If You Are a Non-Muslim Woman in a Relationship With a Muslim Man Then This Video Is for You

[@Killshot15]

As a Muslim man the amount of Muslim men some whom I know that string along non-muslim girls to end up marrying some other Muslim girl is wild and absolutely sickening.

[@iammar1159]

The non-Muslim women are toys for them to play with and explore their fantasies with that a lot of Muslim women are not really interested in. Then when they’re “ready to settle down”, they say they wanna marry a “pious” and “innocent” Muslim woman despite their own impious and not-so-innocent past. May Allah protect us and all women from these types of men. Ameen.

[@whatthefitt]

Or becoming devout after/upon marrying the non muslim partner and wanting them to convert to islam is also disgusting and sickening.

[@ewablonska]

yes, they should from start not waste time of nice christian girls or decide to marry them no matter what relgion is, I not like this whims of these men

[@mujahidhasan118]

also pre marriage relation is Haram. if a Muslim man tells you to or invite you to date. it's a instantly Red flag.

[@l.raq1]

This video will be appreciated by many women. You are very courageous. Thank you for this Jemila ♥️

[@taliabruce5952]

I have been with a muslim man for 15 years 7 kids and we have not been married and i have been learning about islam and reading the quaran and he just told me that it would not work between us anymore 😢😢 the dont know what to do this is the only person I know for all these years im heart broken

[@PerlaTepoz-v7m]

@taliabruce5952 your pain became mine, I am sorry for this. The only thing I can tell you is to ask Allha to riderct your life and help you with this situation. He always listens. You have to learn how to love and respect yourself because nobody has the right to harm anyone

[@ckairies0520]

As a muslim women I hurt for these non-muslim women trying to be with muslim men like this 😢

[@iwashere583]

This was such a good video! I'm a Muslim woman and I can say this is honest advice for non-Muslim women to know if he's being serious or not, and just to make sure they're not taking advantage of you. I feel like there aren't many resources on this topic so I'm glad Jemila talked about this

[@melissachan_]

This video was what I needed to hear which was hard truths. I’ve been in a physical relationship with a Muslim man for the last 7 months and I’ve fallen for him but know it’s time to call it quicks. He asked me to agree to a temporary marriage which I said yes to. He has a wife in Lebanon and a child with her and lives with his ex wife her in the states whom they share 3 children with. Initially this was not the case when we first started dating as he had his own place and told me him and his wife were no longer together. Come to find out 3 months ago none of that was true. I need to walk away from this situation but my feelings keep me in it, even though I know it’s wrong. Please pray for me. 🙏🏾

[@hacermepoliglota2845]

I am so sorry to hear that! I send you a lot of strength!

[@A_real_one24]

Back again with a Jemila video. This how u know it’s a good day

[@Helena-ht4ee]

I reverted in March. Sadly this is true and seen some horror stories of some men marrying and then abusing reverts muslimahs. Your right, this is not Islam. Only revert for the sake of Allah SWT only.

[@zohrapops4493]

Love this! Muslim woman here and I think this is amazing advice! Also you're beautiful alhummabarik~

[@PerlaTepoz-v7m]

I got married with a younger man than me and is Muslim, and I converted as well. I was in socked that we did not have more time to meet each other, but he said in his culture, it is like that. I want to learn from him, and we are going to learn from each other. I meet his mother, she loves me and I do too. I love him.

[@ewablonska]

how much time u had before wedding?

[@PerlaTepoz-v7m]

@@ewablonska 8 months before my wedding

[@ewablonska]

@@PerlaTepoz-v7m and u converted before marry for him or after marry? it was condition to marry? how old are u? I m sorry for my questions but I like to know stories of marriages like this, I was with muslim men too but with one 1 year, other 5 years and no wedding, no engegement we break. I m 26 years old and not feel and not want waste more time. Actually I m 1 year with new boy long distance relationship, he is from muslim country too. I m christian. I m just thinking what girls do that boys quickly want marry them :) I wish you good luck in your marriage 😍😍😍

[@PerlaTepoz-v7m]

@ewablonska I did the conversation the day of my marriage. I am 53. I am Muslim, and I am studying the Holy Quran, I went to his country to meet all his family, I was divorced with 3 kids, I am not rich yet, I do not have house or fancy cars, I consider myself a good person and my physic in a good shape and I look 15 years younger than my age. His family immediately accepted me and loved me. I showed him the real of me, never showed him more of what you are not supposed to show, I am honest and real, and I converted because it is something I wanted to do on my own, He does not make me wear the hiyab only when I pray or go the the mosque. I wish for you that Allha sent you a real man who protects you and ❤️ you.

[@RumyTheone]

Sister I think this is more of a good male vs. bad male conversation. These scenarios can apply to anyone regardless of religion. Salaam Wa Alaikum

[@Killshot15]

True but sadly there are lots of Muslim men especially out here in the west who date non-muslims cause a Muslim girl wouldn't do that they then end up marrying a Muslim girl so the non Muslim girl feels used. Sucks that this happens since it makes us as Muslim men look bad

[@RumyTheone]

@@Killshot15 Respectfully brother, non-Muslim men date girls because a Muslim girl won't do that. They dump them as well, so it does not have to do with Islam as much as it does the integrity of the men they choose or the type of relationship they are willing to involve themselves in (Muslim or no Muslim) May Allah guide them.

[@Killshot15]

@@RumyTheone true definitely depends more on the integrity and ameen

[@Probowo-P.Indonesia]

​Malingsia

[@iammar1159]

This video and conversation is SPECIFICALLY about Muslim men and non-Muslim women relationships, hence the title. No one said it was about Islam. No one is blaming the religion, we’re talking about a very SPECIFIC group of Muslim men. Also, no one said ONLY Muslim men do these things. We know non-Muslim men are also capable of these things too but the conversation is not about them, it’s about Muslim men. Stay on topic please. The topic is very specific, so please do not deflect.

[@trinenielsen4288]

When I come across people as lovely as you, I always smile.. We need more like your beautiful soul ❤

[@Maria-gd4vf]

oh my, thank you girl. Every time I see those girls, my heart sinks for them wallah.

[@dynahvelvixin.8615]

I became muslim 16th June 2024 but I did it for me only. Many people offered me help but I said no let me do it alone. I have some experience of what lady is saying. I had a few muslim men arabic men a while before I reverted wanting sex but thankful I said no. I am very open minded not strict. .

[@zoyaali2837]

Jemila's dropping gemssss

[@taylorwatson5953]

I chatted with a Moroccan online for about a year . I told him upfront I didn’t want any sexual relationship when we first met each other . He came to the US a few months later on a student visa . He started pushing my boundaries and after I refused to do anything sexual with him , i stopped receiving texts and calls . Out of the blue he texts back , I told him I couldn’t be in contact with him as it became unbearable. He just casually blurts out that he went on a “date” last evening with another American woman and asked her to be his girlfriend 😳I was mind blown to say the least

[@faizspitsfaxx]

As a Muslim Men , you did a right thing and dodged a bullet , don't let him Manipulate you and Pre Marital sex is haram so i don't really think he is even practicing islam properly

[@ckairies0520]

You respected yourself❤ he was a loser!

[@artsygirl2003]

From experience, the parents were Muslim (they were the ones with accountability and morals) but their son was not Muslim, he was more atheist or agnostic (he's the type to basically waste time, waste your biological clock, because he has no accountability or intentions for anyone or anything, he makes you think you're going places with him but in reality he has no future with anyone, he's only there for a good time not a long time 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@NocturnalBolt]

This is honestly an issue on both sides of the coin, May Allah guide the Muslim men and women to leave off this foul behavior, there should be no dating

[@amcdoll]

I wish I could like this more than once. As a revert, it is helpful to know this.

[@medhatshalaby3603]

God bless your heart. Keep the good and honest word of Islam.

[@turkusowykwiat2509]

Great video,thank you❤

[@delsmontgomery]

hey sis! in your hijab journey vid you mentioned that you would go over how your relationship or reaction from family, men, etc has changed after you started wearing the hijab compared to before? Can you pls pls make that video? i think it would be really helpful for us girlies who are wanting to start the hijab in our 20s and 30s!

[@AmyElizabethFrith]

Thank you 🙏 💞

[@leratommutle6139]

Thank you! ❤️

[@ewablonska]

what about just meetings for coffee or meetings with friends before showing girl to parents and family? it s dating without kissing, hug or any touch, what about that?

[@joytooraw1765]

Great advice sister!

[@Kennedy-h9i]

I have been approached but Muslim men and all claim that they are okay with me being a single mother. My biggest fear is my kids and I not being accepted by their family. Would a Muslim man take a single mom seriously? And would their family be accepting.

[@blessed74God]

Careful with that they're pedophiles

[@billieholiday3862]

Thank you ❤🤲🏾

[@ewablonska]

do u think that christian or other relgion girl should be treaten by muslim men same like muslim women? I mean with same respect etc? because I see muslim men usually talk and treat non muslim girls diffferent way, they think they can more with other girls... what to do to show muslim men that I m good real christian girl worth marrying him (it s same like muslim girl)?

[@danieliordache1734]

Religion don't matter when it about love

[@bintou6864]

I love your videos you never miss❤️🫶🏾

[@saaradirie3795]

where is the posters from

[@dawudabdullah6522]

SUBHANALLAH SUBHANALLAH SUBHANALLAH

[@Val.bzh22]

Thanks!

[@muminaabdi1983]

Wait genuine question, non-Muslim women get a dowry too?

[@BrittnieBlakeslee]

I did.

[@behuman3801]

Relationship allowed in Islam?

[@Shinobu2506.]

No its haram Only in marriage

[@TheNewMiracunini]

Not outside of courtship where your direct family are involved. Normally from the girl's side a Wali which means guardian is typically the father, brother, uncle or in some cases potentially a religious leader to fill in the position if needed. The Wali oversees the said relationship and approves of the guy for the girl.

[@urstrulii5932]

I met a muslim Yemeni on a Friday. He stated that it was haram to even be talking to me. I then was asked on our second meeting to marry. Im not trying to make him go against his religion and I really like him. Just need to be sure of this. Any help pls?

[@reidjcsn]

This sounds normal and how a Muslim man would act, if you are open to marriage then I would say continue but if not then look for someone else

[@faizspitsfaxx]

You can Meet Multiple times to know about each Other as he have intentions of Marrying you , All he need to do is bring any Mahram (Sister or Mother) from his side during these Meetings , Who'll just Monitor your Conversation from a little far by giving you some space or sitting beside you both if you both are comfortable with it

[@ckairies0520]

My now husband did the same thing. After second date he asked my father if it would be okay to marry me. We had our Nikkah. I finished nursing school and than we married. Alhamdulillah. We have been together 15 years and he is my everything ❤ this is 100% normal.

[@CharmaineUnfiltered]

​@@ckairies0520is it also normal if they do it when u haven't met but say they want to meet

[@islamicreminder8916]

still waiting for a new video my sister

[@mait5806]

This was so insightful. Thank you for being a girl’s girl 🫶🏽

[@dawudabdullah6522]

DAEE AR RAAY SUBHANALLAH

[@UmmerFarooq-wx4yo]

Prophet Muhammad told people to become mü'slims. He was a man.

[@bonolomofahla]

🤍

[@TommyGok]

This video is shocking. Patriarchy and gender roles are hard wired into Islam. Fairness is not equality. Study your deen pls.

[@JMichael-e4y]

Not true sis brothers are really upset that sisters choose to inflate their rights on brothers like a high dowry when Islamically yes she can ask for any amount but how she chooses to use that right says alot about the sister because it's suppose to be what the brother can afford your suppose to make the halal fair especially if he has good reputation he's a Musali hes successful and honest and pious then if you know he's a good brother why best him in the head with a high dowry. This is why we choose to marry outside the faith. Me personally I would rather my wife convert then to get muslimah who's been Muslim for years.

[@nikleonard4029]

Get your wife to convert? So much wrong with that statement.

[@mait5806]

1st- here before Alyasa

[@Alyasa-eq6rt]

Shuusshh

[@Gnabaj02]

😭😭 I’m loving this beef 💞

[@Adenn574]

!Boost

[@mujahidhasan118]

sister I am kind of disappointed you know there is nothing to do with if you are Muslims or non Muslims. we are all human being men and women we both commits sins. your sounds like only muslim man do the stuff like seriously?? 😒😒 there is lot of non Muslim man also do this type of things even with Muslims womens. they give fake promises like I will become Muslim etc etc etc.

[@mujahidhasan118]

Assalamualaikum ❤ Sister ❤️. there is a good woman as well as bad women there is also a good man as well as Badman.

[@Alyasa-eq6rt]

1st

[@mait5806]

The lies 🤣

[@asadiabasi9297]

to much makeup jemila,

[@eriglam]

Wss

[@SamM-us6et]

You seem very spiteful, I told my Mum I’m not religious and she’s cool with me marrying a Non Muslim woman, if Muslim women aren’t ready, I can marry whoever I want, it’s not up to u

[@rockybalboa6068]

She’s just jealous and generalising all Muslims men, it’s not true, if he truly loves you, he wouldn’t do that

[@Jesusistheway5724]

Jesus is the only way to God ✝️✅❣️

[@user-gm3lg8gp3m]

Jesus is a prophet peace be upon him. There is no God but Allah.

[@Jesusistheway5724]

@@user-gm3lg8gp3m Please do some proper research on the origin of Islam and the Quran 🙏🏻🙏🏻 There is only one God, Yahwah. Allah is no god, please come home to Jesus Christ 🙏🏻🙏🏻 Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved then Jesus Christ. (Acts 4; 12)

[@thinkbeforeyoutype7106]

Jesus in the Bible was a Muslim because he preached and worshiped only ONE God exactly the same way Muslims preach and worship ONE God (pure monotheism). Here's proof from both the Holy Quran and the Bible…. 1) Holy Quran 5:72 72 "They have certainly disbelieved who say, " Allah is the Messiah, the son of Mary" while the Messiah has said, "O Children of Israel, worship Allah, my Lord and your Lord." Indeed, he who associates others with Allah - Allah has forbidden him Paradise, and his refuge is the Fire. And there are not for the wrongdoers any helpers." Holy Quran 19:36 36 [Jesus said], "And indeed, Allah is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him. That is a straight path." Now let’s take a look what Jesus has said in the Bible and commanded his followers to do so... Mark 12:29 29 “The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord OUR God, the Lord is ONE." John 17:3 3 "Now this is eternal life: that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have SENT." Luke 18:19 19 “Why do you call me good?” Jesus answered. “No one is good-except God alone.” John 14:24 24 “Anyone who does not love me will not obey my teaching. These words you hear are not my own; they belong to the Father who SENT me.” John 5:30 30 “By myself I can do nothing; I judge only as I hear, and my judgment is just, for I seek not to please myself but him who SENT me.” Matthew 15:24 24 He answered, “I was SENT only to the lost sheep of Israel.” Matthew 26:39 39 "Going a little farther, he fell with his FACE to the GROUND and prayed." Noticed how Jesus (peace be upon him) always gives credit to God Almighty and he worships his Creator just like Muslims do by placing his head on the ground. 2) Jesus also called his lord as Allah just like Muslims do today. Here's the Aramaic proof... Jesus spoke Aramaic NOT Hebrew which most people think. The word for God in Aramaic is Alah or Allah which is a slight accent/dialect within the Semitic language. Even the Christian scholars who were behind the film Passion of Christ do acknowledge and confirm that Jesus has always called his Lord as Allah... kzbin.info/www/bejne/nYPVZWuKftWtqNE 3) Jesus also greeted people exactly like the Muslims do by, saying Assalaamu Alaykum in Aramaic. Here's the Biblical proof... John 20:21 21 "Again Jesus said, “Peace be with you!” Luke 24:36 36 "While they were still talking about this, Jesus himself stood among them and said to them, "Peace be with you." 4) And finally, Jesus himself and those who met and knew him had called him, a Great Prophet exactly the way Muslims refer to him. Here's more Biblical proof... Matthew 21:10-11 10 "When Jesus entered Jerusalem, the whole city was stirred and asked, “Who is this?' 11 "The crowds answered, “This is Jesus, the PROPHET from Nazareth in Galilee.” (Jesus) Luke 13:33 33 "Nevertheless I must walk today, and tomorrow, and the day following: for it cannot be that a PROPHET perish out of Jerusalem.” Luke 24:19 19 “What things?” he asked. “About Jesus of Nazareth,” they replied. “He was a PROPHET, powerful in word and deed before God and all the people. Matthew 13:57 57 “And they were deeply offended and refused to believe in him. Then Jesus told them, “A PROPHET is honored everywhere except in his own hometown and among his own family.” Matthew 5:17 17 “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the PROPHETS; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them.” Acts 2:22 22 “Fellow Israelites, listen to this: Jesus of Nazareth was a MAN accredited by God to you by miracles, wonders and signs, which God did among you through him, as you yourselves know.” Even those who witness his miracles at first hand called him a Great Prophet! Luke 7:15-16 15 "The dead man sat up and began to talk, and Jesus gave him back to his mother." 16 "They were all filled with awe and praised God. “A great PROPHET has appeared among us,” they said.” John 9:17 17 “Then they turned again to the blind man, “What have you to say about him? It was your eyes he opened.” The man replied, “He is a PROPHET.” John 4:19 19 “Sir,” the woman said, “I can see that you are a PROPHET.“ So who should we believe? Those who knew, met, and witness his miracles or those who NEVER met him nor ate/drank with him telling us he’s “god” or “son of god”? Seriously, those people need to study the Bible carefully and thoroughly about what Jesus himself said because their eternal salvation depends on it. Jesus prayed to and worshiped Allah only yet they refused and want to pray and worship Allah’s creation (Jesus) instead of the Creator who is Allah. If they continue to reject the true teachings of Prophet Jesus, then Jesus himself has already warned them on whathe will do/say to those who claimed to worship him on the Day of Judgment when he and everyone else are in front of Allah Almighty. Matthew 7:22-23 22 “Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name and in your name drive out demons and in your name perform many miracles?’ 23 Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!” Subhan’Allah! Sometimes the truth is stranger than fiction. Even the word Hallelujah is the same as Alhamdullilah since both words are praising Allah in his actual name yet they don’t even realize it. May Allah guide them and continue to guide us. Jazakallah Khair and Assalaamu Alaykum (Peace Be With You).

[@thinkbeforeyoutype7106]

Islam is the TRUTH because the message of it has always existed since the creation of the universe. Islam is the ONLY faith which is NOT named after a Person, a Place, or People. It’s a VERB, a way of life. All the previous Prophets in the Torah and Bible were Muslims… - The word for God in Hebrew is Eloah. This was the language of Prophet Musa (Moses) - The word for God in Aramaic is Alah. This is the language of Prophet Isa (Jesus) - The word for God in Arabic is Allah. This was the language of Prophet Muhammad. Peace and Blessings be Upon Them All. They all worshipped and prayed to the same Creator in the same way also… Moses and Aaron Numbers 20:6 6 "...they fell upon their faces: and the glory of the Lord appeared unto them." Jesus Matthews 26:39 39 "Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed" Muhammad Holy Quran 31:22 22 “And whoever submits his face to Allah while he is a doer of good - then he has grasped the most trustworthy handhold. And to Allah will be the outcome of [all] matters.” Holy Quran 22:77 77 “O you who have believed, bow and prostrate and worship your Lord and do good - that you may succeed.” Holy Quran 2:43 43 “And establish prayer and give zakah and bow with those who bow [in worship and obedience].” I will greet you the same way as Moses and Jesus in the Bible greeted people by saying Assalaamu Alaykum (Peace Be With You) in Islam… Moses in Hebrew - Sholem Aleichem (Peace Be With You). Jesus In Aramaic… John 20:21 21 "Again Jesus said, “Peace be with you!” Luke 24:36 36 "While they were still talking about this, Jesus himself stood among them and said to them, "Peace be with you." Muhammad in Arabic - Assalaamu Alaykum (Peace Be With You). It has always been One God, One Message, and One Humanity. May Allah GUIDE those who are sincere and honest before it’s too late for them.

[@Killshot15]

Bro really came here clicked on this videos and commented this 😭 btw Muslims believe in Jesus as a prophet not as a god simple as that

[@MrOsmanu]

May Allah give you a mind.

[@ashfoyowa6689]

Do you think its wise to be telling non muslim things like this and exposing your community? Remember this can lead to islamaphobia and its sisters like yourself that tend to get attacked

[@Hessa6thKhaled]

Exposing? Islam is not about hiding things it is straight and clear and if a muslim is doing wrong to a non muslim we should warn her/ him , those type of men are doing more harm and damage to the muslim community not her who’s actually warning about them , plus she noted more than one time that not all muslim men are like this.

[@s.c.7381]

Those nonmuslim women who got let down by those non practising muslim guys will have more damage to the reputation to the community than if you warn them beforehead. Better they will be warned from us muslims from the bad apples than hating islam afterwards. We care also for nonmuslims.

[@SamM-us6et]

I know many Muslim men happily married to Non Muslim women, u seem bitter and jealous

[@ohmayoo0]

She’s literally educating us on the bad apples.SHE NEVER SAID ALL MUSLIM MEN.

[@SamM-us6et]

@@ohmayoo0 yeah well I'm entitled to my opinion, don't get educated at my expense

[@diamondkev1]

Asalaam Alaikum, You are mistaken when you say that a Muslim man can marry a Christian women or a non believer. Allah is clear, "Do not marrying them until they believe, although they allure you. A believing slave is better for you then a non believer." I can't tell you exactly what Sura or Ayat, but that is the truth. Asalaam Alaikum

[@RumyTheone]

It is o.k. to marry from Christian or Jew. They do not have to become Muslim. However it is not o.k. to marry from non-people of the book religions such as Hindu etc. You are misinterpreting the ayat. Obviously you can marry anyone from any religion if they become Muslim so there is a reason why people of the book are specified in this case.

[@diamondkev1]

@@RumyTheone Asalaam Alaikum, You are sadly mistaken my sister. You need to read your Holy Quran a lot better. Allah is very clear in the Holy Quran. What is a non-people of the book? Never heard of that. It is not in the Quran. Maybe it is a language issue. Asalaam Alaikum

[@RumyTheone]

@@diamondkev1 I encourage you to research this matter further before embarrassing yourself. See what scholars (any scholar) has to say about it. Then return here and apologize to the sister for your ignorance. the Surah you are looking for is Surah Al-Ma'idah (The Table), Verse 5 -search KZbin for (Can a Muslim Man marry a Christian or a Jewish Woman? - Assim al hakeem) If you don't agree with the Sheik feel free to message him lol But make sure you come back and apologize to the sister!! it is not acceptable to make false statements because of your own ignorance. May Allah guide you! Hopefully at least some other brothers and sisters can learn from your ignorance insha Allah (SWT)

[@RumyTheone]

@@diamondkev1 I encourage you to research this matter further before embarrassing yourself. See what scholars (any scholar) has to say about it. Then return here and apologize to the sister for your ignorance. the Surah you are looking for is Surah Al-Ma'idah (The Table), Verse 5 -search KZbin for (Can a Muslim Man marry a Christian or a Jewish Woman? - Assim al hakeem) If you don't agree with the Sheik feel free to message him lol But make sure you come back and apologize to the sister!! it is not acceptable to make false statements because of your own ignorance. May Allah guide you! Hopefully at least some other brothers and sisters can learn from your ignorance insha Allah (SWT)

[@RumyTheone]

@@diamondkev1 In case you are still thirsty for knowledge search KZbin also for (Is it Permissible for a Muslim Man to Marry a Christian Women even if she Believes Jesus (p) is God? -Dr. Zakir Naik) I'm sure you recognize him. Should he read his Quran allot better too? Don't forget to come back and apologize to the sister for your statement!

[@Kennedy-h9i]

I have been approached but Muslim men and all claim that they are okay with me being a single mother. My biggest fear is my kids and I not being accepted by their family. Would a Muslim man take a single mom seriously? And would their family be accepting.