IFS for Therapists #7 Working with Exiles

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Derek IFSCA

Derek IFSCA

Күн бұрын

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@lauriejean9306
@lauriejean9306 4 жыл бұрын
This gentleman at the end. And Agnes. The two of them taught me even more than the brilliant man who spoke for most of the video. Thank you sir, for speaking from the depths of your soul and being, and sharing truth beyond the words you spoke.
@manwithavoice
@manwithavoice 4 жыл бұрын
02:35 children are narcissistic developmentally and take on burdens (which are exiled), the why is anguished and the protector saves us by filling in the why (you’re not lovable). 04:55 part is saying going away, present to your stress and distress (don’t abandon it); it wants you to hear your protest... can we still go on? It can present the information... you have my attention and I know that you are in distress, and I’m just gonna be here. 07:37 exile can develop in an episode 1st grade 09:00 can be from teenage memory; ask the part, what do you want or need? Do you want to tell me more about other times this happened to you or would you like to go to its core? 09:54 What burdensome beliefs or feelings are you holding?; protector (wisely) hides away what is not appreciated in family of origin (until it’s safe to go away); doesn’t feel safe to present with (fill in the blank); self-love not safe with narcissistic parent; retrieval that have been brought back (hidden but not burdened) 12:10 Where did. that part first appear? Managers may say that this isn’t real; implicit memory will look away; get a sense of what is saying, caregiver comes out and help him; 14:30 changes of mind-Jenny wade. In uteri and life 15:15 Interpreting abuse as love- it does that because we need love, and interpret that as a way to feel safe
@suejorgensen46
@suejorgensen46 3 жыл бұрын
Manwithadvice, thank you for the breakdown.
@innerchildharmonycoaching6451
@innerchildharmonycoaching6451 2 жыл бұрын
Thankyou
@mak2488
@mak2488 3 жыл бұрын
IFS had already changed my min and I just discovered it this week. What an eye opening and succinct revelation at 10:00 Wish everyone could hear this
@kimspetzer1558
@kimspetzer1558 7 жыл бұрын
This guy really knows how to work with part's.
@sungshimparkloppnow2060
@sungshimparkloppnow2060 7 жыл бұрын
Wow! This is amazing Derek and Joanna! Thank you so much for making this precious resource available for us freely. The way both of you interact and how you intentionally put the real story at the end of the video is priceless.
@rundeepsembi5941
@rundeepsembi5941 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Derek , this is very helpful. I especially helpful when You talk about staying with the protest and that exile does not have to share the content of their story that brought them shame. Thank you.
@SelkiesSong
@SelkiesSong Жыл бұрын
When you went into the example of coming home from a great day to a depressed environment, I got slammed with this tidal wave of emotion that caught me completely off guard. I think you hit the nail on the head for me and why joy/excitement has always felt very muted.
@radhikachakraborti227
@radhikachakraborti227 5 жыл бұрын
I am currently learning this model and these videos are so helpful . Especially to know about the burdens exiles carry .The story of the man at the end is very moving.
@harrietthespy2119
@harrietthespy2119 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you to both presenters and to the brave man speaking on love💜💜💜
@breanneelizabeth6206
@breanneelizabeth6206 4 жыл бұрын
The ending of this video is a beautiful and powerful clip thank you for sharing
@carolinebelli3749
@carolinebelli3749 5 жыл бұрын
These videos are such a gift!! Thank you, Derek!
@tamistone2632
@tamistone2632 6 жыл бұрын
I'm not watching this in any order, but I'm sure it will all get in my head and heart.
@kvnboudreaux
@kvnboudreaux 3 жыл бұрын
good stuff, great content for someone like myself learning to get comfortable using the interventions.
@drsandhyathumsikumar4479
@drsandhyathumsikumar4479 4 жыл бұрын
grateful to you for clarifying so many things in my life
@beautyroses8771
@beautyroses8771 3 жыл бұрын
My therapist has been doing this all wrong. She definitely had my caregiver parts take care of the infant parts lmao. I made the right choice by leaving.
@ajaynangalia334
@ajaynangalia334 6 жыл бұрын
Awesome material! Thank you so much for sharing 🙏
@michaelcharters2111
@michaelcharters2111 4 жыл бұрын
I really loved this video, thank you for your insights, intelligence and articulation around these subjects! This really helped me today.
@doctorofdreams
@doctorofdreams 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Derek (and Joanna) for all these amazing videos, and for making the Internal Family Systems model more accessible to the therapy community and to the world. May there be a time - through vehicles like your work and the IFS model - be a time when we all experience love free of distortion our first time around.
@tmeyah1378
@tmeyah1378 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Derek.
@carolmcbrideonline
@carolmcbrideonline 6 жыл бұрын
Wonderful series, thank you!
@LasVegasSand_s
@LasVegasSand_s 3 жыл бұрын
Phenomenal.
@benjaminstrauber2313
@benjaminstrauber2313 4 жыл бұрын
I can't express how meaningful and powerful these videos have been for me and the people I know. Thank you so much for sharing this information as you are truly changing the world (:
@henriques58
@henriques58 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Derek. So well done and said. Your videos very helpful to better understand this inspiring model. And Joanna's presence! So precious. Again Thanks much to both. Hope you keep shooting your wonderful conversations.
@vickilynn9514
@vickilynn9514 6 жыл бұрын
Speechless. ❤
@IS-su2jf
@IS-su2jf 5 жыл бұрын
Can someone tell me where does the ending clip comes from?
@adamdavid1
@adamdavid1 4 жыл бұрын
I was wondering the same, so I did some digging and it's from the wonderful documentary "Human". The man's name is Leonoard Scovens kzbin.info/www/bejne/l5fZf2mpmpiMq8k
@ts3858
@ts3858 2 жыл бұрын
Omg omg 😭🙏💗💗💗💗💗 I feel for that guy that was beaten as a child .....
@NelaCopey2959
@NelaCopey2959 2 жыл бұрын
By far, one of the most poignant teaching videos ever. Thank you, Derek and colleague. Please know how much your efforts to present this work are appreciated. Very, very helpful. I'm new to IFS and I'm curious if any therapists work with the IFS and the Bert Hellinger model together?
@LoveLeigh313
@LoveLeigh313 11 ай бұрын
That ending 🥺
@tamistone2632
@tamistone2632 6 жыл бұрын
Yes
@alphom1
@alphom1 6 жыл бұрын
my theme song
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