Is Brendon straight, bi, gay, pan, etc...?

This interview clip has been posted SO many times, but I'm re-posting because I keep getting questions on certain videos I post asking if Brendon is straight/bi/gay/pan/etc. He's happily married to Sarah and considers himself straight, but he's smart and open-minded enough to not put a label on himself. "Heteroflexible" works. :D
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[@cheyenne1005]

Brendon is such a symbol of hope to me

[@sophcantedit]

666th like

[@kelseaelizabeth7717]

Cheyenne P!atd me too my dude

[@MR-nq5ir]

Cheyenne P!atd s MAME

[@tozmarauders4187]

so true

[@aerigom7902]

Cheyenne P!atd me too

[@demonicbarbie89]

I don't give a crap what he is. He's awesome sauce.

[@maitri5265]

ChampagneCocaineGasoline AndMostThingsInBetween Dude the man is a awesome pizza! Anything you put in a pizza, is still a fucking amazingly delicious pizza. And there is somebody dislike pizza, they would probably have no taste in food whatsoever. Same with his personallity and his voice/music.

[@aydenking11]

ChampagneCocaineGasoline AndMostThingsInBetween so true my aunt is Lesbian and when I found out he supports marriage equality I just loved him SO MUCH MORE💗💗💗💗💗

[@delilahwaltz4788]

Scarlett Tozer i laughed at this

[@jazzytheestallion7025]

ChampagneCocaineGasoline AndMostThingsInBetween I feel like that's a Lilly (IISuperwomanII) reference...

[@belle4359]

I'm the 499th kill me now

[@ns3593]

if a dude's hot, a dude's hot.

[@IceMetalPunk]

And Adam Levine is hot.

[@gustemickeviciute6699]

Cough cough Ryan Ross cough cough

[@swiftlylovestruck]

your depressed syrian uncle literally a moto, a tattoo, a quote, imma put it on a shirt.

[@noahdirk-qs8vv]

Remington Leith

[@sophiegeorge9601]

"How does you lady feel about it?" Why would Sarah mind? Not being straight doesn't equal being unfaithful to partner.

[@IceMetalPunk]

Maybe she was leading into "does she want a threesome with another guy and would you be up for that?"

[@christinamoore3626]

silver lover i do watch lesbian porn and gay porn what's wrong with that

[@swiftlylovestruck]

Sophie Downton literally what a stupid question in general. thinking that Sarah would even be biphobic or some shit.

[@rileyf7789]

Sophie Downton That's what my parents think

[@k.sharma6104]

PREACH

[@carlychappell3940]

This clip is what makes me think that one day. Just one day. There will be no labels. Beebo gives me hope for that.

[@natperrell6816]

Carly Rose yEs

[@channelLuba]

but what if labels are comforting to some people? Like, don't get me wrong, i get it if you don't want to label yourself and i think you shouldn't have too but some people find comfort and find everything less chaotic and easier if they can wear a label. I think you should be able to just choose wether you label yourself or not.

[@carlychappell3940]

Luba Brodsky true. True. You've got a point.

[@P3vlogVid]

Sounds chaotic to me. Of course there will always be labels because labels are useful. That's why they exist in the first place.

[@andredorian6108]

I think that it should be: "One day labels will not matter" without labels there will be a chaos lol

[@MilkAtTheDisco]

"There's some good looking' dudes out there.." Who else thought he would say.. "Including me!"?

[@MM-wk2tn]

Jennah Bickford I was so surprised he didnt jfc

[@k.sharma6104]

I said it for him, 'There's some good looking dudes out there' Me: Like you

[@Horsegirl7272]

Brendon: i just like people me: i just *don't* like people but same outcome so..

[@shronk5124]

Oh

[@echfx9201]

did you just northern downpour me hi

[@lookhowlittleiamimalittleg8546]

@@shronk5124 did you just norther downpour me? visually???

[@lillianrose8328]

"If a persons good, I'm into that person" cough cough Ryan Ross cough cough

[@MM-wk2tn]

Glowing sink In the forest *N o t T o d a y, S a t a n*

[@andecremers]

Heard you say, not today

[@annm.6212]

help me out here because I am new at this fanbase, I thought they kinda hated eachother, because he left the band, that what some people said to me... so kinda coufused.

[@lillianrose8328]

maya m. Ryan Ross and Brendon Urie don't talk anymore, but there is a ship between them called Ryden, and people write stories and fanfiction for them. Many people believed and fantasized about them being together when Ryan was in the band, and now people still write stories for this ship and few still fantasize that they are together. They were never actually together in real life, but it's fun to pretend it was.

[@riyaadelin6489]

Darkenednights Andviolentthings Cough cough DALLON cough cough

[@amandaw.5838]

Brendon is so pure and honest it is the best thing ever

[@rowanshafei7326]

Amanda W. yeah that's one of the things that made me love him and respect him in the first place he's not maniplutive like alot of celebrties he's just a smol inconnet honest bean

[@caprisun8714]

+panic! at the neighbourhood in 1975 ahh *sighs* " innocent "

[@reikakitakami9356]

panic! at the neighbourhood in 1975 Nah he's not innocent actually

[@meowibe]

Brenying uryang (ur profile pic)

[@leonor1261]

Amanda W. I love your pfp And I'm pretty sure I've seen it on Twitter too, idk if it was you

[@rarefall3nangel]

Man I love his open mind

[@aero5904]

WHAT DID I DO TO DESERVE SUCH AN AMAZING ANGEL IN MY LIFE

[@joyteo9781]

LOLL I LOVE YOUR USERNAME 😂😂😂😂

[@louwiz2]

Oh honey, he’s no angel

[@scott9113]

Wtah

[@Mizfit100880]

That is such a Brendon answer. He likes what he likes and doesn't care if there's a name for it or not

[@IzzyHendrix]

I always say this when people ask me about my sexuality and they're like "so you're pan.?" Idk man does it matter?

[@simsamsammie]

Frank Aiden I feel like an aspect of being pan is the "I don't really care" factor which is why the bi label is more common than the pan label. People that don't care about their partner's gender are more likely to not care about labels. I think the pan label was invented so we had a word for the people who just don't really care and just want to love who they love. You feel me?

[@P3vlogVid]

But that's just bi. Why are people so afraid of the word bisexual? Lol

[@Midwestgothicc]

i dont think bi is the same as pan, i sometimes use bi as an umbrella term for pan, i think pan is about literally disregarding gender which can include people that are agender or genderfluid, trans etc (if u believe in that) where as bi is strictly into MEN and WOMEN sometimes specifically cis men and women idk

[@dexvoanmillerknight9589]

bisexuals like two genders. pansexuals like all genders. polysexuals like most genders, but not all. trisexuals like three genders. there ya go.

[@piecrust9313]

For I don't even care anymore. If a guys hot, he's hot to me. If a girls hot, she's just hot. I don't really care. I'm mainly heterosexual, but I have had crushes on girls at some point.

[@u7amaki]

Brendon is just so perfect, I don't get it. ♥

[@DarkLordJoshua]

ikr hes like gerard way cause he does not care and he supports bisexuals

[@MM-wk2tn]

joshua o'meara **waR FLASHBACKS**

[@maewalker9172]

I know right.

[@nikoletusss]

Classy But Not Classy ....I'm just trynna stroll through the comments and u are TriGGErIng Me LiKE tHaT

[@ryanrosswithoutthemilk999]

Mae Walker i like your photo

[@tswizzle2020]

Listen, I'm a lesbian and I labelled myself because it makes me feel happy to have something to identify as. If you don't like to put labels on yourself, that's okay, but it's also okay to want a label. It's up to you.

[@oswaldcobblepot6039]

^^^ this.

[@CrowDaddy]

Periodt.

[@tswizzle2020]

not a lesbian anymore but the rest of my comment stands

[@imjxst.madison6215]

"There's some good looking dudes out there" *me: yeah you*

[@demonsdemise]

cRyInG

[@falloutatthechemicaldisco914]

crafting

[@taniashushanvd6725]

The Phandom is watching...

[@tayto_is_cool]

Omg true

[@justdance1655]

Me

[@spookypluto8420]

Cryan Ross

[@crankthatrebecca12]

Brendon: there are some good lookin dudes out there! Me: yeah and you're one of them. Like damn your hot.

[@bea_hani]

loving your username

[@natalijaj3309]

what i was thinking

[@bellamitchell6017]

CrankThatRebecca honestly he's fine as fuck

[@stephanierodriguez5498]

CrankThatRebecca Brendon: If a dude's hot, dudes's hot. me: *cough* ryan *cough*

[@jaciecarder6034]

yaaaaaaaassssss!!!I actually just replied that!!!!

[@holliemai5810]

I classify myself as bisexual to make it easier to explain to people who ask, but most of the time i just say "label me what you want, if a girl's hot, a girl's hot, full stop" and it's inspired by beebo. Amen

[@tinawillibey5184]

the first time i heard that having a 'whatever,it doesnt really matter to me' attitude towards my sexuality or gender was so astounding to me.bc i always thought you had to have a name to identify with but i just feel a lot more comfortable with my blasé-ness towards it now. and honestly brendon was a really big part in that happening so thanks @ beebo

[@Andrea-wb1mo]

Tina Willibey I agree.

[@nanic8394]

I just want everyone to be like this goddamn, like can we start falling in love with people's souls? can we stop putting labels to ourselves? there's people out there that are nice, hot, cute and so much more than just their sexuality. let's care about what is actually important

[@oomango5171]

do u think gay ppl only like people because theyre the same gender? do u know how sexuality works? do u think "gay men only fall in love with PENISES"? do u think gay ppl don't love their partners for who they r?

[@user-ow3lu5bk4b]

toaster strudel It’s about the meaning. A straight guy saying „I love this man“ isn’t gay. You could say it’s platonic love, the same for „he is good looking“. That’s a statement, if someone is good looking then he is. Many guys just don’t admit it that’s why society thinks that saying things like that might be gay.

[@user-ow3lu5bk4b]

toaster strudel I’m sure word meanings change throughout years and new generations. „Attracted“ could be „he is very good looking“ without being sexually attracted. But there us definitely a difference between attracted and complimenting (even if saying he is hot)

[@ienzio7795]

Nanic That's nice that you don't care about labels but some people like looking at words like bi,pan,gay,ace and thinking "oh so I'm not alone on this!? There's an actual word for it!"

[@kidinthekelp5570]

Already just being there doing that very thing

[@sorryicantthinkofacoolname7209]

One thing I love about this is Brendon is in many ways a typical guy who likes beer and sex and swearing, and he is not afraid of getting close to other guys( though he does not identify as gay). he does not care for labels, and he is not not caring about labels to make a point or anything, he's doing it because that's the way he is.

[@jucortez5715]

"I like people" - Brendon Urie 2017

[@lilithbowtie8765]

that is SO me, actually but I talked about this with my mom and she freaked out, asking me why I would even consider liking a girl (I don't know, because one-sex relationships exist????) and pushing me to say that I do know which gender I like. Which wasn't true, and isn't true, and I don't fucking care if it ever will be. And now I have a beautiful girlfriend and relationship with my mom is fucked up, but that's besides the point. What I'm saying is, it's absolutely amazing to have people like Brendon who are brave enough to openly say 'fuck labels, you don't have to have the struggle of searching for the right one'. And it's one of the reasons I love this man so much.

[@lilithbowtie8765]

and sexuality is a super complicated subject even for licensed psychologists, so how the fuck am I supposed to know all about my orientation

[@sophcantedit]

preach it Cadence

[@gretchengould7992]

i am Brendon. Brendon is me. We ARE the same person 😂😂😂

[@al3theabean]

Marry me.

[@MM-wk2tn]

Øusia ....I ship this.

[@ninar2111]

Panic! at the Phandom crybaby same.

[@doloresmonzon1451]

Negan

[@swiftlylovestruck]

Gretchen Gould literally. love him 💜

[@irisleason4210]

"how does your lady feel about this" i'm so sick of people relating your sexuality to your relationship status. sarah should love him no matter who he is attracted to. people are bi/pan/etc regardless of who they are dating.

[@jupiter3470]

aHHH. (That's all I'll say)

[@jxomxo]

"If a dude's hot, he's hot!" Well, he's not wrong.

[@maewalker9172]

"there's some good looking dudes out there!" *coughYOUAREONEcough*

[@blurryfacesbestfren986]

I'm seeing a load of Ryder shippers in the comments and I'm just sitting here like *"Hey, can we give Brallon a chance?"*😂

[@avasinner5022]

Blurryface's Best Fren OMG SAME B AND DALLON GET CLOSER AND MORE LIKE KINDA SEXUAL THAN B AND RYAN DID

[@bakemikudo]

If a dude's hot, dude's hot

[@nicolesteele9948]

YAAASSSS I LIKE PEOPLE

[@nicolesteele9948]

CAN HE PLEASE LIKE ME.... OR KNOW I EXIST

[@asnsaule]

i watched this to know if i have a chance

[@lillah4588]

My sexuality? Oh it's just Brendon urie

[@hatsunemoco]

This is why I love Brendon ok

[@A_r_u_a_l]

This has helped me to figure out my sexuality or... Well has made me stop to try to figure it out. I feel like he does. "If a girl's hot a girl's hot, i don't know" who cares right? I don't need to label myself

[@icantfindmyglasses5362]

Honestly same. I'm just kinda like if a person's cute I'mma call em daddy regardless of their gender.😂

[@Asd45655]

just made my day with how he doesnt care about labels

[@abigfishinabarrenswamp]

I love your content so much Video idea, maybe if ya like it: A compilation of Brendon harmonizing ((mainly with ryan help me im sorry))

[@ireneb.240]

Christina Wilson yaaassss

[@alexlueks2097]

oh god I look up to him so much what

[@cheappain273]

i smell ryden

[@alecellis]

*brallon

[@cheappain273]

Duns4Hands brallonisalie*

[@brynnliboiron]

bryden

[@jackaroni9475]

+Duns4Hands Brallon was stage gay only, m8

[@cheappain273]

cookiekatt7952 what have you done

[@rehobalint1100]

"If a dude's hot, a dude's hot!" Love him or hate him, he's spittin' straight fax

[@tragicsincerity7798]

who gives a fuck about someone's sexuality just let them be what they want to be. because at the end of the day they are still people that are amazing

[@orcus6803]

custardowoon better to ask than to assume I guess

[@cvpid5573]

Can he seriously be any more pure. like love is love

[@emma-mz6bv]

"i like people" same beebo, same.

[@audrey9596]

person: why do you like brendon urie?me: *shows them this video*

[@kenziebeth1114]

Brendon is a role model

[@ALIg8rToof]

I know this is irrelevant but Brendon looks so good in this. I haven't seen him in any pictures or videos for a while and heck he's so gorgeous

[@tee4971]

"I like people" sorry bren. I like aliens. Im with jish on this one

[@zzzmaria]

i wanna hug him

[@jiselsanchez8514]

Honestly I don't really know why people think it weird to be gay or bi I don't even get why people label if you like a person then you like them don't try to convince yourself that you don't it just normal to like a person

[@aynazchan2771]

I love his “you can classify me as ‘I really don’t care’”

[@emmasenn25]

I love him

[@Loveallegra]

I fucking love this interview and especially this part. This is literally me.

[@panicat-the-middle-school-6257]

I came out to my friends as not straight/likes guys and girls and they got really confused so I showed them this

[@jenav1ve]

"If a dude's hot, dude's hot!" *Dallon Weekes*

[@elisecode9657]

and *ryan ross*

[@facelessperson1154]

i feel the same way about people. if i find someone hot, i find them hot, but i did put a lable on it. im a pansexual

[@phanwhiskers344]

brendon : " i like people " also brendon : " except for that one person called Ryan ross"

[@meandmylovelysins2423]

I LOVE THIS MAN.

[@ryu.a7380]

Yes thank you for posting this for people in the future who want to know, bless you honestly

[@JuliBom]

Attraction is a nuanced thing. People get attracted to others for different reasons and sometimes they can't explain a reason and then it turns into a whole confusing mess about what to label yourself. It shouldn't matter -if you find a label for yourself, great, if not, it's still fine. Brendon likes people for people and that's amazing. Everyone is free to be attracted to whoever they find attractive, whether romantically or sexually or platonically, without repurcusions or sudden questioning of self (minus pedophilia etc etc)

[@VaughngamerxYT]

"Girls/Girls/Boys" more like "Ryan/Dallon/Sarah" wait what!...

[@LaurenJewel]

this man is amazing

[@micah1094]

I love coming back to this now

[@emorat5309]

Honestly I'm in tears because just look at the great human who accepts everyone for who they are and no matter who they are, he is kind and omfg this is the greatest thing ever

[@marsbovee9680]

HE CAME OUT AS PAN

[@vintagedunkinz8620]

He is such a hero to me ❤

[@panicbrendon]

"You're into guys and girls too, I heard!" He sounded really excited, idk. 😂

[@Rihito_itagaki_love]

And he answered with such an excitement "exactly dude!😄" He looked so happy that finally someone got his sexually right lol

[@no_one_lol]

this is literally the answer I gave my best friend when she asked me my sexuality like a month ago

[@robinghoshal6771]

Who's here after he came out?

[@natjomama6629]

Robin Ghoshal 🙋🏽‍♀️

[@robinghoshal6771]

HeyItzzz Natalia Squad!

[@hellointernetitsphilsfirst9397]

He came out as pan today.

[@woahthere2815]

He dodged the “ How does your lady feel about this” question SO well! Brendon you do you sweetheart. 😂

[@theburn-outshow5380]

What he's describing about his sexuality is technically pansexual...like the way he talk about who/how he likes ppl and how he doesn't care describes the definition of pansexual

[@ryans6741]

I feel like this is definitely Brendon saying he's predominantly straight, but that he doesn't really give a fuck about trying to label himself... he's open to anyone and it's clear he's had sexual and/or romantic relations with both guys and girls and labels and what others think don't matter to him

[@eix3106]

aaaye this is exactly what i think, great minds think alike

[@ryans6741]

Taylah Lee truth

[@094belieber]

He just came out as pan aaaaaah

[@joopsnargis2730]

I love this, he just shows that you don't have to worry about being a specific thing, it's just who you are and who you like, doesn't matter what you identify as, you like who you like, and that's okay

[@screamingfrenchfries]

I'm going to cry. this man is wonderful omg

[@cassandravanmeter304]

Hopefully someday this is what the future is like. No one really cares and there is no labels.

[@sammibarland4178]

I picked a good role model

[@KateAnderson428]

I've been looking for thissss

[@DylanPrice_KPG]

Tbh, I've been questioning a lot lately. I'm already out as pan but I honestly don't know if that's me anymore and, at the end of the day, that's okay. it's okay to not know what you identify with and me and my boyfriend agree that as-long as you love somebody, it doesn't matter who or what they are. This video honestly brings me so much hope and I think it goes out to a lot of people that don't exactly know what they are. But it's nice to know that that there are other (some famous) people like you. Thank you Brendon

[@abbiea-c]

and a year later we have an answer

[@caliezone1754]

Pan. He’s into people regardless of gender so Pan!! Dlabsksbxndhsjs YAS

[@chickenskink1]

I'm still kind of subconciously obsessed with labels but I'm definitely trying to get rid of that, mostly because I don't really know how I feel and can't define my sexuality, so it really just hurts me to shove myself into a box. I aspire to think like Brendon in that aspect one day. Not caring about labels is just really cool.

[@towhomitmayconcern7402]

My sentiments exactly. Thank you, Mr. Urie. Have a wonderful day, y'all!

[@brendonwertz7257]

The world needs more people like Brendon. He’s amazing and kind and hilarious and he has been my hero for 6 years and will have forever impacted my life through P!atd’s music ❤️🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@aimeebarry7958]

HE CAME OUT AS PAN YESSSSS

[@cheesecakemcgee3638]

Brendon isnt the idol we deserve, but the idol we need.

[@LaurinhaBenedetti]

this literally made me cry

[@kaylahadams4781]

BLESSSSSS BRENDON SJSHSHSJS

[@haileyk12247]

i literally only use the label pan because a lot of straight people get confused if i say idgaf tbh. but then i hear "whats the difference between that and bi?" and then i give up and walk away

[@haileyk12247]

and no i dont mean all straight people. just the ones ive encountered

[@haddalee1622]

Speaking your truth may be the most amazing thing a person can do.

[@annm.6212]

"If the dude is hot... dude is hot".... best line ever.

[@therealmrbiggles26]

YOU WERE RIGHT! He just came out as pan!

[@harmonilui1238]

I love him sm

[@actualsunshine8032]

*this man is EVERYTHING to ALL of us*

[@Bala_Niranna]

I didn't think I could be anymore in love with this man but here we are

[@catalina8183]

He is my hero

[@isabelgarcia8705]

FUNNY THAT ALL OF A SUDDEN HE COMES OUT AS PAN

[@Emily-iq6bf]

This. Has made. My day

[@taylorbritt499]

this made me grin from ear to ear, I'm sending this to people whenever they try to argue with me and tell me he's straight.