Instantly FEMININE in 2020

[@chloerose8440]

The words I have for this year is “softly blooming”

[@CynthiaL]

Chloe Rose so creative! Love that 💕👏

[@samanthab7835]

I feel so at home on your channel! It is so refreshing to hear someone encouraging femininity in this world! My word is delicate! I want to be softer in my interactions with others. And feminine and delicate in the way I dress!

[@CynthiaL]

Samantha B I’m so happy you are here friend 💕! I love your choice of word- being softer is something I’m striving for as well 😊😊

[@thefrugalengineers5139]

I like the feminine word "fun-loving" as in I'm a fun-loving wife, fun-loving mom, fun-loving engineer... that feels better than BOSS.

[@CynthiaL]

The Frugal Engineers love that! I definitely strive to be more fun loving as well! 😊💕

[@beegodslight]

My words for this year are: delicate & nurturing 🌸 growing up I was always shamed for being the girly girl, and so throughout my teen years I rebelled against femininity even to the point of thinking I was transgender. But over the passed two years I’ve been trying to rediscover my inner femininity and it’s been a process. Thank you so much for this video💗💕 much love, Haley

[@CynthiaL]

I'm so sorry that you went through that shame ❤️. I think what you went through it so common nowadays. I love your choice of words for 2020 :)❤️

[@courtneyrivas527]

Cynthia, you have tapped into something that I have felt for so long and only just vocalized in public recently. I am a laid back person who prefers a quieter, more peaceful lifestyle. I am very turned off by the “hustle” culture and I find that people think of me as less of a woman because I’m not trying to be a “boss b-“...Thank you for addressing this!! Anyway, a resolution I made was to ditch the leggings and jeans. I feel so much more polished and feminine in slacks or a skirt. We are 9 days into 2019 and I haven’t worn leggings yet!

[@butterflygroove]

I’m doing this challenge now in the middle of 2022 (as well as setting my homemaking goals). My feminine word is VIBRANT. ✨

[@Theprincessinyellow]

I would absolutely love a video or even a series on your faith and how that works in your marriage and what that may look like as your family grows. I'm a Christian but I haven't seen many Christian marriages and I definitely relate to you a lot!

[@sarahdesimon5781]

Being a feminine woman is a struggle nowadays! Especially as a teacher I need to constantly remind myself to keep my composure and to react with class and dignity even to the rudest kids. Jesus is the only way to thrive and receive help as a feminine woman. Thank you I loooove your tips , some I didn't even know about :)

[@CynthiaL]

sarahde simon there’s a saying that goes something like: “if you’re thinking about the quality of your teaching, you’re already an excellent teacher!” 😊💕 Also, you’re right about Jesus. Thank you for commenting 😊🌸

[@sarahdesimon5781]

@@CynthiaL thank you for taking the time to get back to me I appreciate it :)

[@dayanaraviera3840]

My word for this year is gentle spirit.

[@cozykimmi]

I love that we uplift each other as homemakers! What a nice way to begin 2020. 💜💜💜

[@candaceelizabethanne475]

"Spirited" as in playful,whimsical,fun loving&embracing the moment!

[@CynthiaL]

USA Gal I can relate to wanting to live in the moment. Great choice of words 😊💕

[@candaceelizabethanne475]

@@CynthiaL Thank you!

[@pepagv8690]

My feminine word for the year is "warm". I can have a resting b*tch face and can be a bit of a prickly cactus sometimes. So I want to become warmer towards everyone. This video was amazing, Cynthia! God bless🌸

[@alicep7491]

Thank you so much for your tips, especially the first one! I'll researvh the topic and implement it in my life :) So nice to see your channel growing!

[@chloerose8440]

Thank you! I am a dolphin as well and sleep is not always easy for me and I’m happy to know my pattern better! Love those feminine upgrade activities! Always looking to infuse more femininity in my life

[@brittanymachelle3415]

I thank you so very much for your wisdom Cynthia, I seen your posts on our Facebook vintage wives group and found you here on KZbin, and your content has given me so much inspiration, I really aspire to be as feminine as I can be and find routines and doing my makeup and hair for the day and bless my husband with these things! I love your content! ❤️

[@lauratrefry3333]

I loved this video! I'm already a pretty feminine woman but at times, in this world we live in, I can begin to feel a bit of masculinity creeping in. It's these times I have to refocus and get back to my femininity do this video was helpful. I took the quiz and I'm a bear. In the past I was constantly negative. The Lord really helped me out of that horrible cycle and now I rarely find anything negative to think about. As far as hobbies go I make jewelry, paint, sing in our church choir, and (much to my kids dismay) I frequently dance in the kitchen!😂 My beauty routine is probably my weakest area. But I'll definitely be making an effort to add that one thing. Thank you for the encouragement! Decluttering was one of the first things I did to start the new year. Decluttering my closet is my favorite part. I make notes of what needs to be replaced and what clothing items I would like to look for in the coming year. I don't rearrange my furniture much BUT I do move the furniture to vacuum under everything at least twice a year. I love the idea of upgrading your underwear! I feel extra feminine and put together if my underwear matches my outfit! I have one perfume currently but once it's gone I'm not sure what to get because the store I bought it from no longer carries it. My feminine uniform is a more fitted top with a fuller skirt or a fit and flare dress. I love it so much! A dear friend of mine once told me that I was the most free spirited person they had met. I decided to live in that word for the rest of that year and it was so wonderful! My feminine word for 2020 is either going to be "international" or "mindful". Thank you for such a great video!❤

[@richellelewis6937]

Hi Cynthia I'm new to your channel and I'm so glad this kind of community exists! My word for 2020 is peace. Peace for myself and spreading peace around my life to others. My favorite hobby is knitting :) last year my goal was to learn how to knit socks (which I did!) And this year I want to learn how to knit a sweater. I loved all your tips. Happy New Year! 💙💜💙💜

[@CynthiaL]

I love your choice of feminine hobby :)! Knitting is great - I used to knit to relieve stress when I was in high school. I'm so happy you found the channel - the online femininity community is growing everyday :) ❤️

[@magdaa.1210]

Really appreciate your candid approach to this topic. You keep it cool but not afraid to talk about the ugly side of being a woman in today's setting with all it's social pressure to be amazing at everything (Energy levels are real)! Also enjoying your older videos, great insight and structure in your delivery. Thanks for helping identify the challenges to better manage them among all the noise!

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you so much for the feedback :) ❤️! Social pressure and decreased energy in women is such a real problem! I hope to bring more honesty toward the subject in 2020. Thank you for being here :)

[@CocoKitty19]

You seem to be an incredibly lovely person, I love listening to you ! I do not have an older sister so I guess that I consider you as mine, hehe. Also : you look so cute with these curls and you have such a beautiful smile ! I have the same uniform as you ! I'm quite petite (5'3 or 160 cm) and thin but as long as the skirt is fitted just under my ribcage, I can wear longer or shorter skirts and dresses. My go-to outfit is a long skirt with a turtleneck I agree with matching undergarments ! It changed my life, hehe. Also, even though I'm quite young (is 22 " quite young " ?), I've loved Chanel n°5 for years, since high school I think. So I bought myself a bottle of their eau de toilette after Christmas and I love it so much, it's my favourite material thing I own. I do not think that I smell like a grandmother despite having only smelt it on older women. I finally have a signature scent and it makes me feel so good. I used to be the kind of person to regularly change perfumes because even though I liked them a lot, they didn't feel right. Chanel n°5 is me. Lots of love to you, Andrea (from France)

[@CynthiaL]

Andrea, you are so sweet 💕💕! I love channel n5 - it is one of my go-to scents! I know what you mean, that many older women wear it as well - I like to think this is because it is classic! I too think a high-waisted skirt and a turtleneck looks so lovely! :)

[@thymeandtenderness]

Well done!!! I totally didn’t mind any of the background noise! I’m always wondering how other you tubers manage to have silence! But this is real life! The life of managing a household!!! I think my word for 2020 is gong to be: Grace. I want to be more graceful in what I do but also in how I handle my emotions and other people. Especially other people who might require a bit more patience than some! LOL. I had a very tumultuous 2019 when it came to emotions and friendships, so I am hoping I can learn from that whole experience, grow, heal, and replace feelings of resentment with Grace and Forgiveness!!!

[@daidaiakinow]

My word for the year is: SWEETNESS. I desire to behave less aggressive but with sweet words and attitude.

[@Amanda-ke8gt]

Thank you so much, love watching your channel. I was wondering if you'd be willing to do a video on makeup and how you do your makeup. I would love to hear how you personally view makeup and your relationship with it. Personally, the act of putting it on really helps me connect with my femininity.

[@blancapalma1306]

The quality of the audio and video has improved significantly, I left a comment about it in one video in the past but now congrats Cynthia ❤️👏🏼

[@izzyb6504]

Especially love the tip about choosing a feminine word :)

[@fortheloveofteaching9514]

My words for 2022 are “light and airy”.

[@TrailsOfAbundance]

I took the quiz for the chronotype! It was interesting. I have never heard of it before. Turns out I'm a dolphin as well lol! I frequently rearrange my nest! Usually every season. I love the tip about the matching undergarments. Its something I started doing a few years ago that made me feel more put together. To keep it easy, I stick with neutral tones (whites, nudes, and black). I do have some colors, but mostly neutrals in that department. Also, the hustle mentality/boss babe mentality has never been something that sounded or felt natural. My feminine word for 2020 is graceful.

[@CynthiaL]

I also stick to neutral tones - game changer! No more of those neon prints from VS lol! I'm not surprised you are a dolphin - I think we are similar in various ways friend :). You're right, the bossbabe mentality never quite sat right with me either. I love your classic word choice ❤️

[@michelletackett9489]

Feminine homemaker notification square is here!

[@tatummoyo8448]

The word gentle has been ringing loud in my ear for a while now....iv been so harsh with my son and it hurts my heart when I reflect on my day.im also in love with the word"soft"

[@nosaibamohammed2619]

My feminine word for this year is love .

[@Bianca_Kristiina]

I needed this Alot! thankyou :)

[@jennifer7022]

I just subscribed to you .. it's always refreshing to see other soft feminine women ❤️

[@CynthiaL]

So sweet, thank you! Hopefully more feminine women will begin channels/blogs etc. in 2020 :) ❤️

[@theopyexperience]

I really enjoyed this video. My feminine word for the year is Pleasant.

[@CynthiaL]

So unique, love it! :) ❤️

[@lipsticknyogapants5037]

My word is timeless. I want to grow in my classic femininity, I don’t want to be a modern housewife I want to be more focused on what Jesus called us to be a presence that is timeless.

[@hillaryb9304]

You give such a amazing advice. God bless you. Seriously listen to your advice has made my life so much better and it's getting me what I desire in life which is marriage and a family. Thank you

[@CynthiaL]

This is so encouraging! I'm so happy to know that I've helped :) ❤️

[@Centerpiecegardens]

I've never heard of different types of sleep chronotypes before, so interesting!

[@christinam.6013]

"Lovely" is what I'd like to be! I feel like that word doesn't get used enough anymore.

[@lateinmaus8093]

I love your videos! Thank you for giving us these helpful tips on how to be more feminine 🥰

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you for watching :) ❤️

[@nightowl2324]

I instantly subscribed, you are a gorgeous and real feminine woman 🌷

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@moosemousse]

My word will be “patience” because it can so SO hard with kids and you’re on a schedule that they have zero interest in because they’ve discovered a new game like who can flick pieces of Apple further off the table. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@CynthiaL]

Makes a lot of sense! I like your choice of word :)

[@Moniisza]

Thank you! Love your advice ❤️ Since I love listening to you talk while cleaning or putting away laundry I’d love for your audio sound to be a little bit better 🙈 I make videos myself and I know how hard it is to find a good camera with a good sound, so I myself am looking into adding a microphone to my filming equipment. Maybe this is something you would want to look into as well? Sending lots of love from Germany 😘

[@vycaso]

Cynthia you look good in that shirt. The color of that shirt looks good on you. I wonder what's your exercise routine? Towards the end of the video it sounded like a garbage truck backing up outside hehe.

[@thinphilanthropist4139]

Im really seeing the real you in the last 4-5 videos. You kind of seemed like a misses mid west copy at first, but now i can finally see YOUR personality shining through.

[@veggied4life]

do you have a newsletter to remind us to check your blog?

[@vycaso]

I think the best part of this video is when you were talking about The Boss hehe

[@sofiaperez1859]

I would like to be “bubbly and charming”💖🌷

[@CynthiaL]

Sofia Pérez love these! 😊💕🌸👏

[@shanemurray-jw6fc]

Thank for your tips love being feminine

[@nataliegraves304]

My word is delightful

[@saisafetytrends]

put-together, groomed -- those are my words

[@earthgirl7874]

🌺Soft and Dainty

[@eleanorbeer6756]

Appreciating the video and advice Cynthia! Do you have any tips on creating more feminine-energy social media posts ?

[@querenm3303]

I feel exhausted at home and I'm not married ,I'm not even in a relationship lol

[@abblepie4342]

What do you do for a living?

[@Doctorporkypig]

I would like to work on being a more patient feminine woman. I would love to be a better listener and develop my filter

[@BELLA-mf6hb]

Just found out about sleep chronotypes and took the link test. Apparently, I'm a dolphin.

[@xmochix604]

I like this.

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you! 💕

[@sherylAA]

My idea of my personal femininity is when I brush my hair and not put it into a messy bun lol

[@chrisfrederic2514]

Nice

[@Peabea94]

I'm a bear! 🐻

[@Progamerjay100]

You look very beautiful.