If She Isn’t Afraid You’ll Cheat, She Doesn’t Love You [Ep 32]

If she’s not at least a little bit jealous, she’s probably doesn’t value that highly as a man.
But, does it work both ways?
No, watch the episode to find out why…

[@NuggetOfDino]

Facts! I had to learn the hard way. I got aggressively hit on an an airport bar & told the wife about it not in a braggy way - was surprised since was a personal first. Not only did she not care, but she thought I made it up. We were married 4 yrs and divorced 2 yrs after that. Big difference from our first 2 yrs married where she flipped out when ran into an old fling of mine at a party and another time when a good friend invited me to a bachelor party at a strip club. When your significant other is not semi possessive/protective it's a major red flag and anyone who misunderstands this as being over-controlling is another red flag

[@MartinaWarden]

I think one reason you may receive combative comments is that, respectfully, your episodes often use language that speaks to individuals who either lack self-awareness or aren't willing to do "the work." It's like trying to explain concepts to those who can't connect with them. I'd love to watch episodes where you speak to men and women who are already engaged in inner work and growth, and who want to deepen their development, especially in their relationships-a common struggle for many career-focused individuals. Just my thoughts. I really enjoy the dynamic you both have.

[@garygreen3638]

I don't think that is the reason. Based on the title alone, it saying that if you aren't afraid of your partner cheating, then they don't love you. Or maybe they just trust each other that much. Not everything is like "he dosen't love me anymore". That's why the comments are "combative": it literally dosent make any sense and it's narrow minded on this topic.

[@amc3964]

Beautiful couple.

[@thekingandme]

27:15 my brother would say “you were ok with your man going to the bar because you knew women wouldn’t hit on him” 😂(that’s the PG version of how he’d say it)

[@marcusreed6477]

In your opinion is there an argument to say that there is a way women to ensure their doing enough by becoming the woman he would hate to lose? Often times when I think of modern relationships and about how men yes, we do want variety, but if we have a woman we would hate to lose and or hate to hurt I don't think we would consider it nearly as much. Normally beyond the divorce consequences it's this argument that I believe keeps men faithful. Also to play devil's advocate do you believe that there are times that in your attempt to be that guy and make the woman feel loved that, women could sometimes ask too much and take parts and pieces of you that made you attractive initially in the first place? Obviously not knowing their relationship and only semantics I think the argument is with Tom Brady is not that he was that guy, and she left anyway, but that he was that guy, and she wanted him to give up something he loved to do and probably to some degree made him attractive in the first place to only be about her.