INSTANTLY Grab A Man's Attention With THESE 7 Ways (How To Flirt!)

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[@tamitatangoto5134]

For some reason I can't comment. Could there be a reason for that am I blocked😊

[@lauraassuncao4494]

Can you make a special video tips with shy/traumatized women who are scared to looking in the eye? Please? I wanna be brave.

[@AmandySue]

One time, I noticed a man looking at me from across the bar. I smiled and actually waved LOL. He came over to chat, but his brother whisked him away. That was my first time doing that and it felt liberating!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@lauraraneri4250]

Good for you! 💜❤️

[@Handleitt1]

This is a bold move in my book, but I’m glad it worked for you. I may try this sometime ❤

[@essedarden4690]

Wondering why his brother whisked him away - maybe he's in a relationship.

[@AmandySue]

@@essedarden4690 Probably

[@TheVirgoNose]

This was a fun video to watch! I just complimented a man at a concert and he told me later that it felt good because men aren’t used to being told they look nice. I turned around from the bar and he was standing there and I told him “wow, you’re really handsome…” he said “thank you, you look nice too.” I kept walking cause I really wasn’t flirting with him. 😂 I saw him later that night and smiled. He came over and we ended up exchanging numbers. He said the compliment was nice, but he didn’t think I was interested. He said men really need to feel “safe” to approach a woman. So when I saw him again and I smiled, he said that was enough for him to talk to me. It was an interesting exchange and this video validates what I heard from him.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@offairhead]

Yes, most of my friends are men and they do really need to feel safe to pursue/approach. Things have become so hostile and volatile that men get shamed and shunned for trying to express interest.

[@Candie4JC]

I’ve noticed when I compliment anyone in a fun way, people really like it. For example, if I’m loving a shoe a sista is wearing, I’ll say “ok, pointy toe! Cmon with the pointy toe, yaaasss!” If I love a man’s beard, I might say, “Cmon, beard game! Yaassss sir yaaasss! Cmon with the beard, though!” People tend to laugh and want to speak conversation. And I’m an introvert! But I’m a funny person, too, so it feels more natural to speak convo in a funny way or else I wanna hide at all cost and be alone 😂😂. Let’s be ourselves, lighten up, and enjoy meeting people.

[@BayouBarbie504]

Come through gorgeous fro and wonderful energy!!! Yaaasss! Tell the people how to uplift and be uplifted! 🎉😂❤

[@TheVirgoNose]

I like you already 😂

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@mariellazavala72]

Im the same way , I’m an introvert but whenever I see a guy wear something that I like I always compliment them ! & Same goes for when a woman is wearing something and I like it at it gets my attention I tend to compliment them and ask them where’d they get it or just to compliment someone and make them feel good because It makes me feel good too to lighten up other people !! 😊😊😊😊

[@goodgoogly2569]

Im a guy and i can tell you, this is good game for women.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@irinaivanovic9792]

But does it mean you play mind games with us? You’re supposed to initiate if you’re interested in us since you are the man.

[@db7756]

A guy asked me what sort of a guy I would like , I began to describe him 😮😅 it took him a second to realise this but boy was he chuffed! 😅 I felt so good

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@Itsque28]

😂😂😂 I'm definitely trying this. I can't wait.

[@tyska1]

My sad paradox is the more I'm interested in the guy the less attention I give him...🙈 I guess I'm intimidated by my affection and vulnerability that I'm trying to hide it to protect myself from potential rejaction... Uff, thank Stefan! Still need to do some work I guess😉🙏✨

[@lucianareis3512]

Te entendo perfeitamente 😂 tenho essa mesma postura.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 ❤️

[@MiRi-qg5rs]

Dear Stephan I love the way you are explaining your advises. I am a big fan of yours. 💕 Your girlfriend/ wife is a very lucky woman to have a man who knows how to talk and treat a woman and who has so much emotional intelligence. Keep up the good work! 👍🏻

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@snopure]

It's true that hanging out at a place by yourself might bring out more assertive attention. I'd go by myself to coffee shops to work on my master's thesis (I liked the ambience and natural white noise). I was approached by a lot of men despite being and looking very busy, though at the time I was a little annoyed with the attention -- "Can't he see that I'm working on something??" 😂 It's unfortunate though that it's how I now struggle to be able to smile at men, as I gained a stalker at one of these coffee shops just by smiling back at him in greeting, not in flirtation. So, it looks like I'm going to need to work on this piece of Stephan's advice and not show my attraction through a grimace...

[@dailywithkels]

Who else ready to go out to see if these tips work?😅🤣….thanks Stephan

[@tashamack8701]

Me sis. My flirting skills are not so good lol.

[@jeanellekerr1207]

As a woman, I like how you are addressing all of the questions that are popping up in my head as you're speaking. You're not even giving me the opportunity to be defensive or attack you! (Damn) Your dual perspective is refreshing. What you're saying makes sense and you're funny too. You got me laughing like I'm talking to a good friend.

[@rosagoglia4649]

very nice!

[@HalfSweetness]

I love the advice that comes out of your mouth, Stephan! Thanks again, sir.😊😁

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@sonyastringfellow389]

Stephen, you were spot on with your tips. I always listen to your channel. You have been my relationship advisor for a while. Thank you. ❤️ ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@MADINAHHOODTV]

Dear viewers I know we don't each other but am here with you all learning together, much respect dear @STEPHANSPEAKS

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@BelovedGodsArmy]

Praise God! ❤❤❤

[@necymoore7203]

I use to go to the Home Depot in my area. I need to start venturing out, my location is full of grandpa's and shady contractors 😂. I went your event in Houston with one of my girlfriends and I agree with you.. sometimes we need to step out alone. Many men were paired up at the event but I noticed a few guys checking me out but didn't approach me. I know better next time 😂.

[@heltristan]

Stephan speaks ... we ALL listen 💥💥💥

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙌

[@jr2721]

I practiced No. 1 & 2 a number of times and just did No.1 & 2 this past week and have a date with the guy after a week of doing this. Doing this ladies is a sure green flag to open the door for him to approach you.

[@donnasurratt8238]

I love to smile , but I sometimes attract a man who is more like a brother . I'm so thankful for your advice. but now I won't look into their eyes in times of my vulnerability.

[@diamondsandlipgloss]

very useful info... and I REALLY appreciate you listing the reasons that we as women feel frustrated/irritated (since we're often viewed as angry) thank you

[@selenachronister9642]

I'm a big fan of how you explain all of this and give a dose of humor as well. I'm learning and growing so much

[@Candie4JC]

Naomi told Ruth to drop a hint to Boaz. This is biblical, my sisters. We can’t be wanting a Boaz and not wanting to use the methods that snatched a Boaz. We need to do better 😅😅

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@Heyu7her3]

Only #RelationshipGoals to follow from the Bible is Mary & Joseph.

[@karenhiggins683]

We keep saying Boaz! Ruth and Boaz was married for 1 day, he died the following day. I want a good man, and a long and lasting love.

[@sulyvangabriel3477]

​@@karenhiggins683who told you this? What passage made you interpret this way please ?

[@snopure]

​@@karenhiggins683 Doubtful. While only one time is needed to conceive a baby, a premature death of Boaz would have put Ruth and Naomi in the same predicament they were in after the death of Ruth's husband, Naomi's son Mahlon. Naomi and Ruth would have needed yet another kinsman redeemer until Boaz and Ruth's son Obed grew up.

[@doreenmoquin5345]

I grew up thinking that I was crossing a line looking at a man straight on for three seconds or more, like it was too forward and too bold for a lady. I grew up in the 70's/80's. Things that worked for me were rather happenstances. Having a long friendship with my husband's best friend, now my husband who was a bachelor and then losing my husband was what gave me my third, blessed Charm. I was just being myself as a friend, and then my now husband and I finally connected from our past friendship.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@Sandra-po9sp]

Just a smile and you will get their attention 😊 Thank you Stephan for your advice I can pass it on

[@LovelyVibrations]

💯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

When u smile be sure to have lovely teeth Or else his attention will have a different Meaning from what is expected l

[@Sandra-po9sp]

@@user-fh1tr9zp3l duhhhhh it’s obvious

[@Victoriaistalented]

I don’t know how to flirt I am super shy and don’t know what to do! Thanks for this video Mr. Stephan!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@LovelyVibrations]

Flirting or complimenting is taking it too far. Just smile in general and people are attracted to you.

[@Victoriaistalented]

@@LovelyVibrations ok so just smile? Im shy due to being bullied in school for years so I’m not sure if someone is being authentic when they act interested.

[@Handleitt1]

Wow!!! Now I know how to flirt with men!!!! 🎉🎉🎉 haha I would just look and smile then walk away 😂 now I know to cross their path smiling and wait for them to come to me. This was the missing piece the whole time. I still think of that one guy that got away.

[@verohb79]

18:49 “Rub your booty up on him” 🤣🤣🤣🤣 love your sarcasm

[@user-zv6up5sr8o]

😂😂😂

[@HM-hf7lw]

What a great video! Thank you! I have been looking for this advice for so long, especially from a man. It makes sense to me. It was very helpful because these are casual easy moves and you explained how men don’t always know if a woman is interested and rarely get compliments. My biggest fear is being perceived as desperate, but these are very low stakes things that generally just make you more positive and social and friendly in general. It was so nice to hear it’s not desperate to flirt in these subtle , but kind ways. What’s the worst that could happen? Men get rejected everyday! As you said, at least the guy may like the attention and even be interested, but be with someone. I think I have had a past of being rejected by egotistical and mean men. But I look back, and they had problems themselves. At the very least I make the man feel nice he may be wanted! No shame if I feel I look good and feel good and am confident. Then, I just means we weren’t meant to be 😊 in the past I wasn’t healthy and confident. I am now. I don’t have to be perfect, just feel really great and be on my journey of continually being positive and being healthy.

[@solotravatogalrvlifeforme984]

I had to giggle a bit when you said.. allow help. I struggle with that and my crack up was because I know this. I am going to need to practice this lol 😂

[@verohb79]

These all sound like great advice, I can’t wait to use them! Thanks Stephan 💝

[@adelabutolulope]

Thank you for the education we never got. It's empowering. It's interesting how knowledge its self makes one feel good!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@rosamoreno4794]

COVID ruined it for us super independent women. I am trying to flirt but I just can’t and I have a gym crush that I would love to gaze at and give him the clue. 😩

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 I hope you reach the point of truly doing what is best.

[@LinAlconcel]

Good hints sir, thank you so much and God bless you always

[@jaimecherie3430]

OMFG don't compliment his package that was a little too much LMFAO😂😂😂😂

[@michelles6820]

I have the feminity, positivity, and softness down, thats natural. Whats not natural for me is throwing those signs. I'm so quiet that I get overlooked 😏 so i know i need to get out of that.

[@LilyKathleen-yq5xq]

Thanks for the good free advice Stephen ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@reebs5361]

📝 Taking notes, thanks Stephan!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@user-zv6up5sr8o]

Well said stephan...thank you!

[@piejuana]

Stephan looks handsome on this video... The hair, the glow... 👌🏾

[@nadinebotha7448]

Damn,, when did dating become so damn difficult.... if everyone is just honest about their feelings,.. life should be easier. but this has also become the hardest ...'You cant trust anybody anymore.. today they love your tomorrow they ghost you,,

[@ebonyeverything2751]

Nothing with having is easy.

[@PurpleKittens619]

What happened to dating is people aren't in it for love anymore...

[@mariafuentes6877]

Thank you for the advice ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@damabelcedeno5524]

I wish I could give hints but I have so much anxiety and panic, that I freeze and stay quiet :(. I’m going to work on it

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 I hope you reach the point of truly doing what is best.

[@majae614]

TIMESTAMPS A BE SO LOVELY 💯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Noted!

[@lynnb13]

I totally missed an opportunity in Lowes being Ms 'I can do it" didn't even think about it until he pulled off🤦🏽‍♀️ Dude offered to help me load bricks, yes bricks in my car multiple times! Ever since then, I've been more aware.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@Heyu7her3]

Eh, that's how predators get women. If they wanna date, they can actually attend the dating events that women pay for.

[@ebonyeverything2751]

​@@Heyu7her3you sound ridiculous honestly.

[@carriengugi3405]

Ok i can definitely do 1 and 2 with the guy im interested in, but there is a job conflict of interest that prevents me from being able to ask him for help (within reason) and compliment him physically. Not sure how to proceed past 1 and 2 without breaking the job boundary. I dont want to risk job for both of us, so im trying to be careful but i also want him to know im interested. There needs to be videos on how to navigate job/co-worker conflicts of interest between a man and a woman that are or maybe interested but held back due to the job conflict.

[@briannawebb7070]

I’ll try it. I really want to talk to men and not be shy anymore

[@selah_j_19]

This is a channel I can go to to get away from the Noise… Hello 👋

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙏

[@MaggieGiamalvo]

Thank you for this video. It confirmed to me that I've been doing a lot of the right things since I was a teen. Flirting is fun and I'm pretty good at it. Here's my dilemma. I work as a blackjack dealer, at a casino. Flirting with my players really helps boost the tips that I receive. I have a genuine crush on one of my regular players who happens to be significantly younger than me and a professional athlete. We have a great rapport when we talk. He tips me better than he tips any of the other dealers (trust me, we all talk). One of my supervisors has even referred to him as my boyfriend (we've never spoken outside the casino). How do I let him know without "chasing" him that I have a genuine interest in him?

[@mmoreno1608]

That's how I got my new love's attention! I asked for his number too lol ❤❤❤

[@AudaciousErin82Baby]

Stephon-THANK YOUUUUUU SO much for this list!!! Not only am I shy-I'm introverted and mad clutzy when it comes to flirting lol.....I'm working up to boldly walking up to a dude and licking the whole side of his face like Dave Chappelle's Rick James😂😂😜😜😂......as you can see-I'm not quite there yet....but one of these days........... In all seriousness tho-Thank You so much for all of the effort that you put into helping us ladies.

[@melissar3129]

I searched your videos for this, and didn’t find anything on it. Can you talk about how to handle a crush on a friend? Do we keep it to ourselves? Do I tell him? Does whether to tell him or not depend on something? How to tell him? Etc. I hope you see this! Thanks

[@hc7092]

Does anyone have any tips on holding eye contact? When i find a man attractive (ie in the gym), I see them look at me and I’m soooo nervous by how attractive they are so i don’t even look at them. 😣 I would say I’m confident. I’m 25. I get lots of compliments from men generally and even in the gym too. I’m there 5 days a week and I eat healthy. I would rate myself a 7.5/10 on looks. But when I see men that are like an 8.5 and they’re checking me out, I get nervous. Edit: I finished the video and will take the advice Stefan gives and that is to practice holding eye contact with men for 3 seconds minimum. So that by the time I get to the men I am interested in, I will be used to it and I can hold eye contact easily. Xx

[@jayc5756]

Well beauty is in the eye of the beholder...so you can be a 9 in the right person's eyes. As far as holding eye contact, I have No Idea. That part is Not for me. I'm not with that. I don't do the staring sh*t. But thats just me. But I would suggest just try to make yourself kinda available...but not too available, if u know what I mean. Give an availability for that person that Wants to holla to holla. If they don't, then you know they either are not interested/taken/or not worth it. That's my only tips to you. Hope it works out for you ma. Later.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@hc7092]

Thank you both 🙏🏾🤍

[@TheVirgoNose]

Stephan - where you be at so I can walk past you, smile, and stare in your eyes for 3 seconds? 👀😳😂

[@RhondaR4]

In the past when I flirted I always got the attention of the wrong men. Today, I don't flirt because GOD showed me in a vision, my dreams who my husband is. I respect myself and my man not to flirt with men. Thank you, Stephan for this powerful knowledge! GOD loves you and so do I!❤️

[@alaalfa8839]

Women dont want to flirt or show interest before being certain about his personality.... he doesn't want to show personality or doesn't know how. making sure he isnt vulgar men who don't respect children, elders, friends, neighbors etc.

[@LovelyVibrations]

I think complimenting a guy on his appearance is taking it to far. Isn’t he the one that needs to be complimenting???

[@RhondaR4]

​@@LovelyVibrations, I've given compliments to men. I give compliments to many of men, women, children, and animals in passing. There's a difference between complimenting and flirting.

[@RhondaR4]

​@@LovelyVibrations, Also complimenting someone uplifts their spirit.❤

[@Heyu7her3]

​@@LovelyVibrations right. society systemically "compliments" them enough.

[@khemaloving4031]

Warning! Winks and softly blown kisses work TOO quickly, so be prepared for date night THAT night! 😅

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@gratefulforabundance9043]

I was at the beach on my own, and I wasn’t wearing my contact lenses because I didn’t want to get sand behind them if it was breezy. So basically, I couldn’t see very far . After a couple of hours, I picked up my beach towel and walked up the stairs from the beach. Suddenly, a really handsome guy crossed in front of me and said : “ Hi, I noticed you were looking at me on the beach ! “. I smiled at him and started to laugh, I confessed that I wasn’t looking at him, because I actually I was not wearing my contact lenses and could not see much ! He started to laugh, and said : “ Would you like to have dinner with me this evening ? “ so I said, : “ Yes, I’d like that , thank you “. ( We had a really fun evening out ! )

[@LovelyVibrations]

I have to disagree with complimenting a man on his appearance. My friends do this all the time and it does make them look desperate. It’s a man that finds his wife so what works for me is to just generally have good energy, stay friendly to everyone, and to your last point stay confident and positive. 💕

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@Candie4JC]

I think it depends on how the compliment is delivered. There’s a genuine, kind way, then there’s a thirsty way. TOV, facial expressions and body language matter.

[@brittthecancerqueenempress9137]

Exactly

[@irinaivanovic9792]

Exactly. A lady never compliments a man on his physical appearance. A WOMAN is the prize. Make the men fight to get you.

[@LovelyVibrations]

@@irinaivanovic9792 ❤

[@nevergiveyouupbjcaldwell2454]

Thanks for the great advice❤. I love your videos. I must be doing something right. Just comes naturally to me😉

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@nevergiveyouupbjcaldwell2454]

🙏🏼You have a great sense of humor. Would love to speak to you as a regular guy🫶​@MeetStephanSpeaks

[@rickgutierrez7234]

Hi ladies I am a guy that appreciates good advice and this man gives great advice to both women and men and in a Godly way which I find interesting. As men we do like to receive hints from women when the interest is there.

[@irinaivanovic9792]

Men aren’t attracted to women anymore today. So we don’t do anything now because we all get rejected or avoided for showing any interest. There is no point at making fools of ourselves. Besides the bottom line: if you have the testicles and testosterone it’s YOU who makes the interest known first and comes to approach US.

[@pamelaseegars3970]

Thank You for Sharing Everything in this Video your saying is true Happy Holidays

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you! Happy holidays!

[@kristinetank3959]

Can you make a video on how to create more desire while already in a long term relationship.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

[@Chris777.]

Well some of us are shy ,, we don’t look men in the eyes ..

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏

[@BlazingImpact247]

I took a long road trip alone and called my crush to ask for help. I was too tired to drive back home. He took a flight and drove me back home. I am getting to know him. I like him a lot but the brother is so friend zoning me😂. Should i give it more time?

[@LetJesusTouchUrLife]

18:40-18:58-- His laugh made me laugh xD

[@Itcomesnaturalee]

One time I was out with friends girls and guys and I made eye contact with this guy and it so happened to be the 3 second rule. Lol I didn’t even mean to but it just happened. Long story short we had a great time laughing talking exchanged numbers…and then I never heard from him. It bothered me at first because I’m super shy and I don’t initiate at all most times. Lol but later I just took it as it is what it is and maybe he’s involved and was just …idk doing what guys do. Will I initiate again though😂 maybe. I feel the more I try I won’t be as shy. 🤞🏾

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@pameladjackson9088]

Great advice ...I will keep the eye contact thing in mind the .....

[@chrissycakes8827]

Thank you! These were actually great tips! Cant wait to try it out in a few months.

[@lightinthedark1155]

@StephanSpeaks... when can I get an opportunity to cross your path?

[@dailywithkels]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@KuniKarin01]

I have a major crush on my coworker but I dont know if he has a gf or not and I want to make it obvious I like him and want to talk to him outside of work. I feel like Im trying to drop hints but he doesn't text me and he has my number. I think he may be hesitant to talk to me outside of work but I have given him signals I smile and look right at him and show interest :(

[@PaigeNgo]

Maybe he is kind of “Don’t mix business with pleasure”.

[@KuniKarin01]

I don't know but it just sucks how he didnt even message me back on hinge to tell me. he never answered it or matched me back and I know he saw it@@PaigeNgo

[@BuckkyKatt886]

I have a crush on a guy at work too. I'm pretty sure he likes me but he's shy and he's a supervisor over another dept so I think he's hesitant. I let him know I was single in a funny way. He's in a stressful position at work so I made a comment about if he was taking care of himself, eating and sleeping etc he seemed really receptive to that feminine care and opened up to me just a smidge for the first time. From there, I've just been keeping the banter lighthearted and he seems the most comfortable/safe around me when I'm smiling and joking around. I wish you luck and hope this helps.

[@vipulgamit2336]

Always love your advices sir....

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@Julie_loves_YHVH]

I appreciate the mention of prayer and going to God. I am in the preparation stages but want to be sure Gods ok with someone I’m showing interest in. He knows us. 😄 And rules only apply to men we aren’t interested in. At least the silly ones us women make up. 😂

[@PriscillaLilly-bg5mz]

Stephan !you are to fine !!! To not grab any woman attention.!! I know women are falling at your feet. ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 ❤️

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

Oh yes and with his personality ? I could only imagine God bless you Steph

[@christineleonce3461]

❤great lesson ,good advise

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@christineleonce3461]

All The Best

[@Janet45761]

I did eye contact for 3secs with my ex boyfriend from distant and he looked at me at work while supervisor talking to him on the line and you know i went on bout my business doing my job at work even I wanted to laugh I couldn’t i smile but couldn’t look at him even though we not together for 7 months with no communication

[@cristinaarchuleta556]

Let’s try these out …

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 ❤️

[@kaylalaguna21]

I have a large vocabulary and I enunciate well. It seems like men hear me and are annoyed because of how direct my communication style can be, how can I work around this and present as more feminine?

[@weekendnomad5038]

Yup my husband is always on the stupid phone / game / Twitter. Makes me want to be alone. I did make the first move to date him.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

[@irinaivanovic9792]

This comment should be pinned.

[@Life.6792]

Stephan what is your advice for this situation that @weekendnomad5038 ? Because nowadays is so much this situation. Thanks 🙏

[@Petra.80]

If I gave him the 3 second glance and I get Yo, What's up! then I will need serious therapy. Lord let my Boaz notice me first ❤

[@jayc5756]

Yeah, I aint with that staring ish. Lol. But to each their own though.

[@Petra.80]

@@jayc5756 yeah.. I'm not saying chase me, but naturally the man is the hunter...

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏

[@Candie4JC]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@MelindaBerney-eg5tb]

OMG, I'M DONE... RUB YOUR BOOTY UP ON HIM!!!!! I just died laughing, boy!!!

[@ark194]

Can you do a video on shy women trying to flirt?

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

[@melissawiley3688]

Love this ❤😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@pullingnotabi]

Ohh dear. Thanks for this but the guy I like is seems overly careful. He’s there for me. Used his track to get stuff in marketplace. He’s eyes on me all the time. Gosh! We talk a lot and then all we end that he is being nice. Why a guy can’t say he likes you???

[@alfredasmall3949]

Great advice! ❤

[@thelockingdombyendlessdesi3529]

Rub ya booty on him lolol😂😂😂 yess just playin

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@thelockingdombyendlessdesi3529]

You are amazing @meetstepanspeaks. An I thank you for your guidance

[@Smoove2010]

Awww man watching this made me realize I flirt to much 🙄😩😂

[@Tiana888]

Thank you Stephan 💜⭐️✨

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@michellepercell8452]

❤ always love your advise..

[@tanishamcdonala3181]

good night. listening 🎉

[@EarthAngelMinistries2]

❤ hit em with the 3 piece combo iight say less 🏃🏾‍♀️

[@user-vi6xy4ts4q]

Great video

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@ms.evegene]

You a different tpe dude if you step to me and speak 😂. One with big balls. One who is sure of himself for sure!!😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@gratefulforabundance9043]

All good advice, however, Men have to be brave enough to approach me , and my beautiful smile 😊

[@alexandral4769]

Love this, ty!

[@sacampbr1]

Interesting video!🙏🏾

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@sacampbr1]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks no thank you! Now I know what to do to get the attention of Mr. Dark and Sexy. lol 🙏🏾

[@GabrielleHolt-nt7rm]

I'm going to take that " rub yo booty on him" advice 😂😂 LOL jk 😜 but great advice Stephan!!! Appreciate this video!

[@ojala5555]

One time when I wanted to take a check from the ATM, I noticed that there was a spider web and a big spider inside. I froze. Finally, I turned to the young man behind me and asked if he would hand me the check because there was a spider. He did and looked very surprised as I thanked him and left. He probably thought I was trying to hit on him.😁

[@brittthecancerqueenempress9137]

True I wink 😉 & wave 👋🏾 to a man im attracted and he take it from there

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@jayc5756]

I Still approach women nowadays...but yes, most of the women do make it very hard for us good men to keep hollerin at them...cause how they treat us when we do. Women Knows that the players and losers/users holla at them much more than us. Of course its up to them to vet good to decipher who from who. But anyway...they say we should holla more. We do...but then most out here being disrespectful to us when we come to them with respect...and their homegirl standing next to them dont even immediately check them or care...which make them eqally as bad as them. FR So yeah, I sympathize with fellow good brothers. It will stop me for a little bit...but then I reset and recover. And if I see a lady that im very attracted to, I Will Still holla no matter what. But those stings from those women make u extra extra nervous hollerin and approaching. But it is what it is.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@Heyu7her3]

If yall care about approaching women & dating, y'all would attend the events that are *actually created for dating.* They are over-saturated with women, which makes it a great investment.

[@jayc5756]

@@Heyu7her3 I'm pretty sure we don't know about these events. So let us know. What type of events? You mean like speed dating or something like that?

[@irinaivanovic9792]

You said “most out here,” not ALL. So why didn’t you take things further or get involved with one of those women who did not give you a hard time, and didn’t think you were a so called player?? You only need 1 woman, right?

[@jayc5756]

@@irinaivanovic9792 Is this a serious question?? Just cause you start to talk, doesn't mean it will always go somewhere. Just cause you get their number, doesn't mean they will answer either. That happens a lot as well. And just cause...well if yall happen to make it to the dating stage, that doesn't necessarily mean you will connect with that person.

[@claraamoaning5265]

Thanks very much,Sir....God bless you 🙌🙏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I appreciate that 🙏

[@kwamd.1461]

This was 🔥

[@NatoyaBrown-hc3ct]

Hi Stephen you married or dating

[@Queenajb100]

I am married, but gosh, I enjoy your videos so much. Taking notes in case I am ever single again.😅😅

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@tyska1]

Whish you to be able to use them and benefit in current marriage 😅😉 Good luck✨

[@Queenajb100]

@tyska1 Pray for me. The other half is not interested on improving things, lol.

[@tyska1]

@@Queenajb100 oh...I will...huge hug🧡

[@lacali2346]

Your marriage is over and you are still in it. Waste of time

[@LeeyahTheMuse]

The way my mouth dropped when you said “rub your booty up on him”😂😂😂😂 In my mind I was like “that’s easy😂”