Your Circle Is Going To Get Smaller

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Rickey Smiley

Rickey Smiley

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@demetresblakley1352
@demetresblakley1352 2 жыл бұрын
The more your circle decreases, the more your peace increases!
@velociaulmer1952
@velociaulmer1952 2 жыл бұрын
That’s so true.
@Angela-cd9bj
@Angela-cd9bj 2 жыл бұрын
@@velociaulmer1952 True ⭕️
@anjealin259
@anjealin259 2 жыл бұрын
That’s a sermon right there!
@demetresblakley1352
@demetresblakley1352 2 жыл бұрын
@@anjealin259 yes I'm actually a Elder in church thanks for the suggestion!!
@shirleywillis9473
@shirleywillis9473 2 жыл бұрын
🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣
@blaakcoffee
@blaakcoffee 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking on setting boundaries. Life looks different when you Stop overgiving. People start to walk away!
@dawncemberwillis3766
@dawncemberwillis3766 2 жыл бұрын
You're Exactly Right.
@lillianbalkum5975
@lillianbalkum5975 2 жыл бұрын
I agree
@ronbass2272
@ronbass2272 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@mgnwat
@mgnwat 2 жыл бұрын
Mannnn!
@nieshabrooks1038
@nieshabrooks1038 2 жыл бұрын
Yea
@daricellkenney683
@daricellkenney683 2 жыл бұрын
I’m stuck at “if they interrupt you while you set a boundary, there’s no good intention in them for you” that’s a life changer
@silversurfer647
@silversurfer647 2 жыл бұрын
" The more popular you become, the more power you lose". So stay humble, and stay out of the spotlight as much as you can. 👍
@akilla214u2c
@akilla214u2c 2 жыл бұрын
Facts... I'm not a millionaire, but my dollars moved quite a bit since a 20yr old. And nearly all of my youth circle is gone or looks at me like I'm the checkbook for everyone. This speech is so on point.
@compoco9030
@compoco9030 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN, im on the same exact boat, Keep going!!! Keep growing!
@CocoTeeTV
@CocoTeeTV 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad that Rickey records moments like this! The man be dropping nuggets! I can listen to him all day!
@kizzyrock
@kizzyrock 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! He is SO wise! He has those traditional old time views which is rare. He would be amazing at leading a mentoring program
@CocoTeeTV
@CocoTeeTV 2 жыл бұрын
@@kizzyrock yes! They don’t make ‘‘em like this anymore.
@shawnturner1645
@shawnturner1645 2 жыл бұрын
Shit, me too👍
@daricellkenney683
@daricellkenney683 2 жыл бұрын
Facts! I’m gonna print this photo & transcribe the message & post it where I allow myself to read inserts from this message daily.
@tonilott8862
@tonilott8862 2 жыл бұрын
I spent a large majority of my life trying to please everyone and wanted everyone to like me. It was very draining and frustrating and stressful. It took me the last 5yrs to realize these very words you are speaking. Even though my parents and grandparents told me everyone won’t like me growing up, I had to learn the hard hurtful painful way. I’m still growing but now I am ok being ME! I love me and i wasn’t meant to be like anyone else. I only have to please God and myself.
@maryluvsmusic9298
@maryluvsmusic9298 2 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾!
@phyllism7864
@phyllism7864 2 жыл бұрын
That's It That Is Enough Sis 🙏🏽🥰
@j-rob3363
@j-rob3363 2 жыл бұрын
Man this sounds like me..
@ladytosha15
@ladytosha15 2 жыл бұрын
@@sincherryosain9481 ❤❤❤
@ladytosha15
@ladytosha15 2 жыл бұрын
@@sincherryosain9481 an that’s deep never thought of it that way
@tara4563
@tara4563 2 жыл бұрын
Look at Rickey droppin jewels early in the AM
@retanyawilliams3693
@retanyawilliams3693 2 жыл бұрын
You are so right Mr. Smiley. I was raised by my paternal grandparents. I relate 💯% to what you said. Have a wonderfully blessed weekend. God bless you, sir. 🙏 😇
@SimplyAdiva
@SimplyAdiva 2 жыл бұрын
I went into business and my family laughed and friends took jabs at me. When I landed my first celebrity client and made my first large commission everyone had their hand out. My husband and I have been grinding for the last few years and when times was hard...no one offered help. Now our circle is very small. It used to hurt but now it's a blessing.
@colemancummings6692
@colemancummings6692 2 жыл бұрын
He's real talking!!! Close the circle!!! don't look back!!! Keep it moving
@jnellp9362
@jnellp9362 2 жыл бұрын
I loved this! You don't need to seek validation from others because God has already validated you...❤️❤️❤️
@MrJesus-iw5bi
@MrJesus-iw5bi 2 жыл бұрын
If you don’t seek validation form others then. Why human beings want to be remembered by others ?
@jnellp9362
@jnellp9362 2 жыл бұрын
@@MrJesus-iw5bi Look within, and ask yourself that question...
@nickdonalds0546
@nickdonalds0546 2 жыл бұрын
Wanted to like but it's already got 111 likes. And we already know the significance of 1111 so I don't wanna mess up that holy sequence
@livingadopelife
@livingadopelife 2 жыл бұрын
True
@berrysandersii2065
@berrysandersii2065 2 жыл бұрын
Don’t talk to Jesus that way..
@carlinenorvil8591
@carlinenorvil8591 2 жыл бұрын
My circle definitely got smaller. God sent that message to me. It was so hard for me to adapt to this and still is. I chose to follow god because he knows what’s best for me
@lahlahluv8380
@lahlahluv8380 2 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏽
@rochellejohnson7032
@rochellejohnson7032 2 жыл бұрын
As a Licensed Clinical Therapist, I teach the same stuff everyday!! Well done sir!
@ashleawalker9686
@ashleawalker9686 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@sunshinewellness3222
@sunshinewellness3222 2 жыл бұрын
Wow thank you
@endoracrawford4845
@endoracrawford4845 2 жыл бұрын
As a psychologist, the ball players I have worked with have struggled the most recognizing who is truly their friend and who just wants to be around them because they have money and pay for everything. I have to tell them, it is okay to limit people's access to them and to set boundaries with what they pay for. Protect your peace!!
@tayloreff4525
@tayloreff4525 2 жыл бұрын
This video needs to be seen by every rapper. It could save their lives.
@dr.phillips2008
@dr.phillips2008 2 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this message cause I noticed how my own family started treated me strange after I got my doctoral degree... the first doctor in the family. I thought I would be treated better but they changed then I realized that not everyone is gonna be happy 4 u it's a sad reality that I had to learn the hard way... but I am fine with it now cause it just decreased my circle which has given me a world of PEACE!
@TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548
@TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations Dr. Phillips 💯👍🏾👏🏾
@dr.phillips2008
@dr.phillips2008 2 жыл бұрын
@@TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548 thanks so much !!!! The journey wasn't easy but it was soo worth the struggle at least now the little ones know that it can be done!
@maryluvsmusic9298
@maryluvsmusic9298 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats on your accomplishments!!! Achieving a doctorate degree I’m sure is a challenging feat!! You did that!! 🥳🥳🥳 I know it’s hurtful when you expected your love ones to express more excitement but as Ricky is stating in this video there will be some jealous people that will not appreciate your accomplishments. Do you & continue your quest in life. Pray for those folks & love them from a distance to keep your mental health in tact.
@TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548
@TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548 2 жыл бұрын
@@dr.phillips2008 and you wear that Dr. name as a badge of honor 💯 . I had a young black professor who felt like she had to toggle between two worlds because she didn't want to be judged (family and some friends) SMDH. I said young lady, f... those people. You bussed your behind getting a doctorate, hell I would make everyone call me Dr. 😆🤣.
@dr.phillips2008
@dr.phillips2008 2 жыл бұрын
@@maryluvsmusic9298 thanks so much for replaying... really meant alot!
@take5755
@take5755 2 жыл бұрын
One thing I'm noticing as I get older. I've never had a enemy that wasn't a enemy to themselves. I've learned to be aware of things I complain about. Some people wish they had your problems. My message. The more you have, the larger your maintenance program.
@stephanie8202
@stephanie8202 2 жыл бұрын
Teach/Train people how to treat you is one of my favorite saying. That's real talk. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@blaakcoffee
@blaakcoffee 2 жыл бұрын
Very real.
@cupcakes7015
@cupcakes7015 2 жыл бұрын
Right ✅ 9/1/2022
@Earth_Angel777
@Earth_Angel777 2 жыл бұрын
I fckn needed to hear this message man! I was on the verse of a mental breakdown out here being solo n noticing how small my circle got. Your video (gracefully) brought all of the clarity I needed. God will look out through other vessels that’s for sure. I’m thanking God in advance n I respect the fact that you shared this dope gem in the entrepreneur rising lane. 🥲🙏🏽🤧 Thank God and my ancestors for these self reflect cuz that’s exactly what I am doing in order to elevate higher in my lane. MevsMe🫶🏽🌟 We got this kings & queens🏁♥️ #riptomygrandma 🙏🏽💞
@champjohnson8614
@champjohnson8614 2 жыл бұрын
Young brother, I hate to hear u say that. Thank God you’re uplift with Ricky’s message. I been solo for a long time and I love it.
@antoinesmith4697
@antoinesmith4697 2 жыл бұрын
All facts! Learned this when I turned 30…..💪🏾I’ve never been more at peace in my life.
@justineblake
@justineblake 10 ай бұрын
I learned this at 30 too!!! 🤩💖🙌
@devonnaw1
@devonnaw1 2 жыл бұрын
You have no idea how much I needed to hear this. I have been feeling really down about my circle being pretty much obsolete. I work hard for what I have and it seems as though people are envious and it’s not a good feeling. There are so many family members and friends who try and take advantage and when I go off after overlooking things then I’m the problem. Your video lifted my spirits and I thank you so much! My takeaway is to create boundaries and not feel bad about doing so.
@ducksoon9981
@ducksoon9981 2 жыл бұрын
Only help people who cannot pay you back. When you feel sorry for someone who needs help and you help them, after that they will be the first one to stab you in the back. People change but God never change! Be aware....
@tynaeadams3562
@tynaeadams3562 2 жыл бұрын
Keep doing whatever you are doing and moving forward - (you can’t move forward dragging and caring dead weight)
@tynaeadams3562
@tynaeadams3562 2 жыл бұрын
@Syrious_ Kash naw , I understand what they are saying
@rositayoung2725
@rositayoung2725 2 жыл бұрын
Thank You
@tynaeadams3562
@tynaeadams3562 2 жыл бұрын
@Syrious_ Kash I wouldn’t say (only help those who can’t pay you back) but I understand - 9 times out of 10 if I give someone some money I don’t expect to get it back - I rather deal with people that really need it and can not pay it back than to deal with someone that pays you back and want to borrow it back tomorrow (shit gets old) - especially when I am washing dishes and cutting grass for a living but that person is making triple what I make in a week - it’s worst than crediting crack to a crackhead - pay you back on Friday evening but want to credit more Friday night - it gets deeper than that but I do understand tho - but the shit can backfire also - giving 10 or 20 dollars to someone that is not trying to help themselves (dam near every week) - but soon as you say (I don’t have it today homeboy) they forget about the other 50 times and that you never ask for anything back - I try to stop doing stuff like that but I just can’t live that way - God blesses us with this material crap so we are supposed to share it (((sometimes)))
@kirstenbroussard177
@kirstenbroussard177 2 жыл бұрын
This is a message! "It's not for everyone to like you." It hurts to admit it. 😕 A situation made me realize that I was giving more from my heart than what was being poured back into me. "You have to train people how to treat you." 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Thank you Rickey. This is the confirmation that I needed.
@rosalyna8819
@rosalyna8819 2 жыл бұрын
Yes sister I been there new chapter divorce, single working on me now going on 5 years standing alone with GOD
@kirstenbroussard177
@kirstenbroussard177 2 жыл бұрын
@@rosalyna8819 I just listened to a podcast Dear Future Wifey Season 5 Episode 518 The Rutley's "What if your future spouse is waiting in your DM? that will bless you immensely Sister of My Heart. It had me in tears and brought me through deliverance that I didn't know that I needed. I 🙏🏾 it blesses you. Don't let the title stop you from being blessed by the message! kzbin.info/www/bejne/jHnEgpWagMmUp9E
@mlovings4793
@mlovings4793 Жыл бұрын
You have to respect yourself and teach folk to respect you
@lillianbalkum5975
@lillianbalkum5975 2 жыл бұрын
You certainly can't take everybody with you because everybody can't go where you're going. I like what Rickey is saying here never forget where you come from. What I admire most is how humble he is,and how he looks out for his family. This is why God continues to pour blessings onto him.
@anewhealing1058
@anewhealing1058 2 жыл бұрын
The more you try to please people, the more they lose respect for you. That's why they continue to use you. A person that respects you will say, "no you don't have to do that, you've done enouge, I'll figure something out". But if they take, talk about you, take and take and take.....they don't respect you.
@JohnSmith-bv8sr
@JohnSmith-bv8sr 2 жыл бұрын
You can't take everyone with you but help others if you're blessed my dude
@tonybennet5312
@tonybennet5312 2 жыл бұрын
You're a humble man. If a lot more brother's handled success the way that you do. They'll probably be in a better place both emotionally & financially. You can't take everyone on YOUR journey. It's not your responsibility. You don't come across as a flashy guy and I bet you're just as happy. Just because you can afford anything you want. Doesn't mean you need to buy everything you see. Our people doesn't understand that. God bless you Ricky. Keep giving us these informative videos. For years I thought something was wrong with me because I roll solo and my circle has always been small. I love living a peaceful life.Can't put a price on that.
@clarapickney2600
@clarapickney2600 2 жыл бұрын
So True Rickie and I'm not successful or rich... A divorced, retired 58yr old correctional officer... Because of abuse, I walked away from a home I paid for and started over. Four yrs later, God Blessed me and I was able to buy another home and live in peace.. My circle have always been small. You are so right, everyone that says they're happy for you and not really, but tries to get in your business.... Trust me the only business I give out is How GOD BLESS ME.... I LOVE YOU SPIRIT RICKY AND YOUR COMEDY... GOD BLESS YOU AND GOD BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY 🙏🏽🙌🏾♥️
@kingwillie206
@kingwillie206 2 жыл бұрын
Cuff me up officer Clara!
@antionettelynch934
@antionettelynch934 2 жыл бұрын
This message couldn't have come at a better time. I just told my husband this. God is elevating us. That doesn't mean everybody, INCLUDING family, is suppose to go where God is taking us.
@isitjustmeorwhat9748
@isitjustmeorwhat9748 2 жыл бұрын
Brother Ricky,I just had a conversation with my wife about how jealousy sometimes is within your own family. I'm currently dealing with that type of situation now, so much that it had me questioning if I was a bad person which I am not. My conclusion is that some people would rather see you down in order for them to feel like their doing better than you, I broke away from a feeling of depression once I realized that.
@terryfikes582
@terryfikes582 2 жыл бұрын
Love it!!! I've been teaching 20 years now, I preach this everyday to my students. Being a decent human being is still important. Thank you, Mr. Smiley for all that you do!!!
@LadyB954
@LadyB954 2 жыл бұрын
I was taught this at a very young age! Preach Rickey 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@theunexpecteddetour17
@theunexpecteddetour17 2 жыл бұрын
This message is POWERFUL and I needed to hear this. There's always those hating on your success .
@joyslove3858
@joyslove3858 2 жыл бұрын
Videos like this remind me that I'm not alone in what I'm dealing with. When those you love are determined to live in foolishness and you're not, that circle rapidly shrinks. It's painful at first, but it's necessary to maintain your dignity.
@irisAUTISM
@irisAUTISM 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this special info Mr Smiley and the testimony Mrs. Joys Love I feel alone and I think my 2 sons also. I too have had this feeling. And have been treated this way. ALLL the time. My son is a busy busy Autistic. He loves water. We'll get another pool when I got it again. My neighbors popped his pool overnight. I didn't say much. But this is something I deal with besides the boundaries with family. It's definitely Autism Life Or No Life. I wake up early for my time. Usually my praise and worship and apple juice And clip my plants. But my God. I get it . No boundaries, gets you hurt but wit boundaries they think I'm mean
@joyslove3858
@joyslove3858 2 жыл бұрын
@@irisAUTISM I totally get it. Hang in there. 💖
@BigMarkFunny
@BigMarkFunny 2 жыл бұрын
Big facts I remember when it was nothing but negative ppl when I first started doing comedy and when I went viral and start getting famous getting a bag I saw the jealousy first hand great message brother 💯
@Chuke_Wise
@Chuke_Wise 2 жыл бұрын
Going through this now. Do they try to connect with you on a professional level now?
@megandaniels3875
@megandaniels3875 2 жыл бұрын
He's so right if I had to train people how to treat you. Because people are so used to following everyone else they don't know how to stand alone and be different. That's why I don't have no friends cuz I don't follow the trend me and myself and I
@JWNS08
@JWNS08 2 жыл бұрын
You sound like me. It’s me, myself and I as well.
@Tcwillie
@Tcwillie 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations Rickey on all of your accomplishments and success, continue to allow God to separate you from those haters, he will weed them out of your life, some people enters your life only for a season, you have a lot to be thankful for, keep giving God the glory, thanking him and be yourself, God will connect you with the right people the rest of the way. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️May God’s ❤️ Peace and Blessings be upon you.
@Nicole-gb3vl
@Nicole-gb3vl 2 жыл бұрын
I know this lady raising her grandson and she is not raising her grandson the right way
@C.P.P.
@C.P.P. 2 жыл бұрын
Yes the circle is definitely getting smaller and to be honest, I really love it!
@AD-he4tf
@AD-he4tf 2 жыл бұрын
This is a WHOLE WORD. I'm going through this right now but one thing for sure, I will continue to set boundaries because that's where my peace resides.
@Shaqlife
@Shaqlife Жыл бұрын
Set boundaries! Don’t allow people to walk over you nor manipulate you. Train people how to treat you AMEN 🙏🏽 People use excuses to justify their entitlement very true! Watch for snakes. Common courtesy is gone. Be you. Be respectful always. It will teach people what you won’t tolerate.
@cpittman1527
@cpittman1527 2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!!!!! this was for me!!!! the one they now call crazy for the boundaries in place that I should have had 20 years ago.......periodt. EVERY WORD.....THANK YOU!!!!! favor and blessings always!
@Luraseven504
@Luraseven504 2 жыл бұрын
🎯🙏
@sheliawilliams6468
@sheliawilliams6468 2 жыл бұрын
He is 100% correct!!! He’s so humble and he definitely remember where he comes from.!!!
@legal60luv79
@legal60luv79 2 жыл бұрын
Ricky why you reconfirming what God has said. The exact words. People are going to be jealous no matter what I do so just do me.❤️❤️❤️
@suzeannepowell6954
@suzeannepowell6954 2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL THIS STRONG INFORMATION. I LOVE IT WHEN YOU TELL THE TRUTH!!!😇
@calvinthomas7514
@calvinthomas7514 2 жыл бұрын
That’s why Rickey is one of my favorite comedians of all time. Dude has so much wisdom and he’s real!!!
@sunnyflower1979
@sunnyflower1979 2 жыл бұрын
You just described my ENTIRE family. I cut EVERYBODY off and chose me. They called me all kinda names, talked me down, tried to sabotage my business, hated on my effort, then got mad when I withdrew. Sometimes you gotta fall back and choose you.
@Andrea-bw5lw
@Andrea-bw5lw 2 жыл бұрын
I was raised by my grandmama and mama. You’re right! You can tell by mannerism when someone is raised by grandparents.
@sherrywarren616
@sherrywarren616 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Rickey ♥️ I wasn't raised by my Grandparents.. but my Parents were loving and kind. I'm always happy for the people I love and care about. That's being a true friend. It doesn't take much to be loving and kind to people.. even the Teller at the bank,or the Cashier at the grocery store. It makes their day if you have a kind word or two. Kindness is free. Spread it everywhere you go!! 🤗😍♥️♥️♥️♥️
@mr.b.7306
@mr.b.7306 2 жыл бұрын
You are so right Sherry!
@pamelajohnson4709
@pamelajohnson4709 2 жыл бұрын
This what I have told my children….you have to train people how to treat you…people will only go as far as you allow them to go…… People expect, but they don’t respect
@offendineveryway9411
@offendineveryway9411 2 жыл бұрын
This is genuine. I grew up in a city that was ranked the poorest in America in 2011. Once I started gettin money from WORKIN MY ASS OFF. I got out. Bought me a big house surrounded by mountains and farms in one of the best school districts. Found out quick who was sincerely happy for me, and who was envious. In short, my circle indeed got smaller. Now it's me, the wife and kids, and very few friends against the world.
@jewelhinton-warren5960
@jewelhinton-warren5960 2 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely 💯 % right Rickey ✅️ I don't allow anyone make me feel bad because I told them the Bank is CLOSE!!!! I have more peace with a smile 😃 😊 😀 on my face everyday. My circle is very small , me myself and I.
@QueenLwiththecrown
@QueenLwiththecrown 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! This is so appropriate for this season. Many will be mad when one sets boundaries because they want to have authority over your life especially those closes to you & need you the most. People will literally try to rob you for all that you possess; gifts, talents, anointing, power, respect, & your intelligence. They want you to be there everytime they need which is all the time. Please, set your boundaries & don't waver.
@Moneymojo6272
@Moneymojo6272 2 жыл бұрын
Yeeessssss! They try to put their toxic crazy on others, anytime you don’t go along with their wants. The entitlement is off the chain these days.
@Tcwillie
@Tcwillie 2 жыл бұрын
You are blessed and highly favored by God, continue to be a “Peace Maker”. Stay strong! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@lanelljohnson5767
@lanelljohnson5767 2 жыл бұрын
100 facts! As I’m growing financially in my family, I’m not the same. But it was all good as long as I was loaning money, giving money but bc my success make you uncomfortable I suppose to conform! The devil is a lie! Love this ❤
@sharonkeeble2812
@sharonkeeble2812 2 жыл бұрын
Say that Mr. Smiley👏🏽👏🏽👍your circle ⭕️ becomes smaller!!! Be careful how you treat people!!! 🙏🏻💪🏽😍😊❤️💪🏽
@kparrish1000
@kparrish1000 2 жыл бұрын
Yes Rickey!!! Say it. I’m kicking 60 in the back and I just learned how important it is to keep your distance from people who are not like minded. We sometimes feel like we are responsible for others success. We can’t save everybody, but we are responsible for our selves. People don’t understand that green grass, flowers, and trees are your peace of mind. I don’t got to go to Cabo or Dubai my back yard gives me all the peace in the world and it’s Paid for. Can you please do more videos on your yard it’s beautiful and so relaxing. I’m still working on minds one day.
@poochiemane5326
@poochiemane5326 2 жыл бұрын
Well said 💪🏾🙏🏾 I needed to see this comment God bless you
@jaayeee24
@jaayeee24 2 жыл бұрын
Rickey...next time they say you’re acting funny, remind them you’re a comedian. 😂 😂 😆
@LoveAndPower777
@LoveAndPower777 2 жыл бұрын
Growing up my dad once told me to never say yes sir or no sir to people. But I was taught by my grandmother to always say yes sir and no sir. I'm in my 50s now and I still say yes sir no sir and yes ma'am and no ma'am to everybody including people who are younger then me. I miss my grandmother. Thank Rickey for this video.
@definitionofbeauty9585
@definitionofbeauty9585 2 жыл бұрын
I know that’s right! “I don’t owe nobody 💩 😂
@tangleaotodd4497
@tangleaotodd4497 2 жыл бұрын
My circle has gotten very small and I'm good 👍 I'm in my lane just trying to live and be happy 😊
@nicholeely914
@nicholeely914 2 жыл бұрын
You are so right to say and to remind us, "love those who love you".
@whowearedocumentary2204
@whowearedocumentary2204 2 жыл бұрын
So true, Ricky. My Mother told me as a youth that it's not about the numbers of friends that we had, but the caliber of them. Have maintained friends from 1st grade and some from high school. RICH!!!!!!
@swissmiss3958
@swissmiss3958 2 жыл бұрын
“Love who love you!” Powerful words! I love it!
@HammerofGod777
@HammerofGod777 2 жыл бұрын
Life has taught me that people are around you to use you for their own purposes and in due time, you will know them by their fruits.
@theprofitpenthouse
@theprofitpenthouse 2 жыл бұрын
This was one of the hardest things for me to accept. I lost the people I planned to be at the top with because of lowkey envy.
@tinajones8050
@tinajones8050 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes your circle need to get smaller, WITHOUT APOLOGIES. Ricky, rock and roll with no regrets. Enjoy life and continue to be an encouraging light that shines.......I love everybody!
@ceciyeltom235
@ceciyeltom235 2 жыл бұрын
Yessssssssssss. Men you are so needed. It's a choice to acknowledge where you came from, but to forget never. Tell it!!!! Curiosity, Respect, Truth and Love helps in so many ways💜
@alicenewton4106
@alicenewton4106 2 жыл бұрын
Real talk Mr. Smiley!!!
@Angela-cd9bj
@Angela-cd9bj 2 жыл бұрын
@@alicenewton4106 Definitely wisdom speaking 😉
@gbailey1958
@gbailey1958 2 жыл бұрын
For Everybody cheering for you on your Rise… There’s twice as many just waiting to Boo. Stay true to yourself no matter what.
@galvanizingtechniques1111
@galvanizingtechniques1111 2 жыл бұрын
Man You Are On Point, It's Okay!!, No Validation Needed!!! Facts, Everybody Is Not Going To Like You So What, But You Got To Keep That Shi@t Moving!!!...
@carolynwashington8641
@carolynwashington8641 2 жыл бұрын
LOVE who Loves you....
@travionkaneon2510
@travionkaneon2510 2 жыл бұрын
He reminds me of that Uncle or Grandfather, that always kept it real with you. When you wasn't sure of what to do. Keep doing what you doing Rickey, need more men like you.
@purplebuttafly8
@purplebuttafly8 2 жыл бұрын
Rickey Smiley. You have a wealth of experience that has rewarded you with wisdom!! I totally feel & have experienced EVERYTHING that you've spoken on here. My circle is smaller, & quite frankly; I've never been happier!! Smaller circles equate to greater joy & security. Let haters stay where they stand!! We're about moving forward & living & loving this wonderful, humbling and precious life that we have built. God bless U, me & everyone 🙏 ❤️ 😉. If U Ever come to Nevada, we're coming to see 👀 U. I can smell your fresh cut grass through the video!! Peacefulness is fresh cut grass, & small circles! 😉😇🥰
@deniseg7395
@deniseg7395 2 жыл бұрын
Each one teach one. Thank you Mr Smiley, for blessing us today with this nugget. People truly needs to hear this. Validation starts from within once you know who you are. That is a king or queen, that is also the individualization of God. You don't have to look for validation outside of yourself.
@NaturalDivineGoddess
@NaturalDivineGoddess 2 жыл бұрын
*”You always acting funny, when you don’t do, what they want to do.” **#FACTS* 😂🤣
@johnnylamothe1428
@johnnylamothe1428 2 жыл бұрын
Amen! Mankind is making fun of God's patience and kindness towards us. But we don't seem to realize that God's patience is meant for us to turn away from total destructions. Unfortunately we're still stubborn and arrogant in our hearts, and we're not sorry for showing so much angers against God and one another. Thereon God says," I'm pulling away my grace and mercy from humanity completely, because I'm Fed up with the deplorable conditions of the Earth." Thereon it's going to be trends of awful moments and sufferings across the globe.
@pamelacarter2718
@pamelacarter2718 2 жыл бұрын
Love you Rickey. I live in Ohio but spent summers in Alabama around my grandmother. I also went to my maternal grandmother's house everyday during the school year. I always go out of the way to help people who don't really appreciate it. My father is from Towncreek Alabama. He is in heaven now. He used to tell me to stop trying to save the world. Everything you get is not for everybody.
@joyslove3858
@joyslove3858 2 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said. My mother told me, "You are not supposed to give your WHOLE life to others".
@asiaparks7158
@asiaparks7158 2 жыл бұрын
I'M GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING RICKEY THIS WHAT HAPPENS TO THE CHOSEN ONES JOHN 15 THE WORLD HATES THE DISCIPLES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! READ TO RICKEY EVERY DAY LOVE U GOD BLESS
@NaturalDivineGoddess
@NaturalDivineGoddess 2 жыл бұрын
*Keep good people around you.” “And, love, who LOVE you!!”* 💞💖
@wandabeasley3419
@wandabeasley3419 Жыл бұрын
Some one say you going be a lonely old woman I 😁🤣 what makes you think that God bless 🙌 🙏 💯
@melvinperkins7186
@melvinperkins7186 2 жыл бұрын
What kind of grass is that in your yard. I totally understand and agree with everything that you are saying. People you know are your worse haters. When you are doing good, jealousy is always around you.
@brianmoore3063
@brianmoore3063 2 жыл бұрын
Crazy how this pulled up on my timeline. This year was pretty much the last year of my old friends. Its bitter sweet but I'm stress free. All the OGs told me this was gunna happen eventually.
@ms.maamwithunsolvedtarotmy3598
@ms.maamwithunsolvedtarotmy3598 2 жыл бұрын
Preach Rickey, it's like it's just my children and I at this point literally...I and the 4 of them...I live in the projects as we speak. I teach on KZbin with no support from my family. I have a patent that I'm almost done with, and no one donated. My son graduates this year. My only son, he's not in the streets. I cry a lot but I'm very grateful. (Ms. Ma'am with Unsolved Tarot MYSTERIESon youtube). I just want my channel to grow so I can teach as I have been called to do. Like your message is so on point. I'm so grateful for this confirmation 😇🙏...Thank you Rickey.
@gopremiummedia2945
@gopremiummedia2945 2 жыл бұрын
Hope the patent goes good
@madinaabdi3673
@madinaabdi3673 5 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ we need more people like you. We need more people like you thank you for everything I couldn’t sleep last night when I listened to your speech I sleep better thank you. You helping me a lot. You are a person. God sent it for me and every other parent who are like me or experience what I am experience thank you so much. I appreciate you you uplifted for me. Also again we need more people like you thank you. May God bless you.
@chosen942
@chosen942 2 жыл бұрын
That's why I like you Rickey. You keep it REAL. I relate to so many things you say.
@sandraroberts2543
@sandraroberts2543 2 жыл бұрын
Wow!! Ricky..What a confirmation. Family is the worst!! Thank you for clarifying..You can't take everone with you. They see your glory but don't know your story. Some people feel entitled to what God has blessed you with..ENOUGH!!! What God has for you it's for You ..Thank you Ricky for being CANDID and True. May God continue to enrichly bless you.
@genxchas
@genxchas 2 жыл бұрын
haters the more you resist the more it will persist
@maryhenry434
@maryhenry434 2 жыл бұрын
Rickey I totally agree with you. My circle consist of my kids and me... I get lonely sometimes but I have peace...
@melanierankin5432
@melanierankin5432 2 жыл бұрын
Amen Rickey, I concur.....I tell my friends I didn't go to summer camp (nothing wrong with it) when I was little, my ass was with grandma shelling peas and watching the Price is Right and her stories for the rest of the day🤣🤣🤣🤣, yes it is something about them grandparents
@geraldinerandolph6945
@geraldinerandolph6945 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree and I was raised by my mother and father but we were taught how to respect people and we had manners. Peace and Love 🙏🏼
@jenrn120
@jenrn120 2 жыл бұрын
Listening to you Ricky is like my late grandmother rose from the dead you sound just like her… she use to stress on that phrase “you can’t take everyone with you, everyone path is different you follow yours” she was always right I miss her so much, your words of wisdom touch my heart, thank you 😊
@ok.s4830
@ok.s4830 2 жыл бұрын
Im sharing this video with someone who I just told these things to. 💯! Its a shame we have to literally train grown ass Blk folk but I'm here for it.
@simplysaying5478
@simplysaying5478 2 жыл бұрын
Ricky my circle reduced down two years ago to the party of one just me. You are so right.
@JWNS08
@JWNS08 2 жыл бұрын
Ha! You sound like me ….. party of one!
@PhyllisM101
@PhyllisM101 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Ricky, I love love love your honesty and you sense of humor. You're hilarious and very supportive. There needs to be more people in the world like you, Honesty is the best policy. Thank you for always keeping it REAL!
@TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548
@TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548 2 жыл бұрын
#FACTS and most time it's your own blood family 🤦🏾‍♀️. Thank you for today's sermon Ricky 👏🏾👏🏾.
@kiaj.d.5855
@kiaj.d.5855 2 жыл бұрын
Gotta learn the difference between family and relatives. I share blood with strangers.
@d.brooks0311
@d.brooks0311 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this message! I’ve always set boundaries but some newer friends seem to think they don’t apply to them. Therefore I show them better than I can tell them. Actions speak louder than words. People who don’t respect my boundaries, don’t respect me. That’s when I know it’s time to distance myself from them or just cut them off. My happiness & peace is not worth giving up to appease nosey, messy, needy people. I’m perfectly fine with having a small circle of trustworthy friends/family members in my life. Quality over Quantity works best in my life.
@everettwhite3724
@everettwhite3724 2 жыл бұрын
When you stop allowing yourself to be manipulated it really pisses people off. Thank you for helping me understand it happens on every level. Have a great day.
@NaturalDivineGoddess
@NaturalDivineGoddess 2 жыл бұрын
*#FACTS** “You have to train people, how to treat you.”*
@Luraseven504
@Luraseven504 2 жыл бұрын
"Love who loves you." That says it all Ricky.💖 Toxic people..that don't like you; will continue to throw that stinging dart at you.🎯 Because It's what they do best. They don't want to see 👀you happy 😄or enjoying any type of success.😠 So don't play into it...🚶‍♀🚶‍♂🚶‍♀🚶‍♂
@ALLIN4CHRIST777
@ALLIN4CHRIST777 2 жыл бұрын
The Living Word says to love your enemies. Accept Jesus Christ & Repent before it's too late. For the Kingdom of God is at hand. Our time is short. Jesus Christ is the ONLY way to Heaven. Without Jesus Christ expect hell🔥You've been warned! John 3:3
@whydoidothis01
@whydoidothis01 2 жыл бұрын
Good morning /afternoon/evening Mr. Smiley and all who read this. As a social worker, I tell all of my clients, Set boundaries for yourself and others. Because if you don’t, it can and will increase your anxiety and depression trying to keep everyone happy. And if you have other Mental Health issues can make them worse. In the BIPOC community, we have to take care of our mental because most of us are also dealing with trauma as well. Take care of yourself 1st, remember your Godly blessings, and those who truly love you. 🛐☮️
@seancharlebois6220
@seancharlebois6220 2 жыл бұрын
Nice
@kimberlygillis9074
@kimberlygillis9074 2 жыл бұрын
My father taught me and my siblings how to respect others as well as ourselves. I was taught, as well as, taught my children to set boundaries as well as respect the boundaries of others. Eventually, my grandparents finished raising me. I tell you, that is one part of my life that I can relive over again. Iam who Iam because of them.
@candyhorton7227
@candyhorton7227 2 жыл бұрын
Ur a 100 % right my circle is small I'm at peace and ppl hate it wen they think I'm so mean then I open my mouth hello how r u and smile
@rositayoung2725
@rositayoung2725 2 жыл бұрын
I accidentally ran across this video and you made my day! I'm so sick of most people. You sound like you are real and I love it. I moved away from several people in my life. And one I recently moved away from got the nerve to tell others some negative s..t about me. That's the one I just realized could have caused me my life more than once! Its always the ones close to you. My mother told me growing up. Beware of most females they can be "Trouble". I found that to be true. My youngest son and I don't speak now. I love him and I miss him. But one thing I won't do is allow him to disrespect me! He is a grown ass man now so act like it! Thank you
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