Tony Gaskins : Making Love To Your Wife's Mind Is More Powerful Than Making Love To Her Body Pt 1

[@INEVERKNEWTV]

➡️ Watch the full interview with Tony Gaskins NOW as an 'I Never Knew Tv' KZbin Member -kzbin.info/door/wZ2vurIl_X8rv0Dv4mu12Ajoin

[@mickiig6271]

This man Tony Gaskins is God sent. I will pray for his safety and his family. He is truth.

[@Bloom3191]

A dead on topic. One year after my husband and l met, we were married and remained so until his passing a number of years ago. During our marriage, we were friends. Sex was great, but our friendship made our lives together more meaningful. Given the opportunity to share this with younger people today, they don't seem to get it. It's so good to see and hear that someone does.

[@tammys5417]

I’m wondering if one of the reasons why they don’t get it is because they are “slaves to sex.” 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@chakradjuzeus9275]

@@tammys5417maybe 🤔

[@chakradjuzeus9275]

Yeah but he never should have remarried you. And that may be part of the reason his days shortened to premature completion.

[@Bloom3191]

@chakradjuzeus9275 You've misunderstood everything l said. There was no remarriage. Try to read with understanding so that you can respond in like manner to the statement made.

[@chakradjuzeus9275]

@@Bloom3191 ahhh 😯 I did misread “remained” for “remarried” oops 🙊 😬 Sincere apologies for my misinterpreted statement and my condolences for your loss. 💐

[@Intellectual_Wand3r3r]

I think the word Uncle Tony was looking for is SAFETY. We need to feel safe in order to perform at peak potential (if ya catch my drift). A big part of being in love for us as women involves emotional intimacy and safety.

[@Ms.J.]

Yes! 💯

[@wenemnemew1580]

But What was the R word Tony was talking about?

[@ThisIzKena]

​@wenemnemew1580 r*pe - forced sexual intercourse.

[@ItsLotto]

@@wenemnemew1580rape

[@nash.azongafack7309]

@@wenemnemew1580 RAPE

[@zvigier]

Thank you for stating this... never understood why folks assume that that needs to be the foundation of a relationship

[@DMGDwelling]

I have so much respect for The Gaskins. Please God continue to protect and guide their steps. Amen.

[@MimiIsIt]

20-30 years ago, I would've called this man an absolute fool! Now that I'm older and been around people that have this similiar thought process, he's speaking facts. Each of the couples I know have been married for nearly 40+ years.

[@m.h6858]

He spoke a WHOLE word right here!!! He's on FIRE with this one!!!🔥🔥🔥🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@emilyecm]

Tony Gaskins has always gotten my attention. Thanks for having him on your program with such an interesting topic.

[@judekabongo1995]

I needed this and I need to do this in my relationship more, I appreciate Tony gaskins my woman who will be my future wife sent me this video. Thank you Tony Gaskins

[@er1515]

Well said, I feel the same way. I was starting to feel crazy for feeling this way. I’m glad I got to hear this message because it gave me reassurance that I am not crazy.

[@deeagnol]

We live in hypersexual times. As Oscar Wilde said "everything is about sex except sex". I believe alot of women can't even be compared to prostitutes these days because atleast prostitutes gain something financially. People are just out here clapping cheeks like it's a sport. I don't just blame the women though, men are also part of the problem. Thanks to the likes of Kim Kardashian we've also had a noticeable increase in black men being almost objectified for certain stereotypes and even as far as "breeding" in order to have children that have specific physical features. There's so much wrong with the world right now it's sickening. Sex works best within a marriage and is a powerful way of connecting 2 humans and building a stable family unit that in turns helps society. Once these rules are broken, the effects on humans (physically and mentally) and to society as a whole is extremely damaging.

[@Deanna974]

Excellent comment. People are really out here copulating with certain people just to have "mixed kids." And one wonders why there are so many mentally unstable, mentally unhealthy people.

[@Nkosi766]

😂😂

[@wakeithakilpatrick6813]

A lot of partners don’t respect each other the way your talking…Thinking about how busy the other person are and tired…I give you Kudos Tony…

[@ArKaDeStation]

Well spoken truly powerful message!

[@keepmoving2023-ku7nb]

Everything he is saying is not new to me

[@GoodfellaNell]

This is gold!!! He said it better than me. Happy I've been subbed to this channel for years. Y'all stay dropping that real🔥🔥🔥

[@princessperkins5313]

Tonys videos help me so much

[@zoncathompson4215]

Finally!!!! A Real Man!! God Bless you!

[@ItsLotto]

Tony is 100% on point

[@phoenixrising2231]

I can't listen currently, but I must chime in! Based on the title, bruh is on point, on point with this!!! ✅💯 So grateful for you and your wife and the unadulterated truths that you so t generally and unbiasedly share with us! You are appreciated! 🎁🥂💐

[@linnetmbotto7212]

This message deserves a replay

[@eddiewilson8119]

Thank you for sharing this inspiring message!!!

[@sbrooks904]

tony always has some gems but you can tell what his experience is he believes should work for everyone. life is nuanced

[@pedeniaevans4242]

Mr. Gaskins you been on several great topics and I’m here for them all. God bless you!

[@kingdaveiv05]

Interesting perspective. I have heard of this before. However, no one ever explained it in great depth.

[@nickperrin3739]

Speaking strait truth 💯, wonderfully explained

[@shortcaketv2730]

Wow they got Tony on here 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 great interview

[@Frankieboateng]

I understand it! But it's a hard life how they live! I don't see the joy in it to be honest but I respect the way they live. Healthy marriage is that people connect and I agree with him there ❤

[@jazminwashington6697]

Tony knows what he’s talking about

[@toughtalkpodcast6846]

This is why wives should be home it's less stressful on their mind body and soul...I swear us as so called blk people are being westernized...Sex is a priority,communication is key and men being leaders and women being in their nature of healing...When everything goes back to the old days it will be exactly what im speaking.

[@sadiahani1812]

Spot on and true wisdom! 👏🏾

[@melissa-kml]

The wisdom Tony shares is amazing. God continue to give him life, strength and more wisdom #BLESSEDTRIBE

[@menlogreen]

Once he said his kids are up until the next morning doing homework starts to raise a lot of red flags. And I will just leave it at that.

[@solangelalebron1348]

He said his kids are playing games all day. The money ruined their relationship.

[@menlogreen]

@solangelalebron1348 yes, living in Silicone Valley for many years, I've witnessed the devastation it has on young people. It's not a pretty sight. Young people particularly young kids have to be protected. Again adults pushing their agendas.

[@Wonderwoman79G]

His sons play sport and they do their homework afterwards. That is why they are up late. Did you listen to a different YT video?

[@marqarittakakuva471]

Once anyone emerge their life in work work....its pure avoidance of the reality of disconnect and not wanting to do the adult talk !! Avoiding wont help . Some men are not the best in bed to avoidance is key !! I just hope they fix the unseen which we can see .God intervien 😢😢

[@Ruby-kr6fh]

Once I heard his wife is getting 4 hrs of sleep and their marriage has never been better…he lost me

[@JazJaz-su6nb]

A kid doing that much school work is very unhealthy

[@TheVitoJ.]

🎯i agree with pushing kids to greatness but this is pretty extreme

[@jzloveinfinite]

I thought I was the only one. Plus, this is NOT healthy for his wife.

[@TheVitoJ.]

@@jzloveinfinite not one bit!

[@ritaa7198]

Finally, a man who gets it.

[@Jia9s]

That brotha look stressed the hell out lol I feel the energy radiating from his tone, his eyes, etc. he’s not fooling nobody. I feel bad for his wife and his son. people need REST in order for their bodies and mind to function properly.

[@neekovercetti3159]

😂😂

[@queenkeesh8660]

His eyes always look like that though

[@Jia9s]

@@queenkeesh8660 my mama have natural bags under her eyes and those def are not natural bags lmao that nigga is STRESSED

[@SunnyDoesLife]

I do think they should take him out of sports if it’s taking til 10pm every night to practice. Sleep is definitely more important.

[@marqarittakakuva471]

😅😅😅😅 ayayaya you killed me....with laughter 😂😂😂

[@mindyann8903]

Tony is such a real one ! Respect 🫡

[@OrganicallyYahs]

Their schedule is hard to hear 😢

[@mildredwilliams8107]

Tony speaks truth!

[@aries81M]

Sexual energy is not only for having sex you can use it in different ways 😊

[@TheVitoJ.]

u mind sharing?

[@dmystfy]

@@TheVitoJ.tantra

[@wipedsol8038]

Knit a sweater together

[@samn3276]

💯Transmutation

[@mynamemeanssweet]

Go ahead Tony G!!!

[@denisealexis4261]

So true you could not say it any better

[@emkhet7924]

Tony Gaskins is giving a lot of wisdom in this interview.

[@keepmoving2023-ku7nb]

Nothing new that he is saying

[@emkhet7924]

@@keepmoving2023-ku7nb maybe not to you, but there’s still a lot of people that are unaware of the advice he’s giving.

[@chezmimi7291]

He never misses!

[@sistaluv1357]

Thank you for sharing.

[@IDidNotAsk4ThisHandle]

Great interview!!!!

[@AnnaMarrie-SWT]

The most beautiful thing I've watched on KZbin since since. Sex is for reproduction, and if your partner can not understand that, that means you're in a spiritual-less relationship.

[@shawanareviews3609]

Sex is not JUST for reproduction. Sex is a spiritual act.

[@mandlamncube5057]

If they keep this up his wife will plop to the ground out of sheer exhaustion and all types of ailments. As for himself he will be caught cheating. This is ridiculous. Kids shouldn't be treated like the Jackson 5, there are reasons why they have to go through what they have to.

[@Paypaboy900]

I agree totally,society will make you feel like if you don't do or have certain things something is wrong or your devalued that's why were decaying as a society in general.

[@kariisha4016]

OMG YALL GOT TONY 🎉🎉

[@JAY-BOOGIE__xX]

Werd facts . I love this dude . Us Guys are listening. Well some of us are . We are learning. Well at least I am .

[@nataliapink1532]

I needed to hear this

[@mystorymysong777]

This needs more views, likes, and shares!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@m.h6858]

Glory to God!!!!! He literally answered a prayer with this conversation 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@Becalm87]

Well said !!!

[@cwhite8860]

Good, interview we love Tony Gaskins and his insite and knowledge that he brings. Interviewer, we want to listen to the entire interview but $4.99, but does Tony get any of this? 😊

[@sherrynelson365]

You preaching

[@lynluvai132]

I hear you brother

[@eleanorhunt273]

I am not familiar with the American curriculum. Or the chap speaking. However, I do comprehend the need to ration sexual intimacy. If needs be. Yes, stimulation may come via intellectual conversations. That may elude a certain percentage, of the populace. This has thus become, a rather interesting topic. That requires an in depth contemplation of thought. And the conclusions, that may arise.

[@samn3276]

I agree! Just like how you can’t have your favorite meal everyday. Those who can control their desires will triumph, just like the Marshmallow experiment concluded. 🙏🏾

[@eleanorhunt273]

@@samn3276 Thank you for your acknowledgment. It is well received. Sadly, I am unaware of the Marshmallow experiment. However, there must be a valid correlation. Concerning this subject matter, and the impressions and observations, we have gleaned from it.

[@queenkeesh8660]

I watch Tony I take his advice on sexual life I understand mental stimulation is needed more than actual sex I never been married so I don’t understand what’s needed for every marraige or mine when I finally do marry someone where going to talk and discuss what’s best for us and let life happens

[@miraclemiracle9289]

#BlessedTribe !!!!

[@wiljonson2744]

Tony: having daily relations with your partner is "unhealthy"......... Also Tony: Myself, wife, and child are function off a few hours of sleep for days on end, and we're winning. Folks just make stuff up as they go.

[@Ruby-kr6fh]

That stood out to me as well

[@SirSmizzi]

The pressures of America

[@MyStar-YuYu]

True fact

[@sophiamcdowell7510]

Amazing

[@Anci3nxeyez]

Arouse I mind. Big up Tony

[@homieboyz1]

Everyone has different levels of libido it seems that you and your wife are compatible in your levels of low libido, be with someone with a high sex drive with a low libido and it can lead to incompatibility or even separation if not compromised correctly that’s the truth behind it

[@nickymills2494]

This is factual … they are over worked and over exhausted is what I get from this but it seems to work for their dynamic so cudos

[@CurlMeLots]

Even with high libido, you have to have self control within your marriage.

[@Barbywinston]

not sex everyday for anybody.

[@nannavray]

So true

[@joedeadwildin7730]

Bro, this is crucial info

[@Freej001]

It depends of the life style of any different couple …, It’s important to know that sex is here to relax our mind not to make us happy as humans . Love and respect , communication…

[@uzielyisrael8598]

💯 agree with brother Tony

[@seraphina2293]

That stuff he he said about his son having to stay up til 2am just to do homework shows how fucked up the education system and economy are.

[@chakradjuzeus9275]

4 AP classes in one semester is generally too much for high school students. Especially, for one with full time athletic schedule.

[@anisafrombreuklen406]

They need help, a house keeper & cook, tutor.

[@sexyblackcharlery]

I agree, definitely a house keeper and cook because his wife likes teaching the kids.

[@HumblyGrateful1]

I 👀you Bro 💪🏾

[@LeonieMcfarlane]

Definitely reality

[@Rachelle-qs5ge]

There's an old say, "Make love to my mind". He's on point

[@KaylaHumphries-us8jq]

The bags under his eyes tell everything

[@Barbywinston]

But I do understand what he is saying. But how many men have the knowledge his has.

[@fromkaywithlove]

Speaking facts

[@tametra_lasha]

I understand what Mr. Gaskins is saying, but I don't think you should overschedule your children.

[@Bobsam-m1p]

It would be so tragic if his wife just faking. I hope this true fr

[@toughtalkpodcast6846]

He's not speaking nothing from the Bible...He's speaking his life an truly don't know that women want sex more then men.Hes playing a dangerous game.

[@J2145d]

Not Tonyyy on here

[@SarahEvansCunningham23]

Right😄

[@domj8504]

Same thing I said like whaaat ok TG 😂

[@landonprice5656]

Right...lovelyti2002 predicted this years ago celebrities do not like

[@donsolo510]

Tony is full of 💩

[@MyHotrod01]

God created sex between husband and wife, it is a form of communication and intimacy. Him and his wife are doing to much. They don't have time for each other.

[@MissPetrina1]

Amen

[@queenofthedancehall5669]

Sooooo true if we cant meet mentally the sex is non exempt not deep enough i want to feel you in my mind and heart #telethapy

[@KobusingyeAnnet-uh2ie]

Salute

[@urgentlaborllc8370]

Got me hip

[@FmTrini]

While he does make sense about making love to the mind I damn sure need to make love to the body atleast once or twice a week because it’s my live language and tbh I feel more connect to a women as a man through sex or sexual activities women are different and I get it so to each his own but I think this couple are doing waaaay too much…one key aspect of any good relationship is making sure you find a partner who’s into what you’re into….or anything you attempt will fail miserably…kudos to him and his wife tho 👌🏾

[@SunnyDoesLife]

Sex is a plus not a priority and if you make sex your priority, good luck!

[@menlogreen]

B and grinding, just say say having relations. Since you say your kids are up until the wee hours of the mornings. Guests what he's listening to. His dad on KZbin saying Bumping and grinding 😮. Come on Dad you winning the war but you're losing the battle.

[@codybryant666]

I think people should take certain things from people and not always everything. He is right in terms of his own experience and life. You should have sex as much in your marriage or overall life as you feel. Now can too much sex be bad yes too much anything is bad and semen retention is important. I just find too many people not going deep enough into things for my personal liking. Sex of the mind, physical body and other aspects is truly amazing especially when doing spiritual things and getting to higher levels. That’s actually the best way but maybe that’s just for me. I’m not saying have sex everyday or how often I just think people should assess things themselves instead of letting others decide based on what they say

[@shawanareviews3609]

I agree with some of what he said. I don’t believe sex is soley for reproduction. Some of what he said is his opinion.

[@nickymills2494]

Uhmmm I’m not married at the moment but I was with my sons dad for 10 yrs … whilst I agree with him on some things I do not agree with this brother totally. Physical sex is not all that matters but please do not undermine it. And yes I agree it’s also a spiritual exchange but c’mon.

[@rasgardenandpoultrypigeons2048]

You’re not the only one

[@thaliesigaraille]

#Blessedtribe

[@suebaybee]

#truth

[@solangelalebron1348]

So then wtf is he in soccer? That is completely pointless. This mans priorities are twisted.

[@Mrgetoff-h7p]

And that’s why I think marriages fail. When Tony said his wife got hurt and she was out for 12 weeks. A lot of men would have still tried to push to have sex. And that’s where you start to lose your wife. Instead of thinking about getting her better you begin to get selfish. And that’s the tip of the iceberg. You only think about how you had a bad day and need a release. And that’s the reason marriages are failing . You too wrapped up in your own shit you don’t help your wife or husband

[@Epiphanykendell]

Tony doesn’t come to play!

[@theactualfactsofwu-sabat2818]

Dude you tripping, sex is priority to women, don’t let them fool you.

[@LovelyVibrations]

Listen to what he said. It’s not like it’s not important it’s that there are other things that are more important such as communication and a healthy bond. Keep thinking this way and having failed relationships.

[@theactualfactsofwu-sabat2818]

I already tried the opposite and it failed. So I’m doing it the other way now Lol

[@ddh6302]

​@theactualfactsofwu-sabat2818 😂😂😂😂😂. Indeed, do you buddy 😊

[@solangelalebron1348]

Yup.

[@LovelyVibrations]

@@theactualfactsofwu-sabat2818 then you are the problem. Go get healed.

[@harekzigzagon376]

If you have to explain your marriage something is wrong

[@BLACKSTARMOVEMENTS]

A sexless marriage is a dead/dry/Barron land marriage. It works if both parties agree to stay for the children and the perks ie house etc. If ain’t getting with each other best believe they getting it else where….unless both highly spiritual awakening and living that life which is rare, low vibrating couples can’t won’t life a sexless life. Sex is not necessary a priorty it’s a need & a want…a happy & healthy life incorporates a balance sex life. The term sexless is misleading because the first thing that comes to mind is a marriage without sex…should call it less sex marriage which is good not sexless which is B.s.

[@marqarittakakuva471]

Maybe they are monks ! As long as hormones are active in a women....they will need sex . But if you hurt them soo bad they wont want you to touch them...and bunch of excuses but getting somewhere. Im not judging but jooooh !! Let me leave it there .😮