800 views? this video is sincerely more valuable than 80% of youtube videos. Very nice explanation on intrapersonal communication!
@RafaKalapa8 жыл бұрын
+Albert Sutanto (Aps) I was moved to read your words! As of this comment it now has about 2,500 views! Yesterday my 8-year-old was watching two kids having a food fight (hard for me on so many levels, including wasting food and time!)... and that video had over 14,000,000 views! Comments like yours help to keep me going!
@albertsutanto60038 жыл бұрын
+Alan Seid dont do it for the views. do it because you believe what youre doing is a great deed, and keep up the good work!
@RafaKalapa7 жыл бұрын
6108, one year later! :-)
@athomeinmyhead7 жыл бұрын
I love this video. A friend of mine is having trouble with interpersonal relationships, and I recommended he add learning on intrapersonal relationships to his research. I watched this and recommended it. I studied communication in college years ago, and really, this is a very informative 101 style presentation on the topic. Good job.
@nitirajdaby25548 жыл бұрын
Clarity inside = Clarity outside. Love this ! Thank you !
@RafaKalapa8 жыл бұрын
+Nitiraj Daby Thank you!!
@punidhabanuramayah82244 жыл бұрын
I want to have a black belt in communication!!! A helpful video indeed.
@RingleBarretts8 жыл бұрын
Great work, I'm showing this breakdown of interpersonal communication to high school students! Very sincere, simple, and direct.
@RafaKalapa8 жыл бұрын
+Topher Barrett Thank you! I'm glad you liked it. I'd be curious to think what your students take away from it.
@goollool46269 жыл бұрын
nice.. The idea of me looking at myself in the mirror that was nice
@lisaholloway7663 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for this video. Im school for Communications and just started my Theory and Practice course literally like yesterday this video has helped me get a jumpstart I look forward to checking out more and the link for your site for my own encouragement. Thanks Lisa
@RafaKalapa3 жыл бұрын
Wow. That is fantastic!
@fluxpistol36085 жыл бұрын
I use words & numbers 10 sad etc especially in this modern world where the person you’re communicating with cannot see you a lot of the time or doesn’t know you well enough to have a theory of mind or history of your life
@LauraGarcia-iy6ex6 жыл бұрын
Having this attitude while trying to have a person in your life is unhealthy. We all must be ourselves and bring that to our partners. Especially when we are a bit narcissistic and empathetic.. I'm learning to keep my self in check. For 2 years, and along comes the sun man and fucks it all up..how by showing me all his insecurities thru a interpersonal relationships.. I tried to get rid of this guy. But one thing he could not remember one small detail I had mentioned to him. My empathy is hugely strong to the point Of reading just not feelings and body, but the fricken mind..I had to walk away from this guy he was totally toxic.. He wanted me to see how damaged he was. When I showed him my imperfections he totally lost all worth in me. But that was not who I was. It was who I left behind. And when we spoke Of the cavern that I had fallen into from my ex. He was a bit taken aback ..I could see. I explained to him those past things and wanted to move forward, but the hole in his soul WAs so maddened with revenge. He was ugly, rude. Mean and not responsive to his own actions, nevertheless his intra relationship he had built with me. A willing partner does not do nonverbal thought. And when your so into itself u can't speak a yes or a no. Well then time to go. When u say I'm here in all ways for you to grow urself and help each other, and your rejected. Knowing its not going to that place already and you can't be honest then. Time to go. Told him all he wanted to hear and left door open. Hope he does NOT knock but if he does. I will be gentle and honest. This guy is was, will, still be, messed up for a long time. He needed help and your channel is a good place for him to be. Hopefully when he finds her that one. She will not be treated as a revenge mark AS so many this guy had before. This is not the proper way to grow. But narcissus have to learn the hard way.
@bfgower3 жыл бұрын
The link is not live: "This page isn't live yet "
@johnmanuelnarsuba77144 жыл бұрын
"How do i develop my interpersonal skills?" Anybody can help me answer this?
@Lalaland-0004 жыл бұрын
“talking to oneself is actually a skill you can enhance for specific job” can someone explain this to me????
@e.paradigm74153 жыл бұрын
Just learning about this in my Comms class, which I love because I always get lost in my own mind and learning to focus my thoughts to be able to communicate better in person but it all starts with oneself. Understand yourself and you'll see what you can work on. Personally, if I saw that guy flick his cigarette at the gas pump, I wouldn't say anything at all because I'm sure this man already knows not to do that and most likely just doesn't care, I doubt he's that stupid to not understand to not to have a cigarette near fuel pumps. Also, if a family gets blown up, I wouldn't take it as my fault for not saying anything but that man's fault for being a jackass. A better example would be me talking a buddy out of drinking and driving.
@aesthhhyyyyy51662 жыл бұрын
Are there STAGES OF INTRAPERSONAL COMMUNICATION???
@RafaKalapa2 жыл бұрын
Great question! I suppose like anything else that we get better at you could identify "stages" of improvement. But I don't know of any developmental framework for intra-personal communication based on actual research.