Inside a Veteran's Daily Battle (personal journey)

[@drewm4914]

Shae, I just found this video, and think we may have been at the same command. Im sorry to hear your transition has been rough. Your feelings are valid and I had some of the same experiences. We all figure our transitions out differently and I hope you find a path that makes you happy. I have been out almost 4 years and it has been so much less stressful for me and thats where I have felt the most benefit. The "military" side of you will never leave, but you will find your way of balancing everything with your new life.

[@ShaeTaylorLife]

Thank you for your kind words. That’s cool if we’ve crossed paths before. I know it was for the best for my health. It’s so hard sometimes thinking about everything that I miss out on though. I really appreciate you reaching out.

[@MANNYREFRESH]

Keep your head up, stay gold Shae, stay gold✊🏽❤️. I would’ve picked you up and had you dust off your shoulders and get back on track. What sucks for me is that I left a Navy that I felt was not as effective as it were when I was going through as a young Sailor in the 90’s. I had great mentors, big brothers/sisters, father figures and I’ve tried my best to reciprocate that to my upcoming leaders beneath me. You’ve done your part, more than I can say for the rest of our fellow Americans (1%). Now take the positive what you’ve learned from the Navy and put that to good use. Don’t forget about all the good times and great people you’ve met. And don’t ever think for one second that you are not appreciated! Stay gold Shae, stay gold✊🏽❤️

[@ShaeTaylorLife]

Means the whole world. I have heard that before - the Navy is not what it once was. You know exactly how I feel!!! Thank you for your kindness 🤍

[@elsah3339]

I understand your struggle but from a different perspective from my own career. You will get over the “break up.” (Like breaking up with a boyfriend). You are valid and know that you are going through the seven stages of grief. Those seven stages come and go in no particular order. If you still find yourself not able to move forward in a few months since it’s already been a year, I think CBT therapy is what I would do next. It will save so much time, believe me…I’ve been there. Surrounding yourself with people that remind you of the past that you miss may also be a trigger so you may find it best to avoid that until you are past a certain point. It’s your time for self discovery, to heal, to also find fun with discovery as well. You got this, I know you will find it! Now go out there, ask questions on topics you find interesting and a new teacher will appear!

[@ShaeTaylorLife]

I really appreciate you and your kind words. I guess it’s just a matter of life transitions. Some days are good, some days are bad. Tried to get involved into new communities, which has definitely helped like you said. I think part of me will always miss the Navy.

[@tinyturbo3534]

Thank you for the great video Shae! I just wanted to mention a possible silver lining. Navy service members are at significantly higher risk of cancer. The fact that you left, means you are no longer exposed to harmful chemicals and possibly radiation.☢️ Cheers to your new life! May you and your family be blessed. Stay strong sistah 🤙

[@ShaeTaylorLife]

Thank you for the beautiful perspective. It’s so unfortunate that service members give up so much just to be exposed to these toxic chemicals and environments. Each day is better and better ❤️‍🩹

[@oldschoolgamer1638]

Finally someone put the words to how I was feeling. I very much understand how you feel throughout this video

[@ShaeTaylorLife]

We aren’t alone. Keep fighting the good fight there is more to life. There just is.

[@Alienman32]

Also your vids are awesome hope you get better 🙂

[@ashveet420]

The editing of your videos are getting so cooler and smoother, I pray that you make it out of all that agony and pain , and remember your awesome , watching your videos makes us happy, we love your content. Remember God loves you always , you’re never alone. ❤❤

[@ShaeTaylorLife]

As always, thank you for the support and the perspective! Definitely been trying to up my editing skills

[@jerh6497]

If I may recommend a book: Faith Family & Flag, by Gen. Mukoyama. He shows how God can make great things happen in ways that we would never have thought possible

[@ShaeTaylorLife]

Getting this immediately. Thank you. I love reading. anything helps

[@ashveet420]

Watching you cry made me cry 😢

[@ShaeTaylorLife]

🥹

[@Alienman32]

2nd

[@harrylime3.143]

Hang in there Sailor, take one day at a time, god bless, reach out to these guys for help @noshamewarrior

[@ShaeTaylorLife]

Thanks so much!!