He was getting ready to propose and found out she was cheating that the universe telling him she ain't the one.
@fatumaahmed43042 жыл бұрын
nailed it
@addy43542 жыл бұрын
Even the universe knows, that she belongs to the streets!
@estefaniarodriguez29342 жыл бұрын
Not the universe, GOD
@juliaw75332 жыл бұрын
Getting ready to propose my arse. Love him or not I'd have dumped him after 2 years MAX. Definitely wouldn't waste 4 on someone who hadn't made his mind up yet.
@joshwaterman55262 жыл бұрын
@@juliaw7533 you would dump someone for not proposing quick enough? Wow.
@sumit554682 жыл бұрын
"cheating isn't a mistake. Its a fucking choice" And if anyone believes otherwise is a fool
@rorisang86022 жыл бұрын
Never heard more truthful words
@ginjafide35262 жыл бұрын
I am the fool 😔
@arbogast49502 жыл бұрын
Technically all mistakes are choices 🤷♂️
@tracysharp13612 жыл бұрын
That's just like a stepfather saying I accidentally got my stepdaughter pregnant! Cheating is not an accident it's a choice!
@dickhertz22772 жыл бұрын
Facts
@Dtqeel92 жыл бұрын
“I get another chick” My man
@mariorendon19822 жыл бұрын
Mah Man👍🏼!!
@miniloonaa0204 ай бұрын
Hello I'm signing
@acacius99032 жыл бұрын
The dude looks heartbroken. Don't let that happen again by keeping her.
@serenity89012 жыл бұрын
I wish women would do this also. I think it's the best thing for men and women.
@kyarl63112 жыл бұрын
Yer and the trust gone anyway from both parties so it’s dead in the water
@theokwacraft23182 жыл бұрын
KZbin gave me a survey on how I feel about your comment 😂😂
@marypruitt25192 жыл бұрын
He is a gift from God. His time for his soul mate will be soon.
@quarantinedteen54582 жыл бұрын
This is the literal definition of “God, show me a sign”
@UKYusei2 жыл бұрын
God was like *ight bet*
@keinvm2 жыл бұрын
replace god with anything else. ty
@luisauzeta91212 жыл бұрын
@@keinvm no
@joedwyer32972 жыл бұрын
@@keinvm or what😅
@h0kag362 жыл бұрын
@@keinvm There isnt anything to replace God with 😉😉😉 He is the only wether u believe in Him or not, seek Jesus he can give u peace, any hurting, depression, anger can be taken away by Him, u just got ask. God bless, be safe ☺️☺️✌️✌️✌️
@KaptainLopez2 жыл бұрын
“If she cheats, she belongs to the streets!!!”
@buffalo3692 жыл бұрын
If he cheats, he belongs in the shits. Works both ways. Gender-free.
@commonbeing93592 жыл бұрын
Same goes to men
@augen88192 жыл бұрын
@@commonbeing9359 dosent Go to men
@Aberrantly2 жыл бұрын
@@augen8819 I mean it does, it's a two-way street.
@teppopierune55202 жыл бұрын
Master oogwgay
@GodBlessedAmerica2 жыл бұрын
The only question I’d be asking her is ,”you need help packing”?
@dukenukem17182 жыл бұрын
Indeed... LMAO
@josephfreisinger14882 жыл бұрын
Lol I wouldn't even do that
@abdalaali35882 жыл бұрын
@@josephfreisinger1488 I meaaaan you wouldn’t burn her clothes?? It’s a free trip to hell for her
@aleksandarbozovic30992 жыл бұрын
No help, just send her away
@GTGT-2782 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@zoedixon52742 жыл бұрын
Cheating is never a “mistake” it’s a “mistake” that you got caught. Cheating is always a CHOICE. It’s a choice that’s not made in the second oh happens. It’s a choice that has been building up.. thought about, fantasised about, flirted with for months.. it’s never ever a “mistake or accident” It’s a clearly considered CHOICE. Never let anyone minimise it and tell you otherwise. Stepping on your toe or spilling a drink is an accident. Doing the most intimate activity two humans can do, the thing that creates life and your very existence isn’t an accident. even if the event happened the same night the two individuals met.. the thought, notion and potential has been fostering in your partners mind long before the deed takes place. Do not accept the gaslighting and minimisation or victim blaming of cheating and betrayal. The words “sorry I made a mistake” or “you neglected me, you are partly to blame” just don’t cut it. When trust and respect are gone in a relationship, you can not get it back. I’ve never re-respected anyone in my life. Even if you take them back you will forever be sleeping with one eye open and watching your back. The minute you feel the need to even check your partners phones, you can’t be with that person. Deep down already you have no trust for them. That may be a personal issue and either you shouldn’t be with anyone until you can trust or it’s just them that can’t be trusted. Either way.. it’s over. Let them go.
@ArunSharma-bc2sg2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely fucking right !
@dragonslayer71992 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I needed this. “I never re-respected anyone in my life” I’m going to carry that deeply, it came to me at the right time
@sunnychoudhary88332 жыл бұрын
Perfect...Zoe!!!
@zoedixon52742 жыл бұрын
@@dragonslayer7199 glad my words help at least one person. If you are going through this right now I send you strength, self love and healing. He/she is not for you and this is the universe’s/god/alláh (or whoever you pray to) way of showing you their true colours and removing them from your life. It’s a blessing in disguise. Live well ✌🏽🌟
@boredstuff80152 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this I needed so badly
@divineloveair37052 жыл бұрын
My personal experiences with Love...when it's true, honest to goodness Love...the thought of touching someone else is inconceivable...not possible.. absolutely, just the thought makes you nauseous...So if they cheat...It was NEVER genuine Love!
@coolbreeze12622 жыл бұрын
Waaaooo sooo soooo True !!!
@WalterModel452 жыл бұрын
100% If you are in love with a girl, she is always the prettiest and the onlyone.
@hankhill34172 жыл бұрын
Yep, but narcissists are not ever really in the relationship
@anitaazimi49202 жыл бұрын
I agree with you 110%. Every Therapist, most your friends n family will say (it was a mistake give him a chance) I never got that, how they call it a mistake?. Like you said just thought of it (being with some else) makes one nauseous. 🙌🏼
@lelouchvbritannia21682 жыл бұрын
So true that’s statement is just wow
@nothril2 жыл бұрын
When infidelity happens, leave. There is no way back to the top.
@scrappydoo78872 жыл бұрын
Spot on
@HeyIwasaValedictorian2 жыл бұрын
That's why I'll never be in another relationship. Men seemingly cannot be w just one woman. They gotta try em all! So nah, I'm out
@gabeeskridge82912 жыл бұрын
@@HeyIwasaValedictorian How does that make sense?
@nathanschmidtke59012 жыл бұрын
@@HeyIwasaValedictorian your gay men cheat half the amount women do
@joedwyer32972 жыл бұрын
@@HeyIwasaValedictorian see you later then
@pauldlubaciv28672 жыл бұрын
Being cheated on was the best thing that ever happened to me. I realized that the right girl would never do something like that.
@donnagilbert83572 жыл бұрын
Yes! No doubt, you discovered what you don’t want in a woman💯
@Jblah2 жыл бұрын
LMAO u must be a genius
@scrappydoo78872 жыл бұрын
100%
@osu330892 жыл бұрын
Every girl will in some way…just accept it
@lisanicholas24332 жыл бұрын
Most underrated comment here☝🏾
@slickperspective27452 жыл бұрын
"Oh sorry dear, it's a mistake..." Naah bruh. She actually admitted that it was a MISTAKE that you found out that she cheated on you. Sorry bruh. There are tons of gals out there who are far more better than her. Like there's an old saying, "to find a girlfriend is easy, but to find a 'wife-to-be is difficult". Good luck bruh.
@ChijiokeNnachor9 ай бұрын
Hello
@ChijiokeNnachor9 ай бұрын
Hello
@johnfairweather91882 жыл бұрын
A marriage counsellor once told me that cheaters find it easier and easier to cheat. He was right. I divorced my cheating first wife and have been with my second (faithful) wife for 27 years.
@headshot96112 жыл бұрын
Good for you
@addya40112 жыл бұрын
How long was you married for at first? If you don’t mind me asking. Just as I’ve been married for a few years and don’t have the strength to walk away
@johnfairweather91882 жыл бұрын
@@addya4011 I was with my ex for 20 years. She is an alcoholic who progressed to cheating. Our 2 sons have had nothing to do with her for 17 years. They are in their 30s and doing very well.
@tacha21132 жыл бұрын
But in the Bible God condemns divorce. You can remarry when he or she passed away. That's the Bible.
@ddc67942 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@DESOUL30032 жыл бұрын
Happened once, happening again.
@mobiloyuncu93982 жыл бұрын
Nah not always dude
@B.A.B.G.2 жыл бұрын
@@mobiloyuncu9398 But it was one time too many.
@sarathsasikumar37592 жыл бұрын
@@mobiloyuncu9398 well If dont think U will get caught, there is a good chance that it will happen again
@DESOUL30032 жыл бұрын
@@mobiloyuncu9398 always, it should never happen to begin with and you are naive if you think otherwise.
@analbeads38462 жыл бұрын
@@mobiloyuncu9398 thats exactly what a cheater would say. there are billions of women out there and a decent portion of them are loyal. why piss your life away with someone who cant even keep her legs closed to other guys while in a relationship with you? no man or woman that respects themselves and values their time are going to give a cheater a 2nd chance
@shiro99502 жыл бұрын
This brings a new pov for me. I cheated at the time I was so detached from everything I didn’t think twice about what I was doing not even in a sense of I didn’t care just totally unattached to everything. I eventually told my partner and my god the tears and cries I heard that night where heart breaking. This girl stayed and gave me a chance to prove myself to prove I’m worth the investment and risk and chance and time. I can genuinely say this girl showed me love and care when she should have ran away and for me she gave me a new outlook on things if she could stay with me after what I did then I can be a better person. I had many insecure reasons for doing what I did I won’t mention them here but she genuinely showed me love care empathy and pureness and it changed me from the inside out. I’d do what ever it took to see this girl smile. And I know I should have always known that my girl was a queen and it should never have happened but I can’t take back the past I can only show her the future. I wish people didn’t cheat I genuinely wish things where more simple and everyone was loyal and caring from the start. All I can say is I’ve changed and for the better. Could I cheat again ? Possibly who knows I guess so … but that comes down to my choices I know I’d make the right choice if ever even close to those scenarios again. Love is a choice you wake up day in day out and choose to remain in love we don’t pick when we fall in love but we do pick when we stay in love. I used the same terminology it was a mistake I’m sorry I love her etc I just don’t think there is a better way to explain things. For me my mistake was because I hurt her and I genuinely didn’t attach the two together once I saw the hurt I caused my god it hit home. We’re together but it’s not easy I made it so much harder now for selfish and scared reasons. If I just fixed things with her I’d never have went outside for help that’s on me and it’s my fault. There was issues from both ends but she stayed loyal I’m the idiot who made the choice to do what I did regardless of reason. Just don’t do it guys and girls it’s not worth it. Fix what you have or leave and no one gets hurt. I still see the damage I caused 2 years on it sucks that I’ve did this to her so please be better and don’t do what I did. If I eventually lose her then I know it’s my own fault she deserves happiness and I stole it from her. I just hope she can find it in me once more because I know I won’t let her down again
@joymbiu79172 жыл бұрын
This is the most honest comment I have ever seen. I'm happy you are fixing it. She stayed because she loves you. To hear there's no end, she sees you as the one. If you really love her, you'll stop thinking about cheating on her or breaking up. Can't you see, she stayed, she wants you. Understand this and take care of her. If you are truly considering a break up in the future then stop wasting her time. If you cheat on her, you'll break her God you'll hurt her worse
@shiro99502 жыл бұрын
@@joymbiu7917 I would never ever hurt her again my friend. I have seen what it does to innocent people and they don’t deserve it. Now is my chance to show her I am the man she dreamt I was when she met me
@joymbiu79172 жыл бұрын
@@shiro9950 alright, that's very good. She might never forget what happened. But your actions will either cover her insecurities or make them worse. Love her back, pamper her, treat her well.
@TeaCup1940 Жыл бұрын
And are you still not married to her? Then you are still living in sin...
@shiro9950 Жыл бұрын
@@TeaCup1940 can’t afford marriage right now my friend have kids and a house to pay for whole the cost of living is increasing
@begrateful61532 жыл бұрын
Bro, that’s the best thing that EVER happened to you! You dodged a marriage, kids, shared bank accounts, and splitting a home / family with this unfaithful chick! You dodged a bullet! Buy her some roses and say THANKS & now GO!
@whoisthis40522 жыл бұрын
Couldn't say it any better 🎤
@sam-wm2dd2 жыл бұрын
Yeah but still 4 years wasted
@thespectators68992 жыл бұрын
@sam quite unfortunate but yeah still dodged a big bullet. 4 years is nothing if it means that you find someone loyal true love bro. GGs
@pagielicious2 жыл бұрын
@@sam-wm2dd Those years are not wasted if he learned valuable lessons.
@kokolatte8252 жыл бұрын
@@sam-wm2dd time is not wasted. Think of the lifetime he saved by NOT marrying a cheater. When people think like you they stay in relationships that are going nowhere.
@sf-rf5mj2 жыл бұрын
People have problems in their life Americans: Let's go to a talk show
@Jblah2 жыл бұрын
LMAO best comment here
@elsablue36462 жыл бұрын
Yea Steve is a great therapist
@XhenajMalo99452 жыл бұрын
Ahahahahahah 😂😂
@scottiegang22362 жыл бұрын
@@elsablue3646 nope
@elsablue36462 жыл бұрын
@@scottiegang2236 I was being sarcastic 🌝
@Layer672 жыл бұрын
Harvey would know, all about cheating on his “wives”
@skyyyybb2 жыл бұрын
It’s funny because the men who seem the most aware and different like Steve Harvey tend to have the worst secrets hidden.
@mc-eo1wh Жыл бұрын
I was thinking about the same thing. No wonder they left him. But he also preached in one of his own programs that men change. What made him change for Marjorie and be loyal to her that his previous 2 wives couldn't do?? I'm curious
@madiha.g2 жыл бұрын
I can see a lot of pain in his eyes, hope he finds someone loyal
@aaronharman54312 жыл бұрын
He won’t as he’s clearly a pushover
@stefbaws2 жыл бұрын
He better find himself the gym and the redpill b4 he gets burned again
@chaitanyagupta66682 жыл бұрын
@@aaronharman5431 wow a mentalist. Care to back up any of the bs you spouted?
@aryavart2962 жыл бұрын
@@aaronharman5431 How do you know, Have you met him?
@Capybaraism Жыл бұрын
It’s over
@afrobryan2 жыл бұрын
Its crazy that this is even a question. Damm value yourself man!!!
@jaquicx95002 жыл бұрын
But thats hard 😅
@stevenrandall83002 жыл бұрын
I bet he married her too. Guys who have to ask are already doomed
@afrobryan2 жыл бұрын
@@stevenrandall8300 yes, exactly. He making every excuse for her. That boy convincing himself of making bad life choices.
@Yenaldooshi1382 жыл бұрын
That my friend is what you call a beta make cuck so unsure of himself, with such low self respect he’s out there to destroy his own damn self
@paulmcfeeters55542 жыл бұрын
He is a total simp. If she cheats then she is back on the streets that same day. She came from the streets and to the streets she will always return.
@lianking56652 жыл бұрын
I just got confused with that " beginning to the end" thing.. hows that make any fucking difference 🙃🙃🙃
@letgo_ofyourpast2 жыл бұрын
Means she started being faithful and never cheat again. Or She might remain as cheater throughout the relationship and there's no end of cheating.
@debrasmith47582 жыл бұрын
She not the one
@kratosrodriques40172 жыл бұрын
It's hard to tell your self that when your in love man but your 100% right
@plamoretti6732 жыл бұрын
The thing is that Steve told a woman to forgive her man for cheating in another clip. He told her to forgive his mistake and that men can change. 🙄
@ASAPJermz2 жыл бұрын
"She's for the streets"
@filip95642 жыл бұрын
@@plamoretti673 well he isnt the smartest guy... When it comes to cheating NEVER get back with them, the gender of the persons dosent matter
@dtothebtotheh2 жыл бұрын
Just walk, I wasted 4 years of my 20’s on a girl that was cheating on me the whole time. Wish I walked after the first red flag
@tintocherian77152 жыл бұрын
Very common unfortunately
@CreatedByNoriElan2 жыл бұрын
What was the first red flag?
@jimmyballs56622 жыл бұрын
What was the the red flag?
@BadMannerKorea2 жыл бұрын
@@CreatedByNoriElan Probably gradually easing into cheating in some way.
@ashantiscoot2 жыл бұрын
5 years for me
@mynaturalneeds2 жыл бұрын
She deserved better also. It took him 4 years to ask that question hmm they both needed to break up b4 this anyway.
@tyasiamillender281710 ай бұрын
Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..
@JohnDunn-ic5gd10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤ Hello
@BilogunAkpojotor10 ай бұрын
Hi
@Ameliacharles29 ай бұрын
I’m looking for a serious relationship
@itsluckzy20232 жыл бұрын
i dont get cheating, you have the free will to end the relationship and then do whatever and it's not cheating, it tells me they dont really care they just want to be with you for ur stuff
@a564-c3q2 жыл бұрын
Yea, cheating is really as low as it gets.
@shanelewis5302 жыл бұрын
It’s the fear of being alone. People that cheat usually are narcissist wanting validation but are afraid to end current relationship because they fear the ability to be alone.
@egusisoup18262 жыл бұрын
Well 25% do it. Ask them
@bostonbladereviews9192 жыл бұрын
Well it’s more to it . It could be a abundance of things.. I’m not saying it’s right, because it’s most certainly NOT. But people cheat rather than break up.. because they either still may want you, but are testing the waters. And are not sure . 2. They are CHEATERS.. Meaning that’s what they do and think it’s ok. Or just don’t care. 3 have been in the relationship or marriage for an extended time- and don’t know how to end it / or are scared to end it. 4 may be other reasons … ALTHOUGH cheating is wrong either way!
@celissewillis93992 жыл бұрын
I think what everyone needs to understand is cheating is NEVER a “mistake”. It’s not an isolated occurrence; it isn’t accidental, it’s a SERIES of CHOICES. A choice to hide, a choice to lie, a choice to lie about hiding, a choice to hide texts & calls over a period of time… & how often are those choices being made, leading up to the physical act of meeting up, buying condoms, getting a hotel room, getting undressed with the person & exchanging bodily fluids, etc. etc. those are all individual CHOICES. it wasn’t just cheating & “that’s it”… you didn’t “just” meet someone & hop into bed with them; you made conscious decisions along the way leading up to the act. People need to not be afraid to speak their truth when it comes to their boundaries within a relationship. If your boundaries don’t work for that one person, then don’t get caught up in lowering them for that person. Go find someone who will respect them & have complementary boundaries themselves, where you can feel safe in trusting this person with your mind & your heart. Cheating should be nonnegotiable in every relationship, because regardless of whether it’s a committed relationship or a marriage, you’re still committing your time, your energy & your body to that ONE person & trusting them with it. Not including your mental & emotional well-being, as someone who truly & genuinely loves & cares about you, will NOT jeopardize those things for anything or anyone. If for some reason the relationship doesn’t end up working, you just be honest with each other and go your separate ways if you’re no longer compatible. Breaking up may be hard to do as the song goes, but it’s a lot better to end something that’s already heading towards a dead end, instead of trying to drag a dead horse to water. You know there’s no amount of shoveling water into the horses’ mouth, that’s going to revive it. So If you don’t want to be commuted, then be single. This isn’t complicated. If y’all don’t have honesty between each other & the ability to have MATURE communication, conflict/resolution, then MOVE ON. I think he needs to get a refund on that engagement ring, if he hasn’t already & realize he dodged a bullet. He’s a good looking guy, obviously values lifelong commitment & seems like a really sweet, good hearted guy too. He’ll find a good girl.
@LarennPBel2 жыл бұрын
👍🏾👍🏾🥰🥰 I love the way u worded it
@walkingbyfaith28852 жыл бұрын
WOW!! Write a Whole Book PERIOD!! BLESSINGS TO YOU 💯
@mindless143dl2 жыл бұрын
this brought me to tears. you put it exactly how it is. i’m trapped in a relationship where he constantly cheated on me and he now swears he will never do it again. i just can’t forgive him for lieing to me for years and watching me be pregnant and still blaming me for his infidelity. i hate him but i love him. when he says he loves me i can’t help but say i love you back.
@Skullpimp2 жыл бұрын
@@mindless143dl wow ,that's really rough...but if you stay..it's just guarantees more rough roads ahead...best to find a new path..and maybe at least have a chance to find your destiny..
@kenorsha3712 жыл бұрын
This is best relationship advice I have ever read! Thank you!!!
@moontears38872 жыл бұрын
Relationships are complex, sometimes the person can actually change for the better and that can make the union stronger. The old relationship dies so that a new one can take its place.
@telissahwilliams14182 жыл бұрын
That is true. Anything is possible with faith in God
@Elross_ Жыл бұрын
Keep thinking like that simp
@mazisky1004 ай бұрын
Shaarrraaap
@karenlhernandez21822 жыл бұрын
Better to "waste" 4 years than the rest of your life!!! Trust is gone, and so will your peace of mind if you stay. Good luck!
@catherineca98912 жыл бұрын
💯
@luffyd91612 жыл бұрын
Love this comment section, everyone's giving solid advice and being respectful without any aggresive or hate comments 👏👏
@1andonlySUPAFLY2 жыл бұрын
Until I entered the comment section 👀 "F°CK THAT CHEATING HOOOOOOOOOOE" 😂😂😂
@canadiantoque2292 жыл бұрын
Getting life advice from Steve Harvey is like getting cooking advice from Jeffrey Dahmer
@tc_obichang2 жыл бұрын
My grand uncle on my father’s side always gave me solid advice growing up, however at times they came from a period of uncertainty, i.e. world war 2 era, like you have to eat fast or else the enemy will attack you during your meal. But one piece of advice that always stuck out was that when you’re dating, you have to show the other person the front door and the back door. The implications of such is the other person has to know that just as easily you welcomed them to your home, which also is your heart, that there’s an exit if they choose to leave or if they are unfaithful you can escort them out. Life is too short wasting it on people who don’t genuinely care and I’ve learned(the hard way) that love should be free from constraints, but intimacy has a price. He was a great man and an actual captain of the high seas in the Mariana’s. Rest In Peace Capt
@Janeshwar092 жыл бұрын
Needed to hear this..
@exmrsnowwomanscorned83692 жыл бұрын
Wowq..great advice
@thedalillama2 жыл бұрын
If he advised you to show someone the back door, I'm guessing he was in the Navy.
@mrj.skunkwerx76342 жыл бұрын
@@thedalillama boom roasted 🤣🤣
@jamesmalcolm69762 жыл бұрын
Intimacy has a price. That alone captures the essence of everything stated.
@csgotimepass53582 жыл бұрын
Damn everyone sharing their stories of being cheated makes me feel at ease after being cheated on. 😞 It's like you are not alone.
@goodlife13022 жыл бұрын
How are you now?
@oneeyedmonster94602 жыл бұрын
That's why I nail em and leave. Most of the women I nail are in relationships. The best kind, no strings attached, hit and run.
@sammy0807982 жыл бұрын
In 3 or 4 years his ex will be asking, "where are all the good guys at?"
@janetbenning26452 жыл бұрын
Once a cheater..always a cheater. Hes lucky he found out before he married her.
@kimberlyjennings6182 жыл бұрын
Not always, God can change someone’s heart. Look up Joe Beam, he once did a lot of bad things but he repented and now him and his wife have been remarried for a longgg time and have a non profit to save marriages in trouble
@mobiloyuncu93982 жыл бұрын
No there is not once a cheater always a cheater people can change their behaviour
@vynongaming5532 жыл бұрын
@@mobiloyuncu9398 very rare tho!
@dy76602 жыл бұрын
@@vynongaming553 very
@johhnyboiii60152 жыл бұрын
If you know what are you doing then its not a mistake😤
@jedidiaharmah70772 жыл бұрын
I totally agree he should let her go but this comment section has taught me men don’t forgive cheating as women do so lesson to self never forgive a man’s cheating.
@chrissosa37232 жыл бұрын
Im honestly surprised a lot of women forgive cheating, a man will only forgive cheating in two situations: 1. He's extremely gullible or 2. They're married with kids and he *has* to stay to protect the kids. Don't get me wrong, you can forgive if that's what you want but cut him/her loose and save yourself the trouble & time
@Sarablueunicorn2 жыл бұрын
@@chrissosa3723 3rd: He doesn't think he can do better. 4th: he is cheating too
@digiac40272 жыл бұрын
Never forgive a cheater in general. Cheaters will cheat again. They don't change. Gender has nothing to do with it
@juliodominguez24902 жыл бұрын
Well, the comment section sees the man heartbroken, not a women. It's not all about yall hun
@divinestrength17742 жыл бұрын
Women only forgive cheating after they’ve went out and equalized it.
@spookyghost63942 жыл бұрын
"it's either the beginning of the end or the end of the beginning" *"Well yeah duh but what do I do"*
@dollyjohnson58482 жыл бұрын
Just heal first and be true to yourself
@farhadmalik55932 жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine the pain he is in, how will he trust someone again with a full heart, I am sorry for him, please don’t break hearts because it’s the only place if clean and pure, where The Almighty God lives within us, just be loyal , loving and always be part of the soul of your significant other, life is too short to fulfill the wishes, so why not live by being humble and honest with the loved ones, what else or more can we ask for?
@javeriamasood33282 жыл бұрын
Just for a second imagine when women have to go through when alot of men these days are involved in extra marital relationships. You can deny the fact that percentage of men cheating on their wives is far more than vice versa. I am not justifying cheating by that girl but i am just saying men have to have taste of their own medication.
@farhadmalik55932 жыл бұрын
@@javeriamasood3328 You seem biased, if you read above carefully than you might understand the fact that I am not defending any gender in such situation , just sympathizing for that man, ,and I would have done the same for a woman, and you definitely need to see the percentage of women cheating on men these days, 80% of the women are chasing men with money but not for their loyalty and humanity, than how can you expect positive results when your own intentions are not right, you have no idea that what kind of mental pressure do men have to bear these days. Very true words said but someone that” women and children are loved unconditionally but a man is loved for being a provider”
@arminius65062 жыл бұрын
@@javeriamasood3328 so we're all Pakistanis here discussing Gora's problem. Let me tell you something, girls cheat more than men and this is a fact, even if you take the example of Pakistan you'll see men who get a lot of girls and tell every girl that he's with her but everyone knows he's just screwing around with them, yeah in this case boys outnumber the girls. But when it comes to cheating in a stable, working relationship or marriage it's the girl who outnumber men by a mile and funny thing is that most of them doesn't even regret it. Note : Pakistan I'm talking about is cities like Karachi, Lahore, Islamabad, Gujranwala and etc.
@arminius65062 жыл бұрын
@@farhadmalik5593 It's perfectly okay for a girl to chase a man with money, it's built in our (human) evolution. Evolution has made sure that girl would pick a man who can take care of their offsprings in the future. Problem arises when we can't control our instinct.
@jimmyrustleberg56462 жыл бұрын
"this is either beginning of the end or the end of the beginning" Millennials: wow, so deep
@moniquebrown44852 жыл бұрын
Because what?! 👁👄👁
@Bwahahaaa2 жыл бұрын
Yeah that quote was super shit.
@alexconfidence23542 жыл бұрын
😂
@rebeccachard58542 жыл бұрын
Yes I had to think about it and still don’t understand lol 😂😱🤪
@Aphrodite012 жыл бұрын
It’s odd he advises men to leave when their partner cheats but tells women to forgive and he can change…
@mtell6202 жыл бұрын
Women seek men for different reasons than men seek women. I've never met a woman who respects her partner and cheats on him.
@SisterKnight2 жыл бұрын
He himself has cheated a bunch 🙄
@poliscileahguzman60842 жыл бұрын
@@mtell620 no one who cheats on their partner respects them.
@ohka7612 жыл бұрын
@@mtell620 stop feeding people this bs, its just as bad if a man cheats no matter the reason 🤨
@Aphrodite012 жыл бұрын
@@mtell620 if you cheat on your partner, regardless of gender you do not respect them. Stop trying to convince yourself and others that it is appropriate to cheat on and harm women. That’s wrong. If a man cheats, breakup/divorce him. Do not forgive and forget. You will never be able to trust him again.
@debrasmith47582 жыл бұрын
You seem to be a very honest respectful person move on the right woman will come
@cecea6652 жыл бұрын
Based on what … wasting 4 yrs of her life and being shocked that she was moving on
@chaitanyagupta66682 жыл бұрын
@@cecea665
@toncrook55592 жыл бұрын
A relationship with no trust is like a car with no gas; it won't go anywhere
@jpop52422 жыл бұрын
It wasn’t the first or only time it was the first time you caught her if I was truly in love I couldn’t cheat leave man don’t be dumb they don’t change we just wanna believe
@stefbaws2 жыл бұрын
If he needs to go to live TV asking Steven for advice, he's already in scarcity mindset
@jpop52422 жыл бұрын
@@stefbaws seriously it’s so sad men let wonder do this to them embarrassing himself when it’s so obvious 🤦♂️ I feel bad not even making fun of buddu
@DaughtersofLilith522 жыл бұрын
Lol Steve Harvey's talking big when he was the one cheating
@Mercedes-f7x2 жыл бұрын
But he changed his ways. So who cares
@ltcam25002 жыл бұрын
Lol! I know.. u can change tho. Unfortunately you already have this stigma on yourself that follow you for decades.. consistency is the key never detour again and practice that pattern on someone who don’t know your past. That’s how you start over the right way.
@DaughtersofLilith522 жыл бұрын
@@ltcam2500 he didn’t say ppl can change he said trash her
@phetogomoteane39672 жыл бұрын
He might have been doing the same thing, but he’s advice on the matter is dead right.
@queenchiomaofficial2 жыл бұрын
@@Mercedes-f7x What? 😂So if Steve Harvey can change then maybe this guys girlfriend can change too. So it would have been nice for him to say that people can change. Not just saying leave her.
@BS-dq1kz2 жыл бұрын
Did Steve just tell him to “get another chik”? I mean, I agree. However, I just saw a video earlier of Steve and his wife discussing the time he was caught talking to another woman on the phone(lead you to believe he wasn’t faithful to her). His wife packed her suitcase and at 3 a.m. tried walking out of the house. Steve then professed his love to her by breaking his phone. So she stayed and they’re supposedly happy now. So, my point is, if Steve deserved a second chance then why wouldn’t he suggest this fella here stay and maybe give his woman a second chance?
@emeliefernandez58722 жыл бұрын
Duh cheating is a choice. Mistake?nah it ddnt happen like your just walking outside and it's just happen.
@emilykathleenn2 жыл бұрын
So sad when decent men ( which are rare) waste time on a woman who is cheating how sad
@lizeliminate42682 жыл бұрын
It is a great blessing for me to recover my broken marriage. marriage to normal and return happiness again many thanks to you #dralieaotor
@marethahoneyb15412 жыл бұрын
What about him told you he was a decent man? his sad face?
@chaitanyagupta66682 жыл бұрын
@@marethahoneyb1541 what tells you the opposite?
@farfetched92962 жыл бұрын
Cheating is a CHOICE NOT A MISTAKE. Just move on don't look back. This too shall pass and you have options remember how many ppl you past on a daily.
@JohnDunn-ic5gd10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ Hello
@emmafagan2 жыл бұрын
Different energy when it’s the man that cheats 🤣
@SA-ju5rn2 жыл бұрын
To be fucking honest !!! They’ll be hyping each other up for being a dog but let a woman do it and she’s shunned 😂 hypocrisy
@classysis62642 жыл бұрын
Indeed. This comment section would have been filled with « forgive him, or you’ll go to another cheater etc… » it’s just once, chill etc…. The hypocrisy is even reflected in the number of likes your comment has received compared to the other ones.
@tigerslick11112 жыл бұрын
You are right, they crucify him
@Dev-qs2yb2 жыл бұрын
Dafuq? I've never seen this happening but seen majority of y'all women on tiktoks admitting cheating and other women in the comments be like "You go queen", " You deserve better ", etc if you're misandrist just say that!
@TeFloNDoT2 жыл бұрын
I’m a guy and I agree! Dudes do it and want women to forgive them but if a female does it it’s the end of the world
@ifitjigglesitsfat012 жыл бұрын
The fact that he didn't leave her and instead asked what he should do says it all...that he loves soymilk. C'mon maaaaan!!!
@ASH_ketchum_992 жыл бұрын
😂
@E.j.Robinson Жыл бұрын
Cheating is my deal breaker. There is no going back. Love maybe complicated but love can't let you cheat, if you love your partneryou just can't do it with another.
@lucydoll940510 ай бұрын
Am single looking far a serious relationship with a honest person ❤
@linru30932 жыл бұрын
Together for 16 year's with my hubby, but if either one of us would cheat.. Game over.. Trust would be gone.. You just can't say, I love you to your partner, after you cheated. your love is just BS than.
@Rozannna2 жыл бұрын
Well said.👏🏽👏🏽
@m.s91462 жыл бұрын
You are married, they were dating. Not certain it’s quite the same.
@linru30932 жыл бұрын
A committed relationship is committed relationship. married or not and cheating is cheating.
@jimmyballs56622 жыл бұрын
@@m.s9146 what you’ve just said is -It makes more sense to lie in this committed relationship -just because you haven’t been before a priest it makes it more okay
@blue4u20542 жыл бұрын
@@m.s9146 They weren’t just casually dating for a few days/weeks. It got serious enough that he was ready to propose. She is a cheater.
@melvintate81862 жыл бұрын
Let her go once a cheater always a cheater, that come from my experience and God bless you!!
@nikitaojha18092 жыл бұрын
Its easy to say someone who already been through this situation. But tough for someone who is going through all this . It takes time, and time heals everything
@JohnSmith-ww3sp4 ай бұрын
Hello dear 😊
@TheSchirinstone2 жыл бұрын
Steve, last time, same scenario, genders were reversed, you recommended to hush it out, and stay together. Interesting!
@datura_boof2 жыл бұрын
Cheating is not the same at all for men and women.
@rebeccafeza2432 жыл бұрын
@@datura_boofyes it is 🤡
@datura_boof2 жыл бұрын
@@rebeccafeza243 it is literally not. Not going to argue it with you. I'm not saying it's right either way, but it is completely different
@rebeccafeza2432 жыл бұрын
@@datura_boof no it's not different 🥴😂
@TheSchirinstone2 жыл бұрын
@@datura_boof 😂!!!
@ahadsajid71162 жыл бұрын
My dad told me and my brother when we were teenagers and I got my heart broken due to similar circumstances, that “If a person you care about can hurt you like that once, they can definitely do it again. It’s up to you to decide whether you feel like taking a risk and being content with being hurt again”. It sit with me and my brother to this day.
@thomassellers38132 жыл бұрын
And he was telling you truth from his heart!!
@PookiieDhaFam32 жыл бұрын
Awwwww I wish I had my dad to tell me how to cope with heart break
@ChocoRon2 жыл бұрын
"Its her choice." ~Neha Dhupia
@saniketbhosle33902 жыл бұрын
Aare bhai bhai bhai...😂
@AlAhmed942 жыл бұрын
It’s a lose lose for you stay and lose her respect leave and watch her play victim to anyone who cares to listen and believe. Your sanity is at the line at this point
@jstacey28752 жыл бұрын
Man that’s some bad as advice from the so called expert….
@qutielove22082 жыл бұрын
He never gave advice. He made a statement based on what he told his clients.
@rosmawatiramli2 жыл бұрын
4 years waitung ig my god why take so long. ur mistake
@helenarichard2 жыл бұрын
The psychiatrist: "it could be the end of the beginning" The talkshow guy who has had ten wives or so: "get another chick"
@JB-hj3xj2 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@hsoldacct29052 жыл бұрын
So annoying man. They have no use really. Unless they can give practical advice.
@nikkifranklin27372 жыл бұрын
Love this because it happened in my relationship, he forgave me, he is now my husband and we’ve been married 7 years now. It was the end of who we were and the beginning of a “real” loving relationship.
@KAYDE32 жыл бұрын
@@nikkifranklin2737 bruh wtf
@raypatson87752 жыл бұрын
Get another chick is better advice
@eliezerarce46992 жыл бұрын
Dump her and don’t look back. This is a blessing in disguise. Imagine her cheating on him if they were married with kids…
@chloea39642 жыл бұрын
People need to understand the definitions of the words “mistake” and “love”
@jamesrichardson632 жыл бұрын
He said “she was cheating”… meaning more than once. Get rid of her… now.
@lucydoll940510 ай бұрын
Am single looking far a serious relationship with a honest person ❤
@archangelmichael86202 жыл бұрын
Be a man, have some resilience towards yourself and simply turn around and walk away. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel. Grow some balls and be rational over your emotional stupid moments. Wait 6 months reflect and say to yourself “ I feel much better now” positive thoughts is your friend.
@Person-mh6xq2 жыл бұрын
“Grow some balls?” Lousy advice.
@archangelmichael86202 жыл бұрын
@@Person-mh6xq Sounds like a personal problem
@kyleparker7332 жыл бұрын
Relationship advice coming from someone who was already with someone else b4 he was divorced....twice. 🤔🤦🤷
@Coecoebrown2 жыл бұрын
4 years and you’re barely about to propose? Bruh you knew she wasn’t the one ANYWAY!
@emmadiri71892 жыл бұрын
@The Better than you Crew lmao do you need a life time ? 🤣
@emmadiri71892 жыл бұрын
He was probs gonna settle for her before he found out she was cheating. Feel bad for him but I believe he knew she wasn’t the one
@lucydoll940510 ай бұрын
Am single looking far a serious relationship with a honest person ❤
@maheen22482 жыл бұрын
He’s so cute and looks sweet :( why are people so evil
@SA-ju5rn2 жыл бұрын
He could’ve been horrible af to her but if he was good and treated her good, respected her, spent time w her, offered her emotional safety and she still cheated then that’s fucked up but if he was trash and now he’s playing victim well…. Cry ab it lol
@Pagalchhagal2 жыл бұрын
@@SA-ju5rn you even know what 'cheating' is? That's different from breaking off with someone who might've been horrible to you
@SA-ju5rn2 жыл бұрын
@@Pagalchhagal people tend to merge the two together. A dude will know he’s being horrible to a woman and act shocked when she breaks it off to either spend time alone or she eventually find someone some guys will still call it cheating. In a beautiful relationship where there’s no problems and someone cheats.. I think that’s a bit more cold hearted
@Pagalchhagal2 жыл бұрын
@@SA-ju5rn a woman can be horrible to the man as well and that's what compels her to cheat as part of her abusive behaviour. You're obviously imposing your own made up idea on this particular video. It says the woman still wants to apologize and work things out, not break it off for whatever reason
@SA-ju5rn2 жыл бұрын
@@Pagalchhagal regardless I feel men are so used to being able to do whatever they want and expect to be forgiven. When women match their energy they cry ab it lol
@SacredKaw2 жыл бұрын
I did this to my wife. She forgave me and I’m so grateful she did. We went on to have a great marriage for 29 years. She was my best friend.
@frankable6442 жыл бұрын
What happened giving a second chance or monitoring her But I believe men won't forget anyway Better move on because men easily can't forget
@renebrown73942 жыл бұрын
Women don’t either they are put in this situation
@702twhite2 жыл бұрын
Once a cheater, always a cheater. There’s no “mistake” that big that can be fixed within a relationship. There’s no more trust at that point
@rickyfrazier33272 жыл бұрын
I agree
@PhilippJCaesar2 жыл бұрын
Man up son !!!! Get a new girl and express !!!!
@janietram2 жыл бұрын
I have a feeling he will find out the hard way
@jhershy13812 жыл бұрын
Its the first time for sure !, the first time he caught her Run away never look back. How can ya have sed with someone by accident.
@lilianna98722 жыл бұрын
My advice: Move out & move on without a notice!
@engineergirl68692 жыл бұрын
My church counselors told me “you can stay and accept him, but he won’t stop cheating. He will just realize that won’t make you leave. And he will keep doing it more. They don’t stop”. Every counselor has pretty much said the same. I. Their experience they won’t stop cheating. You allow the line to be drawn there and they will gladly stay and keep stepping on it.
@larrylamb34802 жыл бұрын
The cheater will lose some respect for you staying ! Problems rise up in any marriage and if she got away with it the first time ,then it will be easier for her the second time ! Love is respect ,not causing pain for your partner ! Move on !
@whoisthis40522 жыл бұрын
He has to fire her from his company, you don't work for me anymore, you have a new employer, that other guy pays you more and I as a respectable President of my company you are fired ( My Donald Trump voices) 😏
@arbedreka2 жыл бұрын
Go FIND.....THE "RIGHT" ONE....cause she aint it!!!! RUN....ONCE A CHEATER.....ALWAYS A CHEATER.
@davidedbrooke93242 жыл бұрын
Cheat once, end it!!!
@lucydoll940510 ай бұрын
Am single looking far a serious relationship with a honest person ❤
@halisthebestperson14002 жыл бұрын
but if a man does it, it's okay Steve? really?!
@kidoman79882 жыл бұрын
Nope not ok
@halisthebestperson14002 жыл бұрын
@@kidoman7988 Steve said in a video that men change but when a woman does it it's wrong?
@nomalie2 жыл бұрын
Steve is a narcissistic idiot He cheated on his ex wife with his current wife, I guess it's okay if you're a cheating man??? I've also seen videos of him encouraging women to continue giving their cheating spouses second chances As a woman, I would give the same advice regardless if you're a man or woman. If someone cheats on you, game over. No hate or resentment, but just value yourself enough in that, if you're looking for loyalty and commitment, and provide that to the other person, don't cheat yourself by sticking around who won't respect the type of relationship you're trying to create in your life. End of story.
@janjoy97592 жыл бұрын
Yup! Isn't that sick!? That's the message he's sending out to men and women
@polorie2 жыл бұрын
Cheating is a mistake if: 1) you got caught 2) you didn't get what you had hoped from cheating
@tawnnope71962 жыл бұрын
RUNNNNNNNNNN SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU !!!!!
@psychdoc62872 жыл бұрын
see - the kind of girl this man wants is someone with the integrity to end the relationship or be honest in the relationship before she looks around for someone else. most people just cheat and then lie and then devastate the other person and rip out their soul. BE someone who would never do this because of who YOU are. imagine your perfect partner and then BECOME that person.
@plucas93242 жыл бұрын
Does it feel at all odd to you that you call this person a man, not a boy, and yet you call the person he was dating a girl, not a woman?
@BtsJungkook-uj3xx9 ай бұрын
Hello pretty can you ge me a chance
@undergroundgoat47172 жыл бұрын
There's no come back from your girl getting smashed.. 🤷🤷
@focusedallday56202 жыл бұрын
lol this is a perfect representation of how men have lost all common sense in dating. He’s on a show asking a guy that is known as a simp if he should leave his cheating girl. The answer is yes. She might love you, but she definitely doesn’t respect you. With women it’s all about respect. Stay Focused!
@whoisthis40522 жыл бұрын
Couldn't say it any better, why you on this clown show talking about this, unless you getting paid to act, no way I'm going to the media to talk about a woman, I'm cutting ties with 🤦
@tabbzable2 жыл бұрын
“I’d get another chic” Yeah💯.
@michaelt3342 жыл бұрын
If she cheats and you forgive her and accept it , surely she will do it again .
@lucydoll940510 ай бұрын
Am single looking far a serious relationship with a honest person ❤
@SamanthaBecker-ji2qf8 ай бұрын
I divorced my husband some years ago because he was cheating on me and I don’t ever cheat on him anymore for many years we’ve been together
@josephfreisinger14882 жыл бұрын
Move on man she belongs to the streets because if she truly loves you than she wouldn't be cheating 💯
@diesel43382 жыл бұрын
Go get another one 7 yo my first love cheating on me that never happens again cause i dump her never do nothing with her after that to me its the end that kill me as hell but i will never accept a girls cheating i know what love is cause i learn from respecting me loving myself no one can do me this never ever 🔥👊🔥 you deserve better
@celiepalma30852 жыл бұрын
Cheaters is cheaters looking to someone else and must know she first 😡😡😡😡😡😱😡😡😡😡😡😡💯
@sandraestraume98352 жыл бұрын
She'll do it again you're just scared to fall back on
@veronicaherrera64702 жыл бұрын
Steve said “this could be a mistake but how?” And basically said leave her but in the (once a cheater always a cheater video on KZbin he said men can make mistakes and change 🥱 when it comes to men cheating all of a sudden they can make mistakes lol
@demonizedhuman9412 жыл бұрын
U literally take an advice from Steve Harvey srs?
@Hautenani2 жыл бұрын
Exactly and he cheated 🙄
@angieperdomo62542 жыл бұрын
Litterally
@letgo_ofyourpast2 жыл бұрын
4 Years? Maybe this guy also not show that he is ready to commit. So the girl try to find someone who ready to commit.
@Not-offended2 жыл бұрын
@@letgo_ofyourpast sooo cheating is the answer?
@lilja64902 жыл бұрын
Wow no second chances? A woman, but we keep giving men 2nd chances this world is just not changing the first guy gave a good advice
@derealfreakydaddy2 жыл бұрын
Men are wired differently. Except we’re the ones cheating with you, but if you’re ours and another man gets in there, we can’t wife you anymore. We forgive we don’t forget. Why women give men second chances is because instinctively they know men should be polygamous, that’s why women are attracted to men that other women want. Men and women in relationships should be loyal to each other but if you can’t, stop leading the other person on and just end the relationship.
@nikidon992 жыл бұрын
@@derealfreakydaddy guess what woman are meant to be polygamous. That's why we enjoy sex more. Let your wife sleep with other men. She'll be very happy
@sparklingflames92682 жыл бұрын
@@derealfreakydaddy nope it’s because women tend to be financially dependent on the man their husband if they leave their situation gets worse financially. Hence why me and a lot of other young woman are putting careers over a man cause that’s more reliable. I’d love to be a housewife but the world isn’t perfect can’t have my life depending on a man that can cheat
@derealfreakydaddy2 жыл бұрын
@@sparklingflames9268 what you spoke is the truth but naturally, a woman is more likely to forgive cheating than a man would. Haven’t you seen women who are the bread winner in a marriage or in a relationship, the man cheats and treats her badly, she cry’s and the guy pleads and she comes back again and the cycle repeats itself.?
@sparklingflames92682 жыл бұрын
@@derealfreakydaddy that sounds like a case of abuse and that actually happens to men too
@teachingthepetites46142 жыл бұрын
There's no mistake. Do me wrong once shame on you...do me wrong twice shame on me. 🤷♀️
@JohnKelvin-gv7zr10 ай бұрын
You are right there is no mistake I agree with you... please can we write to know more about each other? Greetings to you.....
@BtsJungkook-uj3xx9 ай бұрын
Give me a chance okay
@JohnKelvin-gv7zr8 ай бұрын
That's true
@GoodVibes-ie7vx2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like allot of insecure men out here .Not willing to give the lady second hand shake .dude really likes her and is willing to give her a 2nd chance . Let it go jealous fellas .Give her a 2nd chance
@nuniabiz79822 жыл бұрын
Not insecure! After someone lies to you, do you believe in everything they say? Trust is gone!
@bobbelman40972 жыл бұрын
Eat that cheese burger 🍔 Someone else ate half and..left the rest for you... .
@sa34w2 жыл бұрын
Nope, once a cheater always a cheater in that relationship.
@yela73352 жыл бұрын
If you forgive a cheater they'll know you won't do anything if they keep doing it.
@deboraabh2 жыл бұрын
*Would the GIRL ever KEEP THE GUY if she finds him CHEATING ??*
@jeaninemorgan91182 жыл бұрын
Run!!!@!!
@josephineyisrael62842 жыл бұрын
Bumping into someone is a mistake, two $20 bills are stuck together when the money bills 💵 is knew. Cheating is willing and lustful and done on purpose.
@sunflowersyndrome2 жыл бұрын
Man or woman, when someone cheats on you, let go of them because that kind of emotional damage is never irreversible. It will never be the same again. Something in you dies and you’re not seeing your partner as you did before. It’s not a “mistake.” It’s their own mind and body that made the decision to cheat. Yes, second chances are allowed, but let the cheater find another person to start over with. That’s their second chance: to start clean with a new person they haven’t cheated on yet and hope they don’t screw up and lose a relationship again.
@nataliaperez99542 жыл бұрын
Never stay with someone who cheats on you..I can do bad all by myself...better to be alone than in bad company..
@lucydoll940510 ай бұрын
Am single looking far a serious relationship with a honest person ❤
@insiracusa22222 жыл бұрын
Simple: Next or just live your life on your own. That relationship is spoiled forever.