INTJs Relationship with Emotions

[@jakeglumm8225]

My ENFJ girlfriend sees me as robotic. She claims she can feel emotions radiating off of everyone except from me and she described it as a 7/10 on a deal breaker scale. Im happy, smiling, and laughing 90% of the time so how am I not conveying emotion constantly?

[@Rasheens-Story]

I wish I knew I was an INTJ sooner. Now I know why it took me so long to understand what emotions are and what I was feeling all those times I did feel something, which was rarely

[@catherinerhea6336]

I find other's emotions a quandary... I watch but avoid engaging. The outbursts are red lights to me....completely illogical. When younger, I didn't understand ANY OF IT...mine nor theirs.... I was too focused on my objectives at the time to give them any consideration, except to again, avoid the outbursts altogether.... Then as now, I see outbursts as a lack of self-control. I am aware of my emotions but regulate them into the background as even my own are a distraction from my focus. Over decades within this processing loop, my management tactic has helped avoid the pitfalls I've watched others become entangled within. Equally, I do not engage things targeting an extraction of my own emotions... I have observed too many pursuing that angle only to weaponize rather than respect... Nope...not playing!!! ...💜