If you feel financially behind in life, watch this.

[@VincentChan]

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[@AnonymousanonymousA]

Question how to get honest healthcare?

[@SpencerJohnsonOfficial]

Comparison is the thief of joy... particularly comparing yourself to others like you said. The only person we should ever compare ourselves to is our past selves. While that's easier said than done, it's 100% true. Great video Vincent!

[@VincentChan]

thanks spencer! do you have any examples where you compared yourself to others?

[@SpencerJohnsonOfficial]

@@VincentChan Of course man! I've definitely fallen victim to this in competitive pursuits I've done in my life such as playing basketball competitively in high school and into college... however, from a financial success perspective, being a smaller KZbinr myself, I've found myself comparing myself to bigger KZbinrs who make a very comfortable living through their channels but at the end of the day I try to remind myself how unbelievably lucky I am to have found the success I have so far. Once I compare my success on YT now to even just 6 months ago, I'm reminded of how blessed I really am. Those goalposts keep moving, but you have to take the time to enjoy the journey at the same time.

[@mbank3832]

Like many other things, one's life would be happier without social media

[@TheAkumaChan]

Yup, he was like have u seen that 17 year old, I was like no, none in real life. I did have some extremely rich classmates, but at least I don’t see their social media.

[@pn4640]

Absolutely.

[@RainbowEmpathogen]

True I got rid of Instagram and Facebook. I feel much happier not getting sucked into useless drama / useless things in general lol

[@CyclistChris]

Except KZbin, which is one of the greatest resources to improve our own circumstances.

[@mbank3832]

@@CyclistChris KZbin is different. you search YT for information while other social media like IG for FB, it is basically people flexing their lives to make yours look inferior

[@AsToldBySomeone]

This video made me want to cry lol. I think it’s one of the first compassionate finance videos I’ve seen. You highlighted something that not many people on KZbin do - it’s not about just making money, but why you want to make more money. I feel the same way in wanting to just be able to care for the people I love, and also make sure they never have to worry about being homeless again. I want to be able to afford my necessities easily and never have to think about them in fear ever again. I want to see a world outside of the United States so I can expand my mind beyond what I’ve known my whole life. Thank you for making finance more than just numbers and actually caring about helping us.

[@VincentChan]

thank you so much and for sharing how you've been feeling. i really appreciate that. how have you been dealing with feelings of financial jealousy recently?

[@AsToldBySomeone]

@@VincentChan Honestly I’ve had to stop using things like Instagram, as I think that’s the worst app for me to be on. I keep a small few people on my watch list on KZbin to avoid feeling overwhelmed and such. I’m an illustrator, so I watch a lot of art creatives- though I take breaks because seeing amazing artists who have made it their full time job as independent creators makes me feel like I’m not working enough to get there or that my art isn’t good enough. I used to work for the Care Bears brand until I realized I hated making art for someone else that makes way more than I’ll ever see in my lifetime. So I started over. Im struggling to find strength in myself, but I’ll keep trying.

[@Babysteps1000]

Keep on keepin on..

[@leanneg9388]

You’ve got this! I’m in a similar situation - $35k credit card debt and $98k student loans. Take it day by day. I give myself for little wins, like even putting $15 extra towards my Cc which may not seem like much but it keeps me going. It’s a long term game and the fact that you’re aware of it and working towards it is amazing!

[@pb25193]

What's the interest rate on these?

[@MrEjblanco]

Yeah, 15 bucks if interest keeps increasing... Kinda sounds like a waste

[@shumatsuopost]

It's easy to feel financially jealous of others, especially in the age of social media where everyone seems to be living their best life. But it's important to remember that everyone's financial journey is different and comparison is not always helpful. Instead, focus on your own goals and work towards them at your own pace. Remember that financial success is a marathon, not a sprint!

[@VincentChan]

exactly! couldnt have said it better myself. Do you ever feel financially behind Shu? would love to hear about how you deal with it personally

[@grindingdeviance1864]

Just listening to this video made me see that this could apply to relationships as well. Some people get married and/or have kids because "I'm SUPPOSED to do this! It's ' normal'!", then they wind up unhappy when they realize they were only doing what society MOLDED them to do.

[@Babysteps1000]

Yep. Happened to me.

[@TheSoundofTanay]

Thanks for making this video. I left my first stable job after realising it’s actually not for me. While I’m close to being broke, I haven’t been this happy and at peace in months! Keeping my head down, completing my master’s degree and doing a new internship. I know my older self will thank this spontaneous, fearless 25 year old me 😌

[@ambientgamesound]

Thanks Vincent.. This is exactly what I feel.. Actually, my husband's so called "friends" even criticize us and when we would meet up they would mention "How come you guys haven't moved out of your parents house yet?" or "We just got our Tesla, you guys should buy one too and ditch your old car." Sometimes, I try not to think about it but they bring it up and in a degrading way. It hurts and I work hard. I just haven't figured out what to do..

[@e.r.4447]

At 8:20 your words have just reminded me why I could not give up even when I thought I was failing. My dream is similar to your dream but in another sector, and is definitely decreasing the wealth gap between developed countries and developing countries. Thank you so much for this video.

[@LindaDooWop]

I just love you! Some You Tubers have extremely interesting sounding titles, but their content is lousy and misleading! Not you! You are 100% authentic! Thank you so much!

[@Duncan-ew7dk]

I have to constantly remind myself that I’m on a different path from most people. While they are “ahead” now, I’ll be there soon. Follow the path but blaze your own trail.

[@InspoAlley]

Vincent, your content is real, therefore, easily relatable and resonates. Thanks for putting it out there!

[@VincentChan]

thank you HT, really appreciate it. have you been struggling recently feeling financially behind?

[@ChristosForever]

Acknowledging our progress is definitely something that’ll lead to a feeling of satisfaction then we lessen the pressure of beating ourselves up. Thank you very insightful video

[@beatscatmommy1735]

I stopped going on IG which was constantly showing me content that would trigger bad emotions. I stick to KZbin and pick and choose my content. Your videos are refreshing. Very relatable

[@RPSartre01]

When I was finishing university in the early 90s I decided not to work for the rich but to work for people like my parents - working class union. I've been working since then with labor unions in the US and globally, and I never looked back. My life has been an adventure!

[@slushbanq7582]

Vincent, I couldn't imagine finding a video that would help me go through the phase that you mentioned when I first followed your channel. This will be one of my bedside videos that I will watch regularly. Thank you for making a wholesome video like this. Keep up the good work king

[@Monkehrawrrr]

Top 5 Takeaways: Financial jealousy can be harmful and costly in the long run. Feeling financially jealous stems from the belief that opportunities are limited. To overcome feelings of financial jealousy, focus on how you react to the gap between where you are and where you want to be. Redefine your personal money and success goals with your fire number. Rather than comparing yourself to others, compare yourself to your past self and focus on self-improvement. How to Implement: Recognize when you're feeling financially jealous and try to understand where it's coming from. Change your belief about opportunities being limited by focusing on the abundance of possibilities. Shift your focus from others to yourself and take action towards achieving your own goals. Calculate your own personal fire number and work towards achieving financial independence. Celebrate your past financial accomplishments and focus on self-improvement rather than comparing yourself to others.

[@VincentChan]

wow thank you so much alper, that really means a lot!! how are you feeling now in terms of any feelings of being financially behind?

[@slushbanq7582]

@@VincentChan well thanks to videos like this one and my researches, I saw that it is meaningless to be jealous of wealth. Usually wealthy people or people with successful careers have their path of life drawn by their parents. It is also a sign of a shallow character to be jealous of someones wealth or salary imo. But as a 22 yo male, I admire people who have a passion about any topic and have their life purposes straight. Besides people like elon musk, bill gates, steve jobs one of the best examples would be you ofc. You have found out your passion and purpose. You are making your moves and decisions in your life towards these values and this makes your life meaningful. However, I am still directionless and depressed about it. I have grown out all my addictions to focus on living a happy and meaningful life but I have no subject that I can devote myself into. Thats how I feel rn

[@yuckyhamsandwich]

I will be a bit vulnerable here. I initially started on Twitch because my husband suggested it could be something I could do on the side to make an income while being a stay-at-home mom. After two years of streaming and moderating for others, I've realized that some streamers are extremely lucky in getting sponsorships, receiving financial support, and being gifted with various things. At first, it was inspiring to see their success, but eventually, I came to the realization that I can't reach that level of success. Most of these streamers achieved their high status within a year. I do admit that I became jealous because I worked so hard to create my own layouts and emotes. I went out of my way to help others, and I worked extremely hard. However, I just don't understand why I didn't get the same opportunities. I used to work so much on Twitch began to cut into my family time, and I didn't like that one bit. I was constantly chasing something. That's when I made the decision to leave it all behind and start making gameplay videos on KZbin. It was a much nicer space, where I could just be in my own corner doing my thing and working on my craft. There are no more sound alerts or chat notifications constantly reminding me that I'm not doing well. However, despite finding this new creative outlet, I'm in my early 30s and feel like I'm just roaming this planet without a clear sense of career purpose. I never quite figured it out since my kids came into the picture. I'm not jealous of people's wealth, but I do envy their opportunities and sense of purpose. Money is nice, but my only real goal is to take my kids around the world and have the financial means to do so. That's it. Anyways, this made me tear up thank you for the video

[@masonpanpan818]

Wow, your video has had an incredible impact on my life! I can hardly find the words to express how grateful I am for the powerful message you shared. After watching it, I felt compelled to write this comment, despite having not commented on KZbin in over a decade. I have been going through an extremely difficult time these past few months, and I was on the brink of giving up on everything, including my life. However, your video has given me a renewed sense of hope and purpose. I now feel inspired to make positive changes and take action to turn my life around. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for creating and sharing this amazing video. You have made a tremendous difference in my life, and I will be forever grateful to you. May your kindness and generosity continue to touch the lives of many more people in need.

[@ss-kky4]

wow its Amazing we have the same dream and goals and feelings towards a wealthy and healthy life. I'm only 19 without any kind of financial ability. Thanks Vincent I now know that I can do something special with my life rather than focusing on what other opportunities and prosperity other people have🥺. thanks for this content.

[@ishitaroy5597]

That's why I love your contents ... it's not like i don't know about this but sometimes i just get blinded by social media or my own emotions. Thank you!

[@hassansyed6087]

That's exactly how I was feeling today Vincent. The more i watched your video, the more i saw myself in you when you see yourself being jealous from other rich influencers. Essentially, this was an excellent way to repurpose my thoughts

[@RainbowEmpathogen]

I’m five min in the video and just want to say thanks, Vincent. I stumbled on this video by chance. It was refreshing to hear someone admit to having financial envy / opportunities envy. I stopped using social media and I’m trying to figure out to move my career forward / switch industries and be more financially sustainable.

[@malymuminek]

You are my real comfort person rn. Thank you

[@Extra_Depresso]

i compared myself to my cousins (twins) who are studying in the same field as me. For context I am 24 now, they are 22. They are in a academically better Unviersity compared to me. They're graduating this summer while im just now graduating in Winter 2023... They got great internships at the big 4 accounting firms, while I just got a smaller (still competitive) firm. They're getting full time offers for their desired position while I wasn't able to get a full-time offer at the end of my internship. But I realized that I just prioritized a different path, I had a goal to graduate without debt, but with this mindset, it also took a toll on my education. I worked 30+ hours a week freshmen and sophomore year to the point where I took a gap semester to work full time to pay for tuition. With everything going on, it made sense on why I am set back the way I am. Now in comparison, The twins graduate but with 50k+ debt to pay off (uni and car debt) while my car is paid off and I will be graduating debt free. So the only thing I am missing out on is getting a full time job offer by the time I graduate. This jealousy drove me to do better. Instead of being depressed and closing myself out, it made me really motivated to achieve better things. I don't let negativity bring me down, I take criticism and take feedback seriously and use them to fuel my drive to do better.

[@GrowithYvonne]

Wow that was so helpful ❤as someone who just got fired from her job this is exactly what I needed to hear to get me back on track. Comparison is the biggest thief of joy 😢thank you so much

[@Teemodee]

Bro you're doing that "something more impactful" right now! Incredible video. I needed to see this. Thanks! ❤️

[@watchaporia]

This is such a powerful and eye opening video. Everybody who chases money needs to watch this

[@VincentChan]

exactly! thank you aporia. i'd love to hear about if you ever have feelings of feeling financially behind

[@chi2om]

Yea i never really cared about the material stuff. If i had to give up everything and keep one thing, it would probably be my kindle since i just like reading whatever whenever. I think success is experiences. I would love to actually leave my state for once or know what being on a plane feels like. Doing things that people take for granted. Life really is what you make it.

[@mtolm]

"I'm not good at math ... after graduate I worked in finance for several years..." =) Thanks for the video, great content :)

[@WivoRN]

Brilliant advice! Thank you for the great content.

[@brinvargas1474]

Thank You Vincent for saving me thousands in therapy bills. Really. *You* just put into words what has been troubling me for years ⭐

[@MD-gv1rl]

Yep, avoid comparing your life to others, avoid social media, avoid hanging around people who don't have a healthy money mindset, etc

[@NickBrown4Real]

Your Content Is GodLike! And your Segway videos are so seamless! this is my 5th Video in a row so far lol and they resonate so well. It feels like I'm watching my favorite Anime and excited about the next episode! lol. Amazing Content Brotha!

[@PracticalInvesting]

This is good, happy easter!

[@MattMathesonFamilyMoneySchool]

Great video! I would say though if you’re looking to money to prevent trouble and hardship you’re setting yourself up for deep disappointment. When people strive for contentment and peace with money, they find the truth that not only can money not buy those things, but the disappointment that comes from this realization leads to an even deeper level of stress and despair.

[@Stormchaserda18th]

I needed this

[@acabaconto]

THANK YOU.

[@dreamchaser5758]

Thanks for your vulnerability. Your videos have so much nuance. Reading the title, I assumed the video wouldn't resonate but I was quite wrong.

[@CoHawk73]

It’s one thing behind behind compared to some person on social media it’s another to be behind all your friends

[@mannuelahabtemariam6483]

Thank you for this video! I was able to hear it at a time I needed a message like this.

[@foodlover8151]

That was a great video Vincent! I had same experience as you. Having children changed my desire for luxury consumption to building a future for my kids.

[@VincentChan]

that's amazing, thank you for sharing. Wishing you and your children the best.

[@dac8939]

Social media is a major distraction. I had amazing time in college at a top Ivy before social media and smart phones. We lived in the moment. Now people are comparing and no focused.

[@xPrevailingGaming]

Great thoughts shared. I had an idea in college that I spent months prefecting but never took action (school work, military, and ofcourse not taking the risk/motivation). A few years later, I saw my exact idea come to life through someone else's business. I was never jealous but upset at myself for not taking the leap. I was excited to see someone take off with it though, and was able to become acquainted with them after reaching out about how they did it.

[@VincentChan]

That's amazing!! I absolutely love your perspective :) What was the idea?

[@balextaylor3119]

Quality brand lecture. Very profession economics lecture.

[@luckymacaroni2888]

Dude you are life changing and come off as one of the most down to earth people on KZbin. Keep up the honest and hard work! Your tips and videos have helped me tremendously in just a few months. Thank you for sharing your wealth of knowledge and personal experience. Thank you for motivating your audience and me to work towards personal financial liberty!

[@JonnyI964I]

Thanks Vincent!

[@ij9375]

Love your style of content

[@munawwarahabdaziz8595]

rasa sedih sangat dengar ni.. pernah ada perasaan yang sama. sekarang road to financially free.

[@Shining4cepodcast]

There have been times where I felt that way about you and your channel. Lol which is super funny and ironic because I wouldn’t do what you do and don’t do what you do. But I definitely appreciate what you do!

[@sharismad]

thank you vincent. i really needed this.

[@lesliedeanbrown8992]

Keep in mind that private jets cost A LOT of money. And so does a room full of supercars. I personally just want a minimalist life where I can travel maybe once or twice a year (economy would be absolutely fine).

[@ms.rivera7898]

Thanks for the video. I am currently off social media (except YT). I am working on myself in several ways, which includes upping my skills and knowledge, as well as creating a budget to save and pay off debt. I can only be better than my best self.

[@arthurladera5733]

The thing about me is that, i'm quite the opposite. Not that i am jealous of them owning a lambo, a private jet or a 8 mansions But for me, i'm jealous that they can get controll over their time and have freedom and no worries on buying or experiencing things. I am currently a Freshman in College and i thought i joined a program/course where i thought i belong too. I joined a program/course where i know i have passion and experience in and i where i know i was good at. But i cant help but feel that i think i dont belong in that school, its super overwhelming, the people and all the classes. Plus on the side note, our classess/subjects werent even related to the course i signed up on. It felt like i was wasting my time and my parents money for tuition. I can't help but think that i just want to skip to the parts that matter or i want to build several businesses so that i can get financial freedom and wont worry about my future. I'm an art major and i cant stress enough how overwhelmed and how confused i am on what path i should go to. On the other hand i want to dropout to focus on building businesses instead of wasting my time doing homeworks that doesnt really have any relevance or just for the sake of getting the "grade". I see myself as the type of person that doesnt want to be held down by society and doesnt want to be like the rest of the people. I have this hunger inside me where i think in the long run will come handy. But for now, i feel restraint on where i am in life. It feels liek i can do so much more but its like i cant. Factors like school and time management is such a big player and i've been trying my best to manage my time properly. Heck i dont even go to parties or drink outside. My social life is shit and i only talk to a handful of people but cant really express fully on what i feel. It feels like i'm all alone and i find that if i gained money or financial stability, i'll be free from facing problems that doesnt matter, maybe helping out people too or basically getting that freedom of time. I know i'm still young and i know i havent expreinced alot, but here me out. I just really feel like i am wasting my time and that i can do so much more, better things in my opinion. I dont like wasting time since i alwasy feel guilty about it. I want to be financially free to free myself from the worries of society and its standards. I want to let myself grow and not let myself limited from what society is telling me i am only capable of. I am tired and i am sorry for the rant, great video btw. Been financially jealous today as well i guess so thats why i have a bad mood but yea, its an everyday battle for me.

[@YeehawJakeTV]

This video was so well put together and truly aspiring! Thanks for giving me the motivation to push through today.

[@VincentChan]

thank you so much jake! Wishing you all the best

[@sung_yun]

This is a good one, Vincent.Thanks for sharing.

[@TexasAlabama]

This is SO me, I'll be 50 soon and I'm a single mother, I'm also having to start my own business bc no one can accommodate my schedule for my child. The most important thing for me is buying a house for me and my child.

[@V_TheSaint]

BRAVO VINCENT!!!!👏👏👏

[@Aamirphd]

Just came across your channel and have been watching a few videos and I am genuinely blown away As a fellow content creator I am incredible impressed by your Storytelling Cadence Editings Custom graphics Basically everything! The value you provide with the packaging you put together is remarkable, go you!

[@PeterPaulMasigan]

BEAUTIFUL. Thanks for this.

[@arnisantiago8133]

What are you using to edit your videos?

[@buklao]

This was me today. Did my net worth calculations and came up with 200k after 10 years of working. Shit is embarrassing because it shows that i was lazy to not get certifications and basically coasted in life after college. Now i am pissed and finally going to have to go for the certs i been avoiding for a long time.

[@Alessandro1983]

Great video.

[@mr_0n10n5]

The main reason I feel financially behind is because some members of my family say I don't support them financially. I am 22

[@BasedGym675]

I honestly didn't think that most people would want to bring others down.

[@brixbaes3442]

As an inspiring content creater as well. I agree with everything you've said Vincent. It's normal for us humans to feel insecure and ge jealous especially right now during the technology age. However, we should know how to fight this feelings. Like you've said, having what others have won't make you happy. I even forgot how much progress I make cause I was too busy looking things I don't have.

[@Simon-lh9oh]

personally when i see those clips or pictures of people flaunting their wealth, I pretty much never get jealous. The reason is i have crippling motion sickness, so when i see people going on trips my mind immediately goes to constant bouts of vomiting that i would need to go through to live that kind of lifestyle, just not worth it for me. And when people show videos of their amazing homes, i just think "damn, if i lived in that suburb i would need to be driven EVERYWHERE".

[@willchutech]

Hey Vincent, great content! but I noticed that the audio of your recent two videos is different from the previous ones. I think some of the lower frequency voice has been lifted up to a certain level by maybe AI machine maybe? so the intonation sounds plain and not quite natural. What do you think?

[@kristenquesada]

This is such a great video! Thanks for sharing 🎉

[@magcitrate]

Interesting. I’ve never had these thoughts. When I was young, and very poor, I always knew I would become a millionaire. So I was extremely poor, but never felt poor.

[@lesliedeanbrown8992]

Here's one rule that I've learned (from my dad, who is no longer with us): "Don't compare".

[@maxhatty]

Came across your channel tonight. Watched a few video's. There must not be a copyright on the Ray Kroc movie.

[@chrisadams27]

I have one approach to not care about other people's money. Just remember money doesn't mean anything in the grand scheme of life, plenty of people who are loaded commit suicide.

[@markjosephronquillo2696]

Great content Vincent 🎉 Thanks for sharing

[@gkim.]

best video you've made yet.

[@ReeseRingo]

This is fantastic.

[@BienvenidoMarquezBacsal]

Well said Vincent!

[@Tamara-gl5vk]

I agree with your video. However I want to add that I will have student loan debt and I will not be able to afford a house no matter what I do next. So its kind of defeats the point. I think in the future I just work to get by. I do not think I even want anything anymore. Things before the pandemic where still doable and realistic and that is just no longer the case. So for me its not really about the amount of money but more what it represents.

[@nk-gp1ml]

The wealth gap has been increasing dramatically over the past 20 years and is continuing to worsen. Available opportunities are diminishing as assets and all forms of wealth are accumulated by the top few percent. You can do your best, but it will become far harder to succeed if you are not from a wealthy background.

[@kawmenglishchannel]

Love this video ❤ thank you

[@RogueFinance]

Well said on such an important topic. Me vs me FTW 👊

[@Barsha_02]

I'm just gonna binge watch all of your videos...

[@69hehehe]

What advice would you give to aspiring entrepreneurs?

[@azizniazi4201]

I love your honestly and just reflect me with 36 years old and making 1700 Euro per month thx mate ❤

[@AlvinCwk]

Just compare yourself with someone worse than you and you will instantly feel better!

[@padmeasmr]

This hit home.

[@Rscapeextreme447]

I think my big dream is to start a family with a loving wife and have maybe 3 kids and have enough to give them a good start in life, I never had any siblings so I want to make a fairly big family.

[@Naturenerd1000]

Always hear people online and the radio making way more than you and then feel like a looser shortly after.

[@ewanfraser]

No never. This has never happened to me

[@Jason-wh7in]

Yeah that 15 year old probably came from wealth. Self made wealth usually don’t play around like that. Respect for the money is earned.

[@pradeepchethan3167]

As Bill Gates says "comparing yourself with others is nothing but insulting yourself "

[@vphilipnyc]

So overall, I like the content in the video, but we can take it further. You can hate it all you want, but money really makes your life easier. There are still numerous problems in your life that cannot be solved with more of it, but there are some problems where applying money to it makes complete sense. In the end, it seems like it's about allocating what you do have that will benefit you the most in whatever way you personally measure it. It's not about hoarding it because it has diminishing utility at the end of one's life. You can ask a 90 year old whether they'd want to work in a remote place for $500K or would really want a lambo or mansion and much of the time, they'd say no.

[@blacklyfe5543]

I don't even use instagram or any social media except youtube

[@Lucysil1970]

Most people have the same opportunity to be successfully. The ones who complain are just lazy.

[@handymandy20]

Everything is finite

[@BrokeAgain]

need for yourself plus for kids if ever.

[@Bdavis2475]

I don't look at people on social media. But i can't pay my student loans

[@GeneCAu]

Comparison is a never ending story. There will always be someone who is richer, unless you’re Elon 😂

[@crypto401]

If you’re bad at maths like me, yeah sure bro

[@silvertortoise3776]

On the rich. I worked at a 250 law firm. The attorneys are making Millions. I was struck by how stupid and entitled they were. One was amazed when I could plug in and setup a laptop……. It’s the 1920s again. Tax the rich