INFP and ESTJ in an Elevator

[@sophiaredwood5825]

ESTJ: “You should probably get that fixed.” INFP: *frustratedly closes eyes and has mental overload because no one ever understands*

[@quixoticat7658]

INFP: *Cries on the inside*

[@elpensadorrene2824]

First the pigs fly that an ESTJ understands an INFP

[@TechReviewTom]

Fucking right.

[@LemonMeIon]

Most ESTJs I’ve met are doctors or financial advisers who don’t seem like real people because of their lacking of emotional intelligence. Not everything can be fixed with a logical process!

[@MrZbuj]

@@LemonMeIon so what is the problem then?

[@peregrination3643]

Has a hard time articulating to a person, but as soon as a person leaves, INFP knows with pinpoint accuracy what the situation is all about.

[@justinchew4686]

You nailed it

[@pakki6555]

Best comment

[@heatherbryant4197]

The French have an expression, "l'esprit d'escalier" -- literally "the spirit of the staircase," basically that feeling when you think of the perfect reply too late, once you're already out the door and halfway down the stairs. INTPs have that problem too. I think it's partly Se PoLR (unable to push yourself to say what you're thinking in the moment) and countervalued Ni (resistant to coming to a singular conclusion until way later). It's probably worse for INFPs with their Fi, but I think INTPs might beat themselves up over it more because of their inferior Fe.

[@peregrination3643]

@@heatherbryant4197 Sounds about right, lol. People really get onto me for those things, I get onto me for those things, yet improvement is definitely limited. It's one of those things I have to give myself credit for being aware and always trying anyway.

[@metamorph5286]

Yeeesss definitely! And the problem is that people actually think it's the inverse, that you don't really get anything and that they can tell you just about anything and you'll be fine with it. Happened in my school, I couldn't wait to escape!

[@federicamottadelli9333]

Me: I wonder which one is the INFP... First guy: Which floor? Second guy: Uhm... wait... what was it... *thinks hard* Uhm... Me: Found him.

[@danielleunderwood1684]

I could tell right away from the different fashion 😂

[@marmikthakore7480]

@@danielleunderwood1684 how do you guys tell it from cloths? I think ESTJ is dressed less gaudy

[@danielleunderwood1684]

@@marmikthakore7480 ESTJ is dressed business profesh and INFP doesn't care what he looks like (plus the hair is kinda emo which is a very INFP stereotype).

[@epiphaniedbyjinsvoice3973]

@@danielleunderwood1684 Yes, the INFP won't care about what other people might consider proper clothing and will choose something that satisfies his own desires and needs, something that feels "right" for him. The ESTJ is going to try to seem reliable and confident, so he will be more likely to prefer to look more formal, conventional and neat than the INFP.

[@marmikthakore7480]

@@danielleunderwood1684 this is so me

[@everwinter1795]

In this series, i sometimes forgot that they're the same person 😂

[@melbeth79]

😂

[@andriana7182]

@Joy Bokuto LOL U WATCHED THE ENTIRE VIDEO?! 🤣🤣🤣

[@shiny5909]

Ikr he makes himself and his persona so different

[@sarahismail6850]

They are???!!!!!!

[@peim2206]

@Joy Bokuto LMFAO! what is your mbti type? I'm just curious to know

[@StephLovesLife007]

I feel so sad for the INFP...that was too real 😭

[@eb7446]

The ten second delay of not remembering the floor number is just that, too real. OMG, I do that all the time, it's ridiculous. I don't know if it's because I spend so much time in my head that mundane facts become secondary or something, or what. I don't know what is about INFP and getting words out of the mouth. I can do OK if I practice, I've done some OK presentations and speeches and I am a somewhat less of a fairy like Hippy than some INFP's but gosh my brain to mouth "system" fail sometimes.

[@BethanyRita]

Ah, it feels good to be among my people...

[@marmikthakore7480]

@@eb7446 so true. It happens to me and I hate it.

[@SergioAllIndie]

@@eb7446 I love this INFP community gathered around the comments of these videos, we understand each other more than almost anyone has our entire lives. Love u all!

[@tairit11]

@@SergioAllIndie Love it too! So good to feel not alone with these peculiarities. It's half funny and half difficult watching how we're portrayed. Too relatable.

[@boomzisnobody]

“sometimes it’s kinda difficult to just... get into... y’know?” story of my life

[@ForeverFashionGirl21]

I was waiting for him to say "10 oh wait I mean 11" then awkwardly cringe

[@riverjude9505]

thestaceofspade my life 24/7

[@anyone359]

"No. Not really"... 😅😭

[@connie2285]

@@anyone359 sadness lol

[@youraveragefnfplayer5590]

Literally me LOL

[@megtonks]

That sigh, looking around while others are talking, the eyebrows and talking alone when others leave, analyzing the situation perfectly. Definitely INFP

[@megtonks]

@@CrappleFartini I do it very often, and I finish having very interesting discussions with myself haha

[@ellies6834]

Am I the only INFP that while is talking to a friend look around and they (the friend) look back to see what I'm looking at / if anyone's there? Couse it happens quite often

[@megtonks]

@@ellies6834 almost all of us have been there for sure.

[@gogirl3106]

@@ellies6834 this is me too lol

[@laputaindepestenoire9492]

@@megtonks i talk a lot with myself in anothers languages and i never know how it starts but i enjoy it

[@cheezouis6342]

This representation of INFP is good! I, personally as an INFP, have problems explaining what I want to really say when I don't find the right words and because of all that mess inside my head I sometimes take so much time to remember some words and other things. +that frustration becuz the other guy didn't understand him is just so accurate😂. You go, Bogdan!

[@twentyonefallingboyspanickkkk]

@Diman Zou Bogdan*

[@sofiavang5761]

So reæateble!

[@khunenshi9239]

Totally agree

[@itsnotme8182]

INFP here, if it's a painful kind of thing, just say it no matter how misunderstood the statement will be. Even if they can't understand the core problem, people who know you are sad and in problem will still help you anyways. There will be a point when you blabber enough misunderstood information, the real picture start to emerges from it. It's great having a friend who finds my weird way of saying things funny and charming. She always listens as I always listened to her. It took my breaking point to finally open up and be more honest with my emotions. It took a while, but the things I said start to become clear to her. Also being shittily open with my frustrations actually attracted the right people to offer some words of comfort. Yeah they don't really understand but when things are horrible, but people who try to comfort you is the greatest things ever.

[@Userykp]

Yeop

[@LarissaOakley]

As an INFP, I know he second guessed what floor at least sixteen times and even after he said it was like... "there's no way that's it" but was too afraid to say anything and was like "I'll just take the stairs after i get off"

[@SasukeUchiha-rb1rs]

I do this with every decision and somehow I make the right one every time 😂

[@coldweather7]

I definitely did this

[@qwertyuiopasdfghjkl9879]

Exactly

[@qwertyuiopasdfghjkl9879]

I do that way to much it’s a problem

[@qute1693]

I'm ISFP and that's definitely relatable

[@mutantmacrophage6653]

I don't even need to hear them talk to guess who's who. Just look at their clothes.

[@BethanyRita]

Same thought 😂

[@keiko4043]

As an INFP who only wears T-shirts and leggings everyday I honestly thought people would have the impression that INFPs would be the ones wearing old ugly sweaters. Glad to know I'm wrong 😅

[@simonerunyan5403]

@@keiko4043 , I thought that. That's why this video was so confusing to me at first because I thought the INFP was the ESTJ.

[@adellezka]

Kiko Li i thought i was the only one thinking of that ugly sweater. It hurts my eyes. 😂

[@jinanis9cmtallerthanme547]

me as an infp myself thought the glasses guy would be the infp, but not after i read your comment and it suddenly started to make sense why i always wear comfy tshirt as well bcs that's how infp dressed up

[@HillyHonka]

I work with an INFP. This imitation is quite accurate. I can see him dealing with an internal struggle every day. I feel bad for him sometimes. We talk about it often and he seems to like and respect me so he opens up and talks to me. I never share what we talk about so he trusts me. He is very misunderstood at work and gets teased a lot, which makes me feel very protective of him. I often talk with the other guys about easing up and not targeting him. Sometimes you have to put yourself in someone else’s shoes and think about how you would feel if the same things were being said or done to you. If any of you know someone with an INFP personality type, I would encourage you to show them love and that you care. This will mean the world to them. They are very sensitive souls and they need to know that people care about them. Thank you.

[@sagemaster1357]

You're a good person

[@HillyHonka]

@@sagemaster1357 thank you. After much deliberation I have been able to determine that I am also an INFP. It took a long time for me to figure that out. I had to get away from studying too in depth with cognitive functions and I had to search myself and reflect on myself in order to find my true type

[@bodine219]

Aww, you sound really nice. But you also a little like you think being an INFP is a disease lol. I'm sure I would struggle in an office setting, but not too badly as long as I could keep my bullet journal. And I'm *thriving* as a writer. I have heard some male INFPs struggle because of societal expectations around manliness, but I know a lot of INFPs (writing buddies) who are very happy with the way our minds work.

[@HillyHonka]

@@bodine219 I am an INFP myself and I can relate to the societal struggle. I don’t feel that I fit in with the labor field. I can do the work and do it well, but it feels like I’m forfeiting my soul for a few dollars. I used to write in school and I loved it. My pupils and my English teacher thought I’d make a great writer. I come up with ideas all the time. I need to jot them down in my journal and brainstorm ideas of stories to write about. I would LOVE to write 😍

[@bodine219]

@@HillyHonka ​ DO IT. I'll be self publishing my first novel (hopefully) next year and it is a truly great feeling. Lots of writers have day jobs, but then you still get to scratch the creative itch.

[@beyzaerdem7653]

That feeling of having to converse when someone is starting a conversation with you but you can't explain in detail while having quick chat with a stranger so you just accept looking like a weirdo and end it kindly 🥳

[@unicornsnowflake954]

Ive gotten so used to looking crazy that I no longer even feel embarrassed! That's true for me, I am a infp

[@suwaaa.8306]

my sister (estj) asks me "how was your day" i (infp) answer "i think my friends like me" "how is that" "i mean they seem like they like me, they do stuff that are as if they like me" "what stuff" "y'know, nice people stuff" "i don't understand" "nevermind i cant explain" "what? ok then bye" mom (esfj): "yes you can explain" me: "its a long story" "we have time" "but i dont remember" "find words for it" "i cant" "yes you can" "uhhhhahrhghggharghs" dad(intp): "i think we should stop shes getting stressed out"

[@justanotherinvisibleinfp1410]

Umaveda Sutedja At least you got an INTP dad. My INTP big bro is the only one who can understand me too. ✌🏻️🙂

[@iffahooha]

@@suwaaa.8306 aww how adorable your fam! Intp dad and esfj mum!

[@suwaaa.8306]

@@iffahooha heheh thank you, yeah 😅 my mom and dad are polar opposites, and so are me and and my sister. I take from my dad a lot, and my sister, to my mom. It's a fun family, definitely 😊.

[@strawberryaster1165]

1:10 That INFP eyeroll and sigh. 😂 Awwww it's okay INFPs~ INFJs will understand you~

[@27Juicygirl]

And ISFJs as well

[@ISIIN15]

@@27Juicygirl istps dont care however ;)

[@godlovesyou3317]

@@ISIIN15 that's sort of rude

[@ISIIN15]

@@godlovesyou3317cauae istps dont care about ur feelings lol

[@godlovesyou3317]

@@ISIIN15 that doesn't make you look good just to let you know

[@remylebae3395]

The silence after ESTJ's remarks is too real. It's just not even worth explaining sometimes because you know they won't understand. The eye-rolls and lack of eye contact is so real!

[@gloria7190]

Yes! That's me all the time in social situations, just giving up conversations because some people just don't get what I mean or they are not interested at all

[@blueapricot1484]

Agree ✋

[@pakki6555]

Basically

[@greenguy2372]

It was lowkey INFPs fault tho. He couldn't articulate his thoughts well whatsoever and while ESTJs advice was kinda one sided he had good points that could actually help improve the INFPs life. A well balanced diet with lots of nutritions can work wonders. We are biological creatures after all.

[@trixi1608]

You're right. I'm an INFP myself and sometimes I'm a little fed up with the practical advice people like giving to me unasked. Most of the time I don't even reply anything if I already know that their suggestions wouldn't work for me..

[@ildikoedit9110]

So the whole INFP squad is here crying how relatable this video is xdddd

[@Shadow77999]

Lmao

[@coolmuzt]

Oh come on it's not like that.

[@dreamy4868]

No it's not anything like that.

[@masteraxe1453]

Well as an ISFP this is how I feel with most Te doms

[@jeronimselles7840]

yep 😭

[@imjustapenguinguys]

"definitely ESTJ" - this last statement just killed me. Those infp's are always developing an opinion about someone.

[@LittleSparklingStars]

Eh we just like typing people but even when we judge, we take our own judgement with a grain of salt as the world is alot more complicated than those labels. He might even be wrong about his typing.

[@lonearachnid6591]

Not really, I’d hate to assume someone was in a certain category as soon as I met them. We’re not always judging lmao

[@CaveyMoth]

I've made all of my coworkers take MBTI tests. And I call some of them by their titles sometimes. MUAHAHA!

[@yayag.8990]

Infp are a pretty sensitive type huh?

[@squali1930]

That was the most INFP thing he said in the whole video.

[@alexv7903]

What I noticed after watching these videos is that the one who stays in the elevator after the talk and comments on another type is always an introverted person

[@dasytaylor]

because otherwise we couldn't hear their inner thoughts

[@nobodysXghost]

I think a lot of it is because introverts begin to really function when they're alone, like a sudden burst of inspiration and well thought out thoughts

[@SICness100]

The 'no one understands me , why do human interactions have to be so frustrating' INFP eyeroll was just on point :D

[@misssnowymegumi]

Whyyyyy 😭 This is so ACCURATE! Who's infp here ? Raise your hands✋ (omo)

[@t.c9537]

I'm not INFP I'm INFJ...but I feel you ❤

[@pakki6555]

@Andy Dodds I'm INFP and my whole family's full of sensors (ESTJ, ISTJ, ISFJ) whyy 😭

[@kijetesantakaluSokete]

🙋

[@megtonks]

@Andy Dodds I couldn't say it better, that's exactly what I do.

[@olaolech5438]

I'm an INFP with an ESTJ dad.

[@Henry-iy7jc]

INFP:(listening to mom) Goes to the kitchen Waits a few secondes Comes back And says :I swear I was listening to you, but... I just forgot what you said I have to bring you from kithchen!

[@YourNeighborhoodCaat]

Nasim H *_Exactly_* Me everyday and especially at work.

[@goldenlady3659]

Has happened to me countless times

[@remylebae3395]

My intj dad laughs at me because I constantly do this

[@ehe841]

OMG this is so accurate

[@dariaryczanczyk768]

This is so much me

[@ookreek5374]

*cries in awkward*

[@suppohkram]

ESTJ: “I can’t imagine crying...” ESTJs be like “What are these feelings you speak of?” lol

[@Szczurkyy]

disagree. ESTJ who cries themself to sleep here lmao

[@machinekurbli2650]

@@Szczurkyy wth

[@AlastorTheNPDemon]

Oh, they have their moments with the feels, alright. They are just so logical and practical to everyone else that when their feels _do_ catch up to them, it's hell. Rare, but when it happens, it's fairly debilitating to them.

[@anneb889]

Haha, no we cry sometimes....but we know why we are crying. Even if it’s a stupid hallmark commercial during my period, I’m able to process my stupid hormones are the culprit, lol.

[@klatchabobby]

ESTJ here as well, I don’t cry at all. The only exception is during a very strongly emotional scene that I myself have directly related to in the past (example: The Danish Girl - Lili’s Death Scene. I’m a trans girl so it’s very relatable). But that’s it. Family member dies? Crying isn’t going to benefit me or undo what has been done so, no thank you.

[@gloria7190]

How can you be such a good actor?! I'm INFP and the body language you used is so accurate...

[@porothashawarma2339]

I love my INFP friends yo , they're the best

[@gloria7190]

@@porothashawarma2339 wow, thank you! :) What type are you?

[@porothashawarma2339]

ENFP Heh

[@gloria7190]

@@porothashawarma2339 well,ENFP and ISFP are my favourite people.

[@remylebae3395]

@@gloria7190 haha same! Though I'm not very close to any :P

[@PotterMarauder]

This is so accurate 😂 ESTJ are actually some of the best people for an INFP to be friends with. They aren’t fazed by anything, so you can be weird, quiet, argumentative, playful, or anything else around them and they will go along with it, even if they don’t always understand you. I love my ESTJ friends 🥰

[@squali1930]

facts tho

[@adrenalineactivate]

Really? Most ESTJ I'm around are really judgemental and demanding. They give you a solution and your force to listen to them and if you don't then you don't have the ability to complain about your problem cause they already "solve it"

[@Channelisgone8282]

@@adrenalineactivate depends if it's a good healthy estj or a terrible unhealthy demonic estj

[@jonaskristensen-fq2xt]

​@@adrenalineactivateThat's An Unhealthy ESTJ, Though, But You Gotta Remember, That Unhealthy ESTJs, Often Have Good Intentions, Deep Down.

[@PzOffzNRW]

As an ESTJ who has been married to an INFP for ages, I can understand the stereotypes, but healthy, reflective persons should overcome this condition at some point.

[@omararturoramirez5262]

INFPs are strongly linked to an avoidant personality. We always avoid confrontation because it hurts our perceptions (too much cognitive dissonance) and because we end up being someone we’re not at all. All that together is more than enough to avoid such emotional turmoil that is gonna make us anxious and sick (er)

[@iqbalfebri4082]

The hand gesture of INFP is so perfect 👏🏻 👏🏻

[@shawpaperiekas600]

“Problems should be fixed, right?” 😂😂😂 Accurate!!

[@Lnblackberry48]

The way he looks uncomfortable and almost sweaty defines my social life as an INFP honestly !

[@tedcoombs7762]

NoelKreiss 132 yes

[@desaturated-firefox]

I'm an INTJ and find both of them totally understandable in totally different ways.

[@emile1271]

How can you relate to both of them?

[@desaturated-firefox]

I'm equally familiar with the INFP's obscure sorrows and the ESTJ's pragmatic approach to them. Probably because their dominant functions are right next to each other in my own function stack and my Fi is sort of strong.

[@InDstructR]

INTJ here as well! One thing I noticed is that we are half of each 😝 IN(FP) (ES)TJ One other thing... My mum is INFP-T and my dad is ESTJ-A. They may have an argument because they misunderstand each other, but I literally understand both of them and tell them what's happening in a way they understand 😂

[@desaturated-firefox]

Yep, I thought when I watched this video: "If I was there, I could translate for them."

[@AlastorTheNPDemon]

Indeed. Unconfirmed as my type, but this elevator conversation sounds like me talking to myself almost. I'm definitely more confident giving others _logical_ advice with their problems like the ESTJ here though, and keep the Fi bit to myself to the end of better Te.

[@liliya6781]

Me and my former ESTJ boss on the way to the office... NAILED it! She definitely thought I was slow and a weirdo who could not put a sentence together, especially at small talk. That was actually painful to watch! :) Great job!

[@LittleSparklingStars]

Why can't we bloody talk? Whyyyyyy

[@ya.no.4]

Yees! I've been waiting for INFP for so long now! 😄

[@aishab1596]

Sameee I clicked this so fast

[@MissieEmbers]

Same lol INFP was literally me tho. I'm so awkward in conversations lol

[@kijetesantakaluSokete]

same!!!!!!

[@ka.varshini9282]

Me too

[@LoshenTingaling]

I only noticed until the very last statement in the video, so much for my intuition lol

[@Arniqua]

My sister's an INFP and my father's an ESTJ. This is hilariously accurate lmao

[@sophiefilo16]

What are you?

[@Arniqua]

@@sophiefilo16 an INTP

[@InDstructR]

Mum's INFP and Dad's ESTJ ;D I'm literally half of both as INTJ

[@lolly7881]

@@InDstructR wOw

[@epiphaniedbyjinsvoice3973]

I'm an INFP an my dad is an ESTJ. I tend to overthink everything and get lost in my own emotions, and he's like "Just DO IT! "

[@rinrinrainbow4173]

"Definitely ESTJ." Hahahaha I would totally say that. I had a friend who was an ENTJ and they're quite similar so I can relate 😂

[@andreocognome]

well, the only difference between ENTJ and ESTJ (in general) is that ESTJ are more pragmatic, and even though ENTJ is considered as a "commander" and everything, he's still a "logical thinker" so might be pretty theoretical

[@carolineferreli8918]

@@andreocognome And ESTJ care more for others than ENTJ

[@andreanielsen1405]

I just liked because your profile

[@debbieken5639]

Exactly, my Dad and Sister are both ENTJ but they are so similar to this ESTJ.

[@suppohkram]

I have a hard time imagining an ESTJ actually asking “Are you ok?” lol

[@pakki6555]

More like, "What's wrong? What happened?"

[@someonerandom713]

Few are the real life villains people often frame them as. ESTJs get too much flak online :(

[@pakki6555]

@@CrappleFartini ^^^exactly^^^

[@AlastorTheNPDemon]

Not totally implausible. An ESTJ may see someone in distress and assume it's a physiological issue on some level, or poor mental health. They may recommend a more concrete remedy to the issue, likely something that's been proven, or something they brainstormed from what's been proven.

[@gsogymrat]

My husband is ESTJ and he would definitely notice and comment. He notices *everything* and has no reservations on giving advice.

[@DaJ_Sounds]

So this is what happened Estj: "Which floor?" Infp: "Ummm... Ten." Infp: explains why he's like that and set an example because he felt the judging atmosphere and felt the need to defend himself strongly. Estj: understood it differently and started talking about his health problems and some ways to solve it. Infp: gets frustrated because he didn't get it but lets it go. All the while contemplating what personality he is by listening and watching his gestures. Estj: bids good bye because that's his floor, still didn't get it. Infp: accurately pin points the personality.

[@AI-oj8hy]

I read the title as Infp and ESTJ as elevators, now that would be interesting.🤔😂

[@desaturated-firefox]

The ESTJ gets you where you have to go. The INFP gets you where you're meant to go.

[@bogdanyakubets702]

Desaturated Firefox 🙌👏

[@arlet101]

INFP enters the elevator Hears people coming To self: "please please please..." Elevator shut before anyone could come in INFP: YESSS

[@LittleSparklingStars]

You forgot subtly pressing that door closing button after pressing your floor button.

[@GcorpCoPrez]

Hailen Ace i do that just in case no one is around. Then u get the one person running to the elevator. The door is already close to closing. The deadlock eyes: plz wait. Thats the moment: a. Open and wait B. Mash the button so u can take the elevator up alone

[@c.a.1506]

*Fifteen seconds in* *immediately recognizes the infp* Yep looks about right.

[@TheBlackAmericana]

Patiently waiting for my Myers Briggs elevator video like...🙂

[@olivialopez1404]

"Have you ever started crying and not knowing why?" "....No." 😂😂😂this is so me and my sister!

[@whyeeolivia]

as an INFP, this totally resonated... my friends always tell me that when they first met me, I show little to no interest engaging in a conversation with them..especially in a group setting and everything is just so sophisticated in my own head when its just..talking to other humans lmao (yes I'm very bad at making small talks with strangers or acquaintances) and because I'm so self-aware that I looked bad for not engaging, I will try starting a sentence and didn't know where it goes...and ITS JUST SO HARD. in conclusion, INFP suffer A MAD LOT in social situations so they'd rather not. 😂

[@karynjones49]

A good friend of mine is an INFP. So accurate. You embody the types so well! Waiting for ENFJ!

[@mer5617]

so youre saying that some people never cry for no apparent reason. must be nice huh

[@SKAbada]

You're an introvert so you still look like an istj when you do the estj. Estj are more open, smiling or smirking, they look at every details of their interlocutor while he's shying away. But nice work though, thanks for your efforts and the clean fun.

[@SKAbada]

Otherwise the dialogue is on point.

[@klatchabobby]

Well, as an ESTJ, who scores with complete extraversion, I wouldn’t necessarily talk to the other person to begin with, however, once the conversation started, I’d be all over them with criticism.

[@riverjude9505]

Klatcha Bobby yeah as an infp I really can’t stand criticism

[@utkarsh3708]

@@riverjude9505 But if you managed to take criticism to some extent, estj can actually be drawn towards infp kindness.

[@Voltage.Bone.R]

Yeah ESTJs are always confused with ISTJs

[@taebunny746]

And I oop- The accuracy though.. 😂 Thanks for your hard work -A random INFP-T

[@treasurem2491]

Yaaasss

[@nicholassookdeo9441]

I see you are person of culture as well. Love ushmine masters

[@sarab9967]

i read infp and i instantly knew it was gonna be something about crying lol I actually don’t cry that much oKaY?!??1!1? LeAvE Me ALonE

[@mobydick3769]

*starts crying*

[@lexilex72]

*cough cough liar cough cough*

[@Zenssei]

People may perceive me as "lacking emotion" and picture me as an istp or something but all the feelings are kept inside

[@sarab9967]

Zenssei exactlyyyyy feels are private kkk im tough on the outside... I think lmao

[@jeronimselles7840]

@@Zenssei and that's on repressing your feelings as an infp

[@klatchabobby]

So true. As an ESTJ, doing something without reason is just impossible....

[@josivaldofilho1978]

I agree. I'm ISTJ

[@kijetesantakaluSokete]

Ok dad...

[@machinekurbli2650]

@@kijetesantakaluSokete XDDDDDDDD

[@sims4melktea402]

Hahahaha, so true

[@Qvotes]

[INFP] This looks like the conversation I have in my head almost everyday.

[@creamperson9135]

"Has it happen..y'know like you just started crying and uhh didn't know why it happened?" "No, wtf xd"

[@melbeth79]

You should get that crying fixed, no reason not to, man! Yep, definitely ESTJ 🙃

[@someonerandom713]

He's right though. Crying is healthier than bottling things up and INFPs know best. But if there's problem to cry about, some help wont ever hurt. For an ESTJ, that's a pretty wise point =)

[@greenguy2372]

@@someonerandom713 "For an ESTJ that's a pretty wise point" lmao, quite a lot sensors approach life in a smarter way than some intuitives will maybe ever do.

[@machinekurbli2650]

@@greenguy2372 Dont need to be a fucking asshole he said that because ESTJ is a thinker type and his dominant function is Te so he has an Fi inferior not because he is a sensor. Thats all dont need to be a prick^^

[@someonerandom713]

@@greenguy2372 True. I'm not trying to put ESTJs down. If it sounded that way, I apologize. I have the impression that ESTJs in particular are a generally disliked type in the typology realm. Fi is personally directed emotional intelligence. ESTJs have it inferior, INFPs have it dominant. So INFPs deal with their own emotions much more comfortably than ESTJs do. Those ESTJs who do use their Fi like this have overcome a personal weakness. So that's pretty wise for an ESTJ, because not all ESTJs acknowledge emotion like that. Would have been wise for an ENTJ, too. It's about inferior Fi to me.

[@justanotherinvisibleinfp1410]

Green Guy It's a good thing that intuitives created this World for you sensors, then. We shape the World, you work in it. ✌🏻️ "Logic will get you from a to b. Imagination will take you everywhere." -Albert Einstein

[@lorenadias6730]

I am INFP and I would cry if ESTJ told me to get my emotions fixed.

[@lexilex72]

yeah but we still wouldn't lol😢

[@arese9202]

Tbh

[@carolynconway3564]

I would want to punch them but i too passive

[@ria8275]

I cried every 2 or 3 days in a week (sometimes more) because my estj dad does that everyday -infp

[@instantcafe4956]

I find the last part to be true, however I am kinda tired of seeing the same depiction of an INFP all the time. Because very often in one one conversations we tend to have the lead and be very comfortable. Also dominant Fi often makes you hide your problems and negative emotions especially in front of a complete stranger. Other than that great video as usual, keep up the good work!

[@remylebae3395]

It depends on the intimation level. Domineering estj is definitely intimidating so that's why this one makes sense

[@lisagray6148]

This is so accurate. Knowing exactly how you are feeling but not articulating it well, sitting in silence analyzing the situation, the other person leaving and you talking to yourself about then. Perfection.

[@beatrice1775]

INFJ here, not INFP, but I have the hardest time understanding ESTJs ! Not only do we speak different languages, I find them simultaneously abrasive and unaware unfortunately!

[@manager-nim2623]

They are very frustrating as well, like the lack of empathy they have is beyond me! I really can't tolerate them

[@beatrice1775]

@@manager-nim2623 For me it's not that I can't tolerate them, more that I get so frustrated because normally I adapt to make people feel comfortable, but it feels like there's no getting to ESTJs really...I sometimes have the same issue with other extroverted sensing types, although it's not so bad with ESFJs!

[@manager-nim2623]

@@beatrice1775 I just give up with them and keep my relationship with them as superficial as possible

[@LittleSparklingStars]

Aren't INFJ anf ESTJ complete opposites function wise?

[@manager-nim2623]

@@LittleSparklingStars yeah

[@raedenjin6131]

Everything after 1:04 is just INFP having an internal mental breakdown.

[@aster___4103]

Yeah, i feel it

[@slendervendetta6229]

Still waiting for INTP

[@Cucababy5]

Me too I can't tell if I'm infp or intp

[@slendervendetta6229]

@@Cucababy5 I'm almost like prototype of INTP and I can clearly say that the best fit to this elevator scene would be INFJ. Figuring out if you are one or another isn't that difficult as it may seem. Let me help you. Imagine you are at school/work and you are supposed to do a group work. Would you prefer to cooperate with others (INFP) or do it by yourself (INTP)?

[@slendervendetta6229]

@@ayaiix6079 Then it depends on others or different aspects of your personality.

[@NicoleQuimper]

@@Cucababy5 check out cs Joseph intp VS infp It helped me :)

[@josivaldofilho1978]

INTP vs ESFJ

[@whenyousmileismiletoo5419]

Im an infp and estjs always intimidate me. 😂

[@alien.wooman4957]

*Immediately sees glasses and collar* ahhhh so he’s the ESTJ 😂

[@jailynross9509]

Lol my roommate was an ESTJ and I'm an INFP😂 This is kinda how we were but we ended up becoming best friends

[@fiqahsha]

As an infp I have only two words for this vid : *ERGGGGHHHHHHH THIS IS SO REAL*

[@seventhsheaven]

INFP: have you ever just cried for no reason? ENTP: Um...I don’t think...well, maybe I have...actually I’m not sure. Let me get back to you on that. (Have I ever cried for no reason? There was that one time, but maybe it was because I’d...no, actually...hmm. I guess not). I guess not? INFP: Thanks? ENTP: No prob. Chin up, bud, things will get better. (Aw Yeah, ENTP, you nailed it with that last part - I bet I made him feel so much better. Fi users are so silly, and so emo, but all they need is an ENTP to make them see things from a different logical stand point). INFP: (“chin up bud”? Is that supposed to help? These Fe users, I swear to god...)

[@zachin7]

This is brilliant XD

[@manager-nim2623]

Lmaoooo I literally imagined my entp saying that, but because I'm an Fe user his words actually help sometimes

[@machinekurbli2650]

@@zachin7 im an an enfp but i thibk i would be the same xdd(as the entp)

[@AlastorTheNPDemon]

I read the ENTP bits in Jeremy Clarkson's voice.

[@miosnikzycia2913]

I'm an ESTJ and have an INFP friend and it's pretty close to this.

[@metamorph5286]

I adore these series! INFP here :D They actually made me realize that everything is fine with me, it's just my way of thinking so I shall relax.

[@ariaadholakia2342]

I loved your mannerism in the video! This is exactly how INFPs are. They are so cute though !

[@someonerandom713]

Even the tone of voice, once again, you matched both of them so perfectly. I can pinpoint them both to people I know. What a great actor! =D

[@shahrazade26]

The INFP is great in settings where he has time to think (writing, for example) but when he has the pressure of someone there waiting for an answer, he gets self-conscious, can't handle the tension and says the wrong thing. He is not fast on his feet and has trouble performing.

[@overlorddoge1952]

I'm INFP and I almost never cry, or laugh out loud.

[@justanotherinvisibleinfp1410]

Overlord DoGe Same. I do it when I'm alone. LOL

[@Voltage.Bone.R]

Worst thing about being an INFP is having too many guilty pleasures

[@sophiefilo16]

TBH, I expected the INFP to start crying as son as the ESTJ left...

[@malsprower]

As an INFP, this is why I like ESTJs so much, they seem so caring.

[@Kat-PM]

I laughed so hard at how accurate INFP is in this video. I guess it's because the creator is an INFP, so he knows our struggles. 😂❤️

[@kayleemagoffin9573]

My social skills as an INFP are even worse than this. I would have just tried to get out of the small talk by going off to the corner and just nodding my head only. XD The crying for no reason though.....sigh, it is a tough emotional world we live in

[@taekwondoista3697]

At first I thought the INfp was the argyle shirt because it was kind of nerdy but then he started talking hahahhaha

[@snood454]

The part where INFP forgets the floor number 😅

[@elpensadorrene2824]

First the pigs fly that an ESTJ understands an INFP

[@tutankhamen5080]

I gotta give it to the beautiful portrayal of the infp. That feeling of choking they get when someone starts talking about the emotional scars they have.❤️❤️❤️

[@yasminout]

"You ever cried not knowing why?" Me, an ESTJ: no, but maybe yoga can help with that

[@swarupaleela]

Your videos always brighten me especially when I am sad.

[@NejisMate]

Is nobody talking about forgetting the elevator number though? :D I get so nervous when faced with an unexpected social interaction that I forget the most basic things...

[@swingonthespiral]

I just hyper focus on the social interaction because if I dont I will do something stupid or say something offensive. And that intense focus makes me lose awareness of my surroundings. I think that's why things like that happen. I think people underestimate how well us infps can understand other's and they think we are just oblivious.

[@itsjustme4371]

I’m an INFP dating an ESTJ ... and this is VERY accurate, I get upset so often, cry, can’t explain how I feel and he cant even remember the last time he cried

[@jarthkebil]

INFP: "You ever just like, cry for no good reason, and you don't know why?" ESTJ: "I can't imagine crying, period."

[@brazilchick22]

“Definitely ESTJ” 😂 my exact thoughts after chatting with someone

[@Kindacuties]

Hahah I love when the INFP says “definitely ESTJ” that is so accurate! That’s literally all I can think about after I met a person.

[@Akio5209]

You need to fix the probleme = fix your depression ! 😂😂 this Estj is so funny

[@Lisa_Flowers]

But like lowkey sometimes I am sad because I haven't been eating well/taking care of my physical health so he kinda has a point lol. Sometimes I need to remember that i'm not just a blob of emotions

[@G_SHAMMGOD]

this is probably the best combination for these elevator skits

[@maryamjinx7834]

That's the worst relationship so far 😂😂 *(In my opinion)*

[@eleanorbulgorash7616]

My best friend is an ESTJ, and til this day I still wonder why we're friends. 😆 I really love her though.

[@angelafriedman1992]

My mom's and INFP, and my dad's and ESTJ. So true!!!!!

[@hestikleynhans4926]

An INFP would never talk about their emotions like that to just anyone. I mean I never would, there are four people in the entire world that I will talk to like that and they include my parents my boyfriend and my best friend

[@salmanezar7584]

As a fellow INFP, I feel attacked lolol. This is SOO TRUE 😂😂👌🏻

[@xagon2012]

Wow. This INFP is really open with his feelings. I would never tell someone I meet on the elevator how I am actually feeling.

[@rickyhadrian5165]

Hey, i've been waiting for INFP for a long long time. Thank you for finally doing it. I wonder if i could see INFP and ENFJ in any occasion i really looking forward for that. Anyway as always very intertaining.

[@naura7385]

Yup. Observing people and can not explain things properly. Definitely me.

[@radicaldonkey9745]

Im an infp Me: *Some other kids and i waiting for the bus* Officer: *asking kids what grade they'll be in* Officer:*gets to me* Me: Freshma- *clenches eyes* Sophm- *covers face* I mean juni- *already wanting to explode* i mean Senior. I'll be a senior. Officer: Mmmhmmm. *already dislikes me lmao*

[@mayl2773]

Lmao! Sounds like me (INFJ) trying to talk to a guy I used to date who is an ESTJ. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@aifan6148]

My type. I cry all the time. It's like eye cleansing, no big deal 😌

[@justanotherinvisibleinfp1410]

Ai Fan It's human. ✌🏻️😊

[@xIllMadeKnightx]

From an INFP male... that portrayal was perfection.

[@thunderstorm1185]

As an ESTJ, I think I’ve cracked the code on why the INFP’s are crying ‘for no reason’. It’s probably because of stress and overwhelming situations (which I can’t really relate much). And as for the memory problems... yeah take some vitamins. I hope everybody is physically and mentally healthy, and I hope this comment actually helped because I believe there is always a reason for doing something, or crying about something!

[@ria8275]

The memory problem isn't because a health problem hehe, it's only because we don't really like to talk to people, so when someone does we tend to be nervous and forget everything. But Thank you for being such a nice ESTJ. I've been facing death living with my estj dad, this is such a nice respond for me:>

[@mixtapa]

I just wanna take a second to appreciate how you perfect the dialog and acting.. only a few seconds in I am completely convinced these are two different people conversing.. Bravo! 👏🏻