If She Doesn't Text Back, Is She Not Interested?

[@JessicaOS]

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[@jimaayele2791]

Ok

[@Thememeguy9]

Women are never busy, they are always on their phones.

[@jpowell2603]

Exactly bro!!

[@Sant270]

exactly, but sometimes responding to texts can be mentally challenging. unlike scrolling through Insta reels endlessly which is less mentally demanding. Though there still a chance she is genuinely occupied, but is unlikely that its for more than 1-2 days. Sadly, Most likely she is just not interested or playing mind games to not be perceived as needy.

[@paulstewart238]

So true

[@daviddevlogger]

Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don’t. And believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said it would be easy, just that it would be worth it

[@keffwilliam4516]

❤ amen

[@banguraalhajimusa3233]

It's something I'm experiencing with my lady, if I doesn't call or text she's not do that.

[@ocramlibero7120]

This is a nice encouragement and idea. I think I may decide to follow this soon!! She totally decided to quit talking to me!!

[@kuffkuff]

Lovely message.Thanks very much

[@deonambrose]

Unfortunately, there are a lot of grown adults in society who lack communication skills or only see you as an option. It's honestly sad how people can't just say they aren't interested.

[@paulstewart238]

Some people are only looking for the best deal they can get

[@TSixSix]

If I text and she doesn’t reply in 2 weeks, That shows she isn’t interested. People make time for whom they’re interested in..

[@dr.mathieumathieu9220]

2 weeks!!! Me in one day enough I immediately move) just you must have many contacts of girls

[@Joshuaodafe]

2 weeks is too much.. I nor dey force myself on people

[@jboy932]

@@dr.mathieumathieu9220 u one day. It means u have patient me if I text u and u don't reply immediately or at worst 1 hour I'm not texting u again. U will be the one to first text or call me.

[@Micah-19]

True mehn

[@jhica5718]

Right but if u see her as a future partner that u r in love with.......and she responded after 2 weeks...u gonna be quick to reply......😅

[@anocri]

If she doesn't text back, she isn't interested. Walk away, and look for and put that energy into someone else. Simple.

[@profound369]

I have literally nobody at all times

[@josephbenadam]

@@profound369 Then to yourself, look after yourself

[@rodneysessoms8804]

I agree Jessica, that's why I learned to move on & God blessed me with someone that showed interest in me

[@hightopfad]

The problem I have is when they ghost you. Just be an adult and say why you're not reaching out. I think it's so immature. I'm at the point where I'm good at being by myself!

[@beavis4763]

I know right, how difficult is it to take 10 seconds out of their day to text back.

[@Iceman-cs5lu]

Fact

[@MVFramedesign]

I have the same problem. Why she cannot write back that Stop writing me, dude, I am not interested. Instead, she just keeps quiet.

[@broaddusmarines]

For the most part, someone’s cell phone is within a few feet from them at all times. I usually give it 2-3 days maximum and I will assume that person is not interested anymore.

[@Insight-music]

Yeah by day 3 just throw the towel

[@morrismwenda9138]

I love listening to Jessica she's very smart, soft spoken and articulate. Thanks so much this video is very insightful. True lack of reply is very annoying it's better to move on step back and focus on yourself.

[@alenkarisi3826]

I like her voice too

[@morrismwenda9138]

@@alenkarisi3826 me too

[@Omnitrix8]

If she doesn't text back, don't chase or show desperation. Let her be and dip! Ages ago, there was this chick I was always texting. She would read but not respond. I decided to pull back on my text for a few days. Next thing you know, I got a 'hey' message from her. I read it and never ever responded. ✌🏿

[@Abdiburale56]

She probably isn’t into you

[@Abdiburale56]

She said put your egg into more basket

[@maraviyoso8473]

I guess you weren’t so interested as well. Good, move on, move away and never come back.

[@theworldisimmense]

@@Abdiburale56 used to believe that but in many cases , some girls like to see how much a guy likes her and all. Remember that girls be watching dating videos so they can play the texting game as well and make themselves interesting by not texting right away so she waits hours or days

[@matthewbernard1832]

Make money fellas, nuff said. This world is more confusing than it’s been in ages. If they go cold, go ICE cold.

[@Ovampa]

Haven watched this... Let me reply my guy before he feels I don't care. Hearing the voice makes more connection than a mere text message. Most men feel you're desperate when you give them lots of attention... To strike a balance, most women endure the urge replying back sometimes.

[@Jdrummer77]

When they don’t text back it’s disrespect. What does a man need, respect, walk on. And you keep your self respect much more important than having theirs.

[@JOCECIL]

I want to have friends like you Jessica: wise, smart, bussiness literated, kind and empathetic. I want to be blessed with those kind of friends 🙏

[@emmanuelsalako7370]

Words of wisdom from Jessica, who saves guys life on a daily, knowing all this pointers from the guys point of view can save him a lot of time, effort and money most especially, Jessica has spoken and her words are law for she knows her stuff and brings her A game to the table all the time and we men are always grateful to learn from her wealth of knowledge passed on to us all. Jessica we stand amazed at your renewed commitment to make us better men. Thanks a million. You are simply the best

[@emmanuelsalako7370]

No thank you, hard PASS

[@BamaNiiji]

These were good points. I think if the person keep their emotions out of it or set no expectations with a new person then everything else you said applies. If you have known the person for sometime, I'd give a little benefit of the doubt and try to reflect on what was said during the last conversation. Sometimes doing so will allow you to answer your own question as to the possibility of why they aren't replying. Walk away if they are interested they will reach out. Two can play that game. 💪🏽

[@blinkzone1]

There is a girl I like from work and I asked for her #. She asked if it was for a date and told her just friendship. So she gives me her #. Three days later I txt her and we chat. Problem for me is she has a lot of guy friends. So couple days later I text her one last time but can tell she's not interested and won't even text back but whenever she sees me @ work she smiles brightly with dead eye contact asking how I'm doing.... I'll never txt her back. That's for damn sure.

[@jhica5718]

must i add.......this is the important part..................we know right off the bat when a mf ask for a number....its for a relationship..............aint no way a mf and be just friends with someone theyre attracted to.......................................little lies like that......is a red flag to them..............be honest and dont be scared to say its a date........

[@BlackoutPatriot]

Unless they are in the hospital and dying , they can always find a few seconds to send a text . If they havent text back wihin 3 days dont waste your time with them

[@carljamessettlereptilemast5846]

You’re absolutely right Jessica. If a girl is not texting back she’s definitely not interested, I know it can get boring for women taking forever to reply back online. Thank you for those helpful tips and I will do my best to keep trying to find someone who can connect with

[@michaeljewell53]

Thanks for another very informative and relevant video Jess,yes rejection is hard to take but it's good to use these lessons in life and look at reasons she's acting that way, Yes it's so important like you say to let it motivate us guys to be better people in all sorts of ways and get something positive out of it instead of wasting energy being sad or wanting what you can't have x

[@weluvmusick]

I love your commentary where were you when I was younger I mean to have learned from

[@oludaily]

Thank you mama, I'm learning my lessons from your teaching

[@madibamadiba6530]

Operation 1m subs for Jessica. She's just amazing 👏

[@jayforeverrollin]

She didn't ignore you, you left her speechless

[@frankkwakudoyi]

Great job, Jess🙌🏾 Insightful lesson, giving us greater knowledge and understanding.

[@gentlesoul2262]

@JessicaOs I will love to meet you in person. I love your vibes, your knowledge, and most importantly your experience and decisiveness on issues that gat to do with emotional stability and consciousness.

[@alenkarisi3826]

Man, take a cold water, it's helps you

[@CoreyAWalton]

I sure do wish this came out yesterday!! 😩

[@TshineSOR696]

Really want to know this too Jes, if she’s not interested not responding to your message sometimes she respond after 4 day and sometimes she just don’t care to replied but after some months she will call you out to hangout what a really means too, sometimes you feel with in your self you don’t want to go but cus of how you stay feeling about her you will stay try to make time but after the fun she’s stay doing the same 😔

[@healthalife8790]

If she calls or likes to hang out with with you, she is interested. That's even better than a text message. women connect deeper with direct presence than a text message, not everyone takes a mere text message serious.

[@jhica5718]

how long have u known her for u to be in your feelings for her?

[@dynamic9016]

Good reasoning..

[@beegsex]

I hurt my friend’s feelings & didn’t respect her space. It’s been 1.5 months since she blocked me off. I shot her a short apology text a day after our last argument & she pretty much said she was done. I valued our friendship & fought hard to keep it alive for 5 years. It hurts to know after one fight (I take responsibility for it), she never cared about me 😢😢😢

[@asanteboatengemmanuel7547]

"I don't like to text you, it makes me feel that you're far away, I prefer voice call". she said. And that broke me

[@ikelite6402]

Straight to the point.

[@MrYourtrollin]

This video is very insightful. Thanks

[@banguraalhajimusa3233]

It's something I'm experiencing with my lady, if I doesn't call or text she's not do that.

[@DarronSanderson]

I've got one for you. I sat by an attractive young woman on a flight. We talked the entire 2.5hour flight. She never left eye contact. She smiled. She laughed. She asked me questions. She touched her hair. Her body language, eye contact and smiling showed huge interest. She gave me her number. When we landed at the airport she said:” I’ve got you locked in. You can be my tour guide and show me around”. I texted her that evening. It has been two days and she has not replied. Was she just faking it? Was she just being polite?

[@fitforlifepft1]

Jessica.. I totally AGREE! BEST VIDEO!

[@jerrrryy4503]

She put her number in my phone. We texted for a couple hours . Next day I asked ( while I was working out ) I asked..” do you like stretching or meditating) she took 10 hours to respond( I deleted her number and text thread after 5 hours ) she texted back saying “ I do both “. I ignored it and texted back the next day ( that’s good enjoy the day ) she texted back in 30 minute “ you too “. These girls are weird as’l. I texted her today asking her birthday if she doesn’t respond within 5-6 hours I’m deleting and blocking

[@letsahbright4909]

Thanks so much for this wonderful video 😊

[@topher_512]

If she doesn't reply fairly promptly, or make definite plans for a date, she'll never hear from me again. I've probably blown it with some women doing this, but it helps me avoid having my time wasted and getting my hopes up over women who are keeping me around as a 2nd, 3rd, 4th (or lower) option.

[@harryschlitz4067]

Yeah Thanks, what else is NEW in my life. It would be nice if a woman would just be a fkn adult about it and verbally acknowledge my effort before she Ghost me and her and her new better than me guy has a nice laugh.

[@derrickotieno4350]

Jessica From Ghana to the world 🔥🔥💫

[@SamanEskandary]

I've seen many videos on this subject and this one was the best

[@B_Thunderbolt_]

She says she loves me and would love to have children with me and I didn’t ask that but ignores me for hours and then apologises for not texting. She doesn’t have a job. Is she playing with me ?

[@Coolman1985]

This is the best video on she dosent text back

[@CTech247]

God bless you ma'm Am currently facing the same issues.. I love my babe so much.... I will call her text her, but she has never replied my text. I will have to plead for her to reply my text..but thank God i find this video.

[@ediri2012]

I'm very grateful for this..

[@rionelavin4538]

God bless you for this.

[@joegarieri5325]

I love your videos Jessica they really do give me a lot of advice and I really appreciate you. Thank you !!

[@kingkayd7897]

Okay, I think some of my questions have been answered, thanks 🙂

[@B.Nutter91]

What does it mean when she tells you that she has really bad anxiety and become distant at times?? What should a person after that. Also she has a child and I do not

[@mohammedwussah4280]

You have said it all

[@richardcolliwoodtetteh2448]

Long live Jessica

[@ladilawal5862]

Thank you....thank you....thank you.🙏

[@pipelizz8650]

im suffering from it right now . 5days today as i text . she is online n im texting calling she doesnt reply . i have texted series of messgaes. its upsetting my mind so hard that i feel so nervous. i need to be back . lots of doubts. a beautiful pullover i selected w her online for her and she chosed the colors .just today she turn bk to reject the pullovers . i huge red flag on my face . i feel crumbling withing me. i need someone to help me out. all the points u have stated are what im suffering from

[@jmiller3579]

Plenty of fish man…. Set her free she’ll come crawling back in 3 months when she realizes you put quite a bit of effort

[@601marcusable]

The uttermost disrespect is lack of communication and blowing me off without even a reason why

[@starbossmusic4144]

Thanks very much for this one video it really helped me and I can say it save me too, Just a quick brief, I was dating a girl in the same building suddenly she told me that she wants to fix her dreadlocks so let me find someone who can that do it for her I said ok then I brought someone that I know very well that we have been doing things in common to do her hair, the guy started the work and I went out before I came back home they way i seemed them I was not pleased with them, so I asked the girl what's going on she started saying blabla then I ignored her and continued what I was doing, she went to her working place we were chatting but not like usual, then she came for her vacation all of the sudden I'm seeing her with the guy and I didn't even bother myself to ask any her i just ignored and she too does the same. Though it pains me but I just be myself 💔

[@princedtv1]

Great lessons 👌

[@Ric0974]

I know I'll watch this twice if it could happens just because I'm single!🗣️

[@grahamf187]

I tried to reconnect with an old family friend that I’ve known for years, things went smooth at first and she responded to my text and reacted to my question, after that things went a bit downhill, I sent a few texts in responding to her and never got a text back yet I know she’s online and it’s been two days since my last text and I’m still slightly hurt and wondering why has she not even looked at it but I’m not sure whether it’s personal or she just doesn’t care anymore as she did respond to my first few texts without no problems we actually got on really well irl but haven’t seen her in almost two years but when I next see her I don’t think it will be like this, all the same I’m still stuck I might send another text in a few days to test why this has happened

[@James-gp2uf]

Wise words

[@elijahbanda6403]

Thank you so much this is wonderful you help me to be strong

[@777JesusisLord-u1l]

What if shes interested in person and asking questions even personal ones but shes a bad texter or so she says is that interest or no?

[@emanueltetteh7845]

I love your videos

[@ThomasCizek]

If I don't get a reply back from a girl in less than 24 hours, I'm getting rid of her, no ifs, ands, or buts about it.

[@aruesirioghenejustice7644]

I subscribed

[@ebenezerquansah9862]

So what if you texted her many times,no replies and later calls to ask why texting many messages?

[@MaxSteevensVlogs]

Thank you so much

[@charleswatkinsiii910]

First one here watching now!!

[@matezproductions]

Well i think made her turned cold because i was been skeptical if things would work out based on my past relationships,now i need her and miss her the most hope she returns on time...🙏🏾💕😍🥰😊❤️💙🖤

[@matezproductions]

Okay thanks 😊

[@JessicaOS]

@@matezproductions careful of scammers

[@matezproductions]

@@JessicaOS Thankyu I'm not desperate on this nah👎🏿

[@EmmanuelKingsley-cs2pu]

being cautious

[@truthteller7754]

K T Hammond has just confirmed my comment about your advice for men to wear 🧔 beards to look attractive to WOMEN 🚺. Please listen to the comment of K T Hammond on those who booed President Akuffo Addo.

[@fabiannjovu2273]

I REAL LOVE YOU ♥️THANKS DEAR

[@mechamecha104]

Dope mummy❤

[@peoplesambassadordm8279]

Backup backup backup... ....another point is when women never buy for a man , in scenarios where they are employed and the man isnt.... but when a man is employed money ain't a prob to help em... unfair shit

[@problemslayer3538]

Some women are bizarrely strange when it comes to calling and texting, particularly when you match with them on dating apps. My advice is, if it doesn't make sense when they don't reply, don't waste time trying to make sense of it. It's not for you to do. Forget her and message someone else. It really is that simple

[@jivonstephen6677]

Dats it rite there ooooo style ah style gyal mhm ... dem na ready for you yuh knw ... gyal take d cake . Proud ah meh black queen me seh. Facts we ah deal wit yuh see it. Caption dat bread crumbs lol and Jess ,yea nice to see you top nudging and me a jes love dat yuh ear meh.

[@tedrodriguez3856]

You are so beautiful and intelligent!

[@martinnjuguna3552]

Nice 1

[@VicknowledgeMk]

If she doesn't text back it's clear she's not interested instead of feeling bad or overthinking just distance yourself from her.... People make time for the things they love and no one can be so busy for the person they love if she is so busy just move on with your life she's isn't interested to commit to the relationship and you.... she can't make you a priority it's simple she isn't interested. .

[@briar35981]

Great Job on this subject. Always role with Number 6. If there is the least bit of lack of respect, move on. Block her, ignore, or whatever. Don't loose your self respect from her not respecting you. I for one know that women's phones rarely have a dead battery, no one is THAT busy. They hold the "Bag of Dicks" in highest esteem. Thanks for your efforts Jessica

[@KofiAClement]

Thank you

[@yawasiedu9064]

Just make money, she will text back

[@mundoeuniverso5123]

I miss the days in which the contact man and woman was one-on-one, face to face.

[@bandict]

Thankyou

[@wyattfriend7360]

I feel like a girl was interested and she suddenly stopped texting back.. I think it's because shes thinking "Im not gonna give him a layup" like if you feel you already have her, or already succeeded. Maybe she'll nto respond to say, Im not gonna make it that easy for you. Like "get the F** out of here with that" Lol

[@ISAZGRAM]

I just texted her now let see

[@ParlayTae]

WHAT IF NUMBER 3 IS TRUE BUT SHE LITERALLY HITS YOU UP AND TRIES TO REKINDLE THE FLAME AS KF SHE IS INTERESTED ?

[@vertisjohnson219]

Then why give that person your number if your not interested?

[@thegamingchef3304]

Why is this stuff even a topic? The lack of maturity in grown women is disturbing. I have talked to females I utterly stopped liking and had absolutely no interest in talking to...I never found it in my heart to ghost them. I always sent a nice text explaining how I simply wasnt interested in having a relationship. I usually thanked them for their time. Its called being an adult. I always say women mature faster than males, but males mature more than women. I think women stop maturing around 25, where as men continue to mature and gain wisdom their entire life. Our ceiling for maturing is much higher than women's.

[@stijnvanarkel541]

I have a problem with a girl i like. I asked for her number and she happily gave it to me and I send her a text the next day to not look too desperate. It’s now 5 days later and she hasn’t responded or even looked at my message in WhatsApp. I’m not sure if she is interested or not (she was very happy and open when she talked with me). Now I’m quite desperate to know what she wants or what I could expect. I did ask her this via WhatsApp and I don’t know if she will respond. I will see her in 3/4 days and I’m not sure if I want to ask her anything. I’m just very offended by the fact she doesn’t show me a sign of what she thinks of me. And im ok with the fact that she doesn’t like me and I’m willing to accept that if that is the case. So what should I do now? Any advice is helpful.

[@MarmaYogi]

May be she isn't interested. I too got number from a female friend she didn't respond me with anything more than saying hello. Just leave it man

[@brendanhiggins3442]

She's no interest sorry

[@1bosstv]

Girl's dating coach: don't text him back, you'll look easy Guy's dating coach: don't text her back, appear busy. Guy and girl never speak to each other again.

[@saekhmet4186]

Who conditioned women to feel that people eager to text them aren't worthy?

[@gtmassivecoolie]

I want to ask you something as well. How about if you give a girl your email address that you meet at a library and she is friendly with you? can you give her your email address instead of your number at the moment? (maybe to keep in touch as friends or so.)

[@drikklewaves001]

Lol, get her number, not her email.

[@dennisdarkwa6976]

I texted her and she replied after 2 weeks 😢

[@kwasisarpong123]

Lol perfect timing

[@4yajustblazin]

Not interested or likely dealing with someone else. Move on

[@Biggles2498]

Honestly if a Woman is that much trouble forget her ! Also why do Women always try to change you even buying you things to wear and I really do hate these Jumpers with front zippers BUT GOT FORCED TO WEAR THEM. Walk away !

[@sarahhammond7650]

Amen Amen 🙌🙌🙌❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏

[@briangregory8223]

Men AND Women watch these channels and both of us are told to not text back quickly and then both are told to not text back when they don't text back. It's a damn snake eating its tail lol