Christian Dating: What To Do

[@Jay_0605]

"Don't awaken love before it pleases" Amen! Folks, If we are not ready for marriage, dating is not the goal

[@nicolechavez6981]

Amen

[@cadenorris4009]

Dating in a proper context can help you get prepared for marriage, though. It shouldn't be the only thing it you do to prepare, but don't discount yourself and don't reject the learning opportunities that dating can give you, even if its not the right person. I learned some of my biggest lessons about what love actually was, dating a girl, and especially after we broke up. Was it hard? Yes. Was it painful? More than anything I had felt before. But was it worth it? Yes. Even though I didn't like how it played out, I don't HAVE to like it for God to use it for my good. And he did. Trust always in God, and lean not on your own understanding. Don't lead yourself, follow God and everything will happen as it is supposed to, for your good.

[@raheemcamal998]

@@cadenorris4009 nope, the bible has given us enough

[@cadenorris4009]

@@raheemcamal998 Do you really think that God just uses the bible to teach us? I hope you aren't so naive as to separate biblical lessons from life lessons.

[@raheemcamal998]

@@cadenorris4009 but the bible has enough, we do not need to go through unnecessary hardships to learn about such things, alot of people in the bible didn't have to go through a load of dates to learn a thing and they where still able to love and honour there partner, therefore the word is enough. God will mostly only ever use life lessons when we stray or do not follow is word

[@istantalentedpeople4098]

I know this might sound cringy but… I remember getting a call from my uncle almost 2 years ago. He is a pastor at a church in Mexico and he gave me a tip that no one else has ever given me. He told me to pray for my future husband and for him to be a guy that will love God. I remember telling my uncle I was going to do that and I did. I prayed a couple times for my future husband. I’m sure God answered my prayers because he gave me a wonderful man. I’m not married to him. We’ve been dating for over a year. When we first started dating I asked him what his religion was. He told me he was an atheist. I told him I was Christian. But everytime I invited him to church he would come. He came to church at first for me but it slowly started to become for God. It’s currently our high school senior year. And a tragedy happened. His best friend of 11 years passed away in a car accident. He was devastated and my mom talked to him. She told him he’s with God because the guy that died would always encourage him to read the Bible. My boyfriend would ask his friend questions and he would answer them. He encouraged my boyfriend to get closer to God. He would always talk to me and sometimes us three would end up talking about God too. His death motivated my boy friend even more to get closer to God. He showed up to church service the day I couldn’t go because of school activities and he accepted Jesus in his heart. He says he wants to see his friend in heaven and he constantly prays for our future. We read the Bible together and he now plays the bass for our church ministry. I thank God for putting him in my life and guiding him to salvation. He now talks to his family about God and I’m hoping his family will soon come to church too Also forgot to mention we go to a Hispanic church and my boy friend is white. But the language barrier didn’t stop him from finding God. Once again thank you God ❤

[@Daniellabagaya-ql8ym]

Beautiful...the Lord is working in your life...Amen

[@lukesummers2304]

May God bless your relationship.

[@Skibidiiznut827]

Wow this is beautiful❤️this opened my heart bc I’ve been inviting my friend to church and God had been opening his heart. I’ve been starting to get discouraged but God will open his heart❤️

[@preddietammy]

Amen great testimony I hope I find my husband also 🙏

[@genesissantos3738]

THIS IS BEAUTIFUUUUL 😢 bendiciones para ustedes ❤❤❤❤

[@classact9557]

Remember men, if you’re doing everything right and keeping the relationship holy, and she asks if you’re gay, move on. She isn’t the one.

[@creepypastasmaster]

Lmao u saying this by experience 😂😂

[@classact9557]

@@creepypastasmaster As a matter of fact, yes. Lol. Should have taken my own advice, looking back.

[@kimberlyturner820]

Or just date a true Christian woman.

[@evr0.904]

@@kimberlyturner820 Yuppppppppp!

[@classact9557]

@@kimberlyturner820 There’s the rub. I thought I was. She was a regular church-goer, regularly referred to Scripture in our conversations, the whole nine. But a month or two into dating, she asked me if I was gay. Why? Because she wanted to jump into marriage very quickly, when we hardly knew each other, and was wondering why I was taking so long to take the next step.

[@lolmizuhara7832]

i was a muslim…I had a boyfriend at that time who was a christian i really think he is the best thing what happened in my life and I’m very thankful he also helped me to convert to christianity and I feel so good for doing that thank you lord 🙏🏻

[@Dallop-ru2]

I have a question, and I don’t mean to be rude since you can’t read tones. Does it ever feel… wrong for converting? Like being taught as a child, “this this that that” and then converting and going “that that this this”?

[@marysheffield4713]

@@Dallop-ru2 Hi! I highly recommend Nabeel Qureshi’s book “Seeking Allah, Finding Jesus”. I’m sure everyone feel differently about conversion, but he writes about it very honestly and in great detail

[@robsonfrancisco3719]

@@Dallop-ru2 Everyone's testimony is different, but as a former catholic and now a born again christian, I was actually shocked that my upbringing was based in lies and traditions not found in the bible. I know it's not my parents fault as they were deceived as well. The difference is that I chose to get out from that deception and live in truth, while they preffer traditions of men. So in summery, I felt joy converting.

[@matildaroleqs1426]

​@@marysheffield4713I LOVE HIS BOOK WITH ALL MY HEART!! I AM SO HAPPY TO SEE SOMEONE READING IT🥹🤍

[@uhfrann]

@@robsonfrancisco3719what were the lies and traditions if you don’t mind me asking?

[@rachfayee]

1. Keep relationship Holy and undefiled 2. Be equally yoked 3. Live real life together 4. Love God more than partner (put God first) 😊💟

[@pathester]

Amen to that.

[@aleenaaneeta9099]

Amen

[@vicmaster5310]

This will just make the relationship boring

[@jillianc6693]

@@vicmaster5310 What a childish, foolish comment void of any wisdom or supplement.

[@evaberriman9929]

@@vicmaster5310 Ever tried living holy and living REAL life? It‘s an awesome adventure full of joys, challenges, and surprises.

[@rozertigga]

Rule no. 1 Only date to that person if you are serious about marriage not to fulfill wordly desires.

[@rozertigga]

@@trevrockrock16 Amen

[@Macc-]

I date to marry

[@hope_mj]

word

[@BansheeKing22]

Sometimes I wish I could hold on the hope of marriage and children but then I remember that sadly marriage doesn't last for eternity and at 32 almost 33 im too old to be waiting on something that's never given me reason to hold onto. I can only conclude that my failed relationships that never lasted longer than a week are a sign from God that I shouldn't bother. I hate having this desire, I want it to be removed. Nothing good will come of it. Im not rich, I live with my mother barely making 8k a year, I have no car, no license, nothing a girl wants. I'm not attractive in any sense of the word. I really wish God would remove this desire from me so I can finally get on with my life as best I can.

[@bigounce9125]

@@BansheeKing22 I'm not really in your situation cause I'm a lot younger but the best advice I can give is to focus on God first and all will fall into place. Whenever I feel a desire for companionship I remember that God loves me more than any companion that I may have. This gives me peace and keeps me focused on my goals. I also recommend the book 'atomic habits' which is a book that will help you form good habits which are important for progress in any area of life. Keep a journal as well write whatever in it but I have a journal where everyday I write down what I did to improve myself or work towards my goal for that day. These small things and having a deeper connection with the Lord will help you. I hope this helps g, God bless

[@bellandinayeimo]

I want to have a relationship with someone who be able to Pray together ,worship together. Read the Bible at night together. Let God first in our relationship. How beautiful 😌🙏🏼✨

[@nahambohilma8598]

Me too , to cuddle and prayer over each other 🥰🥰🙏🏽

[@mamabrajkovic8904]

❤

[@evansimrie6195]

Thts would be awesome

[@Montevirgen]

May God give what your heart desire for

[@lancebarreto]

Me too

[@MattiThomason.]

I really like how this is backed up by scripture it warms my heart 🤍🍃

[@mengmeng0.0]

yesss I defo feel the same 💯🥰

[@JayBeenCbosen]

Amen

[@wesleycoppersmiths5646]

Today I prayed for wisdom on this topic, recently I noticed that I was searching for a partner only because I wasn't finding my worth in God because I didn't look for it there . I so desperately wanted someone to give me love so I could feel worth and I realize now that is wrong. If you aren't ok now with yourself and don't feel worth enough from God alone, avoid relationship it will end in sorrow. Thank you for this video.

[@elizabethhh2460]

Dating a Christian guy is so awesome. We worship and pray together, and have the wildest theological discussions. I love it ♥

[@StressLevel100]

💯 The kind of relationship I want.

[@rdboy3681]

Good for you. Date a christian girl for years. Proposed and she said she needed to ask God first. Asked a second time a year later and he still hadn't answered. Broken and blaming God.

[@milesmabale3641]

0:53 Set Up Physical Boundaries 3:25 Check Their Pace 5:31 Live Life, Not Fantasy 7:18 Love God More Than Your Partner

[@benjaminpikoikj7090]

Thanks heaps!

[@chimpanzinc1790]

thought that said "check their race" for a second 😅

[@jasonwilliams8321]

The love you have for God will be different than the love you have for your partner. Just like the way you love your partner will be different than the way you love your siblings and family members. This is one really confusing aspect of Christian teaching.

[@Mothalas]

I am not a christian. Yet i am fascinated by religion in general, and i have studied islam, judaism, hinduism, and christianity alike. These comments are lovely to read and videos like these give insight into how life is for Christians in the modern day. I applaud you all for what you do for god, and may you live a peaceful and fulfilling life ❤

[@gabriellameattray9778]

You are such a beautiful soul and rare person....wow. I wish I knew someone like you in real life

[@Macc-]

Orthodox Christianity is the only real religion

[@mafifi360]

@@Macc- this does not help

[@croddysosdy3458]

@@Macc- “If any man among you seem to be religious, and bridleth not his tongue, but deceiveth his own heart, this man's religion is vain.” ‭‭James‬ ‭1‬:‭26‬ ‭KJV‬‬

[@Macc-]

@@croddysosdy3458 Catholics are ignorant

[@DesertsOfHighfleet]

**leaving comment for algorithm boost**

[@lis0]

same 😭

[@93ChristopherC]

*commenting for prayers for God to bless me with a girlfriend boost*

[@StephanEISH-n5x]

Smort

[@yennis_world]

me too!

[@GreysonShives]

Well this amazing video ended up in my FY page, so thanks! ❤

[@oofs3382]

me watching this while single :(

[@cheesysignal]

Me too man… me too..

[@thedemocraticfilipino6417]

Me too man, but cheer up! God always has a plan. "He has made everything beautiful in its time." - Ecclesiastes 3:11 "Love is Patient..." - 1 Corinthians 13:4a So keep fighting the good fight of faith, perhaps God will lead us somewhere we least expect, and so long as it is within his will, we will always find joy in him.

[@BloonChip]

God knows best for us. He's never late.

[@thedemocraticfilipino6417]

@@BloonChip amen

[@acelnikitta4625]

you learn how to bake a cake before baking the cake

[@mako9324]

I can’t emphasize enough, that there is no point in dating until you’re ready to get married, otherwise it’s literally just temptation

[@alessandromarchiori38]

What about serching a Person you really love ?

[@overez2969]

there is a point. its called romantic experience. 37% of marriages end in divorce. now imagine if you married someone without having any romantic experience. you are setting yourself up for failure. dating as a teen isnt a bad thing. if you think so you are very misguided and ignorant. gather that experience so when you meet the one you plan to spend the rest of your life with. it lasts. this take you have is dangerous and you should really seek help and fix it. because that way of thinking will end up hurting the people you are trying to help.

[@colbytaylor9805]

...but isn't the point of dating to determine if the other party is marriage material?🤔

[@MrDragonitify]

Hard disagreement, there's so much more to relationships than 'just temptation.' you learn a lot about yourself (as well as others) and what you like and don't like (vs what you THINK you liked and what is actually reality), as well as gain so much empathy towards another person and learn hard lessons. It takes serious work! Most people are flawed when it comes to their first relationships, and often fail. People often think they are ready to be married, but in reality, are farther from the truth.

[@michaelbaxter7452]

So true ! I finally understand that " dating to marriage " actually means , you should start dating when you're ready to get married , that's how you look for a WIFE, cause you are ready to get married and know what you want . When you are too young to get married you are also too young to understand what you want in marriage. Things will he different when you get a job or move etc . Also if you enter a relationship when young then you may feel guilty and just go with the motions and end up marrying someone who isn't right for you!!!!

[@QuickShark953]

I’m so glad that there is still Christian content on the internet. All I see are videos that make me mad and it feels like nobody even knows anymore. Things for making a difference 😊

[@martinkuliza]

Sorry.. You're glad there is STILL Christian content on the internet. Like 80% of the internet is christian content what do you mean ? " All I see are videos that make me mad and it feels like nobody even knows anymore. Things for making a difference" WHAT I SEE HERE IS 1. A Sentence that doesn't make sense and that doesn't describe anything 2. A person saying they get MAD over VIDEOS hmm that's highly illogical and kinda stupid why would you get mad over a video ?

[@Anj_bruh]

@@martinkulizayou think that 80% of KZbin is Christian content because you keep on interacting and commenting on Christian videos so KZbin keeps on recommending you more.

[@martinkuliza]

@@Anj_bruh NO........ I DIDN'T SAY 80% OF YOU TUBE is christian content i said approx 80% of THE INTERNET There is a HUGE Difference there and likewise you don't see the internet because you only interact with you tube also, i don;t actually keep interacting wtih christian content i usually interact with electronics contenct, that's my main thing

[@adriflux7704]

I’m just a teenager, but from experience I can’t emphasize the importance of boundaries enough, physical and emotional. I know what it’s like falling madly in love with a non-believer even without dating, and letting go after realizing the mistake has been extremely painful and hard. Always keep this advice in mind, and even more importantly loving God, even above a potentially pleasing and happy relationship founded on feelings alone.

[@ML-my8oo]

yes, also in our life we ​​have stages. If you are a teenager, I do not recommend dating since you are in a growth stage. Take the opportunity to study and know God

[@shirleytatha8189]

I applaud you for being intelligent enough to think of this, espe emotional boundaries. It would have never occured to me to do so when I was one.

[@gisellezandi1973]

tbh ya'll... i think the hardest thing i've ever done was to breakup with the guy that i thought was my soul mate. God new better, and each day i see it more and more. its insane, i always imagined a real fight for my faith against satan, like dying a maryter or something. But the real fight is being able to wake up everyday and to not slip into a harmful mental state. Like how satan tries to drag you into depression. Its a fight for my mind and im only winning because Jesus is a good and faithful God.

[@avx10tech]

I'm glad yk how that feels I did the same when I was younger and I had to walk away when I remembered that she wasn't all too religious. It was extremely painful but it's a valuable lesson which will help you grow to do the right thing.

[@Anj_bruh]

As another Christian who's also a teenager, I relate, I keep on falling in love and lusting for people who aren't Christian and I end up having to face reality and let them go and it's always so difficult for me and painful

[@Miaarene_]

I always tell myself: Guys don't go for a Christian girl, go for a Proverbs 31 woman and Daughter of the king. Girls don't go for a Christian boy, go for a Man of God Love you all ✝️🤍

[@nahambohilma8598]

🙏🏽🥰🥰💯

[@a8b23]

❤

[@christypierrepaul972]

Yes you say right

[@tusharai333]

Rightly said

[@TashSoarsOnHigh]

GLORAYYYYY🤍🔥

[@Wimplo86]

Thank you for making videos like these. Sometimes it feels like single Christians get the short end of the stick. I get pressure from both sides like “you’re in your 30’s? Why aren’t you married yet!?” and my pastor and church leaders are like “that’s fine, God has a plan. By the way since you have all that free time help in x y and z ministry…!” without giving me actual practical advice. Again, thank you!

[@Wimplo86]

@JonJ Vlogs or take advantaged of the fact that we are not…

[@soaphia1987]

​@@Wimplo86I wouldn't say it's to take advantage I think what your pastor was trying to do was show you that God calls some people to singleness and that it's not a bad thing It gives you less to worry about and more time with God

[@BansheeKing22]

@@soaphia1987 im pretty sure that's called prophecizing over others and im fairly certain that's not biblical. How would those preachers even know for certain. They're just making a baseless assumption because the thirty year old is still alone. Id like to think God wouldn't give us a desire for marriage only to keep it unfulfilled for our entire lives, unless he's admitting to being cruel for cruelties sake which since he's a God of love that would be wrong right? Just my thoughts since im in the same boat so to speak. Alone at 32 and with no hope in site. Luckily I cant be as easily manipulated like some people out there. Preachers don't like me because I've questioned way too much and they get defensive about my questioning and use terms like "who are you to question God" and things like that. I chalk it up to how I was made.

[@mboss7733]

To be fair, helping in different ministries while single is a great learning experience.

[@yareth-4078]

1 Corinthians 7:25 - 7:35. 1 Corinthians 7:40 “Yet in my judgment she is happier if she remains as she is.”

[@thegoldengent]

alright I'm gonna be honest, I've really felt alone & like there's no one out there for me, and it's been making me desperate, but I always remember a quote "Never go shopping when you're hungry, you'll grab the wrong things. Likewise, never get into a relationship when you're desperate and lonely, because you'll grab the wrong things." and seeing this video has really helped me what to look for, although now my options are more limited 😂 but my point is, if you're like me, learn to embrace singleness, before getting into relationship. I know how it feels guys, but being single is okay!!!

[@labetbhachyrmang2948]

i think better pray about it...and check if there is peace or not@@alpha-dt8qz

[@crystallovesgod7052]

This is spot on!

[@placefeature5329]

I’m a single freashman and I don’t want to date anyone yet. But I do have a lot of struggles liking people.

[@JaredJuetten]

So true. There's a wonderful book by this guy, Case Kenny, titled "Single is your Super Power." It's a workbook type of thing for you to figure out what you REALLY want. Also, do no be afraid to ask God for what you want! Tell him, "I want a partner!!!" But add to it as well, "...but I want the RIGHT partner that you have envisioned for me in Divine Mind." Because you don't just want any person to be your eventual spouse, you want the RIGHT one. :D Cheers and God bless!

[@Josh-sz8ip]

But I embraced singleness for 8 years without getting one, and after 35, your ability to make children decreases, if you're a man.

[@MrFujin]

Some timing that this showed up. My girlfriend broke up with me and its been really hard trying to figure out if i should wait for her or let her go. She has been nothing but good too me and i treated her awefully back then. I became emotionally abusive to summarize it. She helped me find God in the end but i completely ruined her mental health. And i feel like the worst person on earth because i hurt this sweet girl who was there for me in my darkest hour and gave me so many chances to clean up my behaviors. She truely loved me. God has helped me become a better person and i humbly apologized to her but she needs to heal. I just dont know if i should wait for her or move on. I want to try again with her but with God. She helped me find God and now i want to do the same for her. I just dont know what to do. Im tormented by my guilt. (Edit: Hallo friends! Thank you for the support! I am well and our Father has been with me and healing me. God bless!)

[@haoxiang_14]

Hi, same here let's pray that God will give us a sign when dealing with this kind of situation. Amen 🙏🙏

[@Zernon123Twitch]

Hey man, so no matter what happens always remember Jesus loves you. And sure you can wait for her to maybe come back in the future. But this also my be growing pains for when you become an adult, and might be training you for your future spouse. We all need to find security in our savior Jesus Christ. Your brothers and sisters are always here to give comfort and support to each other. If you ever need help, we’re all here for you!😄🙏🏼

[@cyberfilmproductions8987]

Keep in mind that God loves her more than you ever possibly could, and he loves you more than she ever possibly could. So pray for her and pray for yourself that God will guide you two in the right direction.

[@rudypIays]

@Mr. Fujin There's grace for you! You need to forgive yourself and ask Jesus to forgive you too! Keep praying and hoping. The Lord is able! He turns everything around for His good and yours. So trust Him in what He is doing. Don't lose hope in Him, He doesn't lose it in you! He wants that guilt, give it to Him. You are not your choices. You are who God says you are. And nothing high or low can separate you from His love. God bless

[@tonyxx4514]

Well first and most important of all dont feel guilty anymore its good to feel some guilt when you did something bad but not forever. Amd yes god forgave you already so try to forgive yourself and ask him to help you🔥🤙🏼

[@Shadospartan]

I personally am agnostic but as I'm growing older I realize that my morals and the morals I want in a partner are found in most Christian's and very rarely outside of those who arnt religious. So I've come to conclude that I would be happiest with someone who shares my morals and therefore probably a Christian. This video helped me figure out how I should treat a relationship with a Christian. Thank you

[@OliviaCrochets]

fyi most christians only want to date other christians bc w want to be equally yolks

[@thatone_comment]

God bless you :)

[@neortik7]

Beautiful ! Then you should become a Christian because we are called to not be unequally yoked with unrighteousness

[@Shadospartan]

@@thatone_comment thank you🙏 God bless you too

[@exagem]

Did you watch the video? Don’t chase Christian women if you’re agnostic

[@adelinelichtenberger1588]

Thank you for sharing! So many people today don't have a godly sense of dating and it's really inspiring to hear people who do.

[@calebgunner]

This is all good advice for when I actually find someone...

[@chrisbriswrites]

Great Video and full of Godly instruction. In this world where so many people's goals are dating rather than marriage, it's a breath of fresh air.

[@MealsWithPhymia]

Hi Christopherbriscoe8665, This is not a godly instructions in anyway. God does not support dating before marriage. What's the essence of dating the person for years so start as early as 13, 16 when they have no business dating but be in school? This is contrary to God's plans. Dating is just Satan's ploy to push people to sin , fornicate and disrespect God and their bodies

[@jackspirio8758]

I dated with the intention to marry (actually my first question that started us dating was: will you marry me). We were engaged for a year until the wedding. It was a though time, as I thought why should we wait, if we already decided to marry. However with gods help we managed to stay holy. 6 years married and two lovely girls. It’s totally worth to wait. And for those arguing, how you can marry if you don’t know how the sex will be and if you are compatible. We were both virgins, so we don’t have any comparison. And that‘s great because we learnt everything together and it‘s a great feeling. And as long as you are a man and a women you are compatible.

[@jeanfelix9696]

Amen!

[@lifegamechanger8572]

1st Corinthians 7:36-38 Summs it up really well

[@_Sloppyham]

You can date with the intention to marry without knowing if the person is right for you to marry. People date to get to know a person better because they, hopefully, recognize people can change a bit when it comes to romantic partners compared to ‘just’ a friendship.

[@_Sloppyham]

And you had premarital sex? Sex between a man and another man is bad in the eyes of god but so is premarital sex???

[@jackspirio8758]

@@_Sloppyham Who had premarital sex? Did you read my post? I clearly stated, that we did wait until the marriage. But yes, both of those things are equally bad in the eyes of god.

[@hungryhippo420]

This video helped me understand my breakup more. Thank you for these guidelines and reasons why my relationship was not meant for forever.

[@AlexandrioJedidiah]

@@hungryhippo420 pls why did you breakup

[@timatkinson-ts7ky]

I love this content. The church warns about sexual immorality but doesn’t really talk about dating a whole lot but a holy relationship with someone who shares your same values sounds amazing

[@justdaniel17]

So there’s this girl at school right. We go to a Christian school and we both love God. I’ve liked her for 2 years now but God had kept telling me to wait. Now I know that he told me to wait for her because I wasn’t quite in a great relationship with God. This summer I fully accepted Jesus and was called to ministry and I was committed to being all in. I am in my Junior year now and we have been casually having conversations after school. Whenever I think of her, I think of us together just having fun and God just having a smile on his face while looking at us. I am looking forward to what else God has planned for me.

[@DerekPK]

Planned by God.

[@daniebelle23]

Dude. I'm so grateful for these videos!!!! They're so encouraging! Keep letting the Lord use you!

[@rebeccaRbennett]

What peace I am receiving as I am encouraged by scripture and your gracious illustration!❤

[@PeterBornAgain]

I recently became a Christian, prior to that I lived a horrible life of grand sin which I am not going to get into however I will say this much I developed a condition which affect my bladder and it made it extremely hard to not just engage in intimacy but just be around anyone in general. About 6 months before I gave my life to God the bladder symptoms eased up a lot so much that it is almost non existent now so for me to fight these temptations of sexual immortality isn't so bad because I can assure you that you are not missing out but again I don't wanna elaborate because that is going back into my past where as I am trying to move forward! God bless each and everyone of you ❤ Amen. 🙏

[@go0fin601]

If she/he doesn’t respect that you don’t wanna fornicate before marriage she isn’t worthy to be your partner in the first place 🙏

[@_Sloppyham]

Yeah, I never got this point of criticism no matter who it came from. When it comes to a partnership, it’s ok to want to wait till marriage and it’s ok to not want that. Breaking up with someone because of this difference of values, not matter which side a person is on, should not be judged harshly. The only time a person should be criticized is when they try to pressure their partner into doing something they don’t want to do, now that is immaturity to say the least.

[@a8b23]

Amen

[@reinmusique]

What if my boyfriend/fiance does not even believe in fornication. He is significantly older and is supposed to be spiritually stronger than me.

[@KAyLA_K]

Love reading all these comments!! Thank you to everyone for being so open and sharing thoughts ❤️

[@Igstreem]

I absolutely love this whiteboard series! please never stop these series as it has helped me know more about God and his ways! I'm thankful to God for providing you this opportunity to spread God's word in a creative way like this!

[@nancymwale5175]

I failed at guideline number 1... Tragically. And not even while dating... If at all you feel like you want to give in outside marriage? DON'T. Trust me. I thought I was a whole Christian: going to church, praying, reading the Bible... But despite all that, there wasnt an honest, true connection with God. (And of course the exposure and freedom I have here at Uni). Now that there is, I'm questioing a whole lot about my life, the choices I made then AND still make as a Christian. It's true that you carry a piece of someone when you've been intimate with them. I wept as I asked for forgiveness from God, and I still do when I look back at how far I've come. I wouldnt be here without Him... Even though I lost a tonne of friends and dont get any more attention from boys I thought were my friends, I'm happy in this place❤. And I'm in a heathy, God centered relationship. I wouldn't want anyone to live with the regret that I still carry around. Please, create and maintain those physical boundaries and form a deep connection with God. Its really important in life. This video spoke to me. You definitely have a new subscriber❤

[@octobling]

I've made the same mistake but your words helped me too

[@martinkuliza]

well 1. There never is a true and honest connection to god.........EVER !! 2. You didn't fail at guideline 1... THIS VIDEO FAILED... the video is stupid 3. Re this "I wouldn't want anyone to live with the regret that I still carry around." AND.. WHAT DOES RELIGION DO TO PEOPLE ?

[@a8b23]

Thank you for sharing!! ❤

[@jude_210]

I think we need to talk a little more about maintaining relationships. finding them is easy but ones that stand the test of time even in marriage are incredibly rare

[@ayoraokafor6882]

I am filled with much joy whenever I read Christian comments. I am Nigerian and I am glad to see a beautiful family of believers across the world. I will be filled with much Joy when we are all gather together alongside the Host and Choirs of heaven praising our Father together.

[@LetsNerdOut]

I have face a lot of trauma in my life that made dating hard because I didn't know how to correctly do it, and the only view on relationships I had growing up were toxic, i.e. I have no idea how to properly apologize when I'm wrong. I started reading the book of Proverbs and got to the part about the perfect wife, and pairing that with what I learned in the book of Ephisians about how marriage should look, I've been doing my best with that. I know this video doesn't help me fully with all the stuff I need to know, but this helped me in so many ways just understanding how to conduct myself and my relationships, thank you

[@bluecat4148]

God works in amazing ways. I was just thinking about this earlier, about someone I really like and what a relationship would be like with them. Literally only 30 minutes later I log onto my computer and I get this video in my recommended. I love that He's watching out for me and I know that He'll always be there. :) If I do get in a relationship, I would want us to grow together through our faith and bring each other closer to God. But, it's all in His plan, what happens or what doesn't.

[@m_jay5]

Casual dating that doesn't lead to a serious relationship / marriage serves ZERO PURPOSE as a CHRISTIAN!

[@jasonwilliams8321]

So you're for arranged marriages I presume?

[@juandu8658]

He is right

[@juandu8658]

No because that would be man choosing who we are with wich is bad becaus God should desire not use so I presume no

[@juandu8658]

I’m assuming Male

[@IdjigtWA]

I disagree, it is important and OK to casually date and ask woman out on dates to understand how dating should be undertaken as a Christian. It is 100 percent ok to ask a woman out to coffee before knowing with full certainty you are going to marry them. Now you should not just be throwing yourself around from relationship to relationship don’t get me wrong

[@fixer1140]

You don't have to worry about guidelines if nobody wants to date you. That's my guardian angel's favorite joke 😐

[@zachariaperkins3182]

Same here.

[@austin33785]

Don't worry about it. Youre just as responsible for the datelessness you have as the person who dates a lot is for the amount of dates they get. Dating is EXTREMELY spirit driven. If you're a believer and not dating then trust God as He has what is best for you. If you're not a believer and you are dating then it doesn't really matter because the devil has your soul and your on your way to hell. Dating can be a blessing but for most it is a curse and a hindrance from God's plan for your life.

[@fabiangolea9930]

@@austin33785 bro, that escalated quickly. I mean, in the first half i agreed with you but then what you said seemed prtty exagerated to me 😅. Im talking about the part with "the devil has your soul and your going to hell if your a nonbeliver". Idk man.

[@austin33785]

@@fabiangolea9930 don't trust me or believe anything I say. Look at the Bible and see what it has to say.

[@centurionoomae1543]

@@austin33785 Judgement is for God, and God alone.

[@HL-777-]

This was helpful thank you. I wasn't even actively looking for this, must be a sign from the big man upstairs. Halajuah.

[@juliajimenezgarrido5336]

As an atheist, the "live in real life" part should apply to every relationship. Excellent advice!

[@faby_baby]

I pray you get to know Jesus soon! there is so much proof of God's existence all you need to do is a little digging :)))) have a great day/night!

[@citrusmoth1103]

​@@faby_baby see this is exactly how we should be spreading the gospel!! Props to you, so many Christians are too aggressive spreading the word of God, and because of it they drive people away from Christianity, which is not what we want! You did it in such a good way :)

[@_Sloppyham]

@@citrusmoth1103the only thing I’ll say is the “do a little digging” could be interpreted as condescending

[@Belmont1714]

​@@_SloppyhamNot really... just ask questions, and you'll eventually come to the answer.

[@_Sloppyham]

@@Belmont1714 my point was that people have done their “little digging” and genuinely asking questions and have gotten to two opposing conclusions. To say “just do a little digging” when OP possibly has, can be seen as condensing

[@ItsDania2023]

Amen! Amen! been there and let go because of all the points that were mentioned. Definitely put God first, he will send the one when you realize you don’t need a parter because you have everything in Christ and you serve him with your life!

[@annettemaneipuri7244]

"LOVE GOD MORE" this is so true

[@santiagosierra741]

I can't express how much I enjoy listening to your videos. They are really helpful for people for love God. Thank you, thank you so much.

[@believe2261]

This is extremely hard for me. My significant other I’ve been with for 3 years. I was terrible. Treated her horribly. Fast forward and I become Christian. She isn’t diving in like I did and is not as serious. She isn’t motivating me to live for God and I find myself sinning every time I’m with her. She served me for 3 years and now that I want to leave she asks why and she doesn’t understand and it kills me because she was there for me at my worst. I want to lead her to God but I can’t force her. And I can’t set the right example If I’m giving into sexual immorality. What’s worst is that I was her first. I have already claimed her as mine by doing so and I want to wait until she’s saved but it’s never ending circles and I feel like I’m getting no where.

[@reference_realistic]

Have you taken out time to pray about it?

[@xn85d2]

You need to set and keep the physical boundaries. It's really difficult to do if you didn't start off with that boundary in place but it's something God wants from us. As Michael said, you also should be praying about it. It may be that God will help her to open her heart to Him, but maybe not (or not yet), and eventually if she's still not willing to accept Jesus you might have to give up the relationship. It's hard but you cannot allow your future to be defined by your past sins. You need to forgive yourself if you have repented and God has forgiven you.

[@believe2261]

@@reference_realistic yea as well as fasted.

[@puddleglummarshwiggle4236]

Get married.

[@believe2261]

@@trevrockrock16 I think you’re missing the “freedom of will” aspect of this. Regardless of my decision God can and will make it into a blessing if he chooses. I can’t force her to follow God but if I am willing to follow God and lead her as well I believe that is Godly. I am not having premarital sex, we are long distance and there is nothing wrong with me trying to lead her to God. I’m talking about the future and long term. If she chooses not to follow God then yes I will leave. But I want to at least give her a chance. And I can’t expect her to believe if I’m not setting the right example 100%

[@elizabethsnyder9678]

Make sure your facing reality of life when it comes to dating. Not a fantasy, a person has to know real life conquences of what they decided and know what marriage they want. I been reading Kissing dating goodbye and Boy meetings Girl those books are helpful to also make sure your love is not selfish reasons of why a person wants to date

[@worshipkoskei2233]

I think I needed to know this ... I avoided it because I thought I should only watch it if I’m actually in a relationship .. but I think I need it more now .. before any mistakes . And I’m really glad that I found that my heart is still aimed at that “ I really wanna love him right “ and right is the way God purposed . Only that I need to pray more about this and spend a lot of more time on my relationship with God and simply loving Christ . I’m sure then I will be able to discern GodS will for this relationship. And also how to go moving forward in everything .. God loves all of you ! Thank you for this knowledge and wisdom .. I’ll use it 😊

[@emmamarkel8410]

No this is great to watch even before a relationship! So that you know what to do beforehand, instead of when things go wrong.

[@MealsWithPhymia]

Hi, I'm glad you want to do marriage according to God's words but dating is not how to have a godly marriage that will please the Lord. Waiting on God and praying for the right person and timing makes things a lot easier and while people feel they can date without disobeying God, it's not possible because what's the essence of starting a relationship at 13 when they are to marry at 25 or 26? Why put a child through that level of emotional stress? When they could read their books and engage in more child friendly activity that could build them up?

[@jasonwilliams8321]

@@MealsWithPhymia "Waiting on God and praying for the right person and timing makes things a lot easier..." Said every INCEL I ever knew.

[@Christian_Fuhrman]

So thankful to have a godly girlfriend. Thank you Jesus!!

[@benjaminraff7878]

This is why I am preparing myself for marriage rather than for dating.

[@kemsekov6331]

I have no idea why God showing me this again and again, although I don't even plan to build any relationships yet

[@mepod7024]

But who knows, maybe something will happen soon?

[@apostleianlovelette]

It may be preparation.

[@nicklopez8004]

i’m looking for someone, so it’s probably preparation

[@jerinanadinebaluran5248]

Amen 🙏

[@TheSergio1021]

If you wanna make God laugh, tell him about your plans

[@mtbman5407]

Im a married man, being a Christian is very hard, temptation is very strong and i continue to pray much more. Also our first anniversary with my wife is comming up and scrollong through yt the Holy Spirit led me to this video and just helped me❤❤ thank u

[@Morin0]

I really appreciate your videos! The way you explain things simply with illustrations that are easy to understand is so appreciated. Thank you and may God always guide you as you teach

[@BSCNVTCH]

8:13 this is true, I didn't realize this until it actually happened to me. Being a Christian is not a joke, what I meant is, being a Christian is having a huge responsibility, specially if you're already baptized. you can't just have fun all the time then serve to him whenever you want, He loves us. that's why he will do everything just to make us come back to him even if it hurt us

[@owoisabelle4385]

POV: You're single and watching this ),:

[@yaelrayverrobes46]

Okay, I'm having a crush on someone who is not a Christian. This is just right for me because I'm struggling right now to keep myself from falling deeply in love with her. It hurts that I can't really date her, but it's the right thing to do. I hope and I pray that I will be able to overcome this struggle.😊

[@fixer1140]

Welcome to the club brother

[@waghonmatthias7223]

you're not alone...

[@ITKDonrinaMusic]

Remember, the one can't be a Christian

[@Theohybrid]

Same here. The story of Sampson comes to mind. He loved Delilah but she had allegiances to herself and eventually sold him out. I think I’m similar because I just want to ignore the call but it’s never good longterm. Your allegiances will be pulled and you’ll go to a place unintended. Sampson had his eyes burned out grinding in a mill. God still used Sampson in the end but he could’ve saved himself a lot of trouble had he not trusted in his own understanding and thus pride.

[@bkabs2242]

Sampson lmao

[@gorgiyaalkahar2314]

The sweetest way to explain this great wisdom, how to date right and holy💝 May God bless the author of this Video!

[@JedidiahtheBeloved]

Thank you very much sir/ma , similar to what the Lord told me 😊. • Setting Boundaries • Trusting Him to lead me • Staying pure

[@user-qb9pf5jo6l]

Unequally yoked: I Have a friend, I don't feel her eagerness towards serving God those not the same as mine but all i can do is pray that she grows deeper into God's love but for now I'll look for someone else who will encourage me to walk with God together. But it's hard to find someone. I liked her then that she was and said that she was a Christian but i fear her faith/trust in God might be shallow and her lack of dependence in The Word and reading The Word everyday might lead her astray. Pray for me brothers and sisters that i may be a friend to help guide her to God and pray that the Holy spirit may lead us to a better Character.

[@luistornez6058]

Yeah, unfortunately I kinda got yoked with an unbeliever and the relationship has had many rocky bumps. I remember taking her to church and she even claimed to have accepted Christ into her heart, but ever since then she only really hangs out with her friends and doesn’t talk to me that much, and makes excuses on to not coming to church, to where she blatantly just said she doesn’t want to go. I’ve been wanting to end ties with her, but for some reason I can’t bring myself to do it for some reason (probably because she reminds me of my sinful nature and how I sometimes do the same stuff against Jesus…). She really makes me sad most of the time and I try to write her poems about it too. I guess another thing is that with her upbringing, it’s really hard for her to show love and I guess with me being “healthy” she can’t comprehend it and pushes me away. It’s all so complicated and I don’t know how to feel. Another reason I don’t want to end ties with her is so that she doesn’t harm herself because of me with what she’s already going through. I really don’t have much to offer, so I decided that if she really didn’t want to be with me, she would be the one to break up with me. In the meantime I want to show the example of God’s unconditional love where I’ll be with here no matter what even if cheats on me, that I’ll help her lead to God’s undying love and the cross, so that she may grow in faith. I don’t know if what I’m doing is even right and I prayed that if she’s not the right one for me then she would break up with me (since like I said I basically have nothing compared to the other boys in our school and I just want her to be at peace), but I just feel all too complicated on what to do… especially since I’m struggling with lustful sin and I feel all by myself on this. I know for one thing God wants the best for me, so I’ll rely on Him to show me what to do.

[@raheemcamal998]

​@@luistornez6058 are you truly doing it for god or is it for your own gain?

[@luistornez6058]

@@raheemcamal998 So after watching the video again and reflecting on myself, I realized I was just being a stupid idiot blind to what I thought was love. I asked God to forgive me and through His guidance was able to mature and grow on how to better represent Him than what I thought lol 😅. God surely is great for being so merciful and patient with me and I still talk to the girl trying to help her. But I know the only one I should be chasing is God and Him alone. I wanted to delete the comment I made out of embarrassment, but I think it’s good reflector to see how I was in the pass and to remind myself how much I grew since then. I’ll keep on reading God’s word and chase Him only, and if He happens to have someone for me, then His will be done! In the meantime, I’ll keep staying pure and clean to show my love and obedience. God Bless ❤️

[@mariecoheng]

I want to have a relationship based on our Lord so bad! Pray together and worship together. Read the Bible at night. ✨🙏🏻

[@mariecoheng]

@Tyler Lee I think that I have not been around many Christians my age or close! How about you?

[@mariecoheng]

@Tyler Lee wow that’s amazing that you are in the worship band! I live in Charleston SC but I am originally from Venezuela. I am 23! I go to church too every Sunday and I volunteer with the toddlers there 🥰

[@mariecoheng]

@Tyler Lee just did! :)

[@meemmeem9248]

Are you still single?

[@superspicygamer860]

I specifically relate to rule 3. Whenever I think that God is showing me who he wants me to marry, I'd start having these fantasies about spending time with the person on date night's and our wedding. These were thoughts I knew I shouldn't be having, but sometimes it felt like I couldn't help it. But God is showing me that all things will be ready in due time

[@NaldinhoGX]

That is true.

[@ezraglenn9573]

Thanks!

[@ImpactVideoMinistries]

thank you so much!! :)

[@shrubbycaleb014]

I just asked a girl to on a date yesterday and she said yes! Im exited to see where it goes and how i can give the relationship to God, and what He can show me. I cant wait to walk this journey with Him!

[@leemay2278]

I love the whiteboard series so much infact my mom and sister love as well and it gives them clarity on a lot of topics and the illustrations and visual are so AMAZING!!! Don't end the whiteboard series! You're doing God's work ! Keep it up !❤ All the way from South Africa 🇿🇦❤

[@leemay2278]

@@edithbannerman4 I am doing good thank you very much.

[@edithbannerman4]

@@leemay2278 how’s your day going and what’re you up to?

[@leemay2278]

My day went well and I'm sitting with my family right now watching Rugby. How about you?

[@Baphintube]

Walking down the aisle with the man you love would be one of the best things in the whole wide world that you will get to experience 💓💓💓

[@joshuajairusporras0316]

Prayers for all of us 🙏🏼 God’s timing is the best! Holy Spirit lead the way ❤️

[@joannwalters4140]

I came to KZbin to find encouragement for my son and I know God led me to this video. Thank you for this biblically sound message.

[@gracepereira7842]

This popping up on my recommended is a sign from God

[@pontacular9724]

If he/she loves God he/she will love you

[@bible.animations]

Great video man, congrats on 100k!

[@SnapCracklePapa]

I agree with all of these. Good job. I will tell you from experience that the #1 reason to not have sex before marriage is quite simple; you do not want to get emotionally involved with a loon. When you give in to the intense emotional connection that sex can bring, you can easily loose sight of who you are really dating. You'll end up married to someone you come to find out you don't even like, but now there are kids involved and families and obligations and promises, etc... You need to remain sober minded. This is the most important decision of your life. Pick your spouse the same way you pick your friends - patiently, and based on character, not physical attraction. Listen to your parents and other godly advisors. They want what's best for you, too, but their eyes are not clouded by what you think is love, but may not be.

[@Redeemed_Daughter]

Guideline number 4 is the key. Powerful because every other Guideline follows from it ... remember that to love God is to do what pleases him.

[@charlotterobinson8259]

Love how it backed up with scripture, great explanation. May God bless you

[@miakel126]

James 1:2-4: “ 2 Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3 because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. “ YOU ARE AMAZING AND HAVE AN AMAZING DAY!!!

[@borrus176]

Me and my GF have been together for 1 year now and start of the year i decided to reconnect back into the faith and started reading the bible and found a church near me that i started going to and i explained to my GF that im going to embark on this new journey with God and at first i thought she was going to leave me as she was confused and i wanted to do whats right by God etc fast forward a month into the journey im now a born again Christian and we both now goto church pray and read and we both now dont have any sexual interactions but i tell you what the temptations been eating me as she visits me on the weekends and the physical touch are becoming a issue. after watching this im going to pray for guidance on the matter and talk to my GF to put in place a boundary. Like im only 3 months into my walk i believe she is doing her best to change her ways on her own not by / through me i told her im not going to force you to walk the same path as i am etc. any help / prayers on the matter would be appreciated.

[@alessandromarchiori38]

Having an Happy sexual Life Is very important for a relationship in any form you can have. If you and her want to have sex Is absolutely Natural and Is overall a Great way to Better understand your bodies. Nothing of really sinful

[@Andy-rews]

@@alessandromarchiori38 Not what the bible says.

[@stefonny]

​@Alessandro Marchiori your commenting on the wrong video buddy. Did you not watch the video

[@alessandromarchiori38]

@@stefonny i watched It and It sincerely looks frightening. Dating Is much more humane even in a prostitution date than in this hunting husband/wife thing.

[@konkoor881]

@@alessandromarchiori38 yeah bro i wish what ur saying is true i’m a horny individual but unfortunately they are correct lol it is what it is, and it sucks cuz marrying is hell lot harder now considering inflation and how would u convince her parents “yeah i wanna marry cuz i wanna go down on ur daughter” not sure how that would work but yk

[@shawnravi6425]

I was literally searching for this topic on youtube when I had subscribed to this channel already lol. And I just found out that this video came out just a minute before I searched it

[@vincentlu8856]

God’s will!

[@nobody40410]

Ye Maybe God really want you to know this.!!

[@cr0pduster327]

thank you as a repent it helps a lot and you are right, God always knows what is good for you

[@reneemair8515]

Beautiful… I really appreciate this! Well put together. The visuals and the audio- concise and informative! I really loved the fact that it was straight forward and easy to follow!

[@froliczreflex6001]

2:13 I go to a christian school and my bible teacher told the class that the definition of the word "holy" means set apart and I feel that all relationship should be different from just the average high school/middleschool relationship based on lust and the desire for something that you just aren't ready for. So pretty much a christian relationship should be completely from a sinful relationship that is from the flesh, but instead holy and Godly and based on love instead of lust

[@NelidaUtuwatu]

Met a Christian man that seems as strong in the faith as me. He's the only one I've ever met that I really like. I've dropped potential relationships for this one, but he is always supporting other people in his life that are going through hard times. I mean, deaths going on around him. It's what I admire a lot about him, I don't want to pressure him or ask him to spend more time with me like a selfish harpy, but being patient and waiting on him is downright painful. I understand being someone's rock and support system because I've done it, too. I'm just trying to be patient about it, though sometimes it kind of feels like he is losing interest, but in reality, he is probably just incredibly busy...and lonely and pressured etc. It is so frustrating because I'd like to be there for HIM, something he does for everyone but doesn't seem to have for himself.

[@NelidaUtuwatu]

@TRevRockRock16 huh...log in your eye much? I never said they were "lesser" nor do I believe that. I am quite certain he is no better than me or anyone at being a man, a person, or a Christian. I wasn't ruthless 😂😂 bruh - you have no idea what it's been like over here. You have no idea what my prayers have been and you have no idea why we came back to each other to begin with. Sheesh. I'm sorry you've had a rough go of it, but there's no excuse for all that

[@NelidaUtuwatu]

@TRevRockRock16 tsk. I didn't drop relationships. When we were both looking. We were both talking to many (the word you forgot) potential folks for relationships. I'm fairly certain he still was when he reached out to me again. But that's okay. He wants to be careful because even "Christians" skip marriage and divorce despite talking pretty words. They get vaccinated because they wanna travel or they have weird ideas about baptism. He and I agree on everything, even Roman's 14 things!! That's why he came back and said he thinks God may want us to talk to each other more. How am I "gaslighting" again? What is your problem exactly? My ambition, since you didn't ask, but simply assumed, is God's will be done and that's it. It's okay for us to want for good things, I've discovered. That's both of us. If it were you, the seemingly perfect person in front of you, needing to then distance themselves because of deaths going on around them, making you believe it was basically over, don't wait and all this, came back while you were just talking to another to see if the same kind thing could happen, but they came back, you wouldn't go back to them when they came back to you? Really?? I don't believe you if you say yay 🙃 I will no longer "defend" myself to you. You don't know what's going on over here, for either of us. You could pray instead 🤷🏼‍♀️ that's what I'll do. Edit: I went over 1 Corinthians 7 again. I remember it well because I used to think it applied to me. When I think of my "ambitions" they usually have to do with saving my country from the demonrats that have destroyed it and chipped away at the foundation. Hm...perhaps one good way to save the nation is to create more God-fearing families? Have you ever considered? I have been in alignment with 1 Corinthians 7. As well as 10. As well as Matthew 19. As cringe as it is, you seem to need a refresher on Matthew 7 😬 first and foremost, always, and he knows this, God's will be done. He feels the same, but he's a wonderful man. No matter who he ends up with, she'll be incredibly lucky and I hope he does, whatever he does, for the glory of God ❤️ why is it wrong to hope it could be me...? Having a family, like a real one, not tainted by divorce and everything, just sounds lovely. ~I guess I AM a selfish harpy for my "ambitions" 🙄 OK

[@NelidaUtuwatu]

@TRevRockRock16 youtube deletes comments so I don't know if this will work but you could use some joy. This had me ribsplit earlier: kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5DQfWpsaJiarJo The Epstein one is funny, too. Edit: or he deletes his comments because he looked foolish 🙃 sad!

[@HarryPotatoCat1529-ce8rv]

Thank you for this advice. I’m 12 and I have this girl at my school that I like a lot and I sometimes catch myself praying for her that she will grow even more close to God Ryan she is right now. Thanks again love what you are doing to help people come to God.

[@jamallowe9786]

I'm writing a lesson for teenagers and I'm acting as if I'm in church and the pastor is preaching. YES SIR. PREACH. THAT'S RIGHT.

[@mr.morales0707]

Wow, big Respect to you man, i have Never Heard Someone Talk about Dating as a Christian this clean and understandeble

[@ssscrm9828]

if youre having difficulty loving god with all your heart, mind and strength, remember that nothing in this world lasts. relationships can end, things can break, wealth can be stolen, but god will always be with you.

[@cherubin7th]

Only because God breaks all this things.

[@ssscrm9828]

@@cherubin7th not necessarily God

[@SparrowJacobson-zs5vk]

This is so painful, I have to let go…but my relationship with God is more important…

[@MsAvatar1972]

I’m a Christian girl who fell in love with my before online best friend who is a Muslim. We both love each other and we love god. We have a lot in common and we both are happy that we believe in god. Both of us don’t want to have sex before marriage and that’s what makes me so happy; that he understands me and will never push me to do anything. I’m happy with him. I thank god every day that we’ve found each other ❤

[@lelokazi-kv4ym]

I can imagine how wonderful it feels. However I must warn you that scripture tells us to not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. We are told not to partner with unbelievers

[@aisherwasher6959]

It's great that you two don't tempt each other to sin sexually, but are you able to help each other grow in faith? If the relationship turns to marriage, will you be able to emulate Jesus' marriage to the church? Just some thoughts!

[@leahjackiepeah4130]

Sorry not the same. Muslims people are the foolish Galatians. Go read the book of Galatians to understand better.

[@joegame4576]

only possible reason a christian and a muslim can be in a marriage (or dating) relationship together is if one or both are either not serious about their faith, or one or both do not understand the theology of their faith. i don't know about islam because i don't read quran but according to the bible, christian God and muslim God are NOT the same God. if you've heard something like this before, and still disagree, we'll agree to disagree. if you haven't heard this before, give it some thought. i'm more than happy to discuss further if you want.

[@elroyroy7325]

"But even if we, or an angel from heaven, preach any other gospel to you than what we have preached to you, let him be [b]accursed. 9 As we have said before, so now I say again, if anyone preaches any other gospel to you than what you have received, let him be accursed." Galatians 1:8-9 "Moreover, brethren, I declare to you the gospel which I preached to you, which also you received and in which you stand, by which also you are saved, if you hold fast that word which I preached to you-unless you believed in vain. For I delivered to you first of all that which I also received: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, and that He was buried, and that He rose again the third day according to the Scriptures" 1 Corinthians 15:1-4 Do muslim peoples preach this gospel ? If not, they are like unbelievers and you should act according to 2 Corinthians 6:14-15

[@Karl.L.F]

awesome, I‘m really impressed of how good you summarised the important facts. That really helps me as a young man to again focus on the important things. God bless you! I think there‘s one more important guideline to consider: In asking god and making a decision if the other person is the right one or not (or if it’s the right time or not) we should always include older brothers/sisters, who are more mature in faith than we are. Because when we desire a spouse and may already have feelings it is almost impossible to hear god speak clearly and make an unbiased decision. …I speak from my own experience :D

[@daviocampi6951]

Thanks for your Godly wisdom great guidelines. This will help many disciples who are serious in having a Godly attitude towards their sister in Christ. The key word is being cautious and not running ahead of oneself easy to say yet very hard to do but not impossible.

[@Fiffiflava]

As a man who struggles with lust this Looks like a beautiful way to live but I need to fix myself first

[@LloydMadge-rz2op]

Great video to share with my kids. Thankyou for preaching the truth in a way that relates to young Christian’s

[@Anj_bruh]

I had a major crush on someone who is not Christian and then we got into an argument, I decided to apologize but I was still not forgiven. I was depressed for so many days, I didn't have motivation to do anything. I realised that this had to happen because God knew this relationship wasn't right for me and I knew I had to let her go. It's still hard but God is helping me throughout this storm.

[@doriaenamorado6797]

Be a Christian should not be the only thing we should look for but we should look if they have the same values as us or they have good fruits or seeds

[@LaoRv]

This is really good video - shor and full of best quality guidelines. Looks like filmed directly from my heart.

[@mimeadinevneub2711]

Been praying for the right man for me

[@xn85d2]

Also pray to be the right woman for him. 😉

[@nadineh4767]

Me too ❤

[@pathester]

Keep praying. God will provide.

[@nadineh4767]

@@pathester Thank you 💜

[@pathester]

@@nadineh4767 Your welcome. Keep chasing after God. 😀

[@waxy3220]

Finding a partner who takes their faith seriously it's next to impossible, considering the partner may be Christian but may not be the same denomination, let alone if your denomination is small, and this is just talking about faith, relationships are so hard nowadays its unreal.

[@bobobaggins7620]

Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” Matthew 19:26

[@brandonquan9127]

Just look for a partner within your church, simple.

[@HeyItsMaori]

This was such a great video. I appreciate all the scriptures with where they’re from in it because that’s where we need to get our information from is straight from the Bible not just what people say and the depictions were also very helpful. I just watched it by myself and I’m about to watch it with my boyfriend

[@kk1742]

I loved this video, as someone who was in a relationship before being saved I wish I knew this and had watched this video early on in my relationship. Not doing these things will have a huge negative impact on your life and Christianity. I for one will in the future help single or even non single people understand this and try my best to explain to them the importance of these things. I did not have someone warn me about a lot of things in relationships and what the wrong type of relationship can do to your faith.

[@pathester]

This is a great video. I can't wait until I find someone that loves God more than they could ever love me.