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[@Peterwithanr]

Honestly a perfect take man. Iove these video showing ur persona. THE GLOW UP IS INSANE

[@manishraul]

PETER I'm so glad you liked it brother! I thought your video was so good I had to copy the title 🤣

[@putent9623]

Mf made the same video 2 weeks ago

[@Peterwithanr]

@@manishraul everyone on youtube does that. its okay its makes us grow, plus! its all you inside the video and thats what matters g, KEEP it UP UR BLOWING UP!

[@manishraul]

@@Peterwithanr This is why ur the goat

[@magziz2468]

Bro copied u I just watched ur vid

[@Pazuzu-]

The more I go out the more I confirm Im not missing s***

[@Nabashy]

Real

[@Good_Luck_8619]

Same 🤣

[@DC-rb3uz]

Fr outside makes me feel so uncomfortable it's like I am forcing myself in this shit because how others act.

[@matheusc972]

fr when i go out with friends. we just go at someone's house and stay there talking together the important thing is spend the time with the people you like. i know these guys since the fourth grade school. even now we got work and other things to handle , we still take time to spend together. ( sorry the grammar the english isn't my native language )

[@ArgyleGamer]

Agreed… I’ve tried putting myself out there at the expense of people someone I’m not and finding that people are just into smoking pot and/or drinking…

[@Babloo17]

When yt recommendations get way too real

[@mubarak6660]

yeah

[@pranavkottur9031]

Fr i clicked bc I knew it was about me

[@Saim.369]

Agree just discussed with friend same topic and now showing on youtube 😂 they are listening after AI from front canera watching 👀 and suggesting on emotional state according to your face expressions..

[@user-fs6cr5em2l]

@@Saim.369 yup its real

[@themagnificentorange672]

Literally

[@TheLambSauce659]

The problem is society. They expect you to have ur life in order at 20. They don’t understand u can have a stable life built at 30

[@RjDaOne01]

This must be pinned💯

[@ThatGuy-vi6cj]

THIS

[@wakar93800]

The problem is people who think that you’re still a kid at 20. At 15 you’re already a « young adult »

[@firewolf7108]

The problem is this belief of yours

[@toyo8460]

​@@firewolf7108nah.

[@TheFracturedfuture]

Going out is overrated. It's honestly not all that, once you keep going out regularly it gets boring and the older you get the more you want to have your space.

[@GoldCODMyt]

💯

[@teeaymusik9811]

True and this society is too sick anyways. You must find the right people at the right place.

[@noodledealer7447]

Balance!

[@Axel22250]

Who hurt you lil bro

[@lolong5976]

​@@Axel22250 his own mindset

[@TillTheThrill19]

As a 28-year-old who spent my late teens and early to mid-20s partying and drinking, I often engaged in things I shouldn't have. When the pandemic hit in 2020, I was 24 and became more comfortable saying no to unnecessary activities, prioritizing meaningful outings. Since then, I've traveled more and played more sports than ever. As I've grown older, I've come to appreciate my space and prioritize myself over others. I’ve always loved women, but now I focus my efforts on those who show me effort in return. If not, I'm content with being alone or hanging out with friends. Life is more than just women and going out; it's about self-fulfillment, doing what makes you happy, and having a purpose.

[@kingleo2121]

I really hate people like you. You experience life as it is and only regret the time spent when you look back. Did you not enjoy the time you spent while you were there and in the moment. You have stories and I mean plenty of them. Each and every place you went to is an interesting conversation starter about your life. The people you meet, the connection you had, or still have came from you experiencing people. When I get in your position all I’m going to remember is that I lived my life to the fullest than thinking I wasted it. Life is an amazing story you end up telling. It wouldn’t be amazing if it didn’t have obstacles.

[@jonathanalbarracin4647]

He is kinda on his early twenties, that's why he thinks like that

[@Musashi1611]

Love that humble brag

[@hemendraravi4787]

i get what u mean , but i think he is just telling you to go out and get friends or just to talk to your classmates and friend them in school , he is probably using woman here so more people (teens) might get interested ,but i am exactly like how he mentioned , i went straight to school n came home , rarely went out with friends , and for the last 2 years of high school i moved to a better school ,lost touch with my close friends , after school i got into uni , completed my 1 st year and now im introverted ( i think after covid i became super introverted , what caught me off guard is the point he made about eye contact as they were true) , dont have any close friends , i did get a few friends in uni but they all live in different states. so pretty much 19 , got no friends lmao. knowing the type of person i am idk i think ill just stay alone forever. i am planning to go to gym , (mainly to lose weight). so if i got a chance to my younger self i would have probably told myself to spend some more time with my friends and into some other hobbies as i did waste a lot of time by playing games , i still do but to a very smaller extent. im not even looking to get a girlfriend or anything in fact i probably wont even think about that for 3 more years.

[@GAmerXDg]

Agree with you, I'm 21 and I have the same mindset and goals, girls, partying, boring meeting ''unnecessary ones'' shouldn't be one of your priorities they are just waste of time and a big regret. You still have more to enjoy and learn for yourself and family, friends.

[@orionvegas2873]

This is true but, I also need money

[@manishraul]

We gotta work hard brother

[@GURWINDERSINGH-uv3qb]

very very correct

[@LoscoX]

@@manishraul Problem is not everywhere there are job opportunities

[@theminecraftchido90]

get a job ez

[@ProtoGen-2K]

@@manishraul they don´t want me to get a job, they want me to keep studying in university ;D (managed to pass a 127 ppl exam, only 31 passed)

[@zkilerex9661]

When u dont have money going out is pointless trust me

[@50lek]

no

[@rizezaki]

I only going out to do sport or buying items that all

[@sophusvd7767]

Fr

[@im4mthedarkness]

agreed

[@Devon_Herman_]

Nah go out and work

[@acewinters4294]

I'm 31 yo and I feel awesome... I don't even think about going out and doing stuff. I have things to do at home. They make me feel alive

[@Vios.313]

I only hangout to cure my depression and not blast my brain out and also keep cognitive motor function in check not only that being thankful to the privileged lifestyle to build a great future with someone there that reason.

[@Y4LUCID]

"Life is more than just women and going out; it's about self-fulfillment, doing what makes you happy, and having a purpose."

[@DJNefarious447]

​@@Y4LUCIDBro just quoted a comment from this video 😂

[@patrickhernandez7478]

This is not necessarily going out literally, it's about not exploring and trying new things

[@zex450]

Being bullied for 10 years in school made me develop a severe case of social anxiety and agoraphobia. I never had real friends, nor was able to socialize with normal kids and normal people either. Had absolutely no options as nobody would understand the severity of my mental health issues after such a long period of bullying and abuse. It's deeply tied into me. I stayed at home most of my time after (barely) graduating with poor grades due to dyslexia and anxiety issues, and I spent at home for another 10 years. Now at 31, I worked only for like 3 months, and it was damn hard, like I barely kept myself together, remained mostly silent around co-workers, and they labeled me as someone who i'm not (except one colleague, but we required a lot of time to even start communicating, and i'm soo glad that I got at least someone 'normal' now) cuz i'm very good at reading peoples body language and non-verbal communication. I've been through severe depression and times where my physical health has been affected because of it, and I still sometimes run into deep depressive episodes that I hardly tell anyone. I've been to multiple psychiatrists and therapists, but they didn't help much. I'm stuck and I can't fit into this world. Everyone I ever tried to hang with (very rarely) just wasn't a type I would hang with, except this one colleague now.

[@manishraul]

I hear you man. Find more people just like your colleague :)

[@phurian_6560]

Idk about the depression, but I went through the same thing you did when I was younger, bullied a lot, afraid to go out, etc. And because of all that, in my early twenties I was afraid to interact with people, it was to the point I would literally start shaking when talking to someone I didn’t know too well. But at some point I talked to some old guy that inspired me and told me I need to do better for myself (I was working at Amazon at the time), after I talked to him I got a job that forced me to be in front of people and get over my social anxiety and it actually worked, I don’t have a problem talking to people now but I still have a problem forming meaningful connections and I’m still working on that

[@kazyoun]

bro , thats agoraphobia as you said , and its symptom feeling not fitting , because of lack selfesteem and confidence that comes along with the traumas .... begin bro please going to therapy and find a psychiatrist and let them know what you feel , so you are in right hands and figure your shit together

[@RabbiBuntha]

Jesus loves you

[@thedarkestknight8381]

@@kazyounthere is no solution I have that and avoidant personality disorder

[@Ryback0]

To be honest, im a pretty good looking guy and i dont have any problem making connections. Even during highschool, girls would often find ways to talk to me and i also had alot of friends but id always choose to be alone at home. It was perfect. Sometimes, you dont always need people to be happy. If you're happy all by yourself, there's nothing wrong. Dont force yourself to be someone you're not

[@Yadrix_Nubb]

Yeah😀❤️💯

[@hemendraravi4787]

yea social media might make you think you are not okay with your life even if you are happy with it and make you doubt yourself.

[@flaco4130]

True, pretty damn relatable. When i used to be with my male friends who were friends with different girls they would come to me even if i made it seem like I'm avoiding them, honestly i never saw value in spending time with such people being alone made me feel contended

[@Legacyofmine]

exactly. many people with lots of friends and wealth are empty on the inside. people dont make you happy.

[@technicallypurple1610]

He's not mostly talking about being happy, he was just saying that when you grow older, you'll wish that when you were younger you went out more which is why you should start doing that bc youth won't last forever.

[@cristianomessi3339]

I am 26 and lonely because I hardly talk to people. It’s late and killing me inside but I will try slowly daily. Thank you Manish Brother.

[@manishraul]

You got this brother I believe in you 🙏

[@traplordso985]

It’s not late bro I’m 26 here and going through the same.

[@putent9623]

Brhh think a little. How did you make friends as a kid? Activities. You went to school, clubs, after school activities etc. If you want that kind of environment as an adults its very possible. I wouldnt advise it but there are bars. There is also churchs. If none of thise are for you, then there are sports. Even gym works (rarely tho). But i mostly recommend sports if you cant do church. Do a combat sport like boxing, youll meet other people there. You could also do classes although does rarely work. Also dont let this guy convince you that you cant mkae friends online. Im just saying find some kind of activity that groups you and strangers.

[@victorbonnah70]

Same but im 25 😂 maybe we should all be friends

[@Scars_on_my_nose]

@@victorbonnah70 📠📠

[@duck8280]

Story time. I actually met some of my best friends online, and hung out with them multiple times (flew to the other side of the country). I've been there for some of them going through heart break, and now that same person is getting married this September. We have a bachlors party in Vegas next month... Anything can happen... I've been blessed.

[@theking8347]

I'm not afraid to go outside and talk to people. The issue is, where ARE all the people? I go out a lot, but I just don't meet a lot of people. Everyone is either in a hurry to be somewhere else, or already has enough friends and isn't interested in meeting anyone new.

[@nicolastrf06niconicktrofa11]

Bro for real they tell me to meet new people in order to break the boring routine but where tf are the people?

[@BrandonWombacher-cp7uh]

Everytime I go outside, It is usually just me around.

[@theking8347]

@@BrandonWombacher-cp7uh Yep, that's always been the problem for me. I go out, but there's no one else out there.

[@tonethalegit]

BRUH I'm so glad I'm not the only one going thru this

[@welpnope-nk2nz]

It impossible for me to meet new people around my own age it very empty out there, you only make friends thru work, club, gym, or activities, hobby, school tech, animal park

[@MasonPayneJericho]

I'm 29 years old now - will be 30 in a couple of months. I love video games and definitely gonna play them till the end of my life. But I started to feel that I need some changes. Going out more, get to know people, maybe even getting a girlfriend, etc. I don't know if these feelings come from my heart or from outside forces - some people "criticize" me for being a "home stayer"... - but either way, I feel that I need these things. Honestly, I never had a girlfriend. During my school years I was a social outcast and I didn't really make many friends. In high school I wanted to have a girlfriend, but the girls treated me so badly that I didn't even really thought about it to try getting a girlfriend again until nowadays. My looks are okay, though I definitely need to lose some weight. And I have some friends from work too, whom I'm going out with sometimes. I'd like to meet new people, but I fear that I would just bore them or maybe even creep them out. Mostly because I'm not really good at small talk and I don't really have much stories to tell and topics to talk about - other than video games, movies and things like that... But on the bright side, maybe I could get friends through the "things" I like. For example, I'm a fan of Michael Jackson and I've been thinking about meeting other fans through fan pages and clubs :) We'll see what happens. I'm actually mostly satisfied with my life. For those, who reading this, if you feel bad about an aspect of your life and you want to change it. Just do it! Otherwise, live your life the way you want it. Nothing else matters.

[@manishraul]

Thanks for sharing this brother

[@yosemite4real]

How do you know my life story?

[@followwind1471]

Hey this is also me, but I'm 1 year younger than you. I'd say don't worry too much about it. Really living for myself is what helped me alot

[@g.e.889]

I was in a similar situation. I'm 29, turning 30 in October. I was a social outcast and loner at school from grade 9. Remained a social outcast throughout Uni (only had a couple of friends but not very sociable) up until age 25. The year I was 25 was when I finally decided to become sociable, so I booked a big Europe trip. Unfortunately, that was just a couple of months before Covid started, so I ended up losing another 2 years of social life and making friends. I finally got to travel from 2022 at the age of 27 and have done so much since and made heaps of friends. It's definitely not too late to make friends and party in your late 20's. I highly recommend solo travelling. It really helps you to become extroverted and helps you to discover who you really are and the people that you are compatible with.

[@yosemite4real]

@@g.e.889 The problem with me is that I don't have anything to talk about with any of my friends. So I just ask them about their life and sooner or later I will lose interest in the whole conversation. Also i will act like I know what they are talking about so i don't look dumb, which inturn makes me feel fake and over the years i forget the point of talking I guess. Coming to think of the whole situation, I was forced to talk to avoid being awkward throughout my life that I don't know who I am anymore. All I know is i am more of a thinker than a talker.

[@nopenope7386]

There is more to life than human connection.

[@itneverbegan738]

There is more to life than air, food and water. THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THAN LIFE.

[@Abrhm77]

human connection is the main thing because thats what keeps us going if u like it to admit or not. Even as a man most of the historic things done in history was a selfless act trying to protecting someone or something, for a greater cause. u will lose your spark if all u care about is yourself. most of us want to truly improve cause of outside things, like family etc. true purpose comes when ur dedicating your life to something more than yourself. it maybe anything new experiences, adventure being passionate about something, being able to provide for your family , getting a girlfriend etc.

[@A-Dubs398]

Is there? Human connection is pretty important.

[@z0ck3y23]

The only thing as a muslim i can think of is my religion and connection to God, since i believe in an eternal life after this one and wanna prepare myself for it. But other than that, like what? Wasting your time playing Elden Ring? It might be enjoyable for the moment, but thats not something youll remember or be proud of in 20 years. Im not saying you should go out every single day and be with others 24/7, just like with everything, you will need moments where you take a break from that aswell, thats when you can play video games, but that should never be your focus in this life. And im not saying all this to talk down on you, im genuinely asking you, like what for example? What am i missing out in your opinion?

[@nopenope7386]

@@z0ck3y23 Books, creative writting, workouts, meditation, cooking, working, learning niche things that interest me... any solitary activity, really. I don't need connection to be fufilled and proud, if I'm doing this things. If I want something like sex, I'll just pay. I don't want friends. And I won't be around to look back in 20 years.

[@SpaceSeal64]

Bro, I swear my youtube recommendations know too much about me. Seriously though, thank you for the wake up call. For a long ass time I've felt this emptiness that I have tried to fill with studying, working, and consuming content. I have no idea why it hasn't occurred to me that social belonging/intimacy is a human need and is absolutely not optional. I've always labeled myself an introvert, and never made making friends or putting myself out there a priority, but doing so is like fighting my own genetic programming. To my fellow self-labeled introverts out there, let's go touch grass, and hopefully some boobs too.

[@abdulazeemkhan777]

Fuck... this level of honest no bs advice is what we need more on yt now

[@universalredguard]

Going out is overrated. You're not missing out on anything but problems 😴

[@victorbonnah70]

Oh come on, touch some grass for once😂

[@thesurvivorssanctuary6561]

​@@victorbonnah70Say that after your third divorce!

[@shishona6606]

@@thesurvivorssanctuary6561😭😭

[@kevinvillanueva137]

thank you! i have been saying this. people are depressed and ashamed of their true introverted selves because they have been brainwashed by society that they need to have thousands of friends and go out every weekend. the fact that they hate themselves for who they really are is enough proof that people suck. the society that made them hate themselves for not going out is the society that will let them down when they follow a sheep mentality and “go out and have fun”. people are boring, overrated, and full of baggage. people really suck. it’s okay to be alone. being alone doesn’t mean lonely.

[@isac4043]

@@thesurvivorssanctuary6561 Yeah, the thing is, he wont have a divorse cus he never touched a woman and the reason is staying at home* thats the real problem*

[@GlobalUnsolvedMysteries]

You've just been speaking facts. For most of my high school career I've just been going home after school. I was also a social outcast, so I can relate to you. After awhile it messes with your mental health. You need to go outside and socialize with others. If you don't have any friends at your school, it's maybe because no one wants to be around you (whether that be because you not physically attractive or don't have social skills), but that's ok. Just worry about improving those aspects in your life and you will attract people with similar interest as you, who genuinely make you a better person. Trust me, it's better to have no friends, but constantly improving yourself outside your house, then to let your mental deteriate of constant overthinking and self-hatred at home and letting time pass by.

[@raheemcamal998]

Facts

[@manishraul]

well said

[@Multiversal_Guardian_Of_Ice]

This is the best "the treasure was the friends we made along the way" I have ever seen.

[@MaybeTiberius]

the issue is, especially on the internet atm: that people fail to realize to whom a specific advice is targeted towards. there is no yes or no, it depends. and i am getting tired of people online arguing in comments and alike about ''yeah no thats not true, i do it differently and ...'' bro... its because you re not even the target audience for this advice to begin with. you can give advice to one person and it might be completely wrong for another person. just because something works FOR YOU... does not mean it works for everyone else. if a person is sitting at home all day, 100% this person HAS to pretty much FORCE himself to go out more for the greater good. people dont realize that your brain for the most part is not your friend. your brain is resistance. your brain always wants to go the easier route and just chill at home in comfort zone that why you actively have to force yourself to go out. on the other hand if a person is out working and having a working social life to begin with, maybe its a better advice to just take it slow and chill and have a day at home from time to time. it depends, that why arguing about it is beyond pointless.

[@gamwsas]

going out makes me so mentally tired. i need to get to home to recharge

[@charis5070]

Sign that it mentally challenges you bro. May you get out more so you strengthen your mind 💪

[@gamwsas]

@@charis5070 no i dont have to

[@kamen6009]

Yes you have,and you need me for that​@@gamwsas

[@BurningSorrows]

Worddddd

[@ajithkyt9930]

But we have to change our mindset be comfortable everywhere that have to be done for our own good for our future we can’t stuck forever in this fucking mindset to let u shut u down fight back control our life now didn’t then when 😊

[@raku6246]

when I stay home new new idia came in my mind about life and career, but when I go out I forgot everything

[@Gustmazz]

I agree with you, I've been the same way for a very long time. 3 years ago I've decided that I would change that, that I would go out more, meet new people, exercise, etc. And I did: I'm much healthier now, looking much better and enjoying living a lot more. But you know what didn't change? My connections to other people. Unfortunately, having friends isn't something that depends entirely on you. You need others to try and put in the effort to get to know you too and most people unfortunately don't really want to do that. Most prefer the easier methods of online friendships which, just like you said, don't really fullfill our needs as human beings. You can certainly fix yourself and become more sociable, but that will only get you so far: You also need others to do the same as you, and most people don't bother. Still, with that said, It's certainly worth it.

[@darkknightkn783]

its so difficult to make new friends cause I stayed home for like 5 years straight. I only went to school and had my social circle there and when i graduated last year, my social life was gone. I had no contact with any of them since then, we were just friends because we saw each other every day. After that I started going to university and i realized how difficult it is to make new friends and get to know new people cause i actually got no interest that i could talk about with them and no social skills since i havent made new friends for a long time. I also kinda developed social anxiety, i cant really talk to people in real life, its difficult.

[@manishraul]

What you just described was my exact situation a couple years ago man. Thing is, now I feel the exact opposite and never feel lonely EVER. Trust the process of getting better at talking with people and you will see how good life will treat you brother. Don't forget to always smile :)

[@kronjoulie5265]

man i fully understand this and i think its absolutly right everything you say, i had best life ever until 16yo than i moved to another country where i didnt know anyone and even when i came to school nobody wanted to be my friend since i didnt know their language and they didnt want to speak in english, and ever since that nothing changed i tried different school i learned the language but still everything is same so i just started focusing on my self on our family business and just waiting time to get back to my home country to go out with friends that actually like me and arent fake. 3 years later everything stayed same, i go to university and people around me just feels fake compared to those from home country which i know since being born. even when i made new friend they never want to go out w me idk really know if its nationallity problem or what but man its so sad.... i have many skills on bike as well i am good rider and i go to boxing so i am definetly not antisocial. i am spending most of my time with my dad riding on hills and racing him but i miss going out partying and doing crazy shits that i been doing when i was 14

[@manishraul]

It's so true that people at uni seem "fake" compared to back at the home country

[@Warriyo25]

I'm introvert, but this is my quote. "I breathe oxygen, not people".

[@Y4LUCID]

I feel honestly so connected to the words you spoke for the past 5 years I have been waiting for this to fit into my lifestyle but I've realize no major changes are gonna happen if I stayed home all day. This is me in my summer break and I hate it for the fact that I don't have any friends who I really trust to speak to.

[@tjxness]

i totally agree. im 16 years old and i just finished school and its only now after so many years of locking myself away from society that i realise i want to change and have more friends, but what is stopping me is bullying and stuff. back when i was 7 so in 2015 was the last time i had any proper friends. in my first 2 years of schools i was decently popular but i went to a different neighbourhood with all these different kids. and nobody accepted me because everyone already knew eachother so i was known as the "new kid" for so long and it kind of stuck, i never felt like i belonged even after so many years of being there. on my 9th birthday party i invited my entire year-group and 2 people showed up. im going into college in september and i have high hopes because i already met a few of the kids that are joining my college and they're sound people. but im gonna be 20 in 4 years and although that might seem like a lot just think that lockdown was 4 years ago, and that has flown by. edit: by "making friends" i dont mean going out and partying and destroying my kidneys and lungs because i drank or smoked too much, thats not a real friendship those people are only friends with you because you're addicted to the same thing that they're addicted to. a real friend is someone who you can trust. someone who will help you get out of a dark situation such as addiction, also someone who you can travel with i would honestly love to travel with a group of friends. go and see the world, but if other people want that too then they have to make the right choices and not surround theirself with the wrong people

[@KrimsinBH]

This guy is so genuine and easy to understand, feels like I’m talking with him

[@queenlasarah7369]

im a girl but i needed this vid sm 🙏i could relate to this, mostly cus of strict parents and social anxiety. this summer im giving it all and trying to hv a 360 change to change who i am. being at home all day n shi is getting u nowhere in life its such a waste fr. live your life to the fullest

[@tesla9665]

Bruh when I clicked this video I was still feeling kinda down, after seeing you here, made me cheer up😂. Seriously bruh what the heck you doing here?

[@wycko0]

nah if thats u on the pfp girl u look amazing go out you will be accepted by people and you will make friends pretty easily

[@tesla9665]

@wycko0 it's not about the looks bro. People can be so handsome or beautiful but if they are more on the introvert side, shy away, then other people will also prefer to not bother them

[@queenlasarah7369]

@@tesla9665 wdym what am i doing here? i relate to this shit 💀

[@queenlasarah7369]

@@wycko0 yes thats me on the pfp haha thank u, and noo man its so hard for me to make friends esp with girls. i was always a loner but tryna change that from now by going out more

[@ashleysingh2534]

i think as humans we crave what we dont have. antisocial people crave social relationships. people who have an abundance of friendships crave personal time. i think its important for us to take life into our own hands, and create new things rather than just experiencing life passively.

[@vicvic2081]

Uff alpha female

[@ashleysingh2534]

@@vicvic2081 😍😍😍

[@viveksontakke8111]

If any thing which is in more than need it always is a problem for humans

[@1Demolish]

Thanks for this brother. I really needed to hear this rn. Been lonely cunt for years and i have been spending most of my free time playing videogames at home. But this summer im really doing a big chance in my life ❤

[@BeastBrucky]

as an introvert. nah man i've been out a lot in the past, i went through a lot, and i find peace at my home playing on pc my favorite games. thanks for this tho

[@HeyyRacxx]

I feel the same way bro, absolutely goated at the games I play, but at what cost .. it’s comforting in your safe space but everyone needs a breath of fresh air every now and then

[@vorpalchoppers]

Man said all that just to sell his self improvement course

[@trevorkohne7780]

I'm 26 and still have this problem...I really needed to hear this

[@Badthunder123]

I stay at home at lot now I recently got out of a 3 year situationship which messed me up and I also lost my job which allowed me to travel I hate where I am in life right now because the world is a massive place full of beautiful places and I want to see these places I stay at home to rebuild myself I go to the gym every day but I'm at the lowest in my self confidence in every way I want my life back and only I can get my life back to those traveling and seeing people enjoy those moments together cherish them because you never know when it'll end and how much you miss it when it's gone.

[@SheLoveMyGum]

You’re one of the most realest people out there I wish you were my family member and thank you brother for sharing I subscribed and will keep on watching your content. God bless you and wish you the best 🙂

[@Boomer6574]

This shit relatable as hell. I wasted my teens and 20s doing nothing but playing games, watching anime, wrestling, and...porn. I wanted girls but wasn't putting in kinda of work and was doing something that would drive them off instantly.

[@Incel371]

Dude its your face who drovr them off

[@theking8347]

No, you did those things because you couldn't get girls

[@theking8347]

No, you did that because girls weren't interested

[@CopaXI]

@@Incel371not cool bro

[@IPlayzYT224]

Nga that comment wasnt needed, not cool and huge L ​@Incel371

[@JoshR-pb9tt]

This is the realest sh*t bro, thank you.

[@t3rmipvp]

i used to live just like you did back then, i started to hang out more for the same reason too !! The first thing i did to escape from that situation, was going to the gym daily taking care of myself, my hair and my skin. Im slowly recovering my confidence back, i never been more happy

[@leafyedits486]

This is the first time i feel like ive been through the same shit as someone else bc thats happening to me right now but luckly for me i forced myself out my comfort zone to talk to people and i have to admit it has made it easier to talk to people and do shit u normally wouldnt do and playing video games and staying at home eventually gets boring and u will crave a need to talk to someone or just have any social interaction with someone but coming out your comfort zone will have a big impact on your life as a man and if u want a girl or man u must go outside and interact with people and get to know them and as a man life isnt easy so u must work on yourself on your looks and your life dont wait for someone to talk to u because no one will u must put yourself out there and talk to people, u must do it now and dont keep waiting the more u wait the more time u waste that you will never get back.

[@Jesse_Stamour]

I’m turning 19 tomorrow, I need to step up. Thanks bro

[@giespire]

i’m 21 i feel like it’s over lol

[@GameDragon2k]

My man thinks because I stay home, I have online friends to talk to. You overestimate my abilities.

[@vellrahm4311]

Straight to the point and very smoothly delivered, thanks brother 💪

[@ishadow6044]

My friend Mathew passed away from taking his own life in 2016 because he stayed in all day playing video games not being able to be social

[@SaQiPersonal]

Appreciate, relatable, i also spent almost 14 years at home, and faced Many issues anxiety depression, but finally i realised and i try to keep a balance that makes me back to life, Anything too much is not good. Walking with friends is best thing, but u also need to spend time with family, after doing that you ll enjoy ur personal space

[@MRFangu2]

your smile holds so much sadness even your eyes are filled with sadness or regret i hope we will achieve it

[@manishraul]

100%%%

[@adriant4776]

Thank you for the talk brother

[@stelimartinov2142]

One time when I was 10, I tried to speak to literal strangers, they rejected me, which developed my social anxiety. However, I do speak with people, had a lot of intimacy, and did stuff to remember where when I tell a story of mine to someone whom I expect them to have more stories than me, they just told me that more things happened in my life than theirs. Video games kept me sane during the roughest moments of my life and thanks to them, I am a good person. But at the same time, people have changed me to the point where I try to be the best version of myself. You all just need to know the balance when to stop playing and when to stop being comfortable with people, because most people I have met were temporary, including the girls I have dated/had intercourse.

[@ThinhNguyen-ss1wf]

This is so related. Good video, man.

[@manishraul]

thanks man!!

[@redsol3629]

Real talk. Thanks, bro.

[@bebemax95]

Sup fam. I was Grand Master rank on Overwatch as well lol. Although im a few years older than you, everything you said is extremely relatable. I went through the exact same thing and still somewhat going through it. I still love video games and play everyday. But hitting the gym everyday is probably the best first step you could take to do better. I was fortunate enough to find a gamer girlfriend online, but honestly wish i did talk to more girls when i was younger cuz i was shy for no reason. After you get a good job and make money, you fall into comfort but you cant let that stop you from the gym and social grind. Speaking of social grind, one thing i learned is that its not worth trying to cater to people you cant relate to. Those people wont be true "friends". Its unfortunate that i didnt meet you in real life before i graduated college bro. I think we would have been good friends since i could relate to everything you said and have the same exact mindset as you.

[@manishraul]

So true brother. We can still be friends bro :)

[@keizenv836]

needed this, thanks brother

[@JustBey]

Well said. Many people are struggling with video game addictions and have difficulties focusing on their goals as they tend to help escaping the real world because society has fallen down and nowadays is pure chaos. For me, what really matters are my family and my religion. I love workout, talking to my family and deepening my understanding of my faith, such as by reading the Qur'an. This reminds me that this worldly life is only a test, and in the end, what truly matters are the deeds we've done. Like really, there are people that are blind, deaf, or even amputees, making it clear that life is and always will be unfair and not a "so rewarding place". We achieve success through hardship and the difficult tests we face from our lord, and not from satisfaction. Thank you for giving us the opportunity to reflect on our lives, which is very important!

[@theking8347]

Nobody is addicted to video games lol, there's just nothing else to do

[@Stord-qh7np]

As a girl this made me think about my life decisions

[@dennisg2759]

well ngl ive done all those interactions but since i got to the gym last 6-7 so months ago, ive been having a indecisive college decision (ive stopped college) ive stopped going to the gym and again started socializing online and playing with friends within this summer although working out at home had me thinking of how my gym friends are doing , as for i have this never ending craving for self destructive behavior by putting myself into discomfort and pushing limits of my mental and physical now , but here i am thinking to myself my pursuit of finding knowledge at home and learning is great and all, but above all things knowing something from experience and being able to use it has to be the most satisfying feeling ever for me, while also gambling on possible events has been satisfying , but overall it is always knowing new people and learning unpredictable things because theres been this copy paste going on with people i cant differentiate ,and always wanted to be proved wrong to gain satisfaction, so thank you and to hopes this is the last time i have to put vids like these into "watch later" and forgetting it.

[@yeetusfeetus6967]

its really hard it really is. Im about to be a sophomore in highschool and I feel like im exactly in your shoes. I feel like ever since i left middle school I never had any REAL or TRUE friends, everyone who came from my previous middle school to my currrent highschool were my friends but not the real ones. Once i stepped foot into highschool, I just stuck with people who I knew from last year and did this for the first few weeks and after those few weeks, I realized those werent the people I wanted to hang out with and tried branching out. I eventually did but it was purely circumstantial and I believed to be where i got lucky as I made my first new friend. And the cycle repeated, in this new group of friends we all just played games IN school which is actually crazy. All i did was sit down and play brawlstars 24/7, 7 days a week and soon enough I finished school. My whole freshman year felt wasted, I did not participate in any clubs or school related activities and did zero sports. I really want to change but its so hard. After watching this video makes me feel like someone understands me. Im truly grateful for you bro, hopefully i can create stronger bonds this year and change for the better 😊

[@aiueokaya]

Thank You Man!

[@JDrives732]

Needed to hear this bro fr💯🙏🏽

[@manishraul]

My man 🎉

[@JDrives732]

@@manishraul 🙏🏽🫡

[@PowderedVoltage]

My wife and I do outdoor activities. Like hiking, waterboarding, etc. We don't involve others, because we enjoy the peace of each other. We're in our mid 40's, and we've had our fill of the noise people bring.

[@kingdave1208]

Anxiety pulls a lot of people back from having fun or going out with friends

[@itsmrmahin]

Im going through the phase you been through, isn't it crazy that you know how it feels what Im going through. If something good have happened to you later in life then we can be pretty sure Inshallah something good will eventually happen to us.

[@ChrisPBacon-lu6wd]

Very relatable. Subscribed. At the same time, I think you can do both. As long as you're not always home literally all the time, you can make some friends and feel fulfilled. You dont have to talk to a hundred people. That will make you not appreciate the people in your life. Just make enough friends that you can hang out with every now and then so that you're not socially isolated. Best place for that is probably at work or some sort of leisure weekly activity where you get to see the same people over and over again.

[@dr.glurak2462]

I like staying at home, but its important to go out as well. Balance is important in life.

[@osmanyilmaz1]

lol im 30 and did stay at home most of my life and on top of that im working remote now.. i dont regret single shit in my life, i love living that way.. do whatever makes you happy and find peace yourself

[@kappamoo793]

Literally like me, and mostly of the time I feel miserable staring out of space for no reason.

[@nnnyel]

I get it. Outside is something else, it's fun. Learned that the hard way. Being socially inept my entire life, and to top it off, staying in my bedroom for the entirety of my senior years in high school that lead to my college life miles away from my hometown. It was pretty tough. The first year of CS was so exhausting, but for the wrong reasons because adjusting to that new life was more stressful for me than my studies. I shared an apartment/dorm with 5 other people, they're good people but it drained me to have to talk to people daily. I faked my way through all of it, but it eventually felt more real as the days go by. By then I knew I needed to push through that phase, I wanted to improve. As an insecure skinny guy, I started to take interest in going to the gym. I made it my habbit and gained a bit of muscle on top of my bones. But honestly that routine changed my mind more than it did my body. That's all it took. By then I felt more content, and started focusing on my hobbies. I programmed a lot, made music on the side, and worked on my body, all while staying home. It's summer break rn and that's all I've been doing and I don't mind it. I get your point but it's not about staying home, or going outside, it's about your connection with your people, your hobbies and your goal.

[@bananbananowy3552]

This video might be getting to some people, people who have goals and in general things that they would like to achive (like a mentioned girlfriend) but personally I think I might be too deep gone for that. Maybe when I get better, I'll return to this video and give it a praise it deserves.

[@benbrown9053]

I did nothing but play video games after high school all my 20s.. thanks to that I became very social compared to what I would have been if I never interacted with other players online. I also met my wife playing ps4. I have to admit I do get anxiety when I go out but at least I stayed out of trouble. Who knows what I would have done with my life if I went out with real life local friends that I didn't have. I lived in the DMV area near dc everyone here goes out. I'm glad I just went to work and stayed home.

[@mohit1768]

Thank you Manish bhaiya 🙏.

[@CommanderGXgaming]

I believe a good balance between the two would work. Making new friends irl as well as having a group of friends to play with.

[@shahzaibas957]

Thank you soo much brother for the motivation W youtube recommendation

[@786GG]

i dont stay at home a lot thats the problem and thats why iv been so unorganised since i got clean i was never home.. always workin.. job to job etc barely used to sleep always chillin im 38 grown woman in recovery so right now my home is my heaven. and i appreciate simple things.. because I have faith. I dont chase comfort, even when iv been my richest, i used to waste money.. or give it to charity. never saved ever. cause money is just a toy everything is free.

[@jaysony8587]

Brother, you’re right. This DID make me cry . . .

[@TXCSymbiont]

Tbh i want to stay home and i have enough chances to go out and i don’t want to go out and im socially fulfilled by my online friends

[@MaybeTiberius]

online friends are not friends.. they are rather... temporary companions that happen to walk in the same direction for a while. its all fake besides that. online friends are as much of a real friend, as luigi is your friend just because you play super mario or chatgpt is. you will realize that at some point at it will come sooner than later and than you will regret time wasted. real friends come to your house and hug you just because they can.

[@GamingAndChill]

@@MaybeTiberius So? Not everyone likes going out, and we all like different things in life. How do you know that he'll regret anything? Maybe that's exactly how he wants to live. Also, there's no such thing as "wasting your time" because we all die in the end, and no matter what you do in life, it won't matter. Time you enjoyed is not a wasted time, and the things you think are a good use of time, are a waste of time to someone else.

[@MaybeTiberius]

@@GamingAndChill not talking to a guy called ''gamingandchill'' tbh. pointless to argue with an addict. argue with a crack addict that they should drink a smoothie instead and you ll get the same result xD ''oh man bro but i enjoy pumping heroin into my veins, it cant be a waste of time if i enjoy it right?'' yeah... you do you, you ll realize at some point eventually and for the rest: well you cant save everyone. some people are willing to learn and improve and the others, well just fck em

[@6alaile]

Similar background, video games after school and weekends while all my peers would be hanging out.

[@manishraul]

Damn relatable

[@jss.2020]

@@manishraul you have the right idea but why did you come to the conclusion that women is the meaning of life

[@Rownoscc]

I screwed up socially at my school to make people despise me, I hate living in a small town, I’ve been everywhere. No family, no friends, no connection, I’ve been living like this for six years and I desperately want to leave to either be closer to family or to be in a place like Europe where I can experience new experiences other than this.

[@ogtriple00033]

Thank you people needs to see this ❤

[@ryancentnarowicz]

I had a group of friends when I was younger we all changed and drifted apart once we turned 30 years old.

[@chetan.k.p4092]

Great message man!! You earned a new subscriber

[@JoJoFriedRice]

Wanted to chime on this as concise as possible: This video has a message with extremely good intentions and you should feel proud of yourself for taking the time to share this but I believe it only applies for people who are experiencing an extreme amount of loneliness and isolation and not for everyone who has just decided that they are happier staying at home. When I was 19-22 I went out at least every weekend. I felt that I wasted my day if I didn't go out and make friends and would feel like shit if I did not meet anyone interesting that day or if I wasn't able to gain the acceptance of people. I wanted so bad to be cool to others and I went out again and again and again hoping I can find "my tribe". Here's the thing: what if that's just a cope for a deeper thing you're neglecting? I realized that the only reason why I felt loneliness to THAT extent is because I wanted to please everyone and never myself. It was a surprise but it felt familiar at the same time: I felt most happy when I did not care about any of that shit anymore. It took years but now what brings me joy isn't going out, it's staying at home, playing video games, inviting my two best friends over, my sister, and my girlfriend. At this very moment, I don't need more than that. I love being at home. I used to go out to bars every friday making new friends I didn't even know I truly liked when I could have just stayed at home, enjoyed myself, and if I felt like having someone over, they're a call away and if they decline, I still have the pieces of me that make me smile and that's more than enough.

[@MattHall05]

This video hits deep. I am one of these people who stay at home all day. I don't have a driver's license yet, so I can't really go out and do things, because I live in a small town and the nearest major city is almost 50 miles away. I am not a socially active person, because most of the things I am into, wouldn't be in the best interests with other people the same age as me. I've did express some of my interests with other kids around my age back when I was going to school, and they all thought it was cringe. So it's pretty hard for me to make friends. However I do have one friend that I do talk too on somewhat regular basis on Discord, but he lives out of state and lives on the other side of the country, so I can't really do anything with him in real life. If anyone is wondering, I do work at a job, and it's my first job. I took me almost 7 months to find a job in my small town, and I work at Hardee's. But my hours there are so crappy, that I am basically living off of unemployment, even though I can't afford unemployment because of my shit hours. I am trying to find another job that will give me more hours. However almost every place I applied for either rejected or ignored my application. Although when I took their tests online, there were some questions that I didn't understand. Life is brutal as fuck right now. ;-; Preying to get out of this mess.

[@teekaythusi5275]

Bro the area i live in my age mates (15,16) are just envious of my life cause my parents allow me to drive their car, I'm a great guy so i great them they take it as i wanna show off.even the people i grew up with since young!

[@manishraul]

Sounds like you need new friends bro

[@mohamedhosnyalnaggar]

I'm gonna download this as an audio to listen to it every day because I literally think All you have said now is all I needed to hear and all I will need to hear in the future till I reach my goals, For me this is the greatest motivation I've ever I could ever

[@trapbois9369]

If I was not at work I was at home cleaning and playing video game only having online friends. Since the gym I changed and made better habits. I’m more social I talk to more people etc. my advice to other find a healthy habit. Book club, running club, or a club where you are out there. you may be scared at first but trust me it will change you for the better.

[@GeorgeTheRapper2]

His video speaks to me thank you bro

[@RaviTeja-rs2ql]

I needed this badly thanks for making the video bro 🙌👏🙏❤💯

[@Titan-jb2ht]

Thanks bro , I can relate to the fact that I'm always home and I wasn't put in any sports .Trying to change all that 😅

[@manishraul]

I know it sucked bro hahaha good job on improving tho!

[@PotatoMonkiYT]

The real thing people are missing is REAL love. Not worldly love you get from your girlfriend or friends, cause that’s all temporary. It will always fade. Emotions fluctuate. There’s an eternal comfort and peace that comes from believing in God when you have nothing left… that’s the first time i saw my life start to go in a positive direction. nothing gets under my skin, nothing makes me anxious, im learning not to live in the past or the future, but the present. all this came from realizing there IS such thing as good and evil, and i was living a life of evil, which led me to the reality of Christianity. If you read to this point and you feel like discrediting my point because of my faith, i don’t blame you. I would’ve done the same 1 year ago. Anyways I hope you all find your way as i continue to find mine. God bless

[@bigjay3418]

Back in 2019 i moved from Alberta all the way to PEI (provinces in Canada) and it was most likely one of the toughest things ive ever had to deal with. I struggled hard to make new friends and only a few ive made over the past 5 years. Recently I connected back with my friends from my home province being Alberta, and that has honestly done wonders for me. But every now and then I still dot back to what would life be like if I didn't move? After the move and when i first started my new school (in grade 8 in 2019, present day im done high school now) I would come back home and spend all my hours in my room mostly crying and silently cussing out my parents for moving us here. Obviously i dont curse them anymore but theres still a bit of a resentment, which I know is immature buts its hard to forgive them for what they changed, which was basically everything. I just felt like saying something idk, sorry.

[@GhostLinx]

All the history of monks and priests in isolation prove you are wrong , there are ways to be independent, content alone and once you get to a certain point of feelings fufilled in your life after years of doing so , the right people will be there, no matter how long you are isolated or have been

[@serumachi]

I really like how this video touched on the fact that if you're struggling with loneliness, *you* will have to make the change and that waiting for some random opportunity to happen is unrealistic. While I agree with everything in this video, I think the advice "go out and talk to people" can be very overwhelming and vague to people who have social anxiety and especially neurodivergence. What I believe is best is to see anything you're interested in, and try joining some social group that corresponds to those interests. For example, I like gaming and cooking, and I noticed that my therapy offered programs that had to do with those interests, so I joined them. While it may seem daunting at first, knowing what to do and stepping out of your comfort zone is one of the only ways to improve. Nonetheless, amazing video! :)

[@infini.tesimo]

When you get into your 30s you'll understand that peace is more valuable than anything else in the world how ever you currently correlate that. Some people find peace in being alone forever, others need that "mid life crisis" moment (which can happen literally at any moment in ones life) to take crazy action for 1 specific outcome just to find peace yet again. Right now, this is your conquest that I urge you to follow through on as without your mission being complete you're be left with something gnawing away at your inner psyche that leaves you with regret and you don't want that before death.

[@timxiix3864]

I do not really agree with you. I went outside every day back in the day, but at an age i noticed that i don´t have an interest in most of the people i met and many of them are morally no good humans. I was playing video games alone aswell after that time and it was one of the best times of my life lol. Now i got a girlfriend which i love very much but i still game, even tho i don´t get the same satisfaction out of it because i got my girl and 2 cats and an apartment and work ofc. Everyone is different. As a kid i had so many good friends but i also could play alone in my room for the whole day without the need of social interactions. What i want to say is: listen to yourself, get to know what you really want and then achieve it. Don´t lie or cope with yourself- i see alot of ppl doing that.

[@HeyNe0n]

Real asf

[@gmelhortablet]

i really want to, almost need it, but it feels impossible as a kid i stayed home cuz there was not much to do, social anxiety, games being more enjoyable and easier to access, and parents not letting me (thats my expected answer, i never asked them). this carried on to my teen years (where im at rn) - some time ago i moved to a new, bad neighborhood with many more kids and teens roaming around and due to reasons above i stay home instead of going out and making friends (even at school) and only recently i've realised how much of a flaw this is, i feel like i'm disconnected with my classmates and missing out on everything, this is the most lonely i have ever felt and frankly i don't know how im going to change this. i'm hopeless