Relationship ADVICE for a Happy Marriage

[@IsaqueSbr]

Man, it's just me, or the art received an big quality boost?

[@Kiwicado]

If you draw more often you'll learn to draw better (So yeah.)

[@SilverLovesJesus]

It certainly changed, and in some cases yeah it certainly improved but in other cases it looks a little sloppy.

[@ImpactVideoMinistries]

Thanks! We love to hear it! We have a few new artists who are helping out now. We love seeing each person’s style shine through in their video.

[@JesusIsKing144]

Quite the opposite in my opinion but, whatever suits you I guess

[@SilverLovesJesus]

@@JesusIsKing144 It’s certainly sloppy in some areas, but in some other cases, like the thumbnails and even character design, it’s pretty great!

[@ryaku5]

I've had a feeling for a while now that, while it is extremely difficult being lonely and desiring physical affection, God is using this time to help me learn spiritual discipline and the value of hard work so that I can become the person he wants me to be. Even if I never marry, learning these lessons will make me a better person for God's glory. Amen. Praise the Lord!

[@benkayvfalsifier3817]

@@ryaku5 Praise the Lord.

[@armanifryeowens5518]

@@ryaku5 thank you Jesus

[@gaitanexpress3971]

God will send you the person you will marry

[@joshfontaine1511]

Amen.

[@CherKitG5]

❤❤❤

[@bydr9835]

It’s extremely hard looking for a woman in 2024 with God in her heart. Very hard. This video is very real brother God bless

[@lanaswrld7660]

True! This generation is so bad and a lot of people are unfaithful with God. For both genders honestly! I pray that one day, you will find true love from God. Amen!❤

[@xylopiano3]

@@lanaswrld7660 As a Gen Z Christian... I wouldn't say that the young generations are "bad" so much as they are lost and astray. I've been hurt by things that people my age have said and done. But at the same time, I know it's common for them to feel like they have been let down and hurt by the older generations, and I can understand that. However, it doesn't change my personal conviction in my faith.

[@lanaswrld7660]

@@xylopiano3 Couldn't agree more!

[@RLLNDRSTMMTSCH]

There's nothing new under the sun.

[@LeaderOfTheNewSchool307]

Don’t worry about that, ask God to lead you into finding the woman He wants for you to pursue.

[@noahhuelsman]

I married my wife before I really knew what God's plan was in my life. We went through more than our fair share of hardships because of our lack of spiritual direction, but we've since learned how to be the spouse God called us to be, and nothing feels better than supporting each other in our mission.

[@annelisecroell757]

I just commented a similar testimony. It’s so true! Living out God’s purpose in your marriage changes everything and makes for a better marriage.

[@Leiaemyy]

This video helped me relive to stop looking for a relationship and look for a purpose in God.

[@FaithWorksHealing-z3p]

When I grew tired of pursuing relationships, I just told God to pick the woman for me and stopped focusing so much on it. Some time later, my future wife showed up. I think you are making the right choice.

[@HansZarkovPhD]

Which god? There are so many....

[@Leiaemyy]

@@HansZarkovPhD there is only one true God

[@AndrewHollywood]

I didn’t marry a Christian. My wife became a Christian when she saw the Holy Spirit working in me after I was saved by Jesus.

[@Clem321]

@@AndrewHollywood Glory be to God!

[@TheGreatAustino]

I've been considering looking outside the church for a wife, this might be the way for some men

[@SquidCena]

@@TheGreatAustino It's not worth it and the Bible advises against it.

[@pointblank0303]

I literally just got done praying for an answer as to what God wants me to do when it comes to relationships like an hour ago. I was watching this video and I can honestly see myself in every single example. Thank you, I really needed this.

[@Dachi-z6i]

Always capitalize G in God for respecting, God bless you

[@BobaLover-x2p]

@@Dachi-z6i I don’t remember reading that in the Bible. I do it because I love Him , not because I feel like I have to ❤. I love you and God does even more!!!!!!!!❤❤❤ bye , bless you in Jesus’ Name 😊🤗

[@cammag4619]

Me too

[@JohnWasAPrettyCoolGuy]

I'm a teenage boy and all my peers need to hear this.

[@dgzz-b8n]

@@JohnWasAPrettyCoolGuy Same

[@quagsiremcgee1647]

Same

[@TheStarshipGarage]

I remember about a year ago I had a pretty serious crush on this girl, and I asked some of the leaders in my youth group about it, and they gave me some solid advice that really helped me evaluate my life and grow as a person. The relationship with that girl didn’t end up working out, however I was able to work on my walk with God, and eventually he put my current girlfriend in my life. And I still remember that advice I received to this day.

[@BobaLover-x2p]

What was the advice? ❤

[@sagemorris5632]

​@BobaLover-x2p right!? Lol 😆

[@TheStarshipGarage]

@@BobaLover-x2p basically a lot of the advice he shared in this video and his previous relationship videos lol

[@UntoEternalLight]

I like the analogy of finding someone running alongside you. Seek Him FIRST, and you'll start to notice those who are going the same direction. Seek other things first, and you'll find yourself lost and confused, because you have no direction.

[@ivegotajousyaccent99]

This video couldn’t have come at a better time. I believe God is calling me to have a relationship and marriage one day, but in the meantime I’ve been working on my walk with the Lord and drawing closer to Him. But, lately, doubts have crept into my mind on whether or not God really does want me to be married at all. But whenever I have questions or doubts in regard to this matter, videos pop up in my feed addressing my concerns, nearly every single time. Please pray for me. Also the “Jesus loves you” at the end of every video gets me every time 🥹

[@Epitaph_of_Seikilos]

I'm praying for you! I know how you feel, and I understand what you're going through. Just remember that God is paving your way, just like mine. We'll find where we are meant to be, soon. :)

[@FaithRock_Diaries]

In prayers 🙏

[@ricardoarchangel28]

All be honest as someone who’s been married for decades. When you date focus on communication first. Sit and talk about everything and get to know each other beyond the physical appearances. Don’t distract yourself with movies and going on adventures. You can easily tell someone is not for you by just talking to them and seeing if they are a good fit. If you would have mentioned early on you have a heart for missions you would have saved months of hiding it.

[@MegaAppleMan12]

@@ricardoarchangel28 Amen. If you end up doing so many entertaining things with the other person, you may get confused thinking you enjoy or love the person but you just enjoy the many entertaining things yall are doing together. My wife and I talked for hours and hours before we married, very often without doing much of anything else. Doing entertaining things =/= getting to know each other.

[@ricardoarchangel28]

@@MegaAppleMan12 that’s very true! Then later on you end up saying you lost the spark or we are not fun anymore because you mixed those things together.

[@perspicacity89]

Brooooooo.... You have no idea HOW BADLY I needed to see this video and how perfectly it speaks to the past four years of my life. THANK YOU SO MUCH!

[@dawidwojacki5049]

Yeah... I really need to focus on carving out who I really am, rather than keep looking about someone to keep me from loneliness and then being depressed about not achieving so.

[@katlegowentzel6040]

The timing of this is so crazy. God is INTENTIONAL! PRAISE OUR LORD GOD AND OUR SAVIOUR JESUS CHRIST, the alpha and the omega, the beginning and the end. I pray that all those who watch this video may be blessed and empowered to find their future spouses, and that we may all fulfill our divine purposes and mission from God, in Jesus name, amen!❤

[@nkazimulodlamini5388]

@@katlegowentzel6040 Amen😇

[@nakram281]

@@katlegowentzel6040 Amen

[@CherKitG5]

❤❤❤

[@MishaelNine]

I am from the Philippines and I am part of the church that was founded by a missionary. I thank God for the life of missionaries. I thank God for people who accepted their call despite all sacrifices. I realize that many people are blessed by one person's obedience like that of Abraham. If I choose to be obedient in the matter of relationships and marriage, it is not only my life that will be blessed but also others and even the future generation. I am in my 30s and still waiting for the right person. Thank you for this encouragement. :)

[@Nevergonnagiveyouup193]

I'm a pinoy to! Kamusta na kayo Jan?

[@a-b0t633]

It's important to know what you expect in a marriage and don't settle for someone who doesn't fit into that picture. They should support your goals, and treat you properly, as you should them. I prayed to the Lord not to let me waste time on a man I shouldn't marry. That was over 13 years ago. I started talking to my husband just shortly afterward and we're walking relationship goals.

[@Nath3o_official]

This guy takes Christianity to the next level. Love this dude!❤

[@Precious_Journeyy]

The timing of this video is crazy😭😭✝️❤ Because i just prayed to God to show me if that boy is the one and 25 minutes ago i was going through my old snaps that had pictures of me heartbroken from the relationship that brought me closer to God😭

[@gustavo-08]

Hey, Impact! Your videos are helping me a lot, man. I feel like I'm getting closer to Jesus every day and I feel fantastic, at peace, my heart overflows with love, you know? It's simply incredible, Jesus changed my life! Could you make a video on how to help more at church? I want to get more involved, but I don't know how :( Much love from Brazil, bro bro, you are amazing

[@ImpactVideoMinistries]

Thanks so much! Love much to our Brazil brothers and sisters. This is a great idea! We will add it to the list. But in the meantime, I’d actually recommend our videos on how to make friends. We cover some ways to get involved with people, specifically at church. It might help

[@Scented_HandSoap]

3:35 Wow, that was literally what happened to me earlier this year. I was madly in love and i basically based my life over this person for years. After i was devastatingly heartbroken, i felt like I lost everything. As I had gotten closer to God, He revealed to me that i was way to focused on this person and not on Him, the Lord took me out of that situation and led me to a better life. I didnt see it at first because i was blinded by love, but now I see that i am capable of much more, that God has a grand purpose for my life and the time for being in a relationship was not here yet. I thank God now because I am in a much MUCH better place now than i was back then

[@wicio4852]

Oh Myles thanks so much. I'm in love with one girl and I was pretty lost for some time because I started to focus on her rather than on God. But now I do know what I have to do and what God is calling me to do. So great to have you friend thanks 🙏😊

[@gabrieloooooo543]

I cant believe I experienced the exact same thing just last month. My girlfriend that I wanted to marry broke up with me a month ago. I can relate so much with having to compromise and base everything of my future and dreams for her. God used this painful event in my life to finally turn to Him and love God, and live fully in accordance to His purpose. God truly doesn't let you go despite our stubborness and disobedience. Now, I am called to serve God fully on this amazing journey with Him. Thank you for this wonderful video ❤

[@CXHo-sy1xz]

This made me appreciate my gf alot more. I asked myself the 3 questions. She matches up with all of them. Thank you.

[@AcapachVideo]

After watching this about constructing relationships, I have learned that I must pursue what God called me for first before finding a partner. In freshman year, months before the accident, a few of friends asked me if I ever want to date anyone during my college years. I succinctly answered: "No! That's not important now! I am majoring in Computer Science!" Now, this does not mean I will never find the one. Rather, I have to trust Christ, not my own understanding! Amen!

[@Alu404]

I very much needed this. A fantastic reminder about the importance of shared values. Truth be told even the idea of being loved for who I am by a gal is foreign to me. Past relationships have only been abusive, but as I look upon Christ and read scripture, I know that this unconditional love is genuinely possible. I’ve allowed the enemy in at times with the lie of “you’re getting older tick-tock.” But the truth is that Gods timing is perfect. I’ll be 29 in a few months but he’s established me in fantastic ways and I can’t wait to support and love that wonderful gal one day.

[@NoGoodIdeas]

I discovered this channel this and feel like a completely different person. You don't realize the extent of what your videos can do to some people so all i can say is thank you for the effort you've put into these AMAZING videos.

[@The_Unkown737]

WHEN I SAY GOD BLESS YOU WHO EVER YOU ARE YOU HELPED ME NOT ONLY EVOLVED SPIRITUALLY BUT GET CLOSER TO GOD THANK YOU!!!!

[@Moe-sn2hn]

Gods timing is so perfect, this video couldn't have been posted at a better time for me. This changed my perspective and now im going to work on figuring out if she is the right one and if she is there to help me and support me. God sent me the answer i was asking for to help me figure out if she is the right one or if i should move on.

[@Vhan_ink]

I am an agnostic, but tbh this is actually great advice. I belive bible has a lot of wisdom and culture that should be given a chance even out of a religion. Btw, love the quality of the art

[@tonyguillen3224]

@@Vhan_ink religion? This is not about religion bro and being agnostic means that you're not sure about anything so you're not cold nor hot Yikes

[@Vhan_ink]

@@tonyguillen3224 yeah is about a faith, not a religion. You are right, i apologize

[@tonyguillen3224]

@@Vhan_ink I used to be like you And I know it sounds cliche or whatever but God does exist and is real And the fact that we don't ackwnoledge it or refuse to believe doesn't change reality

[@Vhan_ink]

@@tonyguillen3224 thanks for trying to be comforting. I have no lack of understanding the theory, i know that the sky is blue and the fact that i close my eyes doesn't mean that the sky is black. Still, my problem is in experience, since God is something we experience as a sense, i know that there MUST be a God philosophically or logically. But i have many questions about religions (this time i mean religion), and i know that the time i said i was a christian was because of fear. I don't wish to be a hypocritical, exclayming i know Jesus when i can't even follow his law and no amount of prayer has take me out of that, because I realized that my lack of belief is that I didn't even believe these things were intrinsically bad and that i was only scared of hell. Now I do not care for hell or heaven, i have enough with this life (in all the good and bad senses). But if it makes you feel any better, i still go to church and i even go to a christian group after it. I might find answer in Christ, i might not. I know you want me to find the truth and thats why you said what you said, but i am still on the path (to a conclusion) pal.

[@andrewstuart9558]

You mentioning going to Japan struck a chord with me. God called me to go to Japan too and now I’m here doing his will. I’m thrilled that the Lord brought you your helper for your life and that she supports God’s calling for you. I’m hoping to meet my helper here too; but in the meantime I’ll focus on following Jesus first so that I can be ready for the hard days to come when I am in a relationship. Thanks for your video. ありがとうございます！ 感謝します！

[@MissssGurl]

Neither myself nor my relationship truly began to blossom until I found God and started prioritizing pleasing Him. Praise the mercy of the most high God. Peace be with you. ✝

[@feliperocha3102]

The fact that you put dinosaurs in 1:24, made me happy.

[@TheStrumminCanuck]

Great advice. I’m a teacher and am going to show this to my grade 8 students; I think/hope it will help them. Thank you. :)

[@boxoffisa]

Few months back I had a heartbreak that left me with no hope for ministry that I am doing. The left option was death. Glad I am getting up and this was exactly my situation. I had lost desire to love again but as I was waking after worship I asked God what He wanted to tell me. I felt He wanted to speak to me but didn’t know how. Then opening the app I saw this video. Thanks for uploading it. The hope for love came back instantly.

[@qiqisongs]

Talk to the Lord Himself

[@SilverLovesJesus]

I joined a Bible study group for college-aged people and I hope to find someone there. This video is a good help to step in that direction.

[@brianpenha5669]

That’s great! I’m sure you will! 🙏

[@SilverLovesJesus]

@@brianpenha5669 The women at this college group are wonderful (some taken, but those are put of the picture of course), I sincerely hope I’ll meet my future wife there

[@Matheus_Kuyava]

I started a new relationship last month. In august and september I prayed for Saint Michael. My mind, my spirit and my soul was very full of the grace of Lord and Saint Spirit. My last relationship ended five years ago (not very good in a spiritual and religious view), and I many experiences (mostly bad) with others girls. Well, I started a conversation with my new girlfriend and i enjoy a lot your personality and faith. In short, we go to church together every week and next saturday she will go with me in Our Lady procession, October 12th. I don't invited her at first, because we started walk 5am and is a long distance to the church. But she asked to go with me... I'm very happiness and I thanks the Lord for I found this beautiful lady who I love like I never loved, because now my love is blessed by the Lord.

[@hakeemmickoy4513]

You shouldn’t pray to angels my man. Only pray to God the father Jesus Christ.

[@KrogonMc]

This is INCREDIBLE timing. After I watch this, I will meditate on this

[@GatorBoyCL]

This vid is a topic I think about a bit, I’m only almost 17 but I’m still praying if this one girl I think is a good Christian and is very exotic. I just hope God guides me right. So thanks for this vid. 🤘

[@tanishaalexander1994]

Just started considering dating again after 6 years. I’m thankful I watched this before finding someone of interest. Will be in prayer concerning these things, please pray for me as well as you feel lead. 🙏🏾

[@iamtired7433]

Thank you for the video 🫡have a blessed day! (If you will,please pray for my mother,father and two sisters salvation 🙏🏽)

[@mr.handsomeman]

I pray Jesus will open their hearts and guide them on the right path. 🙏 same for my mother and friends.

[@iamtired7433]

@mr.handsomeman we are grateful that we have them as pur family and we pray that they will come to know you personally, In Jesus's name, Amen.

[@annelisecroell757]

Man, this is spot on! Married 5 years to my help mate, and doing things this way changes everything. At year 3, we struggled with some rough parts of our marriage that we believe were a direct result of not living out God’s callings on our lives. Since recentering ourselves with the Lord and his purposes, things have been better than ever! I highly recommended. Great video!

[@SharpeRacing]

This is so valuable to me! I just got out of a really bad relationship a few months ago. And in that time, I’ve been learning more about myself, developing my relationship with God, and starting to find ways of God’s calling for me. I’ve realized that I put my life of adulting on the sidelines for karting. And God is helping me course correct from that false identity as a career racing driver. Because it has brought less blessing than in other areas of life. And when the time comes for God to help me into a place of relationship with one of his daughters, I know that I will have the full assurance of God to walk in that relationship with faith and trust in God.

[@KOCChristian]

This what I keep praise people about, we need helpers. We both have roles but it’s being each other helper that complete us as a marriage. Helper in the original Hebrew also mean rescuer. We are here to rescue each other by provide love that doesn’t measure but is self respecting and self sacrificing. Wish more people understood this than read verses without context.

[@WillyVelash018]

WOW! This really helped open my mind on truly understanding how a relationship should work with God. May God Bless everyone who made and see this video that it can "impact"😅 other people that are struggling to understand how the passages give lessons through our walk in faith!

[@joshuadalitsomubanga1011]

This has to be the cutest and yet biblical lesson I’ve come across the entire 2024 😭❤️✨ thank you!!..

[@williamquist2726]

I love these tips. It's so often that we forget that faith and trust in God's plan is a major part of finding our partner. We need to understand our own path and out relationship with God, before God can trust us with a partner to help us with that. Beautifully said. You are a great man.

[@javiereg956]

The realest, most comprehensive video for men to seek a spouse. Great work!

[@lucyk18831]

God is calling me to be a good loving mother to my daughters do my best to raising them right and having the right man fall in love and build a happy stable life together blessed in keeping each other close with God.

[@cristophermoreno2290]

Amen, thank you for ministering to us. God bless you ❤

[@LizaliseAwonkeKetani]

❤god is smarter than I thought

[@alejohiasteregeyo8287]

Thanks for your videos. God’s timing is always perfect. I’ve had this desire to get in a genuine and pure relationship but I’m still nervous. This helped me think on it more and what to see in it.

[@alexdenton6586]

I found it God wants me to be rich and play guitar everyday Thanks

[@Dairunt1]

A piece of advice as someone who was single for most of my teenage and young adult years. If you want a godly woman, be the godly man that godly woman would need. I'm not only talking about biblical knowledge (which is undeniably important) but also on character; do you have vices? do you know how to lead? how do you treat others? how do you react when there's trouble? are you good/patient with kids? are you a good listener? are you introspective? are you emotionally intelligent? do you have a good hygiene and healthy habits? are you compassionate? You can be as conservative as you can be, but if you're someone unpleasant to be with, don't be tempted to blame the world or "wokeness" for it.

[@ChristianPreacher-777]

"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord." - Jeremiah 29:11 His plans for you are filled with hope and a future. Embrace them!

[@snapcentrel]

Thank you for this upload

[@ImpactVideoMinistries]

Thanks for listening!

[@euf3444]

Trust in God and his plan, and he will provide

[@Willisheaniuk]

me and my fiance got together within my first month of being a christian. i got him saved and we love God and it is amazing how much God has helped us in our relationship :D I pray for everyone who sees this video God blesses you with the right person at his time! Amen

[@TheDeathstickdealer]

Your story of your relationship is exactly what I went through, like almost the exact same. And this is such amazing conformation to persue my calling and focusing on that, I've been feeling that recently, and now I'm so sure. Thank you so so much, I'll trust in God, focus on him and my calling, and I trust that eventually the right person will enter my life.

[@StarShinerProductions]

Thank you for this video. I have recently broken up with my boyfriend of almost 7 years, which was one of the hardest things for me to do. After watching this video, it's now clear to me why it wasn't working. We were attracted to each other, did fun things, and were great friends to each other (we still ARE friends actually). But that was essentially it. I'm now taking this time, as a single woman, to become closer to God and discover what He has planned for me to do. I pray that during this journey, God will bring me the man that will help me and that I can help him back. And I pray the same thing for my ex as well. Your videos are so inspiring and insightful. Thank you for all that you do. God Bless! Amen!

[@mechamogaka6964]

First off, let me say I love the thumbnail you have for the video! Secondly, I love even more what you have to say, and this is what I feel is missing in my own love life. Someone who is going to push me to my God-given task, instead of sinning!

[@arthurg8515]

About the first part, I feel like it's going from one extreme to the other. Yes you shouldn't abandon who you are to try and save an unfounded relationship, but that doesn't mean you should completely ignore the others demands and act only for yourself, which is selfish. Both have to make sacrifices for the other to unite in a stronger relationship in my opinion.

[@JohnSmith-yc6uv]

Under no circumstances should a man especially, but anyone really, sacrifice the purpose that God made them for, for any reason...particularly to please people. Your "opinion" is not in alignment with reality if you act contrary to God's plan. Doesn't matter how you "feel like" it "should be." If you act according to the feelings and opinion posited in your OP, there's an EXTREMELY high likelihood that you will end up divorced.

[@arthurg8515]

But isn't acting for your own good at the expense of the other against God's plan? The purpose of marriage is to continue together, united, which has to come with a couple sacrifices. I don't mean sacrifices against god, and his plan, but necessary sacrifices for the marriage to hold. Example, if I want to play games all day, but I want to be married, I have to sacrifice that will to strengthen the relationship. Just like how you make sacrifices to strengthen your relationship with Jesus. From the video I understood that it is bad to make sacrifices to strengthen the relationship of a couple, and that you should instead think about yourself in priority. Keep following the path that God wishes you to, I agree, but making sacrifices for the other and vice versa seems essential to me to create a new and founded marriage. Sacrifices that don't go against the will of God that is.

[@JohnSmith-yc6uv]

@@arthurg8515 Apparently your ability to listen/reading comprehension needs some serious work. I have no idea how you're getting to where you are from what is being said, but you are zigging when you should be zagging.

[@arthurg8515]

English is the 3rd language I learned so maybe it's on me that I understand it wrongfully, but that's how I interpreted his message which I found odd: -first he sacrificed too much of himself in an unfounded relationship -then he concludes you have to think about yourself first and foremost, which seemed selfish to me. -I agree with the objective to make sure to stay on the path of God, but you have to sacrifice parts of you for the better of the unity through marriage. Which is life changing, and in a good way too. But that doesn't mean it's not who you weren't meant to be, which is where I understood differently in the video. Anyway it might just be me, have a good day 😊

[@mat3393gjh]

Very cool vid. Almost perfect. To clarify for those who aren’t religious, chose a broad purpose for yourself that resonates for yourself and make sure those your in a relationship with are willing to help you in that endeavour. When it’s within your power and you can afford the time to also help them in ‘their’ chosen purpose, then MAYBE your a good match.

[@Thankful-Guest1111]

Thank you for your support in humanity today they really need it . Thank you and your buds for all they do . And I thank God for your wisdom.

[@ruffryders210012]

Thank you soo much for this video.

[@ImpactVideoMinistries]

You are welcome! Thank you for your support and checking out our videos.

[@hypnachi]

I want to do missionary work as well! There's a lot of young homeless who are struggling, and spreading not only the Gospel but security and comfort with them since they are more open at a young age.

[@joyadio2539]

So profound!! The love for God and obedience to his calling is really the main deal and focus! God will direct you to the right friendships and partner as long as you keep your eyes on him and be diligent with his instructions!! So relaxx 😌

[@Beachpeach949]

Thanks!

[@ImpactVideoMinistries]

Thank you

[@Dave95_uwu]

Glad I watched this & unsure what my calling is . I been surviving 1 problem at a time. Am glad God told me to wait.

[@ItsAllAgape]

I've surrendered love and everything over to God. Doing as He's instructed me and waiting on my turn. If, it's His Will for my life.

[@Caleb.S.Spangenberg]

This is great advice! Thanks! I already knew this, but I semi-forgot, so I'm thankful for the reminder! It helped re-align my goals! God led me to a woman and to ministry, and I thought, "Well, if He led me to this woman and to ministry, he must be leading her to ministry too. No?" And indeed, He is. So, I go evangelizing weekly and I send reports to her the day after, and she gladly reads them! Only, she longs to do ministry, but she herself has been hurt by her abusive father and is recovering. She can't "pour into others" until she "fills up her own cup." So, please pray, if you don't mind that God can continue to lead us into ministry together and keep us focused on (and continue to reveal to us the specifics of) the calling which He has given us to do, and to fill up her cup so that she can pour into others when the time is right. Great videos! Godspeed!

[@ChristianVerse]

This is me I'm glad I'm in line with everything you said here. Hallelujah

[@tomoki-1]

Naw, this directly called me out. This video was like God slapping me in the face. Definitely needed this. Have the same passion as you and had the same perspective on what a relationship should be like. Thanks my brother in Christ 🙏

[@Epitaph_of_Seikilos]

Thank you again for another video on relationships, Impact!!! I'm trying to focus on a singing career for the church, actually, spreading my voice and talent to other parishes to praise God and to help choirs that need a good voice, yet I've got so many obstacles in my way in life. I'm 25 now, trying to pass my driver's test to start driving (but it keeps getting put off. ; _ ;), we only have one car, and so many stresses from everything else in my life... I'm talking to a friend online to help me through this difficult time, trying to enjoy my time with my family before I live my own future, and trying my hardest to figure out what God wants me to do, but it's been so hard!!! In the meantime, I am crushing over a guy at church, yet I know that I'm only brushing the surface, and not knowing him on a personal level, and I know that looks are not *everything*... I'm a romantic, I can't help it. X) But please, pray that whatever happens, that I will find my Calling and not lack in my prayer life. I need prayer desperately. Thank you so much, and God bless all of those who are searching for their own paths with love, but most importantly, Jesus! :)

[@Vientokh]

Yk, to whom i was told to depart to it felt like I lost alot of myself and this helps me understand that it was never going to be healthy. Thank you for helping me realize that I was basing my entire life on someone and not God

[@Dazel-lb3wk]

Oh, I'm from the Philippines! Looks like God connected me to your videos since somehow, from time to time, I am lost. But now, every morning, I read the bible, sing praises to him and after that, i watch your videos to be inspire and learn something. I am happy that I am connected with God again and reading his word. I am happy to be a subscriber to your channel. Keep up the good works. Mahal ko kayo.

[@xKurama96]

Thank you so much for this video; literally, I feel like you just reminded me of where I need to focus! I’ve been struggling with where my calling should be after failing auditions for music. I have other passions including missions for Japan ironically, but even exploring those avenues felt like dead ends everywhere I turned. I felt like exploring online dating and that has gone (not surprisingly) nowhere. God is so good and I know he’ll lead me to where I need to be and Lord willing, bring a partner along side me. Pray for me guys cause I’m looking into going back for a 2nd Master’s degree in business now. I don’t want to hit another dead end.

[@Epitaph_of_Seikilos]

I'm praying for you, man!!! 🙏

[@danthelongman]

Wow. The timing of this video. God 100% wanted me to see this video. Thank you so much for putting it out there! Am so encouraged brother!

[@candidperception]

I am thankful I found your videos. I have been watching a lot of them every day, whilst going through a similarly tough time as described in this video, with aspirations also as described. I appreciate the Impact that your Videos have had on me, and I pray for the continuance of your Ministry :)

[@xxSteelWolfxx]

Hey brother thanks for their vid! I have to say after watching many many videos on relationships advice being a single man this is the first time I truly feel at peace being pointed away from being obsessed with the desire for a relationship and focusing on God and his plans for me first. God Bless!

[@josiahjossy4742]

Thank you so much, I will hold on to God

[@Montag87]

Wow. I was about to go to Japan to spread the word by teaching English and my girlfriend at the time said that would end us. I stayed, not just for her, but she was a big part of it. We married and had a kid and I've fought for her for so long, and made a ton of my own mistakes, and last month she said she was getting divorce papers though I still wanted to look for a way to keep fighting. There's a bunch more that I won't get into, but when she said that, it was about the 9th or 10th time she talked about ending our marriage. I can't say I'd trade anything for our son, but I feel like I maybe should have gone to Japan. I just got this video 11 years later than I would have liked, but God's timing is perfect. I fasted early on in our separation, and on that day, I and was led to a Church planting ministry when I was just trying to play with my son. I've been practicing a "dry" bar ministry and it's bearing fruit, I just have to keep going.

[@isaiahcastillo5771]

This video makes a lot of sense as to why we Men must first identify and understand our God-given assignment before looking for a Woman. Thanks for this impactful video, it is a blessing!

[@Taughtphul]

Your videos for the past year or so have been right in step with my walk in faith, just wanted to encourage you to keep up the good work and God bless!

[@ImpactVideoMinistries]

Thanks so much! We’re glad our videos have helped

[@mlevimabula]

I needed this months ago, thanks for sharing this

[@peytonlaney7570]

Your story really touched me, i had a similar relationship and break up this year has been hard. Thank you for the encouragement! God Bless!

[@kanevivi]

wow, this is eye opening. i thought i was still following god, but i wasn't and that's why the relationship failed. i don't hate my ex for it. it hurt and i was lost for abit. but this helps. thank you for this sir.

[@dawitgmd6267]

God bless you for making these videos. I can’t even imagine the amount of work you put in to make one of them. I’m always reenergized on saturdays after watching your videos. Keep up the good work.

[@simply_sophia]

This message is right on time! Thank you

[@window6211]

Dude Ty so much it helped me to look at love at the RIGHT way and I can’t thank you enough because: One time I was crushing on a girl she was the school artist and I loved her.. but I only cared about appearance and uhh body- ayo pause… so yeah.. one I realized that I was looking at love the wrong way and I don’t need to care if a girl looks beautiful or has a good body it’s who she really is. Who is she really is her true self her true intentions so thank you so much it’s not about appearance but who is she really is have a blessed day God bless

[@jackburgepraise]

SOooo helpful and I feel so encouraged to go out and work hard for Gods eternal kingdom!!! Thankyou

[@fishynathanfilms]

There's more relationship advice on KZbin than you can shake a stick at, but this was brilliant - exactly what I needed to hear where I am right now. God bless you!

[@starbook5]

Amen 🙏 so true always put God first and then a future wife because I trust in God

[@EvanCheske]

Thank you for creating this video, it’s a helpful guide that I’ll be applying to my future relationship!

[@slamer2000]

An important caveat about the "Figure out what God wants you to do" part: For most of us, God may not necessarily whisper in our ears "I want you to do XYZ" haha. But I think the Word shows us that our main purpose on earth is to: * Know and Love God (John 17:3) * Make Him known (Matthew 28:19-20) (also add the many verses about doing good works, serving the church, the poor etc.) Though, it's helpful to think of our gifts and think how we can use them in specific ways in ministry and our communities. But yea, we should remember that the main way God speaks to us is through His word, but of course be open to see where He leads us as we prayerfully seek His guidance and our church communities' guidance on how we can serve Him best :)

[@SomeGamerGuy_EJ]

God for sure spoke to me through this, thank you so much!

[@coffeebux]

So.... Don't base your life around a relationship but DO base your life around a relationship Makes sense to me. @4:08

[@20footAmethystinePython]

If you think that mean’t “Base your life around a relationship” then I think you should watch this video again

[@BaslealS]

Well you saw this video heard the bible don't fool yourself alright

[@thedashingmoney3121]

Base it around your relationship with GOD!

[@Young_Christian7]

@@coffeebux what?

[@D464J]

This was a great and encouraging video! Always love the content here, brother. Blessings!

[@cocojin9721]

Thank you, this video answered my question and made me remember god and my purpose 🙏🏻 amen

[@Sanjaikabilan-g4i]

The Timing is insane 🥺🥺🥺