Instagram Burnout, Feeling Crappy and Encouragement for Moms | Talk-Tober with Jess Hover

[@alifewellinvested5150]

You were especially chosen to speak into the lives of moms/women. I love your vulnerability and openness. You give people permission to admit they’re not okay and to be vulnerable by you going first. I love your heart to encourage, even when these encouragements come from desolate seasons of your life. Lots of love to you! Praying you feel assured of God’s love for you and that you will also be encouraged in this hard time. ❤

[@jess_hover]

Thank you!!! 🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@hilary993]

Thank you for this realness. I’m so tired of Instagram.

[@jess_hover]

You and me both!

[@jenniemcshane7184]

I always come to this channel when I need positivity and to get perspective. ❤

[@jess_hover]

I'm so glad! Thank you!!

[@sandragamba2154]

It takes so much courage to sit down with a camera and be yourself. I love your content, and I hope you become a voice in my head soon, with that patience and love ❤

[@jess_hover]

Thank you Sandra! I appreciate you saying this. 💛💛

[@paperplates8164]

So happy to see your videos pop up for me again! I started watching you over 3 years ago when pregnant with my first. To this day I still hear you in my head at times saying, "you can do hard things." Thanks for planting that seed of truth that I can harvest when I'm struggling!

[@jess_hover]

Aww wow thank you for letting me know!! So happy to have you here :)

[@jenf4616]

You are amazing at what you do, Jess. It’s truly a gift and I hope you never stop!

[@jess_hover]

Thank you so much!

[@KatelynLesk]

I love this, jess! Not only are you wise and super encouraging but I find you hilarious (nodding to the skaters 😂) so these videos always brighten my day!!! Thanks for the belief challenge!!

[@jess_hover]

You're the best! Thank you!

[@nataliadee6263]

Jess you are a ray of sunshine…I am in awe at how much you shine and care about other humans!

[@jess_hover]

What a sweet thing to say!! Thank you!!! 💛💛

[@darcynyc]

Well I just have to say that you bring so much joy into the lives of others! My mom died when I was 20 but one of the birthday cards she gave me when I was about 15 which had the saying on the front of it that said “those who bring joy into the lives of others cannot help but keep it from themselves!… That card saying and my Mom‘s sentiments stay with me always! And you literally bring joy into the lives of others on a daily basis - every moment spent with you has been joyful and has made my life a dream - I love you Precious Jess!!! keep spreading your joy all around and your joy will keep increasing❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@jess_hover]

I love this so much and love you! ❤️

[@jess_hover]

I wish I met your mom. ❤️

[@delos9104]

My honorary big sis 🫶🏽

[@virakravets9166]

It's hard having your best friend move. That alone is plenty to make you feel down. You are amazing and kind and it is just such a refreshing video. It helps as I was feeling low too

[@jess_hover]

So true! Thank you for understanding and for watching! ❤️❤️

[@jess_hover]

Im sorry you were feeling low. Glad we can help each other 🥹

[@savannahdwyer]

You’re so wonderful. Every time I watch one of your YT videos I feel restored and happy. I’m envious of those who are your friend IRL. Thanks for doing Talk-Tober. Looking forward to whatever you post - especially unedited videos like these. 😊😊

[@jess_hover]

Thank you so much Savannah! What a high compliment that my content helps you feel restored and happy. I appreciate you being here! 💛💛

[@Ssttoorryytteelleerr1122]

10000% agree with your take on KZbin vs insta!

[@laurenvazquez6729]

I’m excited for talk-tober ☺️ Needed this just now because funny that you mentioned it I’m specifically wrestling with feeling unloved today. Funny timing. Thanks, Jess 🤍👻

[@jess_hover]

Aw I am so happy that was the right timing! Hooray! Happy October :) I am excited you’ll watch!

[@isla-rosesadventures1812]

Jess, your amazing, when I was pregnant I found your KZbin channel and now I feel like you are a best friend and I value your voice, vgmc is so important to me, everyone in there was like my very first feeling of the 'village' that is needed to raise children. Tammy Xx

[@jess_hover]

Wow Tammy thank you!!!! 🥹🥹 What an honor for me to be a part of this stage of your life. Thank you for being a part of VGMC and taking the time to leave this comment. It means so much to me. ❤️

[@juliefernandesco]

The candlestick holder analogy is gold!! Love you Jess - I am hope you are feeling better 💓 And you are great at so many things!! Remember we are all our biggest critics - you are absolutely very good enough, very great enough, very demure and very big sister enough and I hope you can embody that you are enough just how you encourage your community.

[@jess_hover]

Haha thank you so much Julie! I love all of this and needed to hear it 💛💛 just wait til I text you photos of these candlestick holders … 🕯️

[@carolinavaidez3949]

Loved this message! Thank you

[@jess_hover]

Thank you! 💛💛

[@madisensullivan1660]

I like ‘em!! 😂 actually I really enjoy them and am excited for talk-tober ❤

[@jess_hover]

Haha thank youuuuu!!! 💛💛💛

[@RosssR]

Hi Jess, Rose here from VGMC zoom calls, I wanted to ask about maybe the video topics I'm interested in and others might want too. I think talking about relationship with S.O would be a topic many of us could benefit from, your marriage looks like a very healthy one and talking about problem solving. Also kids routine when you have different aged children and making it work for the 3 of them, this filmed from Shaun's perspective might be really funny 😂 Staying smart with money or frugal but still enjoying life How to show little ones about God and being a christian I have so many things I'd like to hear your perspective on that the list could be eternal 😂😂😂

[@jess_hover]

Haha awww sweet Rosita I can’t wait to hug you one day and talk about allllllll the things! Thank you for such all of these great ideas! You’re always so helpful.

[@RaqC1891]

I'm so here for this! 🙌 New SAHM of 6month old and some days are roooough. Also left IG for a while cuz it was making me feel...like I wasn't doing enough? I'm very excited for your daily chat! 💛

[@jess_hover]

Awww congratulations! And good job leaving IG when it felt bad for you. That’s so healthy. I’m excited to make content knowing you will enjoy it ❤️

[@brendaomeze6851]

I realised in 2018 that I "can't deal" with "the socials" on so many levels 🙄..I just deleted my FB, insta and alike and noticed improvement on my mental health IMMEDIATELY..have never gone back!

[@jess_hover]

Sooo smart!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@alyssafoegelle1605]

Totally get how IG or other social platforms can be draining. This is a good reminder for me to detox until after the holidays so I can enjoy life more 😂 Also, Jess I’ve been following you and benefiting from your life hacks, mom tips, honesty since I was pregnant w/my first baby (who is now 5). When you laugh about your lack of gifts or talents it makes me laugh because I think you’re so multi-talented in A LOT of ways. You are very gifted and beautifully, uniquely made imo. I’m so thankful for this community. I’ve been feeling more grumpy lately, like down but in a harsh way so I’m praying about this. I think it’s a combination of working, having a toddler and kid, the hurricane impacted so many people, wars, it’s a lot. SO I am very thankful for talk-tober!! Cheers to all the amazing moms out there, whether you’re surviving right now or trying to make progress in something you’re passionate about (oftentimes I feel like I’m stumbling in both ha!!) sending love!

[@jess_hover]

😭😭 thank you for sharing all of this. I totally relate and am thankful we all have each other.

[@eunicestewart9281]

Thank you, I am going to work on the 21 days.

[@elizabethdks]

9:14 tearing up a bit. I'm so looking forward to hearing more from you 💕

[@jess_hover]

Awww 🥹🥹 thank you!

[@PaulVetter-g2r]

The best parts of your personality came through in this video. Hope you do more like it.

[@jess_hover]

Thank you! What a sweet thing to say ❤️

[@gillb799]

I had noticed you had began talking less about your faith and wondered why that was. I don't have a religious belief apart from thinking (hoping?!) there is something bigger than all of us and some purpose behind all we do and the world we live in, however I was sorry to hear you felt you needed to be more private in expressing your beliefs. The people who enjoy your content are supportive of you as the whole lovely person you are and that includes your beliefs, so please never feel you need to suppress that ❤ Thanks for the content, it's helping me a lot as a new mum, x

[@jess_hover]

Thank you so much! It’s so sweet that you would take the time to leave a comment about this. I appreciate you! 💛💛

[@BumberakEvi]

Love you Jess ❤

[@jess_hover]

❤️❤️❤️

[@dididididididididdidi]

I clicked so fast!

[@jess_hover]

Haha you’re the best!

[@maganb8792]

🤍🤍 Thanks for being so generous with us Jess!

[@jess_hover]

Thank YOU for being here! 🌼🌼