Ignoring a Narcissist - The Power They Hope You Never Find Within You | Lisa A Romano

[@maureenmcgaughey9364]

Omg...now you've confirmed what I kind of knew/ thought ( the manipulation, the hoovering txts ) ...my initial thought / voice was ..manipulation, he's saying what I wanna hear, this isn't really how he feels )...then my codependent wounded child would melt into them, but it made me feel comforted and uneasy at the same time. Now I see his behaviour so clearly, it's definitely making me stronger understanding he's not my mummy or my daddy...what he thinks doesn't matter and he's like a giant 5 year old instead of a 55 year old ! Thanks you Lisa ❤

[@dianaw5100]

I started to go no contact with a narc older sister about 30yrs ago. It was spotty at first but found the freedom from abuse became more and more powerful for me. Now she has cancer and I am expected to go see her. Some family members tell me I'll feel bad if she dies and I didn't go see her. I ask them "who will it benefit if I go?" The answer is always just an empty stare. I told them that if they feel they need my support at a funeral, I will go with them. Otherwise people can judge me all they want to. Those who know me and love me will understand. Those who don't, never will anyway.

[@GegenNarzissten]

Life is too good to be with a narcissist

[@GegenNarzissten]

@kattrinaj6575 💪🏻🤝🏻🙏🏻

[@elitelife4698]

Yet , unfortunately they can be a parent..tougher to escape

[@safethamzagic7226]

Hahahah so true

[@LoveMinnie1102]

100% facts. They will drain all the goodness and joy in your life

[@GegenNarzissten]

@LoveMinnie1102 so true

[@well_weathered]

This is why you really need a break, to have time alone. All of the sudden they are kind, talkative, but really pay attention. They try to see if they can get you to agree with them, giving up your stance.

[@cindynimmo]

They see you as their pawn and someone they can dictate

[@jennaletizia5430]

My narcissistic sister the golden child hates me. She is cruel and tells lies about me. If anyone likes me she tries to change that. I used to care. No more.

[@colmanlong1032]

She hates herself in the first place.Good on you for standing up for yourself and putting yourself 1st.

[@WickedBoston444]

That's scary, people are who they are when you're disagreeing & I say that's the time when he flips into someone Idk....I'm surviving lots of cruel verbal abuse especially this past week. It's so unfortunate. He's been saying aren't you mad & I said no disappointed.

[@HealedbyGod18]

My ex narc convinced our children I was having an affair (my affair was with DoorDash) working to provide as a second job keeping me away from home. He filed and turned our young adult children against me. After receiving his family inheritance and said we dont need you anymore. Just quit!! The evil that they’re under is shocking. 25 years of marriage and three children was all for nothing. Later to find out he also has another new person after dealing with years of infidelity and abuse. Tbh he went about it dirty but I am also realized I am way way way better off after the hell I’ve endured through out the years. He knew my children meant everything to me. Pray for them thank you 🙏

[@WalkingwithChrist97]

I'm so sorry ❤ he gets our 7 year old son every other weekend. And every time he comes back he accuses me of cheating on his dad and that's why we broke up. Like seriously??? He was so abusive and almost choked me to death 😢 God is the only one I'm trusting in my life from now on. He never sleeps and he is a righteous judge over every soul. Trust me he will not live in peace treating you like that ❤

[@micheledenardo2497]

Thank you so much for all your videos they help me everyday to stay away from these kinds of people and focus on myself and getting my own power back!

[@kennethlapointesongwriter3330]

I have no problem ignoring a narcissist, even completely cutting ties, when I finally peg them as a narc. Even though I'm an empath, I'm a sigma empath, which means an 'informed' one. On one hand it's hard NOT to have empathy for someone, but that's like having empathy for poison. Not smart. And empathy won't change a narc anyway so why bother.

[@triciadreas9835]

Thanks you, Lisa. You are wonderful

[@WickedBoston444]

Sorry for another comment. But yeah, I unraveled what I was angry since a kid from my narc father & now I'm starting to see & I didn't expect that.

[@Timebend2025]

You could be dying of cancer, they won't ask you if you need a hand doing their laundry, ( boss/ work load, applies to everything) My ex MIL ran a nursing home care agency, top of the line in Buffalo. She said there was no one worse on a woman's health than a narcissist man. She said she had seen multiple women fall down stairs while cleaning the house and the man just sitting in the same room yelling a the TV. He husband was pure evil. She ended up with cancer, and sadly did a left hand turn into traffic at about 67 yrs old. She always said the man dies right after the women in long marriages bc they lost the one that did gaf, clean up, nurse, run it all in her case. That old man died just two years after her. After he made a "miracle recovery" from all of his bs ( he was lazy, she had to " set that plate down right" or he threw it against the wall) health issues he used to run her ragged running his business and farm. She was a brilliantly intelligent woman, sadly he drove her off The cliff. 😢 She actually forsaw her future and she was trying to warn me too. ❤

[@SpiritualGuidanceandSupport]

This was a great video (of course all of yours are)....This was extremely powerful Thank you Lisa, for being you and for all that you share. Big hug!

[@Ameryarina]

Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.

[@lisaaromano1]

Hi Dear One, the mind prefers the familiar, and the brain remains in neurological loops which are essential the train tracks of the mind, until you breakthrough at the level of the subconscious. If you are ready for real change and transformation, I highly recommend my psychologist approved, system for change. www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp

[@vo7877]

Thank you!!

[@danmcdonald8522]

The narc has a personality disorder.These creatures are dangerous and pathetic.Keep them out of your life and enjoy your peace and quiet.. God Bless.

[@christopherfarmer1982]

I ignored my narcissist for the last few months whilst she kept sending threatening messages to take our son off me. Then just two weeks ago she went to the police and told them I abuse our five year old son and bam I loose custody and now have a 2 year restraining order against me to not see him or talk to him. What the hell am I supposed to do now?? So lost and broken

[@lisaaromano1]

Keep records of every interaction, keep a journal, receipts, record conversations--essentially keep a log of every thing that goes on between the two of you, then, play by the rules, this will work out for you in the end, but you have to remain cool.

[@denel6]

What a powerful video in under 20 minutes…amazing work 💫💫💫

[@WickedBoston444]

Im right here....right where your talking about.

[@Timebend2025]

Fits about 10 bosses i have had..... unreal how brutal it can be ...

[@debigodsey]

I found that when I ignored the narcissist, I was physically abused. What would be the alternative to that

[@godzillamanstreb524]

💯 % no contact🩷

[@violet18]

I pray that God gets you out of that situation. Our world has become a cesspool. I ignored a lady at work who wanted to push her work onto me. The next time that she wanted me to do something, she swung her arm out to point and barked an order at me.

[@marija068]

God bless you for this 🙏

[@nikolamilovanovic8497]

Lisa thank you !!!!

[@Julesevangeline]

Hi Lisa, This is an amazing video, thanks. I thank you for your words regarding reacting to ‘a boulder’, it resonated as I react and then my reaction as you very eloquently described is taken as a very manipulative way to then play victim. It’s been happening to me for years, and I have struggled with it. The covert that was in my life constantly did very nasty things that no one could see but o felt and when I leveled up and addressed it, I would get silent treatment, made to feel as if I’m imagining it and total implication that I was not ok. I’m far down my journey now, and I am ok, this video I found addressed exceptionally complicated areas. I had a lot of difficulty in my childhood, and what you said about attracting people who are familiar makes sense. Thank you for this video.

[@lisaaromano1]

Hi Dear One, narcissists want you stuck in their web of mental confusion, that's why I focus on healing and organizing my mind, with tools of transformation. I highly recommend my 12 Week Breakthrough System for long lasting change. www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp

[@yolandaguerrero7484]

This whole video feels like it was all meant for me from beginning to end. I can't find my way out of this maze . I don't have the mental energy I don't want to give up but I'm very confused😢

[@KayCee45617]

Thank you Lisa 🌞

[@rickkillian2378]

When I went No Contact with my dad, HE GOT angry at me and started to get my sister involved. She called me saying that he was calling me names and BLAH BLAH BLAH. I just laughed and told her that I expected that from him and I was staying true to me and not giving in to him. A few months later he was found unresponsive in his recovery unit that he was in. I told my sister that I felt indifferent. That's too bad that that happened and I could care less. He got what he deserved. He died a very lonely old man

[@supergirl225]

Thank you for the advice.🪴🌟 Narcissists also get jealous to see their partner happy.

[@lisaaromano1]

Yes they do

[@heddaszczepanski9210]

Or anybody else for that matter

[@jeaneenbarker8585]

Thank you for explaining into words what I've been feeling of life long sibling abuse. Now the next 2 generations have followed and now take on the same behaviors towards me. My question is how do I properly handle my 3 adult sons being influenced by their behavior. I went NO CONTACT 5 months ago. They as a whole are trying to gather information on my life as if they ate concerned. My 1 son has a somewhat of a relationship with a few of them. I believe he's only a pawn to get to me. He doesn't see it? It's tearing me up, I wish my son stayed away from my toxic family. Not only are they alcoholics, and partied with my son, he is now months sober, after 6 months of rehab. I don't want there toxic behavior to relapse

[@rh87]

Hi Lisa, another great video, thank you. I am currently on a long term course where one person has gaslighted, dismissed me, treating me badly and then twisted everything to play the victim in-front of the group. I know I need to disconnect/avoid this person as it is really harmful for me having previously experienced narcissistic abuse. Do you have any advice please on how I can do this in an educational group setting?

[@Jypsyz]

I LUV U🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉THANK YOU...MORE THAN WORDS 🦄 🦄 🦄 136

[@RUsureUR]

How is this different from Cassandra Syndrome?

[@johenderson7786]

Or who is a workaholic?

[@ericyelverton2639]

SARCASM: Ripping o YOUR f skiIN IN A NICE WAY

[@JasonAverySr]

Hi Lisa, this is precisely what I've been through for 20 years. Now separated from the predator for 2 years. Can you leave a link to your email?..I'd like to contact you about the healing process. Thank you 🙏

[@lisaaromano1]

@@JasonAverySr [e-mail]

[@JasonAverySr]

​@lisaaromano1 I ordered your book, too, btw. I'll write to you after the holidays. Thank you so much for what you do Lisa. I know I couldn't have come this far without you. 🙏 Merry Christmas to you and your family.

[@FourWinds-Nathan]

100%

[@Mara_143]

💎💎💎🔑

[@hasukeas5749]

❤❤👌🏻👍🏻

[@Jypsyz]

🦄 🦄 🦄 136

[@jenniferheinrichs4541]

You’re reading your script too fast and I couldn’t take it all in.

[@skylergrey3507]

It's more of so from my mom, who is a psycho

[@Serioussamurai300]

Lisa I know 😉

[@debigodsey]

Mine too. 😓 Sorry...