If You Do Something Wrong To Someone

[@mikenice7588]

Some people can't bring themselves to be accountable for their actions and will blame the person they offend ❕

[@GetHers979]

Sounds like my relatives that's why I no longer deal with them.

[@richk320]

Narcissists.

[@eljei2691]

No, they gadlight you and somehow their actions become your fault.

[@Sakazhua]

Gaslighters

[@juicejuice11550]

@Mike Nice That's my mother and it's sad because I want a relationship with her but she just keeps pushing me away.

[@jacquelineloverson6392]

I understand people can’t see the wrong they do but they see the wrong everyone else do

[@TBizzle79]

I'm the same way Rickey! If the energy is off, I'm out. You only have one time to make me feel some type of way. Thank God for discernment! Stay safe.

[@carolanndavis4122]

Ricky I'm glad you apologize to that girl because when I was in high school I had a handicap and had to wear braces on my legs I was tease bully and wanted to stop going to high school back in the early'70s girls could not wear pants to high school it was either a dress or skirt and of course I had braces on both legs but I have family members and a few friends that supported me reminded me you have to wear these braces in order for you to be able to walk someday you will not need them but right now you have to wear them don't worry about these idiots but Ricky it's still bothering me today because none of those young men and ladies never apologize to me and I have seen a few of them in class reunion of course I'm married had children and move on but still those memories hurt

[@jenniferwhittington5817]

AMEN MIRACLES PEACE FAITH AND BLESSINGS 🙏🏾✝️🙏🏾

[@chenesehenderson5194]

I so agree

[@michellegaut1459]

Amen and amen same here everyday 🙏 🙌 ❤️ ♥️ Mr. Rickey Smiley ☺️ 😀 😊 blessings to you and your family 👪 ❤️ 🙏 💛 😊 💖 I love you so much ☺️ be blessed and nothing less and be blessed and safe 🙏 ❤️ 😊 💖

[@michellegaut1459]

Amen and amen same here 🙏 🙌 ❤️ 👏

[@gloriagibson2595]

Always listen to your intuition. When you even walk in a room. If you feel that negative energy, get the hell out. GOD definitely gives us that discerning spirit 🙏

[@moonsyoungestsun6550]

I did a revamping of my life and cut off all of my "friends" cold turkey, without any explanations. They have done andxsaid some insensitive and condescending things over the years that I should have checked them for a while back. But I didn't do that because I didn't want them to think that they hit a nerve with me, just in case that was there intent. But I realized that whether or not they intended to hurt me was not acceptable and I was exhausted from being in their company. Plus, I used to get a strong feeling that they would talk about me to their other friends. So I just went off the grid one day and haven't looked back. My niece is the only person I call a real friend now and I'm content with that. I feel like God was pushing me to go this route, so I listened.

[@ceceprincess4758]

Yes some ppl

[@thekeshkesh]

This is why I stay in the house and keep to myself. I have been over the nasty-nice fakeness, the passive aggressiveness, and the tougher than tough street personas for years now. 😔

[@Lolalee87]

Me too, im good for staying in the house & keeping to myself... people always wondering why I dont want to go anywhere. Just dont be wanting to deal with people & their shit. I love being at home to myself. It makes me happy.

[@ronybabygirl8162]

Same here.

[@TheJourneyofGeminiandNoble]

@@Lolalee87 Me too! I think I am going to document my peace with being a homebody.

[@cathyworth4409]

ME TOO! I haven’t had this much PEACE in my WHOLE LIFE! I spend most of my time in my house or my yard AWAY FROM ALL THE BS AND PHONINESS and I’M GOOD! Just like that church song “PEACE BE STILL.” Enjoy your summer and stay safe everyone.💕

[@Lolalee87]

@@TheJourneyofGeminiandNoble me and you both! I love it!

[@sharonking4336]

With age comes "WISDOM" for some of us. Leave the negative people and energy behind in your life "TODAY"

[@asiaparks7158]

Amen God Bless u

[@dorothybradford1815]

Mrs. King you are so right. We need Prayer each & everyday of our lives. I recognize energy, if it's bad I stay away & remain away.

[@sandradavis6112]

This touched my heart.I am 64 years old and was bullied and picked on when I was in high school . I did not have clothes like others or hair like the other girls . I forgive the the girls that picked on me and bullied me but you best believe I have not forgotten how I was treated . Good video !

[@sherrywarren616]

I can relate to your story for sure.. I was bullied in Elementary School..I hated to go. 😥

[@LRamey]

Amen💜🙏🏾

[@myckalaross8973]

Me too and I’m 31 years old and I still remember

[@berlindarogers1033]

I was picked on to, but I told my kids never ever be a bully. I thank God that my kids despise bullies.

[@annettewilliams1986]

Yes...it could be years down the line ... You're human and you don't forget how they made you feel.There was a movie like that.. called him Gordo the Weirdo..he made that guy and his family pay for how he was treated in school..

[@r.b.2645]

Lord have mercy Rickey I can relate. You soo right, people train others not to like you.

[@nancybreaux9684]

That true too that happened to me.

[@geniewalker9660]

@@nancybreaux9684 this happened to me by a family.

[@derrickstancil6821]

I always say if people start acting funny towards you with out cause you have been the topic of discussion!

[@Naymichelle76]

@@derrickstancil6821 Yep…and like Ricky said, I’m gettin the hell outta there. I’m not giving anybody an a opportunity to take their ish out on me. 🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️💨

[@Naymichelle76]

@Robyn…Yep weak, spineless, mindless cowards. They all stick together because they’re nothing by themselves.

[@jhall833]

What you are saying is so true. Unfortunately, not everyone has the same level of awareness.

[@mskitty33311]

I agree with you. You never know what's in a person's mind. Its important to learn how to read a room.

[@sexyscorpio8087]

LESSON LEARNED 💖

[@Realness4sho]

There’s a bunch of Overgrown immature Men & Woman. 💯 You kept it Real and tried to Comfort your colleague. 🥰 Amen

[@cinderella23queen37]

Rickey when a person or person's doesn't like you they don't like themselves

[@c.l.9344]

This is where the spirit of discernment, comes into play. Test every spirit! And stay prayed up.

[@teeteeRN]

Thanks so much for this post Rickey. I've been saying this to be for years. As an adult take accountability for the things that you do. Own your sh@$, don't think you can do somebody wrong, see them 10 yrs later and everything is gravy, "No Sis, no Bruh" make it right.

[@Naymichelle76]

Thank you!!! I forgive, but stay outta my face! I’ve apologized when I was wrong, but it was never reciprocated. People forget that they hurt you, but expect you to crawl up on a cross and crucify yourself if you hurt them…and some of them deserved it. I guess I made the mistake of ghosting them when I saw who they really were instead of calling them out, but now realize that was wisdom, cause like Ricky said, you never know what’s going through someone’s mind.

[@tlashai]

@@Naymichelle76 agreed people just think that if your the one that’s apologizing then they shouldn’t have to reciprocate it. When that’s a lie, because there’s been situations where I’ve apologized and received nothing back.

[@valeriebillings7248]

And if they refuse to make it right when you offer it let it go. You’ve done your part by trying to make it right

[@e.t.5777]

EVERYTHING you said spoke to me. The way extreme anxiety chooses to manifest itself; the lack of accountability people have for damage THEY cause and their audacity to play the victim. Thank you so much for this message.

[@moonsyoungestsun6550]

Your comment is so true!!! It's too long for me to type everything regarding this matter, but my mom is the ultimate victim. If I bring up something that she did to really hurt me, she gets mad at me for bringing it up and says with an angry, disgusted sounding voice "You are just holding on to stuff from years ago. You need to let it go. I didn't do you anything. Get out of my face." Yet, she still whines about what my father, her former co-workers, siblings or neighbors did to hurt her from over 50 years ago when she talks to her friends. So it's like the pain others caused her matters and the pain she's caused me doesn't. I gave up trying to resolve these matters face to face with her and started writing a letter that includes everything that has not been resolved. I started it a few months ago and take time to sit with each thought I write, in order to edit it as needed. Also, this way, when I decide to give it to her, I won't go through the "I should've said this or that.", like what happens in the heat of the moment of most arguments we have. She can read it and I don't care what she thinks. It's about her seeing my pain written out and getting it off of my chest.

[@donnalittle7134]

Toxic Narcissistic gaslighters. Way too many posing as Normal people. They ain't normal! They are incapable of accountability because they lack feelings and are sociopaths who only care for themselves and can't love they obsess.

[@elove2.038]

@@moonsyoungestsun6550 Your not alone. My mom is the same way.

[@Ladykaykay]

Rickey this is the truth!! I've been in this mess (my husband's family) for year's and some that have never gotten to know me or given me a chance dislike me. Because of what others have said to them behind my back. All of the disrespectful things they've done towards me!

[@lydia160]

I just quit a job because I was being so disrespected by some of my co-workers and at first I really didn't know what to do but I got a message. That happened to be on TikTok! This brother came on and said, "The only way, some people will learn to appreciate you, is by losing you"! So, no apology needed, I was just done but it still does hurt when folks disrespect you but sometimes you just need to get out of folks way!😏

[@moonsyoungestsun6550]

I know the feeling. I went through hell at a job I had years ago. I wanted to quit many times because the mess just continued year after year. But my mom would tell me that I'm going to give them the satisfaction that they want if I quit. So I stayed, thinking that my presence there was pissing them off because they wanted me to quit. Eventually, things came to a halt and I was fired for standing up for myself. The job was in Washington state and I hated the town anyway, so I had a good reason to move, which I did. However, I wish that I did quit and not stay as long as I did for my own mental sanity. But as karma would have it, those that made my job hell ended up getting fired and going through much worse than I did. So because of that experience and so many others similar to it that I've experienced, I learned that there was no need for revenge. Somehow God, the universe or whatever you name it, sends the same negative energy back to those that sent it to you.

[@ceceprincess4758]

Yeah but u cant quit every job

[@lydia160]

@@ceceprincess4758 Yeah, your right but people need to do what's best for them and not anyone else! I did what was best for me and my health, so you can say whatever you want!

[@kerrybrown7780]

Bless you for being strong enough to apologize. People don't realize, It takes nothing from you to take responsibility for your actions. It actually makes you a better person.

[@Moneymojo6272]

He doesn’t want to take accountability so he tried to project his guilt and wrongdoing onto to. This type of behaviour is very prevalent theses days, the perpetrators always make the victims think they should apologize because they feel entitled to treat you any type of way and you need to just accept it with no pushback.

[@PeaceBeStill-]

Bingo! 🎯

[@karmacaramel]

Exactly how my uncle wife uppity attitude and always quoting the Bible ass self thinking she could say whatever she wanted to me when I finally stood up for myself and told her how I felt I stopped talking to her blocked her and everything don’t nobody got no damn time for that mess want to push out your crap onto people but don’t take your own advice my peace of mind is everything to me if I got to cut blood relatives off to maintain that I will

[@googleuser4428]

NAIL ON THE HEAD!

[@connieefurulee]

You said the truth

[@peachezplaitzlyfetingz]

Exactly when you publicly "f" over someone be grown enough to PUBLICLY APOLOGIZE!!! PERIODT

[@justbu3797]

That's RIGHT ✅

[@justjessica1661]

Truth.

[@simplysaying5478]

Real talk Ricky. I'm in my 50s and I'm looking for a new family and friends due to being bullied and mistreated. It's not easy to find genuine people to bond with. Most people now don't want new people in their circle. So I'm still looking!!!

[@Thurgood502]

Thank you speaking on bullying and being bullied

[@oteriadixon9945]

Im being bullied on the job and off the job called gang stalking

[@iamnicoletaylor]

You did right by leaving because he sounds like a man jealous of your success. A jealous person can be dangerous for no reason. Peace be still. ✌🏽

[@shinecam1]

That is ADULTING! I wish bullies would get water boarded with their own behavior because they're mean and missing good parenting. They make victims feel weak and when people start to stand up against them, it's overreacting. I appreciate your story and truth.

[@lindajoyce6390]

Well said Mr.Rickey. Hate can't drive out hate. Only LOVE can do that.

[@michellegaut1459]

Same here 🙏 🙌 👏 ❤️

[@michellegaut1459]

Amen and amen same here 🙏 🙌 ❤️ 👏 ♥️ ☺️ 🙏

[@ceceprincess4758]

Ok pastor lol

[@jackieballard8047]

I believe in accountability and trusting your instincts.

[@Ambersmithe]

I think you are a beautiful person. You keep things real. That’s a genuine person. No worries, you’re doing a great thing. Bless you, Mr. Smiley

[@Tayjahbaby8371]

I don't blame you Rickey, people crazy as hell and you never know what on their minds. As far as being bullied as a kid, yes it stays with you, as soon as you see that person that's the 1st thing come to your mind. Glad you apologized to her bc I know she let it go mentally after that.

[@brendaturner5015]

When people say they don't like you, I think there jealous, it's sad, but you cool to me, I love what you do , God bless you

[@Passion-X]

Exactly, people mistreat you and they think because time has passed that the slate is clean!!! Ricky , I am an energy person too, and I will move on … trust.

[@chrisgamble771]

Thank You for telling the whole truth. Love u

[@yokimawhittaker5193]

A person with a conscience and sincere heart would apologize. Not everyone has a conscience to know he/she fucked up!!!

[@lormac5452]

Scripture tells us for man is w/o excuse, for GOD has given all a conscious. Food for thought.

[@JYH70]

Only if everyone would have the SAME HEART to own up and apologize.

[@normasapp1815]

I can relate. I don't need those people in my life. I am doing fine without them.

[@yvinnewarren8731]

Some people that don't like you try to get others to turn against you for no reason but jealous of you because you made something of your life and for people like that the h... with them. You got it going on rickey keep it moving, and I love you and your ways. They don't like you and they don't even know why.

[@ceceprincess4758]

Hell u can be pretty or just dress good or skinny and ppl can be jealous

[@oteriadixon9945]

You are so right

[@brendarobinson76]

That was so nice that you did that Rickey you apologized to her .It's so many people that need to learn how to do that instead of acting like they didn't do anything . And that's why i don't like to be around a lot of people at all .

[@markmovieplaylistgray9140]

That was the most realist shit I ever heard in my life and your right if you do something wrong you should be man enough to apologize and look them in their eyes to let them know this is real from the heart

[@kevincarlo4407]

the world would be a better place if there were more people that are capable of taking responibility for their actions. so many are just like you said Rickey "oh, you still tripping on that?" like they are not the problem for not making things right. thank you for what you do sir.

[@larhondah.2793]

So many marriages would last longer too ❤️

[@berlindarogers1033]

I totally agree with you, make it right.

[@moonsyoungestsun6550]

I agree. My mom is this type of person. She gets defensive, angry and starts telling me ""You're just an instigator. You always have to bring up old stuff. Let it go. You're ruining my day." Or she'll yell at me to get out of her face and then ignore me if I continue to try to resolve issues. Basically, she gets mad at me for trying to resolve things she's said or done to hurt me over the years. So she caused my pain but I'm supposed to just overlook everything and forget that it happened. Meanwhile, every chance she gets when talkingto her friends, she brings up all of the times that people have hurt her, including stuff my father did going back 50 + years ago, her former co-workers, siblings and neighbors. Now I'm in the process of writing her a long.........very long.........letter that addresses everything that she cuts me off mid sentence with, when I try to bring them up. I don't care if she gets angry when reading it (because she definitely will), as long as she can see, in detail, all that I've tried to get off of my chest with her.

[@tracienotstacie7577]

Yes Rickey! I'm had alot betrayals happen and all crazy rumors started flying about me because I refused to conform to people thoughts and opinions. Folks will say "Well ain't nobody will tell the same lie twwice" That's total B.S. there are Doers of iniquity that will train ppl not to like you and you haven't done anything to them.

[@TheGrandma50]

I gave up a long time ago trying to please others and my anxiety needs to stay in control at all times my life has changed for the best it may get lonely sometimes for me but I try to keep myself occupied I will never put myself or my feelings around anyone else's negative energy because that negative energy people put out there will leave you in a dark place I have learned to feel it sense it because whenever it's near me I've prayed for so long that God protects me and show me because I used to be dying inside from those who just didn't like me no matter how nice I would be to them

[@stephaniecannon410]

Ricky Smiley, "you just helped me with something," that I didn't realize before now. People who hate me can't tell me why that they hate. So true!

[@frederickholmes6189]

You are so Right someone MAD 😠 AT YOU ABOUT SOMETHING BETWEEN YOU AN SOMEONE ELSE ABOUT WHAT THEY HEARD..

[@eirahoj]

Am I the only person that when Rickey Smiley is talking I am so entuned that I shake my head as if he is only speaking to me lol

[@sheliajavery1783]

Energy is everything!! Good for You. I grew up in a small town and at school was made fun of and bullied on a daily. I actually have a cousin who was one of the worst and to this day, she says she never did anything! You have to forgive people for yourself!

[@talishagayle6526]

God bless you Ricky stay safe...I have a sister right now who is training people to hate me just because I won't put up with bad behavior towards me anymore

[@jenniferwhittington5817]

Rick, I don't argue, be disrespectful to folk. I'm 60 yrs and fabulous 😀. I don't do drama either, allergic to it, MIRACLES PEACE FAITH AND BLESSINGS 🙏🏾✝️🙏🏾

[@delitaanderson1526]

I totally agree with you Rickey. We do know where we been and NO we don't know where we going, but one thing that's for sure is You Reap What You Sow, so dude who shook his head in time reaping shall come, that's for sure.

[@rhondabarksdale2762]

I am the same way! If the energy is off, I'm out of there! With the quickness! I thank God, so thankful 🙏

[@tonyaturner8555]

I feel this live to my core! My anxiety is through the roof in certain places, situations and around certain people. I even tell my children "If you are somewhere and something don't feel.... Move around"! I appreciate this video Rickey.

[@monitacheirs7518]

Some people just grow old and never grow up, a lot of people are emotionally immature and you just have to leave them where they are. I decided long ago not to make everyone else's problem mine. I say a prayer for their healing and move on. GOD bless.

[@donnahinds3581]

I have come to a place in my life where I let it go. I feel sorry for people who can't because it's debilitating. Wish you all well. Life is too short.

[@Walter-l6u]

That is so true. There is a woman in my family that does not like me and has trained her family not to like me or her children not to associate with my children . This person is over 50. Children are grown . Shame . Another cousin pointed out the dysfunction and said he and his sons will not be a part of this . Want to keep generational division going.

[@monicanixon5140]

Rickey, I know I'm not familiar to you, but I'll tell you first hand a heart clenched in unforgiveness holds your internal peace & joy captive. May all of us "mere" humans rise beyond/ above offense, that dimension of health will free you. Your happiness is not up for compromise. Give them to God and truly watch how he deals with it, Bro. But I will say some things need to BE confronted-DIRECTLY‼️ Your humor blesses me SO MUCH.

[@randicarwell6230]

Rickey you are soooo right! You can't move on from a problem with someone if the problem isn't resolved.... and when your instincts tell you something you'd better listen; As the old folks use to say "follow your first mind" .

[@lindasohl4404]

Just apologize and keep it moving

[@shafonda7418]

I have been wronged by many people, however I pray for them because I don't know what sort of issues they're dealing with. God bless my enemies as well.

[@patriciathompson2175]

You have to apologize, you don’t forget but, you never know what affects someone. It can damage them for life. I’m very proud of you Ricky, no matter how long it is, show accountability!!

[@gloryglory7810]

Perfect conversation. Family members and friends have hurt me deliberately. Look me in my face. At like I wrong them. When the enemy beat you getting made . That's their guilt. When they see you. They see Karma. Anytime something is deliberately and intentionally done wrong to you. Your enemies will never apologize for it. The unit on their face. Is letting you know. I did it on purpose. Hell No I will not apologize. Because I just simply don't like your ASS. They put on their mad face. To let you know. Don't come up to me.

[@deniesewynne4313]

Rickey, Whenever someone said they didn’t like me and I knew they didn’t know me… As soon as they said,I don’t like you.. My reply was GUUUUUUDD!!😂🤣😃😂🤣

[@carolynswan1171]

😂😂😂 I know that's right

[@user-sr8ur9it4y]

I'm glad you mentioned that I been through some bad situations in life ,I come to understand that everybody won't like you just because of the person God has called you to become,I agree we should always go back and fix our wrongs .it really is about accountability sending positive energy 👑

[@modestinemungo4661]

Right! They never Apologized, they never made it right like you said. 🙏

[@sophisticatedmm3632]

Yeah I've had people who never apologized to me but want to strike up a conversation with me.

[@darlenemason563]

Wow, THAT'S RIGHT RICKEY, if it haven't been corrected, accountability!!

[@joansmall9019]

We say and do things that hurt others and don't understand how we affect others. The only right thing to do is own it and ask forgiveness. We have to be more aware of what we say and do. As we grow we're suppose to do better when we know better. Rickey you always give great advice and be an example to others.

[@theresabarnes4940]

Yes we have to become what we want and beware of our own behavior a mild answer turns away wrath

[@cf5802]

Ur Real Rickey..an fakehood can stand the sight of..realness.

[@jaayeee24]

Great message. Makes me think of if I may have offended anyone during high school in this way.

[@mzchocolatedoll]

I share the same anxiety. Thank you so much for your vulnerability. ❤️

[@sexyscorpio8087]

Always Follow Your First Mind. Wish I Would Have.

[@Naymichelle76]

@@sexyscorpio8087 Me too! Especially dealing with church folk. I forgive, but it’s hard to forget. Church hurt is very insidious because they are liars and so sneaky. They do things in a way that makes you question your sanity, but you know you’re right. I wish to God I followed my first mind and trusted myself.

[@cassondrad2280]

Alright now. Be intentional on doing the right thing. Be kind to one another. Thank you Rickey for sharing...

[@delana2842]

This was a great message, Ricky. Thank God for maturity and discernment. You are absolutely correct how others teach others not to like you. This is happening in my family right now (and actually has been a thing for years) and if you ask these certain family members what did you do to them, they could not tell you. I do not put up with anything from anyone including family and because I do not, I am on their outs list, and I do not care.. If you come with drama or I sense you are about it, I stay clear of you. Period!

[@lisabyrd2708]

I am the same way Ricky I give you the up most respect for asking for her forgiveness.it takes a real person to apologize to anyone and God has forgiven you for a mistake you made a long time ago.i agree with you 💯 percent always.

[@Rom8twenty8]

I never comment on here but I just wanted to share something someone shared with me a while back-Just because you’re ready for an apology doesn’t mean the other person is ready to apologize. A lot of times when we do the work to become healthy and whole we can forget how we were before we were healed, meaning did we apologize to others and own our bad behavior before we were “healthy” or in a good place? When you are unhappy with your life or you’re just trying to make it in this world and you feel like you don’t have the time, money or most importantly, the stomach for self reflection and therapy your reflex is to protect yourself instead of being vulnerable. Think about it this way, you’re expecting an apology from someone who probably wants what you already have and in some ways may feel like you owe them something for having “made it” in the world. Another point of view may be that you did something to him that you don’t remember that he feels wronged by. But who knows? Either way, I hope that you both find peace about it 🙂

[@keciabrown8321]

At least you felt bad about it. A lot of people enjoy being cruel to others and cool with what they have done too others. Sleep well on it!

[@mrsmarylucas9389]

Yes say it, I go through this also at work and don't know why still. Real talk. Smh. Even growing up in school, that's why I stayed to my self. Sad 😔

[@micheleforte9012]

This is so insightful. You have matured and grown as a person. It is so true about other peoples behavior. Forgive, pursue peace and move forward. I have always liked your attitude, talent and personality. Stay authentic and humorous Rickey.

[@frangilbert721]

Yes, you did the right thing Rickey because that tongue have power of life and death! You can't take words back. Hold yourself accountable for everything you do to someone, your actions.

[@shaunahill1402]

I wish you would do more videos like this. Your comedy is amazing but your knowledge of life in general is even better.

[@barbra8452]

Hello 👋🏿 Rickety I was Bullied every since I was 5 years old and I’m now 61 years old and it never goes away. Because I can only remember the bad things til this day and I really want to have good memories but I don’t have any.yes having my kids are such a wonderful blessing But my mind go back to years of being not loved and yes I get help almost 30 years but every time I go it’s like pouring salt on an open wound and I just want to know how long to take to heal ? I have already forgave those that hurted me and I do feel good about that but not one person have ever asked me for forgiveness because I live this every day.so please don’t treat anyone bad because nobody knows what that person is going through. Thanks 🙏🏿 for reading this message I always have love 💕 in my heart ♥️ for everyone.have a wonderful blessed day and please be Kind to Eachother 🙏🏿💙🙏🏿❤️🙏🏿💙🙏🏿❤️💕💙

[@valeriebillings7248]

I’ve experienced ppl not liking me bc of what someone said and it was not true. You don’t know the full story and even if you do, what did that person do to you. 9 X out of 10 you did nothing to them or the person spreading lies or manipulating others to go against you. I always say get to know ppl for yourself bc you never know that person could end up being one of your best friends. There are a lot of good ppl in this world but there are those that make it their mission to destroy you over some foolishness. As Ricky said be accountable and apologize if you’ve done wrong. Nothing wrong for apologizing or making it right between you and that individual. And if that individual refuse the apology or the conversation to clear up the confusion, let it go bc you’ve done your part by trying to make it right 👍🏽

[@terrancemoore375]

Don't know this brother personally. But I have seen him do some beautiful things for people much Respects Ricky.

[@jenniferwhittington5817]

Rickey, you're a good GOD FEARING man. You have a good heart. I love the way you raise your grandson. I have a lot of health issues, lupus, collapsed lung other issues. I always look forward to seeing you, Rock T, Queen Janie, and my boy Chris. Folk are not always going to apologize. You were raised right. Love you bless you MIRACLES PEACE FAITH AND BLESSINGS 🙏🏾✝️🙏🏾

[@Allhis4sho]

I feel the same way about my class because of bullies and most from what I've heard still haven't grown up. Don't like ppl for no logical reason 🙄 I haven't been to not one class reunion. Just because I didn't and don't play into their antics is the very reason why they didn't like me. Raised by wisdom not by foolishness.

[@moonsyoungestsun6550]

I have not attended a class reunion either and don't plan on doing so for the rest of my life. A lot of them were condescending, judgemental and humiliated me just to appear to be superior to others. I don't care how small of an action or comment, I still remember how it made me feel and how they took pleasure from it. Now that time has passed, I guess many of them have forgotten (or pretend to have forgotten) what they did or said back then because they requested my friendship on FB and/or inboxed me nice messages like we are long lost friends. I rejected all of their requests and messages with joy in my heart. They can burn in hell for all I care.

[@lichiacoleman2997]

It takes majority to take accountability. Their are so many people who just won't humble themselves. That was pure jealousy, I heard someone say that other people can see something special in you long before you see it. You have to much to lose messing with people who have nothing to lose.

[@queenshields7658]

So true Ricky! Watch your surroundings and stay prayed up. Love your conversations.

[@pammelaraines4009]

Rickey, you are a class act! Thanks for your honesty and your transparency... Also, I cook er'day...and I wash my hands, meat, countertops, sink, ass...ER'THANG! #ComeGetYouSomeGoodGroceries #LoveUMan

[@evaelizabeth7785]

YES!! YES!! YES!! Rickey!! If you do something on purpose to hurt or anger someone, apologize. If you're man enough to do it, be man enough to own it. I never get mad at someone who hurts or angers me if they don't do it on purpose. I'm not perfect and if it wasn't done on purpose, how can I be angry? Wow!! I wrote this before Rickey mentioned owning it. I live by that rule. You're one of the great ones Rickey!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@vanitymac2908]

Rickey, alot of people do not have a sincere, compassionate fiber in them. I are owed apologies, but the guilty always play innocent.

[@JayMich29]

Awesome message! Good on you for apologizing to your classmate. I have a middle school bully..... 30 plus years ago...I remember his name and all of his ugly words. I`m not sure I would spit on him if he were on fire! He always comes to mind when people talk about bullying. I don't give him much much thought but your story and apology to your classmate some how made me feel a little better. I can't quite put it into words but I was her 30 plus years ago and the fact that you apologized gives me hope that my bully matured and changed for the better.

[@SEA-dx1sv]

Glad the lady have closure.

[@shelleydames4072]

Feeling Uncomfortable? LEAVE!!! That Part 💯

[@geebee1514]

Rickey you can't say. IF I hurt you..No no..no IF...Apologize without saying IF..And that bullying carries into years of low self esteem. Here she is ..an adult..hiding...I wish some folks would come and apologize to me.

[@sherrymshephard-massat5929]

Rickey, I'm SO glad to hear somebody say something about this. I knew a guy that gave his word he would take me to my new job for that first, make or break, week. He didn't show up, I got fired and he stayed angry with ME for calling him just to make sure he hadn't had some sort of serious car accident while on the way. What kind of people can turn stuff around in their minds so far that instead of them seeing a situation for what it was, they only see it for what they've made up in their heads. I forgave this person and still give him a 'good morning' shout-out because I like to start my day off with all the positivity I can put together while dude still doesn't get why I had a real right to be hurt in the first place. The bottom line is that if you want to be angry or feel some kinda way about something, you can make it happen.

[@feliciaadams3134]

Rickey you are So Right!!!!!! I was bullied 😔alot also in school and not only that I had to deal with alot of Narcissism at home so again Thank You for This Video 🙏🏾❤Much Love to You

[@SKIMSPersonalStylist]

I stay to myself. I try to be kind to others, but I don't want to be drawn into nonsense, and negativity. 🌹

[@luethaderpinckney7218]

Thanks for being a man an stand up for ur wrong bullies will affect ppl lives ❤❤❤🌷

[@luethaderpinckney7218]

Beautiful blessing to admit that u was a bullie that young lady now u have daughter an grands of ur own ppl will understand that when it knock on ur door

[@junkscorpion7011]

Thats why I kick it with you the long way Uncle Ricky you be speaking truth and wisdom keep it up sir be blessed.

[@anniegardner5672]

Yes say that ..real talk accountability makes life in it all things better.

[@lyndahairston612]

If someone has wronged you then an apology should be given, some will apologize and there are others who won’t because of pride , so proud they won’t let you get that apology no matter how many years ago they wronged you. Even if someone wronged me I don’t wait for an apology because it’s not likely I’ll get one , but if someone felt I wronged them I’d definitely apologize, I wouldn’t want to keep it on my conscience, nor would I want to feel I violated anyone in any way , I’m looking for all the blessings from God , I wouldn’t let anything block me from it, I always believed that saying “ God don’t like ugly “ meaning personality and character, ugly heart and spirit JS. 😔💯

[@deemaverick987]

No apology. Just stay away from me. If you are doing something me that you feel might be a reason to apologize to me for, dont do it. I dont accept apologies. Fk off!

[@ceceprincess4758]

U right. But u can still apologize to ppl and they still mad

[@lyndahairston612]

@@ceceprincess4758 you’re right about what you’re saying, but if you apologize and they still mad , well then that’s on them, at least you tried and made an effort to make things right JS.

[@misliz1736]

I don’t blame you Rickey keep it moving can’t trust people

[@jjjackson3601]

You pick at that girl, so in whatever form it comes back to you RECOGNIZE it‼️🥲

[@ms.burgess]

If I could love this one million times over, I would. This is an important message and lesson.

[@sophisticatedmm3632]

Absolutely

[@debbiecraig7615]

I understand just what u are talking abt when people don't like u people have so much JEALOUSY in them . Ricky I've gotten to the point I just don't do people PERIOD

[@sharonkeeble2812]

I respect your statement about Accountability!! That’s so humble and loving!!! Have experienced that at my Church ⛪️ home!!! Mymymymy!!! These people don’t apoligize and don’t care 🤷🏽‍♀️ I forgive them !!! Learned a good lesson some people don’t matter whether their in the Church or not!! They are just mean!!! Saying that, you are a decent loving man and I can respect the fact that you apologized to the lady!!!😃 God Bless you Mr.Smiley and your Family!!! 💪🏽🙏🏻❤️😍👑💎🤗🙋🏾‍♀️🌹