I’m an African American, and my husband is Nigerian. If I would have listened to people about what they thought about Africans, I wouldn’t be married today…. Yes, in the beginning there was a lot of miscommunication and misunderstandings due to cultural differences, however, my husband is the most patient person. He doesn’t force me to learn anything, he does, however , takes time out to help me understand what I want to know, and I’m the same with him. Marrying my husband was one of the the best decisions of my life. I’m also glad that “there is more love in our ocean than boulders”♥️
@Strwbryblnde920103 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!! God doesn’t see numbers or color when he designs two people as ONE. GOD IS FAITHFUL!! 🙏🏾🙏🏼
@karinto-a44373 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your comment❤, my fiance is from Ghana and sometimes I feel he is difficult and different but other times he is so lovable and I am in awe of him. I will be marrying him in November and I am so happy and emotional. We both are, if I have a beautiful happy as you explained this just brought tears to my eyes of the joy I feel. Thank you
@anjanaokwuma91283 жыл бұрын
@@Strwbryblnde92010 Amen
@anjanaokwuma91283 жыл бұрын
@@karinto-a4437 the difficulty may be just the clash in culture. My husband at times seems very stuck in his ways, but we’re working on us both. Congratulations 🥳🥳🥳🥳 on the up coming nuptials. I wish you both much love, joy, and laughter
@karinto-a44373 жыл бұрын
@@anjanaokwuma9128 thank you so very much.
@staceydb253 жыл бұрын
I am an American black woman. My husband is Nigerian (Yoruba). Our marriage has been a real challenge. The common preconceived notions Americans have about Nigerians and Nigerians have about black American women was so hard to squash. We had to love each other beyond culture. Beyond customs and beyond habits. We love each other enough to accept the good and the bad and decided to do what works for OUR marriage. The challenges are hard but on the other side, we come out so much stronger. COMMUNICATION IS EVERYTHING!!!
@beautifulabigail28863 жыл бұрын
Very honest Stay blessed together
@israelshells97262 жыл бұрын
Sounds to me like a black man and a black woman one in four black women in America get married and that's to American black men I don't understand the point all relationships has to be worked at
@janisschifter81953 жыл бұрын
my husband is african american and I am european/jewish. he has an awesome family and they respect me as well. our marriage is everything
@LingandLamb3 жыл бұрын
So beautiful!!!
@AFRICA4AFRICANS3 жыл бұрын
Is Jewish a race? or a faith
@LingandLamb3 жыл бұрын
@@AFRICA4AFRICANS I am of Jewish race
@CKay7033 жыл бұрын
Jewish people are members of an ethnoreligious group and a nation originating from the Israelites and Hebrews of historical Israel and Judah. Jewish ethnicity, nationhood, and religion are strongly interrelated, as Judaism is the ethnic religion of the Jewish people.
@AFRICA4AFRICANS3 жыл бұрын
@@LingandLamb I thought Judism is a Religion not race... amazing how a group people manage to convince themselves and the others of this BS
@ineslazalde96293 жыл бұрын
I am half mexican and half white and my husband is Nigerian. The path of my husband and I have chosen is hard sometimes. We chose a relationship where we have come from different cultures, religions, and races. Sometimes that leads to conflict. However, what we get out of it is so much bigger that anything. I think the biggest thing with interracial relationships is not to let the parts that are hard overshadow the beauty of two people loving each other. Go into it with eyes wide open, expect a challenge, expect hard days, expect people to judge you and even sometimes stare at you in public, but in the end know that if you make each other better and treat each other with care, when you lay your head down at night none of it will matter as much as the love the two of you have created.
@freshfingersff3 жыл бұрын
This person get sense . Like here o
@musadadam72603 жыл бұрын
That's is it, good one there
@ineslazalde96293 жыл бұрын
@@fatimatabolaji4310 No Latino would be the race for Mexican. Mexican's are not white. We are sometimes placed in that category which has created many issues and is very hurtful to our culture. I did miss a word I identify as white American ethnically. There are many ethnicities with in America. However, for your edification identity is a person and private decision. It is harmful and hurtful to tell people how they should identify. What was the purpose? Was it to make me feel stupid? To tell me I am white? Your comment was rude hurtful and unnecessary.
@ineslazalde96293 жыл бұрын
@@fatimatabolaji4310 Hispanic and Latino are an identity choice. They are interchangeable and those of Mexican cultural identity move between both. Hispanic is often considered offensive to some Latinos. We use Latino as our racial identity and our cultural identity. I actually identify as Chicano. Yes, Latin America is very diverse. Yes, due to imperialism many European languages are spoken in Africa. This all has no bearing on you imposing on another how you think a person should describe themselves. Again, I go back to the fact that people get to choose their identity and that your comment had no purpose but to denigrate another and tell them what you other to try and make yourself seem superior. Ethnic and racial identity is complex and no one has the right to tell another that there is a right word to use to describe their identity. Your comments are demeaning and serve no purpose. My original comment was discussing two different people coming together to create love and family. Your response was to tell me how I should identify and that there was a correct way to do so. It served no purpose to further the conversation.
@ineslazalde96293 жыл бұрын
@@fatimatabolaji4310 You want to build down race and ethnicity into simple constructs that can easily be defined. It's not that simple. since you are recommending things you should read more about the struggle of Latino culture and how we are fighting against the racial and cultural identities imposed upon us. You are acting superior in that you are telling someone you have the right to define and label them. It's not okay. You are more concerned with being right than that you are harming another human being. You have no right to tell me how to identify racially. You have no right to tell anyone, especially since you are clearly unaware of the full discourse. And yet again can you tell me the purpose of your initial comment? Did it further the discussion of how to live in an interracial and intercultural relationship? Or was your purpose to make someone else feel bad and make yourself feel smart. You can say it all you want, but you don't have a full understanding of my cultural and ethnic identity. I would never tell you how to identify. So stop imposing how you see the world on me. Your continued responses seem only for your to justify your complete lack of empathy. You very obviously have not studied the complexity of Latino identity in the United States.
@ Daniel Fransix abeg is a way of expression as it connotes "pls let it be", LoL
@camelio103 жыл бұрын
Please sit down, no one can force anyone to do anything over the internet
@Mars_o.g3 жыл бұрын
There’s a difference between Teaching her the tradition and imposing it on her. There’s nothing wrong with both of y’all learning new things from each culture
@DonnaTwyman3 жыл бұрын
I was in an interracial relationship for almost 30 years. My husband was American but grew up in Port Harcourt, Nigeria. During our marriage we put up with racism, bigotry and downright ignorance from family & friends. Many of his family hated that fact we were together. My family basically disowned me for the first 15 years or so. Walt & I learned each other. That included his black roots, his African roots & culture as well as my white roots & culture. We learned to respect each other's opinions, views and desires. The biggest reason we were together for so long was because we didn't see each other a color or different race. We saw each other as equal. He didn't force his culture onto me but he showed me it and I did the same for him. We incorporated some of all us in our marriage. That's the best part; Walter introduced me to African food (I am an egusi lover), the music and clothing. He also introduced me to his Black culture also with the food, music, as well as showing me the truths about what it means to be black in this country. We both fought hard to overcome the racism that was thrown at us. Not to mention the problems we had from being in a interracial relationship. That's a whole other conversation. I only recently started watching your videos. Lamb you are so much like my husband was. Funny, extremely proud of your wife & the life y'all have. Without even realizing it you both promote each other with love and best of all communication. Blessings to you both. Keep doing you.
@callmecarmella3 жыл бұрын
“If your not a good person you will always find problem in everything”….. that’s a whole topic/book within itself
@snowblo13 жыл бұрын
OMG, Ling looks like she could be half Asian. I'm so surprised. But she is so drop dead gorgeous & and Lamb is so adorable. Cute couple.
@gideonudogu84163 жыл бұрын
My wife is a black American and we have been married for almost 35 years and we are happily married. She has been to Nigeria we are love by each other family. Relationship is work in progress. If someone marry, because of love it will last, but if the reason for the marriage is for papers, it will not last period. Pray together and always let God be the head of your marriage. Really enjoy your KZbin channel. God Bless you!
@commanda35363 жыл бұрын
Preach it!
@commanda35363 жыл бұрын
@ProudBoy what about Moses?
@commanda35363 жыл бұрын
So you're Jewish?
@commanda35363 жыл бұрын
@ProudBoy So as a Christian, shouldn't you wait on God for Him to show you the right person to marry. If you're having any problems you can take it back to Him.
@clok34863 жыл бұрын
Am Half Nigerian,half chinese who grew up in Nigeria. Love your videos and keep spreading the love bcos you don't know who's gonna be infected with it. 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
@mankindgenerousity70753 жыл бұрын
Kaaro ooo, imo Yoruba ling ying kayode😘😘😘
@bunnyfrosting17442 жыл бұрын
Well put!
@israelshells97262 жыл бұрын
How educated and intelligent are we because from our comments we act like little children all of us have taken science if the man carry the seed you are whatever your father is this nonsense about you being half this and half that it's poppycock you are your father.
@akinpee3 жыл бұрын
"First things first, make sure you're a good person." - Lamb👌🏾 That's the most important factor in any relationship... whether intercultural or not. After all, there are several failed same-culture relationships. Kindness, generousity, empathy, selflessness, and loyalty don't belong to a particular culture/race. When they are present in both parties, the relationship stands a good chance of thriving in the face of any differences in backgrounds. Love you guys ❤️
@sweetiepie49833 жыл бұрын
AMEN💝💝💝
@User-gj3rk2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@demontaevibes71583 жыл бұрын
ADDICTED TO THIS CHANNEL 😍🥰
@bongiwemapoma46303 жыл бұрын
Only discovered this channel 2 days ago after somebody posted them on Twitter. Funniest most authentic... Love from Zulu girl all the way from SA
@mamapeppa33263 жыл бұрын
@@bongiwemapoma4630 Love to you all the way in South Africa from a Jamaican living here in NYC.
@moniquebreeveld13 жыл бұрын
SAME!
@craigpeter91693 жыл бұрын
I am African myself, Lamb you make us proud I love you guys your chemistry is unbelievable you will always get apinoinated people in life , get on with your lives, can't wait for the next video
@maoo84673 жыл бұрын
I'm Polish and my husband Igbo. We've been married for 4years now and just like at the beginning i can only praise God for giving me such a good, godly, faithful, hardworking man. it's an undeserved gift of God for me. Of course there are very many differences but .. it's not that problem! Thank you so much for this channel! I love you , guys!
@anjanaokwuma91283 жыл бұрын
My husband is Igbo as well. Ohhhhh the blessing is real!! I thank God everyday!
@jenniferatlet62382 жыл бұрын
I am Igbo and my husband is Polish!! Haha we are "Polgerian" 😁😁
@Brifagbuyi3 жыл бұрын
My husband is Nigerian and as the first American being integrated in his family, I’ve learned the beauty of keeping culture alive for so many generations.
@bjbrownbob3 жыл бұрын
Wow you all must really be in love. Thank you for sharing.
@bjbrownbob Жыл бұрын
@Oscar 🙋🏾♀️
@Diella0373 жыл бұрын
I am an American Black woman dating a proud Kenyan man. We talk culture all of the time and we teach each other. We had a lot of miscommunication and misconception in the beginning but as he said, "there is more love in our ocean than boulders" [obstacles]. A year later we are more in love than ever. It takes respect, communication, a genuine interest in that person and on keeping the love going. That's how we keep our fire lit. And Words with Friends tournaments. 😆😆😂
@Khanslady3 жыл бұрын
Haha! Words with friends is how my boyfriend and I started, I challenged him and we went from there.
@Diella0373 жыл бұрын
@@Khanslady 😍 Beautiful! Since we are apart, we make this one of our date activities.
@evaharding97983 жыл бұрын
I'm about to marry a Nigerian man and can I say the understanding of each other's cultures is still hard but I love him and work thru or communication
@Diella0373 жыл бұрын
@@evaharding9798 You also have more love in your ocean than boulders. 😍
@AntoineJacques3 жыл бұрын
I'm here wishing you well and I'm happy my Kenyan brother is doing well with you. Take care of him and i pray he does the same for you. I'm really happy for you guys
@patriciaferrazas-seidu82023 жыл бұрын
Omg lamb hit the nail on the head when he mentioned others projecting their fears onto him! My husband goes through that very thing from his brother and some friends. Especially once they found out I'm American (he's Ghanaian) especiallysince we're working towards him coming here. It's definitely been an eye opener. I get called a white woman there while here I'm considered as "light skinned black woman." I try to immerse myself in different areas of his culture as often as I can, but I'm just naturally curious about those things. It has helped in a large way of understanding his temperament. He has a lot to learn from my culture as I'm multicultural, meaning I'm a mix of Puerto Rican, African American, Native American (Cherokee), and Pacific Islander. Which at any time there's something new for him to learn depending on what side of the family we're around. I do believe it makes it more interesting, educational, and fun. I have noticed those types of comments from some African women that my husband is only affectionate and loving to me because I'm multicultural and because I'm American. Which I think is a horrible assumption on their part.
@livviemygirl3 жыл бұрын
He is Nigerian, I am American with European ancestry. We love sharing our cultures.We are both very interested in the other and laugh so much trying to learn. 😄 We talk out our differences because we love each other.
@zinoryno68393 жыл бұрын
Would love to learn your culture .
@realtalkwithphil3 жыл бұрын
Wow... that's beautiful
@l.apastore42083 жыл бұрын
Your culture is just American. Americans with European ancestry makes about 70% of the total U.S population according to statistical sites such as statisticalatlas.com/United-States/Ancestry and www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2015/06/19/amazing-maps-show-where-americans-come-from-and-who-we-really-are-today/ . The whole wide world knows about your culture anyway so there’s not really much to learn because you Americans are great at exporting it, but are very naive (Sorry to say) to almost every other culture. So I guess you learning someone else’s culture must be a serene and fond experience
@tamirajohnelle47003 жыл бұрын
That’s beautiful😘
@forevermimi92533 жыл бұрын
@@l.apastore4208 very well said
@znmadziv3 жыл бұрын
I think I relate to you guys, I am African and my wife is African American. We have been married for 23 years and like you guys, communication is an important aspect of our life. Most Africans seldom give me positive vibes about black women. I normally hear negative things about American women. So bro and sis, the most important thing in a marriage is love, communication and compromise. I know you speak English in Nigeria but for a man who has been in the US for less than 5 years you are doing great. I been in the US for 25 years and I am still learning the American culture. Actually, you are a fast leaner because I saw a video of you trying to help cook a turkey. Lamb you are very right about apologizing when you are wrong. We African man weren't raised that way. I can see your wife is a strong minded woman but an easy going young lady. Keep a good work, it's all about life not a contest.
@chinwed.93412 жыл бұрын
Thank you for these words
@celestesobers86972 жыл бұрын
Say it loud.
@WannaChill123453 жыл бұрын
i'm currently planning marrying a nigerian who is also igbo, and I am American, Asian and Mexican also. Watching this video has helped me a lot I'm coming to the decisions I have made recently. You guys are so inspirational
@onohifysandra42613 жыл бұрын
Your husband to be is a very lucky man
@LingandLamb3 жыл бұрын
We’re so happy to hear this and congrats on your relationship/ marriage!!♥️
@kamabulus30613 жыл бұрын
We are many here
@itsclintonc3 жыл бұрын
Igbo tribes literally love to work hard and hard. Get ready to come to ala igbo.
@itsclintonc3 жыл бұрын
@@gabbyokrah81 i don't need to see him, I'm emphasizing on igbos in generally.
@adebowaledavidkolade9193 жыл бұрын
People needs to know that interracial relationship is not as easy as it seems, the differences is real and you have to deal with it everyday, it takes lot of understanding and patience, by the way, Lamb you be full package.
@mamoonunpretty34393 жыл бұрын
Also when there are children
@nreynolds752433 жыл бұрын
intercultural can be a bit tricky. I'm black American and my husband is Nigerian. We may be the same skin color but that's it. I really didn't find it hard. My parents raised me to see the person, not the superficial. So I'm around different colors, nationalities, culture....people are people. I love their relationship.
@odonnely012 жыл бұрын
I’ve been really lucky I have always dated white guys and when I married them the didn’t notice when people acted stupid they just saw me as his wife. His parents were really old fashioned so it was hard at first but both my sets of in laws learned how to love us their children regardless of race especially when the grandkids came
@michelchalmers3 жыл бұрын
I look at the comments from different videos, and the energy that i am getting is that you guys are shocking the world in a good way. You are blessed. I want what you have, it is beautiful ❤️
@sondramartinez96742 жыл бұрын
This hair style is the best style on you. Even sis the opening of the nail shop. You look beautiful Ling this is this the hair style.
@olalekan25393 жыл бұрын
You guys said it all... You don't need to force a culture on someone, let love lead. You both are different ❤💯
@edames493 жыл бұрын
1000 %. Much blessings hear!
@mellayella92743 жыл бұрын
Love watching your channel!! My husband is Ghanaian and I am American so we can understand the issues and struggles you may face in an interracial/intercultural relationship. I love the African culture and have embraced it fully. My husband has been in America for years so is more American now, but still has his culture. Thanks for sharing this video guys.
@LingandLamb3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! We love hearing if others are going through the same things and so interesting to hear everyone’s story! Much love to you and hubby! ♥️♥️♥️ Ling and Lamb
@craigpeter91693 жыл бұрын
Love your comment
@ReubenMclord3 жыл бұрын
A Ghanaian blood here too.
@karenbarton99713 жыл бұрын
How long did it take to get him to the states
@KocyshaWhite3 жыл бұрын
@@karenbarton9971 my question too.
@cryptominers_hub3 жыл бұрын
Never Regretted Stumbling upon this Channel... My Blood Pressure always drops by 80% upon Watching you two... LING &LAMB.. Despite me not being Married.. i feel a Calming vibe running through my Brain.. wish i'll be Lucky to have a Relationship of Understanding like you two. The World needs more people like you. Let's Love Lead (TRIPLE L) LING AND LAMB I WANT TO WATCH THE BEHIND THE SCENES 😂 😂
@simplynancy3743 жыл бұрын
I started following you guys just recently and it hit me just now that Ling resembles Kate Hudson.Omg🙊
@liometalib963 жыл бұрын
My grand mother on my mums side is Nigerian. My granddad is Lebanese. My mum married my dad who is from the democratic republic of Congo. I speak Igbo, Yoruba and English with a little french. My husband is Yoruba - Nigerian. I love the Nigerian culture and embraced it. My husband never forced me. I kneel to greet my mother in-law because it is a sign of respect. I love and respect my mother in law, so it gives me pleasure to greet her the traditional way though we live in the UK. Thanks to my grand mother, I was challenged to perfect the art of preparing Nigerian meals. My proudest day was when I cooked Egwusi soup and my grandmother loved it.💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻
@califflourish69853 жыл бұрын
You're Gem I must say. Some women in your position won't feel the need to learn all this stuffs and put them into practice. A well cultured woman and man produces a beautiful family.
@amiliarek75213 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh wow! That’s beautiful
@agilityquickness21293 жыл бұрын
Your head is dia💪🙌
@godfreychinweokwu75733 жыл бұрын
Wow
@foreverblessedministries3 жыл бұрын
Man I would never kneel to know human unless it’s Jesus Christ
@edames493 жыл бұрын
My lovelies I am in an intercultural marriage and Ling my husband is not as flexible, and respectful as lamb. I have to tell you that we are not together because of this. You both are truly blessed! I love and support you both!
@jimohidris45933 жыл бұрын
Love how you guys are taking it one step at a time Dont force another person's culture down your partners throat
@AuthetiQLOVEAcademy-1 Жыл бұрын
YEZZZ❣❣❣Big KEY regardless to the cultures you must learn each other💜💜💜And not try to change each other❗❗❗
@laraoluwole50683 жыл бұрын
Ling I admire your patience trying to learn to live with Lamb from a different background and culture. You really do love him and he loves you so much too.
@kumral762 жыл бұрын
LING, LOVE YOUR HAIR like this! dont keep it long- makes you look " older" , this one is chic, and so sassy! :))
@sheilascoyne8613 жыл бұрын
Ling and Lamb, you said it perfectly, Love is Love. Thank you for being you. I once was in a relationship where it was love absolute. He is Italian and Haitian, me I am western European and American Indian. Everyone around us gave me there personal opinions. We never listened. He was my soul as I was his. The only reason we are not together today is, he wanted his own children. I had 3 at the time and due to cancer could not have any more. He loved my kids, he wanted and desires having his own. He was willing to give up his dreams of having his own children for me. I couldn't let him. Going through every step from conception to delivery. This man is and was such a phenomenal man, he deserved to be the father I knew this wonderful man would be. I could not give him this journey. So I moved away. This man still remains with in my heart and soul. I did find out a couple of years later that he did in fact marry and has two absolutely beautiful daughters. His dreams with blessings. Talk about making my heart happy. He is happy...
@annielouey42413 жыл бұрын
Ling and Lamb- As someone who just accidentally came upon your videos recently, I’ve come to ❤️ how honest, pure and beautiful they are. The love and joy that you both show towards one another is so heartwarming and refreshing to see nowadays, especially on these social media platforms. You both have such sweet and genuine personalities that shine through and it is very clear from the second your videos play that you’re both not “acting” or being “fake” just to get followers but just showing who you really are to the world. Another reason I’ve become a fan and follower is because of the relationship videos where you both discuss all kinds of topics, especially the interracial/intercultural issues that you often face in your own marriage. Lamb- your videos about dealing with the people in your life about how they view Ling on being a “white” American, which she’s not (she’s a mix of Portuguese, Jewish, black and white- Yes, I pay attention to ALL of your videos, lol!) and bothering you all the time to make her assimilate to your culture really struck a chord with me. I’m Chinese and my husband of 24 years is Puerto Rican. He’s born and raised in the U.S. while I came here when I was 1 1/2 years old. While I was brought up practicing many Chinese customs and traditions within our home, I was also a very all American girl to those who knew me outside of my family. While my husband’s family have never had an issue with our relationship, I’ve often felt that many other Latina women have looked at him and wondered why he didn’t stay with his own kind. I’ve even been around to hear that being said within my earshot. On the other side, it’s been my parents that didn’t want me to be with him because they’re from the old school way of thinking that I should stay with my own kind. As much as I loved my parents I hated the way their thinking was and never could get them to think otherwise. My friends and other close relatives were always supportive of whatever choices I made and loved my husband from day one. It took quite a long time but my parents finally came around and have accepted and embraced my husband as one of the family. I believe that time finally helped my parents see my husband for the wonderful person that he is and not by the color of his skin. They were also able to see how much my husband loved me and it brought them peace and comfort to know that there was someone to take care of me. I only wish that they had done it sooner so they could have saved me and themselves the heartache during those difficult years. I am blessed to have such a patient and wonderful husband who never judged my parents or were angry at them for their backwards way of thinking towards him. Ling and Lamb- I wish for you both to continue to have a wonderful and blessed marriage and that your love for each other will continue to grow. Continue to cherish each other and grow not only as a couple but as individuals. It is from that that you will both succeed in all of your endeavors. May God continue to watch and bless over you both. 🙏🏻🥰😍❤️
@lanardoware92773 жыл бұрын
When I was stationed in Germany I met and fell in love with a Turkish lady at first sight. I couldn't believe the beauty in front of me. At first, she wouldn't give me the time of day but once she agreed to go out with me, we were inseparable. We dated four years but her parents wouldn't approve of the marriage. I was devastated and left Germany without her. I day doesn't go by without me thinking of her and the love began in 89...
@remiem-iw7uk3 жыл бұрын
Wow! That's tough!
@tvs99782 жыл бұрын
Why have you cheated yourself of your love for so long? Look her up. She might still br single or divorced and her parents might be dead so there would be no impediments in your way now. Otherwise you'll always have this regret
@trollreality8342 жыл бұрын
I wondered if you were white, would her parents have reconsidered? Probably!
@heidiaufderalm21312 жыл бұрын
@@trollreality834 As I am living in Germany and we have a lot of Turkish people here - I would say things are better today. But at that time (1989) there was no way for a Turkish girl to have a non-Turkish husband. Even the young Turkish men weren't allowed to marry (German) non-Turkish women. A school fellow of mine committed suicide because her Turkish boyfriend was forced to marry a Turkish woman...
@BORNFREE8763 жыл бұрын
🇯🇲 Love is the common denominator in any relationship, so tolerance is the great equalizer, especially in cross-cultural romance.
@wesleysimon11992 жыл бұрын
I love the way you penned this down.
@giuliavelluti62343 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is Ghanian and I’m from Italy.. we have been together for 12 yrs and have been through some pretty tough situations including my family not accepting him.. some days are tough.. our beliefs, our cultures, way of thinking is completely different from each other but I can’t go through life without him and I want to go through all challenges with him. People will judge no matter what so do as you please and what makes you happy❤️
@yemifadipe71613 жыл бұрын
May God bless you and give you peace and strength.Amen.
@thamsanqathusi96713 жыл бұрын
@@yemifadipe7161 bestwishes hope you get married.
@victordejung56753 жыл бұрын
I can only imagine what they were saying in Italia 👐🙌🖐🤘🤌🤏🙌👐🤘🤚🤌🤌 🧀 🍷 🍝 🇮🇹
@anselmenounagnon45603 жыл бұрын
Love will always conquer , but pray God for you and your boyfriend relationship then the rest will be negativity.
@victordejung56753 жыл бұрын
+Giulia Velluti; Why would 🇮🇹 be soo difficult, aren’t Italians mixed anyways, it’s NOT like they’re Scandinavian or Oriental..🤔💭❓.
@mayowafasina53203 жыл бұрын
I lost it at "correct oyinbo peppersoup" 😂😂😂😂. I think the issue is because there's less racial diversity in Africa and also we're very traditional. In Nigeria, intertribal marriages too experience contempt from family and society. With couples like yours though, I think enlightenment is coming. You guys are great ✌🏽
@barbarahormenoo3 жыл бұрын
They are adorable. Ling’s hair is always on point. She’s beautiful!
@LingandLamb3 жыл бұрын
Awww. Thanks so much!!!♥️♥️♥️ -Ling
@azeezbiodun3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Lamb speaks igbo? & yoruba also! With some Ghanaian heritage 🙏🏽 #Majorkey 🤍
@erranbahadurbk3 жыл бұрын
Man, this whole day I am watching their content! Amazing and lovey couple! Wow!
@LetItBeSummer-12 жыл бұрын
Ling your hair looks great and you have beautiful eyes! You two seem really great together. It’s nice to share each other’s cultural traditions & integrating parts of both into your lives! To heck with what anybody says. It’s none of their business!
@jessicadelgado75773 жыл бұрын
Thank you for doing this video. It's been so insightful bcuz I'm in an intercultural relationship with a yoruba man. And we're learning from both of our cultures(I'm a Chamorro from Guam). We both love discovering new things from each other's cultures. We are taking our time to learn about each other but in a loving way that isn't demanding. This solidifies tge fact that we are going about it in a positive way. Thank you so much for sharing! We love you both so much! Please keep posting your content.....we love it so much!❤❤
@jessicadelgado75773 жыл бұрын
And yes...oko mi calls me oyinbo pepe....lmbo! But it's ok....oko mi mo fe ran re❤❤
@israelorigbemi19013 жыл бұрын
@@jessicadelgado7577 wawu! You've really picked up in yoruba. Makes lot of sense, I can imagine how happy and comfortable your husband is with you... Well, from my name, I'm also a yoruba boy. Wish you guys the best, muah.
@LingandLamb3 жыл бұрын
Awww thanks Jessica! We will def keep posting and we love having you both be a part of the Ling and Lamb fam ♥️♥️♥️. It’s so fun learning about each other, in time, and in fun!
@jessicadelgado75773 жыл бұрын
@@israelorigbemi1901 thank you so much for commenting. Yes, it's very loving how he teaches me. It also helps that I'm eager to learn but he's also enthusiastic in learning my language lol. He loves when I call him chebut neni(a loving way to say chubby baby). But my oko mi atata has my heart.🥰😍
@jessicadelgado75773 жыл бұрын
@@LingandLamb Davidi was the one that told me about your page on TikTok. Since then, I've subscribed to your KZbin channel and have told oko mi about your love story. I love you both and always look for new videos and pranks to watch. Please don't stop posting. I can't get enough of you both!🥰😍❤🤗
@anthonyotuya-ndubishi73303 жыл бұрын
So Lamboghini you get Ukwuani blood for your system. Ajeh my brother... I love the way you guys show each other love... May your union be continually blessed...
@kayceekholofelo94883 жыл бұрын
This was really enlightening... I'm South African dating a Cameroonian guy and like you guys said, we're not trying to force our cultures on each other... And you also said one needs to be interested in learning something from the other's culture, thus I'm currently interested in learning French (his language)☺️ and so far, I'm doing pretty good and I'm not even in a hurry🥰 Certainly need a part 2 and 3 if possible. I love you guys❤️
@agilityquickness21293 жыл бұрын
Don't be afraid, keep moving
@julesrogernkam74953 жыл бұрын
Hi Sister in law(🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣) Welcome. I am a Cameroonian as well,a francophone living in the USA 🇺🇸. It is not easy even in the intertribal relationship in Cameroon let alone in Africa. But, it thinks trying to know and understand someone’s up bringing ( culture, language, family) helps a lot in any type of human relationship . Especially went there is no pretentious superiority of culture . Keep it up 👍
@kayceekholofelo94883 жыл бұрын
@@julesrogernkam7495 Heyyyy there, thank you😂😂 I know right, it's never easy but I'm more than willing to allow this relationship of ours to flourish and reach it's full potential, definitely believe in Us❤️
@julesrogernkam74953 жыл бұрын
@@kayceekholofelo9488 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 keep it up Sistou... Everything is doable whenever your mind is ready... Please tel him to be like a BOBOLO( flexible and easy to be eaten) LOL ...
@kayceekholofelo94883 жыл бұрын
@@julesrogernkam7495 Thanks a lot... I'll pass the message😅❤️
@cityofgold13252 жыл бұрын
Wow. So refreshing to hear Lamb has Ghanaian blood line 🇬🇭. Love you more ❤️ Love to cute Ling too. Much love.
@foodzizzles3 жыл бұрын
Let me mark attendance , still busy will watch later , just had to mark notification attendance 😂❤️
@dianeross45223 жыл бұрын
Y'all even 2 different parts of the same city can be a work in progress😂. I'm from west Philly and he is from south Philly. But seriously I absolutely adore this couple's channel.
@Enanou13 жыл бұрын
I am Cameroonian and my husband is African American & I have had to hear about how I need to teach him all things Cameroonian and the pressure was so bad at times. I had to realize and know that my husband that God gave me is mine and the dynamics of our relationship is blessed by God. He is who is is and learns about my culture & trying to shove culture down people's throats is unhealthy. So bless you guys and your union, you are a beautiful couple. #Imhappilyblessedmarriedtomybestfriend.
@Enanou13 жыл бұрын
@@cygwanfogbe246 thanks 😊
@angsana28003 жыл бұрын
I love Lamb's accent. My hubby's family and friends speak like that and it melts my heart. When we prioritise love, the world will be a better place.
@princeaghamiogie71543 жыл бұрын
When two individuals truely love one another, forebears one another and respect one another. There is no hurdle they can not over come.
@clementinaajaa30223 жыл бұрын
Hello Lamb , the person God has put in your life is Ling and you should love her unconditionally and I know that she will return that love unconditionally to you . wishing both of you peace , love and blessing.
@batzmeditation23332 жыл бұрын
I LOVE LOVE LOVE!!! How Lamb Has his OWN teddy bear YET! He remains fluid in his God Centered Masculinity & Consciousness embedded in a child like ❤.👏
@LG-kx8xl3 жыл бұрын
You two are such a beautiful couple! Your relationship is inspiring how you respect each other, try new things & have a lot of laughs & smiles. You have given the Best advice about marriage in saying do not force your culture on your spouse and to keep others out. That goes for all marriages. Too often women try to conform to however their husband does things & it can be stifling. To learn at your own pace & share what you're interested in makes it fun & keeps it respectful. You're right that you have the rest of your lives to learn about each other & that's what marriage is!💜
@victoriafortune10853 жыл бұрын
Lamb is filled with wisdom...u guys really make a great couple💕💕... Love From Nigeria..❤
@jgf42553 жыл бұрын
I am both from the Ivory Coast and the island of Guadeloupe in the Caribbean and my wife is Ukrainian. We enjoy learning from each other's culture and show mutual interest and respect. We never force our cultures on one another.
@jiandanful3 жыл бұрын
Woow ! Ivorian and Gwada meeting Ukraine, that's some cultural "shock" right here ..I love it !
@MsAngelaCrystal3 жыл бұрын
My Love is Gambian, I'm American. I'm so glad I found this channel!!
@marialewis27263 жыл бұрын
I’m African American, my best and favorite relationship was with a Ghanian man, he treated me so sweet, very compassionate and helped me get through the death of my dad. I love African men. And if God has an African husband for me I’d gladly say I do.💐 Ling and Lamb God put you together at a time where people need joy and laughter thank you for being joy to our lives in this pandemic.💐 God Bless you both and multiply you greatly in all spheres of your life where it’s needed.
@THENAGES3 жыл бұрын
😊
@brightlartey46392 жыл бұрын
Thank you Maria, Ghanaians are nice people
@phyliciajoykloes Жыл бұрын
Thank you for another good conversation, Ling and Lamb! Your videos are entertaining yet full of inspiration and provoke thoughts and conversations. I met my Gambian/Jamaican in the Netherlands, where I am from, and after we watched this together we had a chat about that people will share their opinions whether you ask or not. It often reflects on their I securities of past experiences that people generalise. I appreciate that you talked about taking it step by step learning about each others cultures. It is a learning curve for the long road for sure. We keep learning and growing. Wishing y'all a lovely day! Greetings from the Netherlands
@MrTeebaba3 жыл бұрын
Love this video and y'all made a lot of good points. My wife is African American and i completely relate to the pressures Lamb is talking about. It's as if our naija people have a form of superiority complex, like we have the better culture & food and everyone else has to conform to it, that mentality needs to change. Other races and groups have their own traditions too and its perfect for them.
@RichForeverworld3 жыл бұрын
The Quality on this video is SUBLIME🔥.
@Angela-hm3xt3 жыл бұрын
When I look at your comments, I see all positive. I don’t think the majority of Nigerians would ask why he isn’t married to a Nigerian. Even in Nigeria, we intermarry culturally.
@t.i.c85113 жыл бұрын
I agree but it's the younger generation that is changing, majority of the older generation still believe that people must marry from their own tribes. (Sometimes they might have genuine reasons) And a lot of times the younger ones give in to their Parents pressure..
@jero04183 жыл бұрын
Why would I want to ask any Nigerian why they not married to a Nigerian. Why would I bothered asking that question....
@Angela-hm3xt3 жыл бұрын
For the most part, your family , especially your parents and grandparents, would usually want you to marry your own culture for familiarity and it’s a culture they can easily relate to. When there is a language difference, the older parents may feel they can’t communicate with their grandchildren. They also want you to stay in the culture to stay close to home. They mean well. They are not trying to put other cultures down. Your close friends might also want to marry within your culture for the same reason. Other people that are not family members and friends don’t usually tell you who to marry. This I know . Every culture does this and we know that very well.
@jero04183 жыл бұрын
@@Angela-hm3xt.... It's be unfair to use these amazing couple page to debate about what every family in Nigeria do. But it be bit one sided for one individual to say what is normality for every person in a population of 160 million would do, there exception to the rule and family in Nigeria are evoloping with time. What was the nor 5 years ago is the nor now. I wouldn't care less about who my children marry or what what sex they married. Its a tiny proportion of the whole picture. Does like my parents knew better than have any expectations of who I married than my happiness. I think we need to not paint Nigeria in a singular methodology country, every one is an individual where many are exception to the majority.. Peace ✌️ up
@Angela-hm3xt3 жыл бұрын
@@jero0418 if you read my comments carefully, I used the words “for the most part and usually”. I don’t know what your argument is about. You’re are the one saying everyone. I never said that. I don’t know what you’re defending. I only commented on what I heard on the video. The majority of people around the world are married within their cultures and races. It just seems Naturally when that happens. But it doesn’t mean people shouldn’t marry outside their culture if they wish. Culture bias is not Nigerian thing. It’s the whole world thing.
@OnyinyechukwuOkolie3 жыл бұрын
I knew it. Lamb has the typical Igbo Features. Loved this video
@OmakaSammie_SamNaija3 жыл бұрын
It's truly not an easy road, the cultural differences need TIME to come to a place of balance, understanding and patience whilst learning how those differences makes the relationship tick. Parents, friends who aren't used to this will as a biological tingle want to avoid anything that goes out of the normal.
@markngu64493 жыл бұрын
The pepper soup part off me😅. Some good content here I must say. you addressed this in the simplest and purest form. I have been enlightened 😌
@bernardkwakye4343 жыл бұрын
Lamb: For me I would have pack my bag ; I don’t have time hahha . Lamb never disappoints
@Jerseysfinest123 жыл бұрын
Never!!!!
@Me_myself_and_I_AM_Vision3 жыл бұрын
My husband is cuban and I am African American woman and we love your channel.
@doyinsage3 жыл бұрын
"Me I don't have time" my mantra right there. 😂 Good advice guys.
@kimlee87683 жыл бұрын
If most of would make it our mantra too, we probably would have less conflict in the world lol I'm guessing....
@ebenezertoba5083 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed Lamb point of view, honestly. Thanks for teaching the likes of us.
@gabyzico6693 жыл бұрын
Lamb’s grandmother is Ghanaian?? Man your family is ethnically diverse. I envy you Lamb.
@kennykross33063 жыл бұрын
Who told u so
@lindaumidy4073 жыл бұрын
He said his dad's mother is from Ghana
@gabyzico6693 жыл бұрын
@@kennykross3306 The guy literally says so in the video
@Addi_Teacha5093 жыл бұрын
Same people
@feliciasjourney14373 жыл бұрын
I agree. Respect is universal, kindness is universal, love is universal and treating people right is universal
@jeff2679113 жыл бұрын
True talk guys, Love is Love, I have been married to my wife for 25 years this year. She is half Algerian and Half French and am Igbo delta and her favorite Nigerian soup is between Ogbono and Egusi
@maryanyah3 жыл бұрын
Brother mi!♥️
@Genesisthebeaut2 жыл бұрын
I currently am with a west African from Cameroon, this video is awesome, thank you guys❤️🙏✔️ God Bless You. So real and authentic 💯
@justcallmebon26843 жыл бұрын
I’m confused. I had no idea you guys were interracial! ♥️
@lightnessmushi37633 жыл бұрын
Hey ling&lamb I really love you guys and today u hv touches my life I'm originally from Tanzania my dady is from Tanzania but my mom she's from Ghana so I'm mix and then now come to my life I got married with Mauritian which my husband is mix from Mauritius and French here its come to our kids so one day we were discussing what culture do they follow and we decided me and my husband to live like us no any culture to follow because if we will need to follow what culture we will follow Tanzanian, Ghana's, Mauritian, or French u see hw its mix so I think its better to live ur own life and just spread love to ur kids, like teach them to respect everyone although its kind hard sometimes.
@Lifewideview3 жыл бұрын
Its long you pranked Lamb... Ling give us something for the the week to laugh on..
@frankopoku-agyemang83 Жыл бұрын
Oh wow, Lamb, you have Ghanaian descendants?. That's nice to hear ☺️
@victorabiola91703 жыл бұрын
Great one guys. I’m glad you can make it work and have set examples for those who’ll love to start something like this. Much love ❤️
@ourdailydoseofgodswords2 жыл бұрын
I found your channel recently and I am addicted. I pray I will find love one day.
@juderobinson4333 жыл бұрын
I made a friend on Facebook. He is from Nigeria, Delta State. He sounds just like Lam in phone calls. I say this to be true, he is the most sensative, caring, nuturing, man or woman, person I have ever met.
@nightingaleofficial36043 жыл бұрын
👀
@mely28mel3 жыл бұрын
In any relationship respect and trust is key
@KM76613 жыл бұрын
Lamb would have packed his bag because of cheese😆😆😆😆.. Love you guys, you are so relatable and down to earth. We don't impose our beliefs or values, we are different and learn from each other. BLESSINGS to you
@NatalieStHill-us9vb2 жыл бұрын
The way Lamb adores Ling is priceless. Bless
@makeup4ever19833 жыл бұрын
Me and my husband are going through the same thing. My husband‘s Nigerian and I am white and Mexican . It’s really hard but when you truly love someone nothing matters You learn how to turn that stuff out
@josaunders48582 жыл бұрын
Hi guys I have met a beautiful Nigerian man on social media. He approached me to be friend's. To be honest & serious I initially didn't respond as with so many others.. he was president & I just thought I'd day hi & thanks for reaching out... He is the most amazing person I've met & his faith in God brought me closer to him... To cut a long story short he's the most exquisite gem I've ever met & love h dearly. I am the one who's blessed by him!
@daquittaclements3 жыл бұрын
I love the first part. My mother in law wants me to learn Igbo. I have tried, but its a difficult language to learn and a language that I would barely used. I do understand Pidgin English tho
@Healthyliving6003 жыл бұрын
Make a part 2 in this. I love to hear more of this conversation.
@CoffeeCrazy Жыл бұрын
Respect is what is important. It is important not to see yourself as more superior than one another. Us Americans can think our way of living and speaking is better than others.
@isaquilayan_262 жыл бұрын
Wow! This so far is the most interesting I've heard about intercultural couples. It's just so good that there's just a natural blending of two cultures. I love it when you two discuss about relationships because you always agree with each other. Keep the love growing.
@ezinneo39233 жыл бұрын
I’m Nigerian and Jamaican born in US- My husband is fully Ghanaian. The only difficulty is sometimes the pressure to learn twi as if it’ll happen overnight 🤣
@oladipupoadebowale52763 жыл бұрын
Lol 12 mins in...its a pride and lack of self awareness thing. Simply maturity. Keep shining guys....my wife and I love you from Nigeria. God bless.
@edzenheitxerxes5353 жыл бұрын
I am in tune with the fact that one has to be good to have intercultural or interracial marriage. Both of you are looking perfect because of the orientations of your inner personalities. Always play Karma, and if you can be sincere to yourself of the requirements of Karma, you can marry from any culture.
@jocarrington34393 жыл бұрын
Lam can't say it any better, you are so right my brother,, support from Ghanaian sister in America,, I'm Ghanaian married to American , my hubby sing and do a lot of Ghana stuff waaay bfore I met him, something I will played songs and he will be in the background sing and I will be like, how did he know the lyrics, he knows more than I thought he should know and I love it ,I know gradually ling will be there, you can drag a horse to the river but you can't force the horse to drink, people always have opinion about how others to run their relationship but they can't run theirs
@Lifewideview3 жыл бұрын
Let me mark attendance too as a loyal subscriber...
@JustFluffyQuiltingYarnCrafts2 жыл бұрын
“Love is love” and “you have to be a good person” are my favourite takeaways from this.
@thejidelagos3 жыл бұрын
This is actually quite educating, if i count how many times I've seen on twitter our women saying Nigerian men treat Oyinbo different than they treat them and all sort. Treat everyone individually, everyone's story is different.
@olugbemisolashittu82503 жыл бұрын
Very well said and this was beautiful to watch. Loving all the diversity you both represent. And what a joy to see that you’re both giving yourselves grace as you grow in your journey!