Never tell your woman these 5 secrets about you

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Jessica Os

Jessica Os

Күн бұрын

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@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS Ай бұрын
Got a peculiar situation you're dealing with in your relationship? Book a private call with me here! stan.store/JessicaOSGH/p/book-a-11-call-with-me-12z6w
@TigaWould
@TigaWould Ай бұрын
Actually, use all of these things when you know the date isn't going well or you're not interested in the person. They will eliminate themselves and you don't have to deal with the emotional toll of ending it, they will do that for you!
@chastonfox2029
@chastonfox2029 Ай бұрын
How can you come back from this. She said that she values the truth but every time I tell her the truth it seems like she didn't want to hear it.
@Deco_2k
@Deco_2k Ай бұрын
I warn one of my homie about this, but you know rookie to the thing u know what can I do, I mean! he did get the warning.. good thing the elder them teach we the thing from a long time in our development stage, but yeah Jes its good you doing those thing to help the younger Gen ..
@IkeHenry-hf8wz
@IkeHenry-hf8wz Ай бұрын
@@JessicaOS just want to see you, that all .
@thomastoseland7113
@thomastoseland7113 24 күн бұрын
Thanks for this, although to be honest nobody wants me, in that way nowadays.
@HarvardTutorials
@HarvardTutorials Ай бұрын
Another is: don't reveal your family secrets or struggles, especially negative ones.
@godswayakese587
@godswayakese587 18 күн бұрын
@@HarvardTutorials Greatness is within you 💯
@suleimanidris5301
@suleimanidris5301 3 күн бұрын
Spot on
@AzaNaphtali
@AzaNaphtali Ай бұрын
Honestly just be yourself. If a woman change just because of your so called weaknesses she's not the one. If you can't tell a woman anything about you, then what's really the point?
@olzzon
@olzzon Ай бұрын
Exactly like this .
@petermorton188
@petermorton188 Ай бұрын
I feel the same its just that the women is too busy telling me about her things and involved with herself
@KustoLehoko
@KustoLehoko Ай бұрын
I want a woman who is supportive and not materialistic
@patrickmillion
@patrickmillion Ай бұрын
That's just like saying to pretend to be something you're not ....and you don't wanna be telling her stuff she doesn't need to know.
@kamiko8021
@kamiko8021 Ай бұрын
TIMING BROS... Speaking from experience it's all about timing
@rayraysphone
@rayraysphone 29 күн бұрын
The most honest and red pilled woman on KZbin. We must protect Jessica at all costs.
@Embelemokua
@Embelemokua Ай бұрын
If she leaves, she’s not the one. Stay focused on your purpose.
@timeeak4599
@timeeak4599 Ай бұрын
@@Embelemokua Yup, yup
@davidjosiah1907
@davidjosiah1907 26 күн бұрын
There is no "the one"
@charlestitosse94
@charlestitosse94 26 күн бұрын
@@Embelemokua wake up!!!
@chadgrimes252
@chadgrimes252 5 күн бұрын
​@@davidjosiah1907i'm starting to believe this myself, "there is always gonna be fish in the sea" but at the end of the day a fish will always be a fish they may look different but at the core they will remain the same by nature
@guevara7E
@guevara7E Ай бұрын
"Never complain, Never explain." I remember hearing that quote some years back and have kept it as a reminder whenever I'd come across a situation in which it's best to to stay quiet (about 90% of the time). It has been a very useful technique in my experience. This video reminds me of that and does a great job of highlighting the way to go about dealing with situations you're better off not revealing. Thank you, Jessica.
@derrickb2871
@derrickb2871 Ай бұрын
Now remember she made a video about how women don't respect or like easy going guys...so not complaining might come off as weak. Just saying...in a way every video contradicts two other videos. Or maybe I'm just reading it wrong
@victoralex4814
@victoralex4814 Ай бұрын
@@derrickb2871 yeah and now she has posted a video saying the best time to find love is when you are broke, that’s contradicting this video too lol
@mosesolalekan9219
@mosesolalekan9219 27 күн бұрын
No. Not contradicting. Though on the surface, it might look like that. Here, she says, don't REVEAL your FINANCIAL STRUGGLES (financially failed attempts or wasted efforts) too early. Speak on the next solution instead. In the video about finding love while broke, she meant, DON'T THINK, it's all about money to get your dream girl. A good frame of mind matters best. The ability to have a great frame of mind while broke will be charming.
@bmi3000reloaded
@bmi3000reloaded 18 күн бұрын
Basically, women are emotionally chaotic. Proceed with caution, gents.
@trippylongstalkings9515
@trippylongstalkings9515 2 күн бұрын
Agreed. If you can't be yourself, she's not the one.
@devaughnsalter6264
@devaughnsalter6264 Ай бұрын
I would argue that even when married, a man should not share certain secrets. She most often can (and will) use them against you.
@josephcoatofmanycolors
@josephcoatofmanycolors Ай бұрын
indeed, when married Men should always stay mysterious.
@charlestitosse94
@charlestitosse94 26 күн бұрын
True!!!
@BWater-yq3jx
@BWater-yq3jx 21 күн бұрын
Yes there's no upside. Maybe you think it'll bring you closer, but the opposite is more likely.
@trippylongstalkings9515
@trippylongstalkings9515 2 күн бұрын
Tell us you're over 50, without telling us you're over 50.
@devaughnsalter6264
@devaughnsalter6264 2 күн бұрын
@@trippylongstalkings9515 I got married younger. I'm only approaching 42. Nice try though. Now, tell us you've never been in a real relationship without telling us you've never been in one.
@hanzosiku
@hanzosiku Ай бұрын
Basically, relationships are like business transactions. These are exact sales techniques we employ while dealing with promising leads and new customers.
@basilking4869
@basilking4869 29 күн бұрын
@@hanzosiku 😄😄😄😄
@wyldmanmike200
@wyldmanmike200 26 күн бұрын
Yea basically . Especially nowadays
@jeezymay
@jeezymay Ай бұрын
1. No, I'm not on an interview. 2. I don't have time for this. 3. No, I'm not on an interview. 4. So basically lie. 5. None of her business. So basically don't tell her anything about you. Tell her anything she wants to hear even if it means lying. Nah I'm done peacocking for a females. At this point she has to impress me.
@DRBDSTV
@DRBDSTV Ай бұрын
@@jeezymay honestly bro i am done peacocking, @jesica Os should teach her how to get me
@catalyst3713
@catalyst3713 20 күн бұрын
Lol, you lost the plot.
@jeezymay
@jeezymay 14 күн бұрын
@catalyst3713 evident by the ratio of votes between us lol
@TADA13
@TADA13 5 күн бұрын
My guy, u labelled each point of the video yet u missed the key word that was consistently mentioned THROUGHOUT the video. She never said "Don't ever say these things". *She said not to reveal these things TOO EARLY ON into the relationship* Save those deeper more personal topics for when the foundation of the relationship has been established. Aka, don't say some things when u are still in the honeymoon/talking/dating stage. She also said there's a way to say these things. The delivery of the message matters as much as the message itself. This overall point can be applied not only with ur significant other, but also when navigating friendships, relationships work environments, family and generally any social setting.
@TADA13
@TADA13 5 күн бұрын
You can turn things around and she can impress u all u like, but if u want to get into a commitment, best believe YOU will have something wrong that is straining the relationship and needs to change. SHE will have a problem that's straining the relationship that needs to change. Y'all will need to put work into covering each other's weaknesses. Its hard enough dealing with these things, revealing certain things, especially too early in a relationship, will add extra and unnecessary strain that really honestly don't need to be dealing with at that time. So don't put urself in that position if u don't need to, ESPECIALLY, where the 2 foundations of a relationship; 1) Trust and 2) Compatibility, aren't established yet. THAT is the overarching point of the video. Its not about deception, its about avoiding pitfalls that may potentially kill something good prematurely.
@Big_Spin_O
@Big_Spin_O Ай бұрын
This year, i met a wonderful girl. Everything started good. Somehow, she acted like a detective in most of our conversations. She asked a lot about my past. I loved her and wanted to build sth special with. I was true to her and shared my past, family history, career and everything. She left. While she used to be connected all day long on the phone, now not even a text message. I realized i shared too much about me, and i don’t know much about her. I regret that. But i wanted that relationship, i decided not to hide anything. I wish it good luck.
@human_08
@human_08 Ай бұрын
Same here bro. Once a shared my complete truth after 5 years she left
@dr.shycat71
@dr.shycat71 Ай бұрын
Its proven ,being to open and honest doesn't all help in most relationships even if years go by...i guess in most cases the advice it's to always to hold back. I'm in a relationship for over 4 years and starting to realize that i have been to open and too honest hopefully all this doesn't backfire on me.
@human_08
@human_08 Ай бұрын
@@dr.shycat71 I’ll pray for you bro. But what you did is a blunder n probability of her leaving, loosing interest, questioning your value, doubtful about future together are all high now. Hopefully she’s a mature woman and mentally healthy to handle your truths otherwise she’s gona leave like mine did. No matter how strong your bonding was for 4 years.
@PatrickIrvineBlacknesslives
@PatrickIrvineBlacknesslives Ай бұрын
Its not your fault she left, it was her decision and you shouldn't take that on unless you abused her in some way. For whatever reason, she decided she didn't want to continue with you, and in the absence of an explanation, I'd say the issue is probably with her.
@human_08
@human_08 Ай бұрын
@ what kind of issues would that be? From your human experience if you will
@georgefrancis8255
@georgefrancis8255 24 күн бұрын
Simply put,be honest and real,no woman that is yours will walk away because of your weakness,I’m speaking from experience
@FosterNyambu-w3i
@FosterNyambu-w3i 15 күн бұрын
@@georgefrancis8255 yes ,this is 💯 true real one will be there nomatter the depest of insecurities you tell her about you
@Biggiemoore
@Biggiemoore Ай бұрын
Sometimes all these love videos are confusing! All your responses are great. Not every man remembers all these lines! A woman meant for you will stay and would like to support!
@cameronrunnles1689
@cameronrunnles1689 23 күн бұрын
Yeah this Is alot to remember
@Kantz1
@Kantz1 16 күн бұрын
@@Biggiemoore There is nothing to remember. Just keep your eyes peeled and your mouth shut. If you have to talk, say only things that are not sensitive in your life. A bit like dealing with an enemy that you necessarily have to keep close. How hard is that?
@LeeEverett1
@LeeEverett1 Ай бұрын
I messed up 1 bad. My last ex I asked her to please never ghost me, that if things aren't working out to just tell me as I have abandonment issues. "I promise baby I'd never do that to you" is what she told me. Well 6 months later guess what she did? Yup, ghosted me. Woke up one day and blocked me everywhere without saying a word. Women can be evil and devious. NEVER share your weaknesses, she will absolutely exploit them eventually when she feels you are no longer of use or aren't bending the knee to her.
@dalekennish4561
@dalekennish4561 29 күн бұрын
@@LeeEverett1 u didn't mess one up then, u dodged a bullet. Good job!
@Ayomide-nn4yn
@Ayomide-nn4yn 5 күн бұрын
@@dalekennish4561 And he need to over his "abandonment issues" too. I know it probably from childhood trauma etc...but it is overcomable
@chadgrimes252
@chadgrimes252 5 күн бұрын
Same thing happened to me last year but i don't give a fuck anymore i'm moving cold now, we both just gotta get over the abandonment issues
@twt4589
@twt4589 Ай бұрын
Great video!! And to those saying be yourself and the right woman will stay. That right woman is only your biological mum.
@zenithblaze020
@zenithblaze020 Ай бұрын
Flirting felt awkward, and I’d overthink everything. After using your advice and reading Celestial Soulmate by Lentlish, I’ve learned to relax, stay playful, and just have fun with it. Now flirting feels natural, and I’m seeing great results.
@mensurkeramika4732
@mensurkeramika4732 Ай бұрын
I've got the book now, and I really like what I've read so far. Tnx for recommending it
@elijahnyirenda3672
@elijahnyirenda3672 22 күн бұрын
Gotta check out that book ASAP
@oluwakayodesamuel4739
@oluwakayodesamuel4739 Ай бұрын
Spot on "the financial struggles" cut me off my last relationship
@edwardroseiii7498
@edwardroseiii7498 Ай бұрын
Even if the relationship is established, it's better not to mention these things. This is why when someone asks a man how he's doing he says, "Fine".
@darylsherif4148
@darylsherif4148 Ай бұрын
I shared so much with this lady some while back, I was sooooo in love. now she doesn't text back, even when she does it turns out dry like I'm forcing a vibe or something. I've been hurting so much and it's not like did something wrong, I just revealed to her my greatest fear and insecurities. Once I heal I'm never looking back, ever!
@josephconjoh4788
@josephconjoh4788 Ай бұрын
@@darylsherif4148 Listen bro, forget about her, focus on yourself. When the time is right she will see where she went wrong
@seunazeez3838
@seunazeez3838 Ай бұрын
I experienced something over. She views me as having low self esteem. I had to leave.
@darylsherif4148
@darylsherif4148 Ай бұрын
@seunazeez3838 you would find your person soon
@seunazeez3838
@seunazeez3838 Ай бұрын
@@darylsherif4148 😊 With this kind of conviction, I guess you're a prophet. Amen. And thank you, sir. I wish you the same if you're in my shoes.
@andregreen3693
@andregreen3693 Ай бұрын
Always remain confident even in time of adversity keep that mystery
@Jahblessena
@Jahblessena Ай бұрын
Well done, Jes! I think a man shouldn't reveal his family struggles or loopholes too soon.
@human_08
@human_08 Ай бұрын
Huge mistake I did n she left
@Kantz1
@Kantz1 16 күн бұрын
@@Jahblessena Not “too soon”. “Ever!” Even after you marry her, tell her a little thing and it will become her topic the next time you offend her. Women!!
@banjomechanic
@banjomechanic 23 күн бұрын
If I’d had this kind of insight years ago! It works both ways. I dated a girl for years who told me waaaaay too much about her previous boyfriend. She also had an unknown amount of credit card debt. Had collectors calling multiple times a day. I was cool about it but stated I was not going to marry into her college party debt and therefore be responsible for it. That was the beginning of the end. Girl had more red flags than a CCP parade. And if any future woman would ask me about it all I’m going to say is that I learned a lot from it and now it doesn’t matter because here I am with a fantastic woman living a life I love.
@Mrblessedone1
@Mrblessedone1 Ай бұрын
If you truly want to be happy... Let her know everything in a balanced way and if she's open and understanding she's a keeper... And build with her, No manipulation or sales tactics to keep her.. Genuine love...
@abetlaka2379
@abetlaka2379 29 күн бұрын
On finances, in the same way that I would never ask how much she’s earning, I would also not reveal how much my business is making. That’s not the same as discussing who’s responsible for what financial responsibilities in a relationship.
@vincentonyango9801
@vincentonyango9801 Ай бұрын
Jessica is simply the best,telling things how they should be Much love n respect from Nairobi Kenya
@Walid.OnTheTrack6725
@Walid.OnTheTrack6725 18 күн бұрын
she's mature in the psychological sense, the way she talks, her ethereal eyes, oow man god bless her
@MashaKayode
@MashaKayode Ай бұрын
Thanks!
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS Ай бұрын
Appreciate you 🙏🏾
@JullReko
@JullReko Ай бұрын
This is a real life experience to me, I wish I knew this before 😮
@Arnieshines
@Arnieshines 8 күн бұрын
I fully agree with number one... Jst don't unless ur like married for many years never tell a woman ur weakness she will always use it against u and lose interest
@illusionist1430
@illusionist1430 5 күн бұрын
These ideas work the same for even getting a new job. We're looking for a job you look at the relationship that you're trying to build with a new company, so you need to paint your prior companies in the best light and show that you're willing to move forward. Biggest mistakes that anybody has is still dwelling on the past and still being affected by it.
@CoR_Tv
@CoR_Tv Ай бұрын
Listen and Learn... Jessica has been doing this for over 20years and I tell you, she's giving you the best
@ModernDatingMastery
@ModernDatingMastery Ай бұрын
*The right balance between openness and privacy keeps the relationship healthy - always protect your long-term goals and vulnerabilities.*
@AnointedMinds_CoachMalachi
@AnointedMinds_CoachMalachi 23 күн бұрын
Thank you. The information you have provided in this video is priceless. It has made me realize that my saying, "You cannot say the wrong thing to the right person," is an illusion. It is a lose, lose, lose situation 100% of the time. The fact that a man has to jump through all of these hoops to say the PERFECT THING to someone who says, "Love me as I am," is utterly ridiculous. The "Discrepancies" in a relationship are what kill a relationship whether it is from a man or a woman. The "Double Standards" that we have are what destroy a relationship like termites. I know your attempt is to educate and I definitely appreciate everything you have said in this video, but the fact that you are right in what you are saying, in my opinion, is the actual defeat. It's like going to the casino, the house always wins.
@UnknownUser-pw8os
@UnknownUser-pw8os Ай бұрын
I always share the things you are saying i shouldn't.....i do it purposely....because i don't need people who want to hear only the best out of me but can be comfortable with my worst... I do it intentionally to let them go
@dalekennish4561
@dalekennish4561 Ай бұрын
U are the real deal.. wish I could have the specific info at hand within each situation secretly being delivered to my ear B4 I speak 🤣
@soichirohonda267
@soichirohonda267 29 күн бұрын
So insightful and purposeful, this woman is national treasure!
@MICHAELHOLMES-xf4rm
@MICHAELHOLMES-xf4rm 9 күн бұрын
CONFIRMATION...TOTALLY AGREE...INTELLIGENT, ARTICULATE AND ATTRACTIVE YOUNG LADY...YES I'M SPEAKING ABOUT YOU
@Buddahabrot
@Buddahabrot Ай бұрын
Never cry about an ex.
@superflyrico
@superflyrico 7 күн бұрын
So grateful for this! It was ME all through! Over sharing was my go to as I’ve grown up seeking validation in a perceived racially superior environment and I was the odd one out… making yourself Smaller and being very open about everything to show they have nothing to fear was my strategy… now I’ve learned that I’m not the one who needs to win trust. I am a lot more chilled about giving info about myself and I know that I don’t have to say anything significant… unless in my close circles.
@omarking557
@omarking557 8 күн бұрын
Jessica is teaching how to build attraction and initial relationships. I can see there are levels to it. It builds boundaries which men need and women will respect if she is the right one.
@Tasty-the-money
@Tasty-the-money Ай бұрын
Moral of the story; speak like a corporate executive.
@rickyvalens101
@rickyvalens101 27 күн бұрын
I REALLY DON'T KNOW ABOUT U BUT TRUTHFULLY YOU SPOKE TO MY HEART. THANKS
@mixey01
@mixey01 5 күн бұрын
Got to love the background music. Gives the video much more impact. Well done
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS 4 күн бұрын
Thanks, I picked it specifically for this video!
@Jake38nine
@Jake38nine 14 күн бұрын
No thanks. I'm not dating children. I'm dating adults. If they can't handle anything I say and lose interest that quickly, they are teenagers and have not grown out of highschool.
@BOZACKSKY
@BOZACKSKY 20 күн бұрын
This is pure gold.i once whinged about my job and a girl cancelled me.
@eugeneboaforockstar
@eugeneboaforockstar Ай бұрын
This video is made for me.. I opened up to me ex,she was new in my life, I told her abt how my previous relationship before her was,not every detail though,and how we both were supporting each other, I thought I wasn’t being transparent & honest woth her abt certain stuffs,little did I know,she was analyzing a lot and questioning my loyalty and readiness to have a new life with her.. she felt unsafe and had a mixed feeling,she cut me off,ever since,she got to know,how much she has heard abt me and my previous ex. Never make an attempt to be an honest hero just because of being a nice,sincere or genuine person,just be ready to move on and concentrate only on the present and future.
@Prohitd
@Prohitd Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I was close to making this mistake :/
@ugoericRedeemed
@ugoericRedeemed 26 күн бұрын
You are a jewel in what you do. I live in New York and had listened to relationship therapists, you are simply at the global level.
@moonandastar
@moonandastar Ай бұрын
me too, "the financial struggles" cut me off my last relationship!
@sohail1855
@sohail1855 14 күн бұрын
Hi Jessica, One important thing not to mention at first date is, about your depression past or any disabilities. A woman left me abruptly while walking together, when I told her about my past depression.
@victoralex4814
@victoralex4814 Ай бұрын
Vibed with this American girl on the first day , we both liked each other and she mentioned how she was sure she wanted to be my girl 5 minutes into our conversation and how we both liked literally the same thing, only for me to talk about marriage and stuff which I did out of excitement because she was literally everything I have ever dreamed in a woman, from taking her religion seriously , to not smoking partying and drinking type of girl and how like we both wanted the same thing, talked about marriage only for this girl to say I was love bombing her and that I wanted marriage cos of citizenship , I am lost for words. I said okay forget about everything because like really ?
@thomashenshallhydraxis
@thomashenshallhydraxis Ай бұрын
This is why I don’t actually try to date; but dates do happen. I don’t try to initiate conversation, but conversations happen. I find the less I care to date or meet; I still meet, but I’m not setting myself up for failure when I like someone. I met a women other day; she says she liked me, and our conversation is awesome, but I’m too nice. I was just having a conversation but somehow I’m too nice so she didn’t want to see me anymore. And I wasn’t being the normal nice guy; I was just having a good conversation I really thought we were connecting and we liked similar things. I did get excited finally met someone awesome. But I guess I showed her I like her to much
@SamuelKiriama
@SamuelKiriama Ай бұрын
Good job Jes!
@juniorbrown5904
@juniorbrown5904 Ай бұрын
You're a wonderful Teacher, Empress!! Thanks for your helpful advice and information!!!
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS Ай бұрын
Thank you for the kind words! 😊
@vaughnalexander32
@vaughnalexander32 25 күн бұрын
Women come & go. just dont tell them your business. when u do, ppl usually just screw it up or just gossip abt u. some of these women use what they know abt u against u when they are madd
@manueljay8744
@manueljay8744 24 күн бұрын
@@vaughnalexander32 very true
@ElijahOku
@ElijahOku Ай бұрын
Thank God have a good woman that knows everything about and choses to stay with me
@chadgrimes252
@chadgrimes252 5 күн бұрын
Lucky guy💯happy for ya man👊🏽this is the type of genuine love us men need in our life
@akinolamatthew6679
@akinolamatthew6679 Ай бұрын
Thank you @Mummy Jessica OS for ALWAYS looking out for us (your children) on this channel 🙏 as your advice and their worth cannot be quantified. Thank you for all that you do for us ma'am 🙏. God bless you and much love 💕 from Nigeria.
@remigiusozor1791
@remigiusozor1791 Ай бұрын
For me there's much stress with women and its not worth it most times. Please channel the energy and strength to becoming successful in life
@Elisha-phiri
@Elisha-phiri Ай бұрын
I used to tell them about the number of people I had hit out with but realised it was a mistake because they would tell me not to reveal it to the next human being I would get entangled with
@DeVaughn-v6e
@DeVaughn-v6e Ай бұрын
Jessica, you're very inspirational, I must say
@beebeesfuntasticadventures6110
@beebeesfuntasticadventures6110 28 күн бұрын
It seems relationships are getting harder and harder to deal with, what a world we live in these days.
@lordyancy
@lordyancy 28 күн бұрын
Wisdom is speaking
@ManuelMartinez-pd9sj
@ManuelMartinez-pd9sj 19 күн бұрын
Thank you. This is extremely valuable. I see the error of my ways. How do I heal and be strong? I feel like a lost cause. I don't blame her for being disappointed. How do I get out of this pit of despair? I feel exhausted and struggle almost daily with not giving up. I don't seem to know how not to be pathetic. I pretty much have nothing left to love. How do you not be a victim when you were and are? I love myself. I love my family, but they don't see me, they see what their toxicity brings out and they use it against me. I know what I want in life but how do I to aquire is the million dollar question. I need help. God doesn't want to fix me. Idk how to fix me. I want to be better. I want better things to say. I want to be loved. Those are very valid concerns you addressed and thank you truly. What do I do to overcome my defeated sensitive mentality? I feel damaged beyond repair which renders me loney, misjudged and misunderstood. I have many great values, but stability isn't one of them apparently 😪
@MM-ie3wi
@MM-ie3wi 28 күн бұрын
Fair list 😌! Similar for women as well.
@Baliki-ed9si
@Baliki-ed9si 27 күн бұрын
Thanks. I thought that you have to be truthful about certain things, mostly about the financial struggles to show your honesty but through this video I have been well edified
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS 26 күн бұрын
Glad I could help you see things differently! 😊
@User_n1d6g62f9j
@User_n1d6g62f9j Ай бұрын
Personally weaknesses should be shared in order to better understanding someone. But of cause, don't share literally every weaknesses. And if women who can't handle even one or two weaknesses in men, such women look for perfection and flawless soulmate and thus, not worth to even think about.
@joneselmenda5809
@joneselmenda5809 Ай бұрын
Jessica doesn't say you shouldn't share your struggles with your partner; you can, but timing is key. Women want to hear good things only, so stick to that until she reaches the point of no return.
@harpersnyder2297
@harpersnyder2297 28 күн бұрын
@@joneselmenda5809 so basically you set her up and lock her up with you?
@JosephISIDAHOMHE
@JosephISIDAHOMHE Ай бұрын
You are truly a Proverbs 31 woman/mother: God has provided for your son already a vital life coach in you!!! You should be on the board of Church Marriage Counselors
@addoasante7437
@addoasante7437 Ай бұрын
Jess always on point. Indeed you generational help of our time.
@DJRatchet1
@DJRatchet1 Ай бұрын
1 your weaknesses 2 how many women you cranked 3 regrets of life 4 past relationships in detail 5 financial struggles
@darinbland6526
@darinbland6526 21 күн бұрын
I enjoy the talk smart incentive you share on your platform. Heaven must be like this....
@tumiphale
@tumiphale 5 күн бұрын
Hi Mrs Jessica, Your channel is soo helpful to us guys.... my wish is that more man could find your channel and learn more from you.... thanks for helping us ❤and making us man better vision of ourselves.
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS 4 күн бұрын
Glad you find it helpful! 😊 Do me a favour and share it with your friends who will find it helpful. Thanks in advance.
@tumiphale
@tumiphale 4 күн бұрын
@JessicaOS I will surely do that starting with my twin brother cause I believe he should invest more of his time in your channel he could learn a lot from you.
@josephbangali430
@josephbangali430 18 күн бұрын
As a man, always say less than necessary.
@ernestmugo1765
@ernestmugo1765 4 күн бұрын
Solid advice. Your voice is very soothing - it reminds me of the therapist from Rick and Morty
@CharlesEjebe
@CharlesEjebe 28 күн бұрын
You are a true legend. Nice one
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS 26 күн бұрын
Thanks, appreciate you!
@dr.praisemaiwaazi
@dr.praisemaiwaazi Ай бұрын
Your videos are educative and They're eye openers Thank you Soo much ❤❤❤😊
@FavourSantana
@FavourSantana 28 күн бұрын
Great video, Jessica. You're good at what you do. Thank you for your insights over the years.
@brianmclain1955
@brianmclain1955 12 күн бұрын
Nothing for me to learn here but, I'm glad this information is out there for the people that need it.😄
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS 10 күн бұрын
I hear ya! 😄
@Barry22491
@Barry22491 3 күн бұрын
These lessons are not only for women but also friendship in life in general…
@kudakwashephillie
@kudakwashephillie Ай бұрын
Financial struggles is a major turn off
@chrispope3777
@chrispope3777 Ай бұрын
Smh why does everything gotta be about money? Love comes from the heart, not the money. This generation of love now and days sucks.
@aronronnieamanya9922
@aronronnieamanya9922 Ай бұрын
Kudos to Jessica.. thank you for these great lessons
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS Ай бұрын
You're welcome! 😊
@Elemen10-01
@Elemen10-01 Ай бұрын
All points makes sense well done
@BrothaEnock
@BrothaEnock Ай бұрын
Nobody playing games fuck it be yourself if they stick around then you know. Relationships was never this difficult in the past our parents grew with each other along the way.
@SunShyne_Culture
@SunShyne_Culture 2 күн бұрын
@@BrothaEnock That so true bro. Now a days people use everything as a business. You cannot tell people what to say. That's for a lawyer in a criminal case ❤
@georgemensah8774
@georgemensah8774 Ай бұрын
I wish I could like this video like a million times. Basically this video is directed right to me.
@leftofcenter4
@leftofcenter4 Ай бұрын
Great advice cause I checked out of the dating scene 23 years ago and was a too honest dude.. not sure if I will ever be involved again, that’s all in Gods plan but good tip regardless, if I find myself in a dating situation I will for sure keep these tips in mind
@jeffhemsley8693
@jeffhemsley8693 Ай бұрын
❤ your interlect and intelligent inspiration, one thing I would say is, don't mention pass relationships, just refer to them as chance's to learn and evolve. Great content Jess love and respect you've helped alot. Keep posting, wish to meet some day, best wishes for the your journey 🎉👌✌️👍
@benjaminspann1892
@benjaminspann1892 9 күн бұрын
Excellent advice, Jessica O's!😅
@johnitebete9052
@johnitebete9052 25 күн бұрын
Ok in your advice throughout you are talking about the analogue ladies of the last days LIABILITIES who made men loose hope in relationships when approaching a lady for a relationship was taking yourself to a market and opening an atm machine for the Redcross or feeding the needy
@dbrown2989
@dbrown2989 11 күн бұрын
Great video! Luv your advice..
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS 10 күн бұрын
Glad you liked it!
@HighestSwedge
@HighestSwedge Ай бұрын
Well noted Jes thank you 🙏🏼 😊
@brianbrino4310
@brianbrino4310 Ай бұрын
Great video great content and awesome advice as everything coming from you is Jessica! Thank you once more and I am wishing you and all your loved ones very happy year end festivities and a most wonderful 2025!❤❤
@RKHBLD
@RKHBLD Ай бұрын
That the man has options if it doesn’t go anywhere, to only have one girl he is talking to he will be afraid to lose her but if he has options then it’s fine if they never speak again.
@Andys_Attic
@Andys_Attic Ай бұрын
Like #9! Wishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas my friend! 🎄 I was starting to get a little concerned since you usually respond to my comments and didn't on your last video. Great to see you are doing well and relieved as well. Great shout outs on some wonderful channels. Always love seeing those Angels! I also love those old 70's-early 80's shows! Nice Hulk Hogan card, but a "Thunder lips" card would have been sexier 🤣😂🤣 Nice Nadia card! The original 10! Love the Stooges as well and watch them whenever I catch them on television. Should have a YUK! sticker on that box of Cinnamon Toast Crunch box!!! Why change a good thing? They are great just the way they are 🤣 Enjoyed the watch as usual, thanks for sharing 👍👍until next time, have a very Merry Christmas with family and friends Rob and hopefully I can bring my ho! ho! ho's!, I mean my sexy collectibles to you soon. ✌out and stay warm my friend 🔥
@suleimanidris5301
@suleimanidris5301 3 күн бұрын
Great talk. Timing is the key
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS 3 күн бұрын
It really is - thanks for watching!
@Conefone
@Conefone Ай бұрын
1week of no contact , im still crying 😢
@king-taolaolaiya7182
@king-taolaolaiya7182 Ай бұрын
Thank you Jessy, am glad you shared this. I got this. More❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS Ай бұрын
I'm happy to hear it resonated with you!
@Lifeboy027
@Lifeboy027 23 күн бұрын
Thank you so much J Happy New Year 🎈
@DiabolicalD3
@DiabolicalD3 3 күн бұрын
Simple frame everything positively at all times
@IkeHenry-hf8wz
@IkeHenry-hf8wz Ай бұрын
❤ I think listen and observation before explaining u feelings
@destinysodje1167
@destinysodje1167 Ай бұрын
Thank you Jessy ❤
@nanaowusu4881
@nanaowusu4881 17 күн бұрын
Great content 👍🏼
@joelolamide9285
@joelolamide9285 Ай бұрын
God bless you sister❤
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