Intimacy, Disability, and Bodily Functions

[@bonblue4993]

I absolutely love watching Hannah when she looks at Shane because she is so in love with him and it is so totally unconditional love.

[@Strawn149]

I know. It almost feels scripted.

[@kirstystar74]

True. But to be honest, this Life won't be fun all the time ... I know, she has chosen that Life but I still feel sad for her. She is going to miss so many pysical Things in a realationship.

[@kirstystar74]

@@Anny-me9ny unfortunately I have Not switched on the Englisch grammar as I am Not a native Englisch speaker. But at least I can speak and write more than one language.

[@Jabroni2U]

@@kirstystar74AMEN

[@elviraincollu2749]

​si può tradurre in taliano?

[@JenniHolman]

watching this video almost brught me to tears as someone who is disabled and has a hard time believing i could find a partner also willing to be a caregiver, but the love y'all share is so inspiring

[@centralmomulechick]

Shane is hilarious. I love how Hannah is constantly trying to keep a straight face, but you can see how much you guys genuinely enjoy each other. You guys are so kind to let the world into your lives.

[@sofitocyn100]

That's how they make money

[@NASkeywest]

@@sofitocyn100 i mean, they are nice and inspiring others don’t see what’s bad about that.

[@amandagarrett485]

I'm so excited that my question was answered!!! My nose picking question was the first comment I've ever made on a youtube video. It literally just MADE my (previously terrible) day. Thank you both! You're fantastic! 🖤🖤

[@Mudd_1969]

I love how real you are with us. Sharing your lives can’t always be easy. I have respect for all you tubers that put their lives out there for the world to not just entertain but to educate their viewers. Thank you for all you do.

[@tunaslammich5149]

i recently stumbled across this channel and it is the wholesomeness i desperately needed

[@antoniotrew5894]

Shane and Hannah just wanted to say you guys are absolutely amazing... I honestly wish everyone could find somebody in life with whom they could experience the special kind of love you guys share with one another...Truly inspiring guys.

[@Gvsks3]

I wish and pray to the almighty to bless everyone who has any kind of disability to give such an understanding partner who can understand you. Whenever i see Hannah while shane is speaking, there is some adoration in her eyes towards him. The world is not as bad as we imagine. It is just a salad with different kind of fruits and veggies. Couple like this, keeps my faith on life. I don't binge videos often, but you guys please post videos of this kind😬 The real disability is Not having the ability to understand other's limits of abilities. Love is the only thing this world needs. 🥰

[@swarm_me641]

She acts up for the camera to seem more caring, loving, and enthusiastic. Thats how she became a millionaire to give hope to those watching who never had a partner.

[@Gvsks3]

@@swarm_me641 too much hatred huh.. Not good for the health bro😉

[@swarm_me641]

You're right! Let me see if they put out new video reminding us how much they love eachother.

[@raymondyoungcpa]

Agreed

[@jaimeelarsen8177]

I just found y'all, and I'm so glad that I did! I was a caregiver for my MIL, who was entirely paralyzed from the neck down from MS (this was before any treatments were available). My husband and I lived with her, we had a care team to help as my kids lived with us too. It was one of the most beautiful times in my life. It was eye-opening at the time, to learn as much as I did. They have both passed on now, (my MIL and my husband). I'm thrilled to find your channel, and it makes my heart smile to see this type of content 🥰

[@JoyNoelle.]

2 months ago, This was my first video I ever watched of yours and I was absolutely SMITTEN!!! I’ve seen so many many others now. You two are my FAVORITE KZbin couple! Funny, clever, classy, and I love how much I am LEARNING. I am a CNA at a hospital and completely identify with the reality of embarrassment and vulnerability that is involved. If I sense a patient is embarrassed over what I have to do for them, or what their body has done in front of me, I tell them, “what happens in the hospital STAYS in the hospital”. They usually laugh and it puts them at ease. I think being a caregiver is a beautiful thing, for so many different reasons. Thank you for sharing and help normalizing CARING for others selflessly. It’s beautiful 🤍

[@lisaakinlabi]

People who have never been a caregiver will never understand why it really is no big deal. I chose to be a caregiver for a career and I also cared for both my parents when they could not care for themselves. I have literally had to dig poo out of a persons behind on a daily basis, clean up vomit and change feeding tubes and other medical devices. Nothing seriously bothered me at all because I CARED for each individual I assisted. When you care you don't even think of what may be disturbing to others. Ironically now that I need help - I have no one.

[@sallyshields6553]

Beautifully said.

[@lisaakinlabi]

@Nonya Yes but we do and that thought quickly goes and once the care is done you don't even think about it.

[@jkingston5498]

I'm sorry. I hope you find a friend or relative that can help you out!

[@BethaneyLilly]

Yes! Great reply… The world just speaks for itself. Caring for someone you love just seems so second nature and obvious to me, I mean it’s kinda just what you do for someone you love &/or care about.

[@ace6285]

How much a part of the positive experience can you attribute to the attitude of the people needing help? I cared for my mom for several years but she was impossible to satisfy, never acknowledged the effort, and although I knew I was helpful and actually necessary to her on going life, I felt inadequate and depressed. I’m glad I did what I did for her, but it was a horrible time.

[@jfxl1977]

What an amazingly honest episode! Thank you both, so much, for "putting it all out there" time, and time again. This is the nitty-gritty of what we all need to understand constitutes love. The good, the bad, and the ugly are all experiential parts of our journey as humans. Love ties it all together. You are two beautiful people that have real lessons and philosophies that help all of us!

[@kaileepaiva588]

I freaking love Shane’s humor and how quirky Hannah is. Like such a cute couple!!! As someone working in the health care field I definitely enjoy seeing an inter-abled couple enjoying married life and going through the same life adventures that any couple would. So beautiful. Thank you both for all your videos! ❤ God bless!

[@lottielane2486]

Yep. The more I see them, the more I think Shane is the ,,Able,, one. Just kidding.! Love them both.

[@starmc26]

She's getting RAILED by another dude... you know exactly what I'm saying.

[@myrthasmascary4086]

I have ibs c and that happens get ur electrolytes balance in the mean time have something like vitamins water gatorade or sparkling ice water or even some vitamin packs that u add water

[@marybrewer2203]

When you love somebody, caretaking is still gross at times, but you do it anyway, because you love them.

[@wolfgangshuman]

You do caregiving because you have to, the other persons life literally depends upon it. Not just for love. A caregivers role has to have a huge element of selflessness, the love is a bonus not a requirement. I know I’d much rather someone who loves me to look after me than not but it’s a duty to care for someone that can’t do it themselves, not love itself.

[@apriltownsend8463]

@@wolfgangshuman It actually is out of love if you're in a relationship though because that person DOESN'T have to do it if they don't want to. They could easily hire someone to come in and do the caretaking instead of Hannah where she could just simply be his wife vs both, but they don't. Hannah does it because she wants to.

[@joycedominguez1828]

@@wolfgangshuman I pretty much agree. I've been watching these two for a long time now. I give Hannah credit for care giving to the point she does. Personally I couldn't whipe a man's ass that I'm going to have sex with. I don't comprehend how they even have sex. There is no way they do. They do so darn many of these videos talking about how they're intimate that I don't believe them. Sorry it's not even possible

[@jkingston5498]

@@apriltownsend8463 exactly!

[@jkingston5498]

@@joycedominguez1828 you're wrong. If you were in love, you would do anything for that person. Anything!

[@susanwhitman3182]

My husband is a quad since having his major stroke 4 years ago. He cant walk, read, or talk. But we get along and get thru everything with the strength we give each other. Laughter really is the best medicine! We joke with each other all the time! ...He may not be able to talk, but boy do the eyes say a lot! Keep it up you two!

[@Iuckylukey]

So does he feel it if you pinch him?😄

[@markwheeler2685]

not sure how this popped up in my youtube screen list of random vids but I am so glad it did. I had never heard or seen of you and I have to tell you how much I enjoyed your honesty and straightforward answers in your video. You two are an amazing couple and I really am glad I came across it. Not sure how often you do theses but I will definitely be checking in again. The two of you make a wonderful pair. God bless.

[@greengranny3468]

I was introduced to your channel by way of KZbin shorts. I must confess I thought your relationship wasn't real. There are so much fake videos out there. I decided to sleuth it out and look into your full length videos. I'm so happy I did. I not only am convinced of your genuine relationship, I now binge watch you guys for fun. I totally love your banter. You spread a lot of joy around! Thank-you for sharing with all of us!

[@Mr.LeastLazy]

I personally cannot grasp the relationship and that speaks to my own hangups. I am so happy that love like this exists and have to admit that I'm somewhat jealous. Nothing but best wishes for the both of you. You're both amazing people.

[@ronny_dee7266]

They are a business selling Disney style relationship on social media and making bank from her beauty and his disability.

[@Just_Your_Average_Guy]

@@ronny_dee7266 That comment speaks volume about your personal worth. Non-existent. As a father of a handicapped son who is married to an able bodied woman, that is indescribably rude. A persons worth has nothing to do with their looks or abilities, but you're so shallow you probably will never understand that.

[@anarose7486]

Having a healthy relationship isn’t a Disney relationship? They’re just sharing their lives

[@ogbb2080]

Heck yeah I'm jealous. She is beautiful. And then there is me, an able bodied adult man who has never had a girlfriend.

[@ouch74]

@@anarose7486 while you maybe correct that a relationship isn't exactly a trip to Disneyland it's obvious that squirmy and grubs are only giving us the viewers a few moments of their time. For example this video we are commenting on is 15 minutes long but there is 24 hours in a day. So therefore we only see one quarter of a hour that is one 24th of a whole day illustrating the lives of these two. Their filming of themselves for 15 minutes can be naturally perceived as neat,sweet and copasetic aka disneyland.

[@terrysanders2450]

Thanks! Love, love your videos, and now your new podcast! You both brighten my day! God bless. Terry 💕

[@SquirmyandGrubs]

Thank you Terry!

[@gamingiscrucial6155]

You guys make me not wanna give up on love. There truly is someone out there for everyone. Thank you so much u are so inspiring

[@ronny_dee7266]

Are you inspired that she made millions by sitting next to disabled guy and pretends she has a great love life?

[@starmc26]

It's narcissistic, and for video/likes.... She has a man, that's not him.

[@Cub__]

@@starmc26 🤣🤣

[@nousername8818]

Questions for next Monday Grub-bag: How have you made your new wheelchair more comfortable and usable? I was under the impression you would have to go to many expensive fitting appointments to make it work better for you but that hasn't been mentioned. Just curious what changes you made to make it work better? And I know being able to get your hand on your joystick on your own was important to you- is that something you're able to do in this new wheelchair like you had hoped? If not, what adjustments could you make to make it work? I also thought you would be using your new wheelchair full time soon, so why haven't you?

[@kristinaarp9144]

The fact that you guys can laugh about the ridiculous crap (literally) that happens is pretty fantastic. Your Monday videos always crack me up!

[@swarm_me641]

The reason why they laugh is because du;MB people send them money every month

[@JMarta]

@@swarm_me641 this made me laugh

[@CozyCrime101]

@@swarm_me641 If you don't like them why are you spending your time on their page posting comments and being rude. Why not do something productive with that time?

[@chary2k]

@@CozyCrime101 it’s so funny, I just told him off in an earlier comment - he’s all over these comments, on EVERY video, it’s giving obsessed stalker. I know it’s best not to feed the trolls but it’s really annoying me today 🙄

[@rhondadavis1483]

@ Char I reported him for several of his nasty rude comments in this video and also their last video. He is def a troll.

[@robylove9190]

I think it's wonderful that you have changed the attitude of people who, at one time, were trolls on your channel. That really does make what you do very worthwhile! All of us who have loved and believed in you from the beginning are blessed to be able to share your lives.

[@gwendavis9655]

Hello You two!!! I am adult deaf. I am an inspiration. I really enjoyed to watching your video. You two were so inspiring strong & brave & talent. You two POWER, LOL… I wish you & your family a happy & safe. What a blessing on your day that announcement getting notified & also posted. Your very amazing in all your work. I know you two must be sooo proud of yourselves. You two were so BEAUTIFUL couple & good heart. Congrats on starting your something new soon can’t wait to see this next step. Take Care! 👍🏻🤟🏻❤️😀

[@swarm_me641]

Send them some money so Hanna can buy her second mansion and she can plaster on her never ending smile to make you feel inspired

[@2A-J.MAY08]

Having to take care of my dad when he had stage four cancer in his throat was the hardest thing I’ve ever been threw. Had to fed him threw a tube in his stomach and had to dress all the wounds from surgery n trake hole in his throat n he no longer can talk cuz they had to remove his larnex so it was rough. But much respect to both of u guys for loving each other and looking strong n happy as u can be

[@weisslr22]

Hannah having private concerts for herself is absolutely amazing haha. I love that you shared that with us! It’s so joyful and fun

[@hannaht9368]

So my name is Hannah,...and I used to have the same habit! Wow, so interesting. Actually I stopped a long time ago. However, singing makes you joyful and increases happiness. I need to do it again! My husband sings more than I do now, how sad I've lost my passion. We will both sing together in the car on roadtrips though. :) Thanks for sharing your life.

[@darleneklonk9128]

How wonderful is the true love I see in your relationship. So many couples do not have what you two have with each other...happiness and joy in each other's presence.

[@katelynbendinsky5080]

Even as an able-bodied married couple, I feel like we’ve had plenty of these gross moments where you just make it work! I feel like people who think this caregiving is too much of a strain wouldn’t be happy being married at all.

[@kateirish1]

You guys are a perfect couple!!!!❤ I am a caregiver and I love my job! Thank you guys for inviting so many people into your lives!!!!!💯

[@Imagine12Helix]

This is my first view of your blessed relationship. You two define LOVE and commitment. Bless you both for sharing and I look forward to future videos.

[@kathybrown8026]

Bless y’all for sharing all your q&a because it does help people to understand it is not the body that matters but the heart! I took care of my dad with ALS and it really got hard but before it did we laughed and joked about all the stuff that happened and crazy experiences that no one would understand but us. I miss him so much because he wasn’t just my daddy but my very best friend. Keep it up y’all are great!!

[@tammystapleton3131]

One of my best friends had SMA. She passed away a few months ago at the age of 62. She was one of the most positive and amazing people that I have every met. I miss her dearly. I happened across one of your videos on FaceBook not long after her death. The two of you remind me of my friend, Martha, and her husband. They were a wonderful couple. I miss her so much, but I love watching your videos because you remind me of her. I mean that as a tremendous compliment.

[@kikbtt14]

Hannah I used to get light headed so bad every morning too. Unless a doctor has told you different…. You may be super dehydrated. That is why I was nearly passing out every morning. Hope this helps. You two are an amazing example of so many positive and loving qualities. Thanks for sharing.

[@merriedger2381]

It’s amazing how ignorant people are but I love how real you two are! You make being human fun!😘

[@starmc26]

They're fake, you moron.

[@jennysmith8894]

I only recently discovered your video posts. What a gorgeous couple you are. I love Shane's sense of humour. I am so happy you found each other.

[@Sketcher93]

I love you two. Your relationship maturity rises to a level that many people can't grasp. They're always going to project their own inability to handle certain situations onto you two because that's how they would feel in that given situation. But that has nothing to do with how you two deal with things. You two know how to do the relationship thing in a superior mature way. People can only see from their own short-sightedness. In my next life I'm going to have a relationship like yours. Keep teaching 🤜🤛! (Your immersion therapy comment is a good example of how a couple that wants to make it work will choose tools instead of getting bent out of shape about it.)

[@wolfgangshuman]

The kindness, respect and logical way that these two approach their marriage is very inspiring. I love listening to their problem solving and clear communication to strengthen their relationship. Many couples could learn a thing or two by their example for sure.

[@SPIERTRAVELS]

hannah deserves a medal with what shes taken on, her caring for shane is proberly more than she thuaght at the begining of there relationship,she now knows its for the rest of her and shanes life..but she just carries on doing what she knows is expected of her,shane sounds like a really good guy and fun to be round in his company,well done to the pair of you to be on the correct wave length,takecare and many many more years ahead of you to live and enjoy each others life and company togethere 💫

[@jessicamullen1365]

It’s inspiring to see how far y’all have grown and the depth of work you’re doing for the disabled and interabled community ❤️

[@VitePapa]

How does Shane handle a "boys night out" to hang with his friends, does Hanna get to tag along or do your friends know how to accommodate your needs?

[@bsg4338]

Married men don't need a "boys night out"

[@aishas4909]

@@bsg4338 Are you saying married men shouldn't have friends? Because that's weird.

[@CZARNicholas-ht9dq]

Ones with Shitty fat wives like you do

[@hopejurgens2821]

I love you guys and how open you guys are, you guys don't sugar coat anything

[@sarahwuerfel2712]

You guys are so funny. I literally laughed so hard and literally came to tears when you described the tissue. Shane, you asked Hannah to demonstrate and then said “you don’t need to insert” I lost it. 😂 I forgot how I even stumbled onto your channel but I love you guys now. ❤

[@lisakingsley6515]

Caregiving is something you do because its needed. For someone you love. Its not easy. Its not fun. But its part of what you do if you have a heart.😊

[@pia8117]

I wanted to listen to that as a podcast while falling asleep but I can't get my eyes off Hannahs love in her eyes when she looks at Shane

[@lukeangelino2334]

People want Hannah to complain about care giving, correct me if I'm wrong Hannah, but to you it's part of Shane & your life.

[@translucentlyopaque]

Commenting before watching, but I just noticed how much nicer my Mondays have been with a regular video from you guys to look forward to. I'm glad you post these on Monday! edit: And now I'm look forward to Thursday too yay!

[@annahughes5631]

The toilet story was A-mazing!!😅 Such a open, realistic, loving relationship ❤

[@Moo2320]

hannah does look stinking stunning- haven't been in a while and you both look so healthy and glowy :)

[@jennifersanchez6816]

U guys give me so much hope. Imdisabled,alone 10 yrs.,not 1date,nobody wants a burden. I'd love to have what u have,before I die,it's beautiful.

[@carmensamone]

You know, I never understood and will never understand why people are disgusted or offended by your relationship. I've always been a person who was willing to help and be kind to those with disabilities, and it annoys me when people are rude about that. I've had friends who would think something was funny about someone in particular with a disability, and I just don't get it. So it actually makes me happy that people have reached out to apologize. Because honestly, you might be changing a lot of people's minds and they just don't reach out to admit it. I'm so glad I found your channel because even though I've always been kind, you've taught me ways to be more kind in things I didn't even think about. ❤️

[@aprilpotter3054]

Agreed. Everyone's story is different. Some differences are not as apparent as others.

[@ace6285]

The pragmatic procedure of living together supporting and appreciating one another is a level of maturity and sanity that many people achieve over time and is a huge pay off from a long marriage or relationship. You are young and practice a loving care and respect for one another that is rarely on display but exists in homes around the world. This is love.

[@rrksk]

You can not compare this level of care and unequality to a normal relationship

[@ace6285]

@@rrksk Did I say that?

[@jenniferhoag776]

Your honesty is breathtaking! Thank you for all you share, you make me feel a little better about my struggles. ☮️

[@Mojoriser]

So you two showed up in my feed today. It made me feel so good that I could understand the attraction for each other pretty quickly. It’s channels like yours that make me happy you are benefiting from KZbin. You two are just being yourselves and I love it. Can’t wait to get to know you better.

[@swarm_me641]

You'll be right at home with 14 yr old girls who think they are most perfect couple. Shes always laughing and smiling and pretending everything is sunshine and roses

[@ak2nda695]

I'm a little late to the party and honestly don't know how this showed up as a recommendation for me. I'm glad it did, you two are amazing. I'll be watching more of your videos.

[@rachaelbiggs7219]

Oh man, what a beautiful love story you two are! Thank you for sharing. xo

[@urineanimal]

Yea... um... One day reality will click for you. Not sure if you will be able to cope.

[@mir3349]

I love watching you! You are so honest, loving and above all a huge example for many. 🍀🕯️

[@cynicsquest]

Now we HAVE to hear Hannah sing! We really need this!!

[@thepositivepregnancyjourne2462]

YES!!!!!

[@barbarahade8390]

I just found your channel recently and have been so taken with both of you! What an inspiration you both are. I love you both,♥️ I have learned so much about you and your love for each other! I’m wishing you a wonderful Christmas,🎄

[@christinadennis5447]

❤ I love your real and relatable relationship and life! You embrace your unique qualities with dignity and grace. You don’t allow each others imperfections to get in the way of being as ordinary as the next couple. I love your videos! It has restored my faith in hope and love! Hannah, you are such an amazing human being! I wished more people were as open minded and loving!

[@sideshowtink]

You guy's sense of humor is amazing. I laugh all the time while watching the Monday Grub bags!

[@meghanhendley3062]

Love love love getting notified you have posted!

[@SquirmyandGrubs]

Yay! Thank you!

[@micheledelange2074]

I love you guys! The ways you describe how you connect emotionally and express your needs and desires and physical affection has inspired me to change how I approach my own relationship and try to improve our communication in different ways. I thank you for that inspiration. With that said, my question for both of you is who is someone who has been your biggest inspiration in any aspect of your life? Who has made a difference for you?

[@starmc26]

Lol... It's for views and likes

[@raquellambropoulos279]

Have you ever considered having an additional caregiver assist Shane with toileting ? Hygiene in general? As i guess it would be difficult to predict when the caregiver would need to be present for toileting unless he is pretty regular lol . I am disabled and suffer from cancer and diabetes and at times have had to have my daughter in the bathroom and my mother and grandmother not all at once they shared the experience and took turns as well as bathing and its a humbling experience. I don't think i could do that with a spouse . To be a caregiver is an act of unconditional love for sure . Not every relationship could withstand it . Its beautiful to witness the level of love you share. Its a blessing. A gift. Cherish it .

[@mahna_mahna]

Be careful about the lightheadedness, Hannah! My wife has a very similar issue, which was eventually diagnosed as vasovagal syncope. Standing up _often_ makes her blood pressure drop, and she has to bend over so her head is lower than her heart to keep from passing out. Which brings me to the "be careful" part. After dating a while, we went on a trip to visit my family for the first time. She had one of the spells as she got up, and this was before she got better at handling it. She had been sitting near the hearth on the other side of the room, looking at some of my childhood photos. She stood up, stretched and immediately took a nose dive, whacking her head on a footstool, at which point her neck went sideways. Yikes. She was okay, but she had some facial bruises after and my family definitely gave me a hard time about it (jokingly). I also got some dirty looks from cashiers (not jokingly). But seriously, her head landed just inches away from the stone hearth. Could have been really bad. So take care of yourself, Hannah, and keep an eye on it.

[@valentin4155]

the first question was so surprising, so raw and real. Not every moment is bliss , its like family, unconditional love, an inescapable prison, a perfect point of view of what a real healthy relationship is. ❤

[@Sunline2002]

Hannah is truly an amazing woman with a big heart from what I can see. I only just discovered your videos a couple of weeks ago but I'm a fan. Cheers from Australia 💯😜🤟🏻

[@aarondaniele4141]

I'm from Australia too lol

[@Robin19806]

You both are so entertaining, intelligent, funny, kind.

[@mcbbear]

I would love to hear Hannah sing a song on one of your blogs! You both are so fun to watch and I love hearing the questions that people ask and the answers that you both give.💕

[@oceanark77]

This couple is so inspiring. So happy that you two found each other. ❤

[@carolwalters6469]

For Hannah, please let your doctor know about the passing out feelings that you said happen a lot. You might have POTS, and POTS is worse if you get dehydrated (like in the morning when first getting up) also, per Dr agreement, increasing salt intake also helps. There's also neurocardiogenic syncope, NCS, which is what I have. It's very similar to POTS where your blood pressure tanks and your pulse skyrockets making you feel like your going to pass out. These are diagnosed by a tilt table test, which is not fun.

[@coconut3264]

For sure, sounds like me and I have POTS

[@katierichter5765]

My 15 year old has POTs the passing out is scary. Dr suggested to not limp salt intake

[@carolwalters6469]

@@katierichter5765 my oldest son had a period of time where he was passing out. Went thru cardiac testing to make sure he was OK and they figured it was POTS. He was put on a daily salt pill for a few years. Then he started getting a bad headache everything he took the salt pill so we weaned him off and , thankfully, he's been OK since.

[@pnwester2697]

So thankful for the doctors commenting here

[@bubbleshughes6169]

Another ddx: orthostatic hypotension?

[@marieescoto3150]

Thank you both for sharing such intimate details with us. I truly appreciate how geniune you both are AND your humor too. 💞

[@ALT0891]

Love this series! My question has 2 parts. Out of all the places you've traveled, what has been your favorite? Also, out of the places you haven't gone to, where would you love to go?

[@michelleelms9411]

You two are a breath of fresh air

[@debgibson5570]

I love your intro cartoon with Hannah being dragged behind the sheep that Shane is sitting on sitting on it's marvelous!!!!

[@wolfgangshuman]

That’s not a sheep, hahaha , it’s Chloe the dog. I love the intro too.

[@jacgrobbelaar2425]

I also liked the old one

[@shayebouvia]

Y’all are so funny. Love watching you two go back and forth. My questions are: what are your favorite colors and what are your favorite foods? Also, Hannah, you should look into POTS. Going from a laying (or seating) position to a standing position suddenly and feeling like you’re going to pass out is a big sign your body might not be regulating blood pressure properly!

[@aaronkorn]

Thank you so much, you have no idea how much it helps, sharing your life as some of us are in the same situation, in a wheelchair

[@Bampitas74psKR]

I just stumbled upon your channel and I just love how honest and funny you two are. Just love the relationship back and forth. You two are awesome!!! Keep up the great work. Loving it, I’m binge watching right now!!!!

[@Doofwarrior88]

Shane has maxed out his Charisma stats. That dude can make everyone smiling.

[@aceoftarot8069]

I think it's cause care giving good true caring giving is hard to find. It's hard to find people that see you as a full person who just needs help and respect you. Often times at least in my experience you tend to get the opposite, or those types of people are very rare and hard to find. I've been on the program to find that lets me find my own care, and I only found one person who really saw me as an independent full human being who respected my wants and needs but still put in the work every day and made my day blissful. That stuff is Sadly rare and doesn't come by very often

[@moneysports1793]

I love how you make each other laugh. It’s the main thing in a marriage. ❤️🇦🇺🙏

[@whatgenderami]

i really love shopping for office supplies-agenda books, journals, and pens are probably my top favorites. so that brings up my Monday grubbag questions: what’s your favorite office supply and why? also, if you were an office supply, which one would you be and why?

[@embeth446]

Did Hannah have anyone close in her life that questioned or disagreed with her decision to be with a disabled person? A friend, sibling, etc. If so how did she handle this? Conversely did Shane have anyone in his life that questioned Hannah or didn’t trust her?

[@annaolsen6916]

^THIS

[@swarm_me641]

Her parents broke into a happy dance once they realized they too would help Shane go to bathroom.

[@CozyCrime101]

@@swarm_me641 Are you 11? If you think your comments are funny...they. Are. NOT. They're very stupid and immature.

[@TOMS-ux4zp]

It's nice that you both can make light of the situation it is not easy for you Hannah but that's love for you!.

[@julianavarro3769]

My boyfriend has muscular dystrophy and we love to hear that we are not alone that we have those crazy moments that happen when traveling! we have to be so creative sometimes!

[@jk-bx1gz]

You guys are the best! You both are so kind hearted it's not easy but you really make lemons out of lemonade! Both of you are glowing!

[@emilytalbot9350]

Soul-stirring is the perfect word for that naked bathroom incident, thank you for sharing, I am laughing ear to ear and appreciate the realness.

[@streetmimezurich]

Regarding the stench after a bathroom with upset stomach, a trick I learned with my daughter is to instantly flush as soon as the package is dropped (and right after any subsequent package). Try it!

[@cbryce9243]

You two always bring a smile to my face.

[@xiomanaxoxoxo3212]

Its amazing he started the video by saying how pretty she looks because I was thinking the same thing when the video started so glad you addressed it! love her hair back.

[@wandarettinger5674]

The tissue twist was used on my son by my husband. He called it a "boogie drill" 😅

[@biddiemutter3481]

I don't really know why anyone would use a finger when there's such an easy, efficient alternative!

[@Sweet4Christ]

Another good way is wear a disposable vinyl glove! Works great!

[@charlottesmom]

@@biddiemutter3481 , Q Tip.....👍🏻

[@chiknlittle]

My dad calls it a nose ghost 😂

[@catrinhales6436]

UK watcher here - been viewing your videos for ages but this is my first time commenting. Just wanted to say that I love your videos, your sense of humour and your candidness! You have such a healthy, beautiful relationship - so refreshing! Keep being brilliant xxx🥰

[@moirawingate8901]

I would never ask any personal questions, as I think you are both fairly much upfront about things. I guess this must be a consequence of being popular KZbinrs. From the UK 🇬🇧

[@mikes.7654]

You are more disabled than I am and have a 10/10 whom you share a wonderful life with and who loves you fully and completely. This made me look at some real things I've been up to in a harsh, but necessary light. Thank you.

[@jessicanylander7842]

These Monday Grub Bag videos are my favorite!!

[@lauracampbell7589]

Oh my gosh I just found you guys and love you so much! I’m a nurse and have done a good bit of caregiving. I love your rapport, your transparency and your humor!! Keep it up! ❤

[@beaucowan357]

As someone with cerebral palsy I struggle to bring up that fact that I can be intimate with a someone I’m interested in romantically. Shane was it hard to bring up that subject with Hannah? And how long into the relationship did you wait to bring it up??

[@bsturc]

I also have CP. I can be intimate, but likely not in a 'traditional' way due to the nature of my CP presentation, so I am also curious about this, but from my perspective.

[@beaucowan357]

@@bsturc yep same with me . I’m interested in their answer of this question!!

[@lovethissongtouchesmyheart6001]

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[@kristisamuelson8405]

Great question. Following ❤

[@Skatejock21]

while I cant relate. I grew up with a couple of kids whose dad has cerebral palsy and what I saw with their mom is really that when the right person comes along. Though easier then said than done. Was that in general, she just loves their dad. They waited for marriage to be intimate as we are in the same religion and thats our belief and I do think that played a factor in the background. It wasn't necessary to talk about intimacy before marriage because she loved him enough that it wasn't the focus. They've been married for almost 3 decades now. I believe that sometimes when we let things happen naturally, we know better what to do in questionable situations. Somehow we just know what to say and what to expect, to assume the best in someone. Though I do still think you pose an interesting question for even those of us who cant relate because its not something we think about as much.

[@Mysimpleliving24]

If you are feeling unwell such as this in the morning where you will pass out. Please get checked for postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome. Also known as pots disease. I have been diagnosed with this and have been about 4 years now. And this is how I felt in the mornings as well. All you will need to really do is a tilt table test to diagnose it fully. Just thought this might help. Have not watched your videos much this being the first one. It's amazing how much care I see between the both of you So encouraging

[@Mysimpleliving24]

Also as seen in othercomments distomnia syndrome or however you spell it. They go hand in hand. I hate that you have to go through this with the mornings....pre syncope episodes ....I totally feel what you are going through. Daily tasks are extremely difficult at times. But your.doing great

[@richardsiviter4180]

I would like to wish you a wonderful Christmas and a happy New Year’s, love you both

[@didisalyers4460]

As a caregiver to a hubby with late stage Alzheimer’s disease I was very interested in how you clean Shane’s nose. My hubby will not allow a q tip to be used in his nose. So I am going to try the twisted tissue. I really enjoy your videos and have learned some helpful tips. My hubby is full care now. Thanks so much for educating those of us who are going thru caregiving with a sense of humor!

[@lmkays]

Question- Are you both comfortable telling each other that you need some alone time? Or do you worry about hurting each other’s feelings?

[@shannonceleste5557]

As someone who's lived with partners before, you usually just say I need some alone time or you both just kinda do your own thing

[@starmc26]

She's sleeping with no less than 5 other guys.

[@reineobermier2260]

You two work so good as a team basically combination n being able to laugh about crazy stuff that happens along the way in everyday life we should all adopt this.