If she's sending you mixed signals, do this NOW

[@JessicaOS]

Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

[@refusetolose7528]

Guys please dont get stuck in a situation like this. There shouldnt be any games if its mutual . Its all a waste of time and effort if their actions dont match their words. The person will always give you hope that it will work out. Dont be disrespected, you dont deserve to be treated like that.

[@King_Ajani]

I’ve endured this for the past 3 months. It was draining and gave me anxiety. We spent time when she wanted to only but she wants to talk/text me daily. She never wanted to open up to me. I had to bargain for her time. I was putting out the most effort and communicating how I felt. I was vulnerable, transparent, emotionally available and honest. I decided it was enough because it was heading no where. I was losing my focus and couldn’t concentrate on what’s important in my life, which is completing my master’s degree in nursing. Fellas, take heed to this video and allow no one to string you along. That feeling of uneasiness inside can kill your motivation and cause unnecessary stress. Thanks Jess!!!!!

[@salamiganiuolatunji1033]

Hey Ajani, how did you deal with this?

[@smith6603]

Brother, I endure it for 4 months and your experience is like gazing in a mirror. I decided to remove myself and take back that power away from her and focus more on myself and goal.

[@King_Ajani]

@@salamiganiuolatunji1033 I was never the type of guy to deal with women who have daddy issues and emotional baggage. I never thought she would allow her past to seep into what we were trying to establish. She was an emotional terrorist. I would pull away, she would text me an say she misses me. I would be suckered back in. We would talk about it and everytime I think we bend a new corner, the same issues arise. I don't know how and why I dealt with it. I genuinely liked her. I seen her and said I wanted to make her my girlfriend but that was a wrong thought. In the end, I told her, I am letting you go for good.

[@King_Ajani]

@@smith6603 Put thyself first, be stingy. I am not saying to treat women bad going forward. Be careful of these females who are dating out here and they aren't fixed/heal. One must reflect, hold themselves accountable, atone for your past, evolve, enjoying being single, love yourself before you start dating. These females jump from man to man and not fixing their mindset. Protect your peace by any means necessary.

[@sensualm1]

I also experienced this for 6 months until I sent an email saying I won't be "chasing" her any longer. There's more to the story but sounds more fictional than factual...

[@IntegraDIY]

Yep, at the end it usually ends up splitting ways. Either ignore her when she reaches out and play her game, or best of all walk away, and let her play games with someone else.

[@KDuB9I6]

Its all a test men; stay stoic, patient and always keep your purpose #1.

[@lesabethomas9638]

I agree with you

[@rodneysessoms8804]

Because they don't know what they really want. Been through it before, but I had to let her know I know what I bring to the table( no time for nonsense) and I hold both of us down if needed to let her know no she can depend on me during trying times. Some women need to realize only they can fix what's broken with them selves

[@buzinesempire3427]

Women doesn't want to take responsibility for their bad behaviors they just want to be professional victims guys cut off any woman who tries to come with any form of negativity and drama without any warning your peace of mind is not negotiable

[@businessboom6143]

Love dinning at Jessica's Table of "Wisdom!"

[@venividivindicator3483]

"Taking action will give you a clear idea of where she's at in her mind"

[@belloabideen5197]

Thanks for this video Jess and I also learn a lot from people's comments. My opinion is if a lady really interested in you, she won't be playing games, she will be the one doing the chasing. Mix signals thing sucks, it drains out the energy in you and make you lost focus. Just walk away without the intention of going back to her. Focus on your goals.

[@coryagain]

Advice: Plan your exit strategy. 🏃🏽‍♂️💨

[@fernandmichel4073]

You're such a bright soul Everytime I look and listen to you my holly soul vibrates instantly. I love you Jess💯

[@turnback9866]

Such a weak man 😂😂😂 u should know all these before now wtf , lol, a woman gotta teach u these things ? 🤣🤣 weak

[@Pawans21]

Great command over english language and proper use of right words jessica.. i must say your channel is growing rapidly.. cheers from india !! Learning allot about the behaviour of females from this channel

[@buzzafrique3700]

I bet Ghanaian's speak the best english in the whole african continent

[@FatsoMpyatona]

I love this channel so much. You’re so articulate.

[@ethiopianphenomenon6574]

backhanded compliment. If you know you know.

[@sfisomlondo6699]

You're amazing Jess. Keep up

[@InsaneSupercars]

Hate how I started watching all these dating videos after I had been ghosted, & owed money at the start of this year😑 But this will prepare me for the next girl🙏🤞 Crazy how it’s already going to be 2023, & been no contact since February

[@NJBoham]

Maybe I needed to see this video at this time. Going through right now and it's not even funny anymore.

[@rossdepopo9630]

You are absolutely amazing and inspiring to this generation…God bless you!!

[@michaeljewell53]

Thank you Jessie,I always get a lot out of listening carefully to your advice,it keeps me on an even keel as relationship problems can be a real test on one's sanity,I sometimes watch more than once to try and take it all in, by the way I love your hair do,looks fab💯👍

[@seankelly1366]

This has always been a "super " challenge for me.....She always expressed interest when we have private or alone time but when she gets involved with the mundane avenue of common people who have absolutely no idea about how to express passion, she pulls back and leaves me on "hang"

[@MrDavidigobwa]

I have joined Lemonade finance courtesy to Jessica. I love it.

[@JessicaOS]

Awesome 👌🏾

[@TheInfamous730]

I received mixed signals from someone then i decided to move on and now she wants me and i dont want her..... sometimes its not worth the headache

[@ugabeitch1673]

Been going through this with a friend for a while now that gives me these signals like touches my arms, laughs at everything i say, etc. When I finally told her how I felt about her, she said she dosent feel the same so we stopped talking for a few months. Now shes hitting me up again and whenever we do hang, she starts giving me the same signals. I was confused, but this clarifies a few things, thank you ❤

[@daltonfearon4791]

These are some real powerful words Jessica I love them

[@TSixSix]

Women will gaslight the hell outta you and then holler about “where are all the good men” and that BS “pressure” talk they always use..

[@kubel83]

If you keep playing games with someone then eventually you will only attract people playing games. Good luck and see if it is fun when the wall hits.

[@davidmathenjwa2293]

Jessica looking out for us❤❤👏👏

[@4hinson777]

Joining your channel Jessica Os was for all the right reasons. 👏🏽👌🏾🔥😘

[@JessicaOS]

Appreciate you

[@tricckwrites4130]

Accuracy at its peak!!! Thank you so much Jess

[@africanqueen3611]

Thanks for everything 😘😘😘

[@davidamper4648]

Jessica bringing FIRE in this one!! Thank you Jess for helping us imperfect guys to not waste time on women that bring drama and BS into our lives. It's nice to know there are still women like you that actually care about a man's masculinity. Especially in a time when masculinity is pounded on. God bless you Jess! And have a Power House day!! 💪🏽🔥

[@mpwheroes]

you are the legend jessica..everyday I'm learning to be better with what i want from women and relationship by your videos..thank you

[@TheInnovatrixAI]

Jess your locks are 🔥🔥👍🏾

[@oso2935]

RIGHT THE new style is differentttt

[@JessicaOS]

Should I keep it??

[@JessicaOS]

Thanks

[@femiadenugba5312]

Yes, keep it

[@denzpitt1]

you hit it head on.. awesome advise

[@muteesarichardkizza7548]

Thanks Jessica I like your explanation you always heat on the forefront.

[@kevincroft9848]

Yes thank you for all your relationship videos I love them all Iam learning so much more about women thanks to you God bless you for this gift he has given you to help many thousands of us me who need your help Thank you Jessica xxx Kevin x

[@kevincroft9848]

Waw thanks Jessica for your video on mixed messages . I've learned alot from this video. I follow all your videos they are just the best out there . All the others just don't do it for me .But somehow your videos hit the mark every time . Thankyou once again for such a great help for me . Keep making great relationship videos. Us men out there in the real world will really thank you for your very good help Thank you Kevin xxx

[@benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648]

Matthew 11:16-19 sums it all.

[@daviddevlogger]

Try and fail, but don't fail to try.

[@nss7661]

Immediately after watching the video,she texted That’s crazy

[@chrisarroyo7990]

5:54 BRO I WAS LEGIT SLOUCHING AND WHEN I GOT UP TO SIT UP. I WAS SHOCKED ABOUT THE TIME LOLL. on a serious note thank you for the advice. with everything going on it makes me feel better knowing im not the only one here

[@chinemezeobialor8361]

Thank you very much Jessica for sharing. I got value.

[@tresorsumbu2904]

Thank you Jessica I’m soooo blessed

[@Karidugan]

He just said he love me, and then says he was just joking so not wasting my time!!

[@titanniki412]

It's even Harder when your in Love with a Beautiful Queen who suffers from Bi Polar!! Confusing!! Is it her or the Bi Polar?? I'm still hanging in there after 16 months!!

[@meshackantony5157]

Jessy jessy.much love from kenya

[@patrickahiatsi75]

Looking gorgeous, lady Jesse

[@profesorhutmanchanda7626]

I like how u are coming out

[@thembinkosimukarati8875]

Thanks for this vid Jessy ,it has come on the right time for me

[@goaro2007]

back up value yourself self worth

[@gregorylatta8159]

Love your hair 😍

[@daveondiekaaron2204]

VERY CORRECT 💯%✔️

[@kevincroft9848]

Jessica this video was fantastic for me Iam in a friendship relationship but I want to take it to the next level but I keep getting mixed singled. Just like you

[@torres870rem]

On #5... I was told a chick. " Are you going to keep talking about". Big red flag.

[@Sebastian-bw9el]

You the best. 🙏🏿

[@SinglesandDating]

Wonderful video, I like every bit of it

[@denisnyantori3661]

Perfect Jessica

[@eddiekingtheflames8791]

Thank you Jessica

[@jasperemerald1522]

Thank you Jessy

[@marcellusbrown7940]

🌙 Is a regular day, Wednesday 28 2022, for it bring sunshine, cool breeze and a clear sky. Show evidence of a luminous day, and u r able to do activities like go to work, jog, shop, or lounge at the beach, or restaurant. There’s the critique to weather in my community. Bye have a great day

[@narehkumar1110]

You are very smart

[@kaustavkar932]

Thank you ❤

[@JohnPhoenix918]

if the guy reports her as a one off does the bloke still lose and still goes to jail his self for relorting

[@1p974]

I wish i get this information months ago

[@SoCoolScience]

What if she says "I dont thinks we should hang out anymore." and then 5 days later she's texting me to go out to eat together and at the end of the night gives me a hug before we part for the night. Then again says "I dont think we should hang out anymore" and 4 days later shes texting me again to go out to the movies together and again hugs me before we part for the night. Then I tell her I think we Im going to move on, and she says "I care about you I dont want you to move on but if you do I want to stay in contact". You wanna talk about mixed signals. What the hell is going on in her screwed up head

[@PeteJames-ol4ws]

Using you.dude

[@goodman4093]

She is wating on another guy and playing with you

[@davidkuhn3695]

Did she pay? Get rid of her and find someone who likes you.

[@jivonstephen6677]

Gonna pretend I didn't see that lol, can't pretend to not feel it tho, I'm all cherry cheeks popping here ,omj ...... on point as ever . i needed that , thanks Jess hope your ok and all is well within stay safe and sweet 🍯 queen . Nice keys to notice even folded sleeves appreciates hard work so Have a bless one still Yuh feel meh till soon.

[@Ronald-gh6jl]

Nice content

[@vuyanitheo971]

Great , insitefull

[@kibirangofahad5017]

Walk Away

[@thabangmagana869]

My ex came to my sisters wedding this past weekend, wearing the first dress I bought her on her birthday. But she says she doesn’t see a future with me🤷🏿‍♂️😕I’m lost

[@rodneysessoms8804]

Time to show her you've moved on, been there and it worked out in my favor. I was never happier or more productive in my life

[@GoLiveJeez]

She's sometimes playing game or is benchmarking options.

[@emmanuelagbafor2027]

Hmmmmmmmmm Noted

[@oviesammy4481]

i dont understand copen is either a colour or a scrabble word never heard about copen strategy

[@tumentajohnson1320]

Let me share this

[@OTJaviG]

More with kids involved content

[@andredacres4422]

What if your wife was all good? Then now she's sending mixed feelings, we live in different places. But since lately we don't talk or text as much as we used to

[@Sb-do6xc]

I have a child with my ex. Im trying no contact and im just trying to keep it as when and where i need to pick up my daughter from. But my ex constantly messages telling me my daughter is upset over the split or she will send pics of her asleep or she asks me to go get her some food when my daughter is in bed or asks me to walk the dog. All along telling me she doesn’t want me is this mixed signals ?

[@mauricewilliams8609]

PS I meant to say I met this woman when I speak into my phone it's sometimes types the wrong thing so please forgive the error I'll try to speak into the phone more clearly next time by the way what language do you speak some of my friends are some Guyana Mozambique New Guinea I have friends all over the world I don't live too far from Columbia University I knew President Obama when he attended Colombia University I know a lot of famous people but that's not important the important thing is to know yourself sometimes you have to get rid of the negative within yourself so that the positive can come in to your life it takes a lot of meditation and fasting and alone time yes we need to be alone without ourselves to think and heal

[@DG-EditsYT]

Your hair is glorious, I just want to drape it over my bald head and pretend to look nearly as glorious.. I can but dream

[@gracesplace3449]

To sum things up she hates you 12:10 lol

[@t6gamerx489]

mam ur the best i just want to add a point where the girl says no for realation asks for date and gets angry when watches talking to another girls. but she can speak to all men wt about that can u pls leave me a message

[@anegbeabel2371]

Walk away....

[@newformats9570]

Hi Jessica,what if she's sleeping with another guy and lying to you but she doesn't know you already know

[@JessicaOS]

What other signal are you waiting for?

[@kennydomino2134]

What do you do when a female asks you to marry her and then goes m i a right after she asked pops up on random weekends and awkward times of the night like what you doing after not getting one call in the last 2 days unless you initiate it i know what it mean just clear it up for me please

[@paulcolin9071]

I'd move on at least temporarily in that situation

[@marcellusbrown7940]

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[@dancingbam4240]

Chick told me she has a man, i mentioned to her im going to vegas for my bday and she told me she wnana come but as friends... we can share a room but get 2 beds O_o

[@iconmuvment4193]

Have been chasing this girl for almost a year..But at first she told me her first boyfriend broke her heart after getting what he wants..So she is not ready to be in a relationship at all for now but I really love this girl...Have been nice to her since but what I don't get is She always tells me "everything will be okay" but still insists she is not ready for now....What should I do please?

[@ayebareronnie6353]

Same situation here

[@njabulonjebz5100]

Bro sometimes what yur heart desires may hold you back coz it's make you try hard to prove to that person that you really love her while she puts you on a pause. Be a man focus on yur career treat her like a stranger now coz yu have done all all to show yu love her. If she has love for you she will start chasing don' t make it easy foe her

[@fredrickkoech8396]

Take a break from her. Don't be needy

[@miguelrobb5719]

@@fredrickkoech8396take a break from her? No he needs to completely move on. She is screwing other guys while she is keeping him in her back pocket. He needs to have some self respect

[@johntez25mc-supercop]

You are just a back up in case other plans fails,,,,, run run run

[@prouv]

Well, went on the first date, spent 5h toggeter, at the end she was like : I had a nice date, I like you, but I dident feel any connection, but we might try 2nd or third date. And now shes dosent reply back. Could you advice. Thanks

[@njabulonjebz5100]

Simple she lied to your face

[@fredrickkoech8396]

Block her. Delete her number

[@jameskachi8980]

first to comment

[@eugeneboakyejnr]

T

[@addoasante7437]

Today dier why your hair come forward

[@fitforlifepft1]

If she is Sending more MIXED SIGNALS than🚦LIGHTS , you will CRASH at the RELATIONSHIP INTERSECTION!!! LEAVE!

[@merlinparviz1474]

No you just have to wait for the green light!!

[@fitforlifepft1]

@@merlinparviz1474 No, you have to go to the INTERSECTION that has the LEAST TRAFFIC!! :) Those places, do not NEED LIGHTS at all! Just Simple 🛑 and Go!

[@merlinparviz1474]

@@fitforlifepft1 Lol, dude you should write a book about this 😂!

[@fitforlifepft1]

@@merlinparviz1474 lol I have a name for this.. It is called “Traffic Lighting” lol

[@flint9889]

I was talking to this girl for a few months. She works at a bar I hang out. She then pushed me away so I avoided for a month. She started coming back but backed away again. Then she came back by walking close to me. Darting glances and really looking where I'm at. I would say hi but I didn't approach. Now she avoids eye contact. Did I miss my shot?

[@Strangingness]

Jessica, you're a straight up head turner with that hairstyle if I may say so.

[@JessicaOS]

blushing....

[@kenonjohnson6630]

Dealing with this right now. Thank u Jessica. It’s like u are always on time with what I’m experiencing…❤️

[@kimosabehmar1671]

Going through this too I contacted her once she did reply me and she said I don't know so I will start the no contact now She's going through difficult times and I know that she's talking to someone

[@bwalya773]

Forget the mixed singles love your dreadlocks

[@RodrekusKole]

U was right everything you said...worked made her come right back. ❤ u a Boss Jessica 😘 thanks

[@JessicaOS]

So glad!

[@bigabwa03]

Thanks to be on our men’s side… very good messages to us…

[@achirakol2560]

Mixed signal are for the others guys not me ,I will just tell her what I want and if she doesn't respond I just leave, take it or leave it and it work for me.

[@bokito11]

Hi Jessica when she say she doesnt want a relationship but she told me that she trust me and she is being herself when she is with me.. Does this mean that she is hiding her feelings for me..?

[@a.shakuur_]

You’re simply amazing, Jessica You have answers for all my problems in my relationship 😌