"Immigrate or Break up" COOL Korean wife and Sweet British husband's Marriage life | couple vlog

a British husband, who was also a promising, followed his Korean wife to Korea and married her. And now they have two children and live happily. They recently decided to move from Seoul to the Korea's countryside.
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[@danasuri1057]

These kinds of parents are a blessing to the children.

[@Teddy-bc7sc]

OH MY GOD...i am not lying for the first time in 22 years old i am living...this is the very first time i see a couple that got married after a long time and still see the love in their eyes. Not an action for the camera but for the kids, it is a happy family and the parents are so supportive. I believe that a good man can provide a quality family. Despite the challenges they can still hug and not be mad or nagging and blame each other but for each problem they handle it with patients and understanding. That is why Hari can get through it. The couple has been through a lot but it takes courage, patience, understanding, and tolerance for each other to have family and partners like them. I wish I can start a family and have partners that can go through up and down even though years pass by but we can still hold hands and kiss, and look at each other with love. That's the only wish that I want for my future. May we find the right partners and we can have a family like them. May not be perfect but it is perfect among the imperfections

[@binu789]

Amen! It’s perfect said🙂

[@jongkim9292]

마크 대단하다 큰집을 짓고 .

[@jongkim9292]

영국서 잘살걸 한국서 고생하시네 .집 짓고 봉화 까지 왔고.

[@jongkim9292]

아빠 엄마 훌륭 하시네 애들에게 최고다 .

[@celiadabare9893]

Just my 50cents... it could be 5billion worth , A little subgestion- could Hari wear a sports helmet ? To protect his head? Here in Australia n I w lots of head injuries from sports. By the time they get to 40-50 it surfaces...

[@MagicApple03]

Being autistic, this really means a lot to me. I had a feeling he was by listening to him talk, and how he sat in the chair, his figure posturing. Hari is amazing, this family is lovely. This show was heartwarming.

[@shatteredshards8549]

Mark spoke about dating Jinok in college and commented he made that sweater for her, and I immediately yelled at my computer screen, "he broke the sweater curse?!" After 15 years of marriage, the way they look at each other, the way they show affection to their children, the way their children immediately run to the door to welcome them home...yes, they have challenges, but they work as a family to patiently overcome them.

[@ayannar.234]

Sweater curse? Would you mind explaining a bit?

[@shatteredshards8549]

@@ayannar.234 The "sweater curse" is part superstition, part coincidence, that when a knitter or crocheter makes the person they're dating a sweater, the relationship then goes sour.

[@fanofmanylegends9709]

That's the dumbest shit I ever heard, people make sweaters for their partners all the time lmao

[@shatteredshards8549]

@@fanofmanylegends9709 All you've done with your comment is tell people here that you don't know how to knit or crochet, and therefore your opinion on it is irrelevant. 🙃

[@siilver1]

Seeing EVERY woman leave Her life behind for a man, THIS was a freah breath of air! It doesn't ALWAYS have to be the women to sacrifice EVERYTHING! Kudos to this couple! I take inspiration from this sweet lady! "Immigrate or Breakup!"

[@kenyoungy]

Mark and jinok are the greenest of the green flags❤ As a woman , Mark made me realize love like this exists and that I shouldn’t lower my standards

[@aaronmontgomery2055]

well it depends on what your standards are.

[@janetlee1012]

Never lower your standards

[@blueshoes5145]

Her standard is where Mark is. Do you not think you can do that ? @@aaronmontgomery2055

[@deathdragonslayer1]

So technically my guy here is the original korean englishman

[@RoyaleSPRTZ]

basically

[@jonahgozon6069]

true, he is the true korean englishman

[@meganngan6645]

i knew he reminded me of someone 😭😭

[@itsDARLAsChannel]

As someone who grew up with a sibling with autism, it warms my heart that they are trying to hard and are soft with their kids. They are going great! ❤

[@aaronmontgomery2055]

Its truly rare to see one that is this well adjusted.

[@gknkrnkjgjugjrgjrng]

done with playing today's sympathy card?

[@itsDARLAsChannel]

Yeah, I was done 4 months ago. You're late to the party but I'm sooo glad you dropped by to say your piece. You can grab a gift bag on your way out, since you put in the effort...@@gknkrnkjgjugjrgjrng

[@xxxxbuttxxdragon]

the irony of the guy host , when marks gets home and the host said , " you still working too when you get home? ". that is also the case for women these days, they work n they get home. i think mark is doing excellent duty as a husband, and so does his wife. thats how it should be, they playing their roles as partner and parents right. it is not working when u get home, it is more as spending time assisting your family at home since they live together.

[@comet3439]

Manifesting a husband like him dear universe

[@knomesarecooliguess5928]

I’m right there with you❤

[@comet3439]

@@Repeuh I didn’t understand wt u wrote? I never mentioned korean?

[@countrywithouttrucksandbeerpls]

Yes please universe, manifest them sooner than later I'm getting old. Seriously that guy has it all, not only has all these qualities but he's also freaking handsome. What more do you want?

[@MeganYoungmee]

Shoutout to Hanna for being a sweet vibrant playful kid. Just wanted to send love her way. I have a child on the spectrum also. They are sweet wonderful intelligent kids who feel so deeply. Big hug for the parents for working together together. The shift to the slower more natural environment is going to be incredible. Love from an adopted Korean living in Peru

[@dominicm255]

She is such an awesome kid. I hope she gets all the attention she deserves.

[@leliavoinea7253]

Hari is a bright child. I think he will be well in the future. He has a loving family and is doing things at his own peace with his own strength. He deserves to be happy!

[@punnypuns5103]

This is by far the best family I have seen in how they share workload and communicate. I am so proud of them. When I become a parent I hope I am this good in the future.

[@udontevenwannaknowbruv]

Mark is seriously the most amazing husband and father I’ve ever seen. Everything he does is with his family in mind and it’s clear he has so much love in his heart for them. He’s an angel and he couldn’t have a more caring, beautiful wife. They truly are each other’s other half ❤ This video had me tearing up multiple times 😂 They are such wonderful parents and the way they handled Hari’s tough moments was inspiring.Their son is a blossoming flower and Hanna is a cute, cheeky sister but you can tell she loves her brother dearly. I come from a family that doesn’t have the healthiest dynamic so seeing what it could be like and how to communicate with each other is seriously eye opening to me. I am so grateful for this series because it teaches me how I would want to raise my own children and treat my partner when I see families like these. I can only hope for such a sweet, intelligent and understanding partner like Mark some day 🥹

[@thegirlwithribbons]

You can tell how loving the parents are just by how their kids greet them when they come home. just so so happy. What a beautiful family. God bless ❤

[@diumii6534]

as someone who studies psychology it really broke my heart when hari's mother said the he wanted to change his brain and body because he can't control them. You've got a long way to go but always remember that you have come so far hari! also both of the parents did a really great job in parenting!

[@luckymauve]

I've learned a lot from this couple. I'm in awe how much love and respect they have towards each other.

[@heyitsrosie]

He looks at her with so much love, after so many years. That's so beautiful to watch! Hari is so sweet, hopefully, he can get though any challenge moment he might face in the future, and I think he will since he has such a great family! Hana, too, she's a bright light to their home, and it's so sweet how they make sure to pay attention to her too.

[@Brenda_xo]

Such a wholesome family. Wonderful, supportive parents. And Hari, you are inspirational!

[@JL_hahaha0303]

I used to work with a child with autism in a Montessori classroom, the little boy just learned how to solve the trinomial cube, when he tried it again by himself and he came across different issues, like cubes falling out of his hands, or he couldn’t solve it the first try etc. he would get really upset when problems happened, he would scream and kick things around him, but if you asked him if he wants to continue, he would for sure say yes, and you can sense that the frustration that he gets from being upset at himself, after many times of trying together, verbal guides and encouragement, he finally managed to complete the cube by himself and would go back to it over and over again, no more crying, no more screaming, and I saw a boy full of confidence and persistence, despite the challenges, he didn’t give up, he kept going, and THAT was golden.

[@emeryjem]

Mark's been in Korea for so long you can hear a slight Korean accent when be speaks English. What a sweet family haha ❤❤

[@JL_hahaha0303]

Omg these two make the best parents that anyone could ever asked for 😭

[@pjoazure]

Immediately knew the son had autism when the screaming started, speaking from experience. A great family.

[@angelsis2222]

But cant that be any kid who screams or cries out of stress? He looks perfectly normal to me. Hes just seems introverted. Any child can cry out of fear of being yelled at or reprimanded by his mom. I think he got diagnosed but its false. I think the mom used to scream at him as a kid whenever he acted like a kid (being loud and doing silly things) and it made him feel stressed and he decided to be quiet to not bother his mom. I feel bad for him. I think his mom scarred him for life when he was a baby

[@lglglg]

​@@angelsis2222 You're projecting a whole made up story onto this boy lmao, calm down. The family surely knows better than you, you've only watched a few edited moments of their life on a reality TV show.😅

[@tobyk8125]

@@lglglg Wow, glad someone called angel's nonsense out.

[@kimpiero2525]

@@angelsis2222 and you came up with this conclusion based on your own experience?

[@kriztincruz6012]

​​​​​@@angelsis2222are you the one sent to the clinic to do extensive tests for the child? A typical 5th grader can manage their emotions with less screaming/a strong reaction compared to a child on the spectrum of the same age. The manifestations of symptoms vary across anyone with autism, hence why it's a spectrum. But generally, change, social cues, and stress management from small things are typical things people on the spectrum generally have trouble with. Hari seems to be improving a lot in this regard, but the last thing anyone needs is a random stranger writing off someone's diagnosis on the basis of assumptions. Don't be the armchair psychologist and write his autism off as non-existent. It's terrible.

[@akim2154]

It’s not easy raising kids to begin with but I think they’re doing a great job raising a child on the spectrum in Korea! Kudos to them amd wish Hari and Hanna a wonderful future! 🙏 🙌

[@min.trusfrated]

Probably my favourite episode ever. Congratulations to these parents for doing such a beautiful job.

[@nitroxide17]

Mark is an inspiration to me. Good at his job, good at being a father and husband… good at being handy

[@user-gd2xz8wt1u]

같은 중년 남자가 봐도 아빠가 정말 멋있다 ㅎㅎㅎ 배울 점이 많은 부부네요

[@user-bs4oq9xv7p]

My little brother is similar to harri, at first I got the feeling he may have undiagnosed autism, but it is great to hear he got the diagnosis. It can be more challenging when they get diagnosed older, but it is great for him to understand himself better and for his parents to learn to raise a child like him better. I hope this family is always happy and continues to be strong for their children ❤

[@tina2701]

This might be my favorite episode out of all. They're a nice and healthy couple. They know how to be silly at times and immerse themselves to enjoy mundane things. They may have difficulties but they know how to handle it. I aspire to live a life like theirs.

[@hyunrahan5265]

This family is so loving and have such a healthy relationship 😭 I wish them all the best

[@kG-uq7ju]

I love how patient, understanding and loving Mark and Jinok are to Hari. It made me teary-eyed to see how determined Hari was to complete the course because of his parents' unwavering encouragement. Mark and Jinok understand what comes with autism and how they could help their son go through with his struggles. I hope more parents can learn from this. Such a beautiful family. Sending love to everyone! :)

[@wolf5rain]

모든 어머님들은 슈퍼우먼 입니다. 세상의 모든 어머니들께 고맙습니다 !

[@MelllodyGotNoJams]

I suspected undiagnosed autism when the screaming started, but I am glad they have gotten a diagnosis for him. Even just getting a diagnosis can make all the difference for both the parents and potential siblings, but most importantly to the person themselves. It gives you an explanation and a reason for why things are the way they are. From an autistic person😊

[@laurenm.6320]

Inspirational family, made me tear up as a parent of three very different children with different sets of needs ❤

[@lettucenjoyer]

I have autism too, it can be hard to control emotions because they're so strong for us, it's even harder when you're a kid! Hari seems so sweet even though things can be a lot for him, I'm glad he has a loving family who can help him.

[@buseokk]

Literally the best family. When I watch videos like this, I’ll usually find something that will kind of be a turn off but wow.. they just understand and love each other so much. Their relationship looks so healthy.

[@kriztincruz6012]

This is my favorite episode. It's hard enough to raise a child, let alone a child on the spectrum. They're doing a fantastic job ❤

[@ndrpspsty1215]

Love how different the siblings are, hanna is so funny while hari is super patient lol... beautiful family❤

[@SKZemiliaSTAY]

What a beautiful family and a wonderful example of parents who love and respect eachother. It's so great for their children to grow up in that environment and will help them become amazing adults.

[@countrywithouttrucksandbeerpls]

Omg....what a touching family!! That lady is so lucky, her husband is the ultimate jackpot. I can only dream of meeting a man like that in my life and I'm 50 years old, I don't think that's going to happen. But I wonder where he's from because he doesn't speak English like they do in England, he has other accent. I wonder what that is? You can't tell that couple is going to last forever, please show us more about them later! Thank you

[@dolcemaddalena]

His parents had the accent when they were on facetime towards the end. It is possible he had British parents but was raised elsewhere.

[@the.marinator]

Raising kids is hard, especially these days, but love conquers all. Amazing parents and kids!

[@haechanahceah37]

HOW DOES IT FEEL TO HAVE A PRESENT FATHER ????? The whole time I was watching this I was FILLED WITH JEALOUSY 😭🤚🏻 how I wished I grew up in such a loving family 😭😭😭😭

[@xEPICxNESS]

Hanna has the same haircut as her mother ❤ what a lovely family!

[@LokiHiddlestone13]

Gosh, the warmth this family gives off is incredible. Bless them ❤

[@luvehem]

자폐 중에서도 경증인게 한눈에 보여요. 부모는 참 위대해요. 하리가 화가 많이 날 때 속상할 엄마의 마음ㅜㅜ 두분이 함께 힘을 내보는 게 사랑이지요 ❤

[@honeststraightforward1485]

The problem is that Korea do not offer support to family with children with disabilities and thats not just a shame but a disgrace at this stage and era. Mark is a professor and therefore a very but very busy man with little time for himself. To be honest I would have packed my family and moved back to England because Hari's would get all the support he needs from schools for children's with special needs so Mark and his wife could have much more breathing space. I want to see more of this family. God bless them ❤

[@Zeroknight34]

I know your heart means well but that would be a horrible idea. You are basically saying let’s start a new life, with a kid with autism who will struggle with a new language, there also the problem of Hari will feel out of place with people. At this point in there lives it would be a difficult transition.

[@dolcemaddalena]

I somehow think support for kids with disabilities would be in the larger cities like Seoul. It is the same here in Canada. Rural areas are sh*te. I know many people who leave the rural areas for more urban areas for better access to services and care. I know someone who moved from Labrador to come to Halifax as he has a non verbal autistic son. That is very far to get access to help and care. It is disgraceful really.

[@user-kc7hy1xg5v]

하리의 장애는 큰거같진 않고 아이들의 엄마는 연애때부터 한국에 돌아가길 원했고 둘의 선택인 헤어지거나 한국에 가거나 중에 한국을 선택했다고 합니다 하리가 5살때 장애를 확실히 알게됐고 한국에 계속 살기로 한건 가족을 위해 최선의 선택이었던거 같아요 엄마는 아직 아이의 장애에 대해 심리적으로 많이 힘들어하는걸로 보이는데 타국에 가는거 엄마에게 더 안좋은 환경일지도 모릅니다 한국의 장애아동에 대한 지원은 저도 얼마나 좋은지 모르지만 영국의 장애아동에 대한 지원보다 좋지않을수도 있지만 저부모님은 가족을 위해 최선의 선택을 할거 같아요

[@kathytan2736]

I love this family!! great parents !

[@princeton0905]

They are literally couple goals 😊 and set the example for their kids, I love that !

[@CWG-op9td]

Such a lovely couple! Sending you good vibes from the beautiful state of Washington, USA :) Hari and Hanna are blessed to have such loving parents!

[@SOI-wl2lo]

Gosh, I would be proud of Hari every day simply because of the _strong will_ he has and shows. What an example to all young ppl!

[@monayang123]

what a blessing to have come across this segment. A super lovely family, and inspiration to all families that are going through their own struggles. To continue to love, be patient, and support. Thank you Mark and Jinok for your love for each other and for your kids. Fighting!

[@barbarageddis1584]

All the Korean people I’ve met in Korea and in the US have good hearts, very good people.

[@simplelife6294]

What beautiful parents. As a parent myself, their story moved me to tears. You want the best for your children for them to be healthy and happy, and when they receive a diagnosis that can have an impact on their well being, you want to do everything to give them the best in life. I wish you God’s blessings to your family ❤

[@larafabbroni8593]

Unconditional LOVE . Wholesome. Thank you so much🙏🏻❤️

[@michelle_ybm]

What a lovely footage of this blessed family! I wish them all the happiness that the universe can offer! This was so refreshing to watch, especially since we live in such a chaotic world ❤

[@user-jo7kf2bj9s]

Those are some awesome parents right there! Mark an Jinok are soooooo cute! I love that the Hari and Hanna can understand and respond in both Korean and English, and play together so well. The sweetest family ever. Hari and Hanna work so well together, even with Hari being autistic. Mark and Jinok are an inspiration to parents everywhere.

[@lilah3051]

They’re such dream parents 😢

[@hyull7696]

Autism can be really stressful and hard as it requires constant attention, care and support. they have a hard time with their own emotions which causes a great deal of distress in their day to day functioning. but, it's more stressful for the parents and caretakers as, they have to be aware at all times making sure to help or provide even little aid to their children and it can be really exhausting and this couple has done so well in upbringing their children by giving equal love and attention to both kids and not making either of them felt left out. Praying Hari and Hanna grow beautifully ❤

[@fdoctor79]

What a lovely and special family. God's speed and continued success with your endeavors.

[@mariavanness2961]

Love this show!!!!

[@miu869]

Such a sweet happy family ❤ they're blessed to have each other. The way the dad looks so happy is wholesome

[@girlnextdoor0703]

I hope everyone gets to have a love like this in their life.

[@rvpurple7338]

thanks to k-doc for uploading the full video❤

[@user-cp1co5vl7m]

wowowowow this family has so much love to give to each other it's so touching and moving to see

[@amstermind6877]

A family that everyone could every dreamed of ❤🥹🥹 A realiable and caring father, A hardworking and dedicated mother, A cute and funny daughter, And, a dependable and strong son. An imperfect perfect family 💞

[@LydiaHJR]

부인이 남편같고 남편이 부인같고 근데 왜이케 잘생기셧음니까.....스맛하기까지....그리고 성격도 엄창나시네요 ~~~!!! 대박

[@marieconlon4785]

Watching the devotion and encouragement from Harris parents brings tears to my eyes…well done to the whole family.

[@gladysberches2150]

Wonderful family! Blessings!

[@carolele226]

I've always wondered what a caring family would be like and they've answered my curiosity

[@iyaleimaru]

So sweet, loving family

[@kimpossible0174]

Absolutely loved watching this family

[@danigreen5353]

These parents are just true and great in all aspects of their lives, I like them a lot, Bless them❤

[@isabelesteves3259]

Beautiful Family such an inspiration.Bless you.

[@kuraumaki2813]

what a beautiful husband he is and great awesome father

[@ikk9715]

부부의 선함과 사랑이 하리에게 긍정적인 영향을 줄 것이라고 믿습니다. 가족 모두 행복하길 진심으로 바랍니다.

[@izzamemario2600]

"Ah, you're working as soon as you get home" YES LOL HE'S A PARENT

[@ricaherrera3856]

i bet both his son and daughter will be more handsome and beautiful when they grow up

[@missayoshaa7798]

if all parents were like this , all children would have a happy childhood .

[@Mapsy9858]

Wow! parenting at its best.

[@yvette4933]

He’s an amazing dad ❤

[@gse8400]

This was one of the best episodes, sure did make me tear…

[@littleorange7142]

By watching this video, I feel the warmth. It's so sweet to watch and I honestly learnt a lot from the parents and also from the children. The positive thinking from the baby girl Hanna, the never give-up mindset from Hari and the last, I learnt to work diligently everyday for the family from Mark and Jinok . Honestly, I was kicking the air and smiling like crazy every time when Mark and Jinok's love story appears.

[@jamesineko3181]

god bless them i almost forgot that love is such a precious thing, thanks to them now i remember

[@maki1404]

I relate to Hari a lot… he just needs time to himself and autonomy, taking care of his sister shouldn’t be his priority if he doesn’t want to do it… she should learn to be independent as well It seems like Hanna antagonizes him too, which should be avoided It actually reduced me to tears seeing him like that because, even today, as a 22 year old, sometimes I have outbursts that I can’t control and feel immense shame after. Usually they’re caused by a disturbance of routine or being pressured to do things I’m uncomfortable with. We all find our coping mechanisms as we age, but i would suggest giving him alone time and freedom to do what he wants. Id suggest getting in touch with/researching Canadian/American autism centres and guides. Since mental health isn’t as taboo here, my brother is actually less functioning than me but he’s able to live a fully independent lifestyle and has a stable job - despite all of his struggles. He gained grit, determination, and was helped lots but he’s able to live a full life that he wants. I’m no professional but it’s not uncommon for it to run in the family between siblings (my brother and I) Hanna may have Asperger’s, she reminds me a lot of my cousin who would be hyper and antagonize me. He’s also stable now, but he had to receive treatment and kind of figure out his way in the world. Though he got into a bit of trouble. He toughened it out. I believe those who are neurodivergent bring a colour to the world than what normal people experience on a daily basis. They have potential and their own superpowers. One could say. Education is freedom.

[@jiminswife2312]

Hari you're doing great 🙂

[@d.9962]

This is a proof shows Love is still exist. Hopefully each of us is bless with it

[@mariaboniface8986]

OMG Love this Family.

[@meloon5876]

A very warm and loving man. Who wish to marry a man like that?

[@hsk233]

they are great parents. there is alot of love in their home.

[@DreAmer-xc3po]

7:28 Perfect description of the relationship with my sibling..

[@barbarageddis1584]

No family is perfect. We all have issues we deal with. As long as there is love and patience with one another, all will be fine.

[@Carol-uz9ho]

Very well said!! Why don't young people see this??

[@0-0_kyh16]

I love how dedicated these parents are to their kids

[@yiyunzhuo5991]

Watching this gave me diabetes. What a healthy and loving family. Wishing the best for them always.

[@mommydtraveling6592]

What a beautiful family... i love watching them...

[@Pipspicks]

such a beautiful family

[@soojn0072]

What a beautiful family ❤❤may God bless you 🙌🙌🥺💌

[@SOI-wl2lo]

My goodness, What a BEAUTIFUL family!

[@raisadrawss4190]

so so adorable

[@kingqueen4759]

이 가족에게 부처님의 자비와 하나님의 사랑이 가득하길

[@Jesusisacooldude]

God bless this family

[@lindaknaras8828]

Beautiful and strong family