Losing it at 14 is crazy I'm 15 and haven't had a hug from a girl but my Granny says I'm handsome so that's all that matters.
@cherryinc.6 ай бұрын
Same bro. keep improving!
@ohyeahjuice6 ай бұрын
Honestly I wouldnt think abt havin sex till im like 16 or older. Im 15 rn and i feel like im too young to have sex
@liamcomix6 ай бұрын
real tho
@ÁlmosGrosics6 ай бұрын
Yea
@Spectrulight6 ай бұрын
@@ohyeahjuice21 and after marriage is the best choice.
@WorryWert6 ай бұрын
Current: 17 still have V-Card will edit this when I have lost it. Like so I can come back to it.
@arcaakvira-jb4zp6 ай бұрын
is that igris??????/
@laydenyump36196 ай бұрын
Let’s go bro, we staying strong 😎
@prettygirljj6 ай бұрын
staying strong bud
@MaVerik17276 ай бұрын
You can do it
@ruzzianbot6 ай бұрын
its over
@raekonxiler87135 ай бұрын
if a man’s virginity defines his success, then the society we lived has failed
@purpleplanet8885 ай бұрын
exactly
@Ho-oh.Builder5 ай бұрын
yes i say so
@Nour-cg7hp4 ай бұрын
The same goes for a woman's virginity defining her status and worth.
@Fede_Riccahh4 ай бұрын
@@Nour-cg7hp society sees men who have a high body count as heroes, a woman cant even have more than one because she automatically becomes a wh0re to them. the double standards are crazy
@inzanity72124 ай бұрын
Does that make it right to throw it away like a paper plane and expect it to land in the throwing hand again?
@Keriis2x4 ай бұрын
I’m 16 and still a V-card girl I’m proud of myself and I’m gonna stay this way!! 😊
@AkshatSatya4 ай бұрын
do you watch anime and stuff?
@Keriis2x4 ай бұрын
@user-qq4wc1vu5l yes but I also know how to keep my legs closed 😁
@_Thalia_Jay_4 ай бұрын
Yessss please do! ❤
@AHO7I23993 ай бұрын
Good, save it for someone that matters
@Keriis2x3 ай бұрын
@@AkshatSatya yes
@moichi98016 ай бұрын
I‘m going to be 18 this year, never held hands with someone, never had my first kiss, at this point it’s not about s3x anymore, I just really want someone to love, but I do fear that it‘ll never come.
@hugedickelliot6 ай бұрын
its over for u bro 😭
@kostenko32156 ай бұрын
@@hugedickelliotbruh he’s 18 not 30 😭crazy
@eveoflyn41165 ай бұрын
Love always comes full circle. So just keep loving, and soon you'll be loved.
@4isbestnumber5 ай бұрын
why is this so real
@FallenAshes-MinecraftYoutuber5 ай бұрын
It'll come someday as long your a good person, but also don't constantly think about it. I just told myself that if someone liked me, they can ask me. If they do, then they have courage, which is good. Also don't pressure yourself about it, just let it come slowly and keep doing the things you love in the meantime. Don't let constantly hoping for someone ruin your life like it almost did with mine.
@yeanogaming11934 ай бұрын
I turn 19 tomorrow still a virgin. People got to realize its normal to not have sex. Im not saving myself ror marriage. I'm m saving myself for that one special someone. Because i want to be special. So anyone who is younger or older than me you're doing fine just give it time and once you find that special someone then go do it
@Maanta3604 ай бұрын
Hey, I just turned 20 and lost it with my new girlfriend anbd it's been 2 months now, anybody reading this should know that the right time will come, with the right person. And it's even better, both mature, both know what they're doing, and at the end of the day it's not all about that one single first time but rather about having a nice sex life, so go out there, find that person and be ready to share that moment with someone who will be there to make you feel special. At 19 I thought I'd never lose it, for real, it's complicated to convince yourself of the contrary.
@jellynnrat54 ай бұрын
I rly wish I saved myself for the right person, honestly, part of me believes that SA can count as losing virginity, meaning I believe I’ve only been one for two years, Idek how to feel abt it anymore, I was disappointed in myself because last year when I was 13 I snuck out for my partner, and I didn’t even truly love him, I was just hurting and I wanted it to all go away. Then a couple months ago I thought I’d finally found someone who I rly loved and who rly loved me, and after cuddling and just spending a lot of time together, he wanted to stop being a virgin himself, I already wanted to wait until I was older but I just thought “Fuck it, I’ve already done it who cares anymore” and now I wish we hadn’t. Then again there’s still a side of me kinda glad I did, because it made me realize that my father already fucked my life up by traumatizing me while also causing me to have hypersexuality, now I at least know why I felt like I wanted to-
@ToryAfornorpe-w7e4 ай бұрын
I’m 18 and still haven’t lost it either. It’s a part of me and I’m not ready to lose it yet
@anitordmyt4 ай бұрын
@@jellynnrat5that's a sad thing tbh, it's really something I struggle with in my head. Like I wonder about my girlfriend and sometimes what I should agree to let myself do, and I always debate in my mind that maybe she's the right one, but the fact of me being so young and ignorant and stupid (I'm 16) makes me want to ignore that possibility and I just struggle ig. I can't imagine how you must be at 13 having already made the choice, just know that you don't have to keep giving yourself away, it's still a decision every time. I hope this helps. I'm probably not one to give advice on this or anything.
@jellynnrat54 ай бұрын
@anitordmyt even if you don't feel like you are one to give any, I do appreciate your advice. I've already decided to try to stay away from any sort of 'romantic' relationship until I've got a job, preferably a stable life, I don't wanna let somebody I care for hold me back from going to college and getting where I want to be. :|
@Billy-vr1236 ай бұрын
Losing v card at 14 is crazy 💀
@TheSmallestLittleBilly6 ай бұрын
and now its considered a normal age… hi there other billy And no, I don't think this should be normalized
@Billy-vr1236 ай бұрын
@@TheSmallestLittleBilly 14 IS NORMAL NO WAY Hi billy
@TheSmallestLittleBilly6 ай бұрын
@@Billy-vr123 yeah… one of my friends lost it when he was 10… Anyway, I’m turning 14 this June
@Billy-vr1236 ай бұрын
@@lidhj AYOOO
@JakPiggott6 ай бұрын
It’s normal now bro, I’d say anything under 12 is considered crazy nowadays…
@teaganwoodall935Ай бұрын
i’m 18 and still haven’t lost it, not in a rush, focusing on me, making money, making a living. i’ll find the right individual at some point, when the times right :)
@Batman67669Ай бұрын
I lost mine a couple months ago and I’m 17. I honestly haven’t really changed. And if you do, don’t brag about it, it’s nothing to brag about. Take your time and find that special person. Stay strong brother
@Moru-Likes-To-Sport6 ай бұрын
Why is there people having s3x at the age of 14? That's horrible. When I was is 7th grade there was a rumor of two kids having s3x, now I maybe can believe it was true. This generation makes me feel sad. Edit: this might seem wierd but thank y’all for getting this comment so high up ❤
@Neonyikira6 ай бұрын
It makes me feel hopeless about this generation aswell, but hey, it's their lives.
@e_Entropy6 ай бұрын
this generation is f*cked up man thats hard to believe but it is what it is
@armanleroux57256 ай бұрын
it happened ages ago, don't bring generation into this
@GamingWithJas-ff4yf6 ай бұрын
No that cannot be true, I'm 14 and nobody in my class has ever done such a thing. Or is it just me because I'm not that kind of guy? But I don't believe anyone this young can do such a thing, why do you lose hope I our gen, not everybody in the generation is the same. But I swear nobody in my class seems like the type of people who would do that, it could be because im surrounded by other too set classmates, but I don't believe anyone as innocent as my age could do such disgusting actions. Also if it was your generation then why do you look down upon mine, I don't believe anyone could do such disgusting things at my age. I've never even had the thought, the only time I've even had a thought about it has always been like this since I was very young, when i have kids as an adult. You ought to be lying and I don't find it ethical that people so young could do such a thing, I just wont believe it.
@PNW_Vibez6 ай бұрын
@@GamingWithJas-ff4yfSame here. Literally I’m one of the only people in an 8th grade relationship😅
@saints-hc4ef6 ай бұрын
Female virgin here, a man’s virginity is the most important thing to me. I want a man who values himself enough to save himself for me. Just as much as a man would want an untouched woman I want the same. When you hold yourself to the same standards you want in someone you will get that. Don’t ever be insecure about your virginity because you will get a much more authentic person for saving it in the long run. These people pressuring you to lose your card are the ones who end up in a toxic relationship with low value people.
@askyazalfa6 ай бұрын
As a female virgin too with environment that value "V-card", couldn't be more agree with your statement
@vulblhotdiessfi6 ай бұрын
someone's jealous 😂 She's a high value woman and she knows it, you're just embarrassing yourself@@pedroiank
@timeme0856 ай бұрын
@@pedroiankyou aren't either bro, dunno why you're bringing hate to this very wholesome comment section
@-._.-What-Is-Up-._.-6 ай бұрын
@F.I.N.A.L.I.T.Y.Same here in India 😁
@-._.-What-Is-Up-._.-6 ай бұрын
Tho there is no way u can check a guy's v card physically ( Most Times ) 💀
@YRS_Only6 ай бұрын
This dude is out here fixing lives. I love this dude Edit: Holy moly, thanks for 1k guys this is my first time achieving this!🥳
@rhysly6 ай бұрын
hes a real one 🫡
@Tahirkd6-3.76 ай бұрын
We're lucky to be subscribed to him.❤
@JakPiggott6 ай бұрын
Nah I’m just a messenger, whoever takes my words and puts them into action should be credited bro 👊❤️
@ChillestChugg6 ай бұрын
Bro I aspire to be like him ngl
@Katie_Gacha_Girl6 ай бұрын
@@JakPiggottyour the best teacher you're better than any teacher I'm not gonna lie your literally my therapist you are better than any teacher, therapist you teach us things we don't learn in school. Thank you for always being with us❤
@JimmyOnRBLX3 ай бұрын
Losing your v-card shouldn’t be a flex, having your v-card should be a flex
@user-AtiredAnimator3 ай бұрын
Facts
@zxvloe3 ай бұрын
not talking to girls and being able to get a gf is a flex?
@ForgYT-13 ай бұрын
@@zxvloe Both should not be a flex anyway. Don’t make something your whole personality.
@zxvloe3 ай бұрын
@@ForgYT-1 yeah thats what i meant like its not a flex didnt say not losing it was bad i just mean they both not flexs
@CCA-wtf3 ай бұрын
Having your v card at 90 years is a flex?
@general-motors6 ай бұрын
As a woman, I'm glad that you're putting yourself out there as a rolemodel for men! Male figures are what our societies lack these days and men suffer for it everyday so I commend your work! Your values are rock solid, your discpline is powerful, and most importantly that positivity is just inspirational. You're a young man with a good head on your shoulders, keep your head up.
@giftedcobaltbee14216 ай бұрын
Like you guys are any better ?
@sigmanuts6 ай бұрын
you aint ever losing yours 💀
@Shhhhh1836 ай бұрын
@@giftedcobaltbee1421 holy hell dude, do you have any media literacy?
@KvnDanGaming6 ай бұрын
Das a women?
@yyoungyellow6 ай бұрын
@@jessesbellau said that perfectly
@KarimRazaak5 ай бұрын
Building wealth involves developing good habits like regularly putting money away in intervals for solid investments. Financial management is a crucial topic that most tend to shy away from, and ends up haunting them in the near future.., I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life!!
@FrankCarter-qv8yn5 ай бұрын
Starting early is simply the best way of getting ahead to build wealth , investing remains a priority . I learnt from my last year's experience , I am able to build a suitable life beause I invested early ahead this time .
@ClaireHills-rt5lf5 ай бұрын
It’s precisely at times like these that investors need to be on guard against the next certainty. You don’t have to act on every forecast, hence i will suggest you get yourself a financial-advisor that can provide you with entry and exit points on the shares/ETF you focus on.
@ThelmaGreese5 ай бұрын
please I want to invest but I don't know any F/A that can help me, can you leave behind the info of the lady you just mentioned?
@ClaireHills-rt5lf5 ай бұрын
marie slopiey donner is the licensed fiduciary I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with a correspondence to set up an appointment.
@ClaireHills-rt5lf5 ай бұрын
she's mostly on Telegram, using the user name
@falcongamer586 ай бұрын
The issue isn't losing it. It's being disloyal or switching relationships frequently
@JakPiggott6 ай бұрын
100% bro.
@martinat38846 ай бұрын
Not gonna lie though I don’t wanna lose it
@existentialchaos86 ай бұрын
@@martinat3884 That's fine, you don't have to.
@falcongamer586 ай бұрын
@martinat3884 I assume you mean temporarily, because if you want a family or a partner, you're gonna have to lose it, unless you're going for adoption
@martinat38846 ай бұрын
@@falcongamer58I'd like a romantic partner, but I wouldn't like to be doing anything like that. The thought of that makes me uncomfortable. I'd rather adopt a child.
@JustChris19642 ай бұрын
Big respect for this guy, hes like the big brother some people dont have.
@sanyokschannel95305 ай бұрын
having sex at teenage years is really weird for me, considering I live in Eastern Europe where this shit happens very fucking rarely.
@lizardmaster16444 ай бұрын
Here in America 7 girls in my school are pregnant. I’m only 14 I still have my V-card and don’t have a GF but it seems like everyone around me when they get a girl they lose their V the next night.
@Krypt0nic_4 ай бұрын
@@lizardmaster1644 I've been with my gf for a month. No sexual things of the sort at all. Some people just have no self-restraint.
@lizardmaster16444 ай бұрын
@@Krypt0nic_ yeah. There was a girl from a different school who likes me a lot and I almost got laid by her but an adult walked in right before. It’s a long story.
@TanishBhargava4 ай бұрын
What's your country brother
@Krypt0nic_4 ай бұрын
@@TanishBhargava United States
@millerleathergoods76236 ай бұрын
Can we just admire the amount of vulnerability that this guy expresses. He tell us his good, bad, and ugly, and is truly reshaping this generation. God Bless you bro!
@JakPiggott6 ай бұрын
I know the more vulnerable I am in my videos the better impact it has on the viewer so I try and be as authentic as I possibly can ❤️
@Deadrat38296 ай бұрын
The way my friend lost his at 9 is crazy
@ari_montz226 ай бұрын
Truly appreciate it. Everyone needs at least one person to stop and say “hey, it’s ok”. Cause maybe if I heard this I could’ve had a better experience yk
@Pikxelzz6 ай бұрын
That's...not@@Deadrat3829
@LEYTHLEGACY5 ай бұрын
@@Deadrat3829 wtf..
@Ekloven6 ай бұрын
I'm a christian (17yr old) in Sweden, one of the most secular countries in the world. Watching my classmates sit on their phones, scrolling Tiktok, downing Monsters, snuffing, talking about girls and all having the same hair- and clothing style I honestly feel sad for them. If you're trying to be like everyone else, nothing with you will stand out to a girl. Maybe most girls won't notice you, but you'll get a real girl one day, not an NPC😂 With that said, I love your content bro!🤝🤝
@johannaheath9936 ай бұрын
Nice to see a fellow Swede with the same values 😂
@rigaldotselk44036 ай бұрын
It's so cool to know people my age from different countries are like minded, good to know your thoughts.
@46bvexrobotics656 ай бұрын
downing monsters??
@kyrashaner53206 ай бұрын
@@46bvexrobotics65 Monster is a brand of energy drink :)
@BIGGUY-qx9bd6 ай бұрын
@@46bvexrobotics65 the drink, monster energy
@MACHINEBUILDER4 ай бұрын
20 and I haven't lost it either. To anyone younger than me who's worried about it, don't stress. It's not a race, and you might see your friends doing all this around you, but don't push yourself to do something you're not ready for yet. Keep your personal values close, and be careful not to lose yourself. Edit- And I'm also yet to have a first kiss. I'm technically yet to date anyone properly. Yeah it's stressful and lonely at times, but trust me you'll be alright.
@subandlike-y0u2 ай бұрын
I am with you, till i find someone special to me
@izzydaiz7839Ай бұрын
TWINSSSSSSS having s3x is the last thing on my mind lol same for kiss 🌚
@JPOfficial_0Ай бұрын
Same brother same no kiss or hug
@imperialstarbucks8576 ай бұрын
I’m not gonna lie, I kinda needed this. My friend said he lost his V-Card and he’s in the 9th grade, and it kinda made me feel left behind. I was almost in the exact same situation, not really able to talk to people and flirt or whatever. I’m glad you made this video, and I’m glad it got recommended to me. I feel a lot better about my situation, and I do realize now, being 15 is not ideal to lose your V-Card. Thanks for changing lives, man. ❤
@ben_tripping6 ай бұрын
bro ngl i was in the same exact situation last yr when I was 9TH grade. It make me feel so behind
@ava46896 ай бұрын
Just wait until theres a person in your life that you really feel you can trust. Someone you feel compatable with on multiple levels. That you trust will actually stay by your side for a long time. It might sound corny. But its true. If you find a person like that, its ok to do it at 15-16. I did that, and the person I lost my card to is my husband now. It all depends on your situation.
@Kind_of_Human6 ай бұрын
My friend lost it at 13 it made me feel soo behind but ik now he was going through alot and he knows he made a mistake
@princeprimrose006 ай бұрын
As someone who's 17 and hasn't even kissed yet. It really scares me, the fact that y'all are kids and feel left behind for not doing the deed. You guys are KIDS, you shouldn't have to feel "left behind". That's so messed up.
@Sarcasmac6 ай бұрын
As an adult who’s been out of high school for a year, I can tell you now that the younger you lose your virginity the worse it is for your mental state. There is no good reason to be having $ex before you can legally drive a car Praying that your friend winds up doing okay in life, seriously, that’s no age to be doing those kinds of things
@jackhenry99676 ай бұрын
This guy doesn’t understand how much he has helped me. There is nothing I can do to repay him
@JakPiggott6 ай бұрын
Nah bro you should give yourself the most credit, you are the one who has put my words into action, and that’s where most people fail ❤️
@nicholasm40136 ай бұрын
I’ll be 18 next month and I haven’t even had my first kiss. I’ll edit this comment when I have my first kiss and again when I lose my V card Update: Turned 18 two days ago, all stats are still the same
@thelandex75815 ай бұрын
ill be 18 soon as well and i have not had a girlfriend not held a girl’s hand even platonically…im worse off than you and im sure there’s some worse off than us
@SwiftSpeedVortex5 ай бұрын
A kiss isn’t that bad unless you take it to far.
@aidanpenn72835 ай бұрын
Same story except I’m 25
@slicks81525 ай бұрын
@@aidanpenn7283 bro i think its starting to become an issue for u now😭 u damn near finishing a masters in college and still not even kissed???
@aidanpenn72835 ай бұрын
@@slicks8152 time to get an escort frrr
@complacencyforsaken4 ай бұрын
I appreciate your willingness to act as a moral compass for adolescents who havent really gotten their priorities in line. So many deranged values being inculcated in children today and there is a need for those who address these issues. This is commendable work
@gracegordon10106 ай бұрын
I haven't even had my first kiss yet 😓
@roux67156 ай бұрын
17 and same tbh I don’t think I’ll have one for like years if I ever do
@godtrac6 ай бұрын
me too gng
@memorializers6 ай бұрын
Bro, you shouldn't even think of losing your v-card. Especially before 18
@Clenixx6 ай бұрын
Lol neither
@brycerobinson44826 ай бұрын
I’m 18 and also in the same boat 😅
@narosho5 ай бұрын
"Veltrixia has the ultimate beard growth oil. Seriously, it made a huge difference for me!"
@MosheNUllman5 ай бұрын
whats Veltrixia
@ElizabethEdwards-yi3gf5 ай бұрын
That was so random 😭
@random_person6185 ай бұрын
It's so random and funny this doesn't even seem like a bot.
@Maggi3504 ай бұрын
😂😂
@JASSU18566 ай бұрын
In India, there's no law on s before marriage but most of us see it as a sin and trust that person less.
@elomial7246 ай бұрын
fk India
@thorn_princess6 ай бұрын
Yep! It's a morality issue for us here
@KabirSingh-rc7fw6 ай бұрын
Ahhh a fellow Indian
@valerioharvey72896 ай бұрын
Same here in Indonesia. Idk how that thing is so normalized in the west
@EnzoButBetter6 ай бұрын
I know right! But still many of us Indians are doing Porn. I started and got addicted to this bad habit at the age of 11. Yes, I regret it. I am still trying to quit it. Lockdown ruined me. Tho, it did teach me some things and gave me some awesome things to remember and good friends who actually support me! I am 15 now. If not for Lockdown, I wouldn't have fallen to this trap. I want to change. But every time I try to, I just end up relapsing sooner or later. I don't know what to do 😫. I feel like a loser. But I WON'T give up NO matter what!
@roryblossom65894 ай бұрын
Remember Kids. No one should EVER make you feel bad for not having sex. It's your body, and you should never have to do something with your body that you don't want to or makes you uncomfortable. And NO ONE should ever pressure you into losing your v card either, friends, partners, etc. No one. Your Body. Your Choice. And anyone who disrespects that can hit the bricks. You don't need them in your life.
@FernandoWielerYT3 ай бұрын
I'm not saying I disagree or anything, but I just want to say what I think. It is my body, and it is my choice, but my choice is to follow God's plan. So if my fleshly desires are different from God's choice, I will follow God.
@alimaserrano92012 ай бұрын
and what if you want to have sex tho and for you its comtroble and you want to do it?
@chaoticnebula_6 ай бұрын
I heard the " Don't waste your time chasing butterflies. Mend your garden, and the butterflies will come " about 2-3 years back and have been living by it since then. Listening to you Jak motivates me even more to just keep grinding till I make it, thanks brother
@JakPiggott6 ай бұрын
That quote is amazing bro and I’ve been living by it the last 2 years as well. Thank you for your words man ❤️❤️
@harvesterofsubs55616 ай бұрын
Makes sense. Only problem is, if everyone’s a gardener, where will all the butterflies be? Nobody can make a perfect garden, so, sometimes, I believe, a bit of chasing is needed.
@kaihavertz1336 ай бұрын
Please do not ever stop making videos. I need this KZbin channel in my life
@EnergeticSpark636 ай бұрын
hey
@souppletons6 ай бұрын
as a female, your videos actually made me a better person than i was before. yeah, these are like some “boy-talks,” but i somehow understand and it really changed me. thanks, jak!
@setux.6 ай бұрын
Proud of you
@Charlie001936 ай бұрын
Same here!
@souppletons6 ай бұрын
@@Charlie00193 nice! glad to know im not the only one, lmao.
@thorn_princess6 ай бұрын
Same here !!
@Charlie001936 ай бұрын
@@souppletons Same here loll
@NovaRaptor_13 ай бұрын
I’m a girl who is fifteen, and I really like what you said out here. Nowadays so many people viewed as role models for the young women like myself it’s getting groomed into onlyfans and for the young men they have men like Andrew tate and figures such as friends who pressure them into have sex at a young age. For myself, I intend to save it for the special someone. I want to be over 18 and I want to fully know what I intend to do when I commit to the act. I don’t intend to wait until marriage because it’s just not really how I was raised. But as a girl too, we’re often ridiculed without reason for having sex especially in teen years. Videos of a girl performing an intimate act with a teen boy was released to the school from when he took the video. No one knows who he is, no one knows what his face looks like, so for that I feel sorry for the other girls my age who do that stuff. And for the boys, I feel sorry for the pressure from their friends. My good pal was pressured into doing that by his friends and it’s his biggest regret ever. Society is a real fucked up place for teenagers these days. And getting torn apart by peer pressure is just enough to make one snap. And then get dropped by friends, humiliated, and lose all sense of self worth and respect.
@Kelpjuice13 ай бұрын
not reading that essay 💀
@TheRealAlphaXD3 ай бұрын
@@Kelpjuice1you understand skibidi brainrot
@NovaRaptor_13 ай бұрын
@@Kelpjuice1 why is it whenever a girl shares her opinion someone like you has to demean it. Are you scared that we have voices? 😭
@SomeoneHere-k6f3 ай бұрын
@@NovaRaptor_1 Fr to these people think anything longer than 20 words is considered yapping
@cyanskullhcr2Ай бұрын
what if u have a extra leg
@orionthevixen6 ай бұрын
I have no idea who you are, no idea why you popped up on my main page a few days ago. But I love that you have. You made me feel a little bit better the last few days with your shorts and some of your videos. Thank you man. I hope you're enjoying life, and I hope you can keep helping people, spreading clarity and logic.
@gytan22216 ай бұрын
Same too… and I subscribed to his channel. He is my source of motivation now
@Number13Grim6 ай бұрын
Hell yeah boys. This man is a good man. Ive been watching him for eight months and he has genuinely changed my life
@JakPiggott6 ай бұрын
Man I’m so glad to hear that, as I always say everything happens for a reason, I hope you’re enjoying life to man, much love ❤️❤️
@Teh_Goof6 ай бұрын
Bro it started with some short for me, now he appears randomly to give me therapy-
@jogge_-mk6xv5 ай бұрын
7:25 "build your garden to attract the best possible butterfly"
@floppygamingmc4 ай бұрын
beautiful quote
@SgtRandom4 ай бұрын
It goes hard
@MrShort0905 ай бұрын
Bro I’m 15 and still collecting Disney cars toys😂 I don’t care! 😂😅
@christofell5 ай бұрын
You're actually living the life, keep it up man 🔥
@MrShort0905 ай бұрын
@@christofell thanks
@TheRealAlphaXD5 ай бұрын
I play Minecraft lol still love the game besides the underwhelming updates
@startaru5 ай бұрын
@@TheRealAlphaXDwdym terrible? think about the axolotls!!!
@TheRealAlphaXD5 ай бұрын
@@startaru Nvm they're good
@y0ur-f4vv4 ай бұрын
I just turned 16 a couple weeks ago, and I'm female. In my area, it is usual for people at around 14-15 to start getting sexual, and i hate it. I've just finished my last year of high-school and i start college in a couple months. I've been with my current boyfriend for over a year now, and i can confidently say it's changed me in quite negative ways. I was in an abusive online relationship with a boy at 12 or 13 years old, and has caused me major PTSD. He was my first boyfriend since that. Don't get me wrong he's an okay guy, but its the boys he hangs around with which has changed him. He isn't like most of the people from my high-school who are sex hungry at 13+, but the only advice I'd give for any people struggling: focus on yourself first. I regret so many of the things I've experienced in relationships and I'm not even an adult yet. I'd definitely stay single if i could, but some of us have no choice other than to keep going and just deal with what life deals us. Ps, this video is great advice for young people. From someone who still owns their V-card and has no intention of losing it any time soon, please take the advice this man is telling you.
@randomperson25406 ай бұрын
I didn't realize how much you say "yea"
@andrespujols97216 ай бұрын
it’s better than um or like
@eeeeeeeeeeeasd6 ай бұрын
@@andrespujols9721fair enough
@witherman426 ай бұрын
Its because he's Australian
@lunarbrawlstar6 ай бұрын
I cant un hear it now lmao
@Spudpotato086 ай бұрын
@@witherman42Ye same mate
@TwilightSagaCullen6 ай бұрын
My dads always said it, *You are your friends.* Which is so true. He constantly reminds me of this, to make sure I know who I'm hanging out with. People don't realise how easily influenced they are just by who they hang around. You are even able to see it in movies when a sweet, shy quiet kid starts hanging out with kids that are doing the wrong things (drugs, stealing, ect.) You become these people with the constant pressure of wanting to fit in. Thanks for your words Jak! 🙏 💗
@dndnkdsksd6 ай бұрын
that's so true!! i've had this realization this year about how our environment, which is literary everything around us (friends, family, places we go to, what we watch, what we listen to, etc), impacts significantly our lives!! it's crazy! we do need to pay attention to all of those things to make sure we're following the right path!!!
@JakPiggott6 ай бұрын
100% bro. You are simply a byproduct of the 5 people you spend your most time with, your dad speaking facts
@masterkid10836 ай бұрын
My father was someone who would say the same. Honestly, thanks to him, I have grown as a person. I’ve been afraid of having sex or having a girlfriend who desired that and at one point a crush of mine left. When I tell you that was the most terrifying experience, I’m not joking. Everyone at my school at the time badmouthed her and some even decided to make her the but of jokes. Even the introduction I had with her started with a boy telling me she was a psycho who no one played or talked with. And honestly, she was one of the best female friends I’ve ever had in my life. There was even one point where she told me that if I never had been friends with her, she would kill her self.And so when all of this came down and all of the mocking began, I cried. I didn’t believe in myself cause of how I just accepted all the mocking and insulting comments towards her. And during the next year, I nearly took my life. And yet when I finally found strength to talk with someone about this, my parents were immediately overwhelmed with worry. And that’s when my dad told me these words, “ You are the only friend you can truly have.” And that allowed me to actually think about it all. Right now I’m doing great and just got an announcement for my principal’s list award. I’m doing better than I ever have before and I hope that I can find someone that was similar to my female friend. I know it’s a mouthful but my eight grade year hasn’t been all that great. I draw anime, and so people constantly trash on me for drawing loli’s and it’s just terrible. One point a girl wanted me to draw an overly sexualized character for reasons I bet you would understand. Every day it feels like I’m targeted and jerking off never helped either. But I always try to remember my old man’s words, and they’ve helped more times than once. For the boys who just went through or are trying to kill themselves, it ain’t worth it. The amount of people that will miss you and love you is more than you’ll ever know. I know that God loves more than all the people on earth combined just for you, and losing the potential he gave you is to much of a loss to the world. So stay strong boys, we got a full life ahead of us.
@TwilightSagaCullen6 ай бұрын
@@masterkid1083 ❤️ I hope your doing well!
@andrewcurren5496 ай бұрын
It's... Really sad how much of a focus Western culture puts on s3x and s3xuality. We are all immensely complicated people with a huge amount of different parts to our personalities. Why should we focus on the ONE thing everyone on the planet has in common? Yeah, we're all capable of having s3x, but I would much rather people know that I'm a good singer, that I run cross-country, that I love reading, that I'm honest. Whether I still have my V-Card, the fact that I'm gay? Those are the very bottom of the list. Those are the things I want people to know about last, to complete their picture of me, because in the long run those things aren't very important to my friends.
@JakPiggott6 ай бұрын
Worrying about losing your v card is usually a symptom of a lack of purpose of lack of goals. Sometimes who was focused and driven doesn’t care one bit if they get laid or not, especially in high school, even middle school nowadays. I believe having purpose solves this problem, tremendously
@Quinn_Thieszen6 ай бұрын
I support you but I can’t support you being gay.
@TheDuck6246 ай бұрын
You run cross-country? Absolute W
@hhhhhh-vi6sq6 ай бұрын
and other non-western cultures who will literally execute you for not being straight? and the many more that will socially exclude you? its not just western cultures
@TearleBear6 ай бұрын
@@JakPiggott yeah definitely. if ur actually happy with who u are and u have goals in life, being laid isnt ur main priority. but now kids are pressured into losing it by other kids and sometimes adults.
@samuelthylen949618 күн бұрын
These videos are getting even more crazy. I am not trying to be disrespectful. I admire this content because most men won't talk about feelings and such things as this. Its nice to know someone who's cares deeply about their subscribers and people who watch his content. Thank you for being just you and nobody else.
@nathieboy19876 ай бұрын
I was robbed of my innocence at 14 by a 'friend' in my group. I was horrifically assaulted and subsequently blackmailed and assaulted countless more times until I finally built up the courage and strength to stand up to him when I was 17. I wish I'd been able to fight him off the first time, but the young, innocent me froze and didn't know what to do. It completely screwed up my teenage years and now in my mid 30's, I'm still dealing with the consequences of that time. For me, intimacy is not the beautiful experience that it should be. I remember back in those days the v card wasn't really important, though everyone was aware of it.. but I felt like a stranger in that regard. My experiences in my teenage years has really destroyed that for me. Thank you for this video. I had never seen one of your videos before, however I wanted to say that I have been impressed by your mature approach to a subject that can so easily be trivialised.
@lightninggaming2196 ай бұрын
womp womp
@DoormanSoorman6 ай бұрын
@@lightninggaming219 is what your family will say once you die
@adam-dx6hh6 ай бұрын
I can’t imagine what you’ve gone through, I’m really sorry for you, and I know it’s not much but you’ve got my full support.
@lizard_girl_6 ай бұрын
i hope you can recover soon from it❤️🩹❤️🩹
@nathieboy19876 ай бұрын
@@adam-dx6hh Thank you, that's very kind of you 🙂
@HQdefault645 ай бұрын
I have barely even had 15 meaningful conversations with women outside of my family. I’m not at risk of losing my V-card any time soon.
@floppygamingmc4 ай бұрын
lol same havent even had my first kiss 😂 im not unattractive I just think it's hard to find that right person
@BaileyCWS4 ай бұрын
Nah because this one girl in my schools done it 7 times and for context we’re in 7th grade 💀 it’s actually crazy. I haven’t had a first kiss eaither 💪💪💪
@beans73635 ай бұрын
GOATED advice. Stay strong kings and queens.
@NathanielSmith-p1k29 күн бұрын
"Don't go chasing butterflies, but instead focus on building your garden to attract the best possible butterfly" so inspirational man 😭
@seanfrancisleo6 ай бұрын
Much respect for this video bro honestly. I can’t imagine how young teens in school listening to peers talk about these things. In today’s society, they probably think something is wrong with them. That’s so far from the truth. If you’re a virgin in your teens/early 20’s, BE PROUD. Don’t ever be pressured by society to lose your V-Card, don’t ever! I made that MISTAKE and I regret it to this day. If I could take it back i would. Gents, don’t ever feel pressured from your “peers” or “friends” to lose your V-Card, wear your V-Card as a badge of honour!
@JakPiggott6 ай бұрын
Amazing message Sean, I love it man. This video was actually inspired because I heard some year 8’s or 9’s talking about having sex when I walked past them at lunch break at school, I knew I had to make a video after that 😂
@goliath4965 ай бұрын
You're more mature than most guys I've met in my 35 years of existence. Keep it up bro, you're awesome. I wish I had someone like you to listen to as a teenager.
@iscribbleovermywork80095 ай бұрын
Honestly i'm in the 8th grade and the thought of losing my v card at this age is wild to me. And then I hear about other schools from my siblings where there are kids from LOWER than 7th grade losing their virginity. Perhaps it's because i'm slightly repulsed by anything intimate with others at all, but I don't even see myself wanting to have s3x even when I become older than 18. Pushing this a bit aside, as a girl, your videos are plentiful in good advice, even if this range of content is pointed towards male audience. Kudos to you!
@frenchaviation5 ай бұрын
Lower than 7th grade?? wtff dude
@Krypt0nic_4 ай бұрын
@@frenchaviation Sometimes it's sexual assault...
@cultofmel4 ай бұрын
@@Krypt0nic_i mean, yeah, it sometimes is... but that is a crazy assumption to be making
@iscribbleovermywork80094 ай бұрын
It's usually orgies that happen. I remember going outside the woods and seeing VERY used condoms lying on a concrete slab. And 4 boys. Half naked. LikebrothisonedudehadabeltofpubichairwthshaveitbruhitlookslikeabushcoveringarottentreestumpITHINKIMGONNASTOPREMEMBERINGTHISMEMORYNOW- There has been an incident with a teacher sexually assaulting students in 7th grade, too. 60 year old woman. That's all i'll say. Even there was an incident where a girl brought a vibrator to school and... showed how to use it. ... Yes, it's exactly as bad as it sounds.
@rollinontheboard4 ай бұрын
@@frenchaviation maybe its' with a utensil or other household item
@bcbeast5694 ай бұрын
as a male who has lost it at 17, i don’t regret it. it was a very intimate and passionate action performed with my gf. i had a couple opportunities from age 15-17, but wasn’t particularly interested not because i was “saving myself”, but just because i had more important things to worry about. now, all egotistical shit aside, i am someone who gets a lot of attention from women, as i have been cultivating my best self for years, and have gained lots of experience with women. i wanted to provide another view to this video in saying: don’t be afraid to lose it because you fear the judgement of others. i would recommend at least 16, and if you feel passionate about someone else, don’t be fear being shunned. in the end it is an enjoyable, mutually beneficial action, that is okay in moderation. stick with your goals, stay on track for a healthy, disciplined, life, and enjoy passionate fun with someone you care about. that is all, feel free to ask me any questions.
@AHO7I23993 ай бұрын
I lost mine recently to someone that I can only call the love of my life (we are probably just ignorant 17 year olds.). It was oddly wholesome, and it honestly gave us something to fight for, we lost it together. It gives us something to lose that can't be replaced
@alexis56goat6 ай бұрын
Man you a real big brother that can be always trusted. You are giving us valuable lessons that no one has ever given to us. I appreciate your content from the other side of the planet
@MosheNUllman5 ай бұрын
You're a really smart kid my man. Liking a youtuber or anyone online is not very hard but honestly I think I'd choose you as a friend any day.
@Beltslippen6 ай бұрын
This girl likes me and I can’t even tell her back that’s where I’m at Ten likes it will happen
@afterthechaos896 ай бұрын
Do it!!
@Euphemismm6 ай бұрын
Gotta tell her broski:)
@LXG9876 ай бұрын
If you know she likes you and you like her too you should do it
@Chief_0666 ай бұрын
Did you tell her gang
@Beltslippen6 ай бұрын
@@Chief_066 job is done
@umgefallenesglas8213Ай бұрын
I lost my V-Card at 14. I hate myself for that. I didn't want it, but I agreed for her. (She broke up 3 months after, one day before my birthday)
@Punainen46 ай бұрын
Im waiting until marriage. Have a good day brother.❤
@PNW_Vibez6 ай бұрын
Same🙏
@JesusLovesYou2256 ай бұрын
Same.❤❤
@TheBionics.6 ай бұрын
same here.
@Number13Grim6 ай бұрын
Same
@pleasantginge46366 ай бұрын
Same👍🙏
@thereinforcementshavearrive6 ай бұрын
Instant subscribe, this is the kind of conversations that some people really need, and I’m glad you have the confidence to have them
@danielsilvanusp6 ай бұрын
I can't express how glad I am that you made this and how much I agree with you. I'll be 18 this September and I have seen many during my school years succumb to these bs and prioritise relationships and s3x in their lives but I can proudly say my parents raised me well. I hope you continue making these because unfortunately the youth these days need it whether or not they're religious. As a Muslim I say we need more people like you (from any background) to fix our youth or these next few generations would be the last
@Frogs2005Ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah brother, well said
@Maki_Coloma4 ай бұрын
I watch this video once, I watch this channel once and immediately gained so much respect for this man.
@taytertot-quit5 ай бұрын
i honestly needed this. people in my age group talk about losing their v card and intimate relationships with others. i honestly haven’t cared for or thought about it because i want good grades and to have a stable life once i go into college. this video definitely showed how much you should value your education, i have never seen your channel but you seem like an amazing person. thank you for this and i sent this to some friends to show them what they should really value in this age group. thank you so much Jack! much love and respect for you for speaking about this topic :)
@Krypton646 ай бұрын
Jak, your sentence "I had no authority to worry about this shit" is one of the best sentences I've ever heard in my entire life. And I want to add that your content is funny, remarkably good, and I learned, and still do, so much from it. Keep going, you're doing great. :)
@JakPiggott6 ай бұрын
That's it brother, thank you for your words, comments like these are the reason I'm still going today so I thank you man ❤
@puntuples33066 ай бұрын
As a fellow Australian your age, you’re changing lives. You changed the way I act and look at myself honestly.
@JakPiggott6 ай бұрын
Means the world to me to hear this man ❤
@mrsmemes93394 ай бұрын
In my country as a woman, losing your virginity is seen as bad (actually in most countries) it feels like women are looked down upon once they do it, but men are pressured to do it. It doesn’t make sense
@6s5e3 ай бұрын
Which country? Just asking I'm not trying to be personal😊, in my country both men and women would looked down upon once they do it
@MaddoxOConnor6 ай бұрын
this dude man there's to much to say. Ever since he popped up on my fyp, his words, they just clicked in my head, they just stood out to me, i was addicted to p0rn, i was too scared to talk to girls, and I wasn't doing very well in school at the time, but i stared watching his content for a while and watching this dude as a fellow Australian, he completely changed my whole perspective on life, people and everything around me, he just talks about such relatable things that makes me feel good knowing that i can watch this dudes content to learn about things that I was to scared to ask people, but Jak helped me with my confidence, my ability to control my urges and be able to talk to girls without being uncomfortable, even my grades have gone up since I've been watching this dude but right now I'm in grade 9 getting better overtime and he's helped me so much with his content, so thank you Jak, you saved me.
@JakPiggott6 ай бұрын
Man you just made my night and I don't think you understand how valuable that is. Hearing it from a fellow Aussie makes it hit deeper as well. So happy to hear this bro, keep grinding ❤
@jamesslayer46 ай бұрын
This is a video I'm really glad to see. People in my life have been pressuring me to watch more mature stuff, or get with a girl, and I'm only 15. I'm so glad you are here for me and guys like me. Cheers to that.
@itzpurplegirl6 ай бұрын
What type of people you hang around is so important. it influences you greatly, your thought process, and how you go about things. Bad association is horrible. I am a Christian and saving for marriage. All of the people in my class were in this one big group I wasn't a part of, and I felt like the odd one out since they were all bad association. However, I had one truly good friend in a grade below me.
@JakPiggott6 ай бұрын
Oh 100% brother. I remember back in year 9 when I was hanging around people who would just clown me for making videos, making progress in my life was so hard. Until I started distancing myself from them then I started to see a lot more progress, it’s crazy how it works tbh
@Hi-Tech-Sonic18 күн бұрын
There’s some messed up things going on where I am. I’ve seen several people come to school with h1ckeys on their necks and also there was a girl in year 7, 11 YEARS OLD and a boy in year 7 same age. the girl sat on his face and uhhhh yeah… did it. and she walks around like she’s proud of it… it bewilders me, you still want to live your life before having kids. the risk of being a parent at 14, LET ALONE 11 is mental. Live your life first!
@BraytonHarkness6 ай бұрын
I believe wait till marriage then you can lose your V-Card but you try for kids once you’re financially stable and can afford it or when you’re mature enough to know the responsibility and care you have to have to have a kid
@hureak14566 ай бұрын
thats exactly what i think
@faressalhi27286 ай бұрын
me too bro , I don't want to run through a girl without her father's permission
@JakPiggott6 ай бұрын
True bro, you’ll go far with this mentality, so keep it yeah ❤️
@robincordero36 ай бұрын
Same
@ReggieDrowned19794 ай бұрын
@@faressalhi2728 why would you need her father's permission if she's a grown adult woman who can make her own choices? at that point her father should hold barely any authority over her life since she's an actual human being and not an object or toy you can break and throw away
@cub3_rubik6 ай бұрын
Dude you manage to say the thing and give your opinion without hurting anyone that's why i absolutely love the content you make
@hildebrand89166 ай бұрын
This is the advice I really needed to hear. It’s great to get wisdom from a fellow year 12, someone who actually understands the pressures of modern teenagerhood and can put it so eloquently. Thank you man, I really appreciate your sincerity, your acceptance and your consideration to share guidance like this with us.
@JakPiggott6 ай бұрын
Thanks brother Jack, I hope you realise your comment inspires me bro, I hope year 12 ain't stressing you out to much ahah ❤
@CoChlo666 ай бұрын
@back-cy8qm bro that's not cringe
@RoseJKers3 ай бұрын
Im turning 15 in 3 months. Ive never had a boyfriend let alone have sex, and yet I keep hearing people talking about losing it, People see it like your unlocking an achievement, they just want to lose it to say they've lost it and I don't understand that, but constantly its around me in the bathrooms, girls gossiping about it, walking past a group of year 9 boys and hearing things you never wanted too, and years 7's on the bus talking about a threesome. Now sex isn't something that I've been sheltered from in fact, my mother and 2 older sisters were open about it and one thing they all always advised me "wait for the special someone; don't do it just because." and thats what I intend to do, I'm not gonna do it for my first boyfriend, or so I cant tell all my friends, and who knows, maybe ill be 18 and still a virgin, but I'm okay with that because it doesn't matter.
@z1nnnnnn6 ай бұрын
Everytime I one of these videos, I always click on it and listen through the whole video, I usually skip other people's videos but I totally stay with Jak.
@tillyjade84036 ай бұрын
it's crazy to me how i only just realised that your in year 12, like you're only a year above me. but it is so inspirational to listen to something like this especially still being in an Australian high school, so i appreciate how you have come about this topic and made it more of a safe space to talk about these sorts of issues.
@fungustoe6 ай бұрын
14 yo in 8th here! this is pretty sad but so so so many people, upon reaching secondary school (secondary school is 8-12 where i am from), mature so fast. they completely change between 7th and 8th, and now everyone's dating. i know of a ton of people who have lost their virginity and i know we are not responsible enough for this shit. like there have been pregnancy scares - dawg you are 13 like what?? it's quite crazy. i've also heard of this girl, 12 years old and posts pictures of herself vaping with a transparent bikini. she had an abortion over the summer and gets 100 cad per week as spending money. even as just a 14 yo trend follower, i feel like gen z/gen a are growing up way too fast. thanks for reading this whole essay (. ❛ ᴗ ❛.)
@phenom...6 ай бұрын
Holy hell, all that at 12 years old...
@levathon026 ай бұрын
Im 13 in 8th too, feels like last year and berfore no one ever dated and now tons do
@fungustoe6 ай бұрын
@@levathon02 ikr??
@muffin._.milk.6 ай бұрын
an abortion at 12 sounds traumatising :( poor girl
@fungustoe6 ай бұрын
@@muffin._.milk. poor girl, but she brought it upon herself for throwing herself onto every boy she met
@lilkov220 күн бұрын
hey jak, i just wanted to thank you. you helped me with depression and axiety and everything feels better now then when i started watching your videos (1 year ago). im more focused have more friends and i am a better version of myself then i could have ever dreamed of being. thank you a lot
@CaffeinatedTigress5 ай бұрын
Older gal here. I was 24 (and married). So I can tell you, it's possible to make it through. And, honestly... I wouldn't have changed it for the world. My late husband was my one and only and I was his as well. There's more to life than getting it on. Take the time to figure yourself out because eventually life takes crazy turns and that intimacy might not be present. You know what keeps you going though? your respect and love in the areas that aren't that. If you don't have a deep pool of personality outside of bedroom fun... well... I wish you all the luck because you're going to need it.
@dangamez37213 ай бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss, I hope your husband rests in peace (also ty for the message)
@eddieagui15546 ай бұрын
I was 21 when i lost my v card...no rush , guys.
@IanFurminger6 ай бұрын
I’m 23 and don’t feel as if theres any hope I’ve haven’t even been a date with a girl in 2 1/2 years the dating scene is terrible idk how I’m ever gonna lose it, it’s just gonna keep getting harder and harder the older I get 😭😭
@eddieagui15546 ай бұрын
@@IanFurminger u r young. Dont fret about it.
@dedxdx11006 ай бұрын
Me too brother, and yeah it happends the same haha, your "friends" kind a judging you about it, and now they look so different but in a bad way.
@IanFurminger6 ай бұрын
@@eddieagui1554 how can I not it’s just gonna keep getting more and more embarrassing the older I get and some girl isn’t gonna wanna date a virgin guy in his early to mid 20’s idk what to do
@alpheendomination6 ай бұрын
@@IanFurminger If she doesn't want to date you because of that she isn't a good person. You will find someone. The average age of a man finding his "soulmate" is 28, you're fine.
@AIphaRhino6 ай бұрын
Im from germany and i can clearly Tell you, people are so obsessed with Loosing it, Age of consend is 14 and Most Girls, just half pretty ones dont make it past 14 tbh. Im Almost 17 as a Boy and i had Worrys that its Bad Not to have lost it but i Kinda accepted it at this Point, If ill lose it its okay and it Not it is what it is. I Like ur Content very much, keep it up
@Mao234926 ай бұрын
Yes bro its sick im from Slovakia and in my class 4 girls lost their virginity at 14
@JakPiggott6 ай бұрын
Yeah bro don’t rush, I can almost guarantee you your dream girl doesn’t care if you’ve lost it or not, she probably values if you haven’t lost it. So stay true to yourself and stay authentic man, keep being the best you ❤️
@marsisflat6 ай бұрын
they all get ran through and we get the old
@Frötz97066 ай бұрын
I'm from Germany too
@pournamip.s1783 ай бұрын
Happy to hear from people who recognise the bad side in their culture.....Every culture has its own pros and cons....Praise and follow only the good side and then you're good....thats what I believe . You really did reassure my beliefs .......🙌
@Brasidas.the.Spartan6 ай бұрын
Imagine your future wife losing her v-card to another man. Would you like that? That is the same the other way around. EDIT: people in the comments keep calling me immature for saying "I don't want a non-virgin girl". But I never said that, so read better please.
@gytan22216 ай бұрын
I personally would not mind that much… and I’m still a virgin
@dakingofbrickz6 ай бұрын
@@gytan2221L
@Brasidas.the.Spartan6 ай бұрын
@@gytan2221 you wouldn't mind to see the love of your life with someone else? Ok...
@samzy58446 ай бұрын
@@Brasidas.the.Spartan I mean at that point neither partner would know if they were the love of each other's life. I would not be against that as if my future wife thought that man was the love of her life but wasn't then that would be ok. If we knew that we were the love of each other's life and were in a relationship together that would most likely be cheating which is not what he meant.
@Brasidas.the.Spartan6 ай бұрын
@@samzy5844 yes, but I'm trying to say something different. I'm trying to say that losing it to someone I know will never be the love of my life is wrong.
@priyankaraman53846 ай бұрын
I found the first honest guy on KZbin who's giving actual valuable advice rather than just following the trend of toxic masculinity and promoting casual relationships. There are people out there who would respect your decision because long-term relationships are based on trust, loyalty and mutual respect, not instant gratification (casual ones). Shoutout to you- cause you're the one conveying real-life lessons which our parents and grandparents would generally give us. Cheers mate Sam
@danielgessel91856 ай бұрын
Am in 9th grade, i got a girlfriend recently and my confidence and energy skyrocketed. But i will never dare to boast and make other ppl feel bad about not having one
@byenovaedits2 ай бұрын
lucky
@danielgessel91852 ай бұрын
@@byenovaedits her mom forced us to break up and my friend betrayed me and got with her, a lot has happend since this comment i made..
@byenovaedits2 ай бұрын
@@danielgessel9185 i got a gf like an hour before you replied lmao
@Crazy_demon1824 ай бұрын
I'm a female and this still affected me.i just discovered this guy too. Definitely subscribing
@HumphreyBertram6 ай бұрын
im a teenager, and this is the stuff that no one knows about/ there isnt enough of this sort of content. you are so open with your audience, its amazing. thanks man
@Nuclear_Mapping5 ай бұрын
That hit me like crazy bro, thank you so much man. I'm in year 10, I don't really have a lot of confidence in myself usually. This video just made me realize so many things I was blind of, so many things that were poisoning me, killing me slowly. I really appreciate people like you who are always looking to help others improve. It's a rare occurrence alone to think of the words to say so that you could inspire someone. You? You didn't need to think, you just used your past, and your changes to lead people the right way. God speed, brother.
@steven107575 ай бұрын
I love that you popped in my recommended so so much. Thank you so much for that emotional, vunerable video. I really appreciate it
@goran58444 ай бұрын
The pandemic destroyed what was supposed to be my best teenage years. I lost basically all my social skills, I got social anxiety, I lost touch with the girl I had a crush on and a lot of other friends. Online school gave me a lot of great memories but I would immediately trade it for starting again in March 2020 without the pandemic. It wasn't supposed to be this way man.
@Lord_JEZZ5 ай бұрын
The true definition of a man. Amazing vid, bro. Keep it up 👍🏼
@xxtreme226 ай бұрын
i also never thought about losing v-card or shit like that,i have a goal in my life and i am focused to get there and i know i will find my girl which i truly love,not just becuase she looks really good but how her inner self is,thanks for the vid jack your video really help me keep making these ❤
@JakPiggott6 ай бұрын
I absolutely love your mindset my brother, keep it and the universe will bless you ❤
@xxtreme226 ай бұрын
@@JakPiggott thank you so much:)
@Ravenwester4 ай бұрын
I'm in the moments of my life when I don't care about anything. School, what clothes I'm going to wear, pepole's opinions on me, or losing my virginity, going to parties, nothing. I just care about family, friends, and mental health. And man, losing your virginity at 14 is crazy.
@juliadeleon97056 ай бұрын
I love that this is being talked about! especially in this generation where hook up culture is so normalized and considered an everyday practice for kids as young as 13!!!! it's absolutely insane, and it's so sad that most people are just in this deep daze and won't understand until later the enormously negative impact these types of things have of them not just physically and spiritually, but emotionally and mentally... kudos to you man for bringing it into the light and speaking on it🥳
@myyuh994 ай бұрын
EXACTLYYYY don’t loose it. wait for the person God has for u.. u gonna end up loosing it to someone who u won’t last with and you’ll have a soul tie with them and a bunch of other hurt and attachment is gonna come with that… i see it so much in this generation that’s so lustful smhh… be patient stop lusting. if u can’t wait for love you’re not ready for it. don’t let anytime make u feel bad for keeping it because u RESPECT urself enough to not just give it up to anyone 👍🏽
@itikboiusec21386 ай бұрын
Indian High School Grad here and I can't even stress how much V-card is in my country and i think it's a good thing personally and spiritually. Don't let PPL tell who you are. Virginity is not something to take pride or shame in, if the right time and right person comes around then it's your boths choice so don't worry and keep grinding fellas.
@robe89916 ай бұрын
Fact
@JakPiggott6 ай бұрын
Yeah 100% bro, spot on. I believe it’s not a good or bad thing it’s just how you look at it and what you value ❤️
@U_never_know_who_iam...6 ай бұрын
Fax
@arpan99376 ай бұрын
Faxx
@existentialchaos86 ай бұрын
Exactly
@Serox_likes_water6 ай бұрын
this mans videos always making me feel stronger mentally. also the Minecraft music in background slammed me with nostalgia
@SpontaneouslyPhytagoreanАй бұрын
I too haven't even thought about it either. I was just curious what the video will say. And i 100% agree. Please dont lose it, your life WILL fall apart, i know people whose lives fell apart, even ones rumoured to gave "touched" eachother privately at a young young age. Things just go downhill from there. Please rather be some depressed gym tiktok kid instead of doin this
@animal_lover37376 ай бұрын
Thank you sir, I know a couple of people who have already lost their v-card as freshman in highschool. We’re too young for it. They made that choice, and even if I don’t agree with it, I still respect them. Your advice is helpful to me. Just hearing your voice is an inspiration to keep going and keep at it.
@Kurosek6 ай бұрын
Being 21 years old, never been in any relationship, never lost V card + I am disabled, can't even find job meanwhile most of my friends already are engaged, have kids, have stable job etc It is kinda depressing but Hey, maybe one day I will succeed too
@jaroslavgibala2146 ай бұрын
You will be alright babe ! Don't worry, just keep smiling, okay
@thenexerium6 ай бұрын
Keep going, things will change, you just gotta never stop trying, have a good one
@alessiodushka78126 ай бұрын
I have to say, being already married and have kids at 21 is wild. I mean this is probably the best age of your life! You should travel the world, make friends, learn new things. Just enjoy life my friend. Your time to get married will come too.
@divinrth51876 ай бұрын
sounds exactly like me, but 20
@slothfan33236 ай бұрын
Dude, don't worry, you're still super young. Work on yourself, learn new things, get new experiences, your time will come too!
@AyoubLefrouni6 ай бұрын
This man changes lives and like he's the best content creator i watch atm. and about the virginity thing im not okay with young teens who lose it, im still 15 and waiting till i get married to actually lose my v-card
@JakPiggott6 ай бұрын
Thank you my brother, I don’t take your words lightly. Stay on the right path man and I’m sure you’ll be blessed in your future 👊❤️
@piercecowley2556 ай бұрын
Where I live 15 is illegal so your all good bro
@zedonly32764 ай бұрын
I'm 21, never held hands with anyone, I'm not a bad looking guy, I'm active, friendly, and no one would guess that i still have my v-card. But i find that with this I hope you don't look down on yourself as for me i tend to just focus on myself, and with that being said its different for everyone when it comes down to focusing on themselves. For me personally i just compete in video games and in sports every day of my life. That's me being me, don't worry about societal norms to tell you how to live it.
@egaLwie.6 ай бұрын
7:01 Losing my vehicle is a whole different story, I don't want that either.
@GypsyRose1-ex8bp4 ай бұрын
I’m sorry but “vehicle” made me laugh😂 first it was v card now vehicle 😅
@antoniskvlogs2 ай бұрын
@@GypsyRose1-ex8bpit said vacation at some point too😂😂
@kckuz2 ай бұрын
LOL
@madeleine7746 ай бұрын
This is amazing! We need more of this in today's society!
@xoseoa6 ай бұрын
im a girl but this helped me a lot, im 17 and people in my year group act like it's not a big deal or something that everyone does which can make me feel really behind and i really relate to what you said, so thank you for making this video ❤
@dozienwigwe36463 ай бұрын
The timing on this recommendation is INSANE! That's all I have to say.
@Bitskullfr3 ай бұрын
Nice job, did it feel good?
@sleepy54455 ай бұрын
You're lucky because my friend has a girlfriend who he talks about to me. He not only tells me really intimate details about them but rubs it in my face that I don't even have a gf. I've told him that I'm not trying to force things with the girls that I talk to and that I'm waiting for marriage. He has gotten to the point where he literally says that he is better than me because he has a girlfriend. I'm almost at the point I'm going to confront him about it if he tells me anything else. Thanks for making this video it definitely makes me feel better about my choices and helps me stand strong against the pressures of the world. God bless and keep up the good work!