Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!
@refusetolose75282 жыл бұрын
Guys please dont get stuck in a situation like this. There shouldnt be any games if its mutual . Its all a waste of time and effort if their actions dont match their words. The person will always give you hope that it will work out. Dont be disrespected, you dont deserve to be treated like that.
@King_Ajani2 жыл бұрын
I’ve endured this for the past 3 months. It was draining and gave me anxiety. We spent time when she wanted to only but she wants to talk/text me daily. She never wanted to open up to me. I had to bargain for her time. I was putting out the most effort and communicating how I felt. I was vulnerable, transparent, emotionally available and honest. I decided it was enough because it was heading no where. I was losing my focus and couldn’t concentrate on what’s important in my life, which is completing my master’s degree in nursing. Fellas, take heed to this video and allow no one to string you along. That feeling of uneasiness inside can kill your motivation and cause unnecessary stress. Thanks Jess!!!!!
@salamiganiuolatunji10332 жыл бұрын
Hey Ajani, how did you deal with this?
@smith66032 жыл бұрын
Brother, I endure it for 4 months and your experience is like gazing in a mirror. I decided to remove myself and take back that power away from her and focus more on myself and goal.
@King_Ajani2 жыл бұрын
@@salamiganiuolatunji1033 I was never the type of guy to deal with women who have daddy issues and emotional baggage. I never thought she would allow her past to seep into what we were trying to establish. She was an emotional terrorist. I would pull away, she would text me an say she misses me. I would be suckered back in. We would talk about it and everytime I think we bend a new corner, the same issues arise. I don't know how and why I dealt with it. I genuinely liked her. I seen her and said I wanted to make her my girlfriend but that was a wrong thought. In the end, I told her, I am letting you go for good.
@King_Ajani2 жыл бұрын
@@smith6603 Put thyself first, be stingy. I am not saying to treat women bad going forward. Be careful of these females who are dating out here and they aren't fixed/heal. One must reflect, hold themselves accountable, atone for your past, evolve, enjoying being single, love yourself before you start dating. These females jump from man to man and not fixing their mindset. Protect your peace by any means necessary.
@sensualm12 жыл бұрын
I also experienced this for 6 months until I sent an email saying I won't be "chasing" her any longer. There's more to the story but sounds more fictional than factual...
@IntegraDIY2 жыл бұрын
Yep, at the end it usually ends up splitting ways. Either ignore her when she reaches out and play her game, or best of all walk away, and let her play games with someone else.
@rodneysessoms88042 жыл бұрын
Because they don't know what they really want. Been through it before, but I had to let her know I know what I bring to the table( no time for nonsense) and I hold both of us down if needed to let her know no she can depend on me during trying times. Some women need to realize only they can fix what's broken with them selves
@venividivindicator34832 жыл бұрын
"Taking action will give you a clear idea of where she's at in her mind"
@KDuB9I62 жыл бұрын
Its all a test men; stay stoic, patient and always keep your purpose #1.
@johnampiah38412 жыл бұрын
Am a reverend minister...apart from the bible and I carefully listen u....this channel helps me in my counselling job....I am really learning...hmmm..u have no idea....u re the best ...
@businessboom61432 жыл бұрын
Love dinning at Jessica's Table of "Wisdom!"
@belloabideen51972 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video Jess and I also learn a lot from people's comments. My opinion is if a lady really interested in you, she won't be playing games, she will be the one doing the chasing. Mix signals thing sucks, it drains out the energy in you and make you lost focus. Just walk away without the intention of going back to her. Focus on your goals.
@OiVinn-eq1ml Жыл бұрын
Great video! If she does this, delete her & move on. It's not worth the stress & headache You don't want a woman like that anyway...
@Strangingness2 жыл бұрын
Jessica, you're a straight up head turner with that hairstyle if I may say so.
@JessicaOS2 жыл бұрын
blushing....
@buzinesempire34272 жыл бұрын
Women doesn't want to take responsibility for their bad behaviors they just want to be professional victims guys cut off any woman who tries to come with any form of negativity and drama without any warning your peace of mind is not negotiable
@RodrekusKole Жыл бұрын
U was right everything you said...worked made her come right back. ❤ u a Boss Jessica 😘 thanks
@JessicaOS Жыл бұрын
So glad!
@metfreak100 Жыл бұрын
Brilliant advices. 1000 times better than sooo many dating coaches on youtube, who keep on going with jaded formulas, and selling false hopes(eg.turning a cold girl hot for you) etc its very sad tbh.
@fernandmichel40732 жыл бұрын
You're such a bright soul Everytime I look and listen to you my holly soul vibrates instantly. I love you Jess💯
@turnback98662 жыл бұрын
Such a weak man 😂😂😂 u should know all these before now wtf , lol, a woman gotta teach u these things ? 🤣🤣 weak
@bigabwa03 Жыл бұрын
Thanks to be on our men’s side… very good messages to us…
@Pawans212 жыл бұрын
Great command over english language and proper use of right words jessica.. i must say your channel is growing rapidly.. cheers from india !! Learning allot about the behaviour of females from this channel
@buzzafrique37002 жыл бұрын
I bet Ghanaian's speak the best english in the whole african continent
@benjaminoseikuffourjnr.16482 жыл бұрын
Very helpful & insightful. I'd rather always walk away from incoherent girls.
@akonluis64572 жыл бұрын
The conclusion says it all ma'am mixed signals are always negative signals. It is advisable to quit the relationship as early as possible unless you are the type that is in for games.
@akonluis64572 жыл бұрын
Finding difficulties meeting him online
@TSixSix2 жыл бұрын
Women will gaslight the hell outta you and then holler about “where are all the good men” and that BS “pressure” talk they always use..
@FatsoMpyatona2 жыл бұрын
I love this channel so much. You’re so articulate.
@ethiopianphenomenon657411 ай бұрын
backhanded compliment. If you know you know.
@fitforlifepft12 жыл бұрын
If she is Sending more MIXED SIGNALS than🚦LIGHTS , you will CRASH at the RELATIONSHIP INTERSECTION!!! LEAVE!
@merlinparviz14742 жыл бұрын
No you just have to wait for the green light!!
@fitforlifepft12 жыл бұрын
@@merlinparviz1474 No, you have to go to the INTERSECTION that has the LEAST TRAFFIC!! :) Those places, do not NEED LIGHTS at all! Just Simple 🛑 and Go!
@merlinparviz14742 жыл бұрын
@@fitforlifepft1 Lol, dude you should write a book about this 😂!
@fitforlifepft12 жыл бұрын
@@merlinparviz1474 lol I have a name for this.. It is called “Traffic Lighting” lol
@flint9889 Жыл бұрын
I was talking to this girl for a few months. She works at a bar I hang out. She then pushed me away so I avoided for a month. She started coming back but backed away again. Then she came back by walking close to me. Darting glances and really looking where I'm at. I would say hi but I didn't approach. Now she avoids eye contact. Did I miss my shot?
@MrDavidigobwa2 жыл бұрын
I have joined Lemonade finance courtesy to Jessica. I love it.
@JessicaOS2 жыл бұрын
Awesome 👌🏾
@benjaminoseikuffourjnr.16482 жыл бұрын
Matthew 11:16-19 sums it all.
@sfisomlondo66992 жыл бұрын
You're amazing Jess. Keep up
@TheInfamous730 Жыл бұрын
I received mixed signals from someone then i decided to move on and now she wants me and i dont want her..... sometimes its not worth the headache
@rossdepopo96302 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely amazing and inspiring to this generation…God bless you!!
@godwinjosiah25572 жыл бұрын
That’s what I searched to hear from this channel a month ago. I decided to move on but I wasn’t sure if I did the right decision. But I’ve heard you, now I know my fives months are gone just like games😒
@daltonfearon47912 жыл бұрын
These are some real powerful words Jessica I love them
@NJBoham2 жыл бұрын
Maybe I needed to see this video at this time. Going through right now and it's not even funny anymore.
@kevincroft9848 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Jessica fabulous as usual great teaching on this video Kevin fro Radcliffe Manchester UK 🇬🇧
@JessicaOS Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much!
@africanqueen36112 жыл бұрын
Thanks for everything 😘😘😘
@denzpitt19 ай бұрын
you hit it head on.. awesome advise
@michaeljewell532 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessie,I always get a lot out of listening carefully to your advice,it keeps me on an even keel as relationship problems can be a real test on one's sanity,I sometimes watch more than once to try and take it all in, by the way I love your hair do,looks fab💯👍
@tricckwrites41302 жыл бұрын
Accuracy at its peak!!! Thank you so much Jess
@davidmathenjwa22932 жыл бұрын
Jessica looking out for us❤❤👏👏
@kenonjohnson66302 жыл бұрын
Dealing with this right now. Thank u Jessica. It’s like u are always on time with what I’m experiencing…❤️
@kimosabehmar16712 жыл бұрын
Going through this too I contacted her once she did reply me and she said I don't know so I will start the no contact now She's going through difficult times and I know that she's talking to someone
@mpwheroes2 жыл бұрын
you are the legend jessica..everyday I'm learning to be better with what i want from women and relationship by your videos..thank you
@a.shakuur_ Жыл бұрын
You’re simply amazing, Jessica You have answers for all my problems in my relationship 😌
@achirakol25602 жыл бұрын
Mixed signal are for the others guys not me ,I will just tell her what I want and if she doesn't respond I just leave, take it or leave it and it work for me.
@RevealedFilms3 күн бұрын
Playing hard to get means she becomes hard to want…I end up ghosting or talking to other women
@4hinson7772 жыл бұрын
Joining your channel Jessica Os was for all the right reasons. 👏🏽👌🏾🔥😘
@JessicaOS2 жыл бұрын
Appreciate you
@kevincroft98482 жыл бұрын
Yes thank you for all your relationship videos I love them all Iam learning so much more about women thanks to you God bless you for this gift he has given you to help many thousands of us me who need your help Thank you Jessica xxx Kevin x
@kubel832 жыл бұрын
If you keep playing games with someone then eventually you will only attract people playing games. Good luck and see if it is fun when the wall hits.
@TheInnovatrixAI2 жыл бұрын
Jess your locks are 🔥🔥👍🏾
@oso29352 жыл бұрын
RIGHT THE new style is differentttt
@JessicaOS2 жыл бұрын
Should I keep it??
@JessicaOS2 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@femiadenugba53122 жыл бұрын
Yes, keep it
@josephwalker11502 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessica I guess there's no woman out there for me
@owenspetersgichinga60532 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much jessica I have experienced it. Infact I thought you were talking about me... thanks once again God bless
@chrisarroyo7990 Жыл бұрын
5:54 BRO I WAS LEGIT SLOUCHING AND WHEN I GOT UP TO SIT UP. I WAS SHOCKED ABOUT THE TIME LOLL. on a serious note thank you for the advice. with everything going on it makes me feel better knowing im not the only one here
@DaveOndiekAaron852 жыл бұрын
VERY CORRECT 💯%✔️
@patrickahiatsi752 жыл бұрын
Looking gorgeous, lady Jesse
@SoCoolScience Жыл бұрын
What if she says "I dont thinks we should hang out anymore." and then 5 days later she's texting me to go out to eat together and at the end of the night gives me a hug before we part for the night. Then again says "I dont think we should hang out anymore" and 4 days later shes texting me again to go out to the movies together and again hugs me before we part for the night. Then I tell her I think we Im going to move on, and she says "I care about you I dont want you to move on but if you do I want to stay in contact". You wanna talk about mixed signals. What the hell is going on in her screwed up head
@PeteJames-ol4ws Жыл бұрын
Using you.dude
@goodman4093 Жыл бұрын
She is wating on another guy and playing with you
@davidkuhn36953 ай бұрын
Did she pay? Get rid of her and find someone who likes you.
@chishimbabc40042 жыл бұрын
We are in 2022 and the year is almost ending 🙌🙌🙌 The fourth point Jess......am "walking away"🚶🚶🚶🚶
@muteesarichardkizza75482 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jessica I like your explanation you always heat on the forefront.
@angelbwalyachate2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful teachings👏
@tresorsumbu29042 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessica I’m soooo blessed
@coryagain4 ай бұрын
Advice: Plan your exit strategy. 🏃🏽♂️💨
@denisnyantori36612 жыл бұрын
Perfect Jessica
@chinemezeobialor83612 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much Jessica for sharing. I got value.
@kevincroft98482 жыл бұрын
Waw thanks Jessica for your video on mixed messages . I've learned alot from this video. I follow all your videos they are just the best out there . All the others just don't do it for me .But somehow your videos hit the mark every time . Thankyou once again for such a great help for me . Keep making great relationship videos. Us men out there in the real world will really thank you for your very good help Thank you Kevin xxx
@olisa8518 Жыл бұрын
Loved this so much
@realforexfisher2 жыл бұрын
I like your new hair.
@G1738S2 жыл бұрын
Been going through this with a friend for a while now that gives me these signals like touches my arms, laughs at everything i say, etc. When I finally told her how I felt about her, she said she dosent feel the same so we stopped talking for a few months. Now shes hitting me up again and whenever we do hang, she starts giving me the same signals. I was confused, but this clarifies a few things, thank you ❤
@kevincroft98482 жыл бұрын
Jessica this video was fantastic for me Iam in a friendship relationship but I want to take it to the next level but I keep getting mixed singled. Just like you
@peaceful15482 жыл бұрын
Jessica, youre so beautiful. thanks so much for these counsels.
@seankelly13662 жыл бұрын
This has always been a "super " challenge for me.....She always expressed interest when we have private or alone time but when she gets involved with the mundane avenue of common people who have absolutely no idea about how to express passion, she pulls back and leaves me on "hang"
@meshackantony51572 жыл бұрын
Jessy jessy.much love from kenya
@jimmysolumand29102 жыл бұрын
I like your hair style. It looks so beautiful. Thank you far all your teaching. We glade to having you to build our knowledge. Be blessed!!! Jessica.
@profesorhutmanchanda76262 жыл бұрын
I like how u are coming out
@Sebastian-bw9el2 жыл бұрын
You the best. 🙏🏿
@nss76612 жыл бұрын
Immediately after watching the video,she texted That’s crazy
@thembinkosimukarati88752 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this vid Jessy ,it has come on the right time for me
@daviddevlogger2 жыл бұрын
Try and fail, but don't fail to try.
@kennethyoung48922 жыл бұрын
It's best to move on
@eddiekingtheflames87912 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessica
@jasperemerald15222 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessy
@gregorylatta81592 жыл бұрын
Love your hair 😍
@SinglesandDating2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful video, I like every bit of it
@ekumfitv2 жыл бұрын
SHALOM
@bwalya7732 жыл бұрын
Forget the mixed singles love your dreadlocks
@torres870rem2 жыл бұрын
On #5... I was told a chick. " Are you going to keep talking about". Big red flag.
@narehkumar11102 жыл бұрын
You are very smart
@rolandnormiljacques16782 жыл бұрын
Once again you nailed it. Thank You Jess!
@yawbless71882 жыл бұрын
Great video 💕
@Karidugan8 ай бұрын
He just said he love me, and then says he was just joking so not wasting my time!!
@linasmith97082 жыл бұрын
Perfect 👍
@keithdevine82815 ай бұрын
I'm a male and I don't like showing my affections in public
@davidamper4648 Жыл бұрын
Jessica bringing FIRE in this one!! Thank you Jess for helping us imperfect guys to not waste time on women that bring drama and BS into our lives. It's nice to know there are still women like you that actually care about a man's masculinity. Especially in a time when masculinity is pounded on. God bless you Jess! And have a Power House day!! 💪🏽🔥
@titanniki4122 жыл бұрын
It's even Harder when your in Love with a Beautiful Queen who suffers from Bi Polar!! Confusing!! Is it her or the Bi Polar?? I'm still hanging in there after 16 months!!
@kaustavkar932 Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@jivonstephen66772 жыл бұрын
Gonna pretend I didn't see that lol, can't pretend to not feel it tho, I'm all cherry cheeks popping here ,omj ...... on point as ever . i needed that , thanks Jess hope your ok and all is well within stay safe and sweet 🍯 queen . Nice keys to notice even folded sleeves appreciates hard work so Have a bless one still Yuh feel meh till soon.
@kennethlawen80922 жыл бұрын
I will move definely and both partners should compliment one another
@effiya_ephya2 жыл бұрын
❤️‼️
@goaro20072 ай бұрын
back up value yourself self worth
@emmanuelagbafor2027 Жыл бұрын
Hmmmmmmmmm Noted
@kibirangofahad5017 Жыл бұрын
Walk Away
@marcellusbrown79402 жыл бұрын
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