Infertility Issues | After The Vows - Episode 3 | Season 1 | Full Episode

[@nompilokhanyile8100]

I think it would be cool to have an episode of married couples who are child-free by choice.

[@masase19]

Yes I agree

[@sibongilekhumalo161]

Yessss, We really need that ey.

[@LethoHali]

Yeah

[@sewela9673]

Am wth u on dt

[@miteamatsheka5655]

I have three girls but people like to ask what about trying for a boy. Why my girls are enough they are what we can afford,and we decided we are done and that's all that matters.

[@victorioussisters3307]

Same here to me being asked when am I going to have a boy, it’s being disrespectful!

[@mpumelelofakudze5015]

You actually should not take offense, people say what they say based on who they are and the information they have at the time. A child's gender is not something you can choose if they are not aware of such important information they are definitely going to say offside things.

[@bridgettesetshedi2216]

Nna they are asking me to try for a girl.. You have to have a daughter im told... Though i do think about it, I'm fine with my boys.

[@mphomaseko9226]

It's a lonely, frustrating journey. I grieve every single month for the baby that could have been.

[@Rose-Inotila]

Keep trying and keep the faith. 🙏🏾

[@mphomaseko9226]

@@Rose-Inotila thanks Ino🤗😘

[@shamelessbeauty9658]

Love and light ❤️🙏

[@mphomaseko9226]

@@shamelessbeauty9658 Thank you 🤗

[@highandmightyqueen79]

oh mntase meanwhile there are people who throw away children everyday

[@nonkolo_faith]

Thank God... our guests had breakthroughs! Makes me so happy!

[@gugzdlamini5]

These couples give me so much hope!

[@sqrd3536]

Mrs Zwane is a beautiful, humble and classy woman. God bless her❤❤❤

[@xolani2321]

I thought am the one who saw her lol she's pretty

[@thembisaodendaal]

Mpho pops u r doing an excellent job..I'm amazed,that does not sound ok but honestly amazed that a man is handling these types of topics so graciously.you have the tenderness to master these very sensitive topics..I don't get no negative masculine energy..I'm thoroughly impressed brother

[@celiwemalindi]

My biggest fear is not being able to conceive I think about it often and am already preparing myself for the worst. At this time I have no business thinking about having children because I am not ready yet but here I am stressing about it. Great episode the lesson I am taking is just accepting the things that we cant change. Anyways one day we will die and be free from all our hurt and pain we once experienced

[@blessednothandosibanda7419]

Sometimes it's difficult for couples to go together and you find it's the woman who is consulting because she thinks she is the one with the problem. And when she is told she is ok it is difficult for her actually to tell her husband because she is scared of the answer that she may actually get. Some men will actually say I have children out there, it's you who has a problem. Maybe infertility awareness should be done because it's always spoken behind closed doors. It's time to start talking about infertility openly and how it can be addressed

[@dineomoaisi6724]

I personally don't want kids but I can imagine how painful it must be for couples who want them but can't have them

[@mphomaseko9226]

I am Thankful though to the Holy Spirit for His presence in my life. I have contemplated taking my life and just putting an end to my misery because the judgement and the insults were too much for me to bear 😭

[@edwinnahnyathi4761]

I’ve seen your comments Mpho. I’m praying for you, God will make a way…He is the way ❤️

[@maletselamphutlane7958]

I remember I lost two babies who were born at seven months. With the first one everyone knew but for the second one there were just some people who didn't know, a lady at work asked me how the baby was doing and I said he was doing well. She was always asking me about the baby and that he probably had grown so much. I was soo tired of the responses, the pity, being told that my husband probably wanted to remarry.

[@Sasa77662]

in his time. Glory to him

[@ntsakostan2016]

Ncooh🥺The doctor's last words.. Powerful❤️

[@mphomaseko9226]

I have been on these painful journey for 7 years. I feel like I am under constant scrutiny and well. I live with the stigma and shame of it😭😭😭

[@lesh1986]

so sorry,struggling with infertility also 8years now in marriage,no child.lets keep strong coz God will answer our prayers one day

[@mphomaseko9226]

May God remember us and look favorably upon our plight 🙏

[@nomsebenzi1]

💛

[@lucillakayz7494]

May God remember you all when He favors His own keep the FAITH God will make a way you will receive your bundle of joys in Jesus name Amen

[@lizz9478]

I’m sorry! May God hear your prayers and for your season to come true 🙏

[@swazi4769]

Loved this episode as it is very close to my heart. At the right time, God will prevail. Be it in conceiving or otherwise. His ultimate will, will prevail. I'm glad the couples had their wonderful blessings.

[@sizakelediya4080]

Infertility is a nightmare until you live it you never know. I disappointed with a show on having couple who didn't end in good note because not all of us going through Fertility end up with kids regardless of the treatments. I went through the third transfer of ivf was unsuccessful and my only option is Surrogacy which I wouldn't do. So I'm going for second opinion, 1 cycle and I'm done. I don't even want a child anymore, anyway I have adenomyosis there might as well take out this uterus to avoid cancer. I don't care what people say anymore based on what I went through anymore.

[@dimphothobakgale6325]

Sending love and hugs your way💞

[@ntombizodwamahlangu2829]

God is going to come through for you

[@theLionessss]

The episode wz tooo shorttt.....bt we thank God fr those couples as their prayers wr answered

[@ainanakanyala7595]

I can't say its the formula or the solution but letting go, having fun & letting things happen when they do seems to be the common factor for all. I did the same and by the end of the year I was pregnant. Still can't believe she exists. Society needs to mind it's business if it's not supporting people.

[@mphomaseko9226]

So true, Dr. children come from God

[@mphomaseko9226]

How I wish people/society was sensitive to the plight

[@mzansifamilyvalues8040]

Our Black males need support , Our women and Children must be protected m.kzbin.info/www/bejne/iYPYlpiio5iKeqM

[@joymogedi7729]

The Zwane's🥺🥺🥺 Ain't God faithful! I am happy there were happy endings.💝

[@Sbosh123]

Great episode but you should have invited a couple who end up not having kids even after trying IVF, atleast they would have given us an insight on how to move on from the idea and not caring about what people say.

[@Rose-Inotila]

These are really good talks...

[@lesegonkoana8463]

Wish it was a happy ending for all couples

[@iamanele]

Khanyisa Jaceni 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤

[@estherkunda2736]

Am a Zambian based nurse counselor in infertility since 2017...it's painful stressful, frustrating and everything else,what is even worse is a partner whose not supportive,most marriages don't work and women will be abused emotionally and physically,some even stay in marriages that are full of infidelity 😔😔it's sad to see such situations ,we need to re-program people minds through education ,the health care system should take interest in the subject.

[@Cincity85]

My husband and I don't have kids and oh well I don't care what people think.

[@nombulelozulu602]

It's sad to think that there are fathers who don't care for their kids in punishment of their wives. Lamadom kop. Ngathi bangatsha èziheleni.

[@thandiwejambawa7827]

So sad. Those who don't want kids are the most fertile people

[@mzansifamilyvalues8040]

Our Black males need support , Our women and Children must be protected m.kzbin.info/www/bejne/iYPYlpiio5iKeqM

[@adbellar338]

It hurts deeply but God always shows the way. Esp in marriage. Kunzima.

[@vunenenthani6640]

How about the no children like at the end?

[@nomzizibi]

The episode was disappointing overall 1. The dr didnt get to share anything. Ppl think ivf is a guaranteed baby but that is not true. Its 50% or less chance of pregnancy per cycle 2. Both the couples featured had babies, naturally. 3. The story of couples who undergo fertility treatments and have a baby thru ivf/icsi and the journey they go thru is the unspoken taboo 4. Couples who remain with no children while wanting children is the biggest taboo not acknowledged at all on a topic of infertility. Thats the most disappointing part of this episode. To ignore that on a topic of infertility is very sad to say the least

[@thatochoma9466]

scrolled through the comment section looking for someone who shares the same sentiments as me with regards to this episode.🙌🙌

[@tshegofatsomgwambane3512]

Mhlongo The Herbalist should have been invited here.

[@Thoughtsbyme-ts4jz]

It’s okay being infertile is fine. Biological children don’t define a marriage

[@thandiwejambawa7827]

I wish all Africans would be that understanding

[@nasiphituswa4848]

@@thandiwejambawa7827 True hey, sometimes couples go through it but the family/s makes it very hard to accept

[@Sis_Tshepi]

Well I can fall pregnant but I can't carry them to full term. 😔