If You Have CPTSD, Use These Strategies To Speed Up The Healing Process

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Crappy Childhood Fairy

Crappy Childhood Fairy

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@dinner-at-the-diner
@dinner-at-the-diner Жыл бұрын
#1 00:49 Learn what CPTSD is. #2 1:22 Be willing to look at yourself and notice some of the issues that may have nothing to do with trauma. "Normal person problems" can be easier to solve. IE they are the low hanging fruit. #3 2:30 Prepare to move your stories about your trauma out of your looping-mind and into the "memory bucket." You will remember them but they won't trigger a physiological or neurological response. To do this, start to write about them, even just a little bit at a time. #4 3:52 Stop trying to make other people not trigger you. It's probably not possible anyway and the empowered approach is to learn to calm your own triggers. Then you become more perceptive and you develop "discernment:" IE is it just me or is this person a jerk?" When you can calm triggers and have more discernment you have more flexibility about where you can spend time. You will have better boundaries. #5 7:26 Stop trash talking the people you choose to have in your life. If you really want to heal stop using labels, and focus more on how you react/get troubled/get disregulated. Example: calling someone a narcissist. You don't have to keep them in your life, but focusing on yourself is your superpower. #6 9:04 Stop clinging to bad relationships that make you miserable. This doesn't mean you don't still attend to those relationships with obligations, duties, and financial complications. She means more like boyfriends and girlfriends who don't treat you well. #7 10:19 Don't stay in work that makes you miserable unless your life depends on it. If the paycheck is not the problem right now, ask yourself: "is being miserable at work the way I avoid facing responsibility for my life?" #8 12:20 Detatch from the belief that you passively or magically just attract bad people. Acknowledge that the issue is who *YOU* tolerate, date, sleep with... Work on your red flag detector. You are the gate keeper. IE "I attract mosquitoes but I don't marry them." #9 12:42 If you have addictive behaviors, make recovery your first priority. Alcohol, drugs, food, porn, spending etc. It's tempting to try to control or run away or seek oblivion. If you are using anything to escape life's ups and downs, you cannot recover from trauma. The path towards healing always involves facing what's going on. You need a means to handle what may come. That is true freedom. #10 15:41 Thought exercise: ask yourself "if I had to solve this problem what are 10 things I could do [in this case- to heal from cptsd]?
@pinchofsalt1
@pinchofsalt1 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your work and efforts in producing this list @MR
@Aralc
@Aralc Жыл бұрын
Real MVP
@akosth2275
@akosth2275 Жыл бұрын
Good solid stuff to DO with your own life! Thank you.
@dinner-at-the-diner
@dinner-at-the-diner Жыл бұрын
@@akosth2275 I'm intrigued by this comment because one refrain I hear in my head (from my critic) is "I don't DO anything."
@amber40494
@amber40494 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the list, great job too
@sarzanahasinzafar
@sarzanahasinzafar Жыл бұрын
Ever since I discovered Anna, I cannot go to sleep without spending at least 5-10 minutes watching her videos. And I truly mean every single night.
@sunshineonmyshouldersmakes8331
@sunshineonmyshouldersmakes8331 Жыл бұрын
So soothing
@hilaryquinlan837
@hilaryquinlan837 Жыл бұрын
Meeee tooo, soothing, insightful and funny, thank you Anna
@nennie2243
@nennie2243 Жыл бұрын
Me too!!
@storysong5096
@storysong5096 Жыл бұрын
ME TOO! every day I have to ground myself with her.
@renecampbell279
@renecampbell279 Жыл бұрын
❤same❤
@BC-gd8ij
@BC-gd8ij Жыл бұрын
She is the most thorough, in depth, and on point psychologist I have ever seen online. Therapy has never worked for me as none of them were ever onto all the stuff she is onto. Very intelligent.
@Bunny11344
@Bunny11344 11 ай бұрын
This is why I’m weary about therapy. Her videos are super helpful for so many who are suffering
@Dragonman-dp2ft
@Dragonman-dp2ft Жыл бұрын
I am so glad I found your channel. I am 42 years old and you have just given me the most hope I have had in years
@2rhythms
@2rhythms Жыл бұрын
Learning about the other person actually one of the thing that helps me most in gaining understanding of what’s happening.. although it’s not more important than understanding what going on inside of me. Both builds the story.
@alysonhorne9156
@alysonhorne9156 Жыл бұрын
Once you understand the storeybuou can also let it go
@bellastone-le9eb
@bellastone-le9eb Жыл бұрын
Truly this is helping change the world right now. I see so many people trying to heal from narcissistic abuse and trauma.
@mahiaggarwal6286
@mahiaggarwal6286 Жыл бұрын
On YT platform, your videos are the most useful for me until i die. I've got your channel today luckily and I'm gonna keep you subscribed for the rest of my life.
@phoenixrising33
@phoenixrising33 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your excellent videos. They are helping me. I am grateful. Your videos help me more than therapy ever did. You get it. Thank you for choosing and having the courage to stay alive. You're making a difference for so many people. Blessings 💕
@sherrilawrence662
@sherrilawrence662 Жыл бұрын
ABSOLUTELY OUTSTANDING VIDEO..THANK YOU 🙏🤗
@CrappyChildhoodFairy
@CrappyChildhoodFairy Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! -Cara@TeamFairy
@benicio1967
@benicio1967 Жыл бұрын
What do you do if you really don’t desire being around people? What concerns me is my lack of motivation to be around anyone....EVER. I’m just so tired of having to put forth the effort to socialize. It’s exhausting. I honestly don’t miss interactions at all and I am much happier and relieved being alone.
@suitedup2965
@suitedup2965 6 ай бұрын
Underneath all the brokenness, there is wholeness
@cisforcoach9329
@cisforcoach9329 Жыл бұрын
It's so wonderful to hear somebody who really understands what I've lived!
@amandajoyanderson
@amandajoyanderson Жыл бұрын
I am just so thankful to have found you. I found your video on limerance at the perfect time. I had an experience with someone it was a good one but i became so disregulated. I had to ground myself out and think this is a pattern I have and your video popped up on my page. Wow this is what I'm experiencing. I am in awe of your articulation and presentation for your videos this is similar to what I have tried to do with my channel. I really love what you are doing, it's inspiring, genuis, and holds so much value. Beautiful Job!!!❤
@creativemindsonja
@creativemindsonja Жыл бұрын
I discovered your videos few days ago, and very much possible I have complex ptsd trauma from childhood. Somehow I knew I need to reregulate myself in some way and in last 1 year my best way to reregulate myself is through painting and drawing. Even after 30 minutes of it I can be reregulated for next few hours. That is why I started my youtube channel about art. But I will try your advices as well. Thanks. Sonja
@mmmitchell6887
@mmmitchell6887 Жыл бұрын
“Low hanging fruit problems “ and “0ld memories bucket” are excellent visual tools immediately available for use in healing!! 🙏✌🏾 it’s been so bad I don’t wanna talk to anybody in my family anymore ever. Projection of my flaws as a disguise for their narcissism and ego.
@CrappyChildhoodFairy
@CrappyChildhoodFairy Жыл бұрын
We understand as few others can, you're in the right place. -Calista@TeamFairy
@Consuelo-gm6gk
@Consuelo-gm6gk Жыл бұрын
I HAVE TO DO THIS MY HEALING DEPENDS ON IT...ANNA I HIGHLY RESPECT YOU AND GIVE THANKS YOU'RE HERE FOR US 🙏💛💜
@SilasCochran-zq5de
@SilasCochran-zq5de Жыл бұрын
Hi Anna it's been awhile I could have used this a couple of days ago I got dysregulated and took apart every relationship I had built this video helped me in that I recognize I need to put away the things I go to to relieve my pain and I've grown comfortable there
@CrappyChildhoodFairy
@CrappyChildhoodFairy Жыл бұрын
If you haven't tried this free course yet, now is the time :) bit.ly/CCF_DailyPractice -Cara@TeamFairy
@Jen.K
@Jen.K Жыл бұрын
I need help with one of those situations which was put to the side. How do you deal with taking care of toxic, dysfunctional aging parents when they are still behaving badly and triggering all the old childhood wounds of shame, anxiety, abandonment, guilt, dependency and helplessness. This really sucks, they stole my childhood and potential to have a happy life and now when I'm trying to heal, I'm expected to give that up and jump right back into the fire which burned me in the first place. There is no one else who is going to take care of them. The irony is, they abandoned their own aging parents by moving across the world and yet they expect their own children to stay around for them, which we are in spite of it being harmful to our own health.
@CrappyChildhoodFairy
@CrappyChildhoodFairy Жыл бұрын
I will pass your question along to Anna, but if you want her feedback on your particular situation I would encourage you to write in a letter to her. Here is a link if you're interested: bit.ly/CCF_Letters -Calista@TeamFairy
@hummingbird275
@hummingbird275 Жыл бұрын
The Bible says to “ honor our mother and father “, But, it does not say to become a “ whipping post, or a door mat” Just sayin.
@DJTheBlondeSpirit
@DJTheBlondeSpirit Жыл бұрын
This is so good and helpful shared with my community
@mustangjane77
@mustangjane77 Жыл бұрын
Somatic Experiencing and EMDR are very effective for C-PTSD. SE regulates the nervous system, increases vagal tone, and teaches how to get trauma out of the body. Somatic Experiencing is a distinctly body-centered approach to healing. EMDR is a 3-pronged approach. It involves processing details of the past events that set the groundwork for the disturbance, processing the current situations that trigger distress, and processing and installing in the brain what is needed for the future (future template / future rehearsal).
@Jen-b-real
@Jen-b-real 4 күн бұрын
Anna thank God for people like you.I would not have the patient to deal with someone so delusional ❤
@noamiko3
@noamiko3 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for all the videos you are making for us,you are God's love and gift.
@מלי-ש4ג
@מלי-ש4ג Жыл бұрын
Fantasic . I love your way of thinking .
@francesbeth2077
@francesbeth2077 Жыл бұрын
I have learned to be joyful living through others lives. Seeing them happy and healtby, makes me happy. 🎉🎉🎉
@olganan3023
@olganan3023 Жыл бұрын
Such wonderful, healing words. I am so thankful for you sharing them 🙏❤️
@CrappyChildhoodFairy
@CrappyChildhoodFairy Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy to hear that! Thank you for sharing these kind words :) -Calista@TeamFairy
@SallyRocketMoonChild
@SallyRocketMoonChild Жыл бұрын
I too was tickle tortured to the point I’d be in tears afterwards and still he continued to do it, my father…. Who was more often not even a fun person, this however, was apparently “fun” for him. 🤦‍♀️ yep! Crappy childhood memory
@parkerbolt4233
@parkerbolt4233 Жыл бұрын
Not everyone has a positive side. You had a lot of positive
@laurashehadi7614
@laurashehadi7614 Жыл бұрын
As I looked through the comments, I was wondering how to live with the fact that both of my parents were abusers, Mother was the narcacist and my father appeared to have Stokholm Syndrome. I never had any other adult take an interest in me. Those mitigating forces just weren't there. I feel worse than ever at 58 and have become a recluse. I'm constantly triggered. Tough cases like mine don't seem to have solutions.
@Tiffany_3x
@Tiffany_3x Жыл бұрын
​@@laurashehadi7614Have you tried Jesus Christ?? 🙏🏾✝️ 🕊️🔥
@SailorGreenTea
@SailorGreenTea Жыл бұрын
4:14, joey does this. I can not sing nor whistle for a moment. But joey has no problem when Scott whistles.
@HaleyZimmer
@HaleyZimmer 6 ай бұрын
Thanks for everything Anna 🖤 you are a light in the dark place of healing and I notice HUGE changes in myself since starting your videos you always bring me down the earth, I also really love Tim fletcher do you watch him too ?
@Sig.Angelina9765
@Sig.Angelina9765 Жыл бұрын
Wow. How can you be so eloquent and organized with this information , your thoughts. Did you write everything down over the years ? I'd like to have my stuff so clear. What 's the one thing I could do ?
@CrappyChildhoodFairy
@CrappyChildhoodFairy Жыл бұрын
Try my free course, the Daily Practice. It's linked in the description section under all my videos.
@easiersaidwithmeg
@easiersaidwithmeg Жыл бұрын
I called to meet with my mental health doctor same day appointment
@SailorGreenTea
@SailorGreenTea Жыл бұрын
13:31, I like this analogy
@CianneDoodles
@CianneDoodles Жыл бұрын
I’m really thinking of doing your main program, but because I’m on disability, it will involve me using money for food to start to heal. Right now I’m not functioning. I wake up and feel stuck and lost. I barely go out, have no routine..one true friend.. Guess I’m just wondering if you believe this program would help me. I’m used to not eating much. I’m at a breaking point. Thanks for reading and hopefully responding! I truly need to heal.
@CrappyChildhoodFairy
@CrappyChildhoodFairy Жыл бұрын
Try the free program first and that will help you determine if it helps you. If you like it, you can then talk to my team about next steps. The Daily Practice: bit.ly/3X1BrE0
@CianneDoodles
@CianneDoodles Жыл бұрын
@@CrappyChildhoodFairy thank you so very much for responding. Tears are welling up and that’s ok. I truly appreciate all you do! 💜
@dominiquerousseau1982
@dominiquerousseau1982 9 ай бұрын
Yes! This video, listening on repeat. So resonating with this!
@aliceb.toklas3585
@aliceb.toklas3585 Жыл бұрын
Hi! I can't hear the chainsaw.
@easiersaidwithmeg
@easiersaidwithmeg Жыл бұрын
Whoa 6 minutes in I see it’s a 2 hour video yes 🎉
@itscoolerthatway
@itscoolerthatway Жыл бұрын
Not much is spoken about when someone is disabled with complex trauma and is bound to their abusers ...
@TheLordsbattleaxe
@TheLordsbattleaxe Жыл бұрын
I do have cptsd and I tried everything.
@theresarezac7502
@theresarezac7502 Жыл бұрын
24:04 This is so accurate.
@regitzevictoria8959
@regitzevictoria8959 Жыл бұрын
When it comes to work, just by the thought of it, I get crazily triggered. So my brain instantly moves away from the subject. Avoids pain. I have tried many times to journal, talk about it, analyze past events (my mother never wanted me ro have any kind of succes or financail succes). But I guess it is more complicated than that. With your videos I have more hope, I hear that you really want to bypass our avoidance patterns and thanks for that intensity/intention.
@CrappyChildhoodFairy
@CrappyChildhoodFairy Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment. You might find the Daily Practice helpful. bit.ly/CCF_DailyPractice Julie@TeamFairy
@TheLordsbattleaxe
@TheLordsbattleaxe Жыл бұрын
I always have a choice
@yellowmoon4564
@yellowmoon4564 Жыл бұрын
OMG!! i have always have depressions and i cant function without my antidepressive medications!
@TheLordsbattleaxe
@TheLordsbattleaxe Жыл бұрын
I do want that. The positive.
@louisecoleman7767
@louisecoleman7767 Жыл бұрын
Love the new hair style..
@Hammondchris
@Hammondchris 5 ай бұрын
I love you Anna!!!!😊❤🎉
@esther.f.g
@esther.f.g Жыл бұрын
waou, so many trues in this videos, sometimes we don't want to accept things as they are, we need to listen to the truth as is it
@theasianwitch
@theasianwitch Жыл бұрын
These tips are incredibly helpful Anna! However, it's not true that C-PTSD hasn't been known about until recently. Bessel Van Der Kolk, Julia Herman, and others proposed that this diagnosis be added to the DSM in 1994 (when I was 4 years old) but it was turned down by the DSM committee due to corruption. Pharmaceutical and insurance company representatives are sitting on these committees, which is obviously a huge conflict of interest, so the problem is bigger than this. Money in politics, capitalism, and colonization are the problem.
@breal7277
@breal7277 Жыл бұрын
Great stuff! Thank you! I just wish there was less unnecessary verbiage for those of us pressed for time. "Just get to the point" is my motto because I am impatient (due to my CPTSD, I'm certain).
@cathyjennings5580
@cathyjennings5580 Жыл бұрын
Defense upsetting things people say. They HURT : INSULTED undermined, bullied, causes a Defensive. Breadcrumbing exploitive COLD hearted arrogant minded all ages . Where is the trustworthy tender-hearted kind loving SUPPORTIVE PEOPLE That Can be a Supportive FRIENDS????
@couture1004
@couture1004 Ай бұрын
thank you for pointing out the lack of discernment in cptsd 🙏🏻 i cam totally relate
@bibonivine
@bibonivine Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@CrappyChildhoodFairy
@CrappyChildhoodFairy Жыл бұрын
You are most welcome :) -Calista@TeamFairy
@tallartist
@tallartist Ай бұрын
It's not easy to bring yourself down when triggered
@kittttcattt
@kittttcattt Жыл бұрын
What do you do if a big trigger is your young adult child?
@CrappyChildhoodFairy
@CrappyChildhoodFairy Жыл бұрын
Same thing as all triggers you want to be free of: learn to calm them.
@barbarad6634
@barbarad6634 Жыл бұрын
You’re a GODSENT ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏
@pg618
@pg618 Жыл бұрын
I have heard you read many stories that do not compare to the complexity and the unusual and strange life that I've had. but I know that sounds self-centered and egotistical. But how could I send a summary of my life?
@jessicarvalho13
@jessicarvalho13 Жыл бұрын
In the description of the video there is a link to send letters to her.
@CrappyChildhoodFairy
@CrappyChildhoodFairy Жыл бұрын
Click here for info on sending letters :) bit.ly/CCF_Letters -Cara@TeamFairy
@celesteinman56
@celesteinman56 Жыл бұрын
I am more then willing to let people in but they never seem to be available or it's not long lasting. I have tried and tried over my now 62 years. Bla bla. Working on it still just not as vigorously. Work and just home stuff I do get tired and tired of reaching out. Just saying I now want others to reach out to me.
@wrightdavid5737
@wrightdavid5737 Жыл бұрын
Thankyou Anna. How do I get your healing course on CPTSD?
@CrappyChildhoodFairy
@CrappyChildhoodFairy Жыл бұрын
Here is the link :) bit.ly/CCF_HCPTSD -Cara@TeamFairy
@babettethompson3820
@babettethompson3820 Жыл бұрын
What if I can't feel anything anymore? I have no idea where to start and no one cares about me anyway.
@daisyviluck7932
@daisyviluck7932 Жыл бұрын
FWIW, of im so numbed out I can’t move, I take a walk. It sort of shakes my mind loose. But mostly I waned you to feel heard. Will remember you in my prayers 🙏🏻 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️🕊
@laurasmith4783
@laurasmith4783 3 ай бұрын
13:55 👍
@Fullspeed18
@Fullspeed18 10 ай бұрын
I have no money, Anna. With the money I would do a lot of things
@Ann-pn9or
@Ann-pn9or Жыл бұрын
people, it's called COUNTING YOUR BLESSINGS!! If you made it to now, you SUCCEEDED!! Praise JESUS!
@kristinmyhr
@kristinmyhr Жыл бұрын
I really just want to put an end to it all…
@marcelamariaetchebeherebow2654
@marcelamariaetchebeherebow2654 Жыл бұрын
Hold on! There is hope to grow and learn❤
@TheLordsbattleaxe
@TheLordsbattleaxe Жыл бұрын
No one gets perfectly healed.
@HOAsSUCK
@HOAsSUCK Жыл бұрын
So truly Grateful. God Bless you !! ❤️
@SailorGreenTea
@SailorGreenTea Жыл бұрын
3:50, what'd you call me?
@CrappyChildhoodFairy
@CrappyChildhoodFairy Жыл бұрын
LOL- it feels so personal doesn't it? -Cara@TeamFairy
@themaggattack
@themaggattack Жыл бұрын
Anna offers the most practical guidance out there. I'm endlessly grateful for her videos.
@michellebucci3748
@michellebucci3748 Жыл бұрын
I don’t need to pay 500 a month for therapy anymore. She has made more sense in this one video than all the talking with the therepist
@Psalm_27.4
@Psalm_27.4 4 ай бұрын
@michellebucci3748 Wow! That’s rather amazing!
@Verena101
@Verena101 2 ай бұрын
Well yes. But I also would say it depends on the therapist and the used methode. Trauma, -art,-or Bodytrauma-therapies are good. But there are not so many out there or not payed by injurances. Even sometimes not from private ones. Strange though. Because all therapies where the body is involved and creativity etc., helps more than the only Blabla-therapy.
@ExtraPencil2
@ExtraPencil2 Жыл бұрын
I've done a lot of therapy over the years, tried antidepressants and even medically monitored ketamine (which pulled me out of a near catatonic depression). But I'm still much the same. Listening to you, I felt a light of hope turn. I'm in. Thank you! ❤
@CrappyChildhoodFairy
@CrappyChildhoodFairy Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad the video was helpful! You're in the right place and we're all rooting for you :) -Calista@TeamFairy
@RK-qk7ow
@RK-qk7ow Жыл бұрын
Have you heard of Dr Joe Dispenza's work? It might help change your state of being. Blessings ✨
@Zen-cx5tc
@Zen-cx5tc Жыл бұрын
🤗🤗
@rociomartinez8666
@rociomartinez8666 10 ай бұрын
Honestly nothing worked for me just low contact and a very very slow boring life, writing, and surrounding myself with people I wish my parents had been
@ragga7862
@ragga7862 Жыл бұрын
I got a better apartment, better paycheck, a little better clothes. My equivalent to staying in bad jobs, is a messy house. I have started decluttering and got a tremendous back pain. I understand that this pain is related to me starting to declutter. Because if I get rid of the clutter, then my excuse for not inviting friends home is gone, and I have to take accountability for my social life 😳 I am afraid, but I am sooo sick and tired of being sick and tired, I have to do this
@randallcauley9484
@randallcauley9484 7 ай бұрын
relate. hard. also, find that when i begin to make headway and connection and small forays into interpersonal intimacy (not dating), i get nervous, uncertain, shut down after ... difficult to maintain friendships in current state.
@bethwithers4798
@bethwithers4798 Жыл бұрын
You have helped me more than medical professionals. It feels so good to be believed and understood. Thanks Fairy.
@withyoctopus
@withyoctopus Жыл бұрын
52:30 CPTSD throws off brain chemistry, attention, hormones, immune system... every system in your body. And I'm here, telling my doctor's there HAS TO BE some kind of root of all of my problems. But they gaslight me and said: You're just unlucky. I was unlucky alright. But in a different way than they think.
@alysonhorne9156
@alysonhorne9156 Жыл бұрын
As a health care practitioner it is so frustrating to see my clients going to drs psychologist psychiatrist all ignoring the fact that the trauma from childhood has impacted the biochemistry in the body leading to drug addiction leading to more biochemical imbalances Without any hope of recovery !! I CAN NOT ACCEPT THAT !! It’s why I’m on my mission of love to combine what I know to heal body mind soul ALL HAS to be addressed !! Including epigenetics from our previous generations ! It can be done there are safe effective fast techniques to help dissolve the core of cptsd without reliving the pain of the trauma like most therapies ! No wonder they don’t work .. long term.. they keep you in the problem of pain! Renewing the subconscious! How about changing our subconscious ., from our own wisdom not some therapist telling us what snd how we should think?!? Real ability to develop subconscious emotional intelligence !! ❤ through the ups downs! Never being STUCK again!! But healing from the heart!!
@RoadRunnergarage8570
@RoadRunnergarage8570 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for all the work you do . 52 years old and still trying to figure out what works for me...
@madeleinemcbride7332
@madeleinemcbride7332 Жыл бұрын
@Gran_555
@Gran_555 Жыл бұрын
Same here. I am 71. So age is not an issue dear. Courage 💪 is. ❤
@patriciavollmann5414
@patriciavollmann5414 Жыл бұрын
I also listen to her every night, I also love her soft voice. She is a soft speaker, and never raises her voice. Not only great material, but soothing to listen to. ❤
@memoi80
@memoi80 Жыл бұрын
Because of your daily practice I ve converted to God after 20 years.
@andreaarias2085
@andreaarias2085 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the daily practice! I am 73, survivor of abuse. I have been doing the daily practice for two days! Sincerely grateful! Thanks!
@CrappyChildhoodFairy
@CrappyChildhoodFairy Жыл бұрын
That's so wonderful, I'm glad it's helping you! -Cara@TeamFairy
@Tichaba124
@Tichaba124 Жыл бұрын
So glad for you! I’m 72, good to know it’s not too late!
@rosierb852
@rosierb852 Жыл бұрын
I’m so lucky that I have a psychologist that specialises in Trauma and mainly CPTSD. We are starting EMDR therapy. I always leave my session feeling validated and understood. She has vowed to help me overcome all of this and has even offered me a few free sessions. My birthday was in and May and she got me a small cake with a candle because she knows I have no one in my life. I got so lucky
@randallcauley9484
@randallcauley9484 7 ай бұрын
love this. thank you
@taniamans2026
@taniamans2026 Жыл бұрын
lol😂 you attract mosquitos... but you dont marry them.😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 lol thats so funny
@CrappyChildhoodFairy
@CrappyChildhoodFairy Жыл бұрын
That one's a classic! -Cara@TeamFairy
@sophiaaltomare1649
@sophiaaltomare1649 Жыл бұрын
I have ADHD and autism. Being on time and cleaning the kitchen are NOT low-hanging fruit for me!! They’re at the top of the tree. Ha. 🤦🏻‍♀️
@kellybethmcmahon9761
@kellybethmcmahon9761 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Anna for videos that change lives. CPTSD is such a giant in our lives. You break it down in small ways that help daily. You are AWESOME❤️
@CedrickBagley
@CedrickBagley Жыл бұрын
I'm a Trucker, so I have no choice but to be alone 98% of the time. I've always had social anxiety, but 18yrs of trucking has given me a bad case of it. How do I improve connections with people?
@CrappyChildhoodFairy
@CrappyChildhoodFairy Жыл бұрын
You may want to check out my Connection Bootcamp. It's just for people who are working on forming better relationships all around: bit.ly/CCF_Connection
@ginagersonyamagatachoquett2179
@ginagersonyamagatachoquett2179 Жыл бұрын
Thank you sooooo much! Your compassion and kindness in teaching all of this is wonderful!! The MOST helpful thing I've EVER HEARD OR READ!!
@Kaykay-jh1zu
@Kaykay-jh1zu Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the work that you do ❤ I'm 26 years old and have struggled for years with CPTSD. It has impacted all areas of my life.
@emilyc4351
@emilyc4351 Жыл бұрын
Wishing the best for you. CPTSD has been a total life stopper for me, I'm a few years older than you. Let's turn this around.
@Kaykay-jh1zu
@Kaykay-jh1zu Жыл бұрын
@@emilyc4351 thank you so much dear. Wishing you healing as well. We are all in the same boat ❤❤❤❤
@emilyc4351
@emilyc4351 Жыл бұрын
@@Kaykay-jh1zu I truly believe we can do it, if we stay focused and are brave. Take care 🙂
@raiontheone
@raiontheone Жыл бұрын
Me too,26...now re parenting my self, building my life from scratch.
@emilyc4351
@emilyc4351 Жыл бұрын
@@raiontheone we're all here with you, remind yourself every day you're not the only one going through this even if you can't see it in the people around you
@evolutionbe7150
@evolutionbe7150 Жыл бұрын
1:07:12 hard to believe it's possible. Your vids are so informational, thank you so much. Crazy how spot on everything is.
@CB19087
@CB19087 Жыл бұрын
I was told by a mental health nurse 3 years ago that there was no such thing as cptsd, even though it was recognised by the NHS. It's going to take years for health care systems to recognise this fully. You describe my life to a T and for the 1st time ever I feel understood. I am quite a way into my own recovery, following various paths, but it's dysregulation and discernment I have been stuck with which is was brought me to you. I've been doing the daily reflections. They've been really helpful and I'm sleeping properly again 🙏 I also realise that my mother projected this onto me, and I feel more compassion for her than I ever did before. But with a weary distance, I'm not falling for that again! Thank you for everything you have done so far 🙏
@marcolalotawil
@marcolalotawil Жыл бұрын
You speak with such compassion---you're like the kind but effective mum I needed growing up.
@emilyc4351
@emilyc4351 Жыл бұрын
How do I sign up for the daily zoom calls, Anna? I'm a 29 year old woman who just learned I have CPTSD in the past few months and am facing the possibility of a divorce from my husband who I highly suspect has Asperger's syndrome. All the 11 years I've been with him I took him not reacting in a way I consider to be emotionally normal as a personal rejection and my abandonment fears were triggered a lot. To say I have fear and resentment right now is the understatement of the century. I am terrified. Please let me know how to sign up, thank you so much.
@aannwwsalam
@aannwwsalam Жыл бұрын
She's provided several links to her website in the description. Wishing you well and strength on your new journey to healing 💪🏼💝
@emilyc4351
@emilyc4351 Жыл бұрын
@@aannwwsalam thank you ♥️
@gorunsko31
@gorunsko31 Жыл бұрын
Living with someone who has Asperger ( not available emotionally and extremely preoccupied with his own needs, anxious and angry ) is very difficult. Please be gentle with yourself. I know what is like… ❤
@emilyc4351
@emilyc4351 Жыл бұрын
@@gorunsko31 thank you so much for your note. It comforted me right now. I'm sorry you've been through similar, I wouldn't wish it on anyone
@CrappyChildhoodFairy
@CrappyChildhoodFairy Жыл бұрын
Start with the Daily Practice free course, that will get you invited calls that Anna hosts. bit.ly/CCF_DailyPractice For daily Daily Practice calls, consider membership :) -Cara@TeamFairy
@angelasmith3332
@angelasmith3332 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for yet another fantastic video.
@ericy1005
@ericy1005 Жыл бұрын
I'm really grateful I found this channel. She has a real handle on all of this. I'm learning a lot from these videos.
@CrappyChildhoodFairy
@CrappyChildhoodFairy Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you found us! -Cara@TeamFairy
@Portia620
@Portia620 Жыл бұрын
I’m a psychology major and I’ve been the therapist nine honestly tell you what you do for yourself in your own drive to get better is going to help you more than anything!!!! this is very good information
@rachelcharris
@rachelcharris Жыл бұрын
I'm only halfway through this and quite new to the channel but this is epic thank you❤
@jillianboone-gonzales3859
@jillianboone-gonzales3859 Жыл бұрын
Wow. The statement your making about the 2nd group at around 1:03:21 is SO profound for me. I’m definitely this group but am growing weary of being at this stage and hopeful to move into the group focused on my own AGENCY❤
@CrappyChildhoodFairy
@CrappyChildhoodFairy Жыл бұрын
You can do it! Start here: bit.ly/CCF_DailyPractice -Cara@TeamFairy
@Tichaba124
@Tichaba124 Жыл бұрын
So happy I found you! I am so glad you discussed therapy! I would drive there fairly happy and come out a disaster! In retrospect, I think she was more challenged than me. I knew all her issues by first month. But since our psychiatrist recommended her, who she was seeing for her problems, told us to go there, my daughter and I went.
@neil6374
@neil6374 Жыл бұрын
this could not have come at a better time. thank you Anna
@juliaruth9824
@juliaruth9824 Жыл бұрын
So grateful for your work and your healing. I feel encouraged and excited about this new way to look at trauma. Thank you for your work.
@juditkiss8280
@juditkiss8280 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Anna for your work and efforts to help people. There aren't enough words to express how grateful I am. I now truly have hope for a better life. Please don't ever believe people who are against you. Nobody talks about stuff you mention, although they are so true (like e.g. how hurrying is a trigger too - a main one for me). Not even at the therapist chair it is talked about. Finally I feel heard and seen. And the tools offered are tremendously helpful. It doesn't matter you are not a qualified therapist. Your experience and coping skills do matter and offer great help to others, which is not written in psychology textbooks. I cannot thank you enough Anna. You are a gift from God.
@Bunny11344
@Bunny11344 11 ай бұрын
Yeah honestly watching her videos have helped sooo much as someone who suffers from severe anxiety and just learning about cptsd. Her videos actually help.
@taniamans2026
@taniamans2026 Жыл бұрын
You are such a beautiful person... 💐
@davidmarrow3302
@davidmarrow3302 Жыл бұрын
I love you but love bombs aren't good what I mean is thankyou
@carolinabu7412
@carolinabu7412 Жыл бұрын
Ugh, so helpful. Thank you for doing what you do. It saves a lot of wasting time with useless therapists who never even mention your past😢
@mostafasoliman6745
@mostafasoliman6745 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, that has happened with me..
@advocateforsuccess7707
@advocateforsuccess7707 Жыл бұрын
My male friend divulged that he was abused by a cousin when he was a child...I gave him your info and told him how amazing this past month has been for me learning about cptsd.
@dkdawe1
@dkdawe1 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Anna, this is very valuable and lots of suggestions and information.
@SailorGreenTea
@SailorGreenTea Жыл бұрын
28:24, what other choice than isolation is there in a society of narcissists?
@hazizeljucovic4956
@hazizeljucovic4956 Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy I came across this video...thank you so much for sharing!!! God bless you ❤️
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