to reply with, “I was in the shower.”

[@andrewolson5471]

Yes. This is exactly correct.

[@EclipseSeth]

I once screamed when my best friend called me. To be fair, he called me right after I gave him my phone (I dunno what I was expecting, but I wasn't prepared).

[@tribepets1192]

100%

[@MD-nl2ez]

You're right about that😂

[@desireew4613]

Yep, the decline button is my friend. 😊

[@suevang1990]

Lol. Just using only the phone cover was hilarious.

[@theylovelyd]

"you calling me randomly without notice right now sparked a mild panic attack within me and i did not wanna answer." and just when i thought kris couldn't get any more freakin relatable-

[@Squirrel-zq6oe]

For real 💚

[@divyarai8030]

what does she say immediately after I am in front of your home?

[@irrelevant_noob]

@@divyarai8030 (0:24) "This has ruined my day."

[@denisea.9033]

As an introvert, if my phone rings, I hold still and just stare at it until it stops ringing. I don't even want to touch my phone while it's ringing and risk accidentally answering the call, lol.

[@MelaniePoparad]

Same

[@amandajones4549]

Me too!😂

[@Styx_]

Yes same lol

[@Arealpersonhere]

Haha this made me laugh and it’s so true. I happen to dabble in both 😮😂❤

[@lindadorgan1752]

Yep

[@MeatsOfEvil]

As an introvert, I appreciate that she used an empty phone case so that she wouldn't accidentally accept a real phone call during filming and risk a real conversation =D

[@Squirrel-zq6oe]

Lol omg

[@msgal]

😂

[@Sara-fv8hg]

Haha yes

[@kitty-san1524]

or she’s just actually using her phone to record and the empty phone case was her only other option 🙂

[@kyy.myrsss]

@@kitty-san1524 its a joke..

[@TuberMad]

"...AND the batting starting lineup for the New York Yankees..." Hard-hitting commentary. I luke it!

[@Edmar_Thorn]

as soon as the phone rings, Kris's face: "The AUDACITY!"

[@Tea23145]

First of all, we gotta find a friend that cares that much 💀

[@mysticthehorselover5979]

So true, none of my friends care that much 😭

[@fazSHIKARI]

Calling randomly after 3 months and showing up outside the door expecting me to put my life, schedule and whatever that might be important on pause for them. It feels more like a demanding ransom than a respectful friend that actually cares that much.

[@rachaelp.469]

Awesome! Thought it was just me with the crap friends expecting me to drop my 2 jobs, 3 kids, apartment, chores, cooking, and family time to go hang.... and do nothing.

[@retematic2351]

It'll make you hate them and yourself. Inspires change tho, gotta admit that.

[@PickyVickyVindictive]

​@@fazSHIKARI On the flipside, you haven't called them in 3 months. You are also a fake friend.

[@Poe-tat]

The "I'm in front of your place right now" almost gave me a panic attack and i almost cried-

[@TheKingOf2024]

just be confident, bro. Just be extrovert, bro.

[@jaytera]

grow some balls

[@adammatlack4667]

Me with my family.

[@GlorifiedGremlin]

You sound too frail to even function in normal everyday life tasks if that almost made you cry

[@onyinyeihearahu3362]

Imagine them showing up in the morning and then calling...nightmarish

[@shaybaeXx1989]

"calling me randomly, Sparked a mild panic attack and did not want to answer" IS SOOO TRUE i relate SOOO MUCH,, hate being like it, but is what it is

[@pokemonitishere202]

A real introvert is one who pretends that you didn't hear it ringing even when you are home alone.

[@bigstage0304]

Yeah totally me 😂 I missed like 10 miss call and text them back in 2 day if I check my chat 😂 I don't mean to do that but everytime I pick up or answer the chat they always ask me to go out it isn't I don't appreciate them but I really don't feel comfortable to go out . I will go if I want to but not with force.

[@miwawilliams1339]

Or picks it up & watches it ring... then checks to see if a message was left.

[@MsTachke]

​@@bigstage0304 I'm totally agree and I got your point.

[@Ketzellthedragon]

Yup that's the truth

[@amiable_monster]

Didn't need to expose me like that

[@eltoast]

There is seriously nothing worse than someone showing up to your house unexpectedly

[@DarkMatterX1]

Especially if it's the BATFE

[@TekinikeT]

Freaking af...

[@힐만94]

Yepp, needs to process how to re-schedule all the well-made plans, which is doing nothing actually... 😅

[@j.e.m.7182]

Right? It happened yesterday, I was cutting up potatoes in the kitchen and all of a sudden a total stranger almost walked through the door (the outer door was open and the screen door was unlocked) to ask for some damn sod we dug up for our garden. Thank freaking God my mom was there to handle it and stop her from coming in because I wouldn't know how to handle a complete damn stranger just waltzing in like she owns the place 😂

[@scent4heaven]

Ill have some major panic attack if that happens to me. Ill deadbeat pretend im not home

[@brnn17]

Worse than someone standing outside your door is waking up and realizing that your roommate/partner/family invited someone over without giving you advance notice.

[@kjack3032]

I'm not an introvert but my college roomate did that last year. I was basically chillin in my bed and the. This dude just walks into the room. Then they had the nerve to tell me to turn my TV down cause they couldn't hear their movie. Like bitch, my TV is loud cause I can't hear my movie cause you turned yours up SO FUXKING MUCH

[@AbdullahAlSayeed]

Oh the horror 😱

[@shivermetimbers9316]

Roommate? Oh hell no

[@mylittlebrotherca9691]

"I am NOT paying your UBER Driver!"

[@mylittlebrotherca9691]

"Did you bring my favorite STARBUCKS & cheese stuffed crust pizza?" Then leave a message at the beep.

[@ajfrancis6365]

As president of the introverts association, I can confirm that we wouldn't have even acknowledged the phones existence 💀

[@hildebroeckx]

When my phone rings, I stare at it like it's a grenade and hold my breath until the sound stops

[@Jewell55737]

LMAO!!!! Most people run to get the phone ,I run from it !!😨

[@txallylester]

@@Jewell55737 you are not alone 😂

[@cherylwilkinson3228]

I do that when someone knocks on my door unexpectedly.

[@karenm3822]

Same 😂

[@anndownsouth5070]

I have a setting on my phone, so it only rings for known numbers, and for the rest, I have a very gentle ring tone so it doesn't bother me too much.

[@LordJazz]

"I'm in front of your place right now" "Wow that's a real shame. Make yourself at home on the patio."

[@cybervoid8442]

🤣🤣

[@jasonbuckley4118]

Everyone knows a true introvert wouldn't even bothered looking at the phone when it rang.

[@MysticMae21]

I'm looking at the phone going "why are you calling? There's a perfectly good text function..." XD

[@ShadowProject01]

@@MysticMae21 ☝🏿

[@Asdfghjkl-nl9yp]

I would have checked. It could be my mom

[@flakstoneforge2200]

Wait am i the only introvert that hacked my phone to not receive calls? The only reason i didnt fully stop calls was due to the unlikely event of needing the police...

[@Chris-tc6ws]

Nah you gotta check to see if it's someone you wouldn't mind talking to right then

[@aydensullivan9846]

“I need 5-10 business days to even process the thought of you coming over” ITS SO TRUE LMAO

[@kendrikhawk7436]

"So, do you wanna..." "No." Grumpy Cat is my spirit animal.

[@johncochran8497]

Grumpy Cat is too optimistic.

[@SupernovaCola115]

“You calling me randomly without notice has given me a mild panic attack” Glad that its not just me who’s had this feeling.

[@itsashleyok4380]

Same

[@ethanniedorowski116]

Ya we are all fd up

[@JD-Media]

Anytime my phone rings...

[@Wupday]

thats called anxiety NOT introverted

[@sfr2107]

Absolutely relatable

[@dandelion-honey]

I pretend that I don't see my phone ringing, let it stop, then spend forever trying to convince myself I should call them back 😗

[@average_beings_are_natural]

I realised I don't call back when someone told me.

[@LHAC707]

Same!!!

[@withoutdaysofficial]

I usually just wait for them to send a text or smth

[@DiamondWhite91]

It seems like you are confusing introvert with social anxiety. Introverts “prefer” to be alone, but they don’t necessarily feel anxious when socializing, they just get tired.. Feeling anxious, avoiding phone calls, and needing 15 days to process someone coming over is anxiety..

[@dandelion-honey]

@@DiamondWhite91 I'm very much not confused with anything, passive-aggressive stranger! 🙂 My other comment I left here: “She looks like if Helen Hunt and Jennifer Morrison had a baby Also, as an introvert w/ social anxiety, I approve this message 🤘🏻🐛”

[@maryeclementine]

Goddammit, you found the words inside mah brain and took them out for a riiiide! Having TPL, TAG, newly diagnosed with depression, and hella introvert, you are the sunset queen to my sadness ❤️🤍 Thank you soooo much for existing, Kris! 🙏✨

[@black_magic8551]

If introverts were honest: *phone rings * * immediately either throws phone out the window or hits “hang up” at the speed of light*

[@Qui95Qui]

The trick is to silence it and let them get to the voice-mail so you can later say that you were in the shower, cooking, etc and missed the call. If it was important they would've left a voice-mail or texted u, right? Right.

[@carringtonpilon1310]

Put airplane mode on so the call doesn’t say rejected.

[@Qui95Qui]

@@carringtonpilon1310 learned something new

[@loisreese2692]

@@carringtonpilon1310 Ooh! Excellent tip, Thanks!

[@aparnarai3708]

Delete call log after call ended

[@philochristos]

She speaks the truth. The older I get, the more stress and anxiety is turning into anger and annoyance at other people.

[@lavanniarajalingam50]

Shit...same here

[@menm_91]

For sure. It only takes one slow-moving person at the grocery store to shatter the illusion that I'm a nice person 😒

[@RS54321]

@@menm_91 haha, yas!!

[@noelamini7350]

The degree of accuracy just creeped me out. I'm a very polite person in nature so hearing these things out is blowing my mind coz that is literally what goes on in my head.

[@bananasplitmfoh]

SAMMEEEEEEEEE

[@calamaria9624]

Us sweetest ones are always canistering our darkest killing instinct to smite everyone around us.

[@Josh-wn7fl]

An introvert would've sat that waiting for the phone to stop ringing, waited half an hour and said "sorry I didn't have my phone" 😭😭

[@AngryAlfonse]

I'm a very polite person but I've made it very clear to friends, family, even my own parents that if they show up at my front door without warning I will not answer. In emergency cases, call me AT LEAST several hours in advance so I can mentally prepare. A few days of lead time is preferable.

[@cyohe8643]

​@@AngryAlfonse Yeah...I don't like surprise visits either.

[@scarlettlavey]

I can so relate to this. When I lived with my parents, every time the doorbell rang I yelled through the house: "If it's for me I'm not here."

[@fryingpanda]

I mean introverts aren't necessarily hateful of company, we just need the right person.

[@Colaman112]

It's really about whether being with with people drains you or not. Introverts need time alone to charge their batteries. Extroverts (apparently) get charged by being around people.

[@brickonyou]

@@Colaman112 extroverts are freaking vampire and drain people!

[@Capricornious92]

​@@brickonyou yeah and by that logic intraverts are sick poor sociophobes. Hope you understand this kinda of thinking doesn't make the world better for you or anyone around you.

[@BluePatriotWinner]

And Timing is EVERYTHING!

[@Some.Donkus.]

For real. This looks more like social anxiety. All being an introvert really means definitively is that social interactions drain you, not necessarily that you hate them

[@re6bo]

The happy dance and snack alone on the couch enjoying the solitude is too accurate. 😂

[@EmlynSmythe]

As is the call timing: the nuisances in my life seem to know exactly when I'm about to sit down with a meal and a book/audiobook.

[@BarbaraStormwind924]

The Costco sized bag of SkinnyPop! 🍿

[@amehayami934]

Which more then likely other introverts. I mean just the thought of hanging out with an extrovert is giving me anxiety.

[@Chickeedo]

"Surprise! I'm outside your house right now." "... Leave."

[@fireblade295]

"No" would have more impact. Especially said in a monotone and dead serious expression like you just had to fire a lifelong hard worker and had to tell them no when they begged to stay on.

[@LisaP901ValleyGirl]

That gave me anxiety!

[@NarutoUzumaki-Nam]

Yeah I would totally tell her to leave and just hang the phone

[@golden_zilla]

The 5-15 days is so true. I break down anytime an event is sprung on me the day of, like, give me a warning at least 3 days in advance!!

[@tshepiempopi.11_11]

*"So you wanna go out later or something?"* I love the fact that the friend isn't offended 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@dyme917]

ikr. I'd be hitting the lottery if I have a friend like that who doesn't get offended so easily

[@kyrialeyson]

fr

[@soudontlikeme]

you cant be offended by what you're not listening to!

[@sebastian1998555]

As a certified introvert, I am proud of my fellow introvert's confirming that noe sane introvert would instantly pick up the phone

[@curoseba5363]

Sometimes we do, sometimes…reluctantly.

[@jekishskincare]

@@curoseba5363 exactly

[@albasavlord8855]

Usually i stare at the phone and watch it ring, if its actually important they'll call back

[@sam-psonsmith9951]

Right? Phone calls are the first sign that i don't want to talk to you, ever. And showing up at my house unannounced tells me i have to stop all contact to you entirely.

[@mouse2641]

Can say this is how I Feel about talking or meeting with people🙃 Looking for Job is literal hell because you Have to answer unknown numbers, go to Job interviews and talking to stragers😑 Literaly losing sleep and feeling bad.

[@veronicadm3334]

I used to tell people who insisted on *stopping by unannounced* that if I decided to admit that I was home I would let them in but that under no circumstances would I change what I was doing. So if I was about to take a shower or read a book or stare into the abyss, they were gonna have to wait in silence until I was ready to interact. 😁😂

[@shelbyshelby3936]

Outstanding!

[@lemonpepper853]

Perfect!

[@estanford826]

When people drop on me unexpected, I put them to work. Works!

[@jamgirl933]

I aspire to be like you some day. I lift my hat to you.

[@prettyevil6662000]

@@estanford826 I also do this. If you insist on stopping by you're going to assist me in whatever I'm doing. Pick up a dish rag and get washing or you can mop the floor.

[@eleanororourke1057]

Your videos are hilarious, you make me laugh, I'm a introvert, you're spot on with this subject. Thank you

[@Big_Gulps_Huh]

The frustrating part is that they always expect us to think from and consider their perspective, but they never once try to empathize or learn about the way we process things, or how it makes us feel.

[@Big_Gulps_Huh]

@@fled110 Yes, that is something I am VERY SLOWLY learning and accepting. Its been a tough and confusing process.

[@Ketzellthedragon]

This is exactly my reason why I don't make friends since most people around me are extroverts... ...and narrow minded.....

[@Ineedtherapy605]

“You know how it’s been a while since we’ve seen each other-“ *Yes. And I would prefer it that way.*

[@sub4cookie-]

read my name!

[@Masterr59]

And having the friends who want to "cure" you for being "shy" or "getting you out of your shell". No, I'm not shy, I just enjoy my personal time. And it's nothing against any of my friends.

[@missbttrsctch]

Thank you!!

[@sunbeam8161]

​@MsIny Sounds like you have no idea of what this is about. A true friend will understand and have empathy and like you for the person you are...anyone who only wants to do things their way, popping by unexpectedly and bulldozing through your life not caring about any boundaries and giving a XXXX about the fact that you don't like it, don't need it, don't want it...are not "friends" and are not missed.

[@Poptartsthatareplain101]

I feel like some of them don’t seem to understand this.

[@tammy6610]

I'm not shy I just don't like people. Put a cute dog or cat in front of me I'll give it cuddles while just saying or nodding hi to humans

[@jackiegoodspeed1849]

​@MsIny still fine. that's why we are introverts. we don't want the company.

[@woww4444]

This is so real! I CAN socialize, but it's draining at times, and I prefer being at home. I like close knit friends though.

[@Matt_Maty]

U r weird

[@Gasmask_bun000]

Same

[@Grimerpr2016]

same

[@DgamingDX]

This

[@doremysheep7864]

Same

[@paigecaraway5185]

anxious introverts really don’t want to answer but the intrusive thought of it being a bizarre emergency and the possibility of that being the last time that person will call…. that’s why we answer. please just text lmaoo

[@viscountrainbows2857]

Yeah as someone who has had a friend pass away and hadn't picked up the last call of, I may not immediately get back but, I try to play it off like "Ohey I was busy/on the toilet" if I otherwise actually weren't either. At least a text is like well, if it is truly urgent, I will see that in the preview and act accordingly, so that helps me not feel like there's a coin flip

[@ElohiSilverEarthVentures]

Totally on point!

[@AnimefortheLazyman]

This is so my wife. Lol. But now these days I am feeling the same …

[@raygun_84]

True XD never read something as accurate as this

[@Ducaso]

Text so I can leave you on read 😂

[@lifeofpasche]

As an introvert, I keep my phone muted, and I only answer to my child.

[@max_motivation1]

I followed this video's advice and only carry an empty phone case around now

[@LinkEX]

_Do Not Disturb_ with all notification sounds turned off is my default, and I won't have it any other way.

[@MsSmyth-pe2mn]

Always quiet mode

[@MsSmyth-pe2mn]

@@LinkEX copy that

[@denisea.9033]

@@max_motivation1 🤣

[@EnchantedMagna]

She’s incredibly beautiful!!!

[@abubakr8824]

People forget that introverts don't hate socializing they just need the right person,if you don't wanna socialize with anyone that's probably social anxiety

[@l1277]

As an introvert who does also have social anxiety, I think it's the spontaneity that's a major issue for introverts. Sometimes the social battery just isn't charged enough for certain people or certain situations.

[@ravenbelote1801]

I'm extremely introverted, and don't have social anxiety. It's not that I don't like socializing. It's just that I enjoy my alone time more.

[@amehayami934]

Yep but still you can't just show up unannounced and be like "hey let's go out and do shit!" I might let my friend kick it with me. But i need at lest 2-3 business days of notice for me to go out. And it has to be good. All of my favorite things is here. My dog, my art supplies, my PC, my Playstation, My iced mocha, And more. What does outside have that is better then my home?

[@abubakr8824]

@@amehayami934 yup,home is comfortable but 2-3 hours every now and then will keep your friendship alive not even party maybe just playing games together at home etc

[@Brutallyhonestcouple]

And they are slim pickings for sure! 😂

[@yeongjahan1270]

i always act like this until im dragged by my bestie and then end up having a great time lol but still react the same everytime

[@allsides5626]

I'm like your bestie lol. I drag my friends to parties, first they hesitate but eventually has a blast. They still don't want to hangout but I force them to. And in most cases they have ton of fun!!

[@sub4cookie-]

read my name!!

[@chickendebbie2540]

Oml yes my bestie is sooo productive when she comes to mine and I am so lazy 😪 lmao

[@angeloj.willems4362]

Same... Some times I feel bad for my friends who have to deal with me...

[@midnatwilight7120]

Yeah, I’m the one being forced to go do sm with them, but it turns out great… unless we see a younger kid, please don’t judge but I’m kinda scared of them. You never know what they’re gonna do, once 3 of them came running at me from all different angles just bc I was walking my dog :| Terrifying :)

[@itsgaylebitxh]

"Why do you hate me!?" is a special quote for any random and immediate meeting.

[@jay.em890]

Tbh I just love how the friend is cool and doesn’t take it personally ❤

[@Londonsoswaggy21]

Her: gives a whole speech about how she doesn’t what to go out Her friend: “ so you wanna go out later or something??”

[@eomoran]

To whcih the answer would be a begrudging eugh fine

[@justA.]

Answer would be: panicking and running around to make it look like your house is empty and tell them that you're not home

[@kcb_baebae5885]

The answer is hang up, which she did. You don't listen to me, I don't have to listen to you either.

[@PassingNotesMusic]

That's a good friend.

[@missmayflower]

They always do that, clueless extroverts.

[@irina8677]

I must say - that is a good friend! She seems understanding and not offended a one bit.

[@robertgibbs6154]

my bestie is the extrovert and doesn't get offended when I just want to sit and chill. he knows I get real anxious if he makes me socialize in groups of people.

[@freshstrt3140]

Yes! This!

[@freshstrt3140]

🙌🏽 🙌🏽 🙌🏽

[@JasonCravesAttention]

"Surprise, I'm in front of your place" As a certified introvert I legit think I'd start to cry

[@Lilly_watermelonsugar]

I hate it when people do that, even if it's relatives. I might be polite enough to let m in, but my whole day would be ruined and i'd be exhausted

[@SubFT]

I totally get this feeling, though crying may be a step farther than I would go.

[@whisperingwooper1763]

My friend did this once and I was not happy but had to pretend I was

[@MR-ib9lf]

I would say, "oh yeah? You have a car?" -yeah -good. Get in it, go home, and I'll be over in a lil bit. I'm gonna bring over that girl your bf cheated on you with. I'll call when I get there. And then you'll understand how unwelcome your bubbly, unannounced visit felt to me. Call first.

[@noobistproductions]

The empty phone case cracked me up lol

[@amyross4120]

Let’s be honest a true introvert would not even answer the phone and if they came to the door we would try to be so quiet so they would think we are not home.

[@brendamoon2660]

Leave a voicemail. If I feel safe after analysing every nuance in your tone I will text you back

[@hihowareya6861]

occasionally id turn my lights off to make it even more effective but ig that works 😂

[@tranquilitywithinllc2916]

Yes!

[@Dreaminclouds315]

I've done this 😂

[@feels.9304]

Bruhhh

[@Jose-nb7hc]

“You calling me without notice sparked a mild panic attack” Me: FCKN RELATABLE! but that’s where you messed up. A true introvert wouldn’t answer 😏

[@arienneriddle4549]

fr, like yesterday i was watching a show and my phone was on silent and i didn’t know my friend was texting me so then he called me and i had a heart attack and didn’t answer bc i don’t do calls…..i text

[@IlLAD3LPH1A215]

And especially when my wife expects me to FaceTime her whole family..I can’t stand it and I hate that FaceTime forces you to looked at yourself as you die inside talking to people you’d rather not be talking to

[@alex-4095]

relatable confirmed

[@mikenadeau2138]

A lazy person too wouldn’t answered the phone

[@emerald3788]

The most relatable to me was the humming, the little dancing and just being happy knowing you're alone❤

[@viscountrainbows2857]

Is that an introvert thing? I just assumed everyone else did that 🫠 But to be fair, people being around doesn't matter, as long as I intermittently turn off the part of my brain that acknowledges that they exist.

[@Algaemancer]

I love these. As an introvert myself this resonates accurately over here.

[@SankFrinatraa]

Kris in summary: "Get lost, im not interested"

[@dylanyoung465]

Everyone's saying that a true introvert wouldn't have answered the phone, but if you look closely she's holding an empty phone case. That's next level introversion if you ask me.

[@Ostrid1]

I answer because I know they know I don't do anything and am never busy so next time we meet they ask why I didn't answer and then it's awkward to come up with a lie on the spot. So I rather answer and cringe through a phone conversation.

[@jewelsdatter9029]

If I don't answer my friends knock.... answering is better lol

[@biedenweg]

Oh man! Having a conversation with herself that'll never happen!

[@ORIA_1125]

yeah, i never answer calls

[@kingjoel8252]

Why do youtubers use a phone case?

[@MindlessNaee]

Whenever I receive a call I immediately assume someone is on their way over so while ignoring the call I’m turning out all lights and making it look as if I’m not home.

[@ruthbam]

This is so me 😂😂😂

[@MindlessNaee]

@@ruthbam Even though I’m always home, I’m telling everyone I’m never home 🫣🫣

[@mamaksstorytime]

When someone wants to chat, I NEVER have a signal, lol

[@projectpenwing]

Ill give ya'll the best advice ive ever gotten. If theres someone at the door, just start putting on your coat and open it, if its someone you want to see, great tell them you just got home. If its someone you dont want to see, continue putting on your coat and boots and say you were on your way to leave the house for a premade excuse. i usually use "omw to a meeting with a friend.. shame talk later" and just circle the block or smth and go home after. or just say, "oh shoot toilet before i leave. well talk later baaaii" and just close the door.

[@MindlessNaee]

@@projectpenwing fantastic advice 😮

[@TanyaLynnOnAir]

I SOOOO relate!! Thank you for putting this out there!

[@cherrysodaaa]

“I did not wanna answer.” Me when my mom is calling me from the other room

[@TanavMarleen]

Your mom seems very thoughtful and caring! 🐬🦋🐈‍⬛💗😎🏳️‍🌈🦄🐓🐏🦁🐶🐢

[@Little-Miss-Pessimist]

@@TanavMarleen Did you just find out what emojis are?

[@TanavMarleen]

@@Little-Miss-Pessimist YES, SIR! How old are you? 🐬🦋🐈‍⬛💗😎🏳️‍🌈🦄🐓🐏🦁🐶🐢

[@Little-Miss-Pessimist]

@@TanavMarleen Why do You need to know?

[@TanavMarleen]

@@Little-Miss-Pessimist Just because. 🐬🦋🐈‍⬛💗😎🏳️‍🌈🦄🐓🐏🦁🐶🐢

[@shefandben]

Speaking as an introvert, the phone would’ve kept ringing. 😂

[@DeathShiniGama]

Yep 100% 😂

[@heavenlyplayz2393]

Sameee lol

[@Samthecookieslayer]

Yes

[@Frirkrkk92o4ii]

yep

[@lee-laniilee7836]

And I'll flip it over and exit the room 😂💯💯

[@roejogan2693]

A real honest introvert would deny the phone call and text them "sorry I don't like to call"

[@RinTzl]

Except you'd worry "Sorry i dont like to call" sounds a bit mean/weird or will just draw out more unwanted questions or judgement, so you just ignore the phone call and text them a bit after saying "sorry i was in the middle of something" and shift the conversation so that it happens in text instead🤭 usually works

[@___LC___]

@@RinTzl yes!! “I was out with the dog”, “I was brushing my teeth” (that actually happens for real for me”, “I had my arm caught in the garbage disposal”…all those good ones!!!

[@Atypical_Typo]

@@RinTzl nah, I just ignore the call and pretend it never happened, then if I'm asked, I say "you called?"

[@roejogan2693]

@@RinTzl but that wouldn't an "honest introvert" which was the goal of this video

[@RinTzl]

@@roejogan2693 oh damn you're right! Forgot about the honest part

[@vampirenimz]

I throw a tantrum every time the phone ring before I answer it.

[@kathernandez6682]

Same here 😂

[@rursus8354]

As a real introvert, you don't want to meet with a lot of shallow people with whom you have no real relation, you are able to interact with lots of people with which you have a professional relation, and you can discuss with people that you want to exchange ideas and experiences with, 1. but you generally don't mingle with people in order to mingle, 2. and you make decisions when you sit alone and analyze matters.

[@denisea.9033]

Yes! I hate mingling, lol.

[@williammcnear3462]

I felt this. In my anti-social, introverted bones.

[@Classified141]

Asocial. Antisocial means something much worse.

[@robinaroundtown...2194]

Ok Kris...this is too right on the mark...lolol 🤣🤣🤣🤣 You are SOOOO way over the top on things...lolol 🤣🤣🤣🤣 And of course..."BEAUTIFUL" as ever...lol

[@Sammy-Barn]

"Why do you hate me?" I cracked up at this line..

[@Bakugos_Baby]

Her friend: “Heyyyyyy” Kris’s mind: *god damit it’s this b*itch again*

[@Alexa7hp]

Lol

[@elizabethwinkelman5536]

🤣😂🤣👍🏼

[@essmac3453]

Are you in my head?!?! That is me everytime I have to answer my phone.

[@randomgirl7834]

@@essmac3453 omg literally same

[@kylebarnes4963]

😂 Yeeeessss! My friends try to drag me out of the house all the time. They just don't get how difficult that really is..

[@stavik96]

And this is why I usually just don't answer the phone, can't ruin my plans if I am not there or "missed" your call.

[@Ketzellthedragon]

Very true

[@Ana-rb7ws]

Exactly right. I don’t understand people who spring their plans on other people without considering what plans they had for themselves first.

[@Theblessedlife37]

She should seriously be an actress. She’s fantastic

[@48pjr]

“I’m in front of you place right now.” Me: “Oh dang, I have Covid.” Introverts always have away out

[@shayhemp6012]

But it says itd they were honest

[@JustTanya.]

I usually go with the "I'm in the bathroom." and then go to the bathroom to keep it honest. 😎👍🏻

[@LuisSierra42]

I like to say i have diarrhea

[@48pjr]

Or my go to is just not answering the phone

[@pkkiller_apathy4568]

That's why you don't answer and late say your phone was charging.

[@boo9781]

Tbh, I kinda want a friend like that who randomly decided that they’d like to spend time with me. Granted, I’d still say no but it feels nice to be included

[@ellaadair]

Same

[@yumiito24]

For me, since they were nice abt including me I'll go if I'm genuinely free from activity. Unless they invite other ppl that are strangers to me then no, sorry 😭

[@LMCorvinus]

Lmfao my exact thought process here

[@latoyacampbell2126]

I laughed so hard at this...because my friend made plan all week for us to go out and I always find a reason, not to go...I want to go but I also don't want to do Peopling 😪

[@luranetee]

Lmao

[@Assamita01]

"Yeah...And it's been great, to be honest" Literally me 😂

[@sigma20xx]

While i am an introvert. I never turn away friends that came over unannounced. I didnt seek out gatherings, but if invited, i always went.

[@tabreshiafultz1]

😂😂😂😂 why is this so accurate. Like I literally go into panic mode when I hear a sound of a vehicle pulling up in my yard until I remember I have neighbors. 😆

[@zedplum4847]

@tabreshiafultz Dude I literally left a dozen people on inbox zone in messenger cuz just any form of socializing, even texting zaps my energy real fast XD I'll reply someday lol but like when it's like a necessity like in groceries, stores, school etc. I just talk to get the job done asap and get away from having to socialize as quick as pssible 😂

[@SeptimusCreed]

The fact that the introvert answered shows just how much they value the extrovert as a friend. Anyone else would’ve been sent to voicemail. Edit: apparently I can’t type. Also, c’mon guys, it’s a joke.

[@ahmed_elgndy]

value the extrovert as a friend

[@spacetexan1667]

Your conflating “introvert” with “asshole”

[@brydenhuffman5908]

@@spacetexan1667 some people don’t wanna waste their time talking to people who they don’t actually want to talk to

[@bigpod]

@@spacetexan1667 introverts arent assholes, they are just different and even the fact that they have to talk with someone can pe problematic and triggering for them You extroverts dont even realize how different inteoverts are

[@spacetexan1667]

@@brydenhuffman5908 cool beans...

[@genocidershow6908]

As an introvert I actually don't mind having my friends visit, because usually they visit me on the assumption that on that day we're just going to be doing "nothing" together as opposed to me doing "nothing" alone. It's basically just being in each other's company without the social aspect and doing our own thing but still spending time together without them crossing my comfort zone 💛🌼

[@anaayamone2936]

This is so cool. I need this.

[@KBeth35]

Definitely agree with thus

[@Kotifilosofi]

sounds like you've found the right friends.

[@mahri9848]

exactly

[@shininbright1315]

I love these. Damn, this is what really goes on.

[@AliciaMCDeBurgh]

“I need 5 to 10 business days to even process the thought” someone please explain this to my family, they don’t understand why I can’t just go out and see my friends on short notice, THIS IS WHY! Love you Kris, you’re such an icon 💖💖💖

[@Mariewolf_94]

as an introvert, yes, these are my inner thoughts during surprise visits and/or last minute plans. i love hanging out w/ family and/or a friend(s), but i need warning so i can properly prepare. i also jump every time the phone rings

[@grenade8572]

My mom makes fun of me, saying everyone needs to take an appointment with me one week begore hanging out. Actually, yes. 😂

[@Mariewolf_94]

@grenade8572 lol that is cute though. i wish introverts could do that, just have schedule slots that arent alloted to school and/or work and everyone has to make an appointment 🤣

[@philsurtees]

You are confused about what introversion is. It is NOT what you are describing. You are describing social anxiety, which is a completely different thing.

[@Mariewolf_94]

@philsurtees i do believe i have that as well, but i am very much an introvert. ive always been shy and quiet ever since i was a little girl, and i usually kept to myself unless w/ family or ppl i know and i never approached someone else first. even now as a grown-up, though not quite as shy, i dont approach others, but i do believe ive developed social anxiety due to trauma as ive become more reclusive

[@agatha_8038]

"It's been 3 months since we last seen each other" uh yes, sanaol. my friends and I haven't seen each other for like 6 years now 😌

[@bloodfilledchalice6662]

6 years? What's the point of having friends? I can see every few months... but 6 years? Is this a competition of how long you can go on not visiting your friends, kind of a game? Because I've seen a weird amount of people say they haven't seen their friends in 10 years, If I haven't seen a friend in that long, chances are we aren't even friends anymore! 6 years is a big portion of your life!

[@agatha_8038]

@@bloodfilledchalice6662 hi, every friendships are different. 😅 there are 4 of us and we all studied in different universities. Even riding a bus just to see each other takes like 7 or more hours and 2 of my friends live on campus. And then there's covid. We still talk and do video calls sometimes but it's okay. We're still close and we're planning to catch up soon 🤗

[@virilliquent6171]

@@bloodfilledchalice6662 I'd like to point out something called Long Distance Relationships. They aren't exclusively refering to romantic relationships. As a cripple that can't really go outside much during the day and is only able to wander around the complex at night, all my friends are online.

[@fallen.embers]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@eddie-roo]

@@virilliquent6171 are you some sort of vampire? Photosensitive skin?

[@TheMamaravyn]

I know the phone was only answered in panic that something was wrong... and your videos are making me see that I may have become an introvert, in part due to the pandemic. Maybe I was always low-key introverted, but now that 5 to 15 business day heads up need is real. I see you and am glad my kid turned me on to your work. Stay weird. Blessed be. ❤️

[@missamylynne86]

Why is this so accurate!? Glad to know others are like me. I'm told it's not healthy but I'm happy.

[@KrayZJoy]

Well, fecked if it ain't healthy. A lot of us seem to feel this way, and we're all still alive, suuu... 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

[@NetiNeti-gm5bz]

Aloneness bestows infinite wisdom and peace

[@Victor-qx3vx]

Counterpoint: It also feels unhealthy to need other people’s company all the time.

[@brent8407]

It's not accurate at all She picked up the phone

[@janai5074]

@@brent8407 , I thought the same thing! She should've dismissed call and texted back, a week later, "what do you want?"

[@MariaDryna]

I HATE when businesses or doctors force me to accept or make a phone call.

[@coffeekat5066]

Literally what I was thinking while watching this haha I was diagnosed with an illness last month and since then it's been non stop phone calls and appointments. I'm at my limit. Like, I get it! I'm sick, just let me be sick and wallow in peace lmao

[@MyN0N4M3]

Yeah, worst thing is when you call them and you get a message that they call you back later. Like, half the day you're on alert for the talk, even though it's just a 2 minute conversation with someone you probably never meet again anyways.

[@yellowrose0910]

Fr right?! It's 2023 not 1823: just text me and I'll get it when I can deal.

[@emilyralte6107]

Aww my gosh! Same here

[@tylerjordan8633]

I relate to the panicked look around the room before you answer 😂 I don’t feel alone anymore

[@dkipu266]

Love these shorts…so funny and well done

[@alexiscurd2250]

I have one (1) friend who understands that I will probably never speak to them and still love them fiercely and does not hold that against me. Being an introvert is really an entire different lifestyle than extroverts, it’s something that’s not easily comprehended

[@shcxatter2]

it's a modern bred psychological disease tho, In the past you'd have socialized naturally from your birth with a lot of people. As a recovering really bad case of introvertism, I'd say, the path to getting out of it, is going to a place where no one knows you, so that you can lie all you want about your insecurities, which will build your ego enough to be able to become a normal human being, not a constantly scared little rat of a human.

[@mimiashford5544]

@@shcxatter2 True, sort of, but I think the fact that society is crumbling at an alarming rate & there's so much division, sarcasm & vulgarity to contend with makes those prone to introversion even LESS interested in participating. Society TODAY is a FAR cry from it was even 10 years ago, let alone a hundred or more.

[@shcxatter2]

@@mimiashford5544 trust that!

[@tomkee4479]

​@@shcxatter2 God damn!!! lol

[@tomkee4479]

Im so happy to come across this and realized im not the only person with these issues!!! I didnt use to be but im 40 now and the older i get it seems to get worse and worse and i dont understand why. Its been a steady line getting worse and worse over the past 10 years now and whats the most frustrating is i do NOT want to be this way but at the same time i cant help it or stop it and its so frustrating!! i am a huge home body, if i do go places or have company i have to have it planned where i know its coming ahead of time, for at least a day. I dont go somewhere just on a wim nor want company unless we plan a day. But the worst part is i dont want to be this way. At all but i cant seem to help it and its really effected my relationships with people and i hate it. Sorry its just hard to explain.