If Your Relationship Is Rocky, Do THIS To Save It | Mel Robbins

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Mel Robbins

Mel Robbins

Күн бұрын

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@unstoppable4999
@unstoppable4999 4 жыл бұрын
When someone makes you the happiest person and the saddest person at the same time, that's when it's real. That's when it's worth something.
@vrushalijadhav834
@vrushalijadhav834 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this comment......I needed this
@vuhuy1258
@vuhuy1258 Жыл бұрын
thank u alot sir...
@derrelledixon1947
@derrelledixon1947 Жыл бұрын
I needed this
@jmad2328
@jmad2328 Жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more
@TallisNewkirk
@TallisNewkirk 6 ай бұрын
I think that's when you need to leave. That sounds like you're living in a situation of constant abuse. If your partner makes you both the saddest and the happiest. You need to get out of there. Save your psyche. Nothing is worth losing your mental health.
@guillermosanchez6284
@guillermosanchez6284 2 жыл бұрын
This def hits home. Feels good to be validated when trying to make changes within yourself for the betterment of a failing relationship
@josephmedrano4743
@josephmedrano4743 Жыл бұрын
This is so true for me. I have tried my hardest to make the best decisions. I feel so defeated now that I’m left with nothing and the person who I believed would have loved me through everything no matter what is gone as well. I’ve got so many pieces left to pick up and no closure.
@eduardoramirezjr4403
@eduardoramirezjr4403 4 жыл бұрын
As male, I want to thank you ‘cause you hit the nail on the head.🔨
@melissahunter824
@melissahunter824 2 жыл бұрын
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......
@melissahunter824
@melissahunter824 2 жыл бұрын
What sA p p👆
@danielgenego542
@danielgenego542 2 жыл бұрын
That Melissa woman is a scam. Don’t try contacting him or her.
@kanomohamed4637
@kanomohamed4637 2 жыл бұрын
@@melissahunter824 ⁷⁷⁷f
@melissahunter824
@melissahunter824 2 жыл бұрын
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......
@chynahutchinson7628
@chynahutchinson7628 3 жыл бұрын
I keep finding you at the times I really need to and I just wanna say thank you for being here for so many people who need your advice and motivational words ❤️
@brianhartley8951
@brianhartley8951 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, that was great advice. Good men would move mountains with that kind of support in times like those.
@stewiegriffin88
@stewiegriffin88 2 жыл бұрын
Damn you literally just narrated what I'm going thru myself now. Fell into a depression bc of finances, closed myself off to everything bc I was beyond embarrassed and pissed off at myself and now my and my gf are literally at rock bottom and she's thinking of leaving. We decided to try to save our relationship and are going thru that now. It's been super stressful up til abt a week ago and now seems to be going better thanks to people like this. Thank you you're one of the few that are actually helpful with sensitive situations like this.
@josephercastor8026
@josephercastor8026 2 жыл бұрын
Is it improving?
@stewiegriffin88
@stewiegriffin88 2 жыл бұрын
@@josephercastor8026 Yea it's actually gotten a lot better. Made a world of difference
@madalinamit4694
@madalinamit4694 6 ай бұрын
How is it going now? Any tips for someone in your situation?
@stewiegriffin88
@stewiegriffin88 6 ай бұрын
@madalinamit4694 Broke up 2 months after that post 😅. I'd say just make yourself happy. Nobody can do it for you. If you're only happy bc your significant other makes you happy, then your not truly happy and it WILL come crashing down at some point.
@lunagabriella213
@lunagabriella213 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being here when I need it 🎉❤️❤️❤️
@djeddiecue4660
@djeddiecue4660 Жыл бұрын
I know that this is an old video, but the message is never late. I can relate to this.
@rogeriorodriguez1212
@rogeriorodriguez1212 4 жыл бұрын
You are spot on the nail very intelligent very true to life very observant thank you for sharing your knowledge with us along our journey 👍 my friend
@rogeriorodriguez1212
@rogeriorodriguez1212 3 жыл бұрын
@Joyce mary I wish you all the best on your journey. Life is full of Peaks and valleys, some days were up and some days were down but no matter what the journey is worth the adventure because what you put into it is what you get back so the more you give the more you get in the long run.🤗💓💕💖💞❤☕🇺🇸🤔👍👍👍🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
@Hannah-lf4nf
@Hannah-lf4nf 3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I needed
@Colie_Madsen
@Colie_Madsen Жыл бұрын
This was so good to hear.
@LokiApodaca
@LokiApodaca 2 ай бұрын
You’re truly beautiful 💓
@hazelperri460
@hazelperri460 4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful idea. I think encouragement and validation also work for adult children living at home...
@melissahunter824
@melissahunter824 2 жыл бұрын
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......
@melissahunter824
@melissahunter824 2 жыл бұрын
What sA p p👆
@bernardotejada9701
@bernardotejada9701 26 күн бұрын
Thank you. You're so right about everything you said I'm going through the same thing with my wife.
@IamKrystalHardwick
@IamKrystalHardwick 11 ай бұрын
This was really helpful
@evempozende2286
@evempozende2286 2 жыл бұрын
Actually my husband is getting really annoying and he doesn’t sit down with me and talk so I’m really stressed out 😢😢
@abby_renee2395
@abby_renee2395 Жыл бұрын
Same here. Im at my breaking point, but there’s only so much I can do when I take on everything else already and he’s refusing to open up. I can’t keep breaking my back when I can’t see a reason to anymore 🥲
@gabourizk1
@gabourizk1 Жыл бұрын
The first mistake is when she said does he deserves it. Men need to start seeing this and wake up
@KishaCole1232
@KishaCole1232 3 жыл бұрын
Omg. I totally have bread winner resentment. Whoa. Not sure if that's like a real thing but fuck. That's 💯 how I feel. He's so down and depressed and low and lost. And I'm going through a spiritual awakening and mindset transformation. And he's 1000 steps behind me.
@TallisNewkirk
@TallisNewkirk 6 ай бұрын
I'm a woman and I NEED THIS FROM MY MAN!! Will he learn after friggin ten years that I need hom to keep saying "That's a great idea. Yeah, you could do that.Ok, let's try and do this. Do you want me to do something that brings you closer to this goal of yours?" (Whatever the goal of the moment s) Ten yeyand he keeps saying out loud only the things that could go wrong. I yold him, Shut the heck up, woman! (In those words, I thought only women did this) Those are your THOUGHTS. Train yourself to not say your negative thoughts out loud, for chrissake. Think them, but don't ever say them out loud. Because it doesn't achieve anything good, it achieves no progress. Use only words that do achieve progress. And those are words of encouragement. Words of positivity. He refuses to re-train his brain. He grew up in an abusive family where his mom and her third husband yelled insults at each other all the time. And he's a very intelligent man. What a shame.
@KayyDeanne
@KayyDeanne 4 жыл бұрын
Just what I needed
@williamjoy2925
@williamjoy2925 4 жыл бұрын
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@melissahunter824
@melissahunter824 2 жыл бұрын
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......
@melissahunter824
@melissahunter824 2 жыл бұрын
What sA p p👆
@jenniferfrazierlpc7171
@jenniferfrazierlpc7171 Жыл бұрын
What if it's not a good idea? Do we just lie and still say it's an amazing idea and watch them fail?
@cburri4842
@cburri4842 4 жыл бұрын
I've tried encouragement and validation. It doesn't seem to work. My husband has zero ambition. Not interested in working on himself and resents that I do. How do you motivate a negative, arrogant man who believes all self help is bullshit?
@MM-om4or
@MM-om4or 4 жыл бұрын
@DodgedABullet exactly..
@bertsbases
@bertsbases 4 жыл бұрын
There is an old country song by Hank Williams Jr called Attitude Adjustment. He might need one.
@williamjoy2925
@williamjoy2925 4 жыл бұрын
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@williamjoy2925
@williamjoy2925 4 жыл бұрын
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@williamjoy2925
@williamjoy2925 4 жыл бұрын
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@tiy10vely
@tiy10vely Жыл бұрын
Incredible insight!
@trainingsingh5216
@trainingsingh5216 4 жыл бұрын
Mel is so worth listening to but some1 please fix the mike and sound system.
@williamjoy2925
@williamjoy2925 4 жыл бұрын
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@miracunini6078
@miracunini6078 3 жыл бұрын
This is the type of stuff I'm already stressed about as teen cuz I ultimately broke communication by not being able to properly answer his questions as he is someone very meaningful to me
@jesusjess7222
@jesusjess7222 2 жыл бұрын
Take it easy on yourself and the person you are dealing with. Understand that you guys are both young and ultimately are growing. We are all sinners and without God’s mercy and grace we wouldn’t even have a chance at life in the after world. So the same grace God extends to you, try extend to the next person. operative word being TRY! God bless and I hope your relationship ends in marriage ❤️
@tcantrell5301
@tcantrell5301 Жыл бұрын
The fact that you feel like this is the same😅
@alexandriasartin2466
@alexandriasartin2466 4 жыл бұрын
Love the jacket Mel!
@mariatatarli4416
@mariatatarli4416 Жыл бұрын
Just that? Sorry, don't mean to be mean. She is extraordinary in every way. I love her hair, jacket, glasses... She looks amazing and the subject she dealt in with the lady is so true in every way. Thanks Mel.
@BlobbyBlobber-k7d
@BlobbyBlobber-k7d Жыл бұрын
i am trying to fix my relationship and I'm going to take this advice
@HeavensLuv
@HeavensLuv 4 жыл бұрын
There will always be a gap in your heart that God put there, so that He can only fill it and you gotta go seek out after it and when you do you will have your fullness of joy!? You will feel complete/found!? It gives you purpose and it lets you know that no human other than Jesus Christ can do it?!?! Let me know when you find it I will celebrate with you!!! 🌈☝️🎺✝️🎺☝️🌈
@williamjoy2925
@williamjoy2925 4 жыл бұрын
I know of a powerful who can help you in any way to get your ex back whatapp number +2348166743471 or email drpaul141@gmail.com
@jenniferastol6653
@jenniferastol6653 11 ай бұрын
What book is this
@suejacobs8531
@suejacobs8531 4 жыл бұрын
I'm going to try this because if I don't I'm going to walk away from this marriage 😂😂😭
@williamjoy2925
@williamjoy2925 4 жыл бұрын
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@JamesSmith-pi5kv
@JamesSmith-pi5kv 3 жыл бұрын
His spell really work fast
@sharoncherryontop1275
@sharoncherryontop1275 4 жыл бұрын
💯
@paulamain9559
@paulamain9559 4 жыл бұрын
You are my LIFELINE. ❤🇨🇦💚
@Larry21924
@Larry21924 11 ай бұрын
I'm moved by the authenticity of this content. A book with parallel ideas transformed my life significantly. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
@steelcityguy2598
@steelcityguy2598 2 жыл бұрын
Hi there, my fiancee of 18 years is breaking up with me and leaving in about a month to go to her hometown. We have furbabies and a house. I have drank a lot over the years but i have stopped now. I love her so much and so do the furbabies. Is there anything in my power i can do to possibly get her to change her mind to stay with us and try to work this out? She misses her hometown and her family there. Thanks for your time!
@niyetta6021
@niyetta6021 2 жыл бұрын
Why can’t you go with her?
@steelcityguy2598
@steelcityguy2598 2 жыл бұрын
@@niyetta6021 she doesn't have feelings for me anymore she said, but she hasn't left yet...
@customhookah7489
@customhookah7489 10 ай бұрын
​@steelcityguy2598 what happened in the end?
@ajplatzdoodlemom1966
@ajplatzdoodlemom1966 Жыл бұрын
As a married lesbian, I see a lot of the male aspect of things in my wife. As I just took over bread winner status, among other things, I see what I can change. ❤
@freemuisc-nocopyrights
@freemuisc-nocopyrights 4 жыл бұрын
🙏🏼
@debasmitapaul9853
@debasmitapaul9853 3 жыл бұрын
Nice videos
@umbhacanga
@umbhacanga 4 жыл бұрын
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@Kreepinsgirl
@Kreepinsgirl 2 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend been sexting other women and he told me he stopped but i found out its not true,i love him and still want to be with him despite this,even want to get married but i am having hard time getting images of those women and texting out of my head,he also send them alot of money,i wish i can do something to make him be happy with me,what can i do?i tried everything
@velvetstorm4563
@velvetstorm4563 Жыл бұрын
You need to leave the relationship, he has no respect for you if he's doing that. That's not someone worth loving.
@narges8438
@narges8438 4 жыл бұрын
❤️🙏❤️
@williamjoy2925
@williamjoy2925 4 жыл бұрын
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@mccoutlinesomkidkrob5676
@mccoutlinesomkidkrob5676 4 жыл бұрын
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