Consider that DETACHMENT is not NEEDING the manifestation (but you still love it and want it!)

[@Kidgirl13]

I know I’m late, but I wanted to thank you for sharing this. I was trying to manifest a specific person into my life for so long, and it never worked because I had attached myself to the idea that I needed him to be happy, to fulfill myself, etc. And I attached myself to the outcome of us eventually being together. I realized all this after seeing your video, and I worked on understanding that I was 100% okay without him, that I was 100% fulfilled. And after I had fully accepted that, he came into my life.

[@illuminatingjoy]

Wow, thank you for sharing! Yes, we absolutely will be okay if we don't get what we want and once we look at that possibility and really find a way to be okay with it, we detach. And once we detach, we can complete the manifesting process. Congrats on him coming into your life as well as realizing this important step! :)

[@mariaioannou4727]

hello Cece..i am also trying to manifest an ex back inmy life..i have made progress in my internal feelings but i clearly know that i am not there yet. Can you please tell me exactly what you did??? should i just live as if (have the feelings i would have if i was with him) and then just trust the universe and let go?

[@Paradojasdelavida]

Amazing!!!

[@Princess-jc8rg]

Amazing ❤️

[@corsicanlulu]

do u feel like he wants you as much as u want him? i was wanting to manifest a specific person for many years but now i feel resentful that i cared so much while he couldnt care less and was living his life. are u totally happy w/ him?

[@KingzRansom]

It took me FOREVER to finally let go and within two wks: it shows up. I just said I’m fine without this. I don’t have to have it. I didn’t give up on it. I gave up on the “urgency” of having it. Now, it’s happening before my eyes. 😲

[@ewakrawczyk3343]

Thank you for sharing. And can I ask if you thought sometimes about that or completely forgot?

[@raduerc1]

It's pretty much like it should be in a healthy relationship.."I love you..I like you.. but I don't need you, I'm not dependent on you emotionally" Thanks Amy..Great value in all your videos.

[@illuminatingjoy]

Radu Er That’s a great way to put it. ☺️ You’re welcome!!

[@ZeldaFoxEars]

As Bashar says in his final step to manifesting: "In order to manifest anything, an absolute INTENSITY of what you want, with absolutely NO EXPECTATION that it has, to manifest, at all. That’s the Balance State you need to be in, in order for the Manifestation to be Effortless. You have to Let it Go. Totally. And KNOW, that everything is already Perfect As it Is"

[@illuminatingjoy]

Countess Boochie Flagrante Yep! Thanks for sharing this gem in the comments 😁

[@vandana5575]

So perfectly put into words... Thank u 😊💝💐🙏🏻

[@tst.v2926]

Thank you!

[@lrvdo]

So here I am confused again..what if you are unable to feel that 'ultimate intensity'. I mean often people lose the ability to feel the intensity of any kind for various reason. Emotionally they are just scattered and can't get it together. They are unable to feel anything much, almost dead inside. They can may be think and want, but not 'feel'. They are incapable of dive deep. How do they work it out?

[@tst.v2926]

lrvdo she should respond but I wanted to respond in the meantime. The following is addressed towards you but if it's for a friend then just pass it on to them. What you are referring to reminds me of depression. It isn't always sad and suicidal. It's sad but there can be a detachment. A loss of interest. Yes there are different types of depression but the deep dark lack of feeling more an emptiness(check out hyperbole and a half, while she does comedic things she nails it and for those who have been there it's nice to see a true representation ). I go towards seek whatever help you can. Your focus is a healthier emotional level. See a psychiatrist and a therapist. There's no shame in looking for help. There's meds to help imbalances, talk therapy, cbt, dbt and more. The idea is finding help. Deciding what is right for you. If one psychiatrist doesn't help get another one. Therapist doesn't get you? Get another. You can work thru it and get better. If it's a health condition causing it then you work through it. Plus be gentle with yourself. You can still create but the first thing to create is a higher level in yourself. Create solutions to this. You won't hit that euphoric State but a little better works. I like the way abraham Hicks describes levels. Many times right above that is anger. Embrace when you change a level. There's so many options for help so maybe that's what you manifest. Working through this so you're at a better place emotionally-manifest signs to what help is good for you. If it's baby steps that works too. But use professionals to help you (my opinion). Add in other professionals - acupuncture, do diet research, massage and more. Let me also be clear it's ok to seek one person like a psychiatrist. See how it goes and then add something else to help. You are not required to do everything overnight. Be nice to yourself and give yourself a break. Transformations will come but the focus is on step one. Get in with a psychiatrist so you can raise your level. If you feel better starting with a therapist then go that way. There's even online options for therapists though sometimes just getting out of your environment and going to see someone helps more. Wishing you or anyone else who needs this the best. So yes you can create when you feel dead inside. The goal is you create a higher emotional level. To emotionally work on healing yourself. One step at a time. For anyone who feels this way please seek help. It can and will get better. Choose to manifest better. Seek help to get better. You don't have to be euphoric to do it. There's no shame. You are worth better!

[@TheSkyfullofballoons]

I did this and I let go. The girl that I have a crush on just sent me a text the very next minute. Thank you Amy. God bless you for this

[@kamiennykamien9578]

That's a lie, she wouldn't do that 🐗

[@Old299dfk]

Tell us more, how did it go?

[@AM-xe4iq]

I’m not sure how this works but it does. Every time I have let go of attachment to an idea, even if I wanted it, and I truly got to a place of “Oh that would be nice, but I don’t need it, I’m happy still”, THEN it showed up. But you have to really authentically be in that space of letting go. And it can take time to let go, but that’s okay. For example, for years I thought that having a second child would be the only thing that could make me happy. I was miserable wanting & longing for that outcome, depressed even. All I wanted was a baby again. I was with someone who didn’t want more children & that was our biggest conflict. I cried about it, told everyone I needed it, was sad when someone else announced a pregnancy...it just hurt. It hurt my spirit. Long story short, my relationship ended & I was so excited about moving on that I wasn’t thinking about adding another child to my life. It just wasn’t a priority anymore & I was pretty content as I was. Still a nice thought but it was nowhere in my needs or plans anymore. I met someone else & I am currently 5 months pregnant with a baby girl. TOTAL SURPRISE when we found out! And it happened fast with this new guy. We were not planning on having children at all. The fact is, I didn’t need that anymore to feel happy. The universe already knew how much I’d wanted it, but I detached from the need & just started living a happy life, and bam! It happened right when I was GENUINELY (not just telling myself this) but genuinely content without it. Again, I don’t know how or why this works, but it truly does. You have to let go. Give yourself time to do that, but do let go.

[@luckyme100178]

A M ...that’s a great fucking success...

[@KeepingUpWithTheKims]

What a wonderful success story. Thx for sharing!

[@iamtb9]

Wow...amazing!!! I have been working on manifesting my bf back after he broke up with me yesterday and told me he is seeing someone else..my heart stopped. We are perfect together but we are long distance for months now and I guess he couldn't hold off any longer so he got someone else. I am broken but I see us getting married. He is the only one for me. I love him with all my heart and I believe he loves me. Now I have been visualizing about being married to him and being with him. I know it will happen but I need to let go of him and be happy and not need him to get him back. It's so funny because looking at your name, that was the first sign..A M.. well his names with A and mine with M. On our toothbrushes we also have A and M. Those are our initials. Now I also renamed him on my phone as just A...wow I can't wait to listen to the video, I came to read the comments first. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@sonyavincent7450]

@@iamtb9 update??

[@pinkkhearts]

I know this is old, but congrats 🥺💕

[@DemosChristofides]

THIS IS THE KEY IN MY PERSONAL OPINION-TO LIVE TO THE FULLEST IN THE PRESENT MONENT AND BY DETACHING FROM THE MANIFESTATION, ONLY THEN IT WILL MANIFEST IN THE 3D, WHEN YOU DON'T NEED IT, EVEN WHEN IT MANIFESTS. INSTEAD TO CHASE IT, IT WILL CHASE YOU! YES, PEACE OF MIND! I NEED NOTHING AS I AM ALREADY FULFILLED-LOA! THANK YOU! EXCELLENT! 👍

[@skttrbrain5344]

Just wanted to let you know that after watching this video and understanding and applying it...it helped me manifest almost instantly. You are a gift to the world Amy!

[@illuminatingjoy]

That's fantastic!! Yes, manifesting can be really fun, easy and often very fast once we know exactly what to do :) Thank you for sharing~

[@skttrbrain5344]

illuminatingjoy Can I ask you your thoughts on the 17 to 68 second manifesting trick?

[@lextor4712]

@@skttrbrain5344 Abraham Hicks right? It's been 2 years - may I ask you if you have found the answer? :)

[@MJforever5690]

This is amazing!!! I tried for 8 years to get into dentistry. I did two degrees and I was certain after my second degree I'd get in but I got rejected. I thought to myself oh well, it's fine I'll just work and maybe I'll try again next year and I was truly at peace with it. And within a few weeks I got an offer and it was the happiest day of my life! This makes so much sense to me now! Thank you!

[@illuminatingjoy]

That's a really great example of detaching and then the desired outcome manifesting! Thank you for sharing, sharing always helps others along their journeys as well :)

[@KingzRansom]

You are dead on it! Once you learn the art of “letting go” or detachment (not needing it), things just happen for you. It’s magic really. The more you NEED it, the longer it takes to get to you.

[@ThriveWithLouise]

omg this has shifted my energy. thats the piece ive been missing and i didnt even know

[@floridflowers777]

same here!!!

[@nai2275]

same omg

[@westcoastorbust2462]

It feels so good to watch this without feeling anxious and obsessed with an outcome. I can’t believe how much I’ve evolved and changed over the past few days. What a journey!!!!

[@DeepakChhabria]

This happened with me. When I didn't need it anymore, it manifested :) I would love that is the feeling.

[@bethagubaira1722]

I wasn't expecting these videos to be SO good! I thought they would be so cheesy and too magical-esoteric-ish. I love your tone, the way you put things into words.... It's really good. Thanks a million!

[@illuminatingjoy]

Thank you!

[@trispr]

Agree!!!

[@kamiennykamien9578]

You aren't right betha 😑

[@westcoastorbust2462]

I literally just said to myself that I don’t need him to return. I was slightly Disappointed that I’d done all of this manifestation work and now I don’t care. I asked Where do I go from here? Then this video popped up! Ok Universe have your way. I want what’s best and I trust the process.

[@dr.nayabitrat7824]

So did he come back?

[@laurenhills239]

Wow this is way too true now that I think about it. I was so in love, obsessed over my first husband ( before we were married ) and he ignored me, I begged the universe for us to be together and begged... finally I “ gave up” and no kidding he ended up on my doorstep. We dated, got married, then divorced. My second husband I was again so in love, obsessed w/ how perfect he was. I begged and begged the universe, please I want him so bad. Time went on and nothing, I again..”gave up” then he ended up contacting me and we dated, got married and then divorced.... now I’m single again and instead of trying to attract a specific “ perfect “ guy. I’m just trusting the universe to find me the right one, and now I’m letting go because I know I DONT need another husband, but it would be nice.

[@lovingmariahgordon4432]

Yes it would be nice sis

[@AnuF9]

When it comes to things that are important to me, I have reached to a point where I accept what is and the manifestation happens but it has always been a sad, disappointing feeling. I just accept that at the moment it doesn’t seem to be happening and I try to tell myself something that comforts me. It doesn’t really help me feel good but I guess it does put me in a place where I don’t try to make it happen anymore. For example when I wanted to met a special person to me. I travelled to a different country and on the last day, I was really sad but told myself that maybe I can come back and meet him some other time. A minute after that he walked up to me on the street.

[@Dancediva240]

wow! And then what happened? You're together now I hope?

[@bobbymillionaire1825]

It happens all the time if you just ask and then forget. The "Moment Simply" is - the moment you ask is simply the moment you let go. Thanks for the video.

[@blessgodess5146]

Can't thank you enough, for breaking the steps down especially about detaching and thinking the universal will "cancel the order"Wow great video it has motivated me and helped so much!! Blessings!

[@illuminatingjoy]

I'm glad the video helped! Yes, most people have some fear that detaching means they are canceling their order with the Universe, but that's where that "leap of faith" and "trust" come in. What's the saying, if you want to sail across the sea, you have to leave the dock?? Something like that. For a bit, you will be on the open water and not see anything but your direction has already been set and you are moving toward your destination.

[@arainagodtheice]

After letting go a heaviness lifted off my chest. Thank you so much Amy! ❤️

[@floridflowers777]

same here

[@c.6272]

Same

[@electramessin5497]

Hey very interesting video! Funny you say this, because I have found that when trying to manifest a specific person the desire seems to keep popping up. Like hoping they will call, checking your phone, and feeling anxious for them to be in your life. I noticed that when I forget about checking my phone and instead focus more on visualizing I feel better. The more I visualize being with the person the happier I feel and the more amazing I feel. If I do this for a while I start to feel a sense of satisfaction instead of longing. THen I find that I feel so amazing that I have the strange feeling come over me where I suddenly no longer feel any desire to actually have them in the physical because all my desire feels fullfilled in the spiritual, after visualizing intensely and in detail. I noticed that right when I get to this space of feeling so amazing that I no longer actually have that nagging desire for them to call, SUDDENLY thats when they show up mysteriously somehow... Does this method also make sense to you? I mean you said you try to ask yourself if I'm ok with not needing this to happen? But in my case I find I need to visualize and work up enough love to get to the place of feeling satisfied and not needing them. Does that make sense?

[@lawlietrzk1]

Damn, thank you so much for sharing this experience! This is exactly how I feel right before a manifestation occurs. I'd like to add that soon after that feeling of satisfaction and not needing your object of desire, I feel a deep sense of gratitude come over me, making me thank the universe for sending such a beautiful desire my way. That's when I genuinely stop caring about the desire. And soon after, it is delivered to me on a platter!

[@prajulmehta7320]

@@lawlietrzk1 something same is happening w me as well

[@MysticTarotwithTiffany]

You are absolutely right about this process! I've had the same results using it. Also my heart has opened too. It's amazing.

[@illuminatingjoy]

Tiffany Johnson Thank you for sharing you also get results with this process and isn't having your heart opened the BEST thing ever!? 💕 (happy sigh)

[@MillionxDollarBaby]

I find it so hard to let go and trust that it will happen. It's happened in the past so i try to tell myself it is possible,but i feel like i keep obsessing over it and feeling down because it's not going to happen.

[@illuminatingjoy]

A lot of people find it hard to believe it "will" happen as well. I find that trusting we will be okay whether it happens or not and believing it "can" happen are usually enough to allow a manifestation (plus releasing resistance and having a clear end result destination in mind).

[@katherine56631]

MillionxDollarBaby I find EFT (emotional freedom technique) very helpful with releasing the "need" of what you desire. The hardest thing for me was to believe that releasing the need was a good thing. Deep down I thought that if I released the need then I would be telling the universe that I dont want it anymore.

[@MillionxDollarBaby]

thank you so much!

[@skttrbrain5344]

MillionxDollarBaby yes that's exactly where I'm at! I did it but now I'm worrying about it all over again as if I wasn't powerful enough in the first place!

[@arvi2010]

L I how would you feel as if it already had happened? The feeling of that what you want is fulfilled. It is all about that. When you remain in that energy. You will see some awesome miracles. Why? Because the belief is cemented and can not ignore it's work to attract the reality or manifest the reality you have foreseen already come to pass. And the moment your forget about it, The universe just says here you go buddy. 😊

[@alanyates3132]

I think this is a mind game. I have to trick myself into believing in a level of detachment that I don't really feel. If I can bluff myself, I should still end up with it! That's as good as I suspect I'll be able to manage. Here's hoping.......

[@ianfromoz5247]

Thank you I need to move into detachment it is literally killing me really i have never in my life felt this way about anyone befor. I need not to need her while excepting I still love and want her in my life as my forever person. Thank you Amy. I hope this will help me move on.

[@emabella1000]

Ian Lambert did u get her back?

[@iamtb9]

I am also feeling the same about the love of my life. He is my perfect man. Im gonna apply this to get him back and marry him

[@puneetkaur2206]

u make a beautiful point .... the diffrence between the feeling of not needing it from the feeling of not lacking it.

[@themeghmuse]

Wow I love you. Such a life saver. So glad I discovered this channel, I feel that I think a lot more like you and less like most typical "spiritual gurus"

[@illuminatingjoy]

Thank you, I appreciate your comment. ❤

[@にちはHYPERSPACE]

Meghan LeVota?? never expected to see you here, but you _are_ an enfj and beta, so...

[@deborahmasci6212]

Amy from the bottom of my heart, thank you for this video. I always come back here when I feel lost and I donìt know what to do! You're an amazing coach. Thank you so much

[@illuminatingjoy]

You're very welcome! Hugs and happy manifesting :)

[@airasenju]

This is so true. I attract love life and boys that likes me when I dont think about having a relationship and enjoying my life

[@deirdrespencer7490]

This is certainly an emotionally safer approach to manifestation. 'Still waiting however. 'May have to resume Amanda's "intentions" as well.

[@tfh5575]

You always are that one person I come back to that brings me clarity and results! The way you put things just resonates with me and really helps me “get it.” Thank you!

[@estasenora9747]

EXACTLY! This is how things happen in my life. When i show no urgency to the universe. Or when i get busy in something else. But a negative person hovering over me 27x7 doesn't let me focus on any damn thing!! The first thing i have to manifest is to free myself of her influence. That makes my situation Catch 22.

[@ira4600]

Phew so grateful for an alternative to living as if I have manifestation already! This is the most helpful video I've ever found

[@purplemist7]

Thank you for going over the manifestation process and breaking it down. I'm sometimes confused by the Law of Attraction and it helps to hear things explained in better detail.

[@hiltonlive32grnrngr]

Amy, I hope you never stop making videos. You're the best Law of Attraction guru on KZbin there is.

[@user-ej6rr2km8e]

Anna Loveberry Babycakes I totally agree. Amy is the only manifesting teacher that I listen to seriously.

[@phoenixjameel5557]

I had to pause and rewind back, to right before you mentioned your heart opened.. I swear I felt mine do the very same thing!! you are so very powerful!! the fact I could feel your chakra pulse open as if mine were doing the same is amazing! let me subscribe!

[@illuminatingjoy]

Denzel Phoenixxx How wonderful! ☺️ Our hearts must be connected through space and time ✨❤️✨

[@phoenixjameel5557]

illuminatingjoy awww!! ♥️✨

[@francisknives2099]

Emotional independence... That’s exactly what I’ve been looking for. Hell yeah babe!

[@marlenaeva3813]

Also you can tell yourself 'I want this or something better'. That gives the Universe the chance to deliver beyond your expectations. Actually when I was in this detachment mode it happened really fast (and most of the times was better than imagined)

[@timbernicolehermani9541]

You are absolutely one of the most clear and simple people i have ever listened to. Thank you.

[@kristencoleman802]

This is amazing info!! I can't believe you don't have a million followers. You have taught me so much! I believe that "heart opening feeling" is the spirit - maybe sounds weird if you aren't religious but it is the Holy Spirit also referred to as the comforter. It's confirming to you that you are on the right path. It's an amazing feeling. Much love & joy to you!! Thanks for your amazing advice & help!!

[@finnsheridan6294]

Oh my god, I've really been struggling with the idea of how to 'detach' efficiently! I already feel peaceful knowing the tools I now need to move forward :) Thank you so much! I am letting go, trusting in the universe and believing I will be okay regardless of the outcome!

[@technokolrapid7174]

Merry Christmas Amy! You are such a clear-headed person with flawless logic, I always admired that the most about you! It is so nice that you manage to be spiritual as well!! I wish I had the kind of logic you do, but my mind is a hot mess! :(( You are one of my role models but I do not think I will ever have such a clear mind

[@illuminatingjoy]

I'm your role model!? Wow, that's truly an honor, thank you :) It's okay to be a hot mess! I've been a hot mess many times. Think of having clarity like pulling the weeds out of a garden, if you remove the parts cluttering up your mind (limiting beliefs, old conclusions, etc) you'll be left with all the beautiful plants and flowers.

[@bushra7352]

illuminatingjoy Is that also a way of reaching the Self (silent witness)?

[@tst.v2926]

I've been watching, reading and learning this for years. I've been trying to understand why some things are simple for me and others seem difficult. Then I find your channel and steps. This makes so much sense. Detaching makes more sense then living like I have it. There's a falseness to that that keeps me stuck in step 1. Like pretending if that makes sense, because I'm not living in the here and now. Now I find these gems and one by one they just click.

[@Kyduh]

This is it!!! Every time i manifest its when i don’t need it. Gratitude 🙏🏼

[@thoughtwave-understandings9710]

only video you required for manifestation

[@anp5854]

This is the most difficult part of me. I don’t even care about getting these specific things anymore that much, it is the alternative that scares me. All the alternatives that I would be okay with are the ones that I would still have to deliberately manifest. I don’t want to live mediocre ordinary life. The option of having to live that way, scares me. On the other hand, I can be okay with it scaring me . It makes me cry but I can be okay with having that kind of fear and doubt.

[@angelespinoza-pina3906]

I wanted my cousin and my cousin in law to get married before the baby was born ASAP. When I did the manifestation and this letting go process. I said to myself that I’ll always love and care about my cousin and my cousin in law, whether they get married or not. I still wanted it, but I didn’t need it anymore. I fully accepted and let go. 4 days later, my mom got a called from my aunt telling me that my cousin and cousin in law are getting married.

[@Pibodabo]

I am so glad that i have finally reached that phase of detachment you are talking about and funny thing is that i asked for this emotional shift not too long ago and asked for a bunch of other clarifications as well and it all showed up in a few weeks. It was a painful shift since i found out that my fears were more powerful than my believes were at that point but it helped me surrender to the process and trust it! What i don`t understand is how that detachment somehow made me less passionate about my desire not that i don`t want it but i just don`t need it and don`t think of it all the time. But i do trust the process even if it`s not the circumstances i preffered. Interesting thing is that this high-vibrational mode i am in i have never felt it before... Have never had such an emotional freedom and i can`t describe how great i feel! And what amazes me the most is that as soon as i started to feel like that there pops up your video of the same exact topic or feeling. Synchronicity is great to enjoy!

[@illuminatingjoy]

Petko congrats on feeling the ease of detachment!! Detachment is a calm, relaxed feeling and a fabulous energy to allow the manifestation. Read this amazing article (I didn't write it) for more info on your question: www.calmdownmind.com/when-your-desire-feels-ordinary-its-on-the-verge-of-manifestation/

[@Pibodabo]

Very interesting article! Learned a whole lot of things, explained very well! Thanks!

[@ashleymorris2303]

I'm very late but, I have watched a million videos and never understood the detachment process. You explained it so perfectly! Now I finally get it. Thank u so much you are a true gift!

[@anweshaP14]

You are one of the best teachers...manifestation is not generally consistent, that's why people vary in their beliefs but we are manifesting all the time but moment we try to manifest there is that effort and it doesn't work. This is spiritual and there is a very thin line. We need to really be able to not think, and know we are the space which holds the thoughts and emotions. How can people change their mindset if their thoughts are controlling them and not the other way round. I think too many people just focus on getting what you want whereas that is and should be secondary, we all want what we want to feel better so why not feel better in the moment, without it, you can do it you know because you have the full power over your emotions and thoughts. That in itself is powerful. That is the first step. The universe is inside you and everyone is you or a reflection of you, but there is no point knowing this unless we know we can choose to feel and be whatever we want in every given moment. The operative word here is choose.

[@sabster79]

Unlike other LOA teachers, You take us Step by Step! Subscribed!

[@elas1871]

SO thankful for your videos ♥️! I accidently found you here on youtube just at the time I was desperate with my manifestation and had lost hope! I have been struggling for months, but now, after listening to a few of your videos I can see where I was wrong in this process. Thank You! Thank You! Thank You! I'll make sure to leave a comment whenever my desire manifests!

[@emmyschaedler5698]

Thank you so much! Acting as if all day brought up so much resistance for me that I embraced with your tools and videos - and this helps me so much instead!

[@LizFoley-yh7iv]

Letting go feels so good

[@ichazychaz]

Emotionally independent! Thank you so much :) This is exactly what I wanted to hear today.

[@illuminatingjoy]

You're welcome!

[@ammar-zd2tq]

Me too thank you

[@CHRIS-ob4hk]

I have just read a book where the Author was saying after interviewing few jackpot winners that we always have to persist in manifesting and not to detach completely when is about a bigger goal... I will attach below few lines from it: QUESTION: Someone once told me that I should ask for what I want once or visualize once and then release my intention. Is this true? ANSWER: This is not true. A weight lifter does not lift weights once and a swimmer does not only swim once. In order to manifest your desires, you must persist in imagining what you desire until it manifests. Your job as a co-creator with the Universe is to persist in feeling the reality of your wish fulfilled until your manifestation has taken place. As you persist with these creative visualization exercises you will gradually become more comfortable with what you desire and you will be better able to manifest what you want. P.S so confusing 😭😭😭

[@claungwen]

This is the most important video in KZbin, in relation to detachment while manifesting 🙏

[@ldabell9255]

This is the best video on detachment ever ! Thank you so much 😊

[@troyhurleyhyuh4753]

This is the absolute BEST explanation of detachment I’ve ever heard... Thank you so much for this...

[@victorizannasmr9411]

This is the nicest video I've found on this topic.

[@olapuscian]

Hi Amy! I really find the techniques of accepting any feeling you have very useful. Once I used it while I was stress out during the meeting with CEO in the comoany I work for. I got a stomachache and I could not even stand straight. So I thought: ok lets try it... And I was like: Ok, I have stomachache because I am nervous, let it be. It is normal that people get nervous sometimes so I will participate the meeting with my stomachache. It's ok. And guess what: it passed. I try to use it on different kind of problems / resistance. It works, but sometimes I have to repeat it many, many times. I guess this is the learning process, I have to learn to let go and accept. Some time ago it was a concept that i could not even understand, it is hard to describe it or explain it. I had to read a lot and watch a lot on the subject to get it. And I still have not mastered it yet.

[@illuminatingjoy]

Ola Puscian As you continue to practice this (and it's awesome you are already doing so!) you'll find it easier and easier! It's so lovely to know that our negative feelings will pass on their own (like a rain storm) if we just let them be there. Congrats on proving this to yourself! 💖

[@samanthahovies4023]

This video helped me realize that my biggest block for a certain manifestation is fear and discomfort of what a certain person thinks of me. I don't really fear the idea of not getting this particular thing, but rather I fear the idea of what this person will do and say to me. In short, I'm afraid of being bullied and looked down upon by this person. I think an important part of this manifestation for me, is learning how to not be so affected by this person. Once I do this, the idea of not getting what I'm currently after won't be so scary to think about.

[@illuminatingjoy]

What a game changing realization you've had :) Now you can release it by embracing it. Be afraid, let the fear come up, the more you deliberately look at it, the less power it will have to scare you. You can also do a visualization where you imagine them doing exactly what you fear and you not caring or reacting.

[@samanthahovies4023]

That's a terrific idea thank you. I'm also using a technique of trying to figure out how my ego benefits from caring. There's always a valid reason and I do believe I've found it. Once you realize what it is, you realize that fear itself is not so bad. I will combine these techniques. Looking forward to your next video Amy.

[@B888-h2o]

How do you know if you genuinely believe you don’t need it or you’re convincing yourself that just because you want to get your manifestation

[@illuminatingjoy]

Great question. You can test yourself by taking a few moments and focusing on the idea it will never happen and then see if you are okay with that or if a bunch of resistance comes up. "Yes, but I can manifest it so it WILL happen" is a form of resistance for many and they don't realize it because the mind is hung up on it definitely happening that it now "needs" it to happen to validate that prediction (not always, but this is often the case).

[@missanniekitty]

To be honest for me it has always worked by not feeling great but accepting that there’s nothing I can do, it is what it is. For example I wanted to meet a certain person who lives in a different country and after focusing, things happened. I got the money, booked the hotel and plane tickets. When I got there I actually bumped into him in a store but it was a very short meeting. I wanted to meet him again but as days went byt, it didn’t happen. Because it was very important to me, I got really frustrated, to be honest I felt terrible and wasn’t enjoying my trip at all. I knew I won’t be able to come back for quite a long time. On a last day, walking around in an area where he lives, I felt really down and disappointed. I said to myself that I will be here for another couple of minutes and then I leave. Right before I was about to leave, I saw him walking down the street and I had a lovely conversation with him. I have noticed that this has been the case for all of my manifestations that have been important to me. With small things I can easily be ok without needing them.

[@marym.p.6130]

That has happened to me: one day on top of the world, yes, yes, is gonna happen, and the next day depressed/anxious,... It s like: I m going to be crazy? Happy to know, it s just a process

[@StarcrossedDeath]

Ever now and again when I feel like I'm struggling, I listen to your videos and I always feel better. Thank you for all you do for us Amy!

[@Kathleenmaryann]

Just wanted to say THANK YOU! I have just found your videos and it is as if something in my mind just opened and clicked - it makes so much sense to me. I have been trying and struggling with manifestations for the longest time and what you are saying is like a missing piece for me. I couldn't have been happier that I have found you here. Please keep doing what you are doing and know that you are helping so many people by it. Wishing you all the best :)

[@crabcake17]

The absolute best explanation I’ve heard of this yet

[@phendranaa]

I'm more of the thought it's done already so I can relax and enjoy the current reality without fixing. No doubt this method helps when someone has not directly experienced their power which takes practice.

[@BJ-fp7jg]

I feel if I detached myself from what I deserve, as if I'm letting go of my dream and admitting that I don't deserve what I want. Not accepting the present made me rebel against my situation and change myself to the best. Rebelling always served me well. When I was accepting my life before, I got crushed by it.

[@illuminatingjoy]

Basma Jawan You don’t detach from your desire. Detachment is about finding a way to be emotionally okay if you don’t get what you want as a way to release resistance. Attachment is resistance to the idea of the unwanted outcome. What resist, persists. So by releasing attachment you release resistance and thus your desire is not competing for your emotional energy anymore and can manifest. So to recap: attachment is a form of resistance that keeps your attention on the unwanted outcome. You release that. Your desire is a form of energy that keeps your attention on the wanted outcome.

[@hotcaramel8288]

Oh my. U are a breath of fresh air. After listening to all the 'gurus' quantum this vibration that, you explained it very well. Love and light to all. Happy manifesting.

[@ingalien8102]

Oh wow this is finally the first time I really 'got' your explanation of detachment and 'letting go' / releasing resistance, Amy! I just wasn't in that stage yet, but now I really feel like what I've been focusing on is coming nearer and nearer and I'm not so freaked out by all the chaos in my head, visualising all the time etc. My vibes are really high up and I feel calmer than the last few weeks and I think I really detached from the outcome even though I of course still want it, but I feel happy when I think about it and I trust that it's coming. And as you said that's when things usally happen for people; I feel like I'm really in that frequency. :) I've had a few moments in the past few days when something little disturbed me and I just thought to myself 'oh ok, I don't need it now' and then it instantly happened.

[@athiraunnikrishnan31]

I can totally resonate with this. When i let go of the desire after too much obsession and desperation boom my desire comes out of blue.

[@jowlorenz9555]

i probably needed to recognize this a looong time ago ... luckily i allready did but i sorta forgot about it till now ! thanks for thee wonderful reminder !

[@kpsalm]

This was the most helpful video regarding detachment. Thank you so much for this and being so clear, and giving examples!!!

[@lonerangerss5323]

You are so amazing Amy. Im on my journey with LoA and Manifesting for a while now, but everything changed because of You. Thank You so much for sharing Your experiences and knowlege. Its so beautiful and life changing. Thank You thank You Thank You

[@Mellie]

This is exactly what I needed! Thanks so much!

[@illuminatingjoy]

You're welcome :)

[@arvi2010]

I love you Amy. Especially your lovely energy. Just beautiful. Thank you.

[@cynthiasolomon885]

I love your content and wisdom so much. Thank you❤

[@miss.p4570]

so smart love this

[@prelalondon7139]

I love your videos! Such amazing advice and you have such a fantastic speaking voice.

[@bluelillies-k7y]

Love the comments here. Makes you realize you are not alone in all this! ❤

[@cloverk1tty]

thank you for this! i've been struggling with obsessing over my SP that i'm manifesting. i'm gonna continue to work on clarifying things as you recommend, and focus on letting go.

[@BiancaTheAlchemist]

My heart opened during a meditation lol omg I knew what it was when I felt it the first time but I don’t understand how people use it to manifest... I always use it to make myself feel better or to raise my vibration...my manifestations do happen more rapidly now though so maybe that’s why I’m not sure but I love the feeling and I haven’t figured out how to do it intentionally yet

[@liana00michelle]

I’m SOOOO grateful I found your page. These videos about resistance is exactly what I needed to hear. I listened to and shared many of your videos!

[@shailjapathak3155]

I am here because I like hearing you. Amy I have been through your playlist number of times. Where did you go? Miss you. And all the best wishes for your birthday and happy new year too. Hope seeing you more in new year. ❤️

[@garyhobbins4746]

When you know you have it you have it. You do not have to prove it. You may have to prove it if it is to help others. Others may need you to prove it because they do not know.

[@ianfromoz5247]

Struggling with detachment understanding difference between need and want. In a very dark place need to focus on being happy without the need for manifesting her in my life. Unfortunately have a titanic epic once in a life time love for her. Difficult but not impossible ! Ok thankyou I will do this.

[@brianhoffmann2403]

Ive been working hard on all of this stuff; and Im looking forward to being a great manifest'r.

[@brubsbruberry]

Your videos make my days better

[@Pibodabo]

One of your best videos. Informative as always!

[@kelliedizon]

I've been trying to manifest a SP and we were talking for two weeks and I got way too attached and messed it up LOL but I'm trying again with more knowledge on how to handle it this time 💁‍♀️ anyways I had a rough night last night because he hadn't messaged me yet and I was mad and my daughter was freaking out crying 🙄 then all these thoughts came up like "Maybe I'm not meant to be happy" "Why would anything good happen for me" "not worthy of love" etc.... so I decided to stay off my phone the rest of the night and until this morning until I felt okay again with myself. And it helped! A lot! Crazy thing happened after that. So I thought of getting free tennis shoes for work, like from my sister or a friend and I was like nah I'll just go buy some from a thrift store but prior to going to the store I had gotten gas at a gas station with my card and I knew I had money on it. When I went to the store to buy the shoes my card declined twice so I was like shoot, (it was only $3) and as I was about to walk out the lady behind me offered to buy them for me 😭😱 I was like well I did end up getting them for free and definitely not how I expected. Kind of just laughed at myself and was like okay universe, you control the how's and when. I surrender now lol magical

[@musicsdarkangel]

Your voice is so pleasant to listen to. Thank you for the advice 🙏🏻

[@HeyItsTwanie]

This was perfect timing. Thank you so much for the reassurance.

[@mun3698]

I trust that it’ll happen but I’m still at a point where I’m super excited and like “I need it to manifest because I’m so excited for it!” I know I’ll be ok if it never does though. It’s a weird space between two sides. 😅

[@BJ-fp7jg]

Attachment happens as a means to protect oneself from the harm of the problem. When we get into a problem that is threatening to us, we get attached to the solution. How can we not feel that the solution is needed while the problem is still there! It's the problem that got us attached.

[@lovingmariahgordon4432]

Thanks you are right

[@jamesalgeo8592]

Makes sense but I NEED to make my sales quote this year.

[@CharlRaff]

Hi Amy, I know you're making a return to KZbin soon... It would be extremely helpful if you could go over this topic again... I have alot of resistance and I need to move on without needing it but it is also hard for me to detach and I go back and forth... Any help is appreciated. This video is super awesome and helpful ❤

[@WatchMePoledance]

Also, getting to a point where you can say "I'm OK with or without this" or "I don't really need this" I find challenging because sometimes we really do need things... like rent money💚

[@Bbeiiybuz]

Hello, first, sorry for my english mistakes! Hope you'll see my comment ! :) I started watching LOA videos on KZbin for a while and i end up watching yours. I want to believe about all this but it's kinda hard.. i just have the feeling it won't happen to me! But i gave it a try! I started writings things that i wanted ( i started focusing on only two things) the first is about my studies and the second is to find love. I tried to follow some of the advice i heard from videos about LOA, i tried to be specific about what i wanted etc. But i always end up doubting ( especially for the love part) about LOA and i also can't figuring out how to meditate etc. Sooo Here's the thing: one day i was on my way to go to the university library. Since I often sit at the same place and some people do the same thing, I'm kind of used to some faces. But this day, there was this guy that I've never seen before. I couldn't really see his face at the begging since he was studying. So i kept keeping an eye on me, from time to time. He finally raised his head. I quickly reached my glasses to see him clearer (lol) and.......shocked.. this guy looked (physically) exactly like my dream guy.. i mean not 100% but a good 85-90% like him. It was like he appeared OUT OF NOWHERE. I then noticed that he was sometimes looking at me and when we looking at each other, he quickly looked away. So yeah he noticed me. Good news. Days after, i waked up a little bit later so when a came to the library, it was very difficult to find a seat but finally i find one, it was the last free seat and guess where... NEXT TO THIS GUY. I don't know if it was a pure accident.. i still doubt about all this. I don't know if i manifested him I think it's too early to say this because we didn't really talked. I still don't know his name, i just see him often now, and we sometimes catch ourselves looking at each other. The only time i spoke to him was bc i needed a USB stick. I was trying very hard to not smile, it seems he was struggling too haha.. I really don't know if this guy is a manifestation, so i just chose to let things happen.. i don't want to force anything and i try to not think about him a lot. But if doesn't happen I'd feel like the universe put a joke on me haha! What do you think of this situation?

[@kristencoleman802]

Wennie Zi did you talk to him?!? I'm reading your comment from 3 months ago & I want to know what happened lol I hope you got the nerve to speak to him ha ha best of luck!